Click here to work with me and get my guides: liinks.co/elli...
Пікірлер: 107
@ElliotScottDating Жыл бұрын
Check out my guides: payhip.com/b/jaLfc
@juliamichelle6212 Жыл бұрын
For visuals learners ~ 1. Be a highly sought after, high value woman. (Even if you don’t believe you are, act like one). Don’t rush into meeting up and delay your responses. You’re busy and will respond/ fit him into your schedule at your earliest availability. 2. Behave as if he doesn’t have you/ you’ve moved on. Ignore ignore ignore. Bask in the receiving side as opposed to the sending side of those double and triple texts. Reverse the power dynamic and make him think you’re not coming back. Men are typically under the assumption that though they are not in direct communication with you at the moment, they can have you back anytime they want. Shatter that reality for him. 3. You must follow through. Don’t listen to arbitrary no contact deadlines and soften after they come back. You have to be an actress and fulfill the role completely, not back out when you start to see signs of them coming around. The role does not go away upon re-contact - that is truly the beginning, more work to come. 4. Keep him on social media. Don’t show him that it’s bothering you or that he’s emotionally affecting you. Let him see you’re unphased living life as usual and then delete him when he would least expect it. Blocking and deleting out of spite or bitterness is unattractive and immature. 5. Renegotiate the contract. Since you are in the position of power now you can impose your standards and make sure everyone is on the same page in regards to the relationship dynamics. Stand your ground and tell them your expectations. Embrace that power once you get it back and don’t just give it away so soon. Relish in it and hold onto it as long as you can, you waited long enough and can now bask in the fruits of your efforts. As always, thank you Elliot you are a gem
@pappico Жыл бұрын
thank you for properly typing the important points!
@juliamichelle6212 Жыл бұрын
@@pappico 🥰 🥰 🥰 anytime
@Lucky1281810 ай бұрын
Thank you a lot! Excellent job.
@rileysmiley95859 ай бұрын
Great…this is why we can also chase our dreams and make them a reality.
@CeciledeLuire8 ай бұрын
thank you : )
@wickedwanderlust1602 Жыл бұрын
Elliot Scott changed my life. I found an amazing guy when I stopped lowering my values for other men
@ElliotScottDating Жыл бұрын
Yay that's awesome
@rileysmiley95859 ай бұрын
Me too.
@CorporateQueen Жыл бұрын
Don't need to make him worry. He has lost me.
@91pinklipstick7 ай бұрын
Comments lile this make me roll my eyes hard. Like how is it true youre out here commenting under a dating video lol obviously he still has a hold on u mentally
@eniolashoroye870 Жыл бұрын
How is he not on 1M subscribers already. I’ve been watching u for 5yrs now. Nigeria 🇳🇬 ❤
@meeksmiinkboutique1681 Жыл бұрын
Exact same thing I said!!
@dallastexas6341 Жыл бұрын
He doesn’t put effort like Hussey to look good or professional
@Vm1600210 ай бұрын
@@dallastexas6341why does his looks matter? His words is the point of the video
@lisaottomann23964 ай бұрын
Yeah, he’s my favorite!
@MissLeosTarot4 ай бұрын
I know I love Elliott scott
@A-G-237 ай бұрын
I almost spat out the water I was drinking with the "there is no writing letters" 😂😂😂
@raes2771 Жыл бұрын
We need to talk about how to have this effect AFTER a woman is in a relationship… esp when it’s been a few years and the person takes you for granted.
@KayciazWorld Жыл бұрын
Guys unfortunately, 99% of the time, respect women who are wanted by lots of men. Because it ques their egos to compete for something they may not be able to have. Anyone else, they'll mistreat or use for their own personal satisfaction. That's the bottom line. I've experienced it with my exes and it wasn't until I started focusing more on my goals, that guys started giving more respect. It honestly pisses me off because guys don't like it when women are that way towards them but they're constantly being vain assholes if a woman isn't "good enough" for them in some capacity. Dating really is doomed smh.
@sansadrake4133 Жыл бұрын
They don't wife ones who are wanted by lots of men though. They go for average women to for marriage
@cherrylane79 Жыл бұрын
@@sansadrake4133 It's not the woman's fault if the men want her. But I have always wondered why they go for an average woman when serious, really weird in my opinion.
@sansadrake4133 Жыл бұрын
@@cherrylane79 apparently it's due to insecurity. Because they know not many men will want her so they'll feel more secure in the relationship. Deep down a lot of men fear rejection
@TheCc064 Жыл бұрын
When a man “wifes” up a “plain Jane” he’s only using her as a placeholder. Men will do that. They don’t have true feelings of love or respect for women beyond what they can use them for
@liabw0510 ай бұрын
@@cherrylane79because of the investment cost (not just financial). Men are logical so they are not going to invest in something with risky returns. They also don’t want to always feel in competition. It’s an ego thing.
@GilliMarieMoody4 ай бұрын
1.) Respectfully, I don’t think Hussey is into no contact. I know any previous efforts I’ve made haven’t worked. It’s when I’ve decided I never, ever, EVer want to see them again that they come back. Then, what’s the use of that? 2.) Social media? I AVOID doing this with someone for at least three months. Why? Because, for years, now, the dating rarely gets past one month. Then, we’re on social media together? Gawd no. That usually adds to an excruciating end. 3.) Just get super-busy in your life. Possibly, BLOCK his number. Do NOT listen to love songs. Work out DAILY. Work out, work out, work OUT. Cheers.
@wandayarbrough Жыл бұрын
After nearly 3 years I am sure he's not missing me. I am not missing the stranger he is now. I miss our music connection but that's it . I don't have that with another man
@TishnaSwaby-ut5dd Жыл бұрын
After 3 yrs he been moved on
@Scheherazad1007 ай бұрын
They've been known to come back 20-50 yrs.later.
@LK-fn1nk Жыл бұрын
He ghosted me for two weeks. Before that, he had apparently met personal problems. I wrote him one message the first week saying that although i liked him, if he would not respond anymore (i did not know what was going on), i have no other chance than turning the page. The other week (2 weeks after of silence), i wrote his name, because i did not know if he was in hospital maybe, also i neeeded to position myself. He then responded by saying "i am sorry for making you live that shit, because you don't deserve it, and you are incredible and adorable. However, i will call you very soon for eating diner with you after your work. Just, remind something that i still love you". I did not respond because i wanna see if he is going to follow through what he said. And i did not want to act emotionally, so i let a little time to pass out. It is not my job to fight for it...
@kimt8162 Жыл бұрын
He's right. It goes again to long-term relationship (5 years). I think we're moving forward, but because I didn't have the "relationship"talk; the guy was truly clueless. I needed to "frame it". I wish I would have heard this 5 years ago.
@whateverhappenshappens.713721 күн бұрын
Came to this video with a different intention but then realised that I am not up to play these mind games with anybody. If he wants me he'll step up and do the things right but if he doesn't I am striking him out of my life, clean.
@J3nnycat10 ай бұрын
I’m dealing with a man who throws tantrums to get his way. We’ve been together 5 years, and I’ve kept letting him back in. I think if he saw me with another guy he’d just become more angry & spiteful, and try to hurt me some other way.
@verarobinson67593 ай бұрын
I had that I dumped him not good for your mental health
@808nuna_ishere7 сағат бұрын
"If you're turning a little -- a little FUCKING boat" 😂
@Verteune Жыл бұрын
When you don't delete but he got to the delete button first. Trust me, if its a done thing or he shows you he dont gaf, delete him first but you have to follow through. Don't be deleting then re adding, that's where you lose.
@movingthroughlifewithdusti6895Ай бұрын
I don’t think you have any dude friends if so you probably sneek in with his girl when they break up. I hate it for you
@VerteuneАй бұрын
@@movingthroughlifewithdusti6895 What does this have to do with anything I said?
@Yarnover_PullThrough Жыл бұрын
I love all of your videos. However, that snap w/ sas was funny. Thank you for the laugh. On a serious note, I appreciate you and your no bullshit content.
@Relaxinwealth Жыл бұрын
This is what I’m going through! Thank you for making this video ❤😊
@EdelweisSusie Жыл бұрын
ELIOT: Would you do a video please on how to be a high-value independent woman who "doesn't need a guy to fulfil her" (as you said in this video) WHILST making the guy feel wanted? My cousin and I always come unstuck on this part because men feel that we 'have everything' - so what do we need them for? Hope that makes sense. Help needed!!! Thank you very much.
@seniasaynomore4238 Жыл бұрын
No it doesn't because him telling you ,is pretty much what you'd follow his word for word. Look in the mirror and love yourself a little.mors and you'll get your ANSWERS 😊
@Sunkissednoe Жыл бұрын
This video is hella funny and insightful too!
@91pinklipstick7 ай бұрын
Ladies dont listen to him: never do anything radical never burn a birdge u didnt mean to burn. Be nonchalant keep him around as an option like he does that to you. Learn from the fckboy himself
@gloriarobinson68209 ай бұрын
I did that for 4 months he reached out but nothing different we haven't been friends on fb since 2016
@northernlights87696 ай бұрын
...thank you for enlightening my mind...
@lunashootingstar15 Жыл бұрын
First!!! Have loved your videos over the years ma dude!!!😍😍 keep it up woot woot!
@amberhoehn7320 Жыл бұрын
I wish you could do all this but with people who are in a relationship already. I have been in a relationship for 2 and a half years. He has been pulling some BS.
@ejemheniyayi4283 Жыл бұрын
Thanks very helpful
@elainadill2425 Жыл бұрын
You’re awesome!!
@Shannon-ul2dh Жыл бұрын
Love this guy! 🎉
@ElliotScottDating Жыл бұрын
I love you too
@rachelthespiritskeeper8730 Жыл бұрын
I’m realizing that your first option or rule doesn’t work for me as I am married to this man and we live together.
@tarabonner341 Жыл бұрын
Love this! Great and one of my fave for content!
@RA-tx6ue Жыл бұрын
If you’re framing it as though he’s genuinely lost you and you’re doing a really believable job of it, is that actually going to make him chase you and want you back? Or is it going to make him think “damn… really did lose her… time for me to move on”?
@SabrinaDacosta4 ай бұрын
The more I watch these videos the more I wanna stay single for your the rest of my life. Thank you! And I mean it!
@verarobinson67593 ай бұрын
U are my favorite dating coach
@TheKruelka Жыл бұрын
I wanted my ex to double text me, but he deleted the first text before I read it, then he demanded, basically threatening me that if I don't delete our last photo on fb, he will "take care" of it. I asked if everything is ok and he said that yes, and that I could keep the photo if we were talking. I said we are not talking cause I have bad conotations with his past behaviour. He said he was scared how cold I am, but wished me well. I wished him too. I wonder is this over.
@Scheherazad1007 ай бұрын
Only time will tell.
@sia10192 ай бұрын
What if you’re already in a relationship?
@kimmichaud7741 Жыл бұрын
How can.i.ignore him if he's ignoring me
@lavenderbudtree7 ай бұрын
Elliot, hey not all guys have social media. Please do a video for those over 50 and those men that have no Facebook etc. 🤷🏻♀️
@EdelweisSusie Жыл бұрын
ELIOT - can you get some non-reflective glasses? That ring light is much too bright ..... x
@lavenderbudtree Жыл бұрын
Elliot, what if you’re not Facebook friends? Nothing to post 🤷🏻♀️
@karenperez2107 Жыл бұрын
I would like to know how could we apply the 6+ dates if it is a long distance thing. Great video btw ❤ as always!!
@paolanamuncura88798 ай бұрын
Hey how's the relationship
@rileysmiley95859 ай бұрын
This is true…it really works. PLEASE BELIEVE ME.🍀
@afrintayeba29818 ай бұрын
Really???always???reach out for self check or something serious???
@queenie547 Жыл бұрын
Hi Elliot..in online dating how can a woman show her high-value towards a guy..had an experience with a guy where he was willing to meet me and fly to my country but somehow expects to have physical intimacy..while I told him I wanted to wait..he then said the balance is not good when a man has more value putting in than the woman...
@annemarie72032 ай бұрын
I had a similar situation but hold your values and if he was the right guy, he would respect you enough to wait
@jessicahitchens6926Ай бұрын
Your not going to achieve much with online dating. It's just for men looking for hook ups in general. Yes you can find a unicorn or a needle in a haystack but I tend to go with the mean..
@annemarie7203Ай бұрын
@@jessicahitchens6926 although there’s been some who had successful long term relationships with online dating, same with my experience that they don’t last because they only want to get you to bed. There are tons of guys out there who have the wrong intentions but appear/say as the complete opposite!!!
@annemarie7203Ай бұрын
@@jessicahitchens6926 That's my experience with online dating too for the most part they only try to get you to bed. But there are some people who have been lucky and they've been able to find someone genuine in there. Know that there are tons of guys out there who have the wrong intentions but appear as the complete opposite!!!
@user-zc1rs9pm6bАй бұрын
how do i convince him?
@annado3885 Жыл бұрын
And what if he doesn't follow you or have him on social media
@Itiswellwithmysou Жыл бұрын
Would this work (a man fighting for you) if your in a relationship torn between the two ?
@sheriwl9 ай бұрын
oooooh! 6.20 diss on hussey lol!!!
@user-vp4lo3yj8r2 ай бұрын
Elliot literly know my whole story
@terroristeoverdoz2 ай бұрын
What if he never use social media?
@blissessentials524 Жыл бұрын
What happens if i already dumped him? Lol
@aries7176 Жыл бұрын
do you think that these theories would work with a man over who is over 50 years old ?
@taniawilliams14 Жыл бұрын
High value woman who is sought after. Frame it in a way he doesn’t have you. You must follow through. Keep him online, then delete him. Renegotiate the contract.
@sandialyn11 ай бұрын
Look , stop making me laugh excessively. This is AF!!! We coming for them.
@nashia010 ай бұрын
he unfollowed me right away. what do I do?
@janet2u10010 ай бұрын
If u gotta do all that then you’re already fucked. Ain’t nobody got time for all that shit. Love the advice tho it does work 😊😊
@stacietapia3166 Жыл бұрын
Should I delete our photos together?. I haven’t yet found a video on that.
@fernfunk Жыл бұрын
i wouldn't- u might regret it. put them on a usb stick and put that in some drawer so they are totally out of sight
@Ace7of7Cups Жыл бұрын
put them in a box or on disk somewhere out of sight if you are not together.
@PropheticDreamChannelАй бұрын
So basically, women can't just be themselves.
@clover84htx11 ай бұрын
14:23 🤗
@jessicahitchens6926Ай бұрын
Ha Ha! Writing letters( Matthew Hussey)..🤡
@MoneyMichelle777 Жыл бұрын
I've been following your steps and they work!!!
@rileysmiley95859 ай бұрын
😊
@MoneyMichelle777 Жыл бұрын
Elliot you are the best 👌
@dum9696 Жыл бұрын
Wait, i can t text him , like how are you text? what? why should him text first always?
@blackcarriebradshaw Жыл бұрын
Absolutely not! Do not text him. He needs to think that he lost you.