You just lost 1 thing. Its women talking, they are not looking for their actions but they words. They will aways virtue signaling. From the mouth of women when the subject its relationship only comes lies. In the real world just see how they act. Women are far more draw by to apparence than men looks its top period. They are the definition of shallow. In the real world apparence = personality for women.

Thanks for the coaching and content. 😎

For wearing red I think the easiest examples are in accents. Like a red power tie (not a cheap solid red but a nice red pattered tie) with a navy suit. Or in clothing in the red family. Buffalo check flannels, burgundy t shirt/sweater/Henley etc

for the record im take Cialis® 5mg tab. from time to time but no longer like sex. maby perhaps im have enogh of it

You're so pretty Courtney

Protec*

@@PremiumUserUltra He protecc, he attacc

Be rich. End of the story

@@adityakulkarni7889 no point of the Weiner if u ain't got the bread

He protecc He attacc He thicc 😩

They could speed it up and have a wall with holes and men just whip it out and the women pick which one they like

That's what's happening if guys sign up for it.

and they think tate is worser then hitler

@@JHINYT Tate is narcissistic millionaire where as Hitler was a dictator in 1930s the difference is absolutely irrelevant

@@JHINYT you should of said and they say Tate is worser than a simp

They are a liability in those instances.

It's tough huh 😒

What roles women play is heavily depended on her cultural background and surrounding role models from her upbringing. Are you asking about American women? If so, this is very different from roles of women from 3rd world countries.

They are the prize. Trust me , they are worth it. I mean, just look at them, they are so sexy. Sorry could help being sarcastic in case you didn't realise lol. I am in the UK and I'm old , married and not interested in these silly entitled girls, I married a girl that didn't have a huge body count, had prospects in her own career path and was into the same things as me, ie walking , bike rides, badminton, dogs. Looks fade and quite fast with some women, Use the correct head when and if you bother choosing a partner in life.

@@1SmokingLizard true because I have a Filipina girlfriend and she wants to cook , clean, buy me gifts , etc , totally different from the majority of women in America. She even said if money ever ran out she’d still be there. I wish All women had the same mindset

I don't even bother unless something jeopardizes the relationship

No. Do not be vulnerable or emotional in front of women, no matter what. Acting emotional/vulnerable is not masculine. Name me one guy that lots of women fangirl towards and has been emotional in the public. Being emotional and vulnerable are feminine traits. Never be emotional, men. Even if your parents died in a car crash 5 minutes ago, tell her you're fine. Messed up, I know, but it is what it is.

@@ShadowbannedAccount Prince. He was even more feminine but still had a masculine frame. You could also mention any public speaker, since being emotional is what they use to motivate people. How many public speakers like Tony Robbins and others have talked about their struggles and how they felt "trapped, lost, etc.?" Basically all of them.

@@ShadowbannedAccount And people wonder why men have sky-high suicide rates compared to women, because you convince yourselves of this garbage. A real man shouldn't cry when his parents die? Were you born this stupid or did you take lessons? Almost all romantic fiction aimed at women are centered around ruggedly masculine dudes who know how to be vulnerable and don't take themselves so seriously. If you think vulnerability just means telling a chick sob stories to get her to like you, then you completely misunderstand what the term means.

@@i9incher And do you know why they've gotten away with being vulnerable? Because they have money. In Prince's case, he had money. Girls LOVE money.

The passion has to make money though

Women like looks everything come with looks is good

Go ahead and believe that and see how far that gets you.

@@ryanbailey8588 What are you referring to?

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I'd love to live in your world.

yes, being authentic will be the least exhausting approach and yield the greatest benefits when successful

No lol

nobody is authentic as whatever you do someone else also does it lol you can be rare and different but you can't be exceptional

So do i

To me, a woman would act like that with you only if she loses attraction for you

Predictability in your actions has turned off your wife....be intuitive

It's just a big game with them. Don't beat yourself up.

That's a lot like passive aggressive behavior and shit testing. Glad she's your ex....

She had a other guy thats when woman try to blame you for shit

no, read the unplugged alpha by richard cooper

Yes she is

Being safe around you is woman speak for saying you are unattractive. How do you not know this?

​@@kelvinpell4571depends on context. If he's jacked and they like him it probably actually means safe. If he's some soyboy it means he's unattractive.

Bullshit, I bartend, hit the gym, I’m in a band, write my own songs, sing at karaoke and make BANK and it still doesn’t attract women, they are all either married or taken, stop fooling people with your bullshit.

@Jay Bee all parties end.

@Jay Bee I had plenty of women speak to me before, today bartending and attacking me for nothing, don’t expect my pity, you’re on a screen, nothin in person, fuckin don’t act as if you know me.

The crazy thing is the average looking woman doesn’t want the average looking guy. The average woman is overweight and so is the guy but ofcourse she only dates or has sex with the guy who is in shape. This is where things get skewed. Once the average woman has had sex with someone who is on a higher level than her she feels entitled to a guy at that level for a relationship. Sadly that guy will not stick around longer than it takes to be done with the sex. These same women will “settle” with some regular guy and then withhold sex from him because he isn’t the chiseled god that used to fuck her. Lol

@@GabrielXDrums I don’t know you, so can’t comment, but you never directly addressed my point which is that handling those issues will make you more attractive. I doubt everyone around you is married, unless you live in a sub-5k people small town where you may not know anyone. Even then, if you live in a place with very little single people, the best you can do is to make yourself competent.

Yes!

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@@andersnielsen6044 Every single second.

Your comment is pure BS

lmfao SHIT ADVICE MATE if you are not alllowed to be vulnerable with your SO it will destroy your relationship. you eventually will reach a limit when all the bottled up emotions come out at once. I did it and lost the girl i loved like no other because she said i hate insane anger issues which i have not. I just ignored it but at one point enough is enough

The feelings one is definitely true but honestly the ones that see it as weakness aren’t worth your time anyways

You don’t get to have feelings because you’re just an ATM to her.

Depends on how you go about talking about it. If you’re expressing how you feel so you’re on the same page and your communication is in sync then it’s not really bad. If you are expressing how you feel in a way that is whiny or complaining then it’s a turn off. It’s a slippery slope so just be careful about it and don’t do it too often. Talk about your feelings to reconnect with her. That’s about it.

@@ericmoore9444 not if she’s the sugar mama

If you can't talk about your feelings with her, then she never liked you for you. Talking about feelings is the foundation of a good relationship where two people keep communication with each other.

I agree with what you're saying, and I think that in addition to sharing the emotions and vulnerability, we also need to bring with that the actual solution you refer to, and confidence we will achieve it, as she actually witnesses us working to achieve it. If we fail to achieve it, being "butt hurt" will make us look like wimps, so ya gotta be like 🤷‍♂️ and implement the plan for "resolution 2." Persistence eventually leads to payoff, and those who disagree with that statement are not only cynical, but insecure and lack confidence.

It can ruin the polarity. She wants to see you as a guy who has his stuff together. Being emotional is fine and needed but in appropriate doses.

I agree with @conner calibration is needed

you are right can't loose control of your emotions.....now it's not fair because women tend to be the ones who can't control their emotions but that's life.....and obviously it's not all women probably more often it's the women with some type of damage...and try to find one that doesn't have at least a little damage...won't happen

Sharing your emotions is not losing control of your emotions. You feel them. Work them out in silence. Or with the boys. Another female friend if you have one. Then you *share* them with your woman (when applicable) with understanding and stoicism, instead of acting irrationally on them. They want to know what we think and feel. They just don't want to see us "feel" it. Best way I can put it.

I'm no Courtney lol but I guess a good start is actively leaving your social circle, try a new hobby or do a new language course or something like that.

If a girl is working at a coffee shop or something don't ask them out unless you are friends with them before is my opinion. (You have fun with small talk) Same goes for the gym. It's less pressure and you come off less as a weirdo if there is some connection. As far as spontaneously meeting people, join a group activity. You can even do this at a gym, whether its a cycling or crossfit class. Girls love these classes as well. Doing recreational sports or other activities are great.

🙌🏼🤍 thank you Nina!!

*good tips if the guy was hot to begin with.

Hi what state u from I'm from California

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@@CourtneyRyan God bless you 999 trillion times more. I hope God gives you what ever you are looking for. Its such a crazy world. Could you just imagine how much you do not even know!! [ There could interesting plot twists out there- I feel like Alexander Dumas with the count of Monte Cristo.] The element of perception is a very interesting element indeed. You are beautiful- use your good judgment to stay that way. God bless you and I hope you have a very beautiful and wonderful life.

My is 30 to 40 age group

As long as it's masculine

@Jay Bee Yes, men and women both need to look in the mirror. And the men and women that are complaining about not being able to find a decent girlfriend or boyfriend need to say the following words in the mirror every day - “Instagram is toxic ! Tik Tok is toxic ! Tinder is toxic ! ALL DATING APPS ARE TOXIC ! “ I met my wife at a gas station. We saw each other with our own eyes ! We heard each other with our own ears ! Instagram and dating APPS deliberately encourage RIDICULOUS expectations. Single men and women need to get some courage and talk to a women or a man in the grocery store, or at the gas station. The problem is that too many 20,30,40 and 50 something’s are too proud to humble themselves to say a simple “hello”. There is no perfect man or women on the planet. Physical beauty fades eventually. My grandmother told me long ago that my grandfather became extremely handsome to her as the years went by…. That’s REAL LOVE !

@@jimmy2591 for me it’s not pride that prevents me from saying hello. It is concern that I will be viewed as a creep, and reported as such. This fear is also coupled with this ‘understanding’ 1. If a woman is at the gym she is there to work on herself *not to be eye candy for anyone* 2. If a woman is in a grocery store then she is there to get what she needs and leaves, *not to have conversation with men.* 3. If a woman is anywhere else in the world then she is either married, dating, or completely not interested. These are the three principles men _must_ follow in todays world. Women have stated multiple times that they do not like to be cold approached. They have made these statements often and vociferously on any and all social media they possess. The game changed, men adapted to the expectations of the new game, or they saw it for what it is and stopped playing.

@@jimmy2591 You're spitting facts. I'll take that into note thanks

Idk since personally I’ve noticed the dating scene, style and everything about changes drastically every 2-3 yrs been seeing it since 2005

*research that has an agenda

@@ericmoore9444 Tell us the agenda.

you forgot to mention she has some other guys kids

Preach the truth my friend. We must educate men on here.

She needs to be young and beautiful, or we (men) wouldn’t look twice at her. It’s hard for women, too. And they can’t exactly do much about aging. Women want protection and provision (for her and her offspring); men want pussy (that is young and beautiful, i.e. fertile and healthy). This is how humans (and many other animals) have always reproduced, and is still the case today. I really don’t understand why men (not all men!) seem to resent women for being attracted to men with money. Unless you plan on building her a shelter, hunting wildebeest to feed her, and guarding her from bears, then your resources (money) are how you will protect and provide for her. And in exchange, we get what we want: pussy (forgive the vulgarity, but it’s true). The more you are able to protect and provide (i.e. the more status/success/wealth you have), the younger and more beautiful the women you are able to attract. It’s not a complex equation. If you think this sounds transactional…well, it is. But (almost) all human relationships are transactional. Why is this a bad thing? Consider the alternative: a _completely_ one-sided relationship, where you do _everything_ for a person, and they give you _nothing_ in return. Isn’t that far worse than a two-way, mutually-beneficial, “transactional” relationship? Listen, if you don’t have money, it’s fine. I’m not here to criticise anyone. I’ve had a very privileged upbringing (along with my own successes, and failures, along the way), so I am in no position to judge anyone. But if you don’t have money, either better yourself, or lower your expectations (or give up on dating entirely - also a valid choice). If you’re a 5, don’t expect to date 8s and 9s. Expect to date 5s (or below). Women _never_ fuck down. And why should they? They don’t “owe” us anything. I will not be taking questions at this time.

Most women don't *actually* want that though. They say they do, but in reality most of them want men who impervious and never feel fear or self-doubt.

​@@badwolf3618 Most "women" are not meant to be our woman. Go find to right ones.

@Jay Bee Well, even wealth is just one dimension of several. And even here many people can't see clearly. I think that many people respond to financial matters emotionally and not rationally. Rationally, you also have nothing to lose when approaching that attractive woman.

​@Jay Bee Thanks for your thoughts! When I say leader men to clarify it doesn't have to mean they're the Quarterback or a CEO, but as the Engineer who works for him giving your example, he could be someone who gives good advice to friends that helps, or someone who takes charge of plans when he out with friends, or teachers other a useful skill, those are other basic examples of being a, "leader of men," not necessarily holding a position but being someone other guys look up to in some way.

there's actually a book about Mystery written by Neil Strauss called "The Game" ;)

@@sahalahmed8263 I've read that! However, I don't feel it was the best book. Your thoughts?

@@11tkohtz Yea, admittedly it was not that great. The book is a good guide if all you want is a few tricks to get laid after bar encounters, but I don’t think that’s what most men truly want.

I read a book called attract and keep her by Jim Wolfe. He says the 4 traits women are attracted to are 1. Internal value 2. Internal strength 3. Preselection 4. Being a Challenge

Poom poom inequality has increased. The bottom half have less poom poom. And the top 10% have helluva lot more.

Thanks for being here Dale! 🥰

@@CourtneyRyan if a man is truly alpha then he knows it and he also knows that he doesn't need to call himself alpha or the need to prove it.

Stop making money off guys simping for you.

@@Kickback-dm7zt what about the dudes that wear alphalete clothing at the gym to show they are alpha males

Confidence, Charisma, Charm, Humor, these are the things that work for me in the dynamic I share when interacting with women.Good looks help as well!

Hello it work I can't believe I'm with my love again after so many years of break-up Dr🏃🏃,...,, he do alot of work okay.., and keep to his words and it works within 48hours

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As in when your clearly willing to do what she wants for the rest of you life, and you clearly tell her this, no thanks

Yeah well that's a lot of fucking pressure to always be the one carrying the burden of honesty and decisiveness. Why should men have to shoulder that burden entirely in a relationship? Also, if women claim to want men that don't try to control them or tell them what to do, then women should stay away from looking for men that are too quick to take charge of a situation because the woman runs the risk of the man not having the discernment to know when it's ok to be in charge and when it isn't.

Studies have shown that women generally care significantly less about looks than men do, although they are equally as important for superficial first impressions. Some women want to be directly courted. Others may want a man who makes as much money or more than them. Attraction has become more nuanced in the modern world since we have parted from Neolithic age.

You’re 100 percent right! Don’t let them gaslight you.

Don't worry about being short. Think about the advantages you offer anatomically. Tall, pale freckles is my type physically. I am 5'10.5". My shortest boyfriend was 5'10". I could have done missionary with him forever because of how perfectly we aligned anatomically. Girls who only want 6' or taller were never your audience anyway. Don't play to them. BTW nerdy guys are hot!

@@yeledim296 what study is that? They care about looks as the top priority. Have a look at the OKCupid study from about 2012.

Out Of Her League. You ain’t handsome and sexy it’s over. She’s a 9 and you’re a hard 5,,,,if you are in a band that gets you a 6.5-, maybe. Life is cruel and it will always be that way. Go listen to Janis Ian, At Seventeen..

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🙌🏼 thank you for sharing this!

Stand up to women that have created these men. Men can’t say anything so you have to.

Bro if you're over 55 don't try to date get ready to die

Naah. . .There's more to life than women.@@lochanavimukthi1101

@@lochanavimukthi1101 LOL you will be there yourself before you even realise!

The same applies at any age:- Height Looks Money over 40 I'd add HAIR Everything else is irrelevant

Men are human beings

@Jay Bee Society also tells woman to be more masculine while at the same time pushing the concept of 'toxic masculinity' to weaken men. Men aren't wired to like masculine women either. This is why the West will continue its demise with a rapid decline in birth rates.

100% facts!

Same here man. You show vulnerability, they exploit you and burn.

You’re overthinking everything man

@@Ross-ve9ww It’s not overthinking when it has happened literally every single time I opened up to a girl. And the divorce rates plus how a man is treated in custody battles that it’s just not worth the pain. I wish it was different but times have changed.

As someone who’s been in a relationship for over 17 yrs, I don’t understand how this vulnerability thing is a turn off. Can you be more specific or give me an example? I may not be seeing it with my husband but he shares a lot with me and we talk a lot and I’m still hot for him lol. I know I may be the exception but I need to know these things so I can understand it.

Good point.

Extreme wealth is earned - not inherited. Social mobility up and down is very agile in America.

@Jason MP Anecdotal at best. Most Forbes 400 are self-made.

80 percent of millionaires are self made, and most people who have their money inherited to them blow it very quickly. The old money families are very rare. Also being born poor in the US is no excuse, there is a reason why people leave other countries with no money in their pockets and become very successful here. They understand the opportunity here and don't look for wack ass excuses or play the victim card

@@One_Eleven111 I know where you’re getting that statistic from, but the measure is spin. For instance Microsoft, Amazon, and Facebook were all started with loans from rich parents. Did the moguls inherit their wealth? Not at the time. So by the informal study’s measure these billionaires are “self made“. However that ignores the reality of their upbringings’ influence on their success.

@@EpicDadventures About 20 percent of "self made" millionaires earned their wealth through a combination of inheritance and their self created wealth. I believe those people would have been successful weather they got that money or not, people who build companies that big have a drive that would have made them millions or even billions anyway. Also, I don't care if 99 percent of millionaires didn't earn their money, that has nothing to do with me and shouldn't matter to anyone how they got their money. Everybody needs to worry and focus on their own life and not make excuses why they aren't where other people are.

True, sort of. Look, there are some pretty universal factors to attract women. Looks, money, physique rarely hurts. HOWEVER, women also know, when trying to lock down a guy, that if they aim too high they can run into problems. Will the guy be faithful to them short or long term? So while hypergamy dictates that women ARE attracted to men of equal or higher SMV, they also know that high SMV guys can be intimidating. Again, this comes back to the dual nature of female attraction, arousal and comfort. Yes, Billionaire Giga-Chad can be highly arousing, but he's low on the comfort metric. She's going to struggle to lock him down and women DON'T LIKE TO SHARE. So there are self imposed limits to a woman's hypergamy if she's got some self discipline.

@@jleano609 dropping facts! All women have those core traits they look for and all the other +’s is dependent on the woman and her preferences, environmental influence, history etc Are you making content? That would be awesome 😎

@@Nah-ah thanks for the kind words, you likewise provide a valuable perspective from the woman’s side. No I’ve never really thought about providing online content. I do informally coach young guys along side my more formal role as a judo coach. They need guidance on and off the mat in muscles/money/game/frame. The most important thing that comes up again and again is to approach and build social skills with girls. Guys nowadays are way too shy.

Woman love dark hair

@@cripbk2147 I agree with you. Except if I happen to be in their eyeshot.

you sound like a black piller, on this list what exactly do you lack?

Yes and no I’m my opinion. If you have no social skills and don’t know how to banter and flirt with a girl then all the traits you mentioned won’t really matter. But yes having those things definitely helps if you good “game” to go along with it

@@nickrunaway2 Flirting and social skills will only get you so far in 2022. Women expect the whole “package.” Even average women.

@@Official_Baba_yaga I’m 51 and single. The only gold digging in my life is me digging for my own.

No no no. You are going to get your heart broken.

@@ericmoore9444 I was afraid someone's gonna say that.

It's hard cause a lot of women are online. Even going out to meet them. Where are they at? On the phone.

@@punsized2296 of course.

@@punsized2296 It is pretty easy to identify the ones on the phone and the one who are not...

There's a lot you can do to become more attractive. Start by hitting the gym.

@@rod6722 one of the real reasons why I joined the gym: I hate feeling so unattractive.

Attractive men without confidence: cute

@@rod6722 pls stop this bs ... Iam a College team football player I hit gym when i was 17 now iam 21 still continuing Hitting gym won't change your genetics, or transform you into a Greek god which make women go mad Hit gym lift weights and make yourself satisfied and happy , Don't hit gym with these wierd expectations linked to women

@@ashwinach_zz5195 I don't disagree with anything you said. Sure, attracting women shouldn't be the only reason you hit the gym. And it won't change the genetic factors you can't control. All I'm saying is that having a stronger and healthier body makes you more attractive, that's just a fact.

Being doing this from last 6 years ...lmao this is bs advice is sick ....dooomers gona belive this bs and follow this advice hoping to attract some women one day , but it's not true and when they realise the truth it's very late ... Work out , meditate, bring ethics to your life , love your mom and dad , be gentleman don't do these with expectations like women will get attracted to you one day .! Do these to be a good human being

I started eating a lot more red meat and eggs and sleeping better and now I'm pitching tents every morning again lol

@@Theviewerdude good! That healthy cholesterol helps the production of testosterone. Happy for ya! (And your callers hahahahaha) I'm in my early 30s and I've never missed a morninf

I hear ya - Joseph! Great tips - and speaking of “Testosterone…” If you want to increase your “Testosterone” levels, then you must… -Exercise, and start Lifting Weight, it definitely helps! -Try getting some Sun, or just take Vitamin D, you’ll see what happens! -Get some High Quality Sleep at night, and make sure you get a lot of Rest! -And lastly, Eat Protein, Fat and Carbs, and soon, you’ll start seeing a big difference! There are more things you could do, of course - but these should get you started! Good luck! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips

I've been being a bit more active lately and I've noticed a bit improvement in that department

Hello it work I can't believe I'm with my love again after so many years of break-up Dr🏃🏃,...,, he do alot of work okay.., and keep to his words and it works within 48hours

Source for the 1-5 points?

the ones I'm running across lately, #1....money

@@YesPlease1 Real life

💯 percent truth, all the rest is conversation, as hard as it is for most men to accept

@@greg33770 especially here in Florida lol. I see hot young girls get with slightly older guys with the dad Bod for the money and trips.

3) $$$$

No no no no no no no. Girls don't mature faster than guys. That's a lie that predators use to justify their sickness. Girls in their early 20s are a lot different than a guy in his 30s. The reason why no one bats an eye with 50 and 70 is when you're 50 you're probably similar to when you're 70. Girls change a lot during their 20s so keep in mind you might be headed for trouble.

Nice name

@@jeremyneiderhoff not too bad

@@jeremyneiderhoff HAHAH! I didn't realize my name could be part of a joke to the reply to Tommy Gunn.

Sounds like it gives you high blood pressure

Red is an angry colour nothing more nothing less. I don’t own a single article of Red clothing.

As far as meeting women and dating it's been a tough rollercoaster D 3 years for me I have plenty going for me BUT these women are NOT EMOTIONALLY available too f'ed up and they blame the guy all the time!

🙂 nice to hear...Good luck

I agree, never be too honest or display your vulnerabilities too soon (or to the wrong person). They'll take advantage of you and use your weaknesses/vulnerabilities against you.

@@douglaskelly1394 i don't know. it can be a way to test the early so you can weed them out

Yeah Corey wayne is amazing

That means that if you weren't handsome shes suddenly not sapio anymore

Sounds borderline risky. Sometimes a narcissist will feed your own ego so that you will accept theirs and later she will take control so I would simply say thank you and not let it make you

Run!!!