i would have punch the guy no 3 if i were him tbh 😂

@@jayxr_ no cause seriously, I would’ve been like “I’m the gay one, also, number 3, wussup bitch?” 🤬

​@@jayxr_number 3 expressed a valid concern, no culture is monolithic, there's a lot of gay people who just like guys but having negative experiences would be understandable by people who aren't appreciating their interests boundaries molesters or harassers of any gender n sexuality n is something people will need to work on, that's good 2 was the one who was a bit weird - u don't like it cuz u don't have information? Maybe you don't have an opinion, n it's lost in translation, but if you don't have information then it should be neutral impression , what's don't like ?

@@-aeshe-4951 the thing is there are harassers everywhere. straight people can be harassers too, i've only been sexualy harassed by straight men in my life. this doesn't mean i think every straight guy is a harasser. he sounds like he thinks badly of every gay man. he needs to understand that his experiences are not universal and he cant (and shouldnt) misjudge a whole minority because of his personal experiences. this only brings more prejudice and violence.

@@blueside2721 Yes i agree. 👍🏽

I think that would be so easy 😂

plot twist: all of them are straight

@@atelierxarathat plot twist is literally this video…

@@Skullqueenot really

@@eliasmatsoso6822 what do you mean by why not really? There’s 5 Straight men and one gay men How is that not really the plot twist

YAS!! He seems like such a good person who would be a good person to whomever. The dude in the purple shirt should learn from him.

Louder. I do have a theory that homophobic people really just hates themselves

No one was homophobic yall always do this, everyone accepted he was gay no one was disgusted

@@soobinlove4417 No 3 literally said that he had bad experiences with getting touched but his conclusion was that all gay men sexually harrass others. What is that if not homophobic? He didn't mean harm but he still generalized a whole group of people and just because you don't mean it in a bad way doesn't mean you don't hurt people. And of course they would officially accept him afterwards - afterwards no one would show their homophobia openly in a video like this.

@@soobinlove4417 what the person below you said

Yes! I love the men like this! 🙌👏

I personally think that last guy can be also attracted to men, based on the next video

Exactly ❤

​@@polinhereif he says he's straight he's straight simple as that we can't assume that

@@polinherewhat next video?

Yes i really feel his anxiousness hahha

EXACTLY

I like that no. 1 guy

Yeah, I also really didn’t like what some of the guys said and felt kinda uncomfortable, but no 1 seemed to be nice and considerate :)

So true! I wish theres a moderator to like say some final words like “not every gays are like that” or “generalizing is not the way”

Fr cause when women say "men are this or that" they will always say "not all men" but when they talk about women or gays they always generalize 😊

Not an excuse but people like to think simply. Using generalizations is how something can be "understood" without having to think too much about it. The only time people don't generalize is when they found a reason disagree with the generalization through some form of personal experience, understanding or aversion.@@samgar4216

Exactly!glad you pointed that out

so true

MAN FR MY THOUGHTS THE ENTIRE TIME number 3 was so annoying

finally someone mention no 4 being kind too. a lot compliments no 1 and 6, but for me no 4 is just kind and considerate too. plus he is very honest huhu

definitely

yea its really disappointing. not to minimize his bad experience, but then I would ask, "so you'd be okay if a girl was sexually harassing you?" At the end of the day, every single person in the world is capable of being a pervert. Its just so silly.

i feel like all of them were fine except for no 2 & 3 letting their homophobia show 😭

its korea. they are really a few steps behind socially. its not their fault, they need to learn things and catch up! interactions between straight people are weird there too. one reason i cannot watch korean tv shows without getting angry, so i dont.

@@amyk4257 i dont think they are homophobic, they just have no clue. talking about gays publicly is still very new to them and i dont think people can come out without losing their jobs.

i wish i had straight male ego. then nobody could stop me lol

⁠@@0..._...-....._0ew 1) fujoshi 2) lesbophobic 3) internalized misogyny?? Get your act together, that’s shameful

@@0..._...-....._0 you're worse than these straight men

@@0..._...-....._0here comes the fujoshis..

​@@0..._...-....._0wtf

also talking about the screen time

Didn't he also generalize gays by saying they don't like sports....

@@hurryhurryhurryhurry time stamp?

@@unmyeongz it's just before the last elimination

@@hurryhurryhurryhurry13:30?? that’s not generalizing nor stereotyping, he was speaking from personal experience with his actual gay friends. stereotyping is like what number 2 said on 12:40.

I still don't get it why did the y think he was gay

@@sevyeun because of appearance, i'm also gay but when I saw chankyu walk i know it HAHAHAH btw i can felt it if the person is gay or not HAHAHA kidding

this 😔

i hope his ok now. i have gone through the same experience and it gave me stress to ride buses after that.

🥹😔

The world is crazy out there 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨 😢 yesterday i was going to work, and the bus was so full when I entered . After I was there, it got more full, and I was almost crushed in a guy for more than 5 minutes . I think he stopped breathing for a while 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. We were so close that I could feel his breath . But nothing happened. I entered panic, though, when I was to get out but couldn't move, and I was in the middle between the doors. But then someone asked me if i wanted to go out, and I nodded, so someone pushed the red button, and they all got out from the buss, and I escaped successfully 😂😂😂😂😂. I don't know the world outside, but my city is having amazing people. Usually I'm not using busses or anything like that in the morning because if someone touches my hair by mistake ,I'm dead 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. For the last 13 years, if my hair has been touched, I'll freeze, and my body will hurt like hell. Don't ask me why 😅,I don't know ,I was just going to cut my hair and when the girl touched my hair I was like freezing and my body started to hurt terribly. I couldn't even talk ,so I just started crying, and she stopped in shock 😂😂😂😂😂😂. Whatever, I never met evil people in my life (well, just one, but he died a long time ago ) . So I'm sorry for this one . He must be shocked 😢😢.

Number 1 is the most respective guy. Number 4 and Number 6 is respective too. But number 2 and 😊Number 3 is literally rude and disrespectful ....

Bisexual men too i look very masculine and i happen to be good looking and black men already get the stereotypical overly masculine attach other guys immediately run cuz they are so shocked unless i speak in a lighter tone than a deep tone😂

I mean… it’s true. Often times gay men can be more “masculine” than straight men, especially in Asia

Yup, there are more gays who are masculine than fem in the gay community, and often only they will choose the mascs over the fems

Yes your right 100%, and if you know dating show called "his man2". There a man The man's name is Junseong, he is tall, enigmatic and handsome. and of course very masculine

Yes exactly! I'm gay and all of the guys I've seriously dated (3) you would've NEVER guessed they were gay, because they were very masculine (in a healthy way) and didn't act nor talk like a "stereotypical gay guy" lol

Femenine where?

@@kitty_cherry5076 he is kinda femenine, like if you don't know him you will probably think he is masculine just by how he looks, but when he talks and moves you'll notice his femenine and cute vibe.

@@luv1hae he talks and move like a normal and common guy, you don't have to be though to be maculine

@@luv1hae wich femenine vibes? Like, just because of he's gay you guys say that, if he was straight no one of all of you will say nothing of this bs.

@@kitty_cherry5076 idk how to explain it but even if he's not femenine he's also not masculine at all. It´s not about looks or how he acts actually, it's just that he has this pretty guy vibe.

nah i feel like you shouldnt just assume someone is gay especially if you're trying to approach them because you really never know. With that being said, number 3 definitely couldve worded the way he said things better. I feel like his bad experiences with the gay community has caused him to be a bit bitter towards them and in turn makes him come off as homophobic. I would be a bit miffed if a guy tried to grope me just because I dressed a bit more genderfluid as well though. So i understand both sides, number 3 just came off more ugly about it. Which leads me to believe its happened to him often and/or rubbed him the wrong way so hes not as kind about it. EDIT: Also who knows, maybe he is gay or struggling with his sexuality/identity and guys approaching him just makes dealing with it worse and makes him more confused. I would understand that as well. People deal with things differently, hes still young...hoepfully he experiences things better from now on and becomes more confident in his own skin.

⁠​⁠@@kaee4ki’m not really sure how you think we can approach a dude as a dude without assuming they could be gay. Groping is never an acceptable approach, no matter genders. What he said was wrong because he assumed all gay men are sexual harassers, which is an awful thing to assume about a minority group (or any group, for that matter. Think about how straight guys get this same shit from women) No matter what he’s dealing with, if anything at all, and no matter how “young” he is (though I’d guess 25, so not young enough to have pity) what he’s expressing here isn’t cool. Personally, wouldn’t be friends with him.

Yes honestly it gave me hope to see those Korean men stand by their beliefs and actively try to fight against bad stereotypes even tho it would’ve painted a target at them

I think that number 6 was mistaken for gay not because he defended himself from rude things, he just looked as good as number 5, he is handsome and confident.

I noticed that 😂

😂😂

Exactly !!!!!!

omg so that’s why 😭 I kept thinking he looked familiar but couldn’t remember from where

😂yess

Real I saw his face on the thumbnail and I was like I wonder who the gay person could possibly be 🤣🤣🤣

Na hora que eu vi thumbnail kkkkk

I know it's probably cultral diferences but I would argue with MANY things they've stated here.

Males will dismiss women saying that they are harassed but as soon as a gay man comes up they are the most offended. Very hypocritical.

IKR

HELP

😭😭😭 homophobic goofy ahh Korean society

I guessed him as soon as soon as he started talking. Everyone else seemed more confident but he had this shy vibe that illuminated around him.

um not every gay guy is fem..

@@iiluvsophie I didn't think he looked feminine in any sort of way and I didn't want to have a very stereotypical approach. I was suspecting contestants 1, 2, and 4 for some reason. I was trying to say that having feminine features has nothing to do with being gay but I think it came out wrong.

@@nikitachauhan8567 ohh okk im sorry for being so straight forward than

@@iiluvsophie No, it's fine. Even I kinda saw it coming when I was writing it. I wanted to say that he didn't look feminine and he was the one who's gay so guessing someone's sexuality based on their looks doesn't make sense. That's what I wanted to say.😅

SAY IT LOUDER

For real, how dare do they generalize gay men when straight men are the ones doing it the most and the worst.

RIGHT???

Two wrongs don't make a right but people do need to teach their sons and daughters better because I see more girls sexually harass guys more than I see guys do such these days. Either way it sucks to touch people without consent, even with how free I am with my sister there are some times I still ask for consent to touch, hold or hug her cause she's not always comfortable with it and needs to prepare her mind to accept another person's hug

more girsl harrasing? help- which world r u living? because what is more common is guys harassing girls and even r4ping them@@nickeni3050

my gaydar is so broken, i thought it was no.3! i never guess correctly on these types of video :( i'm a flop gay

No 5 is soo attractive

because there are different perspectives, you see only surface level like face/make up/clothes, and they see some small details because it's THEIR culture

Ngl some of these guys look fruitier than changyu

which one is changyu??😭

@@BunnyNStars in jean costume

I was born and raised in Australia and Changyu definitely seemed gay to me cause I also have lots of gay friends around me.

😂😂😂 like where do they live not on earth

Some people are like "Well I've never met a gay person in my life." Like, where do you live? Cuz it's extremely likely you have and just didn't know.

FR living in a capital city and not meeting someone gay is virtually impossible unless your circle is very small and limited. I sometimes think gaydar is just non-existent in Korea lol@@TeeTop_

@@Armylivingliterally the biggest district of Seoul Itaewon is dominated by gay clubs. Doesn't he live in Seoul ?

LMAOOO

That's going to be chaotic

@@abhalichade the exact reason I want to see it 😂

the straight guy will just surrender and call hinself out 😂

Lmao

He will not keep up. He will be found in the first round😂

This!!!

개웃기다 이 댓글ㅋㅋㅋ

하... 바이는 안될까? ㅜㅠ

THIS^^^^ omg

if they bring in a femme girl I'm a 100% sure they're not gonna get it right 😭

We need another gay version

YESSSS PLEASEEEE ^^^^^

Only gay movies, BL dramas, BL actor couples, Gay reality shows, etc. have a very large profitable market. You can find a lot Chinese good-looking boys producing BL TikToks. Most of them are not gay but they know BL topic is popular among girls.

Same the gay guy was the cutest

It's interesting because a lot of stereotypes in other countries would consider most of these men gay. But ignorance is everywhere.

True! The gay guy doesn’t look like the rest of the pretty boys.

Those kind questions can't be asked with out some stereotypes being thrown in, if they had bad intentions I don't think they would agree to make that kinda video

but honestly though, a lot of men in the west think and say the same things that these men said. For many cases I think it’s genuinely not out of hate it’s just because of lack of education and exposure (and not wanting to be exposed because of unfamiliarity) to gay people and the lgbtq+ community

아 진짜 이거 나만 느낀 거 아니었네 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

Sexuality is not something that comes to you during life. Especially male homosexuality, it's mostly inborn thing that can't change

I was certain it was number 5 too because I'm a girl who's attracted to feminine, cute guys who most times turn out to be gay. I mean, who would resist such a cutie like him? His curly hair, his smile... his EVERYTHING. I like his curly hair A LOT. It's a bummer that's he's gay. Well, it's not like we could've dated anyway, lol.

Para mim não teve graça, eu sabia desde o início... Acompanho o Changyu (n5) desde que ele saiu do reality de namoro que ele participou. Foi aguniante ver ele no meio de tantos héteros 😅

But I was so happy to talk with other people

​@@gyu_11.12Eu adorei o vídeo, só quis dizer que eu não me surpreendi e sobre o desconforto é que eu me coloquei um pouco no seu lugar e acho que me sentiria um pouco desconfortável, mas fico feliz em saber que você gostou da experiência 😊

@@gyu_11.12 did not expect you to be in the comments

i feel the same. i feel like an alien to them.

bisexuals enter the chat

Don't worry, you'll eventually find your own place/group. Doesn't necessarily need to be gay too, some of my closer friends are fully straight people, as long as you share common interest and that they're nice it's enough

you're literally generalizing straight korean men with your comment, calling them ignorant

@@hxghsk no I didn’t say all Korean men I said “so many” which is fact. Not a a generalization. Get outta here delulu

@@hxghsk they said "so many ignorant ppl" not that ALL korean men are this way, the 3rd gay was indeed generalizing about gay men based on his bad experiences tho

⁠@@hxghsktheyre not generalizing Korean men as ignorant, they’re saying it’s disappointing how there is still so many ignorant PEOPLE they never just said Korean men.

@@hxghskyou flopped

Yeah they were the actually homophobic ones. It actually a pleasant surprise only 2 out of 6 were homophobic, for Korean standards

Stereotyping much...

@@michelrodrigues5686there's a reason why stereotypes exist

We love ya... protect that guy at all cost he's a gem.. thank you for not judging him

This game totally served! 💯

i hoped that you are gay. because of too handsome 😋

Your welcome I absolutely loved hearing everyone's thoughts on the topic ❤ fun to watch

🥺omg😊HI!

any good this tv series/s

@@Tanlawless yes I recommend! Especially His Man 2 is even more fun but both seasons are cool

Gay guys can be feminine and very masculine also but if the man is feminine he's 90% gay. Straight men are always masculine (at least they don't radiate expressed fem energy, looks)

Fr esp those three are so tall tall 😭😂😂

It’s concerning that one can’t talk about gay people without others getting their feelings hurt..

​@@Smiley957ikr!! I have stereotypes too and It's totally fine imo

@@arya.5 Yeah, and the funny thing is people like this are not even gay themselves. Ask an actual gay and they are probably fine with it.

uh the jubilee version had way more stereotypes and no one got their feelings hurt over it

Huh? This isn't limited to SK, these are gay stereotypes we all know about. I don't see the harm. The Jubilee one was way worse

i continued watching the vid and thank god number 4 did tell him

Lol

Yeah. I don’t see why not tbh.

It is already "accepted" in Korea and Asia in its own way. These ancient cultures have made a place for it all along. What you want is for Koreans to think like you, and that is just colonialism all over again. Hoping that your children are not marginalized and discriminated against is not intolerance toward the culture.

Hell nah. Please don't bring that western gay culture to us.

​@@mikemondano3624you people can't be real. Touch some grass

Yeah, he's so cute and his tics make him even cuter.

Yeah, he is adorable. He seems like a great person to be around.

i knew i recognized him and it didnt click when i first heard his name, but when he said "his man" i was like wait.... OMG CHANGYU HOW DID I FORGET that was my baby i was rooting for him😭

omg i actually need yoonghee on this now, or maybe even junseong

Me too😅

​@@hottestahgastayonce3850yes junseong

I was about to say, they wouldn't even think Junseong was gay based on their thinking.

😂 yessssss

6 is so pretty and 5 is gorgeous and all of them were fine like can I be any one of them in my next life it’s not fair they get to be good looking

Number 6 n 2 fr

I think 1,4,6 were best they look like idols 😍👌❤️

Gay guys are so stunning, not all. there's something special about them, even their appearance - from my experience. Not all gay guys are goodlooking but if you see a super cute and pretty guy who just really captivates you, he's like most definitely gay, from my experience, including Seoul. Straight men are really not it

what was it called?

🤣🤣

Same! I was so frustrated when they talked about the stereotypes, especially the walk. I’ve never met a gay guy walking like that lol