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@kgodsmasterpiece6625 Жыл бұрын
All I can say is I'm 40+ and Tony Gaskins hasn't been wrong yet! Young ladies if you listen to his advice, you WILL avoid alot of unnecessary pain, heartbreak and trauma!!!
@gapeach7814 Жыл бұрын
💯🎯
@Cielazul28 Жыл бұрын
🙏
@ashabenson3358 Жыл бұрын
I honestly feel like you should move on from a man that left you, most of them be playing games. A man that love you will never leave you
@saltycat662 Жыл бұрын
👏👏👏
@Raray200 Жыл бұрын
That isn’t always true. And shouldn’t be considered a rule. RC Blake’s told his now wife, to leave. As well as Tony Gaskens wife left and they both came back to fight for their wives. People are human and are flawed. It is wise to listen and observe for true intent. A man who loves you should leave, if he is getting hurt or abused by you. Sometimes it is self love to leave. Or fear, they may not be ready to hold your heart. No one is perfect,
@ashabenson3358 Жыл бұрын
@@Raray200 Yes definitely leave if you getting hurt or abused
@tamikaGenX Жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@LovelyKola Жыл бұрын
💯
@stephanienelly90 Жыл бұрын
If you left because he cheated or abused you, go on’ bout your business! TG ain’t talking to you.
@gapeach7814 Жыл бұрын
EXACTLY!!!
@DMULLTV Жыл бұрын
Agree !!
@beefaye6861 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes it takes something bad to happen to break that pride....its a shame
@memememmee7794 Жыл бұрын
I've watched multiple life changing events happen to my ex and still no change in his behavior. I think God loves me more than I love myself. I would take that fool back if he was even half regretful! Trying very hard to work on that. And my ex has no clue how I feel bc I'm faking it till I stop feeling for him. Tony's channel has helped me understand I need to work on me before anything else
@suebrown4040 Жыл бұрын
A MAN IN LOVE WITH YOU WILL NEVER LEAVE YOU
@lilliepad24 Жыл бұрын
Hes gotta be on his knees! That's how ya know. Bc he's been on his knees talking to Jesus first
@annagrace1159 Жыл бұрын
Godly repentance for all wrongs is the only sign
@shadiamonforever21 Жыл бұрын
@@annagrace1159 THAT!!
@patricetrotter Жыл бұрын
Ladies don’t do this to yourself know your worth
@akilahbatyah6505 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely. We tyed of the foolishness.
@denisegreen6878 Жыл бұрын
YEP
@saltycat662 Жыл бұрын
Right? The only reason someone comes back is because they miss the convenience. Narcissists act like that. If you go, stay gone.
@roser8911 Жыл бұрын
100% agreed! Never take dumper back!!!
@tonylavelleofficial Жыл бұрын
Ladies don’t be fooled by unrealistic expectations. A man that is motivated to better himself for you is a good man. He will make mistakes, and learn from them. Every good man will. If you don’t want that then you don’t want a man you want a God.
@Soul.Is.Willing Жыл бұрын
Lol he literally left the car for a minute and we waited, lol.
@relisbetrel Жыл бұрын
I sure did! 😄 I love the authenticity of these videos
@Soul.Is.Willing Жыл бұрын
@@relisbetrel and he stay saying, " yall forgive me", lol. In that country accent.
@relisbetrel Жыл бұрын
@@Soul.Is.Willing lol Tony is the best 😂
@londriljones8524 Жыл бұрын
Ikr… WE LOVE YOU TONY
@durbansaladyinaccra2173 Жыл бұрын
@@londriljones8524 We sure do. ❤ He done a lot for us. God bless him and fam. 🙏🕊
@chrissysam7949 Жыл бұрын
Yes, know your worth. Ladies, we are not settling for bare minimum! 🙌🏾❤️
@LovelyKola Жыл бұрын
He coming back cause his other options failed they don’t want his ass neither. Let him stay gone he wanted to be gone stay gone.
@j-tenn226 Жыл бұрын
I had a guy who I was talking with ghost me, and randomly came back a few months later asking to take me out for drinks to explain. I told him I don’t drink, sent him a legendary TG quote, and then blocked him . He was 24 and I was 29 so idk why I even gave him the time of day.
@akilahbatyah6505 Жыл бұрын
I would gladly let a man go for good if he left. It's better than possibly putting myself in harms way with a possibility of a secretly unhinged man.
@amandachiliza7090 Жыл бұрын
I took him back cause he apologized but not because of that...he is definitely showing me how humble he is. I was shook.
@jcymngo7 ай бұрын
How long did that last?
@aaliyahallen78156 ай бұрын
@@jcymngo lol I wanna know too
@amandachiliza70906 ай бұрын
About 9 months lol
@aaliyahallen78156 ай бұрын
@@amandachiliza7090 Oh wait, did it end??
@HasanAtoui4 ай бұрын
@@amandachiliza7090 so it ended ?
@Hey-o5i4 ай бұрын
I personally wouldn't take a man back if he left me, he chooses to leave...it's permanent. No coming back. Ever.
@kaicigavin5050 Жыл бұрын
He tried to come back out of Ego..He definitely for the streets.. Confirmed!! Thanks Tony 🙏🏽
@FromGhettoToGated. Жыл бұрын
Most definitely
@Tiggity80 Жыл бұрын
I really appreciate Tony making these videos for us. He literally does these videos while making moves, and living life. He doesn’t have to but chooses to, and it helps so many people, myself included. Much appreciated and God Bless ❤
@semanisa9611 Жыл бұрын
God bless him❤
@Valinda1 Жыл бұрын
My sentiments Exactly! Truly grateful for his willingness to give wisdom as he lives his day to day life..
@gapeach7814 Жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏽 Thank you TG. You are truly appreciated.
@danasmith83908 ай бұрын
Much appreciated content
@B_A_J8 ай бұрын
This is the truth…someone from my past from 3 years ago came looking for me. I accepted their apology then blocked them. Everything you said is correct! Blessings!
@monicahughes1297 Жыл бұрын
My parents told me that never go back to your past lover. Especially, if they cheat on you and other reasons too. I agree with this 100 percent. Also, now that I am older and wiser it is best to wait patiently on God to send you the man he chose for you. In the meantime work on you until the time comes with prayer. Then this man will find his/her mate. The majority of the men and women do not change nor have a relationship with God. The past is your past for a reason. It is called "Life's Lessons", for a better and wiser person which IS YOU...
@beaa2018 Жыл бұрын
Most people find it hard to accept this but it’s true.
@gapeach7814 Жыл бұрын
Of course never go back if you've been cheated on or abused, those aren't the ones Tony's speaking on.
@monicahughes1297 Жыл бұрын
You're correct but those are not the only ones. They are the main ones but depending on the person and when they say no compromising there are other factors too. Every relationship, situation and person is different.
@lovenikcamille Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this confirmation The first 10 minutes was what I needed to be assured Def took him 60 days to fix that ego and accountability Still going day by day Building our mental bond before getting back physical Only time will tell
@j-tenn226 Жыл бұрын
It took me until my 30s for all of this to sink in . If you would have sat me down and made me watch this in my 20s I would have listened and then disregarded. Sometimes you have to be in the right place in your life to listen to Tony. I used to listen to him while driving past my ex’s house.
@MWisdomWisdom Жыл бұрын
CHANGED BEHAVIOR. I DON'T WANT HIM BACK BECAUSE ANYBODY WHO LEAVES MEANT TO LEAVE && DOESN'T WANT ME . IM ALMOST 40 YEARS OLD IM DONE WITH THE BULLSHIT🤞👌.
@relisbetrel Жыл бұрын
Chileee 💯💯 We too grown out here for childish games
@MWisdomWisdom Жыл бұрын
@Relis Betrel listen we really are and I can't do it anymore.
@Anetekonjo Жыл бұрын
Yep most times, they come back playing games. Prayer is very important during this time. Trusting your intuition. The hot and cold behavior and all. It’s best to Let It BURN! In my Usher voice. Great video!
@nancyclaypool292 Жыл бұрын
Six months? Like I'll take him back because by that time I've found a real man that appreciates my honesty, maturity & matches my efforts in the relationship as well as actually values me
@saltycat662 Жыл бұрын
Never take them back. NEVER!!!
@Shanice1 Жыл бұрын
I broke up with a man because he didn't believe what the bible says. He said I was wrong and that he love me and would never leave. I just couldn't take the stress of being unequally yoked. Ugh.
@naturallyawesomefitness1738 Жыл бұрын
That’s precisely the reason I left my ex last year and my life is a million times better!
@Shanice1 Жыл бұрын
@@naturallyawesomefitness1738 AMEN SIS!
@naturallyawesomefitness1738 Жыл бұрын
@@Shanice1 Since day 1 of leaving him, I haven’t missed him at all!
@Shanice1 Жыл бұрын
@@naturallyawesomefitness1738 same here sis! It's been more peaceful ever since.
@sannettthompson9673 Жыл бұрын
Don't waste any more of your precious time with someone who made the decision to leave. If he wanted to be there in the first place he would. You deserve better. He will NEVER respect u if u take him back. Close that door permanently.
@gapeach7814 Жыл бұрын
That may be your story but don't give that advice to other people when you don't know their whole story. A man could leave bc he doesn't feel he makes enough money yet or needs to heal first to be ready for a committed relationship. Some miss their husband bc of this type of advice. Don't listen ladies. Follow your gut.
@j-tenn226 Жыл бұрын
A person who values you will never put you in a position to lose you.
@melaniebarnes4374 Жыл бұрын
I wasn't thinking we would get this one so soon . Thank you
@beautifulblessednolovelost7773 Жыл бұрын
If y’all start listening to god other that these comments and these other perspectives then you wouldn’t have to question anything. God has the last say just cause someone else went through it don’t mean you are. Just cause that couple god a divorce don’t mean you are people listen to god talk and ask him.
@tannekag.8115 ай бұрын
Amen, your comment is confirmation of what I felt in my Spirit several times. That is to be lead by God and only him not people ❤
@gracefullyrachel65735 ай бұрын
@@tannekag.811absolutely 9 times out of ten God will want you to do the exact opposite of what everyone else says to do. Use discernment, stay in prayer. 🙏
@kharyzma4u Жыл бұрын
You're the best! You've literally broken this down in so many ways and so many times and it's always 💯 Thank you and may God continue blessing you and your family 🙏🏽
@nokuthulatsanga2163 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for enlightening us
@reneejacobs8183 Жыл бұрын
Yes, it will cost you greatly! Still trying to heal!
@jayjones7776 Жыл бұрын
It’s good to know there are still good men out there but that is probably less then 1% now of the male population. 98% of the men are lost, hurting little boys that’s making life horrible for these women and I see it, we all see it. Generational curses need to be broken. This is very refreshing 🙏
@teciahenderson8176 Жыл бұрын
Blessings to you TG.. I know my EX husband was coming back out of pride and ego as hie stated “let’s get back together and shock the world”😭😭😭.. and I was saying “ you getting read my to be shocked that we’re NOT”.. boy bye, have a nice life .. deuces
@user-ro7so8ij1r Жыл бұрын
Let’s get back together and shock the world 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@gracefullyrachel65735 ай бұрын
I’m rolling 😂😂😂
@cjones2171 Жыл бұрын
I am over this struggle love stuff. How about men get it right the first time and not drag women through the trenches in order to love. I understand not everyone perfect, but not everyone is going to get more than one chance either.
@TrishC528011 ай бұрын
Knew that TG would being the wisdom on this subject. Hes trying to come back after 5 months to the day. he apologized, he seems more humble and honest. He's trying but i still don't know 😕 don't wanna play the fool either. Need more time to see if he's for real and need to pray for wisdom 🙏🏽 I will walk away if something ain't right 💯
@gracefullyrachel65735 ай бұрын
Any updates??
@burnzz100 Жыл бұрын
My man of 14 years decided to come back. As bad as it hurt, like therapy sessions hurt, I know I have a chemistry with my husband.Therefore gave it one last shot. We will see. At least I knew I wasn’t getting what I wanted or deserved…..
@wellwateredwoman897 Жыл бұрын
I'm about to do the same thing after leaving my husband for a year. He kept begging me back for the past year but I decided to wait until I was ready. Hopefully he's changed from a grown boy to a grown man. If not then I'm out fully this time! ✌️
@cytinachavis9157 Жыл бұрын
This message is much needed and right on time. I do want my ex back. It wasn't even any bad breakup and our connection was strong. I feel like he may not have been ready to be that vulnerable. I really feel like he may have not been ready that he actually met the real deal. I'm kind of on the fence too. I want him back but it DEFINITELY has to be because of heart that he comes back.
@lesaowens7416 Жыл бұрын
The one I was dealing with left and told everybody I left him, then tried to come back and I blocked him.
@saltycat662 Жыл бұрын
Good for you!
@ariah457 Жыл бұрын
Good for you he really tired it he can stay blocked looking silly smh
@shevettejackson. Жыл бұрын
Good for you
@j-tenn226 Жыл бұрын
Grown boy behavior.
@love-kt5vi Жыл бұрын
THAT'S TRUE, MY EX-HUSBAND SAID THAT I BOY BYE DIVORCE LAWYERS SETTLE IT ALL. THANK GOD I HAD THE STRENGTH TO LEAVE, I ASKED GOD TO GIVE ME THE STRENGTH AND HE DID. NEVER LET A MAN DISRESPECT YOU, BOYFRIEND OR HUSBAND. WAS IT EASY NO DID GOD HELP ME WALK IT OUT YESSS. WHAT I LEARNED, WAIT ON GOD TO SEND YOU A HUSBAND OR WIFE AND LET GOD PUT IT TOGETHER.
@90charim Жыл бұрын
Thank you, maybe I should give a little more grace. People can not change over night but the only thing is this consistently thing that’s a challenge cuz he will revert every now and then.
@kokoluv21 Жыл бұрын
That advice was on point and on time!!! Retreat I love the idea of a retreat house. Can't wait to see it!! God bless you and your family 💜🙏🏽💯
@sandrawilliams6164 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Tony, 🙏 may there be a stream of Love supporting your path of expansion and success, e.g. "Gaskin's Healing Retreat"
@jenniferarzadon2525 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Tony peace and blessings✌️❤️🙏🏽
@daphanewarren322 Жыл бұрын
Hey Tony Gaskins & Family! Sounds like you driving a ROAD BEAST! AMEN
@michellearzu Жыл бұрын
This video was right on time. Thank you for this Mr. Gaskins
@mbrook4983 Жыл бұрын
Y’all know the summer time coming up and a lot of men are going to be on the prowl. So listen to this word.
@lizaw.7313 Жыл бұрын
This is what I m afraid of, although my heart(even though it's shattered) and soul long for my husband to be restored to our family, I don't know how I'd get past questioning everything he does... I absolutely do not want him anywhere around us at this point if ego has anything to do with it.
@onelove8118 Жыл бұрын
Perfect timing 💚 thank you
@larhondathomas3785 Жыл бұрын
Yes, he’s trying in a month😌🏙️
@dublingirl1691 Жыл бұрын
Great insights in this video!!! Also Tony, I LOVE the idea of a Retreat Center/House. Brilliant idea! I was thinking of this for you and boom you just mentioned it! 🙌🏻🙏🏻
@HorrorStoriesFromThe40s Жыл бұрын
This was so on point! Nothing but pure truth as always!
@sagetee6396 Жыл бұрын
Good Advice and I like how you are pulling Good People together for the right thing, and God, family first Thank you 💜
@denisewilliamson4749 Жыл бұрын
Thank You Tony, this is great advice for us women!😊
@swayyy9774 Жыл бұрын
Hate that I cheated honestly. I let my insecurities/ mind / temptations get the best of me.. it’s been a battle between me God & the enemy but I’m not giving up I just have to hold it down & just Go hard for him to show me my true self… I really really want to change not just for the world or to find love but for myself so I can be a great man for me & my kids / wife… We still talk she’s half way across the world but man I love that girl… we both hurt we both love.. & I really believe Gods going to give me everything I had again… to yall it may look week on either end but the truth is. We can’t leave each other alone. I’m kicking a dead horse but just know. God is real and it is possible to change you just have to walk with God and don’t let the world trick you… The enemy works overtime.
@adorekaniyah4741Ай бұрын
how did it work out
@dominiquedelaine Жыл бұрын
Right on time message for me
@lisag5046 Жыл бұрын
Amen! Thank you for guidance! Greatly appreciated! Blessings to you and the family🙏🏼
@patriciahetherington1709 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Tony & God Bless you & family .
@pat4502 Жыл бұрын
Tony, that last part at the 14 minute mark was just for me
@reneejacobs8183 Жыл бұрын
Retreat house sounds like a great idea! 🙏🏽❤️
@beautifulblessednolovelost7773 Жыл бұрын
Also a lot of these marriages didn’t last year’s just because they had to fight and put in work with god help. Even if they did have problems you definitely didn’t know about them keep your business in your household not anyone else
@saltycat662 Жыл бұрын
Many of those marriages weren't worth fighting for. It's usually best to just stay married to God.
@mjj5642 Жыл бұрын
This thang did a summasault! 😩😩😭😭😭
@gapeach7814 Жыл бұрын
😂
@kandidly_kamesha Жыл бұрын
This video is soooo helpful! Thank you for the gems.
@basimahknowshow Жыл бұрын
Yes! It happened to me and he came back on 8/29/22 I think it was fir his heart but his ego is so damn big! He has now moved on to another woman abd he just told he yesterday that she reminds him on me she just like me. He said as he described her “she’s black n beautiful, she’s THICK & nice & she just like you!” I said why you on the phone with me if you have a woman and why you asking me for money.
@akilahbatyah6505 Жыл бұрын
To see if you're foolish enough to give it to him.
@ariah457 Жыл бұрын
Please block him, everything he described was just based on your apparence and not even who you are at the core… like oh she reminds me of you because she’s thoughtful or has good patience or something. This guy is not serious and any guy whose serious about you wouldn’t ruin the chance of being with you and they most definitely won’t be entertaining someone else. Let alone speaking to you at the same time he’s not serious please continue to look forward and not backwards.
@shevettejackson. Жыл бұрын
Girl run
@diamondgold5277 Жыл бұрын
Block and Delete Him 😂 Calling you to tell you he found a Female that's almost your duplicate 😂 and it's only 1 you, a Twin can't even be you, umm the nerve of some men, I wouldn't let him have contact or keep door's open for him, cause soon as he mess up with her, he'll be expecting for you to let him right back in, I pray you be moved on and New man and bust his bubble of thinking he's the only man in your life and you can't find nobody, that's what they believe 😂
@nbee6217 Жыл бұрын
You dodged a bullet. Keep ducking.
@michelletingling2069 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this 🙏🏽
@abundantlife1111 Жыл бұрын
I ❤the Retreat house idea !!💡
@Beautyandbodied11 ай бұрын
Thank you bro.Tony for providing the dialogue examples so we can know the difference between what heart vs ego Speak should sound like.
@cocovibe7726 Жыл бұрын
Hi Tony! Blessings to you and your beautiful family from the first viewer😊
@msbrandy932 Жыл бұрын
Retreat house will be wonderful
@SoulfulNaomi Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏾 child together
@suebrown4040 Жыл бұрын
IT IS LIKE THIS WITH ME TONY IF THAT MAN BREAK UP WITH ME FOR THE FIRST TIME AIN'T NO COMING BACK
@Angel3rdDASH Жыл бұрын
I’m still waiting for the autographed book I paid you for!
@JaySmith. Жыл бұрын
Been waiting for this one 😅
@smithshaherah Жыл бұрын
Wow! So i just brushed him off thinking it was all a game. 😢 the text specifically said "My biggest mistake is leaving the one who truly loves me" long story short i broke up with him back n November because i felt he was losing focus on getting his kids back and he didn't have time to put into our relationship. He's a good guy, but umm, I'm just seeing how things play out. Thanks for this video
@suebrown4040 Жыл бұрын
LADIES THROW THE TRASH OUT AIN'T NOBODY GOING TO BE SITTING AROUND WAITING ON NO MAN WE ARE QUEENS AMEN
@FIREENGINE36 ай бұрын
When you don’t wait around, they come back . So you right queen
@healthsecretsofthebible.7004 Жыл бұрын
Good advice. Just what I need
@makeshathomas229521 күн бұрын
I'm listening 🖊....
@veronicaocean43885 ай бұрын
He came back with humility and saying he even started therapy and doing everything right at first and we got back together and he still ended up breaking up with me later saying he won’t have time for a relationship and has to work on himself and money to be able to buy a house and a month later I find out he was in a relationship and then I find out through his rebound that they met exactly a month after our break up and that they began dating within two weeks of just “knowing” each other and apparently that that wasn’t even their intention it was unplanned but that they just fell so hard for each other…. Like bro you’re a rebound but I just let her have her delusion and thanked her for telling me the truth and wished them the best and never looked back…. No matter what they say tbh, just do not take them back, do not look back even if it seems they’ve changed cause they’ll show again they haven’t, ik some situations actually go good but many times it won’t be the case so safe yourself Better safe than sorry and better alone than in bad company
@Iamdmgartrell Жыл бұрын
Well said
@HollywoodStalksMe Жыл бұрын
God loves you women ❤
@thechosenfamily2023 Жыл бұрын
Pluggin😂 If definitely come to get coaching from toni
@vernita0216 Жыл бұрын
Don't even give them the time a day... SAME bogus man, different day 🥴.
@lovesonmyside2184 Жыл бұрын
I love that idea 💡 Retreat Home
@mssxpressive2100 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this.
@yvettedarney4462 Жыл бұрын
I am hooked on your chanel!!
@nolusindisonosana7551 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Sir for helping ❤ when we going through these difficulties and complications of love life... Life does have a formula but you really make sense on your videos nothing can beat truth and prayer to our creator 🙏🏼❤God bless you🙏🏼💯🇿🇦
@tamaradavis7571 Жыл бұрын
Great advice!!
@CaffeBella9 ай бұрын
Thank You!
@HollywoodStalksMe Жыл бұрын
your video "please understand this about men" has me laughing and at peace! thank you i also didn't like to shower and just turned the water on 😅 as well as my other siblings hahha more common then not then 😅😅 Thank you Sr for the insight
@kautukikharbe53506 ай бұрын
Thanks a lot ❤ :)
@user-hi8ig6me4t Жыл бұрын
If he left you cheated on you been with multiple women why would you want him back Ladies know you're better than that.
@ciytnnai4386 Жыл бұрын
Amazing video Keep it up
@michellelogan7273 Жыл бұрын
TRUE!
@suebrown4040 Жыл бұрын
BECAUSE AIN'T NOBODY GOT TIME FOR THOSE GAMES
@Mindful.Movement.01 Жыл бұрын
Another thing? You wanna come back huh? Do you got some money? Who tf about to let a man waste their time twice ?
@j-tenn226 Жыл бұрын
These men think we’re naive, foolish, and desperate. And the reason they think such things is because they’ve probably experienced a lot of women in the past who are.
@anjeanettearcher8162 Жыл бұрын
Having a retreat house is a good idea
@MichelleNagir Жыл бұрын
I don’t like to compliment anyone, but that purple is nice on Tony. Please don’t block me😂
@j-tenn226 Жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing!
@trulycay5714 Жыл бұрын
that part getting over his ego
@valenciawalker6498 Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@ladyddatruthseeker Жыл бұрын
WORD
@TheGilmore_Girl Жыл бұрын
Today's price is not yesterday's price!
@missladybrowntop1350 Жыл бұрын
You're not lying either but God have last say so he cheated on me now he want me back?
@Mindful.Movement.01 Жыл бұрын
If you leave STAY GONE. I’m not a motel 6. No second chances you want grace I’m not God. Period. That simple.