Another thing I learned in the military: Never look like you've got nothing to do. They WILL find something for you to do!

1. Never be late for anything 2.Be organized 3. Proper ironing 4.Spend time on your footwear 5. Practice humour

My wife has often noted: "You may have left the Army - but the Army never left you". I left the Army in 1974. And I still have the discipline and demeanour of a Soldier. Thank you for the memories.

As a 35yr veteran of the US Army who recently retired, your video was spot on correct. If you could add a sixth lesson, it may be about the importance of physical fitness in your daily life...simply investing a small portion of your day to take care of your body and mind. If you stay ready (for whatever task), you don't have to get ready. Thank you for sharing these lessons to a broader audience.

1) 2:21 Never be late for anything in life. Exactly on-time is actually late. Be there 10 mins before. 2) 5:17 Everything has its place. Keep everything in its place. 3) 7:11 Nobody else does the ironing for me in my life. I take the responsibility for the way that I look and I then take the accolade when I get the compliments. 4) 9:34 Always take time in polishing your footwear. 5) 13:15 The final habit is the humour. Humour becomes a coping strategy to life. I.e. Not flippancy, not degrading but diffusing a stressful situation. Thank you, sir. I have subscribed because I wanted to learn more from you. If I may add, I also like to pray and give thanks every morning, afternoon and evening - Give thanks that I am still alive at least and healthy to continue.

I'm a 21 year U.S. military veteran. I could not agree more. I was in the Legal Branch. I would exercise and run 5 miles a day, with one of the Infantry units on my base. Needless to say, I stayed in tip-top physical condition. I moved to Costa Rica, and still run along the beautiful beaches. After service, I worked for several large legal firms. What a nightmare! There was no team work, it was cut throat, every man/woman for themselves. It was all about billable hours and winning cases for profit. Now that I look back, some of the best experiences and friends I had, was during military service!

5things (awesome video) 2:00 never be late and arrive early 5:15 everything needs its place 7:10 ironing your ownclothes 9:31 polishing footwear& footwear care 13:15 humor in tough situations

I was a tank gunner in the 3rd Armored Cav, deployed in Iraq for two years. The most important thing I learned is selfless service. If you approach everything in life from a position of doing it to help others it make life much more meaningful.

In these times of slack and allergy to accountability, there is nothing more pleasant than collaborating with people who are always on time, orderly and focused on details. Those people are gold, keepers.

I was in the Navy from 1964-1968, learned all these things and have kept to these habits well into my late 70s. I’ve been married 55 plus years and still do all my own ironing too.

So refreshing to hear someone recognize the value of striving to be a true gentleman. Thank you.

I learned several great military habits while serving in the USMC. Here are a few listed below. 1. Always arrive 15 minutes before. 2. Discipline: live a life of Discipline. 3. Initiative: always take the initiative. 4. Integrity: live a life of integrity. 5. Motivation: stay motivated and keep going.

Great informative video. One thing I’d like to add, is that it’s important to be comfortable with being uncomfortable at times. If you’re uncomfortable often enough, either cold showers, weight training, running exercising in the rain, you’ll be better off when you’re uncomfortable in a serious situation. Whether you have to have an operation, an illness, an injury, a car accident, etc. you’ll survive and have a better attitude if you’re accustomed to occasionally being uncomfortable.

One thing my military experience taught me, other than ironing my clothes and polishing my shoes, I was taught self confidence in myself, which helped me to relate to many people from all walks of life, young and older

Retired policeman (American), and time served in the Army Guard/Reserve. Thank you for your insight, and service.

I’m a woman and spent time in the military. All of this was instilled in me and remains after many years. This type of video should be mandatory especially now days when so many people don’t seem to have any self discipline or care about how they look. Thank you!

I'm retired US Arrmy, formerly a Platoon Sergeant. I currently attend the local university near me just for fun and to pass the time. I am a history major, and spend a lot of time reading obscure texts and then writing my thoughts on them. I have absolutely no problem speaking at length in front of a group, but I have noticed that many of my much younger classmates are absolutely terrified of public speaking. From early on in the military, if you are speaking in front of a formation and they can't hear you in the back, you can be certain that they will let you know it. BTW a trick I was taught early on by Old Sarge was to walk around with a clipboard and a scowl - potential nuisances will scatter like cockroaches. Great video.

My son is 17 and in the air cadets... he turns out immaculately even in camo! But I am waiting for his room to benefit from some discipline 😂.

The things I learned in the military still are a part of my life even now at 70.

As a trainee, I was taught to do things properly. It then follows on that you take a pride in what you do and that extends through you life. Also, everything in it's place, as you say. If you need something in a hurry, you know exactly where it is.

Former US Army here. Particularly as a young soldier, shining boots was as much a social activity as a military duty. A few cans of kiwi shoe polish, a cotton t-shirt cut apart and wrapped around your finger, a little water in the upturned lid of the polish, a couple of room mates and a guy or two from down the hall and a case of German beer. Let the dark humor flow! We would have conversations about everything from the new commander to yesterday's duty to family back home to the really hot local girl one of the guys was chasing, etc, etc.

My Dad was in the Navy during the 2nd world war ..as a child I always remember him spending hours polishing his work boots , he was never ever late for anything and I like to think I have followed in his footsteps in that respect .. a most entertaining video thankyou Ash

I’m retired US Army 30 years. I started as a Private, E-1 and made my way to Colonel. The secrets to my success: 1) When you fail or screw up, be 100% honest with the boss. Accept responsibility and committ to never making the same mistake. If you lead a team and the team is successful ensure that everyone gets recognition. 2) Take the tough jobs and do your best in them. I outworked my peers. I never kissed arse. I simply did my job to the best of my ability. That’s it.

October 2023 - Thank you so much for this video! I wish I saw something like this decades ago in my life. One day I was doing religious education to a bunch of youngsters at a church. One young boy raised his hand. I thought he had a question about what I was talking about. He said boldly, “My father has a belt just like yours!!” Whether we like it or not, people do check out and look at each other.

I did not serve in the military, but many of your points were instilled in me by my parents who believed that timeliness reflected your character and respect for others while your appearance reflected your personal discipline and self-respect. Thank you for the reminder!

i served in afghanistan, OEF 2008, did 8 years in the U.S. ARMY as An infantryman, today, i dress like a punk rock skateboarder and love driving around with my bud in our hotrod car club, , but i still say yes sir or no ma'm. always be polite and have lots of patience with people i already am aware that they have zero to no, " Discipline " so it's up to me, to apply my, Discipline to my own self, and REMEBER EVERYONE!! DON'T EVER COMPROMISE YOUR STANDARDS < FOR NO ONE! Even if your manager, or boss, or superior, are slobs, dont lower yours to theirs! Stay Sharp my friends!

I was in the USAF for 4 years and I would say the things I learned were: 1) Plan ahead and be proactive 2) If something just takes a few minutes do it now not later 3) Be neat, clean and organized 4) Learn self-discipline (very important IMO) 5) Be professional in your conduct 6) Have a long term direction to strive for. Men especially need a goal or path in life to strive for. 7) Be resilient, you will get knocked down again and again in life. Get up and start moving. Learn from it. The military can teach you a lot of things that are valuable and can be used for the rest of your life. Lots of other comments have great things listed too.

I served for 36 years in the Canadian Army. You are absolutely correct on all points.

Great video. I had four years in the US Army which included a year in Vietnam during the war. You are spot on. I think a mirror shine is one way to spot a veteran. As well as generally being more organized which includes ironed clothes. Better focus. Not every veteran; we have some who are not folks you would want to spend time with. But the others? Generous to a fault. Vietnam Veterans of America is generously supported (I am a Life Member) and in response VVA supports schools and orphanages in Vietnam.

My dad was an RSM in the KOSB & he instilled in me a huge amount of personal discipline & respect which has served me well in life

I'm a retired U.S. U.S. Air Force Sergeant. I have to say, yes I can relate with everything you talked about in this video. I learned all these lessons too in the military and they gave me a good blueprint for the rest of my life. I hope everyone watching this video take these lessons too heart. Thank you for all this good information.

Having a sense of humor is so important in life! Not just for relating to others but also for coping with difficult situations.

"1.Keep your head on a swivel and watch your back. 2.Don't be the fly on the wall, be the wall. 3.Stay Strong, Stay Focused and Stay Free." -- Col. Michael Radcliff

I was not in the military, I was a professional sales man, and followed all the habits just mentioned in particular the pre planning and driving the route. Very glad found the channel. Excellent

thank you sir! I'm 37 years old male professional and altough I have not served in the military but been involved with competitve sports and classical ballet from age 3-30. I have the same habits,procedures you have described in your video and proudly stick to traditional values.

As a former Military veteran and whos father was a Intelligence officer in WW2 I had a disciplined upbringing. I thank my parents for how they were.... nothing horrible it was a brilliant childhood. I am sometimes unable to deal with the lack of motivation and discipline people have today.

Veteran USMC & US Army Infantry Officer, Ranger, Airborne, etc. My dad was a Marine officer, also. I appreciate having someone like you providing a "refresher" of the things that I still do habitually. Working from home nearly five years now has taken me out of a public environment where I can actually feel "feedback" from others for maintaining these standards. I miss the feedback because even though it might not be voiced, others notice and respond when you set and keep these values. I think the thing that most distresses me about the American culture is the abandonment of standards as it describes the failure of people to have respect for themselves, much less have any respect for others. A perfect example is flying passengers who show up with their hairy Frodo-toes hanging out of flip flops, wearing torn up clothing, their exposed armpits hanging out of their tank tops, and body odor that smells the southend of a north-bound rhinoceros. And don't even get me talking about how nasty the guys can get!

This video is spot-on, Ash. I'm retired US Army and these same habits were instilled in me early in my career. I try to teach the young men and women I work with as a volunteer firefighter/EMT these same lessons. I would like to add one more - Always have something to write with and on. Cells phones / tablets don't count because they can run out of power or cell service. Instead, carry a sturdy notepad and pencil (or pen). These tools are necessary in this distracted, busy world. Our memory is fallible, especially when we are tired and distracted. Writing down important information can literally save the day and your reputation. I use a weather/water-resistant pad (e.g., Rite-in-the-rain field book), but also carry a few 3x5 cards. I carry a pen AND a pencil. One tip I give to the other firefighters is to cut down a Bic Stic-type pen so it will fit in a pants pocket, as well as to carry a "golf pencil" (one of those stubby pencils used for scoring). Put an old cap from a pen over the pointy end of the pencil and you're prepared to write down important information and ideas. Thanks for excellent videos on how to be a better person.

When I watched you taking a hike in the woods; it reminded me of the physical demands as a U.S. Marine in the field who loves to spend time outdoors. It truly is therapeutic when your body is challenged and then you rest to recover and do it better the next time. Thanks for your video. Spot on mate.

I will always place the mission first. I will never accept defeat. I will never quit. I will never leave a fallen comrade. I am disciplined, physically and mentally tough, trained and proficient. I always maintain my arms, my equipment and myself. Utrinque paratus!

Please permit me to add a couple more admirable "military traits": 1) The Walk or better put, the Stride! 2) The smart posture, whether in standing or sitting!

I picked up these lessons from my father, who was in the military, plus some time in scouting. And they have taken me far in life.

I was in the United States Marine Corps. There was structure and order that stemmed from discipline. Your personal appearance most often indicated your attention to detail and performance. Like you said, everything has a place and there is a published procedure for almost everything that takes place in military life. I was able to operate in the dark because of the habit of keeping everything in the same place. People often ask me if I need a light on to be able to see what I’m doing. I say no thanks I’m fine with only a night light on. After getting out and making my way in the civilian world, that is a rarity. There’s no larger unit to be a part of and take pride in. At work, the procedures depend on who the boss happens to be and work ethic seems to less than in the military. About being on time, there was a standard of 15 minutes prior. If you weren’t 15 minutes early, you’re automatically late. You found yourself on your face doing push-ups. Some superiors took it to the next extreme and said if you weren’t 15 minutes prior to the 15 minutes then you were late (I saw no point in this myself). Anyhow that was a great video. Keep it up!

Ash… I discovered your channel a couple weeks ago and have really been enjoying them. I am 61 years old and recently decided to try to step up my style past the jean and T-shirt/sweatshirt look that has been my uniform since my teenage years. This video struck home. I spent 8 years in the Canadian Army. The humour part of your discussion came as an unexpected and pleasant surprise. Very true! One more point I would add: a phrase I heard often in the military was “Move with purpose!” It was always emphasized to not wander aimlessly or meander about. When you are walking, always move as if you have a destination planned. Love your videos. Keep up the good work.

Former British Army Air Corps soldier here (of a similar vintage to yourself!) And I can absolutely concur with all of the points made in your video - especially the time-keeping. I cannot abide tardiness. Unless something is out of your control, there's no excuse for it.

All these plus working have made my life successful beyond my dreams. Can’t beat it.

I am an Army Veteran served! Learnt to trust my gut! Learnt read the room and know your customer, enemy and competition! Do your own intel gathering! Contingency is planning for all variables! Keep eyes wide open situational awareness saves lives, time, resources and time! Always stay humble and remain humble and respectful!! Take care! Love from South Africa! Amen

I served in HM Forces (RAF) for 12 years, and left as an NCO. I agree about timing, it really irritates me when people turn up late, especially for meetings or courses. Be ready to start at the time stated! Nobody else does my ironing either, the thought of someone else ironing my clothes causes anxiety. Though after 12 years of ironing I do tend to avoid it if possible. Luckily I’m now self-employed craftsperson, so don’t need to look smart. I agree about shoes, if someone is wearing a suit, but has dirty or poorly maintained shoes I can’t help but judge them. Maintaining your footwear isn’t just about looking smart, it saves you money too! 😂 Black humour, yes! Civilians need to learn the value of that. It keeps you sane.

My Grandfather was a probation officer after the war, and he said that the first thing he did, and gained a lot of information about the person coming to him, was look at their shoes. If he could see they made an effort with clean shoes he knew he could work with them to change their life around. Much harder these days as everyone wears trainers but I guess there are clean and neat trainers and there are dirty ones.

The ironing and polishing of shoes is something we all retain forever . In my personal experiences when people say “ oh you are ex military”( rather than ask if I was ? ) is more to do with the posture than the dress . As much as I keep tidy and professional , people notice the stance and mention it often as a compliment

I know I'm a bit late to the video, but I've seen so many people here talking about their own experience and lessons learned from their service. I just want to give everyone doing that a huge thank you for your advice and your service. I know so many people say that, but truly, we would not be where we are today without you and your forefathers. Veterans, active service members, whatever it may be, we are honored that you stand as the face of our country. I say that as a proud American, but I think I speak for everyone when I say that. Thank you

Spot on! My father was a US Navy Lieutenant Commander and taught me a lot of those. I was a US Navy CWO4 and taught my kids the same.

Great video. I joined the Army as a Junior Leader at the Infantry Junior Leaders Battalion in 1970 and served until 1995. Now 68 years old, the lessons I learned and that you presented here have stayed with me. Simple but very valuable lessons. I hope many younger people will see this and take notice.

Excellent advice. I served as a US Marine and in the US Army for 32 years and I call people sir and ma’am to this day.

8 years US Air Force. For me, always on time early, well groomed at all times, organized, physical fit, my job responsibilities goes beyond my job title, do more than expected. Even as a sales manager for a machinery company I have no problem sweeping the floor, putting things away when I notice it needs be done. Oh and the shoes yes, always clean and shiny.

Hi. I’ve never been in the Military and I still enjoyed your content. 5 habits that will set you up for life. Please keep these videos coming. 😊

Back in the 80s I worked with a bunch of great colleagues, some of whom had done military service. I could easily tell the difference - those with military service looked after the equipment they used, always turned up despite the weather, on time and in good humour. Those who hadn't done service were forgetful, late, unreliable, and always making excuses!

One important lesson I learnt while in the RAF, is always make your bed in the morning because if you have a shitty day, you have somewhere comfortable to go.

Not military but son of Caribbean parents (trinidadians 🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹) and honestly, this is exactly what its like in our tough upbringing. I had one job at 17 that had issues with my lateness. I NEVER had that again but even until my 30s she would always be like "be early l, you dont want to be let go for that again) rest her soul.

My Dear great father participated in second world war at Iraq from Subcontinent. During my 36 years services for a German company all the habits learnt from my father helped me a lot to align myself quickly across the board. Log book maintenance helped me a lot. Excellent sharing for new generation. Thanks

Two things I took away from my time in the military, 47 years ago: Always trust your instincts, this kept me out of potentially harmful situations at least twice, and made me recognize an irregular situation in a split second at least once. And when addressing an undisciplined mob, never try to address them all, rather find the most senior distinguished looking psrson among them, address only him, give him status of sorts, and allow him to control his own mob. I rebelled at the shining shoes though, my shoes are clean, but not particularly shiny.

I love your devotion to everything you talk about ..I'm a chef and I've been doing tge exact same thing without being in any armed forces. I feel just as proud..

I do all those things and have never been in any of the services ! Great respect for all our veterans and those currently serving

I served in the U.S. Navy for over a decade and your habits mirror what our military teaches us here. This was a wonderful video and I can see where I've lapsed after being out nearly 30 years. Well I'll be correcting that immediately. Thank you.

As an Ex-RAF serviceman, I absolutely agree with every point. There is an awful lot the military can teach young men and women and for me it was a great tool in becoming (I hope!) a gentleman. Per Ardua Ad Astra!

Most impartant lesson I've got from my service is that you should keep pushing yourself no matter how much your body or mind tells you that you've reached your limit. I was amazed when I found out that most of my "limits" were just in my head. This applys not only to physical fitness and endurance, but also to ability to study and develop complex skills.

I'm forwarding this to my kids now. I was a Navy brat and wife to a retired career military man. Your lessons are wise and applicable across life. Not surprisingly I was aware of your lessons and how my life is accordingly. Thank you sincerely kind sir for sharing your wisdom.

1. Being early is such a helpful skill! I agree that being late is a sign of rudeness. Today, there was terrible construction in front of my home, and I was two minutes late to my fencing lesson. Despite my instructor's amusement, I sincerely apologized. A minute late is late - period. The exception to this is calling on others' homes. Being early for a dinner party or at-home get-together is, in fact, rude. One should walk into the home somewhere between the minute the party starts to fifteen minutes after; if one arrives early, they should stroll the neighborhood. In regard to people I know, I am more forgiving of slight lateness for others than I am of myself, but if a friend is consistently late or, even worse, forgets the event entirely, I won't feel very warmly about it. In my experience, punctuality is especially an issue for my fellow Gen Z members. 2. Before you leave the house, have a mental list of everything you need. Be in the habit of putting everything you need in your pockets as part of getting dressed. Once the habit forms, the habit has formed. Habits are essential! 3. I must admit that I use my dryer to get wrinkles out rather than using an iron. What can I say? I'm a tad lazy. I have found that using the iron doesn't change much for my Charles Tyrwhitt non-iron shirts as opposed to drying and hanging. I respect the art, but I find that I prefer the lazy way this time. 4. Shiny shoes, meanwhile, have no shortcuts. I have a personal relationship with my shoe-shiner at Nordstrom (an American mall brand). Five dollars for a shine, half an hour of professional cleaning and quality interaction, and I'm golden. 5. Good humor is a great skill. I find being self-deprecating to be the most useful form of humor, especially if you stand out in some way. It's easier to put people at ease when wearing a three-piece suit and pocket watch to an informal situation when you can poke fun at yourself for it - while still being confident enough to stand by your style.

I worked for a multi-national company for 30 years. One of the biggest complaints was people showing up late for meetings. Even the person who scheduled the meeting would show up late. It was finally decided meetings would start at the top of the hour and end or take a break at 15 minutes before the hour. At least us worker bees showed up on time.

I spent 13 years in the US Army and everything you said is true. I also make my bed every morning because it motivates me for the rest of the day since the first task of the day is complete. In addition I still walk with a purpose and think that is another good habit that carries over from the military.

I joined the RAF at 16 and spent 8 years in the service I agree with all of your points - I do still polish my shoes but not the waste of time bulling where you build up a thick surface of gleaming polish which is easily spoiled and I think a waste of time. The military also screwed up my sleep pattern as I was a signals operator and worked a crazy shift system. I was totally unsuited for such a life and spent my time since playing in rock and roll bands. I do everything for myself. Regarding humour I've written a soon to be published book - an illustrated and irreverent account of 2 years on an isolated desert outpost it's called Sweating On My Chitty Box.

Great video Ash. Although not having served myself, I came from a military family. It was installed in me from an early age everything you covered, which has served me well in my professional life.

It's funny how many of these things I learned from my grandfather and are now considered vastly unusual. I do think KZfaq provides a great space to pass on life lessons to young men who perhaps don't have the benefit of a positive male role model.

Thank you, sir. My father was at the MoD/in the armed forces for most of his life. Most of these things he taught me or I learnt myself in my military service (coastal artillery). Especially the "dry runs" the evening before you're going on an interview, to an exam or on a date. Lessons for life. Cheers.

Your list is spot on! Learned some of these from my dad. Lived more of them as a military dependent when my husband was in Army Airborne.

My take away here and one I wholeheartedly agree with is that these “small habit / tasks” represent a broader way of thinking about things and really are a window into one’s character about the bigger things. Ironing isn’t just ironing. It’s attention to detail Punctuality isn’t just timeliness it’s a respect for yourself and others.

Very well said sir! Everything you mentioned here, being on time, returning things where they belong, ironing, polishing shoes and humour resonates on me. This is very me and I am a nurse by profession🥰

Love this video. You Sir are a 10 year RAF Airman and an example & a Gentleman! These values are worthy attributes to learn. Apply things like this and, be more successful. More men need to watch this video and others like it. Outstanding!!

Thank you all for your service. I served and so did my father and other family members. If I could do it again, I would. I learned a lot that I still use in everyday life

Great stuff, as always, Ash. I will note that currently only 3.8% of the UK population have ever served in the military. It's a little different in the US - about 6.5% there. I'm a firm believer in the doctrine of "learning from other people." If another country, or company, or culture or profession does something particularly well, then ask yourself "What lessons can I take away from this?" And I think Ash's video is a perfect example of this. Military service is founded on one principle: Discipline. And SELF-DISCIPLINE is an essential component of that regime. You don't shine your boots or do your daily PT exercises because otherwise your sergeant will yell at you. You do it because it's the right thing to do. Self-discipline is one of the skills that good militaries instil in their service members. And it's a lesson (a hard, life-long one) literally everyone would do well to learn.

Hello again Ash. I have been working away on my journey to Chap Nirvana with the help of your channel since my retirement a few years ago. My older brother, who has retired some years earlier has spent his life in military service from his teenage years to his mid fifties. We meet at family functions now and then. No matter how prepared I am my brother is always a step ahead. His turnout is always impeccable and reliable. There is no competition between us, it's just that I've always put it down to his military upbringing. Having met some of his friends from his military years I can confirm your statement about the importance of military rigour as an influence on being a Chap.

I am a Viet Nam combat veteran and I have never forgotten what I was taught in boot camp.I have always been on time for everything.Also I keep my closet organized, clothes pressed and shoes shined.And even at 76 I still work out and try to stay in shape.I thank the US army for teaching me to be a better man.

I was in the ATC as a teenager and was taught most of what you mentioned in this video. I still have the mentality to this day over 20 years later. Always arrive earlier than necessary. Everything is where it needs to be so I know where to find it. Nobody irons anything for me because I iron things my way (the right way!) I used to wear steel toe capped boots to work as a hotel night manager years ago and I would polish them up to glass-like quality, sitting with a can of Kiwi, a drop of water and a Selvyt cloth I bought in the NAAFI in RAF Laarbruch in '99 when our band played the closing ceremony. The humour, though.... hospitality gave me the dark sense of humour. I've seen things, sir. :) Great video!

Fantastic! My grandfather taught me these habits when I was a teenager while I went to vacations and visited him in the country. At the first moment, I could not understand why he behaved that way, and I perceived all his actions toward me as a kind of aggressiveness. But after some conversations with him about his experiences in the Mexican army, I understood the relevance of all this which is just called DISCIPLINE & RESPECT. Thanks for sharing all this, former soldiers!

I served in the United States Navy aboard the USS Theodore Roosevelt CVN-71, so paying attention to detail was key, & could save you, a family member, or a friend’s life. God Speed! 🫡

Brilliant insights as usual. Arriving on time shows respect for the time and efforts of those with whom you will be meeting, It makes an enormous difference. Being squared away is key - especially if you’re out in the wilderness. I iron my shirts and my trousers…and my wife’s too. Clean polished shoes - even in hot, dusty desert Phoenix, communicates quality & reliability…and people and clients notice…and often say so. And humor along with not taking yourself too seriously can really help with leadership when you and your team find yourselves in a stressful situation. Great video..thank you!

Seems that your thoughts are resonating with many people including me. The military was a life altering event for all participants. Thanks for the comradeship.

Thank you and a happy new year 🎉!Wish you the best!

Enjoyed the video ... From my experience what I ve noted is becoming disciplined is not easy ...but after becoming disciplined life itself becomes easier ...thanks for the video ... looking forward to seeing more helpful videos like this...

Great video, Ash! My father was in the RAAF 🇦🇺 for close to 20 years and also instilled similar mindsets during my upbringing.

Right on. Thanks for sharing.

Absolutly love the last one! That's how you get through the tough times

Hi Ash, good advice, especially for the protected class who did not serve in the military. I served 12 years in the US Army (field artillery) from the Cold War through Desert Storm and value my time serving. I am still active today but supporting veterans through the various veterans organizations here in the USA. You do great work for men.

Good stuff. I never served in the military but am currently in Law Enforcement. The tip about shining your shoes is a good one! For me, it professionalism and pride in the job, but it also telegraphs to bad dudes that if our boots are squared away, so are the rest of our tools 😊 Also really appreciate the piece about humor. It’s spot on!

You're utterly right about humour. They take it seriously no doubts even offended

Thank you for your service.

I was never in the military, but I’ve known plenty of people who were, and in my old age I’ve learned to appreciate the value of living a disciplined life and keeping a regular schedule. After a life of being the least athletic person on the planet, I’ve started doing calisthenics in the morning before getting dressed! And at my age it HURTS - but Hell, no pain no gain. This helps alleviate depression - it’s a rather Jordan Peterson thing to do - but more important, one loses muscle mass and circulation as one gets older, and strenuous exercise should forestall that. So grit your teeth, guys, and get healthy!

Hi Ash, another great video enunciating some very pertinent life habits. For myself, I even knew beforehand what you were going to say about arriving 'just' on time (ie. already late). Whilst not having served in the Military, each and every one of those habits described have always been part of my daily routines. Having a 'proper' place for items/things etc is not just a matter of tidiness, it is one of efficiency and at the same time, a kind of mental relaxation simply because you know where everything essential to the day is located. One other habit that has been a mantra of mine (and passed on to my children) is to start the day by 'making your bed' as soon as you get out of it. It is such a simple thing but it sets the day (and in someways, the mindset) by having completed a very basic task immediately ... :o) Carry on Sir !

Excellent, Ash! My father was a Navy officer and he was right as you are right today. One thing you did not specifically mention but is important, is to act with determination when a crisis developes. For example in his older years he was passing by a pub when a drunk stated breaking bottles and attacked the girl at the bar. He just went in and held the drunk until police came!

My now late mother taught me this habit from childhood by sending me to look for items in the dark..things like toothpaste, shoe brush if I didn't find I would put the light back on and organize the whole place again.