32. Reasons To Stay Alive

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Will Darbyshire

Will Darbyshire

8 жыл бұрын

A video about depression.
Check out Matt's wonderful book here -
www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/0143128...
Music by the lovely Tom Rosenthal.
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Some numbers:
The Samaritans: 08457 90 90 90
Trevor Project: 866-488-7386
For some more info:
www.youngminds.org.uk/for_chil...
Find me here:
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@willdarbyshire
@willdarbyshire 6 жыл бұрын
There are people to talk to if you need help. Please find them here: The Samaritans: (UK) 116 123 Suicide Prevention: 1-800-273-8255 Trevor Project: 866-488-7386
@rhylanlucas_professional
@rhylanlucas_professional 6 жыл бұрын
Will Darbyshire this was my introduction to you channel and you’ve made me so happy compared to normal you changed my outlook on life I’ve never wanted to kill my self but I’ve always thought that I wouldn’t care if I died but you’ve changed that thank you so much
@jld-ni3vf
@jld-ni3vf 6 жыл бұрын
This helped me a lot thank you
@taianagibson9036
@taianagibson9036 6 жыл бұрын
this helped me a lot. thank you
@ellamoratiel3442
@ellamoratiel3442 6 жыл бұрын
This saved my life. Thankyou
@nicolasmisis841
@nicolasmisis841 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@gracee3388
@gracee3388 7 жыл бұрын
fuck I've got goosebumps
@catholicgirl545
@catholicgirl545 6 жыл бұрын
grace! fuck I’m crying.
@lottiecrooks5380
@lottiecrooks5380 6 жыл бұрын
“You are not alone” the most overrated saying I’ve ever heard
@shaylamiller2935
@shaylamiller2935 4 жыл бұрын
viiathelens sure people say that but people saying “you’re not alone” makes our problems feel like nothing and that everyone goes through it yes but it still makes our problems feel like trash...and sometimes we don’t need someone there for us because sometimes nobody cares for us, my family nacer cared about me so I bottled up my emotions and never spoke again I worked past the dreadful headaches and everything to the point where I couldn’t feel anything and people still said “you’re not alone” well guess what saying that doesn’t help it makes it worse
@chaselongenecker5398
@chaselongenecker5398 4 жыл бұрын
exactly lol, like idgaf imma finna kms
@em-vw3vx
@em-vw3vx 4 жыл бұрын
@@chaselongenecker5398 HAHAHAH MOOD
@oMehrcy
@oMehrcy 4 жыл бұрын
we’re alone together
@nvmuuu9903
@nvmuuu9903 4 жыл бұрын
I wanna kill somebody before I kill myself
@simpysompywomb5470
@simpysompywomb5470 3 жыл бұрын
My mom just told me she wish she never gave birth to me for the fourth time in two years. I’m only 15 and I don’t wanna hear this stuff anymore, I can’t even talk to my friends about it. You don’t know how many people you’ve saved with this video but you saved me as well so thank you
@shahilagh
@shahilagh 3 жыл бұрын
I m sorry you mom said this to you. Most parents just gave birth to their children just like cats. They r not parent
@saadzamir9327
@saadzamir9327 3 жыл бұрын
My mom to told me this too. It's one of the worst things you can hear from somebody. I feel you.
@hi-kt8jj
@hi-kt8jj 3 жыл бұрын
my mom never said that to me, but my dad says that i'll be the reason he's dead [because i'm not good enough and i'm bad at everything]. he's said this twice within a few months. EDIT: by my dad saying he'll be dead, he means he'll probably die of a heart attack and it'll be my fault. i also remember the 2nd time he's said it was when he was going off on me about everything that's wrong with me and that night i almost ended my life because of him.
@robaniiraye
@robaniiraye 2 жыл бұрын
I love you and I hope that we can be friends one day 💕
@leon-noel7276
@leon-noel7276 2 жыл бұрын
@SkyFloats you know this is the internet and here will be said anything? No one cares if you want to here it. You really don't have to and if it makes you angry just don't listen. And this person wasn't really doing smth. Pls show at least some respect and dont comment smth that could hurt just like you (for whatever reason) didn't want her to comment what she commented. Or else you become one of this,, here will be said anything '' part that you apparently don't like. Thx
@terminallycaptivated5687
@terminallycaptivated5687 4 жыл бұрын
person trying to help: the world isn’t going anywhere, don’t worry. gen z: actually-
@sludgemuffin2447
@sludgemuffin2447 4 жыл бұрын
Too true😅😐😐😐
@scoutintime
@scoutintime 3 жыл бұрын
69th like
@michaelkapp6020
@michaelkapp6020 3 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY AND NO ONE UNDERSTAND IT
@Johnny-pm4ts
@Johnny-pm4ts 2 жыл бұрын
smh i got no problems with my planet i just be lackin serotonin
@bunsenn5064
@bunsenn5064 2 жыл бұрын
Yep. The world is quite literally melting.
@MyNamesChai
@MyNamesChai 8 жыл бұрын
This is great, I hope this helps people. Well done Will.
@maddie-hl2pr
@maddie-hl2pr 8 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️
@premmamehta2988
@premmamehta2988 8 жыл бұрын
Chaiii💗
@Fernanda-px5cn
@Fernanda-px5cn 8 жыл бұрын
+MyNamesChai Wait... your name is reaally Chai? Cause I love it!
@mricecream5194
@mricecream5194 6 жыл бұрын
Not even
@jollylord755
@jollylord755 5 жыл бұрын
Number five makes me want to kill myself lol
@OliWhite
@OliWhite 8 жыл бұрын
Love this
@tahminahbegum6801
@tahminahbegum6801 8 жыл бұрын
first like to oli White!!!!😄😄😄😄😄
@sofiamartany5827
@sofiamartany5827 8 жыл бұрын
+Oli White Oli
@nikitay1910
@nikitay1910 8 жыл бұрын
Love you
@Zecstar23
@Zecstar23 8 жыл бұрын
Oliiiii!!!
@JasminHoistad
@JasminHoistad 8 жыл бұрын
same Oli same
@TheFracturedfuture
@TheFracturedfuture Жыл бұрын
"Life is always worth it" That is subjective.
@pihjin
@pihjin 8 ай бұрын
"You've never felt this way before"... I sure have. Been feeling this way for about 3 years and everyday for the last 5 months. I sincerely hope that others find their way through though
@starshot5172
@starshot5172 3 ай бұрын
If there was one video that made me feel like i wanted to die, it would be this one.
@rayraytb
@rayraytb 3 ай бұрын
my depressive period is bordering on three years as well. BUT. three years is nothing. in another five years, you'll meet your new best friend. another ten and you'll adopt a cat. twenty years and you'll move far away. fifty years and you will look back and mark the worst time of your life to be fifty years ago. insignificant. tiny. you WILL make it.
@NestortheArgonaught
@NestortheArgonaught Ай бұрын
@rayraytb stop lying to people, please.
@rayraytb
@rayraytb Ай бұрын
@@NestortheArgonaught ?
@NestortheArgonaught
@NestortheArgonaught Ай бұрын
You don’t know this person and you don’t know the future. Everything you typed was a lie. Stop lying to people, please.
@eleonoratessa9507
@eleonoratessa9507 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I really needed to hear this.
@georgiatucker4305
@georgiatucker4305 8 жыл бұрын
❤️
@Sombia
@Sombia 8 жыл бұрын
💞sending you💞 love💞
@leonardoakauan8738
@leonardoakauan8738 8 жыл бұрын
+OmgItsTessa me too
@chloevandenhende1467
@chloevandenhende1467 8 жыл бұрын
he really loves her, doesnt he
@SELENE915_
@SELENE915_ 4 жыл бұрын
" nothing lasts forever" so neither does happiness
@tdude-vd2mj
@tdude-vd2mj 4 жыл бұрын
I feel like Everything is breaking and nothing can ever be the same
@thebegbie3931
@thebegbie3931 4 жыл бұрын
Lushan Strack it all comes and goes maybe ul never be as happy as u once where but some point some time ul feel happy again it probably won’t last and it might not come back but it’s a one reason out of many to stay.
@phil5892
@phil5892 4 жыл бұрын
Lushan Strack Of course, you’re obviously always going to have ups and downs. Happiness may not stay, but neither will suicidal thoughts
@neojackwastaken
@neojackwastaken 4 жыл бұрын
Same as sadness, it will bounce back
@oMehrcy
@oMehrcy 4 жыл бұрын
the phrase “everything passes” or “nothing lasts” is literally the dumbest thing to say to a depressed person, like thats the biggest fucking reason people wanna die. cuz this life is completely pointless and people try to deny that and lie to you. and thats just the harsh truth.
@livherman2047
@livherman2047 3 жыл бұрын
All over TikTok I’ve seen this “trend” where people film themselves like I guess crying or something and they say reasons they will keep going and won’t disappear. I’m just sitting here like ‘yall have reasons?’ Tbh I don’t think anyone would even notice if I was here or not
@charlotteflynn6172
@charlotteflynn6172 3 жыл бұрын
I will now
@brandonnichols1882
@brandonnichols1882 3 жыл бұрын
I'm with you
@anonymousblack1738
@anonymousblack1738 3 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way. If I were to just die I feel like no one would care and no one would notice. I have been bullied and I've seen shit that I wish I could unsee. I want to spend my time with someone, and I want a relationship. I have tried and tried and tried again to be find someone that I have connection with but it plays out having my feelings played with or I'm too ugly. Idk I'm really not happy loving anymore. I miss being younger, honestly I dont think life is gonna get any easier, I really just want to end it
@merukikogara1515
@merukikogara1515 3 жыл бұрын
There are people who will. I don't know you but I would. 100%. Hang in there. Life is beautiful, and everyone who can't see it right now will see it at some poimt, sooner than later. Please believe me. Please. I've been there. I'm here now.
@dan-jx2zh
@dan-jx2zh 3 жыл бұрын
Well, since you have Tiktok
@hassaantauseef5426
@hassaantauseef5426 8 жыл бұрын
One year ago, i wanted to kill myself, i told myself it gets better and this year it did, my life is all about the things he talked about in the video. Life is beautiful.
@amy233
@amy233 8 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy for you ❤️
@JasiiJasii
@JasiiJasii 7 жыл бұрын
this sounds amazing :) i'm really glad you feel good today
@ansharah5533
@ansharah5533 7 жыл бұрын
Hassaan Tauseef I'm happy for you!
@basil8474
@basil8474 7 жыл бұрын
Sophie Cosgrif thank you Sophie I love you too!
@ChanelROETV
@ChanelROETV 7 жыл бұрын
Hassaan Tauseef this is so inspiring. I hope to get where you are one day
@heydebee
@heydebee 7 жыл бұрын
Met your channel today and I'm in love
@fiev
@fiev 5 жыл бұрын
me too
@Johnny-pm4ts
@Johnny-pm4ts 2 жыл бұрын
same ngl
@vdcg2010
@vdcg2010 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes there are just no good reasons when the pain is just too much and becomes unbearable
@bunsenn5064
@bunsenn5064 2 жыл бұрын
1. This isn’t the first time. I’ve always felt this way. 2. It doesn’t get any better either. It hasn’t for the past 14 years. I’m not 14 years old, to be clear, I’m much older. 3. My medical/psychiatric testing would say otherwise. 4. I won’t do or have any of those things because I will probably be gone in a few years. I didn’t choose to be born into this life, but I have a choice to leave.
@RedLP5000S
@RedLP5000S 8 ай бұрын
​@@IHatePeopleOfColor you first.
@risithabanerjee2157
@risithabanerjee2157 7 ай бұрын
@@IHatePeopleOfColorit’s people like you that make things worse for everyone. Heal and spread love, words hurt more than knives. You never know if your words are responsible for someone’s life. Treat people with kindness and spread love.
@IHatePeopleOfColor
@IHatePeopleOfColor 7 ай бұрын
@@risithabanerjee2157 I was just joking
@_quixote
@_quixote 7 ай бұрын
@@IHatePeopleOfColorwhy would you joke about pushing someone to commit suicide? You’re sick in the head if you thought that was funny.
@noahfunnyguy
@noahfunnyguy 7 ай бұрын
@@IHatePeopleOfColor boy thats not a joke
@user-wq2iv3cq2h
@user-wq2iv3cq2h 8 жыл бұрын
Stay alive, stay alive for me.
@austin.s3314
@austin.s3314 8 жыл бұрын
I remember I was very Suicadal so ai texted my friend and she sent me a link to truce. That will always be my favorite song.
@twentyonefrens6085
@twentyonefrens6085 7 жыл бұрын
you will die. but know your life is free.
@laurac3842
@laurac3842 7 жыл бұрын
Not Spooky jim |-/
@katemartin7961
@katemartin7961 6 жыл бұрын
I will :) I’m 3 months clea from self harming :)
@rosandrachavezrodriguez9642
@rosandrachavezrodriguez9642 6 жыл бұрын
Not Spooky jim I try
@notmelibbh
@notmelibbh 8 жыл бұрын
Today was a bad day but this video helped me to change my mind, tomorrow is a new day, thanks will 💛
@georgiatucker4305
@georgiatucker4305 8 жыл бұрын
❤️
@notmelibbh
@notmelibbh 8 жыл бұрын
+Lacey Jane thank you so much for the nice words, means a lot to me! You are beautiful person and worth it too :)
@lizzycorbett1404
@lizzycorbett1404 7 жыл бұрын
Well done for having such a positive outlook! You are doing an amazing job whatever you are going through! :)
@ruairi8958
@ruairi8958 5 жыл бұрын
I'm not depressed or anything but I still find this video beautiful
@catt2880
@catt2880 4 жыл бұрын
lucky
@okaden1015
@okaden1015 4 жыл бұрын
Damn, that would be amazing to "not be depressed"
@oMehrcy
@oMehrcy 4 жыл бұрын
Kill Me Now its okay, we’ll all be dead soon anyway so it doesn’t matter. nothing matters.
@phained
@phained 3 жыл бұрын
@@oMehrcy that's not true you shouldn't ever tell youself that,, your life matters and maybe not entirely to a stranger who doesn't even know you exist but even once someone gets to know your name it matters, it matters to someone close to you, to them your life matters more than theirs even if you don't see it. Your happiness matters what you achieve and do in your life matters i might not be able to tell you the reason your here and why your existence matters but even to me, a random stranger your life does matter and if you left it would affect me. So continue going even when you feel like theres nothing to go forward to because there always is even if you have to create that something. I hope you find that something soon, like i did.
@kakikucheng7419
@kakikucheng7419 3 жыл бұрын
Thats the reason why you find this video beautiful, others like me thinks this video is full of shit
@englishatheart
@englishatheart 6 ай бұрын
Things absolutely can get worse. I thought I was at my worse and wanted to die a few years back, but the pain is even worse now.
@englishatheart
@englishatheart 6 ай бұрын
And life is most definitely NOT always worth it.
@segismundosaulalex3065
@segismundosaulalex3065 4 ай бұрын
They say Hell is a bottomless pit because no matter how bad it gets we can always find a way to make it worse
@rayraytb
@rayraytb 3 ай бұрын
the pain means you're free. YOU'RE FREE! you can feel! you are here! you are ALIVE! you are human... and humans suffer. and humans laugh. and love. and dance. we are only here such a little while. so sing. and feel the wind in your hair. and learn to speak to your pain.
@BrookeMarsden
@BrookeMarsden 7 жыл бұрын
Yes, romanticise getting better and not the illness!
@LetsStopThisSong
@LetsStopThisSong 7 жыл бұрын
Depression sucks, so so much, I wouldn't wish it on anyone. People who romanticize it should know that.
@BrookeMarsden
@BrookeMarsden 7 жыл бұрын
Yes, also your picture is gorgeous!!
@sophie_turner217
@sophie_turner217 6 жыл бұрын
Yes yes yes
@itsrollintime
@itsrollintime 6 жыл бұрын
People who romanticise depression never experienced depression and all of them are teenager,idiot attention whores.I appreciate this video for being hope to some suicidal people,but sometimes,when depression becomes major,being suicidal borns and it cannot be cured by videos like this.Because not only there is no hope,there would be also no emotions except suffering because of every breath you take.You become lifeless body,and you only want to destruct yourself.That's why depression is nothing to joke about.One of the serious diseases that bring you to death.Getting rid of depression,even you become a sad person,is very strong and brave thing.It's like getting rid of cancer which is in its last level.People really do not have an idea about psychological diseases,if they were aware,it could be taken more seriously.
@itsrollintime
@itsrollintime 6 жыл бұрын
People who romanticise depression never experienced depression and all of them are teenager,idiot attention whores.I appreciate this video for being hope to some suicidal people,but sometimes,when depression becomes major,being suicidal borns and it cannot be cured by videos like this.Because not only there is no hope,there would be also no emotions except suffering because of every breath you take.You become lifeless body,and you only want to destruct yourself.That's why depression is nothing to joke about.One of the serious diseases that bring you to death.Getting rid of depression,even you become a sad person,is very strong and brave thing.It's like getting rid of cancer which is in its last level.People really do not have an idea about psychological diseases,if they were aware,it could be taken more seriously.
@rautaranka
@rautaranka 7 жыл бұрын
This video is so precious to me. It's helped me through a lot and I always find my way back here from time to time.
@JasiiJasii
@JasiiJasii 7 жыл бұрын
read the book REASONS TO STAY ALIVE by matt haig! it's amazing :)
@caffeineaddictedperson1207
@caffeineaddictedperson1207 Жыл бұрын
What keeps me alive? People who are close to me. When I think about how difficult it might be for them....I will decide to stay another day.
@georgiamoorthy7207
@georgiamoorthy7207 4 жыл бұрын
I have been in a depressive episode for what seems like my whole life. I feel trapped in a box, with only just enough air to stay alive, but just barely. Your video changed my perspective on things and put off my plans for overdose for another day. Thank you, stranger, you just saved my life.
@graceplatt9313
@graceplatt9313 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@NameUnknownxx
@NameUnknownxx 7 жыл бұрын
"you'll be able to look at a view from a high place and not assess the likelihood of dying from falling."
@xxmakeouthill23
@xxmakeouthill23 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve just haven’t really been feeling myself..I’m depressed and I feel like I won’t never become anything, but I’ll try my best to overcome this situation and live my life
@user-vi7ol7sk8o
@user-vi7ol7sk8o Жыл бұрын
this makes me realize that depression really doesn't have an age cause here was 12 year old me watching reasons to stay alive.
@nikkiitzhak4865
@nikkiitzhak4865 8 жыл бұрын
I am 13 years old and I have been depressed since my 12th birthday. Yes, young kids can also suffer from depression. I have tried committing suicide but, I'm still alive today. I am still depressed. And people think that just because you are a bright and happy, laughing bubbley person, it doesn't mean that you can't be depressed. A person can be depressed but just cover it up with layers of sunshine and daises. But I watched this video, and I cried for an hour. I can't believe somebody actually said this. And I am so grateful. Thank you so much Will. You have helped me a lot. Not just with this video, but with many others.
@nadiasoto6441
@nadiasoto6441 8 жыл бұрын
Love, I was in the same exact boat as you when I was your age. If I can give you one simple piece of advice it would be, life gets better... Nobody ever told me this. Like you I hid my depression under fake laughter and smiles, but inside I was a dark mess. It took me five years to finally come out of my depression 100%, and love, every year was a fight. But every year I got stronger and here I am today truly happy. Believe in yourself, become your own #1 fan! It will help you through a lot. Nobody in this world is promised to treat you perfect except for you. Treat yourself like you would a priceless piece of jewelry - don't lose yourself and treat yourself with extra care. Because you're priceless.
@nikkiitzhak4865
@nikkiitzhak4865 8 жыл бұрын
+Nadia Soto thank you so much. I really needed to hear that. People like you, always help me, in these kind of situations. I owe you so much. If it wasn't for people like you, i could probably be dead right now. Thank you so much.
@marajadex
@marajadex 8 жыл бұрын
Much love ❤️ wish you the best Hun x
@nikkiitzhak4865
@nikkiitzhak4865 8 жыл бұрын
+Mara Jade i don't know if you were talking to me, but if you were, then, thank you.
@megdonovan8307
@megdonovan8307 7 жыл бұрын
Nikki Itzhak I wish you all the best in your life xx
@lovelostfashion
@lovelostfashion 7 жыл бұрын
I've been suffering with depression for a few years, and with my 18th birthday coming up I know I'm going to spend it alone and just away from the world. I'm struggling real hard and have no one to talk to, my family dont understand how a teenager can struggle with depression and want to end their life. So your videos really help, your videos are like the only thing i have to turn to, they make me feel a little less alone
@sillyxoxo734
@sillyxoxo734 7 жыл бұрын
send me a message if you ever need someone to talk to. you are not alone.
@eezuchangesgenreeveryvideo4834
@eezuchangesgenreeveryvideo4834 7 жыл бұрын
send me a message too! im here if you need someone to chat to x
@SuperMagnum89
@SuperMagnum89 6 жыл бұрын
margot how are you feeling? I hope you got through your pain
@adrijajane6098
@adrijajane6098 6 жыл бұрын
margot just knpw that there are always people around the world who are going through the same thing. You are not alone. Stay strong
@sophia-yq3qh
@sophia-yq3qh 6 жыл бұрын
I know exactky how That feels but I’m 15
@shibuskii9942
@shibuskii9942 2 жыл бұрын
About an hour and a half ago I had a suicide attempt, I’ve been dealing with suicidal thoughts about 2 or 3 times a week for the past month, and man I needed to here this. I’ve been dealing with the consequences of my actions, I haven’t told anyone or called the hospital and all though I didn’t actually severely cut my flesh I still held that knife in my hands about to do it. Sometimes it’s difficult to believe the stuff this video tells me, but I have to at least try because I don’t ever want to be in a place like that again. So thank you, you may not have saved my life but you’ve put me further on the path of at least accepting it.
@chrisaalvo596
@chrisaalvo596 Жыл бұрын
hey.. i know that your comment is from 8 months ago, how are you doing now? hope you all well. ive attempted suicide for more than 6 times, and failed all the time. im replying to your comment because I need to believe that there's hope out there, there's life despite of all the "quitters" who have attempted suicide. i hope you are all well.. xx
@shibuskii9942
@shibuskii9942 Жыл бұрын
@@chrisaalvo596 its crazy to think this was 8 months ago now but yeah things have gotten better for me, I feel a whole lot better now and while my life is far from perfect i still get really anxious and i fail to find the motivation or abilty to do things i used to be able to but im at least most days happy. I got out because i sought help and i tried my hardest everyday, i kept to those who cared for me and I got therapy and I delayed going to uni did no work and just gave myself time. There were times were things would spiral down or go up only to be shattred again to where i thought i was fine but found myself back in those awful places. But I hope i can give you some hope, its all just a matter of support and time you're never alone and you wont heal straight away but you can get through this I believe in you and hope that in 8 months from now you can find yourself in a similar postion to me.
@Hacks536
@Hacks536 Жыл бұрын
Dammmnnn bro I’m j. The same situation. Let’s fight this together come on 👊
@871grangel
@871grangel Жыл бұрын
Is sucidal thought isn't normal? I've had it since i was 13 till now. Even when i joke abt it my friends say it wasn't normal. Hehe idk what's wrong w me
@lozyarrow6873
@lozyarrow6873 5 жыл бұрын
This is beautiful, proud that I’m 21 days clean from self harming.
@esmeedebruin4660
@esmeedebruin4660 5 жыл бұрын
Congrats!! I’m so proud of you!
@helennized8324
@helennized8324 4 жыл бұрын
hows the progress now?
@darellarocho5729
@darellarocho5729 4 жыл бұрын
You still here, right?
@lozyarrow6873
@lozyarrow6873 4 жыл бұрын
@@helennized8324 I've slipped up since then but right now I'm working on 16 days.
@lozyarrow6873
@lozyarrow6873 4 жыл бұрын
@@darellarocho5729 Yes, I am and I'm doing okay :)
@RebeccaBarnes1
@RebeccaBarnes1 8 жыл бұрын
These are absolutely all of the things I told myself every time I wanted to kill myself..3 and a half years have passed since I was hospitalized and since I have had any thoughts of wanting to die. 2016 has been without a doubt the best year of my life, and to anyone reading this wanting to die right now, it DOES get better, I'm living proof.
@elliegreenxx4344
@elliegreenxx4344 8 жыл бұрын
😉
@solvisionx9965
@solvisionx9965 8 жыл бұрын
@heathergreene4810
@heathergreene4810 7 жыл бұрын
:)
@matthewhollier
@matthewhollier 7 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy for you :P
@lydia129
@lydia129 7 жыл бұрын
Well done, that's incredible x
@506Naz
@506Naz 5 жыл бұрын
ever since Will uploaded this video to this day i keep coming back to it every once in a while when i'm not in a good place mentally and it helps me everytime.
@charlottebennett639
@charlottebennett639 4 жыл бұрын
wig 5000 me too x
@MarlaynaVonKarpen
@MarlaynaVonKarpen 4 жыл бұрын
💜💜💜
@allisonmorse4999
@allisonmorse4999 3 жыл бұрын
me too
@rohitjames19
@rohitjames19 3 жыл бұрын
same
@ishaandhadral3400
@ishaandhadral3400 2 жыл бұрын
It’s been a while but I definitely came back
@TylerP-rs4lk
@TylerP-rs4lk 3 жыл бұрын
The worlds a cruel place and I’m glad I get to leave it behind. Hopefully sooner than later.
@jaydennn916
@jaydennn916 4 жыл бұрын
The yt recommended guy has my back 😔✊
@iloveu975
@iloveu975 8 жыл бұрын
"Pain is a debt that is paid off with time" - wow!!!!
@bobatae8675
@bobatae8675 8 жыл бұрын
"...And have sex" damn lol I wasn't expecting that, why am I like twelve years old
@heykate13
@heykate13 8 жыл бұрын
that is a normal life thing and is not a reason to be shocked
@bobatae8675
@bobatae8675 8 жыл бұрын
+heykate13 I know, and I think it was just because he said it when I don't think I've ever heard him say the word sex before.
@rheaganlloyd
@rheaganlloyd 8 жыл бұрын
+bobatae I wasn't either! haha
@fckyouall9895
@fckyouall9895 6 жыл бұрын
bobatae I hate sex
@hello-ii6uy
@hello-ii6uy 2 жыл бұрын
The only was IS up. Then down is an option again. And even if I don’t choose it I still end up there
@astro-ln8ny
@astro-ln8ny 3 жыл бұрын
This made me smile after crying til I have a headache
@BrittaniCluett
@BrittaniCluett 8 жыл бұрын
"pain is a debt paid off with time." it can be so difficult for me to remember this when I feel like I'm stuck in a black hole and can't get out but its true, it does eventually get better with time
@ItsJessLouisex
@ItsJessLouisex 8 жыл бұрын
I always watch this whenever I feel sad
@randytaiga5878
@randytaiga5878 4 жыл бұрын
I don't know what to say I still feel depressed I still feel alone
@yayarose6862
@yayarose6862 4 жыл бұрын
saw this scrolling through the comments and i dont know you but i know ive been in the same place and life is constantly changing. someone who makes you feel loved and special might come around or you might get that break youve been waiting for or a feeling youve been wanting to feel will finally come. whether or not you look at the future with hope or not there is no denying that the future is unpredictable and there is always a way and chance for life to get better. if nobody tells you this often enough you are loved and beautiful and so incredible that to end your life or think of yourself as any less than you are would be a grave mistake
@redbengal16
@redbengal16 3 жыл бұрын
@@yayarose6862 I know I am loved...but I don't feel loved.
@isaiahstephenson9775
@isaiahstephenson9775 3 жыл бұрын
Keep fighting it dude. Never give in.
@420._.
@420._. 3 жыл бұрын
@@yayarose6862 Yea, that person cheated on me and now it's even worse than before. Everything what makes you happy will crush your mind one day even worse.
@sarahnight6393
@sarahnight6393 2 жыл бұрын
The fact I had to watch this to stay alive is what hurts
@ardenrose
@ardenrose 8 жыл бұрын
What a lovely video, worm. Loved it.
@superfred
@superfred 8 жыл бұрын
+Arden Rose very worm indeed, will is cute
@Rid97527
@Rid97527 8 жыл бұрын
This made me cry x
@reagansumrall2716
@reagansumrall2716 8 жыл бұрын
PROTIP!
@Cloudchaser5566
@Cloudchaser5566 8 жыл бұрын
Same :')
@lizz.3588
@lizz.3588 8 жыл бұрын
Me too. ☺️
@Dovestone.
@Dovestone. 8 жыл бұрын
Same😰 and I don't cry v much
@cassiosoares3912
@cassiosoares3912 8 жыл бұрын
I wish that one day my videos are so good as his!!! 🙏🏽🇧🇷
@craig4340
@craig4340 5 жыл бұрын
And when you experience happiness, everything goes back.
@josierock968
@josierock968 3 жыл бұрын
I’m only staying alive so I won’t make my mom sad. But I don’t want to anymore. It’s so painful to exist.
@didardulai7382
@didardulai7382 8 жыл бұрын
'Pain is a debt paid off with time' 💖💖✨✨
@patricebailey1473
@patricebailey1473 8 жыл бұрын
"You will one day experience joy that matches this pain"
@Skadidd
@Skadidd 4 жыл бұрын
I dont feel like everything will get worse i feel like it will always stay the same a constant meaningless walk through life
@sjswift7448
@sjswift7448 4 жыл бұрын
Tears are rushing down my face
@fleurmitchell8423
@fleurmitchell8423 8 жыл бұрын
I've never bought a book so fast in my life
@lauraallewaert313
@lauraallewaert313 7 жыл бұрын
I actually shed tears because of this? Thank you.
@kyz
@kyz 4 жыл бұрын
Day 1 of my daily dose of this video
@NestortheArgonaught
@NestortheArgonaught Жыл бұрын
Staying alive is still the worst decision I ever made.
@jennyjose6937
@jennyjose6937 8 жыл бұрын
I feel like Will just makes the best most meaningful videos
@jennyjose6937
@jennyjose6937 5 жыл бұрын
two years later and still having to go back to this video, part of me is fuming that I'm still not okay, but part of me very glad that I'm still alive
@doddleoddle
@doddleoddle 8 жыл бұрын
:)
@evesharples1904
@evesharples1904 8 жыл бұрын
+doddleoddle lovin this and lovin you also. Stay strong and know you are loved. Idk its cheesy puffs n all but its true :) xox
@rawanaborob3366
@rawanaborob3366 9 күн бұрын
My heart ached everyday for years.. i cant take it anymore
@DonutLord67
@DonutLord67 5 жыл бұрын
The pain never goes away though. They are gone and there’s nothing I can do. I have to push for other people when I want to push for myself too. The future is the dread that haunts me when my most vulnerable times are. How will the nest day be? What about the next week? Next year? The only thing known is the past. And the past is that they’re gone, with no way of making it right again.
@rinekyo
@rinekyo 6 жыл бұрын
thank you; I feel a slight feeling of happiness
@tinawadhawa5964
@tinawadhawa5964 6 жыл бұрын
phankook i hope you're doing well
@zainabthecat681
@zainabthecat681 6 жыл бұрын
phankook stay strong I promise you that life is worth it
@aflits
@aflits 3 жыл бұрын
It's better than nothing tho💖💖💖
@daultumitenub812
@daultumitenub812 3 ай бұрын
Im either a sociopath or suffering from severe depression cause ive lost all sense of emotion
@aleshasawastuk6383
@aleshasawastuk6383 6 жыл бұрын
Everything seems pointless
@aliray1165
@aliray1165 5 жыл бұрын
Chunk Sawastuk just keep lowering your expectations for the day until you’re enjoying the simple act of getting just enough food and drink to live. Everything above that is a bonus and a reward. Scaling back helped me find the real in my life.
@ryandaddy1089
@ryandaddy1089 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@isaiahstephenson9775
@isaiahstephenson9775 4 жыл бұрын
It is so just enjoy it and leave it better for the next person unfortunate enough to exist.
@oMehrcy
@oMehrcy 4 жыл бұрын
It is
@sammy3118
@sammy3118 3 жыл бұрын
@@aliray1165 my mind's gonna tell me- "you gave up, so you set your standard low now, loser."
@wh0re603
@wh0re603 4 жыл бұрын
i was horribly depressed and watching this video is what helped me stay alive and now i’m nearly entirely recovered 💛
@cappuccinojunkie8
@cappuccinojunkie8 4 жыл бұрын
This video always plays in my mind when I am close to..ending everything And then with a long debate inside my head I stop. I hope you know that this video keeps me live. I keep telling myself, “oh but think about all the new song that u have yet to hear” or just simply becoming a therapist, who will someday help people grow out through the pain that I too have faced.
@133Jacko
@133Jacko 8 жыл бұрын
Stay Alive |-/
@Kaylee-oe2my
@Kaylee-oe2my 8 жыл бұрын
|-/
@lydutran6427
@lydutran6427 8 жыл бұрын
|-/
@molly-annebartlett2722
@molly-annebartlett2722 8 жыл бұрын
|-/
@sassystuff1020
@sassystuff1020 8 жыл бұрын
Sometimes to stay alive you gotta kill your mind
@andrea1618
@andrea1618 8 жыл бұрын
|-/
@SafetyHazard
@SafetyHazard 8 жыл бұрын
I've been having a really awful time for the past few months. I'm recovering from being cheated and lied to. I'm recovering from popping pills for 2 years. School is stressing me out. I lost my job, and I'm struggling to find a new one. I just moved to a new area away from my friends within the past few months.Spring is usually when my depression reaches its worst. Overall, I've been extremely down. This video feels like a blessing. The past four days have been the absolute worst for me so far, and suddenly this video pops up in my notifications. I am crying because I feel like the timing of seeing this is so perfect. Thank you, Will for creating this. And thank you Matt, for writing it. This is really so uplifting.
@Emily-co9rj
@Emily-co9rj 3 жыл бұрын
I still come back to this video, years later. I can't help but cry--all happy tears. Incredible job Will.
@user-fb8wb9sx9h
@user-fb8wb9sx9h 4 ай бұрын
Now i’ve finally realized that nothing could save me anymore. I used to watched this videos from 5 years ago and find hope. None of these things even make me happy anymore. I just want to end it all now.
@lucymoon
@lucymoon 8 жыл бұрын
Amazing. I adore this.
@howlingsuns
@howlingsuns 8 жыл бұрын
+meowitslucy me too! And I adore your videos, too! :3
@qmsilainata613
@qmsilainata613 6 жыл бұрын
it was going so well until you mentioned sex, this made me even more depressed lol
@arzantyt2055
@arzantyt2055 5 жыл бұрын
True
@harriettbanish5285
@harriettbanish5285 5 жыл бұрын
That triggered me, it's one of the reasons I want to kill myself.
@sisterspoof23
@sisterspoof23 5 жыл бұрын
I SWEAR lmao
@symersion
@symersion 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah that part fucked me up too...
@Shuteyetn
@Shuteyetn 5 жыл бұрын
You’re not alone
@thomsutherland73
@thomsutherland73 3 жыл бұрын
This video saved me, recently.
@Alresu
@Alresu 2 жыл бұрын
1: That others (might) understand your problems does not make them easier. 2: When you have suicidal thoughts you are not at your lowest possible point. You can still drop to the point of suicide. I'd be willing to believe that every person who commited suicide was first in the "suicidal thoughts" stage and got worse. 3: Appeal to rationality might work. 4: That the pain won't last is basically the hope of many suicidal people. 5: That one is actually a pretty good reason. As long as you believe in it. A reason I might add is the guilt trip. For some the only reason to stay is that other people would be upset if they wouldn't. It's not a nice reason and hearing it might make you feel worse, but those points aren't all that uplifting anyways.
@CharlesAlexanderParish
@CharlesAlexanderParish 8 жыл бұрын
This is so uplifting!
@gajaznidarcic640
@gajaznidarcic640 8 жыл бұрын
PROTIP
@teringteef9325
@teringteef9325 8 жыл бұрын
+Amber Brooks not the type of video you should comment "PROTIP" under
@hwang759
@hwang759 8 жыл бұрын
+Lou Zoer exactly
@sapphirexo7113
@sapphirexo7113 8 жыл бұрын
May I ask, what does PROTIP mean? I see it everywhere and it confuses me.
@KattaLeiin
@KattaLeiin 8 жыл бұрын
+Sapphire Linthwaite phandom is just everywhere
@isabelaofelia403
@isabelaofelia403 8 жыл бұрын
goddamit will I fucking love u
@ethergames1662
@ethergames1662 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve watched this video so many times, some times I drunkenly shout at it bc it lies and other times it makes me feel better. Come back here a lot...
@dotnico0
@dotnico0 4 жыл бұрын
I am able to tell these things to someone going through similar or worse things than I am, to try and allow them to live a life greater than they believe is possible. But how come when I tell myself these things I don’t believe them. I believe in them whenever I’m trying to help someone else, but I can’t seem to accept it when ever I try and tell myself these things. The only thing I’ve found in this world that ever seem to make me happy is when I help someone else be happy. But why should I be alive when I can’t even do that properly. I’ve been thinking about this for around 6 months now and I think I’m ready to just call it quits and just end my life here, but something seems to always stop me and I can’t actually bring myself to do it. Most likely no one will even read this comment but I just really needed to vent, if anyone is reading this, your life will get better. The things he says in this video are true and life is beautiful, you can only go up from here and I believe in you. I’ve tried climbing out of rock bottom enough times that I’ve just given up. It’s either stay here, clinging onto hope that things will get better only to get disappointed and end up right back at the bottom or just end my life here. I believe in you people who are probably going through worse than I am, you *WILL* make it through this and live a life worth living. I love you all... good luck
@MariahMonique
@MariahMonique 8 жыл бұрын
pain is debt paid off with time... woah, this was amazing
@emily-qe3yu
@emily-qe3yu 8 жыл бұрын
WOW ok I like this a lot
@maddyevans-tidey2781
@maddyevans-tidey2781 8 жыл бұрын
|-/ same here!
@amy233
@amy233 8 жыл бұрын
|-/
@Honka2102
@Honka2102 8 жыл бұрын
Hey my family 😍😭 |-/
@emily-qe3yu
@emily-qe3yu 8 жыл бұрын
Hey frens!!!!!!! 💖 |-/
@justicesmith5978
@justicesmith5978 7 жыл бұрын
same thø
@contezw
@contezw 3 жыл бұрын
the pain won't last forever when you have had it for more than 16 years I am pretty sure it is here to stay....
@gadis6532
@gadis6532 Жыл бұрын
They say the pain wont last. But the worst feeling that I Had for 3 years had been growing up and getting worst and worst. Then I dont know when will i found my joy?
@JannisBierschenk
@JannisBierschenk 8 жыл бұрын
willy d videos are life. willy d videos are love.
@gottalovetheinternet
@gottalovetheinternet 8 жыл бұрын
This made me cry... Moving.
@neo_aphotic1097
@neo_aphotic1097 2 жыл бұрын
So this video just came up on my recommended, and I really needed to see it, but wanting to kill myself was not the lowest point for me, I got to that point and it just got worse, I got burnt out and started failing my course, I started to get worse physically, getting random aches and pains, and now I don't really feel anything anymore. You were right about it not getting worse than wanting to kill yourself, but my want to do it just keeps growing and it's so hard to keep finding reasons not to end it right now. I feel like I just keep delaying the inevitable, what if I never get better, what if this effort to keep going ends up just being a waste, I don't even see a future for myself anymore and I am so scared of that. Thank you for this video, thank you for one more reason to keep going. And to everyone else struggling with something like this, I haven't found mine yet but I promise you have so many reasons to keep going, I believe in every single one of you, and I am so proud that you have kept going, have an amazing day
@mnrelle
@mnrelle 3 жыл бұрын
I always go back to this whenever I overthink.Puts me right back. Thanks for this, you don't know how many times I've thought of ending feelings I don't wanna feel.
@agneslee7593
@agneslee7593 8 жыл бұрын
This is so inspiring without being too cheesy. Great job mate!
@chelseajewelle7657
@chelseajewelle7657 7 жыл бұрын
I get such a Lemony Snicket vibe from your videos, like the way he narrates the movie; either that or I'm going insane. Most likely the latter.
@aleksanderstadsnes9771
@aleksanderstadsnes9771 5 жыл бұрын
I'm not depressed, but this video still made me feel much better.
@barrel1446
@barrel1446 2 жыл бұрын
pain is also a debt that builds over time :(
@xPaintTheSkyx
@xPaintTheSkyx 8 жыл бұрын
I really need this right now. thank you.
@veauhania
@veauhania 8 жыл бұрын
i watched this video twice already and i'm just shedding tears right now
@theotherone7556
@theotherone7556 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve always found that the reasons people offer for living aren’t even enough to get someone out of bed in the morning, let alone enduring the hardships of a lifetime.
@breadeater7471
@breadeater7471 3 жыл бұрын
Life is meaningless. It gets meaning from our goals and desires, "I want to get rich." or, "I want to save people." or, "I want to be with her/him." That, in my opinion, is what gives life meaning. But, what if you don't have any desire? what if you can't find any meaning to all of it? Will it really get better? Will I really find something? So far it hasn't gotten any better. It feels like the hole in my chess for something is only getting bigger, sometimes I really feel like suffocating from my tight chest. I have found one desire and that is to disappear from it all. And I wonder when I'll actually go through with that desire.
@thesupremepear8938
@thesupremepear8938 2 жыл бұрын
This is the mindset I’m stuck in as well. It’s been a year do you still feel this way?
@bunsenn5064
@bunsenn5064 2 жыл бұрын
The problem with me is that no matter how much hard work and toil I put into my life, no matter the suffering I endure, there will be no reward for me in the end. I can’t feel happiness. I can’t feel the things that I’ve been promised time and time again if I work hard. I get nothing in return, and end up just the same as before.
@kaustubhgautam5103
@kaustubhgautam5103 Жыл бұрын
I can feel each word you said This hole is very deep.......
@Maxlodge
@Maxlodge Жыл бұрын
Been like this for years on and off.
@radioktiver_boomerang
@radioktiver_boomerang Жыл бұрын
You described it perfectly. I feel like I'm suffocating right now or is it just a panic attack idk
@charliemansell7862
@charliemansell7862 6 жыл бұрын
I revisit this video, every so often. It helps.
@averyhelm745
@averyhelm745 8 жыл бұрын
i fell in love with the graphics as well as the meaning. as someone who suffers from depression, this was extremely uplifting. thank you xx
@jacksonmcelmoyle2031
@jacksonmcelmoyle2031 3 жыл бұрын
How tf you manage to make me more depressed
@Joe-tw6lh
@Joe-tw6lh 26 күн бұрын
woke up from self induced heart pain from a years of eating junk food while being diabetics on a Sunday because I am scared of the pain of "unaliving" myself. on sunday afternoon watching this type of videos. Life is fun. :)
@mollyb9959
@mollyb9959 8 жыл бұрын
Put me in tears, I'm shaking, I've recommended it to all my friends. Thank you💙💙💙
@yikerinoes6255
@yikerinoes6255 8 жыл бұрын
I was going through depression and this helped me out a lot 😭
@Msfinable
@Msfinable 8 жыл бұрын
+PhandomTrash I wish you all the best from the bottom of my heart xxx
@TanTan-hr7uq
@TanTan-hr7uq 8 ай бұрын
Thinking about ending it tonight. Wish something could help. Nothing ever does.
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