What if the same Position DATE each other?

What if the same Position DATE each other? | LGBTQ+

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@guessimintoblondeandsaltybrats Жыл бұрын

As a bi female it's honestly so difficult to know if another girl is straight lesbian Or bi

@hanmingting Жыл бұрын

Ikrrrrr. Like it's hard telling among girls because actually girls are naturally touchy, lovey-dovey with each other and we're here feeling something more.

@itz_pluto4682 Жыл бұрын

@@hanmingting ikrr!! and most women who are flirty and touchy af turn out to be straight so its so confusing 💀

@Andy-dv1ig Жыл бұрын

Don't mind but women are not gay. They are either hetero, lesbian or bi. 💜

@itz_pluto4682 Жыл бұрын

@@Andy-dv1ig gay is a common term used to refer homosexuality in slang but i get ur point, also pls get the spellings right lol

@Andy-dv1ig Жыл бұрын

@@itz_pluto4682 homosexual refers to both, but men and women have their own labels, either use the word homo or the correct label to specify the different gender, it's more respectable to them. Thank you for correcting my mistake. 💜

@cartr4236 Жыл бұрын

I had no idea Jihoo was a girl at first hahaha, i was so surprised when i saw the comments. She's extremely handsome and well built.

@golbinnom Жыл бұрын

same haha

@phocian Жыл бұрын

This is not 100% accurate all the time, but generally, there are telltale signs of a male vs female genetically born body. I would say big clues are hands and legs on Jihoo. Her legs and hands would tell me female. Just compare the two. Her legs and hips are spread-out (nothing to do with weight) when she sits on the chair and her hands are very delicate. Also the lack of protruding adam's apple. Dookyun's body is complete opposite.

@cartr4236 Жыл бұрын

@@phocian yeah well most people look at others faces because its the biggest indicator, and it also doesnt change the fact her face is quite masculine and handsome. this probably also doesnt apply bc i know guys who by their hands, lips, jawlines, and hips, you would think they would be a female. it also depends on peoples nationalities, different ethnicities have different hip to shoulder ratios and so on and so forth.

@mariah.lynnxx Жыл бұрын

same

@josephlee6464 Жыл бұрын

They ant no little girl that a woman 😏

@huwonTV Жыл бұрын

Hello, I'm Jihoo(jihu) from this video. In Korea, there are times when it is divided by appearance, but usually, butch and femme are divided according to sexual taste. What does it mean in other countries? In fact, it is difficult to define everyone in this dichotomous way. Lesbian and gay are just people who love people after all.

@CathedralUntouched Жыл бұрын

I think like some other commenters have mentioned, in the west (or at least in America, I won't presume to speak for other places) butch and femme seem to be more appearance descriptors rather than sexual taste, though there are stereotypical associations (like butch = top, etc). It was really interesting to hear what they refer to in Korea though! I really enjoyed this video, and totally agree with your last thought :D

@kal.5190 Жыл бұрын

In Indonesia most butch are top, but there are some who are bottoms,this can apply to femme too. As for my circumstances, both me and my girlfriend are femmes,but she's the top one. As far as I know, we rather distinguish who's top and bottom from the length of the nails instead of style/appearance only. If their nails are long, they're obviously a bottom.

@giovannapadilha Жыл бұрын

So where I live (south of Brazil - it's a really big country), in my social circle, butch and femme are related to appearance, though there are the stereotypes of butch being top and femme bottom. But until now I don't think I've ever met a woman that's not versatile (?) Of course that some like giving more, or receiving more, but everyone I've known till today did both. I've had 2 girlfriends, I'm more on the femme side (appearance) and both of them were butch (appearance), but we're all versatile despite that.

@yaelletchatat9317 Жыл бұрын

In France, we use top/bottom and giver/receiver for gays and lesbians (and overall for everyone), but some people don't define their sexual preferences, they're just switch. Also we don't use the term "femme" because it litterally means "woman".

@yih Жыл бұрын

Here in the UK those descriptors are related to appearance. Either of them can top, that's entirely personal preference and isn't tied to appearance necessarily x

@liveyogacom Жыл бұрын

She is so handsome

@lynettetracht1836 Жыл бұрын

RIGHT?!

@Dellilly Жыл бұрын

So true

@heeseungstoenail9878 Жыл бұрын

@hanmingting Жыл бұрын

Yessss

@nickdreamer-hitmanbreakero8039 Жыл бұрын

She?

@HelloBeautiful361 Жыл бұрын

I think Jihoo made all our hearts flutter 😳😳😳

@merrin2273 Жыл бұрын

Unbelievably. I'm not someone who blushes watching strangers or even around people irl often, but she is so charming and has such a cool vibe to her that I find myself warm and blushing anytime she comes up!

@dreampinkreel Жыл бұрын

Femme and butch are terms that have nothing to do with bed preferences. It’s only about the appearance of a person. A butch person looks more “masculine” where as a femme - from the French word which means woman - often has long hair and looks like the traditional image someone would have of femininity.

@Maria-pd4ce Жыл бұрын

i was looking for this comment.. even queer people adapt to such a heteronormative mindset sometimes, like the 'masculine' and the 'feminine' one have to be the top/giver and bottom/receiver respectively, like just why???

@hannishoney7237 Жыл бұрын

Nah, that's not quite true. Femme and butch are identities - it means more than bed preferences or looks. It's how you feel, how you act and present yourself. A lot of butches are tops (or service tops) and a lot of femmes are bottoms, that's true regarding Jihoos statement, but it's not a set dynamic like e.g. dom and sub. There's also butch/butch and femme/femme people out there. I think both Jihoo and Dookyun were a little biased in their explanation as she's a top and he's a switch so they can just give their own view, maybe it's a translation mistake that made it sound like they're talking representatively and not just about their own experience. There's obviously also lesbian couples who switch and gay people who have preferences to a degree that they say they're a top or bottom. Always consider as well that they're talking from a korean perspective and might therefore have a different definition of certain topics and words.

@enyascarve3059 Жыл бұрын

I was gonna say something but you beat me too it. It’s a little stereotypical

@MixedRogueKhorri Жыл бұрын

that does not fit everywhere! in some regions of the world it does equate to sexual bed pref. not everyone is from the west with their thinking.

@enyascarve3059 Жыл бұрын

@@MixedRogueKhorri just because it’s the stereotype it doesn’t mean it’s accurate to everyone even it that region.

@KatherineUribe-1 Жыл бұрын

I find human sexuality endlessly fascinating. The gradations, variations, fluidity are all wonderful. None of it bothers, it's all interesting to me so I don't get homophobia, transphobia, hate of any kind. I want everyone to be proud and happy about who they are! And sex is really a small part of the whole thing. It's about who you feel close to, who "gets" you, who you respect, love, and support. Every single one of us deserves love and respect!

@pcbuck63 Жыл бұрын

Perfect response!

@leonalionandmoon99 4 ай бұрын

Finally find someone with same thought.... I never had any kind of hate like feelings towards any of this regardless of anything

@jamya4316 Жыл бұрын

Yeah. I’d let her do anything to me 💀💀 she definitely would win.

@mandarinablue8438 Жыл бұрын

Yup 👌

@kerlsevenJk Жыл бұрын

KZfaq you’re doing great keep going… With no joke this video can be very interesting for young lesbians and gay person who’s trying to build themselves. No drama, no complexity, only good conversation and information ❤️

@itz_pluto4682 Жыл бұрын

ikr!

@chandrabalisarkar7959 Жыл бұрын

I second you!!!

@marinamim3243 Жыл бұрын

💖💖🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

@whoisneonia Жыл бұрын

as i’m a bi it was really interesting to listen, but in my opinion there’s something incorrect about top or bottom positions in sex. or rather their appearance. i don’t know if it’s very obvious and so easy to recognise who is give or take in korea, but when some curious people ask me and my partner about our positions they literally think that my girlfriend is top. we both are feminine, but my features look like more gently(?). and then they’re realize that they were wrong, because in our sexual life i’m 100% top. what I'm getting at is that no one needs to judge who takes an active or passive role in a relationships that don’t involve you. it’s just a sex, which doesn’t intersect with people’s appearance

@mnopqrst Жыл бұрын

Yes, these days, because of so many BL novels, people think they are "entitled" to ask whether a homosexual person is "top" or "bottom". It's fucking ridiculous. Yeah, and like you said, they always assume that a gentle looking one is hundred percent bottom. Face, dress up and bed preferences have nothing to do with each other. I hope people just stop asking these type of questions.

@morbidgirl6808 Жыл бұрын

True. I look like a rockgirl who seems tough. I'm 5'7 and people assumed that I was the top due to my appearance and height. Until they found that it turned out that my short and shy girlfriend who seems somewhat meek on outside, was the top all along. They got so confused 😂

@HangryKitsune Жыл бұрын

@@mnopqrst some heteros do that without being in contact with the BL genre. The good old "who is the man and who the woman in the relationship" question is older than BLs. (not saying that the BL fandom doesn't have some entitled idiots as well, but it exists outside of it as well)

@mnopqrst Жыл бұрын

@@HangryKitsune I know it does. It's just that youngsters learn from BLs a lot these days, so much that I have been really shocked these days.

@klausd.6285 Жыл бұрын

Did you all forget this is Koeran right? Just becuase those terms only mean appearance where you live, does not mean it is like that every where around the whole world. Not every queer community is exactly the same. They are going to be different. To expect them to be the same is fucking stupid. But hey, go off about how you know more about queer culture in Korea than queer Koreans know. Jihoo even made a comment saying that butch and femme do indeed play a role in ones sexual role, said that it doesn't apply to everyone though, and then asked what those terms mean in other countries. You lot should be fucking ashamed of yourselves acting like you know OH so much about a comminuty in another fucking country and having to feel the need to "correct" someone from said country who is apart of that community. The world does not revolve around your little world.

@BioDomeBuddies Жыл бұрын

As a vers, bi, male that prefers men I can say something about this. Being with a vers isn't always so simple as some days I want to top or bottom despite the role that my partner is. I've dominated a top a few times and learned that it not only comes down to communication but also the mood. Especially during first times, the truth of the matter is that the body will decide what you want. There are a few telling signs of what the body is ready for and when that happens it's good to explore that carnal desire. Although when it comes to love both parties must understand that it's a give and take. If you love the person then you should open your mind to the possibility of switching your role every once in a while. You may not have liked it with someone else but you may not mind it with your current lover. So keep your mind open, listen to your body, and let your heart experience something new and erase the old. You may be a top/bottom for others but vers for your lover, so don't be closed-minded and give up your chance to experience something new that may even bring you closer to your lover and increase intimacy.

@BioDomeBuddies Жыл бұрын

Also, as a man in USA, it can be super challenging to tell the difference between straight, bi, and gay unless they're flaming, in-your-face gay. Then again, I've heard that even some straight men dress in drag. There's this annoying thing called a metrosexual which is pretty much a gay-acting straight man. His mannerisms, voice, and style may scream gay but he's straighter than an arrow and gets pissed at being called gay. Then again, I don't have a good gaydar, most of my male friends are straight, and a third of my exes were straight before we slept together. So, I'm either a good example of a vers with horrible gaydar or my gaydar was broken because of all the straight guys that I've been their first gay experience for. Sorry that I tend to run on but I have lots of experiences and a fast-moving brain. Either way, I hope that y'all enjoyed my input and point of view. Have a wonderful day.

@jakonly4446 Жыл бұрын

Why bi? Just say ur gay lol

@1minime2 Жыл бұрын

That's a great advise! Thank you for sharing. I hope more people read it)

@tencastillo8523 Жыл бұрын

@@jakonly4446 because bisexuality is a spectrum? you can like men more than women and date them more often but like women. i prefer men but i am also attracted to women and date them too.

@chimchim1516 Жыл бұрын

@@jakonly4446 just because youre bi doesnt mean its an absolute 50/50, even if you 90% like men and 10% preference for women, just the fact you have a preference for both means youre bi

@JLA-yw4xk Жыл бұрын

When she turned and said I'm confident that I'll win.... I fell in love!

@happyfan7984 Жыл бұрын

All the BL fujoshis need to watch this video. They all think every gay couple is just seme/uke (top/bottom), when in reality that's far from the case.

@mochihamster2794 Жыл бұрын

I thought everyone knew about “seke”

@karlaruiz8685 Жыл бұрын

BL has sekes so?

@happyfan7984 Жыл бұрын

@@mochihamster2794 Nope.

@happyfan7984 Жыл бұрын

@@karlaruiz8685 They're just starting. That seme/uke trope needs to be buried for good.

@karlaruiz8685 Жыл бұрын

@@happyfan7984 Seke has always been a thing it isn’t “just starting” what a stupid statement. Uke-seme will never be “buried” as long as gay couples with top-bottom dynamics exist.

@baakojernigan7095 Жыл бұрын

Ig sk's lesbian and gay culture is wildly different from the west bc here wlw use top and bottom and a femme is not necessarily a bottom and masc presenting/butch are not always top... most couples in long term relationships will usually be vers regardless of how they present

@reharm_reality Жыл бұрын

Yeah I was really surprised when they said butch is the same as top and femme is the same as bottom...

@milk_soap. Жыл бұрын

Yea so it's kinda like what the gay dude described, most have a preference but at the end of the day people are generally versatile. Life really isn't just black and white after all, there will always be those grey bits. Of course, nothing wrong with matching your ideal ig.

@MugandeMuyoka Жыл бұрын

I was thinking the exact same thing with how Jihoo explained them and how they are over here aha Learnt something new today lol

@ifeeltiredsleepy Жыл бұрын

@@reharm_reality I think in lesbian slang up to the 90s butch did mean top in the West too, like I think of Leslie Feinberg's novel Stone Butch Blues (A stone butch was a lesbian top who doesn't let themselves be touched sexually). Gender roles of those types have gone out of fashion a lot in Western queer communities in the past 20 or so years.

@reharm_reality Жыл бұрын

@@ifeeltiredsleepy Yeah I was just surprised because those ideas have been separate for a while

@goraebit Жыл бұрын

Dookyun is so relatable when he said "Oh, he looks like a top...I want to be a bottom today." 😂

@solarpunkist3720 6 ай бұрын

Ok that’s was funny 😂

@idleking31 6 ай бұрын

That’s because he’s only a top only 1% of the time.

@tzippy_il Жыл бұрын

This video was so informative and interesting! They both explained themself really well! Thank you SHINE TEEN for this kind of videos!~

@Itsnobodybutjust_Choso. Ай бұрын

*"I BE TOP!"* *"NO, ITS ME!"* *fights in a gay way.*

@im_just_vidu Жыл бұрын

I can seriously go lesbian for her. Like 100% seriously

@hellominyoongi Жыл бұрын

same, girl, same

@flowersgurl403 Жыл бұрын

just compliment instead of saying that

@viol_e Жыл бұрын

Become bi, life is great 👍

@kerryholland4822 Жыл бұрын

@@flowersgurl403 it is a compliment.

@mikazrx Жыл бұрын

@@kerryholland4822 no it's not. You can't 'go' lesbian. It makes beeing lesbian kinda invalid as if it was a choice beeing a lesbian (which is not a choice). 🙂

@denii7094 Жыл бұрын

i loved this, they are both so funny!😂😂 hahahha and i learnt a lot too!! i didn't know girls also had top + bottom "roles" 🤯

@wangxianspirit Жыл бұрын

Fr?

@gsjdndnndns1818 Жыл бұрын

Beo td

@elena-otiliamihai4356 2 ай бұрын

@denii7094 same here. I need to educate myself 🙈I mean, I understand the concepts, the roles, but, I honestly thought they must switch at some point during the sexual intercourse... I mean, both need to reach climax, right? If you only give and you do not receive, how does that happen?

@nora4852 Жыл бұрын

me being a bisexual switch: interesting information

@sarahviolet3091 Жыл бұрын

So a top(les) and verse(gay guy) Nice to see us girls represent the diversity in ourselves! Yo go girl!

@Anie1987 Жыл бұрын

One of my favorite couple channels I follow on here are a top/top couple. They've been together for a few years now. I feel like you can make it work somehow for someone you really love. I do know it takes a lot of communication, but it is possible. Edit: Totally forgot to add the channel name! They're the ALLBBANG couple here on KZfaq. They've talked about it in livestreams before. I love them. ☺

@tairod7212 Жыл бұрын

Channel name pls

@eyo7101 Жыл бұрын

channel name aaaa

@huh9283 Жыл бұрын

Channel

@aryajade580 Жыл бұрын

What’s the channel

@immaweirdo4888 Жыл бұрын

but then again you can’t really say that they are really a “top/top” couple because at the end of the day one or both of them bottoms so they would be versatile.😊

@jeanmcpherson279 Жыл бұрын

Love how open and honest they are, heartwarming

@Riya-jf9ny Жыл бұрын

The crush he had on her when he thought she was a guy was so evident throughout the video 🤣 cute.

@deinemomundich Жыл бұрын

Justice for femme tops!!!

@pinkbackground3787 Жыл бұрын

Fr like the style isn't always the case for being top and bottom, also she's talking like fem4fem and masc4masc don't exist 😭(no hate for her tho I actually love her)

@nadias7755 Жыл бұрын

yes plz 💀

@naattaaqzara Жыл бұрын

Hear hear!!!! I want more love. Then, justice ha ha.

@crystalmoon8248 Жыл бұрын

I like this kind of topic and the flow of their convo is spontaneous and informative at the same time

@MsAllykat23 Жыл бұрын

Ahhhh she’s so attractive 🥺 She definitely made my heart flutter when she said she was confident she would win 🤣

@helgaseele6203 Жыл бұрын

Omg there should be a warning for hetero girls in all videos with Jihoo that it's dangerous to watch cuz you may become "bi" xD Such a great charisma! Falling for her instantly. 🥰 Dookyun is so nice too! ❤️ Where do you find all these sweet, adorable, sunshine-like people? I'm always smiling when watching.

@reyphobic Жыл бұрын

you don't just "become" bi what do you mean 💀

@pauljack2267 Жыл бұрын

i'm sorry but the fist part technically makes no sense 😅

@cherriekadavis9933 Жыл бұрын

girl what.

@ssickyeo Жыл бұрын

u can't become bi I'm cryjfbfbbt

@helgaseele6203 Жыл бұрын

I know it doesn't work like this, but don't take every word literally, please. It's just a way to make a compliment. Why so serious?)))

@glendora2710 Жыл бұрын

I love her charisma!!!!! Thank you for the video Shine Teen! Keep going!

@makemelaughaturcommentchal4769 Жыл бұрын

i giggled outrageously

@giovannapadilha Жыл бұрын

I might have fallen in love with Jihoo, oh dear Lord If she was next to me I'd 100% become a teenage girl that's all flustered when someone as beautiful as her is close

@sweernight8313 Жыл бұрын

this was interesting to watch. in my opinion is when you really like someone you'll find a common ground and work it out. rather than calling someone strict top or bottom i think pleasure roles have fluidity just like sexuality, they can change. You can bend. there's a 70% chance, always.

@Solararisa 8 ай бұрын

Some people are strictly top and bottom though and don't want to deviate from that and that should completely be ok. No one should have to feel like they need to give something up to be more "open-minded".

@nicolenikola7141 7 ай бұрын

@@Solararisa Yeah, i feel very uncomfortable if I try to change the position I like, I just can't keep going and I feel awkward, it's just not pleasurable for me at all

@shalininihar9403 Жыл бұрын

OMG ...her confidence is on another level 🔥🔥🔥🔥...when she says " I'm confident that I'll win "..... Im not bi but after knowing her confidence literally gives me Butterflies 🦋🦋🦋

@shrutinarale2978 Жыл бұрын

They both are so kind and honest..... I can feel it thought my phone screen that no matter who you're you'll never get uncomfortable by them...... My heart can feel a connection with both of them........ Keep smiling and making hand gestures I really like it☺🤗🥰

@multipleseditor5 Жыл бұрын

I looooveed this video!!! It’s so wonderful to see such an open and interesting topic being talked about on these popular channels! And I may have fallen in love with Jihoo just a little bit! She’s totally my style hehehe 😍🏳️‍🌈

@mimiikholhring1946 Жыл бұрын

She look like actor park bogum 😂

@pinkbackground3787 Жыл бұрын

OMG SHE DOESSS

@user-pg4sy9ng1m 11 ай бұрын

This made me feel emotional and feel the vibe of love

@evefoodie8798 Жыл бұрын

The guy seems so chill and nice to be around!!

@thatbabiechoiceot5469 Жыл бұрын

For those talking and commenting about them using femme and butch to describe sexual positions; please be understanding that the actual KOREAN LANGUAGE doesn't have any integrated/created new words to describe people of minorities like the LGBT+. For now they stick to using western and English words which can at times get lost in translation but the communities there learn to adapt. It also depends on the country and the culture how words can be differently defined. Korea is still a conservative country but we're starting to see movement. Please be kind and understanding :)

@MixedRogueKhorri 5 ай бұрын

adapt ??? why should we as LGBTQ koreans....have to adapt to the west????? we are doing fine with or terms....it seems people who are not korean in the comments getting upset about how LGBTQ people in korea identify and live their lives.....it feels a little .....hmmm COLONIAL? Not you OP the people you are trying to target/reach.

@thatbabiechoiceot5469 5 ай бұрын

@@MixedRogueKhorri idk people just reaching 24/7. Like they use the vocabulary they have. Give them time. I don't get the outrage in the comments about them using femme and butch to assign top or bottom basically. Different countries, different terms and different cultures.

@Yuriaki_Maika_4376 Жыл бұрын

Omg Jihoo is so handsome cool and mature I'd date her in a heart beat like she's is so soso cool I'd feel like she'd sweep me off my feet easily

@AlexVinder Жыл бұрын

Jihoo has me blushing like crazy 🤭🤭🤭🤭😍

@CardinalDrake 7 ай бұрын

They're both such a delight! brb, gonna watch every video they're in

@lovegugma8633 Жыл бұрын

Well whatever it is. All I know is that I love y'all both, your reactions had me smiling through the entire time while watching you. Made my day. ❤️😍

@beverlyb5144 Жыл бұрын

It was nice to see people being so honest about their sexuality!! Great job.

@lacivertt954 Жыл бұрын

I've always thought I am a hetero girl till I saw her...

@meowmeow-or6mm Жыл бұрын

Omggg hahhah I *smiled* a lot while watching this Q&A🤣 I’ve learned a lot lol it was so fun❤️ *they r both handsome* 😩🫶🏻

@Whatever-xu3np 6 ай бұрын

Dookyun has such an outgoing personality!! But so respectful at the same time! They fit so well as friends!!

@thatsok1054 Жыл бұрын

Don't mind the boring comments, it's very important that Korea gives more space and discusses LGBT issues. Thanks!

@alexismaravilla2638 Жыл бұрын

I agree with him, she's very handsome 😂

@1057l Жыл бұрын

She has so much charm idk I too would stop thinking with her presence

@Lagomsoul4you Жыл бұрын

My straight ass is falling for this lesbian girl. She is so handsome. I thought both are man until i listen her voice. Even she is more manly than the man sitting next to her. ❤️❤️My crush

@moonjunhui13 Жыл бұрын

jihoo would give me gay panic if i make eye contact with her 😂

@Dasha15910 Жыл бұрын

They are both very charismatic and cool, I learned a lot today on this topic. I hope I can see them both again in other videos, they have good chemistry together and it was nice discussion.

@yuzuruchan Жыл бұрын

Both of are them are so cute that i don't even want to read the subtitles to understand what they're speaking. I can't stop looking at their pretty faces 😍😍😍😍

@user-kp4iw5zh3e 16 күн бұрын

She is stunningly handsome, and I can't help but fall for her.

@afranasadia3943 Жыл бұрын

If she didn't speak.. I would definitely thought she's a boy...😭😭😭 Why so handsome 💕

@joseymartel1498 Жыл бұрын

Dookyun's English is so good

@carlagaskinsa6357 Жыл бұрын

Man, when that girl said she was confident that she'd end up on top, my heart fluttered. All I need is someone to actually come on to me and I'll swing whichever way they'd prefer. (Obviously if I found them attractive that is)

@AndeePandCompany Жыл бұрын

I love them both! Their personalities shine! ❤

@IM_THE_CHARMER Жыл бұрын

Jihoo looks so handsome and cool I love her💜💜 and Dookyun looks amazing 🥰

@Andy-dv1ig Жыл бұрын

At first glance I thought both of them are men till she said she is a lisbian, I paused and went back to find out if I heard correctly, I am surprised she looks so much like a man. 💜

@wilderness7600 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for answering questions that may have been difficult, you both displayed respect, yet answered for those who want answers. Ta

@unrecognised666 Жыл бұрын

actually the butch and femme are just terms related to appearance only and not for sexual position preference, with butch in masculine sense and femme in feminine sense. i think those terms being related to sexual position might be highly caused by internalised homophobia and heteronormativity where people tend to view a "normal" pair of lover with one being masc/the man/the top and the other one being the fem/the girl/the bottom. and i think it's the time for us to change this stigma

@neonoires Жыл бұрын

I guess Jihoo is talking about the dating experience in Korea for lesbians but it’s not like that everywhere. I’ve seen butch x butch and femme x femme. Also lesbian sex is versatile and fluid too for a lot of people. I think it depends on how comfortable people are. I think maybe if I was younger I would only be okay with receiving but now that I’m older I think it depends on the situation or the day. I would prefer to be with someone who is also comfortable with different things.

@your_basement Жыл бұрын

The way I laughed when I saw this 💀

@victorysecret4872 Жыл бұрын

MC WGAT ARE YOU DOING HERE😟

@Karrdein Жыл бұрын

I really enjoyed this ❤

@michanonymous Жыл бұрын

Okay so we all just collectively fell in love with Jihu right? Yeah absolutely

@Meggsie Жыл бұрын

In the US, most lesbians do both. We call them "switches." Although there are some people who favor giving or taking, they still do both. We do have people who only give or only take, but there's a negative connotation with that and only very specific people will be satisfied with that kind of relationship. We call them, 'Stone Butch' for those who only ever give, and 'Pillow Princess' for those who only take. Though these days butch/femme has no real indication on who is going to be more giving. A lot (a lot, a lot) of women want to be 'topped' a dominant femme- for example. Also it has no indication on who they're going to be attracted to. You might see butchxbutch or femmexfemme. There's also more ways to present masculine/femininity than butch vs femme. We've got studs(traditionally black mascs), chapstick lesbians, lipstick lesbians, soft butch (futch), high femme, and other more specific aesthetic stereotypes like 'cottage core lesbians.' Even all those don't really cover the nuances between lesbian couples. We're just girls who like girls!

@chickenfoot2423 Жыл бұрын

im not american but i feel pretty much the same way about my country with the switch thing- ive noticed that even amongst women who definitely prefer being bottoms they still talk about how they fantasise of convincing their top to let them be topped instead, the same way as straight relationships in which they occasionally like to make their usually powerful partner submissive. seems pretty uncommon in any orientation to never want to dabble with the other because vulnerability and metaphorically giving to your partner are just staple sexy desires

@raka7743 Жыл бұрын

i feel good that they're comfortable.

@NONAME-uk8nh Жыл бұрын

Aaayeeeeeee i didn't know i needed this type of conversation 😌😌

@Lilly.-365 Жыл бұрын

LOVE THIS!!

@itz_pluto4682 Жыл бұрын

as a young lesbian myself , this was so informative thank you!

@mnopqrst Жыл бұрын

I hope you don't learn from this video cuz its highly biased

@itz_pluto4682 Жыл бұрын

@@mnopqrst how??

@mnopqrst Жыл бұрын

You'll learn as you grow up! There's no right and wrong in being a "lesbian" or "gay". Just find your own "right". The very absolute "top" and "bottom" thing is very derogatory. I hope you understand this much. Whatever you do on your bed with your partner isn't something you should use as your label.

@itz_pluto4682 Жыл бұрын

@@mnopqrst i agree but i did find out im a butch so it just feels good to know i have a word for it lol . but yea ur point is right too thank you!

@MrMarcelWiel Жыл бұрын

What a charming video! You're both great. Kind regards from France :-)

@darshanikumarihami1643 Жыл бұрын

She is so handsome and honest with her feelings ❤️.

@NaomiLangenberg Жыл бұрын

I am bi sexual and I am in love with Ji Hoo. So handsome and charming

@keo8055 Жыл бұрын

Me too

@pecancandy348 Жыл бұрын

She is so gorgeous

@dark9299 Жыл бұрын

Both of them r stunning and the video is entertaining indeed haha

@riniellechoi7588 Жыл бұрын

This is so cool and informative ❤

@nyangsteefies Жыл бұрын

지후 언니 진짜 개 멋있음

@afranasadia3943 Жыл бұрын

When I see the thumb nail I was like - oh he's so handsome.. gotta watch it.. When she starts speaking - annoseyah I'm ji Hoo- I was like - 👀👀👀

@valoriec Жыл бұрын

She looks like an idol. Very handsome/beautiful.

@JoanKSX Жыл бұрын

Anyway I'm so surprised that so many people can't recognize Jihoo in first glance that she is a female LOL Maybe I'm growing in urban areas in Malaysia and also a high Chinese descendants populated area person, so I have seeing tonnes of people from various types of appearance from super long hair men to super short shaved undercut chic cool ladies since I was in my primary school, and I watched tonnes of Hong Kong TVB Cantonese language dramas plus Taiwanese idol dramas and also some China dramas and also Japanese dramas, not to forget about Mando-pop industry singer and variety shows celebrity hosts. Still remember iconic chic short hairstyle of Tavia Yeung in the Hong Kong TVB drama ' The Hippocratic Crush ', Gui Lun-Mei (Taiwanese actress), Faye Wong (China-Hong Kong singer), Hai Qing (China actress), Sun Li (China actress), Amber Kuo (Taiwanese singer and actress), Pauline Lan (Taiwanese celebrity host), and so much more, even American beauty makeup KZfaqr like Alexandra Anele has really masculine feature but so much chic and cool badass vibe, she looks stunning always =O Y'all could possible see there are so much gorgeous ladies in super cropped hairstyles that I wish to try out one day (of course, after the pandemic please), even hairdresser celebrities like Kenneth Siu (Hong Konger hairdresser based in Australia), Sanja Carica Karasman (Croatian hairstylist based in Slovenia), Rene from the Women's barbershop HFDZK (based in Netherland), Maksim Nikitochkin (based in Ukraine). They all deliver stunning cropped short hairstyles for female customers!

@Yuriaki_Maika_4376 Жыл бұрын

And it's because I'm bi and I do perfer men like about 65% more than women but Jihoo is not gonna let me go here

@make_the_world_happy 8 ай бұрын

왼쪽분 보고 민서공이인줄 알고 들어왔어요..

@hh-nb1kc 8 ай бұрын

😢앜ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ😂

@bluekitten6728 Ай бұрын

I'm a straight woman but also parent to a bi teenager. This has helped me understand a little more about them and their preferences and choices. Thank you!

@chirese387 Жыл бұрын

This isn’t what I was looking for but I got it 👍🏾

@jjk4891 Жыл бұрын

박보검 친척인줄...... 이목구비 주차가 아주 잘되셨네요.....

@DoseofJikook88 Жыл бұрын

I loved them so much. They are both so cute and handsome. I'm a pan female who is more on the butch side and in a relationship with a het male (yeah lol). But thankfully he's adventurous 😏

@sope13613 Жыл бұрын

OH My i love their personality

@MrsMeowMeowWoof Жыл бұрын

I love the term "Give and take" lol

@carolina_reaperssss Жыл бұрын

being a confident lesbian ☺️….. can i just say JIHOO!! honestly my heart was fluttering just listening to her talk like- sorry i’m ranting you guys….🥰

@naattaaqzara Жыл бұрын

Jihoo, I am butch, too. But you are so shuai. 😍

@pinkbackground3787 Жыл бұрын

Do u mean "shuai" as cool? cuz if u mean so I wanna tell you that the word "shuai" is in Chinese, she's Korean.

@naattaaqzara Жыл бұрын

@@pinkbackground3787 Annyeong, i do know she's Korean. No offense meant. I believe "Shuai" transcends genders, and cultures. She's cool and handsome, according to me. Xie xie. .

@pinkbackground3787 Жыл бұрын

@@naattaaqzara ooohh, that's actually really cool I myself don't really know much 😅(sorry for bothering you btw I just wanted to check)

@naattaaqzara Жыл бұрын

@@pinkbackground3787 No worries. I came out as lesbian decades ago (yes I am old ha ha). I feel like I'm butch but sad that no one believes me. Shuai is aspirational for me, in aesthetics and attitude. Have a good day.

@arihastie4278 Жыл бұрын

Ok I’m in love now. 💗💜💙

@Yen_bbb Жыл бұрын

I LITERALLY GASP WHEN I SAW THIS ON MY FEED.

@cloudofreverie786 Жыл бұрын

tibu is interesting because in Filipino we also call lesbians tibo

@susanchorbene7358 Жыл бұрын

OMG. I would love to date Jihoo, she is my type, so gorgeous. however, I'm hetero, never took the chance. maybe because Jihoo was not available at the time.

@kpopforlife1 Жыл бұрын

Adding Teemos laugh made me like this video even more 😆

@AranyaAltair Ай бұрын

Love is Love. It doesnt matter if they are butch or femme, top or bottom. When two people fall in love they will work it out within their own self and how it feels comfortable. Anyone who finds a life partner and gets to feel that special love and devotion. So happy for you.