I shall take the honour today: 1. Keep It Cool (don’t have a bad temper) 2. Have a Sense of Humour (don’t take yourself too seriously) 3. Have a Purpose (know what you want out of life) 4. Be Disciplined (just be Disciplined) 5. Integrity (be a man of your word)

My girlfriend asked me when are we going to get married I laughed at her she did not find my sense of humor attractive at all

I have seldom in my life seen a 25 year old male or female express themselves on such sensitive subjects with so much grace and class

Trait #1 to me is best summed up by Patrick Swayze in Roadhouse. “Be nice...until it’s time not to be nice.”

Incredibly bright young woman who is wise beyond her years. Incredible. She has great parents!

The homegirl Courtney the best female KZfaqr keep helping us fellas out.

Five traits in men that women find irresistible: *Tall height. *Fit body. *Big bank account. *Careless attitude about women. *Not afraid of rejecting women.

I think for #3 and #4 not telling people what you’re doing is a big thing, you don’t want to brag about what you’re doing you actually want to do it. If someone asks about what you’re doing be modest about it because you still don’t know how far you want to get into that goal of yours plus don’t be one of those “fake it til you make it” type of people

Heres your traits to focus 1.Keep it cool and casual 2.sense of humour 3.purpose for living life 4.discipline 5.integrity

These are all things we should all ascribe to be whether you are in a relationship or seeking a relationship. Courtney hit the nail right on the head "Be the person you would like others to be to you". Keep up the good work👍

#3: Have a Purpose is the one that orients and drives the others. Gentlemen, if you're not sure where to start, start here. Once you get going on this, the others can be refined accordingly. Good video. Edit: side note: working towards a purpose that's right for you can remedy depression/tiredness.

About purpose and getting things done I may add is, I believe it's important finding out what really works for oneself is definitely important. To become concrete and thus translate our purpose into reality. Because sometimes we think one thing is important to us but when it's just not working out or it is not our thing at all it's important to discard it and instead know what really works for oneself. Great video! Really helpful thank you! I'm a helper as well 😊

Excellent video Sister. I believe that looks "attract" a person, but character keeps a relationship.

Being Irresistible is simply a bonus of being the best version of myself. You've given some great key points to focus on to help make that happen. Thank You Courtney!! 🌻

A really great purpose in life is making a positive impact in people's lives... it doesn't take much... a smile.... buying a cup of coffee.. being kind... being courteous... it can be contagious.. BTW Courtney u look amazing... love the new hair color 💕

Integrity and being honest with yourself and those around you is so important! I agree completely. Well said. I believe so strongly!

Just came across your channel. Solid advice. I'd like to add, and only speaking from personal experience of course, self confidence ties all this together, otherwise you'll crumble. I had many of these qualities for a while throughout my life. My biggest flaw was my lack of confidence in myself and anxiety. I was good at masking it but I could also tell girls and as I got older women could sense it to a degree. I worked on my self confidence and noticed more females were attracted to me. Then I started getting into shape and that was a bonus that helped even more. Also men....women too....culture yourselves. Listen to more music genres, learn history, science, maths, read more or use audible, etc. As I entered my 20s especially mid 20s more and more women really were more attracted to me once they learned I liked to learn about the world and was open to learn and want to visit and participate in other cultures. Secondly take self care into consideration. Get to know how to groom your body and take care of your skin and your physical health both internal, external and mentally. Lastly above all else find deep down to do it for yourself first and foremost. Do it to attract women as a bonus not as the main goal. Your goal should be to better yourself and just wanting to be a more well rounded human who is constantly learning. This, at least for me, makes me not get discouraged or feel down. I have made it so that I can always talk myself into doing something and not hinder on someone's else's approval or disapproval. Odd comparison I know but women are more attracted to you when they see that sex and women aren't the first and only thing on your mind. They are kind of in a sense like cats. The more they know you aren't their sole attention the more they want your attention and be around you. Focus on yourselves first. Then you'll find the right people that want to genuinely be around and can easily weed out the toxic ones.

Great video, Courtney. I totally agree these five traits are essential not only for romance but also for success.

Real title 5 traits that good women find irresistible ( Not the crazy ones)

Great video as always Courtney! 🙏🏻 I’ve struggled in the past with keeping my word when I’ve told someone I’d arrive on time or be somewhere that day and now being 24 years old, I realize more than ever that when you say something you mean, keep your word because a woman will find it highly attractive and know you’re reliable. Hope you have an amazing day! :)

I’d add another one. Being able to cook and keep your place clean. I’ve had plenty of girls say to me that it’s attractive that I can cook and look after my place. It shows you don’t live like a pig or that you live off Flaming Hot Cheetos and beer. (I love Flaming Hot Cheetos).

Cool, calm, collected! I try to live by these 3 Cs as much as I can.

I'm so glad I find videos like this where the stickies are down to earth and wholesome.

Great content again. I personally appreciate it when you tie your personal history and experiences in order make your point. It tends to add credibility to content while showing your human side.

Courtney, THANK YOU for this video! Keep up the awesome work!! 🙏🏼

Here from your guest appearance on the Roomates. Realize I’ve heard so much from the manosphere about dating and relationships, but not so much from the opposite sex. Excited to have you subscribed. I think a lot of young men need to hear healthy masculinity validated from a female point of view, because so many of us were taught by our moms to subconsciously avoid it like it was bad or something. Loved the video!

"Be the best person you can be"... so true. Sometimes I need to pause and step back to make sure I stay on track to being a better person. Be the better person and people will notice. More importantly, you'll feel better. And that's what matters. Life is short.

I really like how you said that your purpose can change. A lot of people think they need to find one concrete life purpose. Focus on a purpose that makes sense right now

I find that while it’s SUPER important to stay on track and be disciplined with the things you need to do to accomplish your goals, it’s EQUALLY just as important as making sure you take breaks and relax during the process. Or else you’re just gonna overwhelm and overwork yourself. Which, you guessed it...leads to burn out and less productivity

Good points Courtney. Like the emotional attraction. Think we hear a lot about physical attraction. So this was very helpful. Thank you.

This lady is incredibly bright, reassuring, articulate and thoughtful and much more. So impressive as she is awfully young. I learn from her and I am twice her age!!

You are a lovely young lady who's helping fellas with the struggles in their lives, I personally appreciate it ! God bless you beautiful 😍

I love all the advice and information you give. You cut through all the BS and tell the cold hard truth. I've learned so much and I thank you for all you do. Your KZfaq channel is my favorite.❤

Hey, i just want to say that you have a beautiful voice and a beautiful heart, never change how you are. I’m in a wheelchair and your advice is very helpful, thanks. 🙏 Blessings everyone

With me being a Martial artist and training daily, the ones that apply to my characteristics are 1 Keeping cool, which means staying calm under pressure, and stress, with all kinds of situations, good or bad. My philosophy is that the best fights are the ones not taken nor started. 2 having humor can have a lady laugh that shows your passionate side. 4 Disciplined we people that are into the arts we knew having disciplined to us never stop working hard on what you want to achieve which shows that you have conferences in your ability, understanding oneself, listening deeply. It helps with learning about the person that you are with. Number 5 is probably the most important of all on the list: having trust in your partner, being a person of your words, knowing what you can handle in the environment, and being the best version of yourself to matter as well, not your worst when having someone you care about plays a role too in that relationship. Thanks for the upload Courtney Ryan; it really was an exciting video.

I love your channel. After narcissistic personality disorder abuse i am slowly finding myself again. Amen and God Bless you.

1. Live in Cleveland. 2. Sell watches. 3. Collaborate in a girl's early KZfaq videos. 4. Give away freebies to help your girl's KZfaq channel. 5. have the same name as a beloved toy bear.

You might want to check out the book “The Power of Habit”. It’s a great read and aligns with these traits you highlighted.

This was an excellent dissertation. Very well said. "The best version of yourself." That's what the goal should be for sure.

Courtney's smooth healing words what a human being God bless her

Love my Cleveland girl! Keep up the great content!

I appreciate the thought and care that you put into your videos without being just another random advice / lifestyle channel. And I do think that a high value woman will find these traits attractive more than those who are basically put, the opposite of some of these traits. Also, once we get away from social media, it's so much easier to spot and genuinely appreciate these traits. Sometimes feels like these days hookup culture/ lack of commitment seems to be an issue.

I have been watching you for a while but have never commented. Just to let you know I like the videos when you are commenting on other tubers but what I like the most is that you have the most calming voice ever. Keep up the good work. Thank you.

Thank you girl, I really appreciate the videos, keep them coming!

I have all of these and I’m still single. Just goes to show that no matter what you say looks are the end all be all and women will not look past that if you don’t look like the “vin diesel” type. This has been my life long experience with them so I only think of myself from now on

I think a trait that was left out is RESPECT. Having respect towards yourself, partner, and people in general can go a long way.

Very well said Ms. Courtney. Big help! 😊👍 Thank you for helping us.

Just caught this video. Really loved it Courtney. Not just to attract women but to have in life to be a better person. Very true. Thanks you amazing lady x

How would you explain the people that seek out partners who aren't levelheaded and do have issues? I am liking your videos, and think it's good for people to hear logical explanations of this stuff. It seems like a lot of people fall into the trap of seeking out people who are toxic because the toxicity communicates confidence to them.

Dating advice from a classic video game, “Don’t make a girl a promise if you know you can’t keep it.” These words have followed me and defined me since. I’m still single, but I have a clean conscience. Thanks for the Awesome content and encouragement!

Thanks so much for your video. It means a lot to hear that these things are basically simple and achievable

Another no-nonsense video to help people focus on becoming better. Thanks Courtney!

I stopped giving this girl who friend zoned me attention. And now she blows me up constantly and asks why I act different 😑😒

Courtney- “ These are the traits that I would’ve loved to have in a partner” . Her bf *watching this *: 👀👀

Thank you for your content it’s very eye-opening, and helpful. Btw I love your balanced use of make-up.

A kind young lady.Soothing when she speaks

Courtney when are you starting online course for personality development! I am ready for attending seminar 🌹

And self confidence also it is one of the main thing when it comes to getting girls .never ever lose your confidence NEVER . a man should embody self confidence to be the alpha

I love the way, you explain it.Thank you so much🖤

Yes, keeping things cool and being level-headed help by a long shot.

Multiple videos a week and being a guest on the roomates? I see and respect your hustle.

Clicking on a new vid is irresistible

Love your vids, Courtney. So much heart and insight in these.

I agree with everything you said and I am grateful that you want to help men and women to become the best version of them selfs. I hope you continue to keep up the great work and don't let anyone tell you otherwise because they might be wrong about you. Good luck with everything and everyone. 😊👍🍀😉

This channel should be called: what Courtney Ryan likes in a man!!

5 irresistibile Traits 1. Keepin It cool & calm /emotional intelligence 2. Sense of Humor /ability to be serious as well 3. Conscious of Purpose/knows what he wants 4. Self-Discipline/ consistency within purpose 5. Integritiy/ Man of your word / honesty about intentions and expectations

It's a nice boost to hear this list, and be able to think by gosh, I have all those traits. I don't really approach women in public, and bars/clubs are not my scene, I'm more about being part of a community, making friends, and having connections form organically over time as we get to know each other. My issue is, I'm in a city where I've been really struggling to find that community, and those compatible friends. I value connection, being there for each other, sharing life, and have just been running into more superficial, flighty folks, in both faith communities, and communities around a common interest. (I've even started and run a few meetup groups myself around writing and creativity, and even when they were successful, personal connections never arose.) After being burned a number of times, I've pulled all my energy back in, and intend to move to a new place where I might be a better fit. This is taking a while to organize, however, and in the meantime being very disconnected is really taking a toll on my mental health and is pretty discouraging. It is lonely being single, sometimes achingly, but it also feels like friendships and community need to come first.

I think this one of the best inspiring videos that I have watched. " Be the Best Version of Yourself," yes, I will. Thanks

Women loves confidence in men.... Courtney u say right things which make people change.. It is incredible😍🤩

You missed something! The "physical" makes up 30% of the attraction. Without that very important 30% physical attraction, those traits you mentioned matter not. Sexual attraction triumphs over emotional attraction at first, then is emotional attraction. That's real raw female attraction. I saw your whole video btw. I can't wait for your physical attraction video.

A beautiful woman giving very sound advice. You are such a gold mine. Continue to flourish inside and out.

If you are happy with yourself, you can be happy with anyone...I think that sums up everything...

1. Be cool - mild temperament 2. Sense of humor 3. Sense of purpose 4. Be disciplined 5. Have integrity.

This women is grinding -📈

*YOU'RE ABSOLUTELY STUNNING COURTNEY!* 🥰

This absolutely the very best advice on attractiveness I have ever encountered.

Funny how physically attractive people very often lack these traits ..

When they see that I’ve ordered the LARGE coffee.

Courtney, you are so chill.

You are very authentic and genuine guide in the dating world. I have learned soo much from you!!

The final exams is after two weeks . I really need to work hard so I can insecure a scholarship.

1: Don't be short 2: Don't be short 3: Don't be short 4: Don't be short When is this channel going to start getting honest?

I love listening to you and all your advice !!.Keep up the great work .

Discipline equals freedom, good on you for mentioning discipline, Courtney

Bigfoot stole my girlfriend.

Courtney could you speak marriage oaths not meaning anything anymore, the whole "tile death do us part" is no longer a thing and neither is "in sickness and in health" because women today will immediately jump ship on a man who's health goes under no matter how much he provided her previously. I would love to hear a womans perspective. I tell my son this all the time, dont work yourself to the bone for a modern entitled women, she will only bleed your bones dry and move on

The truth is Courtney Ryan, you just said it out loud , l strive to be the best version of myself, and to find happiness in being of service to another. I do not do it to be attractive or irresistible.

Thank you, Courtney. So helpful. I wrote em down.

I just love Courtney voice. I can listen to her all day long.

I love her voice and her bearing. It’s very alluring and easy to listen to.

Thanks for this Courtney. I believe I, for the most part, try to utilize these traits..? However I'm not sure if things like me being an introvert, INFP, someone who's generally soft-spoken etc. are hindering or having alterations to said traits. Hmm..but again, thank you for the video.

I dig whatever you have done to your hair! Also, this video is nice. Straight forward and not full of bs. Just like we like it.

Guys! I have my first ever first date! I am so happy and so excited! Courtney you have really helped me and I love your content

4th one is my challenge, the rest are pretty much acquired skills. Good list by the way, totally agree !

Love your content Courtney... keep up the great work

Great video! It’s funny. As a man intuitively I know all these things and I naturally exhibit these behaviors. But it’s interested to hear it all put together in such a logical fashion.

Emotional attraction seems to be linked to inner qualities like, presenting to the world what you know to be your " best be self"

How calm this lady is ..... 👍

Once upon a time, men were expected to declare themselves. Especially their intentions, with women and otherwise. That seems like a better system. Also, "be the best version of yourself" is some of the best advice ever. Those are words I live by. ✌&❤

Women only should be a compliment, not a priority in man’s life who’s on his path and purpose. A real man of of high value knows this. You’re right, people in general should always have something to do that increases their value making them more attractive!