4 Things to Help You Move Forward from Feeling Sorry for the Narcissist

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4 Things to Help You Move Forward from Feeling Sorry for the Narcissist

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Жыл бұрын

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@anniegreen83 Жыл бұрын

It took me a long time to realize that my narcissist husband cares 0% about me, but cares 100% about what I can do for him.

@suzannemitchell560 Жыл бұрын

He is sending me sad messages about being sorry for stealing from me and cheating on me. He just wants to talk. This is after 3 months of discard over the Holidays!! I blocked him. Period. Not doing this anymore. 😊

@COD4JESSE Жыл бұрын

It sucks. It really sucks when it turns out that the person you know, isn’t the person they led you to believe they were. But it’s almost validating and reassuring to know you are smart enough and value yourself enough to know when to walk away from a toxic person, like this.

@JA-td3my 2 ай бұрын

Good job!! You are strong and you deserve better!!!

@dime7612 Жыл бұрын

I’m beginning to realize unhealthy love is just attachment. Healthy love is care. Sooooo. Choose people you can care about that care about you too.

@debralondon2402 Жыл бұрын

So true

@DoubleRainbows-fp6ih 8 ай бұрын

Brilliant. Thanks

@minnae.1747 Жыл бұрын

Sometimes I feel sorry for a narcissist when I can get above their behaviour and I look at them as a "child" who can't see their own behaviour.

@bettycarmella1127 Жыл бұрын

Yep. I feel deeply sorry for his childhood, but I had to chose me. I come from a background of trauma too, I get it but I CHOSE not to allow my past to dictate my future ❤️

@lolokitten3 Жыл бұрын

Same.

@debralondon2402 Жыл бұрын

Amen

@drlarrymitchell Жыл бұрын

It occurs to me now that anytime I left someone, due to their crappy behavior, I always got a guilt trip from them- even years after the fact- despite the fact that these very same people would never feel a moment of guilt for having mistreated me.

@jenniesen8408 Жыл бұрын

This is a great video. I did feel that way because I know his childhood. I spent 13 years trying to get him to understand and get help but refused so I had to give up too. I can't feel bad because he wouldn't do the work.

@fruitsarelife7073 Ай бұрын

Sameee 😔 it’s just not possible if they don’t have the ability or humility to listen and get help. I also left.

@Callmecupcakee 11 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this! My mom is a narcissist and I often feel so sorry for her because of how lonely she is and how everyone has distanced themselves from her.

@lv4984 6 ай бұрын

I'm in the same position. It's so hard..

@Callmecupcakee 6 ай бұрын

@@lv4984 🫂

@annastone5624 8 ай бұрын

This is REALLY IMPORTANT!! I don’t hear this articulated many places, definitely not so clearly and not in this way. - that the narcissist victim story is mostly a convenient lie. Most of us spend years and years and years and years - analyzing ‘how wounded’ the narcissist must be, their traumatic childhood etc.. Almost nowhere is explained what’s actually going on, that the wounding is not deeper than anyone else’s, they’ve just found a really effective way to manipulate us - to get what they want. Yes they may have learnt it in the family.. but it’s still a lie. And a lie that gets us to ignore our own often more serious wounding - to serve them and give them what they want. That’s how I now see it anyway, after loosing years of my life, thinking I was helping severely traumatized people - only to discover I am in fact the severely traumatized person and all those people I helped, were actually doing pretty good! My first time to see your channel. Thank you

@itsdavincidavinci 6 ай бұрын

She's abused me physically, emotionally and financially. She smeared me, nearly pushed me off a building and I still pity her. She's now 30, unemployed and a single mom cos we separated before she had our baby cos she admitted to cheating to spite me. Despite this, I feel sorry for her. I feel her life is in a really bad state now.

@ambernordquist363 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Ben. I needed to hear this. You're a blessing.

@deha5084 Жыл бұрын

Your brutal honesty about yourself and everything is extremely helpful. Thank you.

@DoubleRainbows-fp6ih 8 ай бұрын

Now i understand why he got so weird when had a Day off not contacting him.. He freaked Out! Now i see it was Just Supply from me & Id taken back my power & was focussing on me He felt it...Wow. Despite the fact weve never even met yet... As its a long distance Online dating thing. His response was sooo passive aggressive to me I walked. Forever.

@searchinpebbles2048 Жыл бұрын

I am ready to make a decision.

@RochellB46 Жыл бұрын

Be safe and never look back 🎉 I left mine for the hundredth time this morning but it is the LAST !!

@lesb9613 4 ай бұрын

Perfect timing for this video. I need to leave but feel helpless to actually leave

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@stacihensley7533 4 ай бұрын

I endured 29 years of abuse from my narcissist husband and have finally summoned the courage to say Enough. He is pulling out all the stops. This video was very helpful. Thank you for putting them out there.

@RawMotivations 4 ай бұрын

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@lesb9613 4 ай бұрын

What do you mean pulling out all the stops?

@stacihensley7533 4 ай бұрын

@@lesb9613 Going through the full repertoire of moods, manipulations and threats, that have always worked before, in order to get me to do what he wants.

@kr.k.194 Жыл бұрын

I am going through the phase that I am really angry with the 'world' that I lost my relationship and man I loved to a personality disorder (my ex). I never thought that would be something I would have to go through in my life. Although of course when I go into it, I was co-dependant and didn't let go soon enough.....its a lot of anger without a 'target'.

@Mcgrandma Жыл бұрын

I needed to hear this. Thank you for honesty.

@crking36 Жыл бұрын

Another killer video. Thank you!!

@Libbylou77krtc Жыл бұрын

I LOVED this Video!!! Thank you, Ben.

@rde4017 11 ай бұрын

NEVER feel sorry for them, ALWAYS remember the indescribable hatred, complete contempt and utter disgust you have for them.

@itsdavincidavinci 8 ай бұрын

I feel sorry for her not because I want her back but because the odds are greatly against. She's unemployed, a single mom now cos she proudly admitted to cheating on me with her ex etc etc. And she's 29 years almost 30 years. In my part of the world, this kinda really really affects your value as a woman. I know she's going to still blame me but I wasn't the one cheating or having violent and physical outbursts.