That’s great congratulations 🎉🎈🎊🍾 does he have a brother 😂 👍🏽

Hab zuerst cock gelesen ...ups

Thank you 🙏🏻

Yes, there is a kind of border between North and South Europe! Southern Europe has still the traditional role model for families and mothers. That's why the birth rates in Scandinavia e.g. are much higher than in Spain or Italy! In Germany we had the same border between the West and the East: In the former GDR women were needed as a work force, so they had a job and a family. Until 10 or even 15 years ago the Western part was still much, much old fashioned, and today particularly Bavaria and BW are still conservative in terms of the women's and mothers role. There is also a GREAT difference between the level of self confidence between West and East German women. As a sociologist and someone who moved from the West to the East I can confirm that to 100%! ;-)

I wouldn't say that the low birth rates between south europe and northern europe are due to cultural roles of "women do the house work" and "man bring the money home". It is quite typical that a woman has a job and provides to herself and to the family. I would rather say the reasons for such low rates are more related with 1) the very low average salaries, 2) very low welfare support for families and 3) the very short maternity leave. Unfortunately is very common nowadays that women will have their first child after the age of 35 (actually more towards the age of 40). I'm very happy to hear german man are very good and engaged father's, i would love it to be true all over the world 😉

Don't underestimate the value of a proper sex education that doesn't neglect the fact that sex can be fun for men and women if you are respectful with each other. When dating goes beyond sexual interest, it is way easier to be serious and honest with each other.

And I love how Germans are slowly dying out because of it

Hey Breuer....

Hello ❤❤❤

As the male part on this side I would argue that it might has to do with what you are looking for as well. See you have basically 3 types of mens 1st the players which are basically childs stuck in puberty and searching for trophies rather than an equal relationship. Those are mostly the ones that prefer to be in the middle of the party and honestly more likely to attract women therefore. Be aware of them please lots of scumbags are in this group as well. As we speak about childs there is the 2nd group mens that are not all grown up in some aspects ( i have to include me here too) This group is basically stuck between the missing experience of a relationship and their own wishes for life. I wouldn't say we are selfish but we have some issues to understand the needs of our partners and deal often with a lot of our own problems first. I'm not the best father to my daughter nor I'm the most reliable partner for my girlfriend in some aspects (I'm often late, have not much time for her ,because of my work situations and the time we spend together is not feeling like beeing together then but more like sitting in the same room dealing with our own thoughts and the main reason to meet each other is the need for something like money or going shopping or visiting family .....) This might be frustrating and this type of men is not suited to be the partner you dream off but overall it is not like they want to disappoint you they are just the way they are. Honest but also overwhelmed. My girlfriend and I are living in the same house in 2 different flats we both have work with bad working times so we see each other like once or twice a week only and I often spend more time with her mother and grandmother which are basically raising our daughter most of the time then I can spend time with her and because of this whole situation there is little news and a lot of more of the same when we finally meet. I myself would wish that she tells me what she actually wants to do so we could do it and it is basically what partner shouldn't be afraid of talking about with the 2nd group of men. the 3rd type of men is basically what is spoken off in this video or as you say it the husband material type ^^ The main reason why we are not so active in showing our interest might actually be that we are afraid of getting a "korb" as it is not just that we feel miserable ourselfs because of it but it is actually making the whole atmosphere weird. It is basically like the idea of your best friend relationships getting awkward the moment one talks about their feeling for you and you do not share them in the same way. Despite that as much as most women like to hear compliments it also has this bad taste of a macho if mens are doing the first step too. Speaking as a man myself I would wish that women learn to understand what problems we have with relationships at all and instead of avoiding our questions with small talk chatter how important it would be for us to be told what you expect from us rather than letting us figure it out and pissing you of because you getting frustrated about us ;)

@@kirasternenfeuer6198 thank you so much for your very open response. The way you replied makes me think of you as a pretty mature guy as you seem to reflect on the situation a lot. You said you would belong to the childish type of men, but here you are reflecting on mankind and why they behave the way they do and even putting on words what you (and probably also many other men) need. Thank you so much. I know to avoid the first type of men for sure as these guys are neither attractive to me nor would I waste my time like that. I often met the second type of men which was scared when I mentioned I want kids and a family. It felt to me like this type of men is probably the biggest group so it’s hard to find the husband material type of men that are ready for a serious relationship and maybe kids. I will try to improve also my communication skills to help men know what I would like in a relationship. Let’s hope that doesn’t scare them away ;)

Hey I'm kinda interested in finding love...

@@kirasternenfeuer6198 Hey stern you seem to have a positive perspective as regards German men....Really interested in finding love here....

Hello lady ,how are you doing and l was just going Thur website hoping to meet someone nice and l came across your profile and l decided to say hi ❤

Really I guess I find your opinion cool

Me too 😂

As a foreigner who moved to Germany 5years ago, I’ve also found that I rather approach or give a girl clearer signs outside Germany than in Germany. In other countries, if a girl is uninterested in you, they turn you down softly and nicely. But german girls are really rude with their rejections. So naturally I need a stronger internal push to approach a girl in Germany and risk being insulted. Of course if she’s interested in you, then it’s all fine but how do you know she is, if you don’t flirt or approach? It’s an annoying cultural difference

is flirting and clubbing a bad thing?

@@TheMntnG of course no. There was some other things I didn't mention. Tried to put it softly 😀 Asking me to bring illegal p_lls to the inside of the club, for instance. "I'm not asking you, just saying you're doing that. If you don't, I won't go". Quite pushy. He didn't go cuz I wasn't gonna help out with that. Also I didn't mention that I stayed at his place with my bf and flirting was kinda not the right thing.

@@djgonpet Sounds to me as you've met the usual asshole. They are out there. Everywhere, all over the world. But taking that as a hint for ''the average guy'' would be pretty random I'd guess. But admittedly it is always the one character in front of you with whom you have to interact in the end. For the good or the bad.

@@der7tezwerg921 yeah, I got it from the very beginning heh. We moved out to a hostel. Never took that guy as an example of an average German guy! No way. I didn't think much what an average German is like, just had that experience and then heard from Antoinette how reliable Germans are.

Are you married now?

And what is the question?

Meine Worte.. Nur, daß du's besser ausgedrückt hast! Vater sein ist doch toll! Ich durfte bei meiner 2. Tochter die Nabelschnur durchschneiden! Werd' ich nie vergessen! Grüße nach Bentheim

@@tasminoben686 Danke aus der Grafschaft Bentheim (ich selbst lebe in Neuenhaus /Grafschaft Bentheim an der Deutsch/Niederländischen Grenze ).

Finde man kann die Kinderbetreuung nicht so generalisieren. Dein Kommentar kommt rüber, als hätten wir hier schon keine typische Rollenverteilung mehr in Deutschland und als gäbe es keinen Handlungsbedarf mehr. Und als ob alle deutschen Männer gleich wären. Nach wie vor kümmern sich statistisch eher die Frauen um die Kinderbetreuung. Und traurig zu sehen, dass es sowas krasses ist, dass Männer Mal Windeln wechseln. Sie sind gute Väter WOW :o weil sie Mal ihrem eigenen Kind die Windeln wechseln. Sorry da kann ich nur müde lächeln im Vergleich zu dem was Mütter machen. Ich bin ehrlich erschrocken, dass es in anderen Ländern noch altbackener hergehen soll, da ich dachte Deutschland ist schon mega hinterher mit dem super veralteten Bild: Männer=Arbeitende; Frauen=Kinderbetreuende. Im Jahr 2021 sollte das nicht mehr erwähnt werden, dass Väter sogar Windeln wechseln.

@@anikaschneider2611 die Brust kann ich noch nicht geben aber wer weiß was die Zukunft bringt ! Natürlich mach ich nebenbei den Haushalt und kümmere mich um meine Kinder . Weiß nicht was dir wiederfahren ist aber es scheint das du das nicht mit deinem Partner erleben kannst , darfst ?

send me number

I‘m married to a German man and he is wonderful, even after ten years of marriage. When a woman is unwanted by her own husband, she should ask herself what part she has played in changing the man who once cared enough to marry her.

I am a German man and I don't want anybody. I am totally happy with myself and a few hand-selected, low-maintanaince friends.:-)

I want you 😂

😢😢😢 god provide u hun

Am Anfang des Videos war bei mir ein Hinweis darauf, dass das Video bezahlte Werbung enthält. 🤷🏻‍♀️

@@Zuckerwaffel27 stimmt, die kurze Einblendung ist mir vorhin gar nicht aufgefallen.

Do you live in Berlin?

@@samkobby3567 I have visited Berlin, but no, I don't live in Germany, I live in Ukraine. Why? :)

🇦🇹❤🇩🇪 God bless Germany 🇩🇪 F america

I‘m married to a German man. He is very caring and respectful, as many German men are. The thing is that they are like this to THEIR woman whom they find worth it, and not just to every person that just so happens to be female. I used to live overseas, and I never liked the superficial false chivalry of American men. I rather have a husband who will give me the world, than a boyfriend who holds doors for every girl he meets.

She probably never dated a German woman

hahahahahaha Of course the Germans do remind me a bit of the Borg.

Hello handsome,how are you doing and l was just going Thur website hoping to meet someone nice and l came across your profile and l decided to say hi ❤

😊😊 talk about coz am looking for one

@@ritahk2615 where you at? 😉

Kenya peter koller☺,

@@ritahk2615 that would be a long commute for a date...

Yes Peter, that's where the world has put us, we have the globe in our hands,distance ain't a barrier😊

If you are a smalltalker and gossip person, than yes we are

are u dutch

... in a good way! 😜

Also I have to add: Within Europe Germany is very much behind. Women stay at home so much more than men. There are statistics about it and in other countries it is much more even. Also if you look at salaries. In Germany almost always men are the ones who earn more. The topics are very related.

And also as a last comment: Women do still about 70 Percent or so of household work. Not 50/50 if you look at statistics

I agree. To say that "German men are great fathers" is very generalized and just not true. Of course there are great German fathers, but there are so many who are not. I think it's a very naive point of view based on her own husband. 50% of fathers don't pay child support, so how could that be true?

I think women like you are the reason why Antoinette has the impression german men are afraid of women... and i'm very sorry for you obviously not to have made positive experiences with german men

@@eagle1de227 Gute Besserung

Sehr Deutsch geantwortet mein Freund aber tatsächlich wahr !

Tja, aber irgendwann mußt Du das Risiko eingehen. Mein Mann hat keinen Korb bekommen und wir sind nun schon 41 Jahre zusammen😊

*winkt

Nur Mut, Ben !

@@nordwestbeiwest1899 😎👍🏻