look who's here!!

Yep, unless a girl has genuine desire for you, why bother? And yes, understand and be able to gauge attraction levels. You want a girl who is a wee bit more into you than you are into her.

That attitude will land you with an unattractive girl.

@@jleano609 I never find that with attractive girls.

L Lance it did happen to me when I was younger I had hotties wanting me. It’s changed as I’ve got older not so frequent.

You are correct about one thing, it is a game!

exactly

Sad but true. Unless rare cases where the other person is mature enough to not need to play games because they are self confident.

Yep, and that's so sad. Whatever happened to sincere people (like me) who don't put up walls and allow themselves to be vulnerable when they meet someone awesome with whom they click?

@@tkleo2006 amen!!

Spot on!!!

If you have to chase because chase means the drive for something, chase power and authority. Although I am a college kid but I do understand the biological and evolutionary categorical imperatives. First, you can't be someone who has all the women in option, there is no such thing. But you can have Socio economic status comprising a good income, better lifestyle, health and yeah a decent car. It will open more doors from the women. And if you have GAME and plus the Socio economic status and you are Verile then my lad you will get laid everyday. But you wouldn't want that would you? Because you seem like a good guy, but too good makes you a doormat.* Pet a Dog * Make eye contacts with strangers men women both * Learn to be ALONE and not Lonely. ( if you aren't blissful alone then you are in a wrong company ) *Have a routine, You may look average but with muscles it will enhance your Attraction * Have a decent Scent * Last but make sure you follow through, if you have a kind face and a nice guy, throw hints of Evil and devilish nature. I said hints not the whole pretended face. Balance like yin yang. ( Cheerios, just a geek making conversation )

Yea. Lotta dudes never think about that part. You chasing implies that but we are so focused on the chase that we don't stop and think "Wait. She's running. This is stupid." *goes home*

Just show what you have.....money , she will chase you.

@@eshwarashawn4493 No not true, Yeah money can be a predictor or marker for Hardwork, utility and Intelligence. But will any woman be attracted to man who inherited a massive wealth from his parents and is on no use? Is dumb, not hardworking, not intellectual, not persistent, hence bearing inexperience of life but is 6 feet tall great looking and good shape. Believe me, apart from Niki minaj and Cardi B types, no woman will stand him of his money for a single day. Don't take women lightly They can sniff anything out of you.

🤣🤣🤣

Love Rodney

Who was Nobody?

Bruh

wow

YOOOO LMFAOOOOO!!! WHY IS THAT SOO TRUE!

HAHAHAHA

What..lmfao

If you got a laugh out of Courtney, you're on the right track.

So true LOL.

Never tell a girl you like her

Well said...

And what makes you a king?

@@rascal211 focusing on yourself and your purpose, do that and the ladies follow

So true

Correct, old school dating coaches like Doc Love focus on attraction levels. Before she meets you a girl has 50% attraction in you. She neither likes or dislikes you, cos she doesn’t know you. When she meets you if she’s attracted she is now at >50% and that’s good, because with game you can boost that and get it to 80-90% (any more than that is unhealthy obsession and suggests she has issues and is in fact a red flag). But here’s the flip side. If she doesn’t like you from the jump or you do something to turn her off and her attraction dips to below 50%, YOU ARE OUT. There is NOTHING you can do long term to recover back to >50% and you should walk away and put your energy elsewhere. This is why you should never chase an Ex, or pursue a girl who has flaked on you, or a girl who is “confused” and doesn’t know what she wants. If her attraction is good she’ll make it easy for you, if not you are circling the drain!

@@jleano609 this maybe generally true, woman's sub conscious and conscious are emotionally tied... there have been girls attached to guys and then see them with other women and fall in love with them after pushing them away...

@@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 Indeed, but there I would argue that either..... 1. Attraction was initially only 50-60%, i.e. still fairly neutral (and maybe she had a better option at the time) but then the 3rd party validation of another girl being with him spiked her attraction level higher. 2. It dipped to

BOOM!

Which completely ruins the whole thing because you basically have to just not actually love her in order to not be stepped on.

Unless you are lucky enough to have meet a woman like the women I've had significant relationships with, who loved the way I treated them "like a celebrity" and treated me equally well. Unfortunately, they all wanted different things in life (children) or had issues I couldn't deal with. But yeah, I recognize that women like them are the rare exceptions, sadly

@@rickterrance4981 exactly, and that's not a healthy relationship, at all

Only if you're good looking. An average looking or ugly man shouldn't even bother with attractive women most of the time, because they will only get insulted or talked badly about behind their back.

@@Dude-oh8vq unless he's hitting on a female cosplayer. For some reason, I found the hot girls in that community had a thing for average or less than average looking guys, as long as they were also geeky/nerdy. My theory is that some women like to be the center of attention (in all walks of life, for that matter), so they "date down."

Broken society....promiscuous alpha widows, chads, and bulk of sexless men. Look into the mouse experiment.

OMG!!! So true. No one ever was attracted to me and I never found a connection with anyone. I know my shortcomings and I’m below average in the looks department. However one day a woman showed an interest in me and it was literally magic for me.

pretty much true, its when someone might show interest as a lot of men dont get any kind of attention from women. not like with women who get a lot of attention from men,

Facts. Definitely agree

Damn I know you feel a certain way about her

That's limerence guys. It ain't easy to "stop chasing." I feel you.

Lol why would you do that? 😂

@@josephmontezuma5089 and this is why men don't share their feelings ._.

@@DeividZomberGuy i feel You bro, iv been a year and a half chasing a girl whos only playin around... Today i decides to quit.... And yeah, i don't know what hurt the most: chasing her or stop chasing her😓

That’s right! 👍👏

for some this meand waiting their whole life. One needs to be strategic about your idea, then your idea works. For example founding a group where you invite 10 men and 10 women and you teach everyone bow and arrow skills. This will autimatically pull the most suiting female towards you. But without this, it could take VERY long.

What do you guys think is more common? Like attracts, or opposites attract?

@@kushlivin Likes attract for LTR, opposites attract for sex.

@@kushlivin for ONS it’s opposites. For marriage it’s like attracts like.

If there is no response or reciprocation, you are wasting your time and life. Don't ever do it. Your life is too precious to waste on some body who is not bothered about you.

Somewhat ironic……..

@@Jsinebdjsmdbej Will Smith ain't no simp.

What if you in the girl live by this quote? I guess both of you won’t chase each other lol

Says the man who simped over an unfaithful wife.

WORD

she doesnt, shes just trying to profit off u losers

Yes, she does. But she didn’t expect to hear about the MGTOW disasters… she’s only 25. She doesn’t even realize how spiritually connected she is to her boyfriend of three years who is actually her common-law husband. She IS a do-gooder and really does care about doing the right thing.

She is hustling my G. 🤷🏻‍♂️

@@alivensyde5484 Overly whiny and cynical. I feel sorry for you. You redpillers spend all this time bitching about women never understand you but the second that a women shows up and attempts to make an effort to sympathize with you, you defame her. Clowns.

Hahaha dont fool yourself. She dont care about you at all or any of us. She is just making profit and playing games with other man in her life.

If she likes my friendlies I'll ask her out if she can't I won't speak to her again

No is the easy part. The problem is when they say yes. They don't really want you, but they'll let you spend money on them.

actually part of the problem is most women are overweight now days so if she is even remotely cute she is going to have an insanely high ego. What is a 7 today was common as dirt 50 years ago. That goes for both genders. Both genders have a lot to answer for when it comes to taking care of themselves.

"Thier are so many attractive women out there". Lol. Not even close the majority are overweight so your statement would be false.

I’m in the U.K. not obese America. I see attractive women every day.

What if I don’t wanna improve myself anymore and actually wanna start dating? 😔

@@Spicy3ango that's true. At some point, you want a relationship, sex as it is a basic human need.

True dude! Nothing more important than your self! Carve it on your mind.

Diego, you're right 1000% 👌

Yeah dating is obsolete

I'm not over religious but can I get an amen for that!

Hey you dropped this my guy 👑

I want her to come back not because I love her but so that I can take my revenge.

I stopped chasing for a year. Lost 40 lbs, got in shape and finances improved. Who would of thought huh? Lol. Every guy should do that. Take breaks from women, and focus on YOURSELF! 👍🏼

@@restless821 buddy, that sounds like you’re coming from a place of pain. I’m sorry you’re going through that. But bitterness is one of the most weakening and unattractive habits to develop. Stop that.

WORDS there Saul! I am in the same process now so :)

I acknowledged a young woman who showed interest in me. Then she played hard to get. So I immediately dropped her. Then she showed interest in me. Repeat ad nauseum. Then I decided to let her have it. I chased her about four days. Not because I was interested in her, I was interested in telling her off! I finally got her on the phone and unloaded on her. Never done that to a woman before or since (it was 1979) but it was a necessary action. About that same era, time I asked a young lady (just friends) to a concert. She was acting weird about the invite. No problem I thought but it was last minute and I had two tickets. Asked my sister if she wanted to go. Back then she looked a lot like a young Elizabeth Taylor. When we walked in, the young lady I had asked was in the lobby. She had no idea who my sister was (home from school for the summer and we traveled in different circles) and her jaw literally HIT THE FLOOR! Get weird on me? Well go and figure that one out! It was wonderful.

They all play games. OK, maybe somewhere there is one that doesn't.

Yes had a couple actually get mad “bc I gave up” or at least that’s what I was told lol If you aren’t interested when I initiate contact, I move on. Don’t need friends I have plenty, and don’t have time to play games. Btw if they drop some stuff like “I’m just looking for a friend” just know they want to keep you around bc they are lonely and probably banging at least one other guy who won’t commit.

True true true!

LOL we have all been cringy at some point I imagine 😂😂

Omg I think about me as a 20 year old in college before I woke up after a chick I was with for 1.5 years “destroyed me” and thank god I had a friend who snapped me out of it quick. Never acted like that again.

Dude, I'm 29 and I fucked up in this was a few months ago, and this is after years getting to know this aspect of life better. It was so vary cringe. The worst part is I should have know better. Gah, I learned my lesson in a bad way. At least I won't forget it.

I stopped this by the time I was 20. I started chasing at the end of 4th grade I was stuck on this girl until the end of 6th grade! 😂🤦‍♂️ After that I got over her and went after other girls. I’d stay hooked on them for months until switching to another. But the last straw came at the end of high school. On my 20th birthday I found out she already had a bf. At that point I started becoming more aware and try to be more knowledgeable about who is worth my time and effort and who isn’t. Believe me, I’ve ran into many who weren’t

Same here. I put my ex on a pedestal and bent over backwards for her when she was going through hard times. Apparently, I did too much and she left. Tried really hard to win her back. Turns out, she pulled back because she was looking to monkey branch. I wish I would have kept my dignity and accepted the loss. No person is worth unreciprocated effort.

Hey man, it happens to most of us. It sucks but its a good lesson. Good luck moving forward!

Yup...I'm a 64 year old guy that was fixated for a while on this late forties exotic beauty that works with me....she's never been married.....after getting to "know her" better...I realized she is/was just a Chad chasing egomaniac.... I just shifted back to my passions....I learned to close the door...feels great..

What most simps, feminist fe/males, white-knights, betas and conservative guys fail to realize: bad boys provide excitement, novelty, unpredictability and fun (fear, roller-coaster drama) to a new level. In other words, stability and commitment (no longer) won't cut it for today's 🦄. Why is that? Before she was your girlfriend, wife or lover, she already had been "run through" so many guys. And each time she slept with someone (both wo/men), she lost a part of her psyche, well-being or mind/soul/spirit. In other words, she is no longer able to have emotional attachment in a healthy or committed way. Cardi B. artist & role model for black Americans (Latinas & Whites aren't far behind): “My music is always going to make a woman feel like a bad bitch. When you make a woman feel like she’s the baddest bitch in the room, to me, that’s female empowerment.” Feminist's Ideology from Sheryl Sandberg, chief operating officer of Facebook: "My advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier." Isaiah 3:12 *Childish* leaders oppress my people, and *women* rule over them. O my people, your leaders mislead you; they send you down the wrong road. Proverbs 31:3 Don't give your strength (attention, resources, mental point origen) to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings. Ezekiel 23:20 There she lusted after her lovers, whose genitals were like those of donkeys and whose emission was like that of horses. *Sex and Culture* by Joseph Daniel Unwin *The Rational Male Series* by Rollo Tomassi *The Manipulated Man* by Esther Vilar *The Myth of Male Power* by Warren Farrell *The Feminist Lie: It Was Never About Equality* by Bob Lewis *Anatomy of Female Power* by Chinweizu Ibekwe *Men on Strike* by Helen Smith *Silent Weapons for Quiet Wars: An Introductory Programing Manual* by Anonymous 🕊💚🙋🏻‍♂️

​@@SSGTA440what's that

😂 rise and shine

In my country, Courtney's video are at 17pm

😅😅😅 Nothing like a hottie telling you to get your crap together.

@@blindluck3643 she won’t reply bro

@Mesut Özil she might. Might not. Either way, that's not why he commented.

Believe me friend. As a man ages the odds turn in his favor. If you take care of yourself and your finances women will flood to you.

Some women just enjoy the attention for an ego boost (same for men). When I was in college I had a male roommate I was good friends with, he was getting obsessed with this one girl and even buying her random gifts "just because". So I went to a venue with friends and where she was and watched her and then watched her with my friend. Then I laid it on the line for him: she is using you. She is doing NOTHING except laughing and flirting with you and giving you a short ego boost but everything is about her. She doesn't really care about you and there is NO romantic interest. She had plenty of male attention all the time. I think I told him to ask her to do a very simple easy thing FOR HIM. Of course she didn't do it and she also got annoyed wirh him for not being at her beck and call. He finally cut the cord and stopped constantly trying to please her (he always went to her apartment for example to see her, she never came to ours). Anyway, he was mad for a while and then met a great girl who really liked him and they had a great relationship. I hated that she was giving him the run around and getting his hopes up when it was clear she wasn't interested.

@@beautifulspirit7420 😢 How can people be so cruel?

@@marlonmoncrieffe0728 same happend to me, don't know why people do this, its better to walk away, and improve youre self

They are also thinking similar about chasing men, lol. Working hard & being a good person is what's truly important.

For me it was around 28, I discovered I like making money and being on my own. I am now 42 and nothing has changed. No Interest in dating, sex or allowing anyone into my space.

Spot on

Agreed!!

This is so on point!

Direct game is the best game, it was my style back in my 20s before Mrs Leano arrived. You need pretty high SMV but it sure saves a lot of time.

I agree with you. Same for me. I’m single and do my own thing. No one to stress about either. If it’s meant to happen, it will.

Correct

Exactly

Agreed.

Been there done that!!!

A woman you just met/ are dating for a short time, absolutely. If your WIFE isn’t your priority, that’s why you’re in family court lol

You're right but why do they always ignore the good ones

Or crazy. Just be smart about things and watch out for red flags.

Sometimes if they do pursue, they aren’t worth it. May even be crazy. Happened to me. I wasn’t interested in her, but took a chance anyways to see if maybe I might grow on her. Thought I did for while but friends and family noticed she was bad news. It took a time of her being jealous of me spending time with my friends and other drama that enough was enough.

@@Dj.D25 true. I guess the main point I was trying to get across was to not waste time on a woman who clearly has no interest.

You wrote a thesis paper for a girl? She ain't worth it dawg😆😆

@@tfkvng3187 Now I know

Do this after you’re with them though. Remember after you get then, they love shit like this. Don’t do much boyfriend stuff before you’re at least going on some steady dates

Yea I gotta do that. Same shit. It hurts to know that but it's damaging to myself Esteem to chase

It's hard to hear but when someone really likes you (male or female) its effortless, they want to be with you and make sure they are available. You really don't want to be with someone who doesn't want you! Block her number and move on.

dont hate ur self, theres a lotta girls out there man why give up ?

@@marekhiandbye5363 most are narcissistic, egotistical 304s so why should bother if I'm going to get screwed over. I'll just worry about myself

My guy first what you need to do is "stop forgetting about yourself" and learn to love and respect yourself better!, you too are amazing too you just been giving attention and focusing on other unnecessary things that you forget about yourself. but.. the reality of it is you come first then women are extra just be yourself I know, because I do this the more you don't care the more things come to you the less attention you give them the more they'll want you. And just so you know women's weakness is being ignored it don't matter who ignores them it drops and destroys their ego rapidly try it it's fun to do and watch they can't handle being ignored.

Agree

Even if you get a women she'll always be looking to trade up. Most women go after the top 5% of guys. The next 15% of guys get a little action. All the other guys get crumbs. It's just not worth it.

The same exact thing happens to me. I dress nice, smile, well kept and showered etc. Still, whenever I try to talk to women it's all superficial. None of them are even slightly curious about me. I'm a good catch for someone out there but haven't run into anything worthwhile yet. I'm 42, own my business, have good income and a lot of nice toys to play with such as motorcycles and boats. I've given up looking too. Tried Bumble, match, okcupid, tinder, none of them produced anything. This swipe right if you like my first picture game is a bunch of garbage. Even after you send them a message 99% of the time I still get ghosted. Not sure what I'm doing wrong here but something's gotta give.

@Mike Simms It's the 80/20 rule my dude. 80% of the women chase the top 20% of men, it's 90/10 in some cases. If you're not one of the top 10-20% of men, most (not all but most) women won't even give you a passing glance. Just don't even chase women to begin with, chase excellence and be the best version of yourself that you can be and the women will follow if you know what you're doing.

@Mike Simms Also don't forget the rise of the internet, social media, and smart phones that have dating apps that make finding a Chad literally a swipe away. An attractive woman nowadays has a number of guys in her phone that she's dealing with guaranteed.

What most simps, feminist fe/males, white-knights, betas and conservative guys fail to realize: bad boys provide excitement, novelty, unpredictability and fun (fear, roller-coaster drama) to a new level. In other words, stability and commitment (no longer) won't cut it for today's 🦄. Why is that? Before she was your girlfriend, wife or lover, she already had been "run through" so many guys. And each time she slept with someone (both wo/men), she lost a part of her psyche, well-being or mind/soul/spirit. In other words, she is no longer able to have emotional attachment in a healthy or committed way. Cardi B. artist & role model for black Americans (Latinas & Whites aren't far behind): “My music is always going to make a woman feel like a bad bitch. When you make a woman feel like she’s the baddest bitch in the room, to me, that’s female empowerment.” Feminist's Ideology from Sheryl Sandberg, chief operating officer of Facebook: "My advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier." Isaiah 3:12 *Childish* leaders oppress my people, and *women* rule over them. O my people, your leaders mislead you; they send you down the wrong road. Proverbs 31:3 Don't give your strength (attention, resources, mental point origen) to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings. Ezekiel 23:20 There she lusted after her lovers, whose genitals were like those of donkeys and whose emission was like that of horses. *Sex and Culture* by Joseph Daniel Unwin *The Rational Male Series* by Rollo Tomassi *The Manipulated Man* by Esther Vilar *The Myth of Male Power* by Warren Farrell *The Feminist Lie: It Was Never About Equality* by Bob Lewis *Anatomy of Female Power* by Chinweizu Ibekwe *Men on Strike* by Helen Smith *Silent Weapons for Quiet Wars: An Introductory Programing Manual* by Anonymous 🕊💚🙋🏻‍♂️

I agree with your perspective. Women (and men, for that matter) are too savvy and sophisticated (thanks to 24-hour news and social media) to be naive enough to be snared by such a chase. They simply know too much and have a game to match any game you may come up with.

Thank you so much!

Yea I feel I'm starting to do that

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Great point

Please stop making such bullshit points,anyone can do selecting and choosing.