Simps.

That's a good quote, never heard it before.

So true

Wauw! Thanks Bob 😊and commentor! This happened to me. Painful and insulting.

And vice versa. Women do the same thing to men. All the time.

Maha Bayoud I actually found a good way to respond after getting ghosted. After the time is up, just say, “ohhh, I just got ghosted. Oh well.” They will take this time to respond back to you, typically in a rude manor. They usually tell you off and lie, they’ll say they were busy and weren’t ghosting you or what ever. And then this is when you get back at them, by turning it around and ghosting them instead. It’s a complete 180 and I’ve had 3 women fall for this same trap in 1 month. I ghost them instead.

sdaftermath123 nah, don wait till they respond just say that “ohhh so I got ghosted” than block them.

Forgiveness is the only way to set your heart and soul free. Even if they don't ask for. Just forgive and move on.

*mourning

@@pladimir_vutin thx

Lauren L 😔true

Yeah letrally it's just such sneaky act and has pissed me off 😂😂

True. Why can't they be honest? Really cannot understand them.

If people were just honest, they'd prob would have just told you that they never want to see you again. The real questiin would be: Could you handle the fact that someone doesn't want to see you ever again? Not even in the future? I say you couldn't. IMO no words for their reasons of ghosting are needed, the hypothetical explanations are not rocket science. And the outcome would've been the same, a separation. P. S. : No, I'm not pro ghosting.

Me too 😞

YESSS ME TOO

Sameeeee

SAME HERE

Amen!

Indeed!

💯

Indeed!

so basicaly all ppl i meet are trash,thank you.

@@Cloudforest811 u didn't respond to someone because u didn't see their msgs?..well.ofxourse if we can't see a msg we can't respond....if he wasn't msging. U weren't responding....who ghosted who?

Omg girl....I love what you said because I'm doing the exact same thing now.

I guess there is purpose in pain 😔 .

Not really?

Exactly

Shit, well gods a fucking dick

true

I was dead so what that means I am not interested in that nonsense so called twin flame fake love story to get you pregnant and make you duffer

@@aleksandrapawluczuk5985 I too was suckered into that Twinflame fantasy. I've never felt so much love and passion...ever. We had an amazing bkessed relationship of which we both agreed God brought our hearts and souks together... Then she just completely vanished without a word.. No calls..texts.... Total silence for the past 37 days. No issues..no arguments Just disgarded me like garbage. I forgive her in my heart being aware of her severe childhood abuse and I have asked God through prayer and supplication to intervene on my behalf to heal my beloved woman of her physical, .mental, emotional psychological and spiritual needs and to give her the peace that surpasses ALL understanding 🙏 ❤ ♥

I don't know why but I totally agree with you

@@jaiden8102 well from my perspective ghosting means anything relationships do not exist I was dead so I am ghost and so called god aka Jesus Christ from gatekeepers or demons like Jezebel or Lilith alpha and omega and alpha centauri in Hollywood imposes as Jesus and I am the food so he has to pe protected as a Jesus of mother Mary isis and I am being blamed for everything celebrity obsession is imposed and I am being abused and I was attacked by Lilith and reiki i were imposed on me so called union is being imposed that I have to be beaten and laughter at so they can rape dead courses child abuse spread terror government is in it too and police is in it too

@@jaiden8102 wel this is scapegoating contest of abuse aka Holt trinity means syrius a dog's not b

Forgive and realize they are cowards

I don’t want closure.. because to chase would be to give him more attention.. it hurts.. man it kills 😥 but clearly he wasn’t the one for me.. his loss... chin up levar.. xxx

Levar, I know exactly how you feel. Continue praying though. Maybe you should consider fasting too. But it's ok to feel hurt. Just don't let it consume you. Forgive that person, like truly in your heart. Acknowledge the good qualities in them and the positive emotions they brought out of you. But then realize that someone who cared for you wouldn't do you that way, and get excited about God bringing the right person along who won't ever hurt you like that. Rejection is God's protection! I'm praying for you. 🙏🏽❤

Time will help don't worry

So sorry. I hope everything is better for you now

This is what happen to me and then she ghosted me for no reason .

@@guestguest9395 give up on these hoes there is no right one bro

@@gug8231 Yep hoes are temporary

@@guestguest9395 yep they say I will stay with you thru thick and thin but once shits getting worse they leave you because they only care about themselves she left me while I was on rockbottom and laughed at my face while I was crying

@@gug8231 holy hell bro, many saddistic whores in this world, may she rot in hell, peace to you bro

lehua16 Thank you!🙌🏼

Wow! That’s literally my story too 🙌👏👏

Exactly .. the right one for you will not let you go … the universe opens and shuts doors for you if you ask it nicely it will bring the right person into your life while showing the wrong one the door .. don’t invest your emotions too early it takes time to get to know someone’s true intentions and wether they are right for you x

You’re still w your man?

Hopefully the new guy don’t ghost! You just don’t know with anybody these days!

Amen!

🙏🏽

Bless you. ❤

Amen🙌🏽

Totally true

thanks now im gonna go drink bleach

@@user-rc2ev6cl7u Uhhhh why would you do that?

Same. I have never taken someone back who left me.

That's the way to go. I actually let a friend who ghosted me contact me again, and I thought we could go back to the way things were. Nope. She just pushed me away again. Take it from me - once they dump you, change the lock on your front door.

Especially a so called holy ghost 😆

Thank you

I've never ghosted a friend, in my life, and never would, I respect people too much. If I didn't like someone, I would tell them straight, that I don't need anymore friends. I'm sorry but people that ghost, are low life parasites, nasty people.

GN, there is an awesome video on KZfaq on letting someone walk when they walked out on you! It's fabulous as it states, "let them go!" And ever so true, they are doing us a huge favor when they leave. Count your blessings and you can never beat 'garbage that walks itself to the dumpster!' 2

I agree. But "moving on" is relative, it's a process and it's not always easy or up to us, at least in the beginning. I think being ghosted in an established relationship is the worst

I love when you say: "realize that maybe you made a mistake with that person". It is always good to be honest with ourselves too 🙏🏼 forgive everyone involved -included yourself-, and then move on 💜

It’s gonna keep hurting if u keep thinking about it try to forget and distract urseld

Sad

@Lazarus II You right

What's so important about closure?

Ask God to remove him from your heart.

God!!!!! Thank you so much!.. it's been a month now. He ghosted me after a fight.. we were planning on an engagement date.. he broke me

Yeah I know right this happen last year... I currently going through this all over again 😭 I want to talk to someone about it but no over ever seem to understand friends like be just move on but my feeling hurt and are hunting me it's 3am and it's going on day four and I'm up sad... The worst part is in the back of my mind...says maybe something happened like tragically (God forbid) but ...idk how you talk to someone everyday for months and then disappear without word like we didn't have any plans...I'm trying, Ill be ok I ask myself ...what did you learn from this person & you will be ok ...be it still randomly hurts ... when I drive near him house and he would in the middle the city or a place we've been ugh emotions go away!! Lol ...it's kinda of funny because I didn't even like him at first it was his charm & goals oriented mind set that got me... RN my moving on is talking to other people but I still feel I'd rather be with or talking to the guy who ghosted me 💀🤔🧐 I'm a sad case lol It's Weird I think typing this out is for me at that point but I just realized something ...I have a type because the last guy who ghosted me was very similar to this guy goal oriented big plans and currently working on themselves day in and out ...I don't care for a lot of people so when I do its nice to find someone who seems to mesh well with you but rare which was why getting ghosted the first time so hard to deal with. I was thinking I like this guy and I never like anyone my mom has always said I'm too picky but I just have standards ...welp🤷🏾‍♀️ this help lol 🧘🏽‍♀️I'm off to Netflix ...

Right

I think the hardest part of being ghosted is the lack of closure. With a break up you have closure. But with this ghosting thing it's extremely cruel and cowardly. I'm grateful for it actually because it's really God's protection. It just makes it hard to trust anyone again 😭😭😭🥺🥺🥺🥺

It's very painful, it's easier said than done

eric lavel So people are only worth something if they add value to your life? What about every human’s inherent worth given by God? Every person is valuable, whether they add anything to your life or not.

@@KevvoLightswift please let's not go there. Don't be that person. Some people are only in your life to bring you down, or to be a distraction. You know they meant that certain people are not meant to be in your life for a lifetime, and if they walk away to just let them walk. Because they are taking from you and not adding anything.

Ladenna Young I still say every human life has value, whether they give or take from you. It’s not all about you. People will take from you because they are broken. That’s why we don’t put our trust in humanity, but in God, who fills us up. I understand what he meant, but it’s still very selfish. That’s not how we’re called to live as Christians.

I stopped the video in between and start reading only comments

Holy Ghost*

🤣🤣🤣🤣 I like that!

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Same here. A friend of 5 years. We Reconnected after a 3 year hiatus due to his immaturity. It was a beautiful and redemptive moment of true reconciliation. When we were supposed to meet again he, ghosted me.

Are you the Michael Jackson? Lol!

Thanks....MJ? hee hee

Damn that’s cold.. sorry dude.

That’s trash behavior on her part!

That is a terrible way to treat you. I would suggest meeting someone new for a short meeting on the first in person experience. Best of luck

😔 just wrong on all levels...

She was a catfish

All Woman wants drama and attention..

Bro i know. ITS hard. I began to Work out and Focus on myself. Sometimes i Go Back and feel Bad, but Go on.

I can relate. The genders were opposite in my case but the heartbreak and hurt was real.

@@emerphillicuanan1545 incel

Seems it’s more common these days especially

Your person will come, just give it time and patience.

it will come ..

Pretty Alina 🙏🏽

Sorta me too

The first ghost always hurts the most

Meaningless platitude.

Hey! So sorry to hear this happened to you:( If you want to share your story about being ghosted, you can fill in our "MTV Ghosted: Love Gone Missing" team. Our email is ghostedtvcasting@gmail.com

I am really sorry that happened to you. Take care of yourself. I'll pray for you

He is a piece of crap not a real man he is a boy.

Shit human being!

Very difficult situation !

Amen! It's a really good video!

Facts they do it to us too.

-Bob Marley

Vice Versa 😬

Just because you changed it from man to woman doesn’t mean this is your quote. That’s Bob Marley.

@@SummeRain783 You are right. I changed it.

Totally agree.

Amen, I'm so glad the Lord used this right on time for you!

Stay strong

This happens in friendship as well. Felt really disrespected and un-appreciated. It was time to move on.

same here bro, this video really helped me!!❤

How can you be so single, with that kind of type,of humor? Greetings from Greece

Hello, single or loneliness?

🤣😂

I ghost myself so I stop feeling any emotion. Then when I"m strong enough and ready I go back to my body/soul.

If u had some sort of relationship u have to tell em regardless

No, If You treat people badly You are not entitled to an explanation. Unless You have a medical condition.

I had aspergers which literally i can't take the hint i literally said to be straightforward and they still lied so yeah

@@rafidi1692 I met a guy who treat me like shit and when I treat them badly he ghost me lol

Either that or they just passed up on the best thing that could have ever happened to him like a complete idiot. Oh well...their loss. 🤷🏾‍♂️

JAYLON NEELY ... it’s Never to late to find New Happiness now!!! It’s God’s Grace helps us through the healing process.

That's a great testimony. You were able to put closure to it and move on with no ill feelings what a Blessing. :-)

I know this is a year late, but... deciding you’ve been ghosted within 24 hours is kind of....

@TheGuileRaven is kind of….. ACCURATE! Over a year later and my initial comment was 100% correct. I knew the signs back then when I saw them but honestly it is what it is. I’m in a new relationship now with a man that loves and cherishes me. Hopefully my comment can bring hope to many people that things get better!

@@SM-ju7rj I think it's incredibly intrusive to expect someone respond within 24 hours every time, I really don't blame anyone for being turned off by that.

@TheGuileRaven when someone deletes you from Snapchat, blocks your number and social media then…. I think it’s pretty safe to assume you’ve been ghosted right.? Maybe try asking questions before assuming things next time😂 Either way, lessons are learned and I’m in a much happier space and I genuinely wish this for everyone else.❤️

@@SM-ju7rj Some people have severe depression or bipolar issues that cause them to react in ways they don’t have full control over.

Good idea ! ☺ Can You send me one ?

rosalie lopez 👻 here you go

Ultra Instinct Shaggy Thank you ! Good idea !

Imma do that! lol

Thanks bro needed the laugh

That 1st sentence hits hard. Do u think there's any warning signs?

@@alexislee6825 not really sure tbh 😂 it just happens out of the blue, maybe they met someone better (in their mind) who knows. But the strange thing is I recently watched a video on the behaviour of a woman if they really like you and it says if they like you they don't text as much, but surely if you like someone you'd be all over them 🤷😂😂😂😂 crazyness

@@Jman21UK thanks for input 😊 as a women myself I text a guy I like a good amount (not a crazy amount tho.) I think it depends on the women but I personally rather jus get the relationship going and not play hot and cold

@@alexislee6825 you must be one of the minority then, because most women are like that these days sadly. Also vast majority of men these days are too scared to approach a woman in person for fear of being labelled 'needy' or 'thirsty' crazy times

@@Jman21UK hopefully im not but knowing some of my friends it seems that. If u haven't found ur special girl yet I wish u the best in finding urs :)

How are you doing?

I hope you feel better now and you can laugh over this comment? I have come to realize that with TIME and the right MINDSET, a person will surely get over been ghosted.

Was doing same like you as Well as fasting and went exactly in same issue

Amen!

Hahahahaha

Why are you laughing? Disrespectful

@@chadrobertson8680 cause they chose the wrong men and make poor decisions over and over and over again it’s laughable

So sorry; it's must be so painful. I have been ghosted too; my friend is convinced the guy is married but my instincts (I usually have strong ones) tell me he is not. Don't know what to do. I had fallen in love. Forgiving and moving on is not as easy as people think.

usually these type of men lie about their status, you sound like an immature clown with your juvenile response@@UltimateD755

Thank you gor sharing what happened to o you has actually helped me.

Come on. Ghosting leads to suicide? Then that person was already suicidal.

@@ParuAp not necessarily..dont mean already suicidal .!!.one person can make you feel this hurt heck ya ..my stress is so bad loosing this man , My hair started falling out .i once had really thick hair beautiful and now ..its half thickness..and breaking off easily ,can't control it . high stress can cause a condition like this ..plus I emotionally as a diabetic am suppose to be careful not eating lots of sugar .I was wrong to use food to distract myself from incredible pain . But I did..fir awhile and I now have severe heart disease.due to a test I took and found out results ..so dont ever let any one tell you you, cant literally die of a broken heart. I believe .yes 💔 one certainly can my heart feels dead inside. ..i can't get what plaque already in my arteries out now .no way to do im told by Dr ..I can only stop from getting more by ..changing my whole way of life eating .I eat keto some more now..which is good and fine ..I did before and lost and kept off 50 pounds. But went off when super stressed out .that's when started laying plaque down fast im sure..have no choice but be on aspirin and cholesterol meds rest of life now . if want to stop progress of further heart damages..people can be so callus..become a complete stranger over night . Im 😥😔as can be..still love this severely damaged man ..but im praying fir the lord to help me get over him and move on ..I depend only in christ for my life .and to direct my steps .but still I wonder. Why this man was allowed to step into my life ....??God says man plans his course ,but God directs his steps ..and yet this man did so much damage to me .?.I also thought he would end up being future husband I called my sunshine man .. But now he is the rainstorm in my heart .

@@kimberlychilstrom6888 ~ please recall, if applicable, and ask yourself (ponder silently, no need to mention here, whichever) if you had a sexual/physical relationship with that man? If so, that could be the effect of your emotional stance of hurt, pain, broken heart, pertaining to that man. And it is Not God's Will for us to fornicate, nor commit adultery, nor any sexual immorality. GOD doesn't Will for us to put no one on a pedestal to idolize them. Proof you even called that man your "sunshine," as a term of endearment, but that also, could've been that you idolized him. Perhaps you did it too quickly, making him feel pressured, moving too fast & too soon(?). Men are to find himself a wife, pursue her, and help her feel secure that she is to be his betrothed, ultimately resulting in marriage, a GOD-Centered marriage. You mentioned some health issues that you have (and hopefully you're healed of it all),-- and you sound like you even blame him for your hair issue: But please know that Jesus Christ Is The Healer and Mighty Deliverer, and The Comforter Who Is The Holy Spirit Will Comfort you. Listen, Kimberly, put all your trust in The Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ, and cast all your cares upon Jesus Christ, for He Cares for you, and He Knows that you love deeply, and GOD Will allow the perfect mate/husband for you, at the right time. So, meanwhile, eat healthy as much possible, and seek Jesus Christ to find out who you are In CHRIST JESUS, your identity In Christ, not in someone else. Understand how valuable you are, with humility. Never again idolize anyone, nor allow anyone make you feel so bad, that you literally feel sick, and experience those symptoms (we all live and we learn). And remember, when GOD Blesses you with the mate/husband who deserves you, who will love you, but he will also put GOD, First! ...and that's a good thing! --- Remember, you, also, are to put GOD/JESUS CHRIST, First, and love GOD, More. And things will be in order. But right now, you are to focus on Jesus Christ, and know who He Created you to be, read His Word In The Holy Scriptures. You're more than a conqueror! You're more precious than rubies and pearls, Kimberly! And i pray that GOD Heals all your health issues, and heals your brokenheart. Now is the time to seek Jesus Christ with all your heart and mind and strength, because He Loves you! and He Will for you to have the best! and be Blessed! -- not being in a mess. There's nothing too hard for GOD, call on Him, "In The Name of Jesus Christ." Kimberly, Be Healed, be delivered, and be set free, for whom The Son [Jesus Christ] Sets Free, is free, indeed! --- Kimberly, Believe this! Receive it! And to GOD Be All The Glory, Honour and Praise, In Jesus Christ Name. Let it Be so.

Not to mention, wasting their precious time--days, weeks, months, and more--that they can never get back!!! 😒

People are jerks. I hate them from all of my heart.

Don’t worry you are not the only one that is literally story of my life 😭 God bless you dear one day someone is going to stick by your side and thanking God for you 🖤

Then that guy was a big time JERK! Be thnkful he' not in your life.

Same here…

Me too! I said "I hope you're not ghosting." He replied that he's not! Yup last words and that was 10 months ago.

Happened to me too

dawn gallegos,hope you are not with a narc 🙄!

Did he return

Well first of all any man that fights with a woman for any reason doesn't know a thing about women so be thankful it's over with him. I hope you found someone else who's more worth your time. Take care.

@@dottedlines nope, thankfully

@@Jsteelies i did meet with 2 more guys after that, both of them broke my heart lol. I’m just very fine being alone

Can you explain that?- Saved and set aside. I've been really feeling misunderstood for sometime and I think it's something I need to understand.

I know the feeling my ex sister in law and I were like that one day she invited me over to her house she had company when I drove up and I pulled out of her drive way she called me about 2 hours later and said what happen I replied you had company so l left she got mad hung up a few days passed I called her she ghosted me so I waited a few more days and I called her she ghosted me again. A few more days passed I texted her no reply I told her it's what ever

Awww Dave I love your avatar profile picture says a lot about you but be strong. We must believe in destiny, try to imagine that people are like books we read, and learn from each one of them. I’m going through it now; I was soooo sick and out of nowhere I met this beautiful man who pulled me out of my pain I fell in love with him and he ghosted me when I was feeling back to normal. So I say it must have been god he was a push for me not my savior as my saviors is only Jesus. Let’s move forward and see what’s ahead of us.