4 DUMB THINGS WE SAY (that prevent our growth)

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4 dumb thoughts that hold us back from personally and professionally growing:
#1. "I’ve tried everything."
#2. “Sure, that works for them, but that wouldn’t work for me.”
#3. “You just don’t understand.”
#4. “Easier said than done.”
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@ankitaroy-artist9300 7 жыл бұрын

this guy has been saving my life since years

@MikeMeilingerCPA 5 жыл бұрын

My favorite saying from this video os “You should never let your dreams or goals bow down to your current limited skills or strengths”

@31betperez 7 жыл бұрын

I started in 2013 and I won't give up.

@a.mtushaar1356 7 жыл бұрын

Elizabeth Perez - Olivieri keep going my friend, i support you

@charmedprince 4 жыл бұрын

I started in 2011 and I will never

@0liverr94 7 жыл бұрын

I have never really listened to anybody like this before but whoa, I feel like I'm in church or something listening to this guy. This is very touching, a lot of relatable things in this topic.

@CrisisRescue 7 жыл бұрын

Brendon Burchard is probably the top pro trainer for speakers, writers, and content creators. He has a HUGE following - He has multiple courses he runs each year. "Experts Academy" for professionals in their field who want to be or are speakers, writers, content developers who want to market their knowledge, "Business 10x," "High Performance Academy," (which is more aligned with this content above), "World's Greatest Speaker Training" (For pro speakers who want to get better), and he has some other trainers who work with for some programs. Whatever course you choose, enroll EARLY - most of this courses (ALL???) the tickets sell out early - I think like six months to a year in advance. Many alumni return to take courses again as the courses are updated. I took many of his courses in 2012, and actively participate in his closed FaceBook support groups for pro writers. Brendon is "amazing!" For me, I would put him up there in the top maybe under five people who are changing lives and the world with what he is doing. Everyone who does something with what they learn through his courses are making sweeping changes in training on things that "matter." Brendon just give the "framework" - and saves followers so much time!

@TheMagicCrafter 7 жыл бұрын

He. Is. AMAZING! ♥

@hollylove2161 6 жыл бұрын

Hi Brendon, I came across another one of your videos earlier this week. A few short days before I found it, I had a lot of things I didn't like in my life, and I had just made the decision to change it. I had made a couple feeble attempts in the past, but lacked the motivation. This time I decided to start a blog as a way to hold myself accountable and document my journey. I made a promise to myself. Then, a couple days later I came across that video of yours, and it shook me to my very core. It had such a profound impact on me, and everything shifted. I know I will never be the same again. Since then, I have been watching your videos, as well as videos by Jim Rohn, and I have already learned so much in just the span of a week. I look forward to continually learning and working on my personal development. Thank you so much for the work you are doing. It truly does make a difference.

@saketsaini8295 7 жыл бұрын

Your walking around makes it very lively & focused.One of your greatest videos... Big thanks as you choose to share & help, every possible way out.

@JessicaPastura 7 жыл бұрын

Brendon, I just love your style! I love how you, in non-verbal language, are proud to own your goofy and simple personality! For me sense of humor with "innocence" is gold. I mean make people laugh without hurting anyone's feelings, without making fun of others... I've also paid attention to the simple gadgets you use. In the era of technology you still use flip charts and paper when you obviously can afford so much more! You have to be brave to do so. You have to know exactly what your message is. By keeping it simple you get closer to your audience. Sometimes people can't afford being fancy and super high-tech. When we see someone with your amount of success doing that... It gives us the feeling that we don't need lots of stuff to succeed even at a higher level. That what we invest in our minds in addition to our efforts maybe are enough. At least to start out. As an exemple, this is the first video that I've watched in which you use a big TV. And you still managed to do it in a way that this is not the center of your presentation. That you aren't in non-verbal language bragging about how fancy you are. You just rock! I don't know if someone from your team will see this comment and maybe will tell you, but... I wanted to say it anyway :) :) :) It's my attempt to give you feedback and by doing it maybe contribute in any sort of tiny way to someone who, while doing his own game, helped me a ton! Thanks Brendon, keep rocking!

@BrendonBurchard 7 жыл бұрын

I appreciate it! Thank you for noticing!

@IEVAKambarovaite 4 жыл бұрын

Jessica, that's so true. I was watching someone's video thinking I shouldn't continue making videos, because my set up sucks 🤦🏻‍♀️ it's not about the set up or being fancy. It's all about being yourself and helping others.

@monamonsef9654 6 жыл бұрын

Brendon, it's a month I'm watching your videos and the way I think and feel things is changing in a positive way! You are awsome and wonderful. So postive and so natural. Just thanks for being this amazing and helpful!!

@RobAndersonsgoogle 7 жыл бұрын

Watching this on my smart TV currently but had to get on the computer so I could comment! Man, I LOVE this video and really DIG how often you change the way you do things to keep us guessing! The background, changing boards, moving camera, the clothes you are wearing...I know this stuff isn't by accident! :) Very cool video and GREAT CONTENT AS ALWAYS! Thanks Buddy! Take Care -Rob

@IsmaelKizito 7 жыл бұрын

I starter following about 2-3 years ago. I don't watch often but when I do it is always the right word. There is so much passion when you say it it is really powerful

@ufink 7 жыл бұрын

Haha I love listening to you in the morning "Everything is easier said than done!". Exactly what I was thinking. I'm trying to reach a point in my life where l don't want things to be easy because it's in the difficulty that character is built and I have to keep reminding myself that life is about the journey and not the destination!

@gayane_s57575 7 жыл бұрын

I like the way this guy talks. He is both funny and professional. I love his enthusiasm about life! His videos are truly inspiring!

@sattice 4 жыл бұрын

I love your advice, and you ALWAYS make me laugh when you go off on a tangent or mimic people's complaints. Too funny

@SteveZanella 7 жыл бұрын

Improving my self-talk was one of the biggest changes I've ever made in my life. It leads me to change my entire life and push me in an amazing direction. Thanks for sharing this Brendon! I love the videos. :)

@rosenchrige78 7 жыл бұрын

I just had a miserable f!!!!en day at work, with a co-worker who is really convinced that she is so great (kind of a narcissist) and can now put everyone else down (directly insulting them, but behind their backs) who hasnt done "the great deed " that she has..uuggff...really pulled me down made me feel like nothing, and watching your video now, has really helped me to feel like there is a way out of that miserable situation and into a better one that I can feel Ive deserved, basically putting me back on track, so thank ypu and Thank God for positive people who show they genuinely want to help others, besides only themselves, get back on the right track.

@PinkiePi 7 жыл бұрын

Brendon, you are brilliant and your message is always uplifting for me. I am very grateful for your video guidance! Keep it up!

@alejandra04201 7 жыл бұрын

#3 - "You Don't Understand", I didn't realize I was doing this ALL MY LIFE until I started crying when you mentioned this! I DO hold so goddamn much back and I really do need to stop, all my life I have been comparing myself to others & wondering why there life is working out and mines isn't, it is honestly so toxic. I know it may seem like a Small step but I removed my Facebook and Instagram from my life temporarily just to see if I feel more enlightened, since that is where I find myself comparing myself to others the most! Thank you for all these GREAT tips and I hope to better myself each and everyday! 🙂

@alexandraalbertz1442 2 жыл бұрын

I hope you are doing well all these years later

@BensonNModie 7 жыл бұрын

Absolutely brilliant......so simple and basic and yet hugely profound. This is really the piece of understanding needed to effect personal transformation in everyone. Thank you so much Brendon!

@a.mtushaar1356 7 жыл бұрын

hahaha Brendon! this was the fun-nest video of yours, i loved the walking around part. accurate, precise and helpful, will definitely flip my life around!!!! thanks

@terryhatziieremias 7 жыл бұрын

Hey Mr Brendon. Thanks so much for the it took to create this perfect video! Have a nice day!!!!

@Quinn222 7 жыл бұрын

I love the stickeys on the wall...different. Related to 9:04 as I have lost my daughter to suicide and I have listened to Brendon's video about dealing with tragedy many times. Helped me alot. Love ya stuff, Brendon.

@ashleygonzalez583 7 жыл бұрын

I think this video is a huge wakeup call for a lot of people (myself included). Love this video as always Brendon. I'm determined to save enough money to make it to one of your events one day, especially High Performance Academy. Keep doing what you do!

@jackiewin4289 7 жыл бұрын

I think Brendon speaks very truly, passion & well meant to help peoples who are looking to learn, improve, motivation in their lives whenever they get stuck. He uses a few good examples to remind us to try new things and do not give up easily in life.

@ianhunter433 7 жыл бұрын

great video, I don't usually comment on KZfaq videos but this is one of the best videos that I've seen in a while that has to do with personal growth.

@sunna991 7 жыл бұрын

Brenden, you mentioned you are introvert before and you had to try to be more extrovert,,, this touched me. I think labeling myself introvert will just stop my growing in presentation and communication skills. look at you, you are a good example for me! thanks!

@IEVAKambarovaite 4 жыл бұрын

So true!!!

@sandyshorewalker5364 7 жыл бұрын

This video is just what I needs to hear. Thanks I am writing a new list. So encouraged!

@flavioptferreira 6 жыл бұрын

One of the best Brendon videos! Loved it!

@CrisisRescue 7 жыл бұрын

Hey, Brendon - LOVE the added "closed captioning." Will help you reach a broader audience! As always, content is excellent.

@Javern651 7 жыл бұрын

Brendon, thanks for your encouraging words and ideas. I am following you few months ago and although now I am in a very low point in my life, your advice through your videos is one of the very useful tools I try to apply.

@dlivingto 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Brendon...Excellent reminders!

@lambui590 7 жыл бұрын

real breakthrough! Keep up Brendon. It touches me.

@gunjanmodi5130 7 жыл бұрын

You're doing so much good to so many lives ! Read your book "the charge" and I loved it to bits !!! So much that we are planning to organise a fund raising event and have a few speakers go through their experiences , inspired by the structure of your book ... ! Ive told everyone around how much I love the book and how I wish I could meet you in person some day ! If you're going to be on the road this year , I think next year you must plan to fly down to India ! You have lots of love coming from us here ! I hope to see you reach heights that you plan to see yourself at !

@fackrellt21 7 жыл бұрын

Loved this! So excited to see you live in Las Vegas this weekend!

@duruss1736 5 жыл бұрын

Hie brendon your just an Incredible personality Don't stop youtubing for the sake of humanity ....some of us listen to you silently but really deeply resonate with what your saying and it moves us to become more that what we are today

@lisakrushinski9436 7 жыл бұрын

Great video! I love how you turned the statements around at the end!

@RH-ul2bc 7 жыл бұрын

Loved the personal example of introversion and how you had to learn to be more extroverted. Ive heard several coaches say this. I am introverted but actually feel better when i assert myself but sometimes it takes a bit of effort to make it happen. For me the feeling can be (not always) the difference between feeling disempowered vs empowered. Just an observation about myself.

@kbabyO827 7 жыл бұрын

This is exactly what I needed tonight and what I've been struggling. Thank you this could not have came at a better time !

@susansteinhardt8503 7 жыл бұрын

I adore you, Brendon!! Thank you for your wisdom, your energy, your generosity!!

@hagarabdelwahab8108 7 жыл бұрын

This episode is just PERFECT! But I have something that I need to know it's elaboration, I've always believed that everybody has certain abilities and talents which we call sometimes weakness and strength points and also he/she should seek to do the thing which is corresponded with these things, so now how you say everybody can do everything? and also we need an episode about improving communication ways and learn to communicate in different styles. Thank you for your great episodes!!

@scopeout7263 7 жыл бұрын

Thanks Brendon! I'm a new subscriber. I totally agree with everything you've said, it's so true and we should learn and train ourselves to improve and develop.

@naderahparwani815 6 жыл бұрын

Your life really mattered in my life. Love your amazing work.

@samanthasealie1762 7 жыл бұрын

thank you, another brilliant message!

@maipham4766 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Brendon- you motivate me so much to keep being disciplined and working on my dreams 🙏🙏🙏🙏

@akshayraut9264 7 жыл бұрын

i love the way you present or convey it man💖

@abishekkachroo938 7 жыл бұрын

Hi Brendon Thanks man I seriously needed this Searching for job and getting disappointed your videos raised my morale

@greicealavarce2038 7 жыл бұрын

I loooooved It. Thank you!!! You are my eye drops, beyond the teachings 😍😉

@masonsmovies8632 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you for another great video Brendon.

@malyunarab4936 7 жыл бұрын

thank u brendon I learn lot of personal growth. from u thank u again.

@josannehoo9772 6 жыл бұрын

So glad you trusted in the process ☘️

@asooor1998 7 жыл бұрын

I don't know how can you make me cry and laugh at the same time,thank you! That really touched me.

@rosej5029 5 жыл бұрын

He looks like an adult Bobby Brady from Brady bunch.

@thanhnienchannel5306 7 жыл бұрын

Perfect timing, thanks, Brendon ^^

@zodwandara8015 6 жыл бұрын

You are a very unique speaker Brendon Burchard 😃 Great Wisdom you have. Thank you

@zofiamazur8828 7 жыл бұрын

Those are great points! Thanks for these reminders, you countered all my excuses!

@bluethunder5757 7 жыл бұрын

You are heavenly sent! You have help so many people including my self!

@PeterSnauwaert 4 жыл бұрын

Great content Brendon & great enery ! Love it !

@imenimen4525 7 жыл бұрын

A lot of sincerity!! Thanks !!

@tshtshalabade2498 7 жыл бұрын

yes the future will hold good things for me , thanks brendon !

@virtuarte.wesley 6 жыл бұрын

I really like your videos and i have used them to improve my english. Thank you for your advices . I am grateful for It.

@shrutigavval250 5 жыл бұрын

Thank u so much...!! Ur doing a wonderful job👍👍

@ecoliphant 7 жыл бұрын

Positive reprogramming! Loved it!

@taranjeetkaurnahal101 7 жыл бұрын

thank you so much Brendon.....for this wonderful video ....😊

@byarst 6 жыл бұрын

I love Brendon 🤣His teaching is always on point 😊

@KrystenJanzen 7 жыл бұрын

Love you Brendon! Very helpful! As usual !!!!

@jiafujang 7 жыл бұрын

The sentence we all say in my family is "what the use?". I wanted to buy a car and my sister told me "what the use ? you have buses and underground !" (but i did it anyway! even if I let down often!) I'm planing (and wish I could) to achieve my dream (go and work in japan) but I say MYSELF what the use ? you'll be back soon here and everything you would have done will not be useful ! I hate the word "what the use" ? and I tell myself everytime "WHY NOT!"

@MaraBradley 7 жыл бұрын

jiafu jang I'm very familiar with this error in thinking. Don't waste your life, or even one day of it, letting "what's the use" stop you. Do whatever you have to, therapy, hypnosis, self-help books, whatever will work for you, to break that thinking habit. This is your one and only life. Be led by your dreams!

@jiafujang 7 жыл бұрын

Mara Bradley thanks for the great advice !!!! I don't wanna be like my family only talk and dream but never do anything ! I'm working on it 💪💪💪!!

@realallenpope4065 7 жыл бұрын

Don't quit! I never do! 😊👍

@snowygirl131 7 жыл бұрын

"What's the use?"- - because experience is a great teacher.

@jiafujang 7 жыл бұрын

snowygirl131 so right! I love that answer I'll use it 😉😉

@digisavants6182 7 жыл бұрын

I've been learning from you for five years now. Thanks Buddy.

@ABeautifulHorizonTV 7 жыл бұрын

I'm almost at my one year anniversary of being on KZfaq. I know my videos are better than they used to be, but there is still so much to learn and work on! Thanks for the encouragement!

@kan-zee 7 жыл бұрын

💥 *Video time Stamp* 💥 1:15 first dumb thing 3:32 Second dumb thing 7:27 Third dumb thing 11:57 Fourth dumb thing 💥

@Donaatas15 7 жыл бұрын

#1. "I’ve tried everything." #2. “Sure, that works for them, but that wouldn’t work for me.” #3. “You just don’t understand.” #4. “Easier said than done.” video desription works for that too.

@beasty45 7 жыл бұрын

thanx

@abdullahalrasbi9539 7 жыл бұрын

Very useful videos..we have learned many valuable information..that's kind of you bro ..keep it up

@AmberS7676 7 жыл бұрын

I super agree with that, thank you for sharing.. everything's possible

@gulziraamirovna9138 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much....All your videos amazing....

@myzo123098 7 жыл бұрын

Yes yes thanks 4 subtitle so happy for this achievement ur body language and The way u are taking force me to back to ur channel again and again may God guide to the best ameen

@fernwatson 7 жыл бұрын

Really appreciate. Thank you so much.

@etripp111 7 жыл бұрын

Awesome Brendon! Thanks!

@ramdaniouafaa9781 7 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much. I love your videos you are so inspiring. 😊👍💖💚💙

@NoName-bx2ft 7 жыл бұрын

Brendon, u really helped me. thanks sir !!

@terryhatziieremias 7 жыл бұрын

I can give you an explanation to the last one Brendon. It's the Paradox of Knowing - Doing. Or The knowing doing Gap. It has to do with the subconscious mind. The logical mind says ok this is very logical I am gonna do it. The subconscious mind which controls the game says. Hahaha you are gonna do it? With what habbits? With what perspective, I control all of this stuff of you. I hope this helped mate.

@robr.5044 4 жыл бұрын

Great video! I have been saying all of these unconsciously.

@zofiamazur8828 6 жыл бұрын

Those are all right on! Thank you so much for your insight. I will not use those excuses anymore :)

@SkyHighAffirmations 7 жыл бұрын

Great video! I'm guilty of "it works for them but not for me". I think our society pushes the idea that in-born talent carries a lot more weight than practice and experience, creating the idea that only certain people can accomplish certain things.

@jozaythaxton1215 7 жыл бұрын

I love this very precise.

@maysamugharbel3998 7 жыл бұрын

Amazing talk I just love it and I cannot agree more

@shanejones2600 7 жыл бұрын

I learned so much listening to this....once,twice

@lindapick3879 7 жыл бұрын

Always useful. Thank you.

@MsAimm 7 жыл бұрын

Brendon you're the best!

@allaboutbitcoin5310 7 жыл бұрын

dude!!! love the video!!!! love it!!!

@allaboutbitcoin5310 7 жыл бұрын

my email is thebigthingtoday@gmail.com Love to try your 10 steps

@abdullahalrasbi9539 7 жыл бұрын

Best videos ever .. continuous support

@jahnelll 7 жыл бұрын

Love the movement of this video

@dayanaramira1137 7 жыл бұрын

I needed this! 👏🏽

@DirectYourLifenet 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you your gift xxx

@IEVAKambarovaite 4 жыл бұрын

Just finished filming a video for my chanel and I feel it's a bit meh and maybe I shouldn't be doing it at all. This was really helpful, Brendon. Thank you 🙏🏻

@MrSaleh101 7 жыл бұрын

Great one, thanks !

@snowygirl131 7 жыл бұрын

Brendon, I'd LOVE to have your take, your perspective, on EXTERNAL limitations. MY story is one of repeated successes that were then stopped by others. It can be hard to keep "getting up to bat" after (basically) getting fired, being thrown out of homes, physical/psychological abuse.

@trej1123 5 жыл бұрын

This was so needed

@rebeccaoreilly9461 7 жыл бұрын

I guess I can legitimately become a "life coach" now. ...because this is so bizarre to me. I don't compare myself to anyone, I'm 40. that's a child's way of thinking. ....I cannot believe my mom's friend sends me this shit like Im out here making world changes. big-time things. no one knows, but to broadcast would be a problem. ......I wish this guy all the success in the world, and seems he's helping many. I hope he is happy....and it works for him. good job!

@CherisseThibaut 5 жыл бұрын

Your hilarious! Other amazing video thank u!

@newygreek 7 жыл бұрын

this video helped me to create my videos. thanks Brandon

@JoelSSouza 7 жыл бұрын

When people wants to find an explanation for their "procrastination or inertness" nobody can't help them. But when people really focus on finding solutions and on hard work nobody can stop them.