0:38 Dependency. 2:05 Codependency. 3:18 Independency. 5:00 Interdependency.

"The perfect definition of love is to give someone the complete authority to destroy you. But at the same time being confident that they will never do it" - Johnny Bravo

P2G: "Are you in a relationship?" me: "No." P2G: "Congrats!"

I’m definitely been guilty of depending on a loved one but once i honed in on my inner locus of control i realized you dont need to latch on to others rather you can find someone to compliment your own life. Great video 💜

See, I was trying to find out if my relationship was toxic or not out of fear. A lot of the years, I’ve been told how a relationship has to be. At one point, I let go of that expectation and focused on individuality while still being in each other’s presence. It was so exhausting in the past relationships when I couldn’t be myself. It feels refreshing to have an emotional bond with someone who lets me breathe.

It is important to learn self-love (how to love ourselves) before loving others

Love. It’s a form of both weakness and a stronghold relationship.

I definitely fall under independency. I’ve been let down, pushed down, and kicked when I’m down a lot in my life. It’s made intimacy and trust very difficult. Being on the aro/ace spectrum only adds to this. I do enjoy the company of my trusted few but there’s many doubts that spiral through my head telling me the other shoe is going to drop when I least expect it.

Throughout my life I've been basically living independent (even though I live under my family's roof). I've been like I've been like this is because my parents got divorced, me & my elder sister had a falling out, my middle sister keeps using me to do her chores, I've been heartbroken by the girl I've loved, I've been lied to & scammed, and I've lost my grandmother. This keeps reminding me that most of the time, no one's around to help me and I have to do things myself. I'm willing to let people help me, it's just that sometimes it's hard to know whether they really want to help me or not

I tend to overdepend on others, and that first situation has happened to me on several occasions. Each time it hurts a bit more because it always seems to happen when I think I've moved on and can handle that stuff better. I think this dependency might partly be a result of how I was raised, as my father is a pilot I never saw him much, and I am very much like my mother. I also was homeschooled basically until college, so I don't have much social experience compared to everyone else. I tend to hyperfixate on one person for my happiness and then when it grows toxic and they want to break it off (for valid reasons), it's devastating. I've definitely gotten better at handling it, but the fact it is still happening is a bit discouraging. I'm almost 20 and have never once been in a relationship and I don't think I will until I figure this stuff out but I don't know if that will ever happen

This perfectly demonstrates why being confident in who you are is so so important to develop before getting into a relationship!! No body is perfect and growing in self-confidence is a daily practice. But every time you speak up for yourself and assert your boundaries, you are practicing self-respect!! And a healthy relationship leaves room for that :)

0:38 Dependency 2:05 Codependency 3:18 Independency 5:00 Interdependency

i love the anime and fnaf references even more!!! you guys are literally amazing and I’m learning a lot more thanks to your videos, thank tou

Interdependency seems like a myth. Every family member, partner, or significant person I ever let in was hurtful. Independence may be lonely and self-centered but it could be far worse!

First of all, the artwork on the various personality types is 👌🏾. Secondly it would be great to see a video on the independent personality types. The part about not letting others in because you only trust yourself is exactly what I’m going through right now.

The "independency" part sparked a lightbulb in my mind, It all makes sense now. One of my childhood friends listed all those points described, perfectly. This helps me understand them more, I will use it to get through to them easier next time we have troubles. Ty for the video!!

Love is hard to find- but once you find it you fear losing it. Lmao just thought of that

I don't trust people. I always am paranoid that someone is talking behind my back or plotting against me. As a result, any relationship I have had has never gone beyond hugs. I never make any moves because I fear that I am moving too fast, even when the relationship is over seven months old. So that is why I ended up living alone, in the middle of a forest, going weeks without seeing another human being. It makes me miserable, but it's where I am.

I don't find it bad to push away people after bad experiences. I feel more safe.

hm. wonder why this is unlisted welp, its no longer unlisted okay

I relate with the Independency type of "Love" and would love to change to Interdependency. Thanks for breaking down these types of "Love" now I know where i am. Thanks Again

The Kuroo and Kenma thing... So wholesome And then out of nowhere FREDDY FAZBEAR BONNIE

You forgot Number 5: The Kind of Love that doesnt exist. Because you dont have a partner. *cries in the background*

The art and the animation is great! It helps me understand a bit more, and also makes the video quite entertaining!! Keep it up! If anyone cares, I think I'm in the interdependency group :D

The perfect relationship seems seldom. I envy those couples who have known each other from youth to being elder.

This is the earliest I'll ever be

I’m just getting out of a relationship with someone who was super independent to a fault. It was hard for me bc he never really allowed me to get to close to him. I feel like bc we couldn’t find how to communicate with each other in a positive way, our relationship and connection suffered resulting in us not being able to trust each other. I take full responsibility for my part in everything. I tried until I couldn’t try any longer. I walked away.

Your team did GREAT on this episode! Love Kami’s animation work here!

This artstyle is my favorite so far great hair it feels wobbly and full of life and the expressions are really good

Wow, I’m very glad I have a interdependency relationship:) Thank you for this video!! It really cleared some things up for me. Wishing all the people good luck on finding your person😊

YOUR VOICE IS SO CALMING LIKE I CANT STOP LISTENING I LOVE THESE VIDEOS SO MUCH ISTG😭♥️

The right way to love and care starts with the love and confidence in the self. :)

I see well this explains that not every first sight of love we’ll be a lasting one! This helps me move on!

I'll be honest most of these videos dont relate to me at all but i keep watching purely because of the voice lol

I had a 2 year relationship with a dependent person who was very sweet and kind, but couldn’t make decisions on her own. I tried very hard to make the big decisions and help her as much as I could. I didn’t mind it then, but eventually she started to feel like she could do things on her own and we broke up. I know I didn’t do anything WRONG per se, but in retrospect I probably should have tried to help her feel less dependent through the relationship rather than solve all the issues for her. I think she walked out on a relationship with incredible potential, but now I know to look for someone with a stronger sense of self and individuality

Me, depend on other people??? 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I never make that mistake. I know the only person I can truly rely on is me. People have failed me too many times for me to be stupid enough to depend on them. I don't need people or trust them, because that's the truth.

I subscribed to these guys yesterday they help me fight through my depression and anxiety thx guys 😃 I just feel like myself again so thx for the positive talk I just feel a little sad that my friend has a two week therapy trip I will miss her I cried for like 2 hours last night but I got over it :)

Thank you for mentioning toxic independence, Tucker often shows signs of this... we(mostly Holly) have pushed him little by little to open up a bit more open though 😞🙁😔 ~Mason

I love your videos, they really help me understanding some things better. The art helps understanding it even better, and I love the freddy and Bonnie at 5:01 ^^

Unrelated but oh my gosh ur animation style is so dang adorable! X3

This is the best art syle i seen in awhile

I'm codependent, but when someone else doesn't trust me, my neediness comes out. He's independent and afraid. We feel the same but he doesn't trust me, and I don't want the other people to know what's going on between us. He disappears for a week or two every now and then, but when we have actual conversations he reminds me how he feels. Things are really complicated outside of us and that's making our reactions complicated too. I sometimes wonder if he still feels the same way because he doesn't trust me enough to show me how he loves. Psy can you please reply and give me the best response you can. I don't know how to handle this.

For the people (male) I've been with. I'm the one with the perspective with the open expressive self I do share my expierence or talk about. As far as anything else though. I'm not the one who becomes horriblely corrupt or toxic. That isn't me at all. It would be nothing more then dark or selfish desires because people wouldn't care. Seriously no one is perfect. You just have to be yourself. No need to go so far to really be over the top. You will have your own growth. I've done with suffering through abuse from heartless people

As always, well done!! Thank you so much!! 👏💕😘

wow thanks a lot your work is awesome and has helped me so many times. keep it up :D

Well as a Person who literally sit still on bed and depressed, I was actually seeking a relationship for once and I quickly disregard that when I quickly check what kind of person I am. Tbh I've seen some of my friends with relationship. One is Really Pursue his relationship, One Broke up but tried to fix everything, One is Dominated, and One is already Made a Huge Mistake for Moving the Relationship to Quickly. The things I saw, the things I've Heard is making Doubt my Own Capability to hold a Relationship knowing that Myself Putting a Facade and Lies to my Friends and Distance myself from them. I can never really see myself creating a Healthy Relationship with My Rotten Core. Well I might tear myself up but that's okay rather than Use someone else like. In the end of the Day I will Experience it someday in someways or another.

Yeah... I suffer from independency. I have trust issues, hate bothering others, and often try to do everything myself. That might be why I'm 34 and still single.

I had a relationship where all I did was give, give, and give. The next I got dump. Lesson learned.

I rather let my feelings be a mystery and let people learn about me instead of me trying to tell them who I am but I'm always willing to get to know one another, like asking questions about the person I'll be with one day... I am not dependent because I've been single in my 17 years of living and I've learned that no one will be there in life one day and so I'm prepared for that, I'm the type to not be a narcissist because I've hurt some narcissists mentally, I'm independent but sort of because I've even asked for help with many things, now interdependence or something like that I'm not sure I'll ever experience unless there is some love left on this world 🙁

Thank you for all your effort and all your help to me and others! You have helped me to find out how I need help and support!! Again thank you❤

LOVE your videos! As a fairly happy (I'm only human😋)single female who has been celibate for over 20yrs, I have to confess- I watch most clips like these to CONFIRM that I have made the Right Decision For Me. 🤗😍🙄😏 After so much heartbreak, therapy, counseling, betrayal and abuse while trying to find someone TO LOVE & WHO WOULD LOVE ME- I finally found the courage to CHOOSE ME. It's RARE to find someone/anyone like the composites you describe as HEALTHY. Heck, IT'S HARD TO PERSONALLY BE HEALTHY YOURSELF!🤣😂😀😆😅😃🤗 Unfortunately the other harmful, destructive, toxic, incompatible, desperate, UNHEALTHY examples have absolutely been in my life as Family, Friends, Co-workers and Lovers. I just got emotionally exhausted, physically sick and realized that I was wasting my Life chasing a Dream that doesn't HAVE TO COME TRUE. Once I allowed myself to TRULY see myself as an Individual Spirit who LOVES HERSELF and does not need any woman or man to "complete me" and that I'd never have kids and would die alone in my old age (I try NOT to lie to myself) I started ACTUALLY having a blast! Traveling through Europe, climbed Egyptian Pyramids, became Fairy Goddess Mother to countless youths and yes, I SPOIL MY CAT. 😙😺😙 I already got my eco friendly body disposal plan thanks to Covid Apocalypse hysteria so......... I am still gonna have fun and do me til I can't no more. I LOVE MY SELF NOW that I am NOT forever thinking about WHY I am NOT lovable, not attractive, what's wrong with me, or what's the deal with the other person........ I honestly wish & hope EVERYONE who wants to be loved by someone else gets their needs met. I DO. I have just lived and tried long enough to understand and sadly come to the conclusion that NOT EVERYBODY GETS A HAPPILY EVER AFTER. NOT EVERYONE RECEIVES THE LOVE, RESPECT OR HUMAN KINDNESS THEY DESERVE. And worse, hardest pill to swallow---- I am one of those unlucky people. But I think the sooner single dynamic people LET GO & MOVE ONE WITH THEIR LIVES, the sooner they CAN CHANGE THEIR LUCK FOR THE BETTER cause ALL the PASSION, MENTAL/EMOTIONAL ENERGY, TIME & MONEY spent on finding a mate or being in a relationship will be then FOCUSED ON THEMSELVES, hopefully for good, positive Life Experiences and Self Development. It could happen! 🙄🤓💘💋💖

I'm very happy to realize I have healthy friendships I feel like we may sometimes have too much dependency but we got the healthy boundaries and all

I love how yall put fandoms into animations.

i am LIVING for the references in here :) i love psych2go for this very reason ahhh

One type of love is missed in the video. It is the love that almost everyone has for someone else. It is fake love. The users, traitors, and abusers exercise this type of love extremely effectively. They fool millions of people a day. I, myself, fell victim to one of these social predators. She used fake love to lure me into her trap.

You just made my day by puting hanako and yashiro in this

The references in these animations keep me happy.

I love this style!

I was in a co dependent relationship and he was narcissistic and I only served to feed his ego and he was never giving anything back. I had to ask him every day does he love me and why doesn't he show it or say it more and that says a LOT. Until I've realized "I won't put up with this BS anymore and I deserve more and he's so beneath me and doesn't actually deserve me" so I kicked him out of my life and since then I really don't trust anyone and thinking about it I don't need ANYONE to be happy. I make myself happy and fulfilled. Everyone else is just fake or would just drag me down or make me lose myself again and become that weakling. NEVER AGAIN!

So interesting!!

I was about to subscribe but then realized I was already subscribed LOL

Simply put it, every type of relationship needs balance.

Thanks for making videos your the best😁

So much to learn.. I love to.learn.. another reason to smile

Okay. You made me 2x more happy then normal. Because I am big fan of Five nights at Freddys :D

Your videos help me focus a lot

Wow the first one is really spot on ! My ex was dependent of me and it really finished like it said. I break up with him caused I just needed to breath. I just couldn't go on anymore. It took 6years for me to reach that point but seriously it's the best decision I've made.

I really liked when back in the day y'all put surveys in every video! Yk you had to tap on the ℹ that popped up in the top right corner and you could vote for the answer that you most related to. I thought it was always interesting to see the percentages to the answers. Can you start that again pleaseeee ?

I feel like I have a lot of co-dependant relationships with friends (me being the narc) and now I want to look at them and just tell them that they have to find happiness for themselves and I want to be there the whole tome supporting them! It sounds really hard to do though :(

Hello Psych2go! I love this video so much that their are 2 things I have in me in the most. Its Interdependency and independence Edit: thanks for the 5 likes

The beauty of balance ⚖️

def the independency. I am independent, can do things myself, even though others don't want me to do things alone. I am very much a loner / prefer to keep to myself / my hobbies. Others are often inconsiderate about my boundaries.

I love how dependency is Nene and Hanako

I always like watching these videos. I actually learned that im a psychopathic loner from it. Good Learn.

Doomslayer: "I love demons in a usual type of way..." *Pumps Shotgun* *Rip N Tear ♡*

I think I don’t reject humans I just find too hard to love someone. I Have some friends that’s all.

This vid, made me reflect. Love your videos. Is it common to flip in these scenarios?

I havent been this early since the channel was only 10k subs

3:18 is that Kenma and Kuroo from Haikyu? love how yall use fandoms to reach people who need the advice most. keep up the good work :D

Wow. Who would’ve guessed? I’ve never seen FNAF references on this channel until now. That’s awesome!

Thank you.

I love the little referenced drawin in the videos.

cool animation, finally ;)

Ahh yes, relationship. Never been in one in 17 years and may never be in one after 18

Nailed it. I'm #3. Forged by trauma 😎👍 Also, I thought that you wrote "shave" instead of "share" in that basket and thought to myself "Wow, I'm not supposed to shave by myself?" Lol

@psych2go I am hooked on your channel. What do you know about Betrayal Trauma? I'd love to learn more if you're willing to make a video on it. If not, I still love everything about your content. Thank you for your positive and supportive creations☺❤

I came here thinking it was about love languages and instead came out feeling like I have a little bit of everything here (thankfully also including the last one)

Great animation

Help me out, please... I fall under the independency category and while I know this can be toxic, I have no motivation to change it. See, I am *always* available for the people in my life and I'd gladly help them out the best way I can. But when it all comes down to me, I feel like I'm the only one who can fix myself and even though I know my best friends are always there for me, I try not to lean too much on them and end up not leaning at all. Every person that I let in, in the past, has abused my trust and made me regret meeting them. That's why I have serious trust issues and while I truly trust my best friend and know she loves me a lot, some part of me is extremely scared of the possibility of her leaving me one day. I know I'll break down that day. All the toxic friendships I've had before her, took me for granted, made me feel like I was expecting too much while I was only asking for the bare minimum, and made me feel like I was weak when I turned to them with my problems. I had started to isolate myself in my lowest moments and that was somehow peaceful; knowing I wouldn't have to explain my feelings or hear something that would hurt me further. And now it's a habit. Is independency really such a bad thing? If I'm there for the people I love but I'm okay with figuring out my own mess alone, is it really such a bad thing? I was made to feel like I was clingy for wanting to spend some time with them in my previous toxic friendships and while I'm aware my best friends love me a lot, I don't want to mess up and lose them. Help me out... I'm shit-scared of losing them and idk if my methods are harming me and our relationship.

I have been in a lot of relationship ..I can say that I have grown a lot ..and thanks to this that I have recently found I can grow even more ..but right now I am in an indepence *sorry if I got it wrong relationship my bf been thought some stuff in the past and he doesn't like to open up..he acts *almost * like the character on the screen

Great video . I am definitely the independent one i don't trust any one because of a troma and i don't know how to stop it . What if when i stop not trusting again something will happen.

I'm the too independent one but I am going to change because its true if you push people away then you'll end up alone

I think this is spot on but I wouldn’t always label a dependent person as not being able to make decisions for themselves or need their partner to control everything in their life. As a person who tends to be dependent in a relationship I still have enough confidence to make my own choices in life. I love to give my partner space and try not to get clingy. However as long as I don’t come across as helpless it’s kinda nice to rely on your partner for some things. Not in a toxic way more so telling my partner what food I’d like before we go out to eat because I get shy. Small stuff like that. I think dependency can be toxic in some circumstances but being a dependent person isn’t always a bad thing as long as you are balanced with it.

The 3rd one but not too shut out yet. 4 as well but with the right person. People can bring problems, be careful out there

Family/friend: who are you Me: "an agent of chaos"

I love the fnaf fan art, and I love your chanel it is sooooooo helpful and i can learn so mutch frome your vidios. Plezzz do never stop making vidios. Love you guys and have a nice day, weeke, month, year and life 🥰sorry for bad spelling I have dyslexia

I'm independent in a bad way. Well, I knew that, and I know I need interaction, even though I think I don't want it.

After my breakup I am 100% independent. Whilst single is the best to be independent. You still can be too independent, though, as you still have, well, friends. You’ll also have to be open to the idea of becoming more dependent if you ever get into a romantic relationship.

5:02 I really liked the Freddy and Bonnie picture, it makes me remember the first games :D

Love the animations