Exactly! I only date men looking for a stay at home wife or a sugar baby! That’s my preference 😊
@416t.o55 сағат бұрын
Elliott, your videos have changed my life . Thank you . Sending love from 🇨🇦
@tashacad16 сағат бұрын
I'm sorry but your all wrong... He is a narcissist they do this by trying to get a reaction out of you... My ex who I don't follow created a Instagram account that he didn't have before I met him... And started viewing my highlights cause that's the only way I'd see him do it.... It's called breadcrumbing... I was obviously annoyed about it and asked him why he's doing it... He said sorry ill block you if it will make it easier for you😅what a manipulator... Then said I just had a moment of memories I said what for 7 days 🤦🏻♀️.. Then he blocked me.... It was all to boost his ego got abit of emotional supply from me that's how sick twisted mind gaming people do.... Block them get rid font look back get with a man not a boy... Like this moron on here aswell typical imature narc
@Makeitorbreakit11117 сағат бұрын
Even psycho exes still showed up later. I still run into one and I KNOW he ends up at the park purposely at the same time to chance run into me.
@808nuna_ishere7 сағат бұрын
"If you're turning a little -- a little FUCKING boat" 😂
@jennifermarieconnected8 сағат бұрын
This video made me think of a chess game where every move could either help or hurt your position. The trick is not to see it as a game at all. People often show their true colors; you just need to pick up on the subtle hints or warning signs. Once you're aware, you can move on without looking back. If someone tries to come back after playing games, you'll know what's up, and you can decide whether to let them back in or keep moving forward 😉
@cowgirlcandice8339 сағат бұрын
my dog choked on a condom 🤣
@Makeitorbreakit11119 сағат бұрын
He already broke no contqct in 2 days by stalking my social media. 2.5 weeks later I removed him and told him nah man you don't get to look into my life..... you got to act right and fix this with a proper convo. I need space and time. Go away ..... that was 10 weeks ago. Now I wait.
@Naked_Sports20011 сағат бұрын
3 months passed and Its jumped from point five to one. Thankyou so much for sparing us the pain.
@mandyrose2211 сағат бұрын
I love the real talk!! You make me pissed off and laugh at myself, all at the same time!😤😂
@Femininemusic57112 сағат бұрын
Just say really casual and girly "Am I seeing anyone else? hehe I am single and casually dating gentlemen and getting to know new people" you can add "with the intention of (finding a relationship/that leads to marriage/commitment)"
@ticiao12 сағат бұрын
He came back in 3 months and told me he missed me and how pleasant I am to be around. SMH
@michellemcnary441512 сағат бұрын
Elliott's class is in session. I'm ready to learn! ❤🤓
@joanbaczek257512 сағат бұрын
Cus he has other options
@Braveh3artGirl13 сағат бұрын
Your videos changed my life. I 💯 have my power back and i feel GOOD! Better than i ever have and more secure 🥰🙏
@ElliotScottDating13 сағат бұрын
@@Braveh3artGirl that's great to hear 😀 😊
@ElliotScottDating14 сағат бұрын
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@roxy725514 сағат бұрын
Since I encountered a fuck boy last week I wonder if it’s mainly them your videos are aimed at 😂
@Hotaruaya14 сағат бұрын
What to do if I screwed up now…?
@kayla-fs4hu14 сағат бұрын
This is the best video I have seen when it comes to this. Thank you. I appreciate you speaking facts and saying it how it is.
@lindat131714 сағат бұрын
Oh, I’m so very done. 😆 He knew what I needed (communication from time to time, not me having to reach out 100% of the time) and I overlooked it multiple times until last year. I got my answer when he hasn’t reached out. If I’m not on his radar, he’s definitely not on mine. His loss. What’s funny is the very next day after I last saw him, I met someone that lives one town over from him and he’s communicative and attentive and I know where I stand. No guessing, no stressing. He’s letting me work out my issues and it’s just…easy. As it should be.
@martinesalomon533410 сағат бұрын
That’s exactly what I’m going through right now…
@lindat131710 сағат бұрын
@@martinesalomon5334 I’m sorry. 😞 It took me a very, very long time to get it through my head that no communication IS actually communication-that I just didn’t matter enough to be any sort of a priority. Men will communicate and go above and beyond-for someone they’re interested in. I don’t have that time in my life I want to waste anymore. Life isn’t a dress rehearsal-this is all we get. No chasing, no waiting. Get out of the way because the guy behind you IS interested, and lets me know it! ☺️
@roser89115 сағат бұрын
You’re smart!!! Mine try to came back afew times after he blocked me. I never give him 2nd chance lol 😂
@user-jw1bl4hq9j14 сағат бұрын
TO ALL WOMEN IN THIS CHAT ….CONCENTRATE ON YOUR CAREAR …..AMERICAN MEN ARE NOT MARIAGE MATERIAL …DO NOT LOSE YOUR PRECIOUS TIME .
@bellbell87214 сағат бұрын
This is good advice but many women won't listen.Even when their hearts are broken many times.The 4B movement is the way out.
@luzvez12 сағат бұрын
Men in every part of world lol
@jayak821712 сағат бұрын
@@luzvezI was about to say this.
@jenniferangela88 сағат бұрын
Don’t forfeit love for a career. I did that for 15 years. Yes I am secure and independent, but here I am in Elliott’s class to learn how to date again! 🤦♀️
@user-jw1bl4hq9j8 сағат бұрын
@@jenniferangela8 staying independent in a time when DV is big keeps women SAFE …..AND LOVE is NOT EQUAL SEX as men think …..
@trailerparkbarbie288216 сағат бұрын
thnx 4 the help elliot...oh i love your thumbnail!
@trailerparkbarbie288216 сағат бұрын
elliot i love your new thumbnails!keep it up!
@user-ex4ce7gh1k17 сағат бұрын
27:34 8 dates or 8 weeks is the rule re:relationship and then week 12 before you have sex. If he’s sincere about you he’ll wait, believe me 👍🩷
@amelittaberretta910918 сағат бұрын
Once a ghosted always a ghost er. It is the ultimate oh humiliation and disrespect and humiliation..
@amelittaberretta910918 сағат бұрын
So damaging and abusive, terrifying painful and humiliating to the core,
@jozejeaux396219 сағат бұрын
Men always come back
@user-ex4ce7gh1k21 сағат бұрын
Sex 😂😂😂
@CT97559Күн бұрын
Where I am in my life, I won’t give a man more than 6 weeks. No exceptions!
@kimt8162Күн бұрын
I think we have a situation(ship). First year of college. We'll say Brian. First hangs out, the TKE thing meets Jalyn. She tells him how she feels right before she leaves for her city which is in another state at the end of Freshman year. She's got him hooked. He thinks he's in love.Summer goes bye she comes back to his city where the college is. Now, she's girlfriend/boyfriend with him. Sophomore year. Now, yes they're having fun. But what happens when senior year comes. Does she stay here, move back to her hometown? This would be a slow progression way past the 8 weeks thing. I just don't know with this one.
@fluffythebluepersian4888Күн бұрын
Been over a week, i nay reach out after another week. Wondering if we was seeing if l will initiate contact first
@Ravencycle21Күн бұрын
Just put my email in for the free book!! Thank you ❤
@spiritsama51Күн бұрын
My person has been too busy for almost 6 weeks now and they only work 4-5 days a week. They claim to sleep 9-10 hours a day and hasn't spent even a hour with me since July 8th. I know for a fact that aren't that busy, but somehow they have time for movies, clothes shopping, drawing/coloring/recording whole ass drawings for free, posting on social media, browsing social media, and now suddenly at the "gym" for 3-4 hours on their off days (even tho they never once have gone to a gym and can exercise at home).
@amandaboyer937Күн бұрын
Nope!!!
@TheCc064Күн бұрын
In sum, men will try to get anything and everything out of the woman without giving anything in return. We already knew that
@heatherberesheim7428Күн бұрын
You are really helpful
@sunnydayz3577Күн бұрын
💯 accurate
@barbc7698Күн бұрын
They do that pulling away stuff, I use my favorite four letter word on him: N E X T.
@Butterfly-vl9wt2 күн бұрын
Not logical..everyone has an ex so we should assume now that no one compares to an ex ??god dating is horrible nowadays
@Shanieceflordi2 күн бұрын
Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.
@PrettyTasha-k8q2 күн бұрын
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
@Shanieceflordi2 күн бұрын
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
@PrettyTasha-k8q2 күн бұрын
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
@PrettyTasha-k8q2 күн бұрын
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
@Shanieceflordi2 күн бұрын
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
@Sparksflymich2 күн бұрын
this is 10/10 accurate omg elliot
@cathyzhang27692 күн бұрын
There are 2 guys ghosted me in the past, both came back after 1 year. I went to meet them, thought I would give them a chance, however after meeting them, I know why they ghosted me because they are the guys no women would want to date. So I ghosted them back.
@theeladyj2 күн бұрын
I needed this , just blocked him… over it
@mahnoorkhan581Күн бұрын
Power to you!
@alycer.81582 күн бұрын
Freaken love u 🫶
@jennifermarieconnected2 күн бұрын
It's hard to imagine that games like this were nonexistent a century ago. I long for a time when men were genuine, openly expressing their intentions and earning a woman's respect, leading to relationships that stood the test of time. Back then, divorce was rare, and the commitment felt more profound. The modern dating scene often feels disappointing in comparison
@DivestedConfessions2 күн бұрын
Women need to understand men are not women they don’t play coy or beat around the bush. If he’s not trying to get with you, he’s not into you you can’t force desire or if you do, he will accept it and then dump you.
@ashton19522 күн бұрын
They can desire you fully with only one thing in mind though...
@DivestedConfessionsКүн бұрын
@@ashton1952 duh. Didn’t you read what I wrote I said men aren’t women. Men can get intimate with women that they don’t like they don’t like their body and they don’t even like what they smell like. That’s what women need to understand.
@Heather_ONeal2 күн бұрын
It definitely comes down to emotional unavailability, men are hunters by nature, if he wants you, he’s GOING to let you know, you do NOT have to tell a guy to pay attention to you if he WANTS you, if he doesn’t you will also know, both will be blatantly obvious, we all know if someone is truly interested in us, well if you’ve been around long enough you will. But with that being said as always I hope everyone has an amazing day!! Lots of love & well wishes - Heather 🩷
@pw2pg2 күн бұрын
Hey Coach Elliot or anyone willing to reply, sorry for the upcoming long message, but I really need some advice and it’s important you have some context. My ex 21/M and I 20/F have been in a bit of a situation. We started dating back in March of 2024 and met at work. Everything was going well till about the end of April when he told me “I think we should just go back to being friends. You deserve someone who is going to give you more attention and love”. I was completely caught off guard. After he said that, a few minutes later he kissed me. Now I was super confused. As time went on, he became more and more distant and slowly faded away over time. He barely called or texted. He still followed me on Instagram and shared his location with me on “Find My”. When I was on vacation the week of July 22nd, he watched all of my Instagram stories throughout the week, I had gotten mixed signals then and before the vacation, that he was still interested in my life/what I was doing. We still worked together up till the end of July, when I had gotten a better job opportunity and left the place I was working at with him. Last week on Thursday, he posted an Instagram note saying “Rotating because I can’t see you with someone else 😔”. When I saw this, I thought he was trying to indirectly let me know that he was sad about what happened to our relationship even though I’m not currently dating anyone else. I thought it was his way of reaching out indirectly because that is what Instagram notes are. He kept posting sad songs (Save Your Tears” and “Here’s Your Perfect” on Friday and Saturday. In response, I posted another two Instagram notes, one on Friday that read “Missing someone, missing you” and another on Saturday quoting the lyrics from the song “I Won’t Give Up” by Jason Marz “I won’t give up on us” current state of mind ❤️”. The very next day on Sunday, I decided to mirror his original note and change it to “Rotating because I can’t see me with someone else either 😔”. My whole goal was to let him know that I am open to talking and communicating because that is what he lacked in our relationship. An hour later, he unfollowed (unsure if he blocked) me on Instagram and stopped sharing his location. Then he later deactivated his account because it says “Instagram User”. I’m not sure if my phone number is blocked because there is no way of finding out unless I call or text and I am not doing that right now. I was very sad and devastated. I wasn’t sure if he was trying to get some sort of a reaction out of me. Over the next few days, I found out that a lot of his behavior aligns with someone who is dismissive avoidant (DA)/avoidant attachment style or even more so a (FA)/fearful avoidant which I wasn’t aware of. I learned, usually DA’s/FA’s leave one channel of communication open, which is phone. Obviously we are in “No Contact” right now and I’m giving him his space. Is it likely he’ll reach out when he is ready? Is this common for someone who is a Dismissive Avoidant or what I think he is a Fearful Avoidant to do? If he does not reach back out, when should I? Any other advice for my situation?
@jsav99792 күн бұрын
Bc we date “hopefully” and we date “potential” 😅 And we hope that one day we put in our time and it will pay off
@user_abcxyzz2 күн бұрын
If "hope" is your strategy, God help us all 😂 everything must me intentional and moving in the proper direction. If it's not either of those, you're doing something wrong.