As soon as I get my finances fixed it's over,I won't be controled,there will be someone out there who will appreciate me.

Single Life is sounding really good right now I don't like all the mind games

Thank you so much. My daughter came to me one day and said Mommy, you are beautiful and amazing, men are intimidated by you, they are not ready for you. Says I give off , you either come right or don't come at all. I hugged and thanked her and told her how amazing she was because I really needed to hear that, that day.

I am a once in a lifetime woman 😊❤, there is someone out there,who will love , respect, and appreciate me , aameen

Rejection cannot devalue you if you know who you are. Rejection will measure your self love.

Yup! He left twice and keeps coming back. I used to love him, but now I’m starting to find his behavior boring.

absolutely work on your self ladies and keep that door closed ✌️💕

A lot of men leave or push you away because they don’t feel good enough. They say I can’t handle her and that means people have been telling him she’s out of your league.😮

If he was ‘running through women’ as a means to cope, before he comes back to you, why the hell would any woman want him back? Please have self-respect ladies! We are worth more than that.

He can’t handle his own frustrations is so damn accurate

Repeat after me “NOT MORE CAPTAIN SAVE A BRO”. He dropped the bag with me and I picked myself up. The only thing I can do now is thank him for getting out-of-the-way for my real future husband to come on through.💪🏾🎯💯✅

If he adds no value then subtract. His loss is your gain. Great message. Women need to do the rught thing for themselves. Leave if youre not treated as you deserve. Youre worth more than that. ❤️

A partner who ran their "one" off ~ due to toxic-control issues ~ then returned years later, out of the blue, with "I never shoulda let U go. Would you accompany me to Las Vegas for a (romantic performer's) sold-out concert?" The answer was "Ask my spouse." The answer from my spouse was - "It's not up to me." The End

I am a once in a lifetime woman…

*He also comes back because he thinks you're convenient. He thinks he has it like that with you and you would rather be alone than give someone else a chance. Men know how to wait it out.*

He says he will never chase. He has a huge ego. 😢

They always circle back. Once that door is closed, it stays closed. Thank you for the reminder.

Pissing in his own yard that is golden.

Derrick has this power to make me laugh and heal at the same time. Bless him 💛

I know I'm a once in a lifetime woman! There's a few men feeling the loss of me. Thankfully my guard is up, thank you for the reminder to keep it up.

He can beg all he wants, Ain't no going back to that POS EVER, EVER

Wow! What an awesome pep talk and it couldn’t have come at a better time. My ex is trying to weasel himself back in. I can see all the regrets of his past actions on his pathetic face. Well too bad… he indeed lost a good woman. Thank you Derrick! Great video!

Oh he's gonna learn

So true! He has tried spinning the block. Why? It's not worth it, he just keep complaining that I am unreasonable. I feel like it's reasonable for me to expect for him to give me what I gave him. Respect, love, and some freaking appreciation.

Factz....this is exactly what happened to me 3 yrs later right now he tryna come back smh

You are absolutely correct. I'm looking better, feeling better, and doing better W/O him.

“Spin the block” 🎯 great parable …

I’ve given him chance after chance even after a very deep betrayal. I’ve made crystal clear what I need from him and he’s refused to give me what I need. I’m out! ✌️

The devil will drag you down and come back to finish you off slam the door in his face

This is what I needed to hear. I needed that shake. It was things that GOD had told me, had shown me, and I still kept fall back into that same rut. Thank you Derrick for the words of love that you have shown us.🙏

That's me right now... I've told him again and again.... Now I'm out the door.

I'm that woman you have to come prepared for.....yes I'm her...thank you D👏

We are not emotionally compatible, he is emotionally selfish!! there is no coming back to me!!

I really don't mind him fumbling tha ball,I can hold my own he thought I was completely broken but now he don't know my strength.

I'm 50 now, and darn, I wish you existed back in the days I've had those types of men in my life Mister. I'm also happy I've build myself up, healed and have enough self love, worth and values to say Na Ha today. 😊

ex-husband who left me wanted a second chance, I ended my most recent relationship with a boyfriend because he was just another version of ex-husband trying to hide that fact, ex boyfriend is hovering

I feel like your the older brother I never had, thanks a lot I've been through a lot in life and I am making a conscious effort to make the right moves.

Like the song “IF YOU LOSE HER “ from Joe says he’ll feel a hole in his soul . Walk away !!!! It’s his problem

I’ve been single for a long time after my divorce and I am very secure in my finances and my emotional being. I’ve tried dating sites a few times and some authentic dating with people I’ve met the old fashioned way however, it’s just brutal out there. I’ve chosen to stay single and keep my sanity. But from time to time I wonder if there really are any good men left out there. As I get older now the pool gets pretty small.

This was the only message I needed to hear so I can officially go on with my life. Thank you so much!!! ❤

Wise words. Thank you for helping women to see when they are being played, and how to deal with it in a mature way. Much needed, especially in these times.♥

I absolutely gave him every opportunity to meet my needs. He told me 3 times he was coming tto my home for us to discuss our future and he didn't show up. Your video is Spot On.

“Glo up” thank you baby❤

Date on your level ladies. A great lesson to learn!

Yep that was me he'll need me before i need him

You just make me feel so much better about myself.

Ladies , these weak men cannot handle the truth. The truth of a real humble, strong and integrated woman. We are beautiful and we know our worth. Keep on glowing up ladies. we are unique and some cannot love like we do. Just like Derek said we are truly rare. Amen.

I already have my guard up.

She was younger, and that’s about it…Spin the block is an understatement!!!😘

Thank you Jesus. So powerful!!

Blessing Blockers !! I heard that loud n clear

I gave my all, I was there for him, financially, mentality , wasn't enough

Thank you Derrick. I needed this message!❤

Self love is everything

Im a once in a lifetime woman.Ive been the one who walked away from all the relationships after giving so many chances.ive never looked back.

You’re restoring my faith in men. Thank you for bringin the truth🔥

Yesss!! I can FULLY RELATE!! THANKS DERRICK!

He came back around the block, and I told him I love myself now so I can't go back to him. 😊❤

Thank you! Best answer now will be silence❤

Thank you, I need to be strong

Thank God for my blessings

Thank you. This message has helped me realize what i need to do to begin my healing and glow up.

Yep, he left, ghosted me. Came back. I let him back twice. Smh

Thank you so much for this message. I needed this!❤ God bless you Sir!

Derrick. It’s good to see you still doing what you love to do. Be blessed.

Thank you for being an added blessing in my life. I appreciate your support and mentorship.

Boom! Facts and thank you so much. I pray all the blessings for you and your loved ones.

I see this 💯, straight facts. He's without a single excuse...tik tok. Im Glowing up. And will continue to do so. 😎 thank you!

My husband broke me down to nothing, I couldn't even work for 3 years because I took care of our son who was born 1lb and came home from the hospital with a trache and on a ventilator. I had very little to no help from him.

Thank you Derrick for imparting your great knowledge with us women. I love watching your clips because it's always on time, just like God's word, to keep me on the straight and narrow 😊🙏💯. Stay blessed Derrick ❤

I communicated everything to him more than once. Nothing changed. In fact he MOCKED ME then lashed out verbally. He always implied I wasn’t good looking enough. BUT HE was AWLAYS the one who wanted ME back.

TEACH BROTHER. THIS IS GREAT TEACHING.🎉🎉🎉🎉✝️✝️✝️🍂🍁🍂🍂👩🏼‍❤️‍👨🏼🍂🍁

This has to be my fave of yours ....There's so much truth in this ... its almost soothing ! Thank you ❤

He can’t come back, I blocked him on all platforms for my own peace, my healing and my financial peace. Clean and very painful cut that was needed. When you show up for 7 years in every way, every day and get betrayed and discarded for a quick fixes, so many chances I gave him, so many and still adored him and wanted to marry him, caused me much hurt, you can’t come back from that. I don’t go backwards.

She watched one of your videos yesterday. She was interested and paying attention. 'If he wanted to he would '...hopefully between the video and her being honest I'll get my chance! Thanks for making the video. 😎

Thank you for the power as you speak to me, Derrick. I am listening. In a short while he has to be prepared for me after listening and evolving. THANK YOU for the love.

I LOVE YOUR TRANSPARENCY! THANK YOU!!

Wow! Wow! Wow! This is everything I needed to hear! Thank you for this encouragement! I appreciate the content you post.

Appreciate your mentorship. Full of wisdom. Wish I have known you before i could have save so much heartache. Keep doing what you are doing. You are helping a lot of women. Im very Grateful ! God bless❤

I gave him support strength encouragement and would say I don't deserve you. You're a good woman. He's so full of anger from his ex and had a wall of steel. His loss. I am a great woman and he's an idiot!

🔥🔥🔥dropped the ball.

Definitely guard your heart the word of God says that everything flows from it

PUT THIS ON REPEAT!!!

Thank you for the excellent presentation on these topics. I’m a survivor and still learning. 👍

Thank you so much. I needed to hear this right now. My bf asked me to move in and then "got scared" and ran. Im devastated and have been circling the drain.

Derrick thank u u dont know how much this video helped me 😢😢😢

This was just what I needed, THANK YOU 🙏🏼🙏🏼

Wow, that was so awesome 👌🏾 all I can say is thank you for being so authentic!!! My cousin has always told me that they always return to the scene of the crime. Thx again

I am so blessed that l stumbled across this message. She is me! MoViNg FoRwArD.

Loneliness do surface, but when we were together I felt so so alone and he was there daily , so no no no coming bk he was a dependent

Please let me know when you have that webinar you were talking about….I need it!

Time is up. Time to focus on yourself. Ain't got no time for manipulative, inconsistent, disrespectful people.

Brilliant, just brilliant

You are on point 💯 it’s so true! I am glowing nowadays! 😊

He left twice before, and came back. He broke up with me again because he can’t let go of his ex.

" it doesn't have to be this way".." your illness was never a problem for me" "can we talk"...... anything than saying "sorry".....regret but not remorse..hell No

Thank you!!! I needed to hear this.

Thank you I needed to hear this 🙏🏾💕

AWESOME AWESOME AWESOME CONTENT ‼️🤗

Thank you, Derrick. Bless you and your family🥰😇🙏