5 SIGNS YOU NEED TO GIVE UP ON HIM!

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5 SIGNS YOU NEED TO GIVE UP ON HIM!

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Derrick Jaxn

Күн бұрын

5 SIGNS YOU NEED TO GIVE UP ON HIM!
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@Redflight8156 8 ай бұрын

When you leave, remember to look straight ahead and DO NOT, LOOK BACK.

@Redflight8156 6 ай бұрын

@Kira-ze1pn I appreciate your response to my post. However, I meant exactly what I wrote. As one is experiencing, and if their completely present during the experience, then they also have the opportunity to extract the LESSONS and move forward with knowledge. There is no need to reflect on what you already know. Make room for the beautiful things that life has to offer. Life is so much better than good, and so is God.😊

@user-zl9hp6uc2b 5 ай бұрын

Yes I have

@JeBaSIINGH23 8 ай бұрын

I finally walked away. It was the hardest thing I've ever had to do. Because it was the first time I was putting myself first, love yourself first ❤️

@Jennyxx-ie5jw 7 ай бұрын

Wow sis that's lowkey deep when u said " it was hard because it was the first time i was putting myself first" never saw it that was before

@user-hv6ro9xw7j 6 ай бұрын

I'm dying inside because everything you saying is happening to me right now

@katrinawhitaker7442 6 ай бұрын

Amen❤❤❤

@lbfaith 6 ай бұрын

How did that conversation go? I need a push.

@JeBaSIINGH23 6 ай бұрын

@@lbfaith I told him I can't keep filling your cup because mines always empty, and I'm ready for something serious with someone who's serious. He didn't fight back or try to work things out, that's when I knew it was done and no regrets. You got this ❤❤❤

@VonnaBlessed 8 ай бұрын

He left me...I would have never left...God is protecting me.

@PurpleGoddess24 8 ай бұрын

God's Protection

@kimberlymoss7070 8 ай бұрын

Devine protection

@VonnaBlessed 8 ай бұрын

@@kimberlymoss7070 I'm thankful

@FeliciaStands 2 ай бұрын

So lucky ❤I have to walk away and it’s hurting

@vanessacook5383 2 ай бұрын

@@FeliciaStandsit will be okay.

@beedido439 7 ай бұрын

Loving yourself means breaking your own heart and knowing when to withdraw from a relationship that is not prioritizing you.

@claremondeofthedarkhorses6101 6 ай бұрын

He just doesn't answer any of the questions I ask like where have you been. He will not admit or deny my accusations. What do you do then?

@micheled2235 6 ай бұрын

I'm there now . Tough!

@katrinajackson172 6 ай бұрын

@micheled2235 exactly and it is breaking me down to my smallest element of being a woman

@FeliciaStands 2 ай бұрын

Yup I’m leaving and my hurt is broken he’s clueless 😢

@AL_4083 Ай бұрын

@@claremondeofthedarkhorses6101 His refusal to answer, is your answer!

@altheiaholmes4235 8 ай бұрын

I cried😢 when you were half way through and now I am in prayer....I know, it hurts but I must let go for my sanity. Pray for me this is not easy after 33yrs. Thank you Derrick🎉

@rosiepittman9929 8 ай бұрын

Lz Q

@rosiepittman9929 8 ай бұрын

😅m😊

@selectivelychosen2020 8 ай бұрын

🙏 Until U Pray The Pain Away

@nicholecornes1915 8 ай бұрын

I know it's not easy but they don't care about us

@nyasijahmilton6795 7 ай бұрын

Sending hugs 🫂

@denisejones7545 8 ай бұрын

When you know somethings not for you it’s painful when you make a decision to move forward, it’s painful neither decision to stay, or leave is easy. It’s all about choosing your pain.

@heathermcalpine802 8 ай бұрын

Well said! ❤❤

@j.r.f.5025 6 ай бұрын

Yup pick your pain

@LauraPaglari 8 ай бұрын

Left him I loved him, but being in the long distance, I lost myself...living in his routine and I was stuck inside all day...his jealousy was giving me anxiety...woke up one morning and booked to come back home. Very painful and miss him but in the end I had to save myself.

@user-fm7iv7qt2t 8 ай бұрын

Been there, hard to let go after so many years. Always diplomatic without hurting your feelings. There was no disrespect but more distant and change of behavior. Relationships require teamwork, flexibility, compassion and understanding.

@Patricia-ij5jc 8 ай бұрын

When it comes time when you should make a decision,you already know it's time to go.

@ginalatimer1181 8 ай бұрын

I left and finslly got my place. Its a good feeling! They don't change.

@sp4490 8 ай бұрын

I, I stayed too long waiting on a hope that never came. He eventually left and now wants to come back but I don't miss him enough to go back

@desertangelfish140 8 ай бұрын

Ouch! The truth hurts. He kept circling back to me making me feel something was there. Turns out he was using me as a place holder until someone better came along. Everytime he thought he had another female on the hook he ran to them and didn't look back. He had me so confused. I cut contact and moved to a new city!

@consuelohernandez969 8 ай бұрын

After 13 years of marriage and still love him. I will have to walk away so he can stop using hurting words towards me and checked out.

@user-fh8gk7xl7d 8 ай бұрын

It will never change these ppl are broken. And u will be broken the longer you stay

@nyishasealey5061 7 ай бұрын

I walked away after holding on for years and the peace I'm experiencing in my life right now is so unreal

@sheberry2895 6 ай бұрын

Sounds like the peace that passes all understanding😊

@deborahbeecee81 8 ай бұрын

Hoping for a change will never happen 😢😢

@OzYil47 7 ай бұрын

I just made that decision after thinking about it for a long time and ended the relationship. And now I'm happier, more peaceful, and loving myself again. I made the right decision and left.

@gerribrown5684 8 ай бұрын

I know I have to leave, as hard as it is

@DarleneDrury-rj8ul 8 ай бұрын

Amen. Thank you. Been there for to long..woke up.and went to God.

@chardaegrimes3042 8 ай бұрын

that's the way to I did it too🙏🏽

@roseauxdansants795 8 ай бұрын

Yeah, me too

@cynicalafflictional1725 8 ай бұрын

Hallelujah. God's got our backs, AMEN!

@PurpleGoddess24 8 ай бұрын

That Part!

@ruthlindsey6655 7 ай бұрын

This is exactly what happened. I had to set a plan to walk away. It hurted but it's really the best thing I could have done to regain my mental and self-worth. Peace.

@nicholehussey5879 7 ай бұрын

I feel this😢 22 years and two kids but I struggling to hold onto myself and know he'll never change.

@DrB_1111 8 ай бұрын

I have been there! Thank God for strength and guidance to allow me to walk away when I was being taken for granted.

@kimberlymoss7070 8 ай бұрын

For me it got to the point where I would cry my heart out and he would mock me. It was a horrible experience.

@nancyimbleau2023 8 ай бұрын

I had that happen with my ex husband he would MOCK AND LAUGH AT ME WHEN I WOULD CRY.

@Miss.Donnell 8 ай бұрын

It’s a feeling that I wouldn’t want anyone to feel ❤❤❤❤

@IrisKitchen-rg5kn 7 ай бұрын

I've been there before,it took God to help me move on thank got I was one who got away, glory to God, amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏

@user-lq5lp2mo5v 7 ай бұрын

I gotta go. I love but I love me more. Nope, I give up, nowadays you can actually get hurt physically if you get in the way.

@susanparker9877 8 ай бұрын

There's lots of grief, and more relief.

@cassandraporter5976 8 ай бұрын

Been there. Kept holding on to hope that he may change. Was hard to let go everytime. Yes it's been several. The healings were even harder. 💯

@jaishriiyer1563 8 ай бұрын

Do you think such men can change for good ?

@cassandraporter5976 8 ай бұрын

@@jaishriiyer1563 If you're asking about my exes no. Same behavior, different women. But some can. ☺️

@jessicablackmon7048 8 ай бұрын

Lord have mercy you are absolutely a blessing, those whom doesn't have brother's here he is, with no strings attached thank you derrick you are saving many women integrity 🙏

@RegisteredNurseL.A. 2 ай бұрын

Grief is one of the most difficult emotions to feel. There were times I thought un-aliving would be better. But, feeling the emotion, sitting with it, and reminding yourself that it is a normal process will make you more resilient. And, you will make it through.

@oliveknaus 8 ай бұрын

I let go because I deserve better. Thanks ❤

@user-gt8gk4of9c 8 ай бұрын

I'm going through that now

@dianaross1055 8 ай бұрын

same here 😔

@dawndouglas1127 8 ай бұрын

Derrick You're truly a God sent 🙏🏽

@fredrikasimpson3136 8 ай бұрын

I left him. He needs to grow up

@freddiestranger9783 8 ай бұрын

Derrick this was a very timely message. Thank you

@virginiavaldes4601 8 ай бұрын

i cant force him to want me

@dawnatchison 8 ай бұрын

This message is for me! Thank you, Lord for bringing this video to me 🙏🏼

@nickiswearingen137 7 ай бұрын

This just described my soon to be ex husband. I suspected I was just kept around for financial reasons and for someone to pay attention to him.

@KKP20111 8 ай бұрын

Listen carefully, ladies! 💯💯💯

@irmaneves2793 8 ай бұрын

Hardest thing I ever did was let him go and regain my power

@ledawn2010 7 ай бұрын

The reality is the pain reveals how honest and real a person is. Keep being that, but remember that your gifts, what you offer, is not supposed to be exclusive to one person. A gentlemen should be a gentlemen to everyone around him as a gentlewoman should be. The air should not be dark and thick whenever you are around the person you choose to go through life with.

@aurorachastinay7240 7 ай бұрын

Why are there so many screwed up men….? THERE are tons of them!!! I wondered and still do if the good men who would have been fathers volunteered and died in wars… It is rampant and we waste so much of our lives trying to figure men out and repair relationships where we did not cause the problems. These videos are honest and outstanding.

@Ren11177 5 ай бұрын

God protects us. When he remove someone in our life, it's a protection. I'm glad I have finally moved on from my ex. My partner today, we have some issues but I think we still have some hope. I am giving him a chance to make things right🙏

@brendaturner6143 7 ай бұрын

I never look back,I know my worth,

@elizabethwerter7171 4 ай бұрын

“I “ yep. More than once. External reason gives me the boost I need.

@DivineAngelGal 3 ай бұрын

Been here. Was hardest thing ever, to leave. I know god has something better for me.

@traceejeanine481 6 ай бұрын

I’m here now. Deciding whether to file these divorce papers after a year of separation of marriage facing our 20th year anniversary on February 28th. He has started a relationship during this separation time stating I abandoned him & how he has needs. Telling me he’s not happy just surviving & that he really wants to be with his family & wants me to move across states as he has a warrant here. It’s too much!

@rachaelh284 8 ай бұрын

Leaving is the hardest thing to do

@deborahwalker1208 7 ай бұрын

Realized we were on two very different paths. Pretty sure he tried to see if the grass was greener. Ghosted me Christmas Day. I walked away , spoke my mind, proceeded to block him

@valeriecarolus-figini5045 8 ай бұрын

I'm in a better place now. Left after 17 yrs

@tinanicholson9557 4 ай бұрын

“ If you want to leave, then leave.” If he told me this, it would be easy for me to walk out the door.

@fulloflove7631 7 ай бұрын

.... sadly, "I".. I'm pretty confident I know what's best and needed, though.. I was just trying to be understanding with all he had going on, but sometimes it's not a matter of that..

@dwilliams5700 8 ай бұрын

The "final" validation that's probably already come and gone many times before.

@user-te1de3ti8w 3 ай бұрын

Thank you. Hit every pain point. I turned this up loud so he coukd hear it too. No more denial. Im gone

@chanelle8021 8 ай бұрын

This is a blessing but just need to heal. Before even thinking about something else.

@dorettafoster7213 7 ай бұрын

Yea that’s kool sis that’s the right thing to do

@valeriecarolus-figini5045 8 ай бұрын

I've Been there and God it was the hardest thing to do and let go

@leighannmcghaee458 8 ай бұрын

I'm here as you speak 😢

@claudettereynolds4258 8 ай бұрын

Love this video you are so on point ❤

@user-px9tl9cj6f 8 ай бұрын

I walked away. It’s been so hard for me to heal. One day at a time I’m going forward

@bregettewashington 7 ай бұрын

I am moving away and going back to college and move on

@maryannjohnson4672 8 ай бұрын

Wow, all of that happened..I fell that you were a fly on the wall seeing this..The pain oh the pain..How long did they not care..Like they never cared..I gave it my best shot and I fell for him..I fell used but I gave myself willingly..Lord help me.

@makenziepolston1220 8 ай бұрын

Great message praying 🙏

@78beckyboo 5 ай бұрын

I've just been there...realising I'm only hurting myself.

@aliciatruss6918 8 ай бұрын

I 💁🏾‍♀️ and I am literally here now 😢

@consuelohernandez969 8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for confirming. I need to put effort on me.

@gloriamuzquiz1767 8 ай бұрын

You are incredible. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. You are so clear. Its wonderful. So very helpful. Thank you.

@user-sp3sy5zi8i 8 ай бұрын

❤ never as easy as “just leave”

@fernscott7221 2 ай бұрын

I ,I am at that point ,going through that right now

@patriciasanders7411 8 ай бұрын

Hurtful to hear these things, but I needed to hear this. Every word you said is so true...

@ladycancer9330 4 ай бұрын

Finally pulled enough strength to finally walk away.

@loriboren5541 7 күн бұрын

I'm right where you are talking about. I have really listened , and HEARD everything. And i feel the strength now. Thank you!!

@yolandacupido1815 5 ай бұрын

Ive been there before,GOD helped me after 9 times of being discarded ,i finally walked away.

@ellawilliams2836 8 ай бұрын

I am Healing now.

@MasKistershi 7 ай бұрын

I’m there and it is H A R D. Harder than anything else. Thank you for speaking about this.

@LighthouseC.-cj1zg Ай бұрын

I Appreciate this Person, but what he doesn't understand about my Situation.."I'm locked up, Can't get me out"

@sheilabrown5367 4 ай бұрын

Im driving home from work listening to this all these things have been dine to me its time for me to get a game plan to leave i know he dont care about me he argue with me in front of company i know he does not want me.

@christinamendoza9636 7 ай бұрын

I'm there right now and its painful 💔

@darlenepatton2072 8 ай бұрын

Thank you for this.

@sonjacox4874 8 ай бұрын

Been there too many times, never again

@JanetTuttle-cb3xx 2 ай бұрын

I had that and got a divorce after 23 years of trying everything.

@melissachristian2739 6 ай бұрын

Amen you are telling the truth 💯

@FireStarterWreckingBall 8 ай бұрын

This is so true. I've let go.

@Emily-ed6ed 8 ай бұрын

Great message

@roxyrussell-shanks5344 7 ай бұрын

i experienced every single thing that you said!!

@thelordhasbeengoodtomethan5154 8 ай бұрын

Bless you brother

@gwenvinson4639 8 ай бұрын

This is 💯 ladies!

@Unbeso1 8 ай бұрын

I. I am getting divorced now. Horrible.

@veronicadaguanno7507 8 ай бұрын

The ex husband did everything mentioned to me in this video and I'm now divorced

@evygomez5668 8 ай бұрын

Don’t worry love I am there with you. Yes it is horrible. But what is even worse is staying and waisting more time with someone who does not deserve you. And let me tell you…You are not the one who lost honey. He did!