5 Secrets To A Happier Marriage Post-Kids!

Рет қаралды 2,142

Күн бұрын

Today, I'm sharing five ways your marriage can actually get better after having kids! So much of the time, there is less time for each other after your have children - but you can connect in a beautiful way because of your children with these five tips! Leave your thoughts down below.
Follow me on all social media @classicallyabby.
TWITTER: / classicallyabby
INSTAGRAM: / classicallyabby
FACEBOOK: / classicallyabby
PINTEREST: / classicallyabby
___________________________________________________
Hey! I'm Abby, the creator of Classically Abby. I'm a wife, mama, homemaker, opera singer, and KZfaqr who is doing my best to live a classic life each and every day. If you want to know more, head over to www.classicallyabby.com/about...!
Business inquiries: please email me at classicallyabby382@gmail.com.
*Disclosure: This post may contain affiliate links, which means I may receive a commission if you click on a link and purchase something. Thank you for your support!

Пікірлер: 40

@alexandriadillhoff7069 22 күн бұрын

We have a local Mexican resturant that has outdoor seating and near a Plaza that you can run around. It's so much fun to go there once a month and eat & talk while the kids run the Plaza and bounce back for a taco or chip 😅

@aniacool314 Ай бұрын

Thank you, Abby!! Great points. My husband and I were just talking about this very topic. Have a great weekend! 🏯

@user-nj3ej4ei7t Ай бұрын

Abby, can I share an amazing story with you? One day I was driving home, when all of a sudden the Lord came to me in spirit. I felt very close to Him. I knew if I asked him to play any song on the radio he would, I guess to bless my faith. So I said "ok, Lord play "Come as you are by Nirvana". I turned on the radio and the song started playing right there on the spot, perfectly… I started getting flooded with chills like a waterfall, crying, and trembling. He stayed with me for 10 minutes in my driveway. until I got outta the car. A couple months after that I started getting amazing prayers answered way more often, because it helped me quit doubting when I pray and I was lined up with biblical instructions. It's 6 years later and I still get answered prayers in Jesus name.

@youngtrout4950 Ай бұрын

🏡 The part about you guys getting excited over trucks is very interesting. This "childlike" perspective is very important. I refer to it as the Neotenic Consciousness (NC). It is important to foster the NC. A world full of the NC is a world of peace. Notice how your child fostered the NC in you and your husband? This is the importance of the family in sustaining and developing the NC. This is why the family and the NC are synergistic. If we deviate from family values, we will often foster the Peramorphic Consciousness (PC). Do you understand what I am saying? Do you see how simply observing and cognitively resonating with your child's mind fostered that childlike consciousness within yourself? This is what we must strive for on a societal scale. We must foster the NC for a more cooperative, benevolent, inquisitive, and loving world. Obviously, there's much more to be said here, but I don't want to leave a very long message.⛪

@shannonrichards6980 Ай бұрын

⛈️Why is it that you said it was raining and even though it’s 90 degrees where I live my mind instantly goes, “Ooh I should make hot chocolate”? ☕️ 😂

@breannahess392 Ай бұрын

🏠 Really enjoyed this one! My marriage has totally improved since my husband and I started having a family day every weekend. We get out of the house and go to kids places and see the world through their eyes!

@shannonrichards6980 Ай бұрын

Also, I enjoy your videos, but GIRL, can we get chapters please? Fellow moms really need the chapters 😅

@Leamichellefan2244 Ай бұрын

If you have a long distance boyfriend or is this strictly for Mary people?

@hasanibaker18 Ай бұрын

It's literally about kids. You can't have kids with someone and remain in a long distance relationship lol

@MH-il2ps Ай бұрын

@@hasanibaker18 what about people who have to travel for work? What about people who drive trucks, what about military spouses? Of course people have long-distance relationships with people they have children with.

@hasanibaker18 Ай бұрын

@@MH-il2ps she is quite literally not talking about those things. Get a better job and be with your family or this video clearly doesn't apply to you. You can't improve your relationship with your spouse or kids without doing what she says in the video.

@MH-il2ps Ай бұрын

@@hasanibaker18 My comment was directed at you, friend.

@hasanibaker18 Ай бұрын

@@MH-il2ps I know. What I'm saying is within the context of the conversation, I don't think she was talking about married people with already established children that have a job that keeps them from home. Because those people can still be married but she is differentiating the two.

@rlm9093 Ай бұрын

I appreciate your positive solution finding process! Very helpful. ⛪

@spookypineapple Ай бұрын

🏥 love these tips!

@ClassicallyAbby Ай бұрын

So glad you enjoyed!

@k8lynediayn187 Ай бұрын

🏡

@applemirer3937 Ай бұрын

👏👏 bravo 🛖

@marlabond4689 Ай бұрын

🏡love this!

@karina3133 Ай бұрын

🏩

@ebonidaneen5639 Ай бұрын

💒💒

@ergindoganyildiz Ай бұрын

🕌

@Dovahfinn95 Ай бұрын

💒

@FeeESC Ай бұрын

Free Palestine

@Lima-invader 28 күн бұрын

Free Palpostein

@sophiathesophisticated1383 17 күн бұрын

Free your brain

@christianhunt4407 7 күн бұрын

Palestine isn’t real, it’s Canaan and it belongs to the Jews. Give the land back to God’s people

@kwannp6141 Ай бұрын

This is where women screw up! There is no damn secret to listening to God. Listen to what god says, not another incompetent woman who's leading you away from God. Here it is: 1. God, 2. Your husband, 3. Supporting your husband's career, 4. your kids.... If God wanted your kids to be the most important thing, He would have made it that way!

@Foxxxo Ай бұрын

Bruh, chill.

@kwannp6141 Ай бұрын

@@Foxxxo If you don't like it, shut up and don't read it. I'm not chilling on the truth fool ..

@rlm9093 Ай бұрын

She is in no way making her children the first priority. She is finding positive ways to use everyone's energy in the best way so everyone in the family can benefit and stay relationally connected in fun ways.

@djervalevy9784 Ай бұрын

Are you seriously prioritizing a husband-someone who can divorce or leave you- over your own children? The children a woman chooses to have should always be her first priority over any man. Any woman who chooses her husband over her children shouldn't be a mother.

@kwannp6141 Ай бұрын

@@djervalevy9784 And any woman who chooses her child over her husband is an incompetent modern day fool! Only women can be this dumb going against God's order. God never, ever, says put your kids before your husband! But you modern day women of course know more than God! As a mother, you don't love your kids if you're foolish to put them above your husband!