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@juanmaldonado32883 жыл бұрын
If you are a cheater the most honorable is to walk . Stay single because you are not able to respect a relayionship.
@Sailendranath_Thakur4 жыл бұрын
Nowadays it's sad to see people moralizing cheating.
@beckeralan23 жыл бұрын
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@Sailendranath_Thakur4 жыл бұрын
Cheating is not a mistake. It's a conscious choice. If you cheated just leave the person you cheated on because you certainly didn't care about him let alone love him.
@camilotorres82624 жыл бұрын
We cheat on God daily yet he forgives us.
@tneita31663 жыл бұрын
@@camilotorres8262 NO ONE CAN CHEAT ON GOD, You are deluded,,,,.
@lifeishardandbeautiful28952 жыл бұрын
@@camilotorres8262 I have forgiven my exes who have cheated on me, but after that trust is dead, those choices show that they don't care about the feeling of her/his significant other and that they are just full of themselves (me, me and me)
@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot2 жыл бұрын
@@camilotorres8262 you cannot commit adultery against god…are you stupid??? Wat kind of stupid logic is that??
@jayman6905Ай бұрын
A cheater must do these 3 things flawlessly if you want to save your marriage. 1. Repentance - show remorse, regret, and be sorry for your terrible decision and betrayal 2. Rehabilitation - you as the cheater must make appropriate changes cutting off all affair ties, be open, accept you may receive hurtful words from your victim and that you have a duty to rebuild trust with your spouse with constant reassurance 3. Restitution - the cheat must go above and beyond to compensate for the damage they caused, change job more chores, more affectionate, more reassurance, more encouraging and supportive. This is extremely difficult which is why infidelity is the main cause of divorce, but if the cheat can accomplish these 3 things over time then things will eventually level out as the victim forgives you more and more gradually over time. A cheater cannot expect full forgiveness immediately or in the short term, it is earnt as you earn back trust
@tablesidewithfirebride79274 жыл бұрын
Cheating is a choice not a mistake, the offender chose to have sex. They chose the action
@respectfulwhatsup81173 жыл бұрын
Due respect cheating is a Spirit once someone leaves a crack on the marriage the devil kicking so my suggestion is to go to God and repent and confess. What make you think the next so call perfect gentleman or woman didn't do the same thing (cheating) just give the situation to God and read 1 Corinthians 7:14. Stay blessed stay focused and be blessed
@tablesidewithfirebride79273 жыл бұрын
@@respectfulwhatsup8117 im not sure where you got the term "perfect" from my comment. The cheater used their free will to cheat and betray the spouse. They knew what they were doing, regardless if a door was opened or not they knew very well what they were doing. Cheating is a choice whether people like it or not, its a decision they have chosen to make.
@wm79292 жыл бұрын
@@tablesidewithfirebride7927 It isn't just one choice, it is many choices. Choices to engage in flirting, choices to pursue the relationship, choices to see the other person, choices to take off your clothes, choices, choices, choices! These choices make a very long chain where each link leads to the cheating. They could have broken any one of the links, but like you said they freely chose. Another thing I'm sure you agree with... If anyone asks "Why did you cheat" the ONLY acceptable answer is "Because I chose to cheat."
@piotrekmajkowski54222 жыл бұрын
@@wm7929 I got the answer: "I was faithful to you". I had evidences that she was laying at that time. Divorced and every day more happy.
@andreaconde56742 жыл бұрын
@@tablesidewithfirebride7927 it's also a choice to neglect your partner and their needs. It's ridiculous to believe that this is all one person's fault. Yes the cheater has to cut ties with the lover and apologize and pray for forgiveness. But if the reason behind the cheating isn't address then their is no hope and no reason to be "for" the marriage. If the other party isn't willing to do the work that was originally asked for before the cheating what difference would it make? Why stay with someone who your unhappy with year after year because it's the supposed "right" thing to do?
@dougie68865 ай бұрын
Its all over, no-one can ever recover from an affair. Be honest with your partner and just leave. You have already betrayed them.
@anthonyparker1869 Жыл бұрын
Can't believe this woman is saying things like "I know how hard it's going to be to break off the affair and tell that other person. ," Screw his feelings..think about what the cheated on is feeling. Ending the affair SHOULD BE a given
@respectfulwhatsup81173 жыл бұрын
Good speech according to 1 Corinthians 7:14 some pastors don't teach people about this subject because they don't want to offend people in my opinion I rather offen someone with God's words instead offend my Jesus. The best is fight for the marriage according to 1 Corinthians 7:14. Stay blessed
@billcarney82911 сағат бұрын
#1. Check, and then again recheck, the maximum coverage you have on your life insurance policies. #2. Next, check your coverage for permanent disability. #3. Make certain that your will and power of attorney is up to date. #4. Invest in a bullet proof vest. #5. Consider moving to a new address ASAP.
@tkaki60294 жыл бұрын
Who cares if you hurt the other person by cutting off all ties. Their emotional health was never your responsibility.
@AgentXaos3 жыл бұрын
sometimes they didn't do anything or know the person was married.
@missNCW3 жыл бұрын
@@AgentXaos not a married person's reasonsibility. The spouse comes first
@Gotoworkkk5 күн бұрын
@@missNCW sometimes the Ap is more important to them than the annoying spouse
@Sailendranath_Thakur4 жыл бұрын
And there is no reason to ask yourself why i cheated it's so simple because you don't have a tiny bit of integrity and certainly don't have respect or care for your partner.
@genemiller68374 жыл бұрын
ive done something bad like that might as well have been an affair online ive told her ive been more or less thinking of myself ive become distant and angry im a christian we both are and i know its me thats the problem because ive betrayed her trust and seeking after myself in stead of her its been going on for too long to be honest
@GordonPavilion2 жыл бұрын
Forgiveness is freedom.
@robertgabuna3556 жыл бұрын
Good counsel. Downside, however, of engaging the help of human counsellor, is: the "confessed" mistakes disclosed in secrecy goes viral.
@donh15725 жыл бұрын
If you are truly for saving your marriage and rebuilding your integrity that shouldn’t matter. Your lucky you haven’t been exposed by your actions in the first place. A person with Integrity can fully admit his wrongs.
@Jennifr19665 жыл бұрын
@@donh1572 Yes, but I see Robert's position, also. For one, there's a vulnerability including a third party. And if they reveal your secret to others, it makes it more difficult to move forward when you know others are talking about y'all.
@donh15725 жыл бұрын
Agreed. But that pain does not even come close to the pain of the partner you cheated on. Not to say one “pain” outweighs the other. But true growth comes from the pain both parties experience
@thedizzlesizzle894 жыл бұрын
@@donh1572 You're missing Jennifer's point, having an affair go viral causes pain to both the person who cheated and the person being cheated on. Therefore, the one trying to atone for their wrongdoing might not want to cause additional pain to their partner by publicizing the affair
@donh15724 жыл бұрын
Cheaters rarely atone, unless they are exposed
@pooransingh94932 жыл бұрын
Samson was a judge, no fool
@Ms1Mina2 жыл бұрын
Guess I'm hooped from the get-go because my husband isn't the one who believes in God :(
@user-qe3ml1fe4n2 жыл бұрын
you need to adjust the content
@josephsnisky18512 жыл бұрын
No mention of what to do if you're a victim of your partners affair .
@robn21712 жыл бұрын
Yeah this video isn't about that dummbasss
@tkaki60294 жыл бұрын
A pastor is a bad place to start. A professional counselor is the place to go.
@andreaconde56742 жыл бұрын
Marriage and relationships are a two way street, it takes two to make it work. Just because rings are exchanged doesn't mean love, intimacy, connecting, dating, warmth and romance need to end. You know very well your part in the break down of the relationship before the affair ever happened. Nobody is a victim.
@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot2 жыл бұрын
This is an extremely stupid take…adulterers have admitted to committing adultery for the mere thrill of it…and god has never said “nobody is a victim”…there is clearly a victim and an offender in god’s laws. Are you even using your head? People commit adultery because they are extremely immoral….is there “no victim” in rape too?
@HoneyboyDes10 ай бұрын
She could be happy in her marriage, till someone swiped her off her feet and she couldn't resist.