It's called narcissism, they love to control and manipulate.
@gameartist1128Сағат бұрын
Thank you 😊
@Lala.IntuitiveСағат бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@rebekahjette6304Сағат бұрын
💯
@austinroberts62292 сағат бұрын
I would say it's more like.....a lot of men just don't know what they're doing.
@hadassaheritage2 сағат бұрын
Thank you for these messages sir...I've let my compassion lead me into destruction many times. Waiting for a good, firm, Godly man.
@anniesjourney43032 сағат бұрын
I trust God through this journey and trials which going through , all I know is that If he takes you to it takes you through it , I want follow God even I have lost many things and people , lose everything and everyone but never lose the Lord , whatever he will give it will be the best amen hallelujah
@keciabrown83212 сағат бұрын
What's the difference between meek and passive?
@ChristopherNabours-xd1gz2 сағат бұрын
I'm sorting for that woman who is traditional and kind not talking about going out to the club or going out to the bars because the reality is if you're not behaving in a traditional fashion and you just living life to the fullest going into questionable environments and just doing things that a single person would do probably not going to take you serious. Hang out with exes and talk about I Don't need no Man men will be like okay no problem. There's worldly women and theres godly women. I'm going to start looking at what makes a man godly aside from dying for his wife if need be.
@benjamin.kelley2 сағат бұрын
It's easy for people to say things like "just trust Jesus, he's enough!" when they haven't been alone for 10 years or so (or for some people their entire life). It gets harder and harder to trust God's timing when it seems like we'll never have a relationship that turns into marriage and each person we meet seems better and better, then for some reason it doesn't work out. As it says in Mark 9:23 "I believe, but help my unbelief".
@joyjewel7483 сағат бұрын
Yes, it's so horrible when they're both aggressive and dominating AND passive in the areas where they should be leading. Just all out of God's order, no wonder it was a nightmare! Praise God that I am delivered 🙌🏾
@HeavenlyLights3 сағат бұрын
Karma is Real
@lawandacole65473 сағат бұрын
I'm waiting on God and main Goals is PUT God first in my life for the month of June ❤🙏🏾❤️
@makeabettername3 сағат бұрын
What a sad and harmful opinion
@Justyouraverageguy1723 сағат бұрын
I would not say this is demonic influence. It’s called weakness and the flesh for a reason because this is how I know not to take everything you say without discernment. A weak man is not a demonically possessed man like you are saying because you are saying you too can be possessed unless you do things in your own power and not God’s.
@Dj.D2556 минут бұрын
I think sometimes being passive shows lack of confidence.
@Justyouraverageguy17249 минут бұрын
@@Dj.D25 Being passive comes often times from fear, laziness, apathy, or all of the above so yes passivity does show a lack of confidence in oneself, others, and God.
@PrettyIndependent13 сағат бұрын
The enemy tried to confuse women and men by pushing a narrative about toxic masculinity that made it seem like all masculinity is toxic. But a passive man is capable being toxic too.
@sakuracardcaptor47094 сағат бұрын
Actually Satan used my own ex best friend another woman who almost broke me. But I’m fighting back! By praying more and reading my Bible more.
@reesepcs.creative4 сағат бұрын
Narcissists live by this swinging on both ends
@wisdom_light294 сағат бұрын
That's good , I definitely need a man who is strong enough to lead me . Peace and love
@jenniferv94504 сағат бұрын
Amen! 🙏 This message is highlighting an example of where discernment is needed! I see how the more one grows in their walk with Jesus Christ, the challenges in this world can become more complex in subtle and less apparent ways. Lord help me to not be deceived by passivity. 🙏🛡️Thank you Pastor Mark!
@RDRJJ4 сағат бұрын
How could it be anyone's fault but mine? I asked God to bring me a girl, but ONLY if i stop this one sin i keep coming back to. Then i met her. Then I went back. She blocked me an hour later. Its my fault for going back to sin. She was the one, but i ruined it.
@Thankful3054 сағат бұрын
Truth!! I’ve seen a close friend in this exact role and she was miserable 😩 How do you help someone in this situation?
@Justyouraverageguy1723 сағат бұрын
Speak the Word to them and teach them that a men and women need to have clear roles as defined in Ephesians 5. Women who don’t want this are not worth my time as man just like men who are not like this are not worth your time.
@Thankful3053 сағат бұрын
@@Justyouraverageguy172 Yes, I agree!!I’ve encouraged her with so much from the Word and she’s full if anxiety because of how he is. I pray for her protection 🙏 sadly, he’s a self proclaimed evangelical Christian so he uses scripture against her 😢Weaponizing it. So I share the truth to counteract what he’s doing to her. I want so much better for her.
@Justyouraverageguy172Сағат бұрын
@@Thankful305This is why (from what I experienced firsthand myself and others in my Chruch) Protestants can never get along with Catholics in a relationship weaponizing the Word as an excuse for pride and bad narcissistic behaviors. It’s why I have to be equally yoked as Paul tells me to be with a Catholic woman as I seek a wife. Your friend needs to know you love her and want the best for her by being told by you to break up the narcissist she is with and find a man who is not a control freak and has a heart of love and not stone.
@MLove-7775 сағат бұрын
🙏
@allauk87905 сағат бұрын
I wish you would illustrate some of this topic.
@cynax77575 сағат бұрын
❤😊
@sandeesk15 сағат бұрын
I believe it's quite easy to know when a man is operating in the right way for you. Plain and simple, if a man is thinking with his dick, he is self-serving, and will not be there for you. A man who comes with love will not force you to act in sin and will not assume an authoritative position in your life.
@NT-jf5vn5 сағат бұрын
Have lived this. Can attest to this. Stay away from men like this 🤦🏻♀️
@heatherhayes94985 сағат бұрын
Amen ❤
@Medietos5 сағат бұрын
Demonic influence is not automatic but only possible.
@shenevergaveup39595 сағат бұрын
It's call manipulation... They know what they are doing and hope you will never figure it out.
@HijadeDiosS.____..5 сағат бұрын
Amen Lord deliver from any deception in Jesus name 🙏
@bryantwooters95276 сағат бұрын
The very title of this video contradicts scripture. God is not the author of confusion (1 Corinthians 14:33), so God will not do things to confuse you.
@petermacdearle83897 сағат бұрын
Why is it that divorce is so high among christians couples if equally yoked is the answer. No one is perfect.
@MrDubb57 сағат бұрын
She can have all the want she'd like to, but if she WILL NOT, then she won't
@ChristopherNabours-xd1gz8 сағат бұрын
I just want God to remove my emotional attachment to a woman from my past. She doesn't want me in her life. I think Christ wants me to move on. Praying for it. Me and her are incompatible because she rejected traditional values for Modern relationship dynamics. I dislike having strong feelings for someone who knows they don't want to date me.
@sparticusmoulds18 сағат бұрын
Thanks for the videos. Keep up the good work. -Andrew
@kev7288 сағат бұрын
Ok thanks love you god ❤
@bettywinn82969 сағат бұрын
Give him attention?? You were not specific enough. Confused?
@cornellsanders959 сағат бұрын
What about a controlling jezebel woman?
@allisonshaw934110 сағат бұрын
And this is why I'm glad I'm not Christian - my life is not focused on getting a man. It is focused on living up to my greatest potential, living in peace with myself and others, and taking care of my family and people. Marriage does not benefit a woman - she loses herself, her goals, dreams, and place as an individual and becomes a piece of chattel. Most married women - especially religious ones - are neglected, their husbands do not remember their birthdays, anniversary and special days or on holidays, and these men also engage in weaponized incompetence (suddenly forgetting how to clean up after themselves, not knowing how to take care of their own kids, or how to make sure that their parents and other relatives have cards/gifts sent on time) to further show their contempt for their wife. Since most women also have to work in order for the household to meet expenses, her work starts often before daybreak as she is solely responsible for getting everyone else up and ready, making breakfast, and cleaning up before heading out to work/dropping kids off/etc. Once she gets home, she has to make dinner, tend to the kids, look through whatever they brought home from school, make sure they're doing their homework, clean up after dinner, do housework, and prepare things for everyon for the next day before finally falling exhausted in bed. Oh but wait - her husband, who came home form work and sat down on the couch watching TV or gaming and then relaxed again after dinner and who has done not a single thing to help the wife with the chores or kids, now expects her to entertain him in bed, and only to get him off as her satisfaction is not that important. And y'all wonder why more and more women are not only leaving religion but going single and childless. We're tired of getting screwed over and working ourselves to death for people who have shown over and over again that we are last in importance or consideration.
@LourikaFleur-pb2qj10 сағат бұрын
Is smoking 🚬 a sin
@butterfly-kb4cn12 сағат бұрын
My heart hurts because I’ve allowed myself to fall into this place and situation. My spirit has been battling and this is exactly what it was saying to me. I need strength and guidance because it’s easy to say just leave get it out but when you have nothing or no where to go it’s not that easy. 😢
@lawrencemercy703812 сағат бұрын
How can I forward this message to few of my friends 😂😂
@samlynx201612 сағат бұрын
My friend and I were just talking about this last night and this morning. We know someone who is a worship leader at a church and he has a very toxic view of women and is very manipulative. He has called Solomon "life goals" for having hundreds of wives and concubines.
@Thankful30513 сағат бұрын
Our Loving and Good Father, Son and Holy Spirit ALWAYS opposed the oppressors and control over another individual is oppression!