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For visuals learners ~ 1. Be a highly sought after, high value woman. (Even if you don’t believe you are, act like one). Don’t rush into meeting up and delay your responses. You’re busy and will respond/ fit him into your schedule at your earliest availability. 2. Behave as if he doesn’t have you/ you’ve moved on. Ignore ignore ignore. Bask in the receiving side as opposed to the sending side of those double and triple texts. Reverse the power dynamic and make him think you’re not coming back. Men are typically under the assumption that though they are not in direct communication with you at the moment, they can have you back anytime they want. Shatter that reality for him. 3. You must follow through. Don’t listen to arbitrary no contact deadlines and soften after they come back. You have to be an actress and fulfill the role completely, not back out when you start to see signs of them coming around. The role does not go away upon re-contact - that is truly the beginning, more work to come. 4. Keep him on social media. Don’t show him that it’s bothering you or that he’s emotionally affecting you. Let him see you’re unphased living life as usual and then delete him when he would least expect it. Blocking and deleting out of spite or bitterness is unattractive and immature. 5. Renegotiate the contract. Since you are in the position of power now you can impose your standards and make sure everyone is on the same page in regards to the relationship dynamics. Stand your ground and tell them your expectations. Embrace that power once you get it back and don’t just give it away so soon. Relish in it and hold onto it as long as you can, you waited long enough and can now bask in the fruits of your efforts. As always, thank you Elliot you are a gem

Elliot Scott changed my life. I found an amazing guy when I stopped lowering my values for other men

Don't need to make him worry. He has lost me.

How is he not on 1M subscribers already. I’ve been watching u for 5yrs now. Nigeria 🇳🇬 ❤

I almost spat out the water I was drinking with the "there is no writing letters" 😂😂😂

We need to talk about how to have this effect AFTER a woman is in a relationship… esp when it’s been a few years and the person takes you for granted.

Guys unfortunately, 99% of the time, respect women who are wanted by lots of men. Because it ques their egos to compete for something they may not be able to have. Anyone else, they'll mistreat or use for their own personal satisfaction. That's the bottom line. I've experienced it with my exes and it wasn't until I started focusing more on my goals, that guys started giving more respect. It honestly pisses me off because guys don't like it when women are that way towards them but they're constantly being vain assholes if a woman isn't "good enough" for them in some capacity. Dating really is doomed smh.

1.) Respectfully, I don’t think Hussey is into no contact. I know any previous efforts I’ve made haven’t worked. It’s when I’ve decided I never, ever, EVer want to see them again that they come back. Then, what’s the use of that? 2.) Social media? I AVOID doing this with someone for at least three months. Why? Because, for years, now, the dating rarely gets past one month. Then, we’re on social media together? Gawd no. That usually adds to an excruciating end. 3.) Just get super-busy in your life. Possibly, BLOCK his number. Do NOT listen to love songs. Work out DAILY. Work out, work out, work OUT. Cheers.

After nearly 3 years I am sure he's not missing me. I am not missing the stranger he is now. I miss our music connection but that's it . I don't have that with another man

He ghosted me for two weeks. Before that, he had apparently met personal problems. I wrote him one message the first week saying that although i liked him, if he would not respond anymore (i did not know what was going on), i have no other chance than turning the page. The other week (2 weeks after of silence), i wrote his name, because i did not know if he was in hospital maybe, also i neeeded to position myself. He then responded by saying "i am sorry for making you live that shit, because you don't deserve it, and you are incredible and adorable. However, i will call you very soon for eating diner with you after your work. Just, remind something that i still love you". I did not respond because i wanna see if he is going to follow through what he said. And i did not want to act emotionally, so i let a little time to pass out. It is not my job to fight for it...

He's right. It goes again to long-term relationship (5 years). I think we're moving forward, but because I didn't have the "relationship"talk; the guy was truly clueless. I needed to "frame it". I wish I would have heard this 5 years ago.

Came to this video with a different intention but then realised that I am not up to play these mind games with anybody. If he wants me he'll step up and do the things right but if he doesn't I am striking him out of my life, clean.

I’m dealing with a man who throws tantrums to get his way. We’ve been together 5 years, and I’ve kept letting him back in. I think if he saw me with another guy he’d just become more angry & spiteful, and try to hurt me some other way.

"If you're turning a little -- a little FUCKING boat" 😂

When you don't delete but he got to the delete button first. Trust me, if its a done thing or he shows you he dont gaf, delete him first but you have to follow through. Don't be deleting then re adding, that's where you lose.

I love all of your videos. However, that snap w/ sas was funny. Thank you for the laugh. On a serious note, I appreciate you and your no bullshit content.

This is what I’m going through! Thank you for making this video ❤😊

ELIOT: Would you do a video please on how to be a high-value independent woman who "doesn't need a guy to fulfil her" (as you said in this video) WHILST making the guy feel wanted? My cousin and I always come unstuck on this part because men feel that we 'have everything' - so what do we need them for? Hope that makes sense. Help needed!!! Thank you very much.

This video is hella funny and insightful too!

Ladies dont listen to him: never do anything radical never burn a birdge u didnt mean to burn. Be nonchalant keep him around as an option like he does that to you. Learn from the fckboy himself

I did that for 4 months he reached out but nothing different we haven't been friends on fb since 2016

...thank you for enlightening my mind...

First!!! Have loved your videos over the years ma dude!!!😍😍 keep it up woot woot!

I wish you could do all this but with people who are in a relationship already. I have been in a relationship for 2 and a half years. He has been pulling some BS.

Thanks very helpful

You’re awesome!!

Love this guy! 🎉

I’m realizing that your first option or rule doesn’t work for me as I am married to this man and we live together.

Love this! Great and one of my fave for content!

If you’re framing it as though he’s genuinely lost you and you’re doing a really believable job of it, is that actually going to make him chase you and want you back? Or is it going to make him think “damn… really did lose her… time for me to move on”?

The more I watch these videos the more I wanna stay single for your the rest of my life. Thank you! And I mean it!

U are my favorite dating coach

I wanted my ex to double text me, but he deleted the first text before I read it, then he demanded, basically threatening me that if I don't delete our last photo on fb, he will "take care" of it. I asked if everything is ok and he said that yes, and that I could keep the photo if we were talking. I said we are not talking cause I have bad conotations with his past behaviour. He said he was scared how cold I am, but wished me well. I wished him too. I wonder is this over.

What if you’re already in a relationship?

How can.i.ignore him if he's ignoring me

Elliot, hey not all guys have social media. Please do a video for those over 50 and those men that have no Facebook etc. 🤷🏻‍♀️

ELIOT - can you get some non-reflective glasses? That ring light is much too bright ..... x

Elliot, what if you’re not Facebook friends? Nothing to post 🤷🏻‍♀️

I would like to know how could we apply the 6+ dates if it is a long distance thing. Great video btw ❤ as always!!

This is true…it really works. PLEASE BELIEVE ME.🍀

Hi Elliot..in online dating how can a woman show her high-value towards a guy..had an experience with a guy where he was willing to meet me and fly to my country but somehow expects to have physical intimacy..while I told him I wanted to wait..he then said the balance is not good when a man has more value putting in than the woman...

how do i convince him?

And what if he doesn't follow you or have him on social media

Would this work (a man fighting for you) if your in a relationship torn between the two ?

oooooh! 6.20 diss on hussey lol!!!

Elliot literly know my whole story

What if he never use social media?

What happens if i already dumped him? Lol

do you think that these theories would work with a man over who is over 50 years old ?

High value woman who is sought after. Frame it in a way he doesn’t have you. You must follow through. Keep him online, then delete him. Renegotiate the contract.

Look , stop making me laugh excessively. This is AF!!! We coming for them.

he unfollowed me right away. what do I do?

If u gotta do all that then you’re already fucked. Ain’t nobody got time for all that shit. Love the advice tho it does work 😊😊

Should I delete our photos together?. I haven’t yet found a video on that.

So basically, women can't just be themselves.

14:23 🤗

Ha Ha! Writing letters( Matthew Hussey)..🤡

I've been following your steps and they work!!!

Elliot you are the best 👌

Wait, i can t text him , like how are you text? what? why should him text first always?