Find out what you could be missing If you don’t practice these important 3 points before getting in a fight. Share your insights below about this video.
@ibrahimchaudhry90246 жыл бұрын
Very impressive & educative, Dan! Staying rock solid calm.... sans blinking nor flinching.... under crazy mad fury & pressure is eye opening. Especially... how still & nonchalant you keep yourself !!
@nicholasmirante10206 жыл бұрын
Dan MY MONEY SIFU Lok This is exactly why the speed bag can help one from flinching by standing so the bag comes near the peripheral side near shoulder. Also, light sparring only mouth piece, wraps, and gloves helps learning slips to avoid punches with comfort. There is a fellow Capt. Chris from NJ, who had an incident with his family and was brutally attacked, and he froze, though he was a black belt. He got beat up severely. He analyzed what went wrong and determined finesse movements do not work under high adrenaline encounters. One's body will shake. Gross movements are more sure in those high adrenaline situations. Krav Magar was also shaped by this thought in mind of high adrenaline encounters. Thanks Nick Mirante NY
@racbirsingh70056 жыл бұрын
it works I knocked guy tooth out years ago when I was a kid accident when he flinched and we was arguing, I didn't think it was over. But we stayed friends
@alfredcastillo81356 жыл бұрын
When I was listening to your video it sounds like you know what you're talking about. I'm going to practice that thank you.
@victorpopa59426 жыл бұрын
Dan Lok Thank You so much! I aprechiate! It is actualy important to be fearless in a fight!
@jimpyre50385 жыл бұрын
I boxed at university. Sparing is the key. Getting hit and realizing you’re not dead, that you can still move makes you more conditioned.
@duainemeriweather90114 жыл бұрын
First time you get hit with a rear hook is a beautiful thing
@ayylmao37914 жыл бұрын
@@duainemeriweather9011 ahahahaha yes its like you expect do die but then you realize you can take it
@duainemeriweather90114 жыл бұрын
Ayy Lmao That nice little head rattle, gotta do that little “It didn’t hurt” jog
@jimpyre50384 жыл бұрын
Duaine Meriweather Yep!!! 👍
@Anonymous-wb3nz4 жыл бұрын
*you're
@DemonAria4 жыл бұрын
Fear has two meanings Forget everything and run Face everything and rise
@ryanleejunwei_5803 жыл бұрын
not face everything and run
@darylcadman28633 жыл бұрын
True..... But for the trained fighter
@vincentx88733 жыл бұрын
what a great answer
@leethomson57333 жыл бұрын
Forget Everything And Remember, For Everything A Reason You got the Fear
@celestedevonne88353 жыл бұрын
I always act! Never fearing an opponent that's trying to intimidate me! Look them strait in their eyes and bust that move!!
@ohword14 жыл бұрын
I watched this vid 2 months ago and I have a bullying cousin because I’m short and because of these tips I controlled my fear and punched him in the mouth and he hasn’t bullied me since! Thanks
@russram2103 жыл бұрын
👀🙊❗
@cuchalopa3 жыл бұрын
weeeeelll donee. kudos!
@lydon19703 жыл бұрын
Good lad ! ✊✊💪
@eshw233 жыл бұрын
thats freaking awesome man
@gigintouthang3703 жыл бұрын
And when your cousin watches this "You're doomed"
@Hoonters-goona-Hoont4 жыл бұрын
Hey, everybody is the guy in the glasses at some point in their life, but he's still standing there doing it, so big props, man.
@craigray32113 жыл бұрын
Well said mate.
@markjagelka53323 жыл бұрын
Could you please turn it around so we could see their arms. You're blocking our view.
@479gang83 жыл бұрын
What?
@pitbullboots3 жыл бұрын
Not me I'm an ex gang banger. Not , I do have pictures. Thanks for the reminder..
@Ghazanfierce4 жыл бұрын
1) Do Not Blink, EXPECT to get hit 2) Train in stress environment 3) Learn NOT to think
@anewman010103 жыл бұрын
If you do think try to either forget, or try to think about winning
@coco100233 жыл бұрын
Ultra instinct
@wellnesspathforme62362 жыл бұрын
I don't know about ya'll, but I blink and flinch precisely because I expect to get hit! lol I would add to think big picture. A trained friend of mine was telling me about a guy who was triggered at the bar and coming at him (not sure why, but he was with an attractive woman and that tends to trigger some guys... maybe some words exchanged). Anyways, he told me he decided to take one hit in order to set up a take down to control the guy. It is about winning the altercation, not about avoiding any given element of contact. Cost vs. benefit. The cost of a blow is much less than than the cost of being beaten and at the mercy of someone else. It is also a good idea to know how to minimize the impact of a blow, too.
@xarksike49442 жыл бұрын
@@coco10023 bro lol
@theuniversaleye97802 жыл бұрын
Thinking is the worst thing
@watchingyourvideo80295 жыл бұрын
8:40 "How dare you betray our friend" Best line ever
@niighaag5 жыл бұрын
Hahahahahahahahahahhaa im crying
@israelcastro9115 жыл бұрын
You want something
@drEAmzZzza5 жыл бұрын
Hahahahahahahahahaha so cringey "Hey"
@TyshawnGreen5 жыл бұрын
Hahahahahhahahahahaha yesssss
@schmatever5 жыл бұрын
@@niighaag "Betray!"
@FRAYHOLE5014 жыл бұрын
When Bruce lee came to states he realized its more than technique It’s confidence and experience
@nova123324 жыл бұрын
1. do not blink or flinch. relax. expect to get hit instead 2. train under realistic stress. do not freeze up. 3. do not think, feel. let your body react automatically. almost as if you didnt know what you did after your body reacted in defense.
@archangelbilladodeyla20893 жыл бұрын
yes go watch dragon ball super
@simf0r0s03 жыл бұрын
Nono he is right. The first time I hit a guy that was looking for trouble I gave him a KO and I felt like that. My body reacted, I did not think NOTHING. When he was on the floor I started thinking. There are two types of reaction in our primitives mind: Think > Action Action > Think First one serves to fit in the society, Second one serves for danger. Prepare yourself, train, train and train. When the situation arrives, don’t think. When you act you don’t think, when you don’t think, you can be scared or frozen.
@harithdanial1413 жыл бұрын
@@simf0r0s0 my opinion is you must think because thinking and action is related. Just like Bruce lee said empty your mind and focused and adapt with current situation or wake up your mind to face. The problems is when you think about others things in current situation you especially negative things like fear. So i think you just make sure your mind take full control on yourself
@jbrown5775 жыл бұрын
Don't think about what may happen, only think about what you are going to do. It eliminates nervousness by focusing on a plan of action. And remember action is quicker than reaction. Your welcome.
@PoptartIsBallin5 жыл бұрын
I was looking through street fight videos because I thought I was being to cocky thinking about my fights. This is good advice though
@Nature225 жыл бұрын
Heres Johnny “everyone has a plan until they get punched in the mouth” -Mike tyson
@shaunhumphreys67145 жыл бұрын
good advice. yes the fear that paralyses you when starting a fight is the fear of getting hit in the face mainly, particularly the nose, as those the soft vulnerable parts of the face. nobody is that afraid of being punched in their side or stomach. So in other words, decide on a move, and make the first move and make it super quickly before you have time to think about any damage you may sustain from the opponent. i think once the fear of being hit, or hurt is gone, it frees you up to fight really good. even if you still lose the fight, you can admit you lost to the better fighter, or the guy whose stronger/powerful than you are, but you can hold your head up high and know you were not conquered by your own fear and gave a good account of yourself. when i look at like the records of heavyweight boxing greats, i dont care if they've lost fights. mohammed ali lost i think 4 fights. doesnt matter. even those losses, all those blows he took conditioned him, hardened him. and ali avenged every defeat he ever suffered. i am a tennis fan, and ive followed nadal and seen him avenge pretty much every one of his defeats.
@PremiumValentinoTV5 жыл бұрын
Heres Johnny you’re so right
@SuperOscar20035 жыл бұрын
Heres Johnny everyone has a plan until they get punched
@deelee67865 жыл бұрын
the guy in glasses is having a very hard time being convincingly intimidating....
@johnraina48285 жыл бұрын
The nerd look
@jambi21185 жыл бұрын
It’s hard to be intimidating
@TheBlueCream5 жыл бұрын
disagree....types like him ARE tough......look silent n nerdy but actually crazy n fearless wen in a rage.
@RebalOfficial5 жыл бұрын
Its the accent
@hedylamarr86525 жыл бұрын
YO MOTHER
@JimDangerZone4 жыл бұрын
Excellent tips. Thanks! I have definitely "frozen" when being intimidated by bullies and attackers. I have also over-thought the situation, like, "If I hit him, and I don't get him good, he's gonna kill me!" I like how you say strike while his mind is fully on offense & not defense. I think you're an excellent instructor!
@nova123324 жыл бұрын
"How Dare You attack My friend?!" "just one technique*" "How Dare You attack My friend?!" "just one technique*" "YOU BETRAYED US!" 😂😂😂😂
@elliehong85843 жыл бұрын
now I know why they say "I'm dead" when laughing..... this is crazy. had an heartattack.
@ajjkdluigi86873 жыл бұрын
Lmao 😭
@arnolourens20303 жыл бұрын
I think he said how dare you betray our friendshi.. lol which makes this comment even funnier
@sadniggahour4353 жыл бұрын
B
@jasongolden88436 жыл бұрын
Every warrior faces fear before a fight because in our hearts we do not want to fight we just want to be strong.
@olliehalford61786 жыл бұрын
Jay Gee not true some peopl I made to fight and want to
@hectorbeaufort2636 жыл бұрын
But what if you're a nuckel head and you wanna hit
@UnexpectedWonder5 жыл бұрын
J Not every Warrior.
@serge4705 жыл бұрын
Warrior have no fear!!.. only cowards! Real warrior ready to die, training hard as this man said to conquer his fear, and have no time for fear.
@dr.kawasaki73805 жыл бұрын
J Nah that's just you, A warrior's heart seeks out battles. *Puss Boi!* 😂😂😂😂😂
@danb78566 жыл бұрын
“The coward and hero both feel the same. It’s what they do that makes them different” Cus
@DanLok6 жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@ManMan-rj2lx5 жыл бұрын
Ok Tyson trainer😂😂😂😂
@UnexpectedWonder5 жыл бұрын
Dan B Facts! :D
@sword-and-shield5 жыл бұрын
"Champions get up..when they can't" Jack Dempsy
@warofages2105 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@yvetterios98213 жыл бұрын
I love this very important to know that it's not just about fighting its about having self control
@crownedlegendzmuzik3 жыл бұрын
You're $exy Yvette! 😍🔥💓
@nelofrmokc60863 жыл бұрын
@@crownedlegendzmuzik down bad foo , that’s a dude
@Bubba3353 жыл бұрын
@@nelofrmokc6086 😂
@Insaneproducer2 жыл бұрын
@@nelofrmokc6086 yoo 😂😂😂
@leelunk8235 Жыл бұрын
YVETTE+ THIS AINT ABOUT SELF CONTROL,. YOU MISSED THE WHOLE POINT OF THIS VIDEO. TO EXPLAIN IT TO YOU, WHEN YOU OVERTHINK AND ANALYZE TOO MUCH AND WORRY ABOUT GETTING HIT, THE BRAIN GOES INTO OVERDRIVE AND IT FREEZES YOU IN A FIGHT. STAY CALM, FOCUS ON THE ATTACK IF THE PERSON CONFRONTS YOU TO FIGHT
@mmarti62163 жыл бұрын
For someone who rarely gets into confrontations, being able to overcome the fear and the anxiety of being faced with an abnormal situation is paramount for besting/surviving that confrontation. This lesson was so very helpful in realizing that calmness and being able to keep my wits about me is so important. I will make it a point to practice that.
@jaystundon49055 жыл бұрын
i spent 5 minutes trying to figure out was the dude in the back wearing a hat or was that his hair.
@itsvuri87575 жыл бұрын
same xD
@abcdef-vv1sl5 жыл бұрын
At what minute ?
@michaelhillmon68275 жыл бұрын
Cant look away now that I know its hair....fuckin thanx.
@swf48415 жыл бұрын
Tell him to his face when you see him.
@jaystundon49055 жыл бұрын
SWF I would?
@travels1296 жыл бұрын
Bruce lee said. If u feel secure in yourself u hav no fear of your opponent!
@DanLok6 жыл бұрын
Correct.
@davidstevenson7476 жыл бұрын
If someone comes up to you and youre afraid of him, maybe pretend that this guy is going to hurt someone defenseless or someone or some thing you love, and that it is not you that he's really out to get. it the other things that concern you more than yourself. Then you want ever be affraid of getting hurt,because now you are thinking of something beside yourself
@MrMrjack185 жыл бұрын
@@davidstevenson747 You are very right about that !!! never think of that ! because if my family, girlfriend was in danger i would be very tough in fight !
@yasssuo45 жыл бұрын
@@DanLok that dont happend to me but when i about to fight someone i kind sceary and my power get weak
@santoshpandey2345 жыл бұрын
WOW
@daveiacov88584 жыл бұрын
starting in 1959. I was taught this very early. was taught to keep my hands in my pocket. real life full contact control sparing, learn how to deflect and take control, no thoughts, open calm and in control, not to be intimidated is to intimidate
@AnikilBithcesWTF4 жыл бұрын
Guide to be fesrless or less fearful: Step 1: get into fights. Best teacher is experience.
@asmitmitra27423 жыл бұрын
Nice
@jsb70292 жыл бұрын
Yes but also train, you can get into 100 fights and lose all of them if you don’t train Edit: actually don’t get into fights just spar don’t be a dick and go looking for trouble
@juicepick71315 жыл бұрын
I strike before I have a chance to fear. The more you think, the more you 'll sink.
@tuberebel87065 жыл бұрын
Fact....just jump in the waters warm
@edwhite74755 жыл бұрын
first punch usually wins the fight.
@LokiCoyote775 жыл бұрын
Absolutely... Hit first, hit HARD.
@pumpkinpiemassacre67995 жыл бұрын
Said the Germans, after losing the first World War and starting the second.
@streetkombat60885 жыл бұрын
@@edwhite7475 Not always lol
@neanderthaloutdoors92026 жыл бұрын
When confronted by a bigger guy or a bully then use your fear against them and strike first and fast and don't stop until their down, learn how to read people like a book 👊🏻
@grey8_dane4405 жыл бұрын
Or the nose
@xtop235 жыл бұрын
having been in many fights i can say i agree with neo outdoors. if you think its going to happen and theres no way out.... initiate. always initiate. youll be infinitely better off
@beastyboy-en8zo5 жыл бұрын
Neanderthal Outdoors but what if you’re in school and you want to avoid as much consequence as possible and you don’t want to punch first
@boofinoutdabando34535 жыл бұрын
Jus whoop his ass and tell your parents sorry
@samdorsalis8784 жыл бұрын
Crystal clear My acting teacher used to say " no thinking, action" and " actions speak louder than words" Thank you Dan
@vitkomusic66243 жыл бұрын
my vocals teacher used yo say. imagine you are the water of the lake 4 am in the morning before you start singing. glass before you start singing...
@jackpastrana52784 жыл бұрын
Im a young student that fortunately im in 11th grade, through my experince in past schools I have been bullyed( i dont know if i spelled that correctly) but the first time i watched this video and started practicing muay thai and wing chun, I came to a mindset of PERSONALLY changing my psicology and use it in favor. Technically releasing my inner beast and trying to not think things through. I encourage and exhalt you young people who had been bullyied or threatened to atleast practice one martial art to get some dicipline and build up confidence. But the main important thing in learning is having GOOD INTENTIONS, thanks to all of you and specially Dan Lok, peace out.
@adequatekyle7965 жыл бұрын
There's nothing to fear but fear itself. Death is a certainty, we don't worry about that everyday.
@dennisgoe35375 жыл бұрын
Some do. Lol
@trizmov5 жыл бұрын
Funny Valentine?
@PLLskipOnPURPLE5 жыл бұрын
We all know it logically, the stuggle is to undo the fact patterns of our parents of fear as Dan Peña would say.
@WuChuan0365 жыл бұрын
Fear God Only. Everyone else no worries.
@jamescook805 жыл бұрын
Yes, but with respect fear is usually your brain's way of letting you know that you are in a potentially lethal situation... So a very real danger usually accompanies fear, and it would be foolhardy to totally dismiss it. Fear keeps you sharp, almost all great fighters experienced it... But it was/is how you acknowledge, face and deal with fear (particularly in a violent confrontation) that will set you apart and allow you to survive/win.
@dalegribble606 жыл бұрын
There was this bully in school. We crossed paths one day. Even though I was with my friend, we were both scared. I said, "keep walking just ignore him"...but I was ready. As we passed he grabbed my arm spinning me around and my rear leg automatically threw a roundhouse snapping to his head just stopping short. I'll never forget the look on his face. Nothing was said nothing more was done we kept walking.....the bully never bullied me or my friend again. Whew......
@DanLok6 жыл бұрын
Well done.
@yyy24106 жыл бұрын
Well done👍👍
@deejkingz41166 жыл бұрын
👏👏
@demetriusschor44866 жыл бұрын
Great response
@jackhancho24496 жыл бұрын
I remember that day...
@mr.joshua2043 жыл бұрын
My problem was whenever a bully intimated me, my legs would shake, and feel like spaghetti. Never understood why
@pilamiis3 жыл бұрын
Man you probably keep thinking about how he’s going to beat you up, about how he’s stronger and bigger than you. get that outta ur mind, i. the moment dont think about that, train, become a fucking beast, then when the times come, show them who’s the big man
@arifrafique14393 жыл бұрын
Thats natural, deep breathing stops that to a degree. My instructor would recommend getting your friends to come at you unexpected in an intimidating manner Shouting screaming surrounding you With time you get used to that high stress situation. We are not used to hostile behaviour so its a shock to us.
@vitkomusic66243 жыл бұрын
now. you do ;)
@PardeepSingh-ex5oc3 жыл бұрын
@@arifrafique1439 Good advice bro do boxing training helps you to overcome fear in street fight? Boxing is all about attack and fear
@arifrafique14393 жыл бұрын
@@PardeepSingh-ex5oc boxing is good bro but mixed martial arts is beneficial as you are put in real street fight scenarios against multiple opposition. The fear factor can only be dealt with in trying to replicate real life scenarios Look onto krav maga its helped me develop.
@igorg.86244 жыл бұрын
This scenario happened to me many times in my life, and I was ashamed. Thanks for bringing it up. At the same time, you wanna keep your hands up. Staring a guy down without putting your own hands up - is asking to get knocked out.
@tomdgreat65915 жыл бұрын
Everyone has a plan until they got bite in the ear.😂 -Tyson
@ericrobinson87435 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@nehemialatief13824 жыл бұрын
LMAOOOOOO
@juanrios98464 жыл бұрын
If they have any balls left....worked for me twice. Kinda hard to get a solid blow on you, when you are twisting his balls with an iron grip.
@tartarus5004 жыл бұрын
Not get bitten in the ear? I guess they will still have a plan if they knock out their opponent before they can bite their ear like Buster Douglas did.
@anthonyrios85664 жыл бұрын
@@tartarus500 Amen to that friend.
@ahunte865 жыл бұрын
Yea I froze up before..... my mind goes blank and after like long after I think of all the stuff I could've done
@plausiblegamer70175 жыл бұрын
bro i feel the same... theres time where i wish time rewinded and the things i learned was with me
@raymondblaquiere91374 жыл бұрын
It is true that intimidation takes you off your game. When I was young , I would have to remember my Karate training after I was already in the fight. The intimidation period does wipe your mind out of the game for a period of time. Thank you for that training.
@krishnanaidoo27584 жыл бұрын
This moment of freezing with fear actually happened to me after 10 years practicing karate. I taught myself how not to show any fear and stay calm. It’s confuses your would be attacker. Being calm works like a charm. I am retired now and I was bullied for 18 years at my place of work. Nothing has changed
@wyble3az5 жыл бұрын
What you call FEAR is actually the way your body prepares for battle. BUTTERFLIES: in battle you don't need to digest food so blood flowing to your stomach lessens and goes to vital organs and muscles to give more oxygen. SWEATING: Your body will be getting hot quickly and to cool it down you sweat. It also help to be slippery to Your opponent. BREATGING HEAVY/FAST: Muscules need oxygen and the blood gets oxygen from the lungs so you take in more oxygen. You may feel tingly after fighting. This would be bc you're full of blood. Also we release heat from breathing similar to dogs panting. We loose water this way as well. With this being said know that it's not that you fear the situation, you're preparing for it. So be calm, and if the attacker is threatening from more than an arms length away, get your hands up guarding you face but palms facing your attacker 👐 but not so close together, stating that you feel threatened and u will defend yourself. Know that saying this will probably provoke them. So when he/She gets within arms length from you, attack. No hesitation, just Fire and disable them. Keeping a distance of 3 ft is the law, so warning about defending yourself is optional. Just attack to disable then call 911 or however but get away while they are on the floor or screaming from a broke wrist, leg, finger, eye hanging out or badly bleeding from a bite wound. Never worry about who's watching or how you look in The fight. It is a survival situation, so just get it done and get home. The best defense is a great offense.
@ghettopresident68945 жыл бұрын
I think it prepares for running 🐇
@rileybagnall22505 жыл бұрын
Wow i never thought of it that way, thank you i think that has helped a lot
@cc230015 жыл бұрын
Fight or flight reaction! Our eyes and our ears send a signal to our hypothalamus that sends a signal to our adrenal glands that makes them freak out. Growing up I'd run miles around my town at night and always got a pump from my neighbors pit bulls yanking on their chains after me on the last quarter mile. Sinuses opened, body had an instant energy jolt and I kicked it in to high gear all the way home. Loved that shit, freaking myself out lol
@mr.m98254 жыл бұрын
Its fucking awesome what the human body can do
@pokemontradingcardgamecoll59342 жыл бұрын
*from a broken (past-tense term for "broke")
@Ayrton4everrr5 жыл бұрын
Bruce once said “ don’t think, feeeeeel”
@keepingitreel...80374 жыл бұрын
He also said, "Never take your eyes off your opponent. Even when you bow."
@theovanrossum86524 жыл бұрын
@@keepingitreel...8037 I learned the hard way at wing chun school. I looked down when I bowed and got a glove with uppercut right in my face. He said it was a "joke".
@indianathe3rd7424 жыл бұрын
@@theovanrossum8652 He said it was a joke...
@mguibord47284 жыл бұрын
i’ve researched fear and defeating it from actual karate classes to books and this is the best ive ever seen explained in physical form. “expect to get cut in a knife fight expect to get hit in a fist fight”. “fighters get hit. GOOD fighters don’t get hit...as much”. thank you for video sir. -m
@TheHellBoy053 жыл бұрын
Another tip... Practice mindfulness. Be in the moment, expect the worst and be formless, prepared for anything.
@Revelation_22_135 жыл бұрын
If you are in fear and or being intimidated... it's times to start handing out fades. Plain and simple.
@leelunk8235 Жыл бұрын
WHAT'S A FADE
@deyluvsosa33915 жыл бұрын
Somebody cheeks getting beat in the background
@tuna23955 жыл бұрын
Lmfao
@yunggolds38235 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂💀💀
@cyborgz-77035 жыл бұрын
AHAHAHAH
@onedayatatime4445 жыл бұрын
Cuh☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️
@manstreamer10535 жыл бұрын
That actually happen in the mma gym but mostly get beat on the abs. It prepare you to take pain when you fight.
@gregyates60223 жыл бұрын
I have been a fan of Bruce Lee all of my life. It is so awesome to see someone sharing his techniques and philosophies. He was one of the first real mixed martial artist in the world.
@rosauradelestienne56472 жыл бұрын
I'm a grandma taking care of my grandson He is getting bullied at school so glad this is available to us. No violence but important for kids to learn to defend themselfs🙏❤️
@thespartandude28385 жыл бұрын
Somebody clapping cheeks in the background 😂😂
@peedypxblo4 жыл бұрын
The Spartan dude 4:30 in the gym CRACKIN sh8t.
@wnerko74844 жыл бұрын
Hahaha hoo hoo hoo hoo
@TANGOHEAD4 жыл бұрын
I thought that
@RayPotter-ee5pq4 жыл бұрын
😂
@jhuggsss3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@neelimasingh85394 жыл бұрын
Guy with Glasses: You want something!! Me: Yeah, I'm looking for grilled sandwich with a cup of hot coffee.
@unknownruler64254 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@aCeRRii4 жыл бұрын
Uhh just bc someone has glasses doesnt mean they cant be strong? How does eye sight have anything to do with fighting/skill
@jaykay82954 жыл бұрын
Lol
@indianathe3rd7424 жыл бұрын
@@aCeRRii Nah live that out...they just say he doesn't look intimidating and doesn't make us think he's any less strong though
@jonflynn74663 жыл бұрын
Big Mac Bruce Lee 🤣😂🤣
@2zikombo3282 жыл бұрын
I can testify to that “don’t think it”....I realized I always lose my confidence when I think it “what if he beat me up”,”what if I wasn’t strong enough “ etc ,but the moment I act on impulse,it’s A for me
@HighPhoenix17546 жыл бұрын
I remember I would freeze up when it came to real confrontations. Though only after a short time learning and practicing martial arts had taught me one thing -- breath control. It's not only important to breathe when you throw a punch or kick or go for takedowns.. You've got to breathe during that entire ordeal, before, during, and after. So every time a confrontation comes, I still get that instinctive urge to freeze up or be afraid, but all I have to do is keep my eyes on my opponent, and breathe. This has allowed me to successfully defuse many confrontations before they start, because I was able to have a clear mind without clutter or fear. During the confrontation, just me focusing on breathing has allowed me to react instinctively, and far more quickly than when I don't breathe (albeit, this also came with years of experience and training with a multitude of martial arts). And even better, it keeps you in the fight should it last beyond the usual 10 to 30 seconds most real fights last. So, in conclusion, from my personal experience, in addition to the things discussed in this video, learn to control your breathing. It'll make all of the difference.
@mkjames83106 жыл бұрын
HighPhoenix1754 The other night I had my first boxing sparring and was a bad experience for me because I forgot to breathe. All I focused on was to punch my target and totally forgot about breathing. I barely sparred for 3 or 4 minutes before getting completely gassed out and only then knew the importance of breathing.
@williamhenley85936 жыл бұрын
+Nuck chorris Don't give up, everyone great was once a beginner
@johngunn77666 жыл бұрын
Good for you Nuck chorris, keep at it!! i remember my first boxing session and it was terrifying haha. My advice is spar with someone who generally cares about you so you can practice your technique and breathing without getting smashed. good luck to you!! :)
@bryceforster44696 жыл бұрын
HighPhoenix1754 thx I have a fight coming tomorrow and this can make all the difference
@mayhem19946 жыл бұрын
+Nuck chorris happens to every one at first first time i ever sparred in kickboxing i cried
@santosb28385 жыл бұрын
7:36 dude I'm sorry I was dying when he asked him "do you want something"
@sj83064 жыл бұрын
😭😭
@killuakiza43654 жыл бұрын
lmao
@Hasan-uh8zj4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🥂🥂🥂
@E3KK4 жыл бұрын
Jordan Nelson ong
@ajjkdluigi86874 жыл бұрын
Yeah only your money😁😂
@silent_thorn2 жыл бұрын
First love your videos Sir your absolutely awesome. I can relate to your bullying story I was 13 the only Polish kid in my school when my family immigrated to Canada. To overcome that fear of being helpless. I decided to train in JKD because I wanted to be like Bruce Lee my idol, unfortunately in my town there were no martial arts schools. So I decided to train from all Bruce Lee's movies and his book. I am a self tought martial artist I am in my late 40s now but after 3 years of training every day by copying every move from all Bruce Lee movies I was ready to defend myself at 16. I confronted the bully told him that he will never push or kick me again and I'm ready to defend myself, I said in calm voice just let me stretch, I did one of Bruce's stretching kicks and sequences that's all it took , he walked oway and ever since that day he respected me, and from that day on I have never started a fight but I had to defend myself on many occasions and in one occasion 2 men at one time. As you say fear is deadly some can control it more than others. I always get scared before a fight but ones I commit the fear always washes oway and than it's just conditioned muscle response, you don't even think half of the time you just react. As I got older and over the years I studied karate and taekwondo to understand martial arts more but found them to be to ridgit and stiff. Now in my older years I only find myself practicing Wing Chun and jkd. Bruce Lee and jkd made me who I am today Jkd saved my life on many occasions, it has conditioned my brain to analyze and react very quickly under any circumstance Jkd is not just for fighting it is a tool to be used in many applications of every day life. Thank you Bruce Lee.
@charlitoreoyanmisojr71762 жыл бұрын
2:49 Do not to blink expect to get hit 6:09 Train under realistic stress 10:09 Learn not to think
@christophersmith36955 жыл бұрын
These guys seriously need to work on their intimidation voice.
@johnraina48285 жыл бұрын
The Asian nerd look
@iikingii60715 жыл бұрын
Christopher Smith "hey"
@marsbase37295 жыл бұрын
Like in boot camp, the privates learn to shout with confidence.
@streetkombat60885 жыл бұрын
Hahaha He needs better guys to train.
@desp87904 жыл бұрын
The one with less bark is more intimidating. From my experience, the loud mouth alpha guy is overcompensating.
@JonHeckendorf4 жыл бұрын
This was always a missing lesson when I was learning and training. Over the years, I had to learn, on my own, how to control my fear in order to be able to even be able to move. My fear was being hit or worse. It took me several fights, not of my time or choice, to learn I could take a punch so I took control from there. Learning in the street is a very bad thing for many reasons that I found out the hard way. Your mind is your friend AND your enemy. When confronted, don't think, just react or even attack. Learn to conquer your fear by full contact sparing with no protective gear while using boxing gloves. You will learn to control your fear by taking hits, kicks, and punches without fear of being killed.
@jayhardikar15634 жыл бұрын
Jon Heckendorf do u think this will take away my fear of getting hit by doing the things u said?
@jayhardikar15634 жыл бұрын
Jon Heckendorf thank you. Because this one kid is somehow a bully to me yet Ik I can win in a fight. I’m taller and stronger and way more athletic but everyone thinks I’m scared because of my great fear of getting hit
@JonHeckendorf4 жыл бұрын
@@jayhardikar1563 I'm sorry you are being bullied. I was bullied too when growing up. The reason I started to studied Martial Arts. Back then, effective fighting techniques weren't very well understood and I had to suffer through using poor and ineffective techniques to discover the truth. Now that I've done nearly everything and studied nearly everything, I now know what works and what doesn't. In today's world, we now know how to fight. You just need to find the right school who is willing to teach you. There still is a lot of bad out there. The more you get punched in the face the easier it will be to control your fear. Do it not with bare knuckles but with someone you trust using boxing gloves to start with. While you are getting punched learn to block and deflect the blows too. Start out easy and slow then work up. Good luck and I know you will conquer this emotion of fear. If I could, you can too.
@jayhardikar15634 жыл бұрын
Jon Heckendorf thank you so much man and hey on the bright side that will never happen to you again and u safe now. U worked for it and u earned every last of bit for no one to mess with you. And even if they do they learn the consequences
@mmd123king64 жыл бұрын
Thx you i appreciate it
@jammerola2 жыл бұрын
When I was a freshman in high school, I was attacked by a homeless woman without warning. I was crossing a street via crosswalk when someone going the opposite direction just grabbed me with both arms and tried to throw me to the ground. I broke their grip and backed up but I remember thinking...if they wanted to stab me instead of just push me, that moment's hesitation would have been my life. These things really do matter. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.
@ThePeaceMovement-dot-org4 жыл бұрын
This is really good thank you. I once got attacked by someone. He was watching me and I knew something wasn't right. Then I heard him screaming behind me and headed towards me. I stood my ground and waited while he continued to run towards me. I took a deep breath and in that instant I knew this man was going to attack and I moved away from his punches. I am learning Kung Fu again after many years and had a great teacher. Great tips on this video to take away - thank you.
@akuemkoutop71515 жыл бұрын
I fear a lot when I meet people who wanna fight me I be brave alone but when enemy comes and talks to me I fear my heart starts beating faster and think he's deffinately gonna beat me
@dabi87683 жыл бұрын
same 😬
@Bossssssssssssssss6 жыл бұрын
I feel fear but it never stops me.
@DanLok6 жыл бұрын
Good.
@marlonroberts60736 жыл бұрын
Fear is: False Evidence Appearing Real
@thedammedisawake1626 жыл бұрын
I would agree. Was banging on about this years ago. The levels it was going to was insane. It’s there now after a evil plan. Years of being set up. House, cars, computers. Playing along to catch up. Then trapped.
@evanabbott27375 жыл бұрын
Fear is just a part of us.👍
@ujjwal1100nj5 жыл бұрын
@@DanLok i was also bullied like u. Someone broke my tooth and fight scares me... Wish me luck.
@linnzeyaaung88462 жыл бұрын
It's very true. You learn how to fight, you can do all those fly kicks but if your fears are not eliminated, it's useless. I encountered tge same situation as Sifu Dan Lok here. When i was new student in Secondary school, i started joining a CCA Club full of malay guys. There was this one guy who always insult me and taunt me about my country. But that time, my mental aspect was not trained. Now i get it.
@cyborgninja54892 жыл бұрын
Dan Lok is a cool guy. He persevered through intimidation and emerged as someone who wants to help others.
@insurrectusresistus4 жыл бұрын
This is also incorporated into military training (Army in my experience). You are taught to stay focused, whether you are being yelled at, crawling through mud with gunfire and explosions, staying quiet for hours in all conditions, etc. The best instructors I ever had always said the same thing "Slow is smooth, smooth is fast"
@ahmedbelhadj4604 жыл бұрын
when he said 'learn not to blink' i couldnt stop blinking lol
@humdae67383 жыл бұрын
loooooool
@harrisonsir13 жыл бұрын
😂
@jimmychoo43103 жыл бұрын
😹😹
@bewater51782 ай бұрын
There are surprisingly many people in the world who like to fight.
@EJSweaty4 жыл бұрын
as i child i was very full of rage and anger and got into trouble a lot so i learned at a early age that fighting was wrong, but that doesnt always mean you can avoid a fight. Ive been so peaceful for so long ive lost touch of that animal i used to have inside me. I would get choked up at even the thought of fighting because i dont think its ever really worth it but at the end of the day you cant always run from your problems so here we are.
@GUNJABOI4 жыл бұрын
You want something ? 🤣😭😭😭😭😭 who else was cryin while watching this
@aadarshupadhyay98984 жыл бұрын
Y u r crying man?
@theovanrossum86524 жыл бұрын
I would ask "What do you have to offer that I might want?"
@alvitodaffa73884 жыл бұрын
Me😭😭
@internetdoggo48394 жыл бұрын
@@theovanrossum8652 lmao
@defaultname15334 жыл бұрын
Sumfing
@sherwingorgonio2945 жыл бұрын
Ok i calmed down Ok i didn't blink He hits me I was knocked out cold…😂 Tnx, it did helped me to sleep on the ground 😂
@davisbarr91125 жыл бұрын
That's a ninja move I call hiding in death. So anyway.
@deandredavis52644 жыл бұрын
That’s a charge lol
@pugrosecarriephonenut4 жыл бұрын
you perfect your psychology, then you also perfect your techniques, both offense and defense. your game must be complete, or else, you sleep on the ground.
@juanrios98464 жыл бұрын
Should have gone into "LORENA BOBBITT MODE".....
@Wong_wong5654 жыл бұрын
He didn't ask u to act like a stone, be water my friend. U not getting the msg.
@johnnewman32214 ай бұрын
what you say is absolutely real, I checked with another master, regarding this topic long back, the suggestion he gave me was start sparring with another student, where you don't think about what is going to happen, just keep hitting him, you will train your mind not to worry about losing or getting hurt in a fight. I can relate to it when you said dont think, just execute the program, then the real fight becomes a sparring session in our mind. the first time we practice it we feel nervous but with regular practice it becomes second in nature. the stronger the opponent the better we become in fighting. excellent video, those who had similar experience in life, please follow what Dan says. Train your mind and your body will follow. practice letting go. stop fighting with yourself.
@xenouniverse6923 жыл бұрын
Two years ago I was always terrified of confronting ppl and I'd flinch everytime someone would pretend to hit me until I saw this video and I was also kindof an outkast really but I just never liked the fact that I was just always sheep always following the one who was always feared this video has helped me face intimidation in fights and also in everyday life thank you so much I've grown and I'm proud ❤
@radarsoundengineeringservi95146 жыл бұрын
Several bullies (3 Tough Guys) throughout 7th and 8th grade were messing around with some of the classmates. The bullies were going down the line to find out who was who in the class. When they walked up to me, they tried intimidation tactics to show just how tough they were. One sucker punched me on the left side of my face, while the other tried to punch me on the right side as well. As it turned out, I managed to stop the second punch from landing on my face and the third guy was approaching me from behind and grabbed me with both of his arms and he got taken down with a hip toss and a punch to his face. The second guy approached me from my blind side and wasn't expect me to kick him in the groin. As for the first guy, he watched his buddies get taken down by little o' me. That piece of chicken shit ran out of the school and didn't return at all! When the principal heard this, he got all four of us in his office along with extra help. He brought in two other people to help him sort out this whole mess. When the smoke cleared, I went back to class and the three bullies got transferred to another school for picking on me and some of the guys in the classroom. The principal awarded me with a merit of certificate in self defense. Since receiving that award, it gave me the inspiration to join the martial arts training academy in high school. This incident occurred back in 1971-72 and that was something I'll never forget!
@DanLok6 жыл бұрын
Good story. Shows you don't need to be big to defend yourself.
@andy15z225 жыл бұрын
U must have had all the ladies in the class....😊
@beardeddragonnamedladon73465 жыл бұрын
Now they suspend everyone even if you defended yourself
@chrisrace7445 жыл бұрын
This story sounds like bs :) maybe its real.
@tartagliasmilk5 жыл бұрын
Sis snapped
@Lyonpulse5 жыл бұрын
i was assualted publically yesterday by a mob of around 5 people, but only one guy attacked me. Me and all my friends were intimidated having never been in a situation like that. We are musicians. I wanted to hit the person attacking me but I couldn't I froze. I looked around and found no one was standing for me. I feared I was thinking too much, and that was the problem. I workout have a better than average physique. BUT I FROZE because I was looking for support of my friends in defending myself. I know now that it doesn't work that way. YOU ONLY HAVE YOU. YOU ONLY HAVE TO BE AND PROTECT YOU FIRST. YOU HAVE TO EXPECT TO GET HIT. YOU HAVE TO HIT!
@dennisgoe35375 жыл бұрын
You need to train.
@shaka17955 жыл бұрын
That is wrong of your friends. My friends would be throwing hands straight up lol. But yeah always defend yourself, don't focus on no one else keep it cool & do what you can to defend yourself 💪
@jonathanmcguire10195 жыл бұрын
Lyonpulse true. In dangerous situations, all you got is yourself.
@sarcasm29605 жыл бұрын
Your friends are bitches. Get in a boxing gym with a good trainer and spar eventually.
@edwhite74755 жыл бұрын
Southern Rockers dont have that problem...move down south.....find a new band....( i cant believe i said that ...Yankees are sinking Florida as it is. ;-) ).
@alfalso4344 жыл бұрын
Great advice! I actually think that kind of technique helped me detour a fight with a bigger fella than myself. It seemed to reverse the intimidation from myself to the other guy. I didnt show any emotion to him even though I was really nervous. It seemed to make him less aggressive and actually made him fear what might happen.
@vitkomusic66243 жыл бұрын
I am a karate champion because i was late for championship and was angry at the bus driver because he didn't stop at. my bus stop. but when something psychological happened when one guy's started yelling at me psychologicaly.. show me what you got. etc. etc. i froze.. i always wanted to overcome this.. and i finally did. not because of. this video. but this video completed unlocked everything...
@jonrarmey12204 жыл бұрын
I found meditation techniques to be very helpful with this... I remember my second degree black belt test... A handful of the best students were selected to attack me & I wasn’t allowed to fight back or defend myself until my sensei gave the command to do so... Needless to say I got the crap beat out of me & I was dazed, physically exhausted & VERY SORE! Without even realizing it at the time, I used a meditation technique I had been practicing to cool down & relax after workouts to block everything completely out & just focused on the flow of the attacks... In reality, I didn’t really “use” it, so much as it just automatically “switched itself on” Practicing meditation itself can be boring to people, but that really woke me up to some of the benefits it can offer...
@Phuma_5 жыл бұрын
Yo that no thinking thing really makes sense. That is clever man good shit.
@xekilroy4 жыл бұрын
Your lessons in this episode are very underrated, even ignored by others. Psychology is very important.
@SERBIANUGANDANKNUCKLES4 жыл бұрын
6:30 WE NEVA FREEZE MY BRUDDA xD The video is very good.. This guy know the stuff.. Hope one day be like him
@j.a.h.vandelaak34775 жыл бұрын
Nice video, we train the same way in Systema. One extra point is to keep breathing to stay relaxed. (Don't hold breath)
@snapkick2groinleftlegheelo2326 жыл бұрын
You are a very humble man ... very likeable human being .. excellent video
@DanLok6 жыл бұрын
I appreciate that.
@chitny53633 жыл бұрын
Remember one thing it doesn't matter how strong you are we have to be brave and confident against our opponent you'll think that I am stronger I can beat anyone and when it comes to a fight you will be like little bit afraid of your opponent your hands will shake of course because you never been in a fight when it is your first time you should learn from this video and then go to gym work hard and there u go you'll achieve the goal Ever happened this to you?
@arjunamarc4 жыл бұрын
Flow. 1.Don’t blink 3.don’t think. Forgot the second one... I liked the video. Thanks
@ghost-grim9284 жыл бұрын
I got hit in the mouth earlier this week and I didn’t know what to do I was panicked scared and nervous so I’m really glad I watched this video thank you so much
@STITCHEZWORLDMOTORCYCLE16 жыл бұрын
in school I had to fight a lot due to my size and I seen boxing saved me and kick boxing but I believe people should study martial arts more often it frees your mind and keeps fear away from a fighter and how to harness it
@DanLok6 жыл бұрын
Keep it up.
@lastknight696 жыл бұрын
CAMARO CHRIS s3fvyuuuoh8i6y5%u76
@mathewjohn81263 жыл бұрын
True Mr. Dan Master. I felt it several times. Am learning not to think anymore and act on my feels. Thanks for your nice video
@madmax86203 жыл бұрын
Im a big guy with some background hands on controlled training ...But when shit is real I think i panic and freeze up no matter who it is or wimpy they are because I always go back in my head to when my frightening father would unpredictably attack me as a little kid and I would just have to be quiet and take it. ..paralyzed before during and moments after...and thats where I still go to in my head 40 years later.
@lonniesmith65396 жыл бұрын
I had that problem when I was a kid. I leaned to turn on and off the violence switch. You have to be able to bring extreme violence in the blink of an eye.
@vito73616 жыл бұрын
I've been doing martial arts for about 12 years now and all I can say to that is Aggression is not fighting. Sure u need to switch to Violence but u also have to respect ur opponent even if he wants to beat you. Fighting doesnt mean throwing punches and kicks until he goes down. Its to STOP someone. Yeah sometimes to stop someone u have to knock him out but its also enough to fear them.
@genxguy52756 жыл бұрын
The most important thing in every fight I've been in and every fight I saw when I was growing up was who got hit first. The person who connects with that first punch or strike almost always comes out on top. If you know there is going to be a fight and it's unavoidable then you must go ahead and hit the person first.
@JNIGHTification2 жыл бұрын
Fear can be harnessed to your own benefit. Back in my fighting days I remember people asking me , "how is your defense so good?" Well basically it's the "fear" of getting hit that makes my defense so good. It pushed me to go the extra mile to improve my defense more than other practitioners. But at the same time I trained my body to also get hit.
@gauthamsankars8844 Жыл бұрын
The exact thing happened to me. This video is perfect for what I was looking for.
@75jdwest5 жыл бұрын
I'm always terrified and amused and angry whenever anyone wants to hurt me. Those are a lot of emotions to get through before I'm ready to fight.
@liezl-marivanrensburg8914 жыл бұрын
Now you know how to TurnItAround, brother :) 😽 ⚡ 🙏
@rodneywilliams39315 жыл бұрын
Thanks for real life techniques and psychology of a real fight.
@AztecViking84 Жыл бұрын
Yes that absolutely happens. Switch to aggression. You only have room for one emotional state.
@eugeniogibson1724 жыл бұрын
I practiced kung-fu, I am black belt in karate and I should tell you you are RIGHT! Thank you for your tips.
@lifegatebiblestudies84143 жыл бұрын
This is what Ive always obserbed with Bruce Lee... they incorporate spychology, anatomy and phyciology to his art. The art of the empty mind is a great philosophy.
@xravia795 жыл бұрын
I'm ready -SpongeBob
@bruhv68905 жыл бұрын
X Ravia lmao
@plausiblegamer70175 жыл бұрын
Bro ur literally amazing lol
@koiiyhonze91485 жыл бұрын
NO THIS IS PATRICK!
@Nicurru5 жыл бұрын
The greatest quote ive ever heard!
@jxllx99964 жыл бұрын
Hahaha underrated comment
@dstoglin16 жыл бұрын
I have definitely experienced that kind of fear.😢
@DanLok6 жыл бұрын
Keep growing.
@cassk99996 жыл бұрын
So has everybody else too
@edpetrocelli1462 Жыл бұрын
This sounds like GREAT advice. I keep thinking that people have an animal component to them. If you show fear the attacker is emboldened. If you don’t show fear they start to wonder - “Why is he or she not afraid? What do they know that I don’t know?”.
@darrensamuels15113 жыл бұрын
My Kyoshi from Taido Kenpo Kan Karate Do use to say fear is just the unknown so don’t be scared of it lean from it. This has worked for me meany times unfortunately he past away he was a great man OSU 🙏🇦🇺🥋
@swainstormh5 жыл бұрын
Or get hit in the face and let your anger flow through you like water in a stream. Control it and let it flow and use it for power. Don't let it take over let it power your attack's and heal your pain and then strike without mercy. Remember your technique and hit as controlled as possible while also wanting to punch your targets head off. Be strong be calm and strike without mercy.
@owengames36304 жыл бұрын
One of my classmate wants to fight me and he callled his brother too im in high school im not afraid of fighting them but i don want detention
@swainstormh4 жыл бұрын
@@owengames3630 who cares about detention. He called his brother that means he's scared of you. Don't be afraid of pain invite it. I myself hit walls and heavy bags till my knuckles bleed. So don't fear pain or detention invite it and be proud you stood up.
@owengames36304 жыл бұрын
@@swainstormh i got you bro and damn you are a beast i just wanna beat him up cause he just won't shut up i am one of the type which don talk in school alot thats why
@swainstormh4 жыл бұрын
@@owengames3630 yo dawg I understand. You should get a pair of gloves and start going to the gym(MMA gym). Go and be a beast show him whose boss. Beat his ass. Also keep your posture and always keep your hands up.
@swainstormh4 жыл бұрын
@@owengames3630 also don't get cocky
@inthefleshpayyourrespect80205 жыл бұрын
“HOW DARE YOU” lmao
@streetkombat60885 жыл бұрын
Betrayer! Hahaha
@Brian-en6id4 жыл бұрын
"You dirty double-crosser you!"
@subfreq33394 ай бұрын
To be trying not to blink is to fix the mind in trying. The thing is to be still inside while immediately responsive outwardly. Blinking is natural and should not be resisted. Keep the mind empty and vision where you see near and far simultaneously, and peripheral vision is engaged while in real kombat. This is Essential! while you think of not blinkin you have been hit three times. Blinkin is a trifling matter. The thing is to win. The.mind stops nowhere until the aggressor stops breathing or the ambition is gone from his eyes. Hold down the pillow. Book of.five spheres is brilliant! Stay safe,1♡♡
@shivraman9294 жыл бұрын
I'll try to adapt all three techniques Thanks for guiding
@melvinalvira12046 жыл бұрын
Mr Dan Loc . It's so true what you say. There are people who train for many years. Then the day when they confront someone with a knife they freeze. Because they never practice to face fear. Good point. Thank you.
@DanLok6 жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@sparadial24324 жыл бұрын
"HOW DARE YOU BETRAY OUR FRIEND"!!!! LOLOL Who talks like that!! LMAO! Great vid! Great guys!! But need acting classes!!
@aaronwalderslade4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, you could prepare flash cards in your practice session and choose a different insult at random each time, to keep the element of surprise.
@onlimi6164 жыл бұрын
Actually that sounded just like a lot of karate movies I've seen.
@futureking53743 жыл бұрын
After saying "be a good actor" hahaha
@yoyobear83444 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad to come back to this video. Thank you so much