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5 Unusual Signs Your Man Is Into You! | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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In this video Mat Boggs shares 5 unusual signs that your man likes you and is interested in moving the relationship forward.
When it comes to dating advice, these 5 signs are often used to signal that he is NOT into you, however, it's important to know when it's the exception to the rule.
Learning to understand men and their internal motivations is important for avoiding pitfalls and accidentally disengaging when you should be progressing the relationship.
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@matboggs
@matboggs 2 жыл бұрын
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@tracym6652
@tracym6652 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Matt, Can you tell me if guys are attracted to funny women? It's rare when men meet funny women
@joyjhollis
@joyjhollis 2 жыл бұрын
@@tracym6652 I can tell you that my sense of humor has never failed me. If you were to ask my fiance what drew him to me (yes. I asked lol), he says my intelligence and sense of humor, then something about my looks.
@joyjhollis
@joyjhollis 2 жыл бұрын
Dude! This video!! I wish I'd seen this much sooner lol. In the beginning with my fiance, I can look back now and every single one of the things you described was there. I expected the "over" but he actually did the "under" so that threw me off. I took it as him being guarded. The physical thing: yep! 3 months lol. Friends and family ✅✅. He was transitioning so the friends made sense. The family thing didnt make sense til I understood their toxic dynamic. I thought he was totally not as into me as I was into him. We influence each other for sure. I've never had that with anyone. But that awkwardness, I caught that and that's when I knew I was hooked lol. There was alot of frustration on my end in the beginning and I almost walked away til he finally got very direct lol. #married2022
@melissaschiller581
@melissaschiller581 2 жыл бұрын
@@tracym6652 u7ýýģģ
@gracewalia8777
@gracewalia8777 7 жыл бұрын
All of this is so true. Especially because my boyfriend never did anything physical or made any move and held off on that and I got so frustrated! So eventually I asked him, if he likes me, why hasn't he done anything or made any physical moves? And he said because he waited for someone like me his whole life he wanted to make everything perfect and special. It was soooo sweet
@Mayuri1994ify
@Mayuri1994ify 7 жыл бұрын
Grace Walia awwww 😍😍
@arn4499
@arn4499 5 жыл бұрын
That’s sweet
@Bakerygo
@Bakerygo 5 жыл бұрын
I remember my man in our first day. He was awkward and avoiding eye contact yet he would come closer to me from time to time then go back. In the end I grabbed his face and kissed him. I'm an impatient gal.
@Mish4Mello
@Mish4Mello 5 жыл бұрын
Grace Walia Can I ask you how long it took for him to actually ask you out? The reason I ask is I’ve been talking to this guy for a while now (about 3 weeks) and he’s told me that he wants to hang out soon but he’s not sure when. He’s been hinting at it just never really got around to it. So I was just curious if my guy is legitimately busy or just stringing me along. Thanks.
@lizavillacorte4746
@lizavillacorte4746 5 жыл бұрын
Grace Walia wow it’s so romantic.happy for you 😍
@OnlyMe805
@OnlyMe805 3 жыл бұрын
1) He's Awkward 2) He Allows You To Influence Him 3) He Doesn't Make A Move Physically 4) He Doesn't Want You To Meet His Friends 5) Acting Out For Your Attention
@MrJanrag
@MrJanrag Жыл бұрын
Why 4 th one
@justdora440
@justdora440 Жыл бұрын
@@MrJanrag my guess is he doesn't want his friends to see his vulnerability when it comes to his ❤ interest.
@CaffeinatedTigress
@CaffeinatedTigress Жыл бұрын
@@MrJanrag If you watch the video - he explains it. It could be that he's transitioning from one type of lifestyle to another to better himself for the person he's interested in - but his friends are from the old lifestyle. (For example: used to be a party guy who went out drinking with buddies - but now is more career focused but doesn't have those career focused friends, only the drinking buddies. So he doesn't want to introduce the girl to the drinking buddies and get the wrong impression.) My husband did this with me except it was more his friends from school drifted into the lifestyle of drugs and alcohol and he didn't - but he still had a heart for his friends even though he limited his interactions for times when they showed they were trying to move beyond it. He also withheld family member interactions with me too because he came from a very broken home and his family members... well... they will take advantage of you if they can find a way. He protected me from them. After his passing I saw all of it. They even put up a gofundme for myself and our child - but I have not seen a penny of what they raised and it's been 4 years since he passed.... so, yeah... there's that.
@lovejamaicanstyle7139
@lovejamaicanstyle7139 8 жыл бұрын
It's nice to see a ring on the finger on one who speak on relations because it proves that you lived it.
@AO-iv6yr
@AO-iv6yr 5 жыл бұрын
Love JamaicanStyle not always true. There are many couples who should not be together.
@fionagregory8078
@fionagregory8078 4 жыл бұрын
It proved he can wear a ring.
@gailtaylor8448
@gailtaylor8448 8 жыл бұрын
If he does not want you to meet his family or friends or spend the night, careful, he could be married.
@MsHannah2036
@MsHannah2036 8 жыл бұрын
I was thinking, possibly not that into you. It can go either way I suppose. He should probably say if he exhibits 3 or more of these traits there's maybe a chance he might be into you :) and you know what the old saying 'time will tell' because it always does ;)
@lovelylady6011
@lovelylady6011 6 жыл бұрын
u should see his id card u know.... find out marital status
@palmirapagan7985
@palmirapagan7985 5 жыл бұрын
True
@nicolesise5391
@nicolesise5391 5 жыл бұрын
@@MsHannah2036 -So True...Time does ALWAYS tell!
@kingsmomma4716
@kingsmomma4716 5 жыл бұрын
@@lovelylady6011 what,? Marital status is not listed on your id
@carmennelson5341
@carmennelson5341 8 жыл бұрын
I like how he says beautiful instead of hot or sexy or something else
@jessicajohnson2412
@jessicajohnson2412 6 жыл бұрын
Carmen Nelson Yeah me too
@kemuos1006
@kemuos1006 5 жыл бұрын
Same
@nofybn7794
@nofybn7794 5 жыл бұрын
Yes, I really like that.
@kosalaraju7359
@kosalaraju7359 5 жыл бұрын
Agree with you
@Andrea-sl8wd
@Andrea-sl8wd 5 жыл бұрын
I can't stand the term "hot" it just means OBVIOUSLY putting out the sexuality...any woman can do that, even the homely ones. It's degrading.
@jiajia3554
@jiajia3554 5 жыл бұрын
This video just convinced me that literally no guy has ever been into me in my entire life.
@rechellemae7686
@rechellemae7686 3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha lol, same thing here,, well high five to us 😂😂😂
@vhayashi7369
@vhayashi7369 3 жыл бұрын
Watch Aaron Doughty on KZfaq. 💜
@charlotte87x
@charlotte87x 3 жыл бұрын
🤣
@lo2068
@lo2068 3 жыл бұрын
I feel ya
@ViaBellaLife
@ViaBellaLife 2 жыл бұрын
1) awkward 2) willing to be influenced by each other 3) he doesn't make a move physically 4) he doesn't want you to meet his friends or family if he is leveling up 5) he acts out for attentiom
@richardsmith7696
@richardsmith7696 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Bella, it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Richard by name, it would be nice getting to know you better, if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends?? Lovely smile you got there on your profile picture, it can brighten up the most darkest atmosphere of any man’s world😉
@zeasamudio7048
@zeasamudio7048 7 жыл бұрын
This guy doesnt have to ask for likes. His advice moving and genuine are on point. no advertising needed. Great job. Saved offline. Liked. Subscribed.
@marias4086
@marias4086 8 жыл бұрын
Sick of trying to figure out their behaviour; there should be no ambiguity guessing games & shit; when that man wants you, you will know it without a doubt.
@KatErina-ii6ru
@KatErina-ii6ru 8 жыл бұрын
Preach it sister!
@evawidyasari
@evawidyasari 8 жыл бұрын
+ Maria S agree
@XxAdizero97xX
@XxAdizero97xX 7 жыл бұрын
Maria S excuse me madame the guy in this video is kinda 100% right we want to treat our crush/girl in a different way, for example im totally in love with a girl and before i saw this video i felt related cause i want to treat her differently shes not another woman shes MY woman, so i was like pretty good with girls but with her i want it to be like a waltz. and btw you girls act pretty weird too ✌🙄😜
@immortalsinner7312
@immortalsinner7312 7 жыл бұрын
Maria S yeah these can be sometimes misunderstanding
@Vincisomething
@Vincisomething 6 жыл бұрын
What if I'm really dumb though?
@cameliadaniela5637
@cameliadaniela5637 5 жыл бұрын
If a man is into you, girls you can see it in his eyes. 😍
@cynthiakincaid70
@cynthiakincaid70 2 жыл бұрын
Yessssss indeed. ❤️
@daviniarobbins9298
@daviniarobbins9298 2 жыл бұрын
And if a woman is into a man she will do whatever it takes to sleep with him. She will be banging down his front door, climbing through a window to be with him. She will be like a dog in heat.
@TiaJoy1372
@TiaJoy1372 2 жыл бұрын
Yes
@honeydrip1962
@honeydrip1962 2 жыл бұрын
This is absolutely true
@alanavolker9147
@alanavolker9147 2 жыл бұрын
How????
@frenchfries2378
@frenchfries2378 8 жыл бұрын
i love how you 'GET STRAIGHT TO THE POINT' unlike some other youtubers... i just watched a video he took 16:53 minutes to get to the point😲 and even then it was still a bit vague
@justagirl5040
@justagirl5040 8 жыл бұрын
Those kind of people love to hear themselves talk.
@lianeli5406
@lianeli5406 6 жыл бұрын
Lost for Words totally !!!
@americandragon8612
@americandragon8612 5 жыл бұрын
Yes I agree
@yvon9950
@yvon9950 3 жыл бұрын
True!
@ramutej
@ramutej 6 жыл бұрын
I totally agree to all. When I feel slightly Intimidating ( or a lot) around a man: means I love him. I behave really weird around a man I love, but very confident and flirtatious to other men
@liz02498biz
@liz02498biz 8 жыл бұрын
a guy wants you to meet his friends because when he's into you, he wants to show you off, he wants his friends to meet this girl he's really into, not keep her hidden. her wants his friends to know her and see what a great girl he's with.
@bendietrees
@bendietrees 8 жыл бұрын
The guy I really Iike now is Iike that ...he had no problem showing me off to all his friends and was always taking pictures of me LOL, it was really cute, and so nice especially after the way my ex treated me towards the end of our relationship (stopped introducing me to his friends and treated me like a dirty secret.).
@sherikwasnik5290
@sherikwasnik5290 5 жыл бұрын
liz02498 I was told, “they would like to meet you”. I went with him to their home,’and was like “oh man. They are going to eat me alive”. He goes, “no. They are really nice and it will be ok”. He was right! I was just myself, and the guy goes “we are so glad that you came tonight” then smiled and shook my hand. Score! He told me later that they really liked me, and that I would be welcome to come back. Yay!! He was super happy, and said they are like parents to him, and he really respects their opinion. Wow. So awesome.
@amybal
@amybal 3 жыл бұрын
1. He’s awkward around you. 2 He allows you to influence him. 3. He doesn’t make a move physically. 4. He doesn’t want you to meet his friends. 5. He acts out for your attention. *Consistency is key* Look for emotional/mental affection instead of physical moves.
@abenasafo56
@abenasafo56 3 жыл бұрын
Was looking for this,you're the real MVP👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@lotti7819
@lotti7819 2 жыл бұрын
Thankssss
@sgdev29
@sgdev29 8 жыл бұрын
I'm actually really not into guys who date too many girls and have had many girls in their bed. It turns me off to see an overly experienced guy.
@CarminaTunes
@CarminaTunes 7 жыл бұрын
boomshakalaka Same, like my crush actually is a player, like u said. But I didn't know that when we met one time. I noticed after, over text and that's a huuge turn off for me, like I don't wanna be just one of many girls, to use. u know?
@beccapeterson4744
@beccapeterson4744 5 жыл бұрын
you can say that again!!! geeeesssh
@nofybn7794
@nofybn7794 4 жыл бұрын
I agree. Turn off.
@nofybn7794
@nofybn7794 4 жыл бұрын
@Alexander Leonardo Apollonios I could care less actually. You are sexual. And I guess not as emotional.
@marygaychiong970
@marygaychiong970 3 жыл бұрын
thats why i couldnt catch up with my guy huhu
@sherikwasnik5290
@sherikwasnik5290 5 жыл бұрын
Lol!! This is making me laugh, bc it is so true. When we were hanging out, in the “getting to know each other” phase, my bf squirmed around, and said things like “umm...so...you are really interesting” I was like “yes, I AM interesting....and fun too!” He smiled and goes, “yeah, you are, and I really enjoy spending time with you”, I go “thanks, I am pretty awesome!” He says, “yeah, so umm....”, I am vibing that he wants to ask me something serious, so I say “Are you trying to ask me something?” He goes, “umm yeah...I just umm, would you want to be with me?” I look at him, and go “I would be agreeable to that”. He smiled and loosened up a bit and goes, “so you are my girlfriend then?” I said, “yeah, that would be good”. It IS good. He is a super sweet and caring guy, kinda quirky, and kind. I am interested to see where this goes... 😊
@sarahm.martinezf3771
@sarahm.martinezf3771 2 жыл бұрын
So cute!!🥰
@newbygettingeducated5152
@newbygettingeducated5152 2 жыл бұрын
That's awesome. My bf is the same way very sweet he was awkward, actually listened to what I had to say on topics and even researches to have an opinion on it if he wasn't familiar. Most of all he respects me and yeah he lets me influence him only in making ourselves better. I am very happy for you. Good luck!!
@dariaaria2576
@dariaaria2576 Жыл бұрын
All the best to both of you 🙂 Thanks for sharing your story, it's so sweet 🙂
@deborahkind5129
@deborahkind5129 3 жыл бұрын
THIS WAS SO HELPFUL!!! Not meeting friends/family, not making a move, awkward...wow. I needed to hear THIS EXACT THING. Thank you so much!
@sophieanneperniaortoza612
@sophieanneperniaortoza612 Жыл бұрын
I am okay with number 4, especially if we are still starting the relationship, we must build foundation within us first before introducing to friends and family.
@rimano3922
@rimano3922 6 жыл бұрын
Why can't we all just be straight honest with each others, that's so freaking complicated, and i mean both men and women. Stop playing games and waiting for each other to get "the signs" you're leaving him/her with. It's really stressful, just be your normal self already.
@pvaz
@pvaz 6 жыл бұрын
Simply Because I used to think the same and actually tried it with girls when I was really young. It doesn’t work, either they get scared away or they feel no spark because it’s so boring for them. They appreciate honesty after you’re dating them a while but initially they looks for how you make them feel, so it’s about doing romantic stuff.
@rimano3922
@rimano3922 6 жыл бұрын
pvaz ohh i see, your probably right.. But i find it a bit annoying, cause some people take it very seriously. It's stupid, cause you should be able to be your normal self with the person you want to spend your time with, and not overthink every step you're about to make. But yeah.... It is how it is.
@estherramirez1842
@estherramirez1842 6 жыл бұрын
I MET SOME ONE WHO I THOUGHT WAS A "HOTTIE" HE STILL IS!
@rimano3922
@rimano3922 6 жыл бұрын
Esther Ramirez what r u waiting for, go flirt a little and smile then look away and see if he's interested! 🤞 wish you luck ;)
@gocoyle5560
@gocoyle5560 6 жыл бұрын
Sorry most of this is what rejected people want to hear.these type of guys r merely curios but might be sleeping with someone else or still looking for someone.
@heatherroxborough2445
@heatherroxborough2445 8 жыл бұрын
Authenticity and sincerity is all you really need to detect to know if a man is into you. Some of these other points seem like you are asking women to do a lot of work to figure out the immature tactics of superficial men.
@gaillewis5472
@gaillewis5472 9 жыл бұрын
I've always thought that not wanting to introduce you to the friends means they will let on that he has a relationship already. I was told by several guys that I wouldn't like their friends., so I couldn't meet them. I truly viewed it as having something to hide.
@daviniarobbins9298
@daviniarobbins9298 2 жыл бұрын
Believe me I wouldn't want my girlfriend to meet any member of my extended family. They hate me and I hate them. I don't even want to be anywhere near them. My dad is the black sheep of the family and I am guilty by association. Believe me she would be better off not knowing my family.
@hannahberlinpetry450
@hannahberlinpetry450 2 жыл бұрын
I think it still does mean they have something to hide. If they’re with shitty friends, then they probably need to get new friends. If they’ve got dysfunctional family, they need to learn how to mentally step out of the dysfunction and heal
@hannahberlinpetry450
@hannahberlinpetry450 2 жыл бұрын
@@daviniarobbins9298 but wouldn’t that be a good reason for you to introduce them? Then they will see that for themselves?
@crystalgridart3610
@crystalgridart3610 9 жыл бұрын
Mathew, not only do you manage to bring a fresh new take on life every time, but you really are a fantastic speaker. I love the energy and personality that you bring. Your points are always super clear and well spoken. I love this weeks video. I've never really thought about or heard these points before, but I have experienced every single one of them! Thanks so much for the clarity.
@FashionistaDesigner
@FashionistaDesigner 8 жыл бұрын
+Mathew Boggs You do a great job Matthew. You are easy to follow, and I really appreciate the humor and energy. You joke like a mid-westerner,.... as in Chicogoan.;-))) Congratulations on your new marriage and your new office, in the garage;-))) Hahaha
@miguelbarquero8832
@miguelbarquero8832 8 жыл бұрын
+FashionistaDesigner ppoo
@bryannatylerm6m852
@bryannatylerm6m852 7 жыл бұрын
The “Obsession Formula” >>facebook.com/Obsession-Formula-876103079199598/?sk=app_337680106275807 I’m going to reveal a powerful set of words I call a “Devotion Sequence” that make a man lust uncontrollably for you (even if he says he’s not interested).
@robosorio2486
@robosorio2486 7 жыл бұрын
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@kevinreyadlawan1737
@kevinreyadlawan1737 7 жыл бұрын
Yоu'll еven disсovеr whу men dоn't listen АND а simрlеtеcchnique уou cаn usе TODАY thаt will haаavе him neаrlyhаnging оn your еvеry word => twitter.com/3a000d80820f32e35/status/804693412402241537 5 Unusual Signs Your Мaan Is Intо You
@DevotedToNight
@DevotedToNight 8 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video! When people talk about "loving bombing" being signs that the guy is really in love with you - "love bombing" I mean calling all the time, showering with compliments etc, it reminds more about Narcissists chasing his victim, not the guy in love! Your approach is more realistic! Even Agatha Christie once said : "A man when he is making up to anybody can be cordial and gallant and full of little attentions and altogether charming. But when a man is really in love he can't help looking like a sheep".
@Awooe111
@Awooe111 5 жыл бұрын
For the first time ever, I found this awkwardness the cutest thing ever and willing to help situation and make him feel comfortable 🥰
@AK-nd9io
@AK-nd9io 8 жыл бұрын
This video talks specifically about one type of guy. The successful in ladies bachelor who has now grown up and is looking for a drop dead gorgeous woman to settle down with.
@breAnnasmama
@breAnnasmama 8 жыл бұрын
thank u.I made similar point n comments above&just saw yr post&I picked up on that2It really does equate2 1personality/mindset which shldnt b representative of ev1n whole&just bc some1may make valid pojnts&speak loudly&fluently doesn't mean ev1 shld take at face value&measure all ppl2that same standard.2me it was of a mindset of some1who operates certain way allowing mind games&not communicating/paying atten.2energy&progress &the obvious n order2validate where they stand.It's from an insecure mindset I feel,that ppl stick2this mentality of oh we must do this song&dance&can't communicate or have real relationships of depth.is very superficial&almost highschool like honestly IMO(not2knock the person bc clearly they're speaking of what they feel2b evident etc)but I hate games.I'm35years&dont get the mentality of not communicating&wking hard2b2ppl what I expect2.ppl who accept this kinda behavior r just insecure&afraid2say how they feel&stick2standards bc they dont wanna b rejected really
@breAnnasmama
@breAnnasmama 8 жыл бұрын
I limited n space bc youtube only allow certain amt lol but again.Just omg. Wanted y 2know I trulyyy agree w/you. Very MUCH!Well said &it's disheartening how ppl believe anything they hear if someone's charismatic enough or convincing.of course someone who wants2make excuse&not b accountable will tell ppl oh this is just how it is&how u need2accept it2b truth.i cant agree w that mentality&i agree w u.&while I felt person was trying2best say thjngs they feel2b evident it's not accurate or close2 reality.2quote a def.Of luv4ex.As he equated was so evident he miss concept of what luv is.is not the petty superficial juvenile bs.oh sum1complinent my outfit.let me wear it all the time lol.that just show level of integrity/lack of knowledge IMO.But whatev If u wld read what I commented lol.u not have2but I conveyed similar things&Then c ur post&Im omg!lol&i do tell him hey I not trying2b offensive bc I mean it&not wanting2b rude etc but wanted2give my opinions.anyway ty&sorry4long post!ty bye
@celestia8165
@celestia8165 8 жыл бұрын
+Kri MD I just to point out that it's really hard reading your comments, maybe because I'm on my phone.
@celestia8165
@celestia8165 8 жыл бұрын
+Kri MD *just want
@breAnnasmama
@breAnnasmama 8 жыл бұрын
+jess J ty friend ! It may not be just u ! But my English as well lol. Very sorry if I cause any confusion n anyway lol. But ty for being so sweet n way u reply ! Truly appreciate how respectful n kind u Are! Also w youtube limiting comment soaxd lol I have to abbreviate so it's prob. Most likely my fault. Anyway very sorry for any confusion ! Ty for reply n hope u have a wonderful day n are doing well ! Take care ok? Best wishes to u !!
@misterhenchmen
@misterhenchmen Жыл бұрын
trust me.. don't make a woman feel rejected physically by never trying to make a move. you will lose her if you hold her at arm's length. allow that space to make some kind of subtle move so she knows you are willing to be there for her physically. I've seen women walk away when they feel like he is not attracted. it makes her trust in you actually go away. and mystery is not an attractive quality if someone is looking for a real relationship
@alexthepan5808
@alexthepan5808 7 жыл бұрын
I'm dating my friend and he's adorable he does most of this stuff
@immortalsinner7312
@immortalsinner7312 7 жыл бұрын
athy anna rose gd 4 u🙋
@ismayonnaiseaninstrument366
@ismayonnaiseaninstrument366 7 жыл бұрын
Alex The pan I hope I can have love like you
@abigailjohn5778
@abigailjohn5778 5 жыл бұрын
I married my best friend! He's amazing...done all of the above!
@althearobinson5570
@althearobinson5570 6 жыл бұрын
Why couldn't ppl just be adults and tell you how they feel? Smh. Life's to short to have it any other way. I'm very verbally expressive because of that. This guy who I was friends with we are starting to talk but nothing is official. He shows me how he feels. It's quite clear, but he doesn't often back it with words. I'm the type that wants to hear how you feel to. Not just show it. Say it.
@mr.j3371
@mr.j3371 5 жыл бұрын
Althea Robinson I would totally tell a woman how I felt but... feminists. Nowadays if a guy did this it could be harassment. So guys are more cautious. Happened to me once at my workplace. Caught me off guard wtf.
@Z5Z5Z5
@Z5Z5Z5 4 жыл бұрын
Cause we all scared
@shellylynn9729
@shellylynn9729 8 жыл бұрын
If someone kept looking off into space while I was on a date with them I would think they were bored.
@edot913
@edot913 8 жыл бұрын
Me too!!! I would hate him
@missmaxinerussell
@missmaxinerussell 6 жыл бұрын
Even worse when they are busy staring at the waitress, even though they haven't seen you in weeks. Such a red flag.
@daviniarobbins9298
@daviniarobbins9298 2 жыл бұрын
He might think it would be romantic. I suppose it depends on whether his hobby is star gazing and he wants her to share it.
@jdstep97
@jdstep97 8 жыл бұрын
5:16. Or... if he does not want you to meet any of his friends, it could be because his other girlfriend still hangs out with his friends, and he does not want you and the other girlfriend to meet. Or he does not want his friends to tell you (accidentally or intentionally), that he's already got a girlfriend.
@nixwestlake9196
@nixwestlake9196 6 жыл бұрын
My dad said that if a man wants you I will not have to do any of the work. And he was and is right.
@BKLNHobo
@BKLNHobo 5 жыл бұрын
Not sure about #4. What he might be trying to hide by not introducing you to anyone could be the fact that he's already married or in another relationship.
@grapiken7766
@grapiken7766 8 жыл бұрын
I get that all the time... Men tripping up, mixing their up words and stumbling because they are so captivated by my beauty :/
@grapiken7766
@grapiken7766 8 жыл бұрын
***** ha ha! I agree. Beauty is boring
@breAnnasmama
@breAnnasmama 8 жыл бұрын
Both of u,I like what you're saying&agree on many levels lol.u know many ppl say ok .Men give(or substitute)"love"2get sex.women give sex2get luv lol.Well I shld hope no1do either unless they have love&know the true intent&nature of each others hearts etc.but it's so often n society tht focus is of superficial&the now qualities&thats not just limited2only1gender lol.its of personality&standards&falls on both sides lol.sum use various traits/qualities as a basis2gain superficial things b it looks/status/money/lifestyle etc.but ultimately,most important is tht ppl stop being so limiting&superficial&only about small needs at the time&focus on big pic&quality of life&attributes&others&truth&honesty &integrity bc IMO?if ppl wld stop thinking there's sum playbook2fig.Out ppl&how2obtain what they desire,but nstead focus on giving&being transparent&legit&of honesty?wld b easier!ppl who play games breed excuses&foster bad behaviors tht continue2b accepted whn ev1shld b accountable&value others!
@surrealist2k
@surrealist2k 8 жыл бұрын
You're so humble too I'm sure they're soo captivated by that also ;)
@grapiken7766
@grapiken7766 8 жыл бұрын
Shannyn Tyler I was being sarcastic in my original comment... I'm plain and ugly....
@scorpiofairy2705
@scorpiofairy2705 8 жыл бұрын
+Brankica Not true, sex and companionship consecuently, however, several women catch our interest
@itsmarialifestyle4355
@itsmarialifestyle4355 8 жыл бұрын
You know a man is into you when he is considerate and doesn't think only of himself. All the other behaviours can explain all kinds of situations and characters. He can buy me all the flowers in the world, open the door and pay for candlelit dinners but if he doesn't care for my well being, doesn't make sure I'm safe and doesn't put the effing toilet seat back down I know it is time to move on...
@twincherry4958
@twincherry4958 6 жыл бұрын
Maria Chat lol @ toilet seat!!!
@user-zx5xw4yw2e
@user-zx5xw4yw2e 6 жыл бұрын
Maria Chat. Yeesssssss! That's it💚💛
@yckieh568
@yckieh568 6 жыл бұрын
The toilet seat says a lot!
@georgettethomasgordon207
@georgettethomasgordon207 5 жыл бұрын
Yessssss
@fiaf3395
@fiaf3395 5 жыл бұрын
SOOO true. This says tonnes more than anything else.
@angelbear3504
@angelbear3504 8 жыл бұрын
oh my gosh haha I love when a guy is awkward
@Randy_Butternubs
@Randy_Butternubs 3 жыл бұрын
Really? I'm super awkward and I feel like girls hate it. 😔
@angelbear3504
@angelbear3504 3 жыл бұрын
@@Randy_Butternubs when a guy is awkward it's cute and he will bring out many different facial expressions that he won't realize and I like weird facial expressions. The weirder he is when he acts the better.
@lovejoyful606
@lovejoyful606 3 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@jenniroman9574
@jenniroman9574 3 жыл бұрын
YES! Its so cute!
@carleerose
@carleerose 3 жыл бұрын
Me too. It’s so cute 💕
@aleksandramichalska5223
@aleksandramichalska5223 2 жыл бұрын
When man is into woman she can see it in his eyes and when he's awkward in some situations around her it means that he's nervous because he wants to make good impression.
@ssmith968
@ssmith968 8 жыл бұрын
1 sign Your Man Is Into You 1. Don't kid yourself. He's not. He never will be. Give up and go home.
@MaruPalstra
@MaruPalstra 8 жыл бұрын
+S Smith Perfect comment xD
@shirlvin777
@shirlvin777 8 жыл бұрын
Lol. Great tip.
@suckurathethirstybishgiggi8219
@suckurathethirstybishgiggi8219 8 жыл бұрын
Best tip helped me
@May04bwu
@May04bwu 8 жыл бұрын
+S Smith :DDDD
@alainahakita
@alainahakita 8 жыл бұрын
HAHAH this comment made me sad and happy at the same time when I burst out laughing but realised the reality is that he aint into you
@rachelposavetz2698
@rachelposavetz2698 5 жыл бұрын
Matt! You totally missed #4! While some of that could be true, in my experience guys don't bring a gal they like around their friends early on because they don't want competition! They don't want to risk her falling for one of his guy friends, or being compared unfavorably in any measure to one of his buds.
@elenabob4953
@elenabob4953 4 жыл бұрын
It goes both ways, I know a lot of women who become awkward when they are beside a man they really like.
@kathryn3507
@kathryn3507 7 жыл бұрын
Damn, I might actually have a chance.. Thanks!!💓
@leachatee
@leachatee 6 жыл бұрын
Kathryn :3 how did it turn out?
@daselahgraham3444
@daselahgraham3444 4 жыл бұрын
my husband did all of this was we first started dating! watching this made me smile the entire time
@HewanYitagesu
@HewanYitagesu 8 жыл бұрын
if he's 'your' man...doesn't that automatically mean he's yours? the 'your man' makes me think that he's already with you unless this is '5 unusual signs a man is into you'.
@sunnyplant
@sunnyplant 8 жыл бұрын
+Heywin Yitagesu That's what I was going to suggest. This video isn't titled correctly. Should be 'a' man. If you're having issues with 'your' man, then I don't really think this is the video you should be watching.
@drizzlingmaplesyrup
@drizzlingmaplesyrup 8 жыл бұрын
Exactly my thoughts. I was perplexed haha
@DaijaWatson
@DaijaWatson 8 жыл бұрын
I think he means your man as in the man you are interested in.
@HewanYitagesu
@HewanYitagesu 8 жыл бұрын
Daija Watson i was looking at it from the prospective of something thats 'yours' already belonging to you. There is no need to dissect if he likes you IF he already is with you. 'signs your man is into you' sounds like he is explaining ways to know if your bf or hubby like u lol thats concerning if u don't know they already do
@YoutubeChannel-he1fy
@YoutubeChannel-he1fy 6 жыл бұрын
By Your Man He Means Your Crush..
@chrissanchez4137
@chrissanchez4137 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Mat! I wish I had known this before to avoid a lot of headaches and heartbreaks and misunderstandings. All the 5 points describe the actions of the man I love and yes, before I met him he was a player even though he doesn't want to recognize it. I feel better now lol.
@cuddlypal
@cuddlypal Жыл бұрын
How did that relationship end up going?
@ravipeiris4388
@ravipeiris4388 5 жыл бұрын
Just new to the channel. From a educated gentleman's perspective, this video is truly spot on. I'm in a new relationship, and having a safe space to be able to communicate so that any misunderstandings are minimized is critically important. This skill can be learned as I didn't have the most healthiest of parents/step-parents who always fought and never learned healthier ways of expressing their feelings.
@1983MusicGuru
@1983MusicGuru 6 жыл бұрын
I'm very impressed with this video. It gave me peace of mind when it cast not being introduced to family and friends in a good light. Six years ago, I was in a new relationship with a man who I was very much in love with, but his health rapidly declined and he passed away within ten months. The more I reflect on that relationship; the more I am convinced that it was the most meaningful romantic relationship I ever had. I knew that it was real and he was what I always wanted. Despite what a few people thought, I sensed that this man was committed to me in his heart. I didn't feel that he was ashamed of me. He was truly my friend and he would have helped me to become the best, most Christian woman I could be. He was honest, loyal and patient enough to reach me. Thanks to this video, I understand his actions all the more now.
@richardsmith7696
@richardsmith7696 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Michelle, it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Richard by name, it would be nice getting to know you better, if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends?
@KBjerkness
@KBjerkness 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this ! My man is acting shy and yet I know he is paying attention to me because he is very protective of me. His shyness is hard to figure out sometimes
@julieerin115
@julieerin115 8 жыл бұрын
Number 1 takes me back to high school---I remember after one of my friends shared the news to me that this guy liked me, a small group of us decided to meet up for lunch, yet he became so nervous that he just stood there like an ice sculpture, did not return my "hello", and kept repeating how he felt like throwing up. He eventually got the courage to ask me out.
@mahtazdin
@mahtazdin 7 жыл бұрын
women does this too. when they have a crush.
@marysutton434
@marysutton434 4 жыл бұрын
😊
@ivaaliku5191
@ivaaliku5191 3 жыл бұрын
do*
@cajunlady4893
@cajunlady4893 3 жыл бұрын
@@ivaaliku5191 I love it when a person know correct grammar. I am terrible at grammar I alway write in Cajun Draft... I have my own writing style. It's goes against flow... Just how I like it! 💋
@jvrbreaker
@jvrbreaker 8 жыл бұрын
Some advance players hold off physically as well.
@rochelledickson2536
@rochelledickson2536 6 жыл бұрын
jvrbreaker only if he actually likes you. He will not waste his time with you if he doesnt like you
@QofHearts617
@QofHearts617 9 жыл бұрын
There are no coincidences....this answered some questions I had this week. Thank you Matthew !
@breAnnasmama
@breAnnasmama 8 жыл бұрын
I agree w you kelly. Well said!! I feel same way.is never by coincidence but by purpose that we experience things n life or become aligned w others etc. Thru cause n effect , actions n reactions etc. ,, outcomes n results are ALWYSS of significance. Anyway. Hope u not mind my adding2ur comment,just agree&wanted2shAre take care
@angelicaries2517
@angelicaries2517 4 жыл бұрын
Listen to this man!!! He has helped me find the love of my life!! I have become a high value woman. I am in LOVE and feel loved, real love guard down 100% honest with a Vibe I have never felt
@adrianatr08
@adrianatr08 8 жыл бұрын
it's the opposite for me on #4 he introduced me to everyone mom. Brothers. sister. family. friends. in the first few weeks. till this day he's still my bestfriend. I love him. ❤
@lillianlilo7447
@lillianlilo7447 9 жыл бұрын
And if he marry's someone else does that mean he's totally into me?
@breAnnasmama
@breAnnasmama 8 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha
@keeptrying_not2late2change
@keeptrying_not2late2change 6 жыл бұрын
Fark Que I feel you 😢 Definitely move on. Not worth ur pain.
@jenpw1525
@jenpw1525 6 жыл бұрын
Yes. Lol
@LibraNYC4ever
@LibraNYC4ever 5 жыл бұрын
It means he's a flirt! Simple as that. Stop investing your time into someone like this and run the opposite way. Obviously he wants the best of both worlds. Would you want to be w/someone who doesn't really respect you and thinks he could have you on the side?
@nikkidouglas6214
@nikkidouglas6214 5 жыл бұрын
Fecking lol
@heidinaegele19
@heidinaegele19 8 жыл бұрын
Lol! I had a friend make someone so awkward he fell into a flower display :D
@ANGIECUTIEEPU2
@ANGIECUTIEEPU2 8 жыл бұрын
Lol!
@MoniqueGrace
@MoniqueGrace 8 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh😂
@synchronicity67
@synchronicity67 6 жыл бұрын
Heidi Naegele hahaha 😂 so cute.. I'd have fallen for him in that moment 😊💜🌻
@marysutton434
@marysutton434 4 жыл бұрын
Heidi Naegele LOL🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@amariiah
@amariiah 4 жыл бұрын
Aww 😊
@odetteberiynuywirsiy2871
@odetteberiynuywirsiy2871 5 жыл бұрын
My recent boyfriend matches this description perfectly. I just smiled after watching. We almost had a serious fight about him preventing me from meeting his friends and family. Now I know better ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@Lana_Lang
@Lana_Lang 8 жыл бұрын
I agree on everything you're saying, but honestly, I don't think only men's brain is constructed like that, but all beings' brains who are capable of thinking should be the same way. I am a woman, and I think exactly like men do. I don't believe in multitasking. They're just deviding your attention to different places allowing you to screw up everything you do successfully. So to me the only decent way of doing something is being at one place at a time, and 100% on the current task. This isn't just a man's excuse anymore, it's the reality of how quality work is done.
@lifeafterschool4483
@lifeafterschool4483 8 жыл бұрын
how's Barry doin?
@cupcakecake7606
@cupcakecake7606 7 жыл бұрын
Its not an opinion , its a fact its scientifically proven and how do you expect men and women to work the same when not even our hormones are the same ?
@Lana_Lang
@Lana_Lang 7 жыл бұрын
Lifeafter school Oh hi there life, I didn't see you behind all that school. And how's life doing? Screwing up eveybody's lives? So does Barry.
@TheRandomOptic
@TheRandomOptic 7 жыл бұрын
this kinda stuff would be easier if were all straight forward about if we like each other or not
@lananhbui1607
@lananhbui1607 8 жыл бұрын
One-sided love is so weird! You are always worried that he knows you like him, but you 're also worried that he doesn't know. Above all, you're worried that he knows but he pretends not to know >
@CellGames2006
@CellGames2006 8 жыл бұрын
#3 This is true and absolutely ridiculous. I confess doing this myself and we need to fix it. It's stopping us from advancing in our relationships... #4 we don't want them to meet our friends so they don't steal our new girlfriend, duh! I hope a lot of women dont take this advice too seriously because most guys don't use pick up advice, they just "try to be yourself" and fail at it....
@misterhenchmen
@misterhenchmen Жыл бұрын
I agree.. number 3.. not making a move physically is a bad one... don't put women on a pedestal like this. it will make us think there is ZERO attraction, that you would be very boring & passive in bed and we will walk. and no its not shallow for a woman to need to feel like a man is physically attracted to her. don't separate us into those 2 stupid categories of "effable" and wifey... that's a great way to end up cheating on your woman down the road.
@ziarolneisha5393
@ziarolneisha5393 8 жыл бұрын
You are so sweet and so right.my guy is a Dentist.he always,touch me in gentle ways ,without any evidence that he loves me and he always invited me to go back any time I want..but treats me very special but I love him, it makes me cry.but you were so intense in express your self
@supereleonora7293
@supereleonora7293 8 жыл бұрын
Pulling and pushing energy! Love it! I definitely do that, not only with guys, but whenever I like or don't like something, I can feel how my energy is changing :)
@yangchuyou2356
@yangchuyou2356 6 жыл бұрын
His eyesight deteriorated and when he got new glasses and told me it looks ugly, I told him he looked good in it and I thought he wore it Everyday since I said it but now thinking about it maybe it's because he couldn't see
@spiderlillycatacombs9705
@spiderlillycatacombs9705 3 жыл бұрын
1. Awkward 2.influnce 3.Doesn't make a move ( he is patient with you and does not pressure you.) 4.wants to keep you to himself (doesn't want you to meet his friends right off the bat 5.
@spiderlillycatacombs9705
@spiderlillycatacombs9705 3 жыл бұрын
And 5. Acts out for your attention (tries to make you laugh, tries to be mysterious / intriguing, )
@Freya778
@Freya778 Жыл бұрын
The last one means he wants you to like him and be into him, but that doesn't necessarily mean that he likes you and is into you though.
@Davecasteel
@Davecasteel 9 ай бұрын
Hi dear
@sonne2351
@sonne2351 8 жыл бұрын
Hi Matthew, I just keep watching your videos over and over again because I like the vibe you send off. I wish real life was so straight forward though that would make things a lot easier. I want to believe it so I just keep feeding my brain your videos until it believes it because I like the emotional balance you exude ;) Fantastic job!!!!
@annalaangel
@annalaangel 8 жыл бұрын
You know when a man likes you when he puts the toilet seat down after he uses your bathroom!
@pinkmermaid3303
@pinkmermaid3303 8 жыл бұрын
lol so true😂😂😂
@breAnnasmama
@breAnnasmama 8 жыл бұрын
Hahaha right ?
@MsNeelamma
@MsNeelamma 6 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@QueenOfKings0402
@QueenOfKings0402 6 жыл бұрын
That’s the marrying type
@candiceswanepoel4465
@candiceswanepoel4465 6 жыл бұрын
Some men don't pull toilet seat up at all and just using it 🙄
@kristacarvajal9692
@kristacarvajal9692 3 жыл бұрын
he has never indicated that sex is his major interest and spent time really getting to know me. we flirt, but im easily embarrassed and we always keep everything euphamized so if anyone happens to read it, its tasteful and sweet. i really love that so much.
@ToniViolaFreshFire
@ToniViolaFreshFire 4 жыл бұрын
Matt, I lead a women's ministry at my local church. I intend to share your insights. God has truly guided me to you. So awesome. Keep em coming.
@alexnux2395
@alexnux2395 9 жыл бұрын
I love you, Mat! What a gourgeous, clever and charming man! That video is a really new word in this topic! Many bloggers actually always say the same things, but your advice was always something special and new for me. I am subscribed to your channel for many years and I always wait for your new videos! Greetings from Russia!
@hihi-pk8fo
@hihi-pk8fo 8 жыл бұрын
+Mathew Boggs Damn ...........I had a best friend and he's a boy and my sister came home telling ,e when she went to the toilet my friend was In there saying he like me and what to do when I come back and your answering my questions and I'm only 11 and he's 10 this year 0-0 and when I found your channel :0 I like 😶 coz he never realy showed me to his other friends he's rapped his andre and round me but I've taken it off me coz I felt weird and then he's started acting weird and round if found your channel and like :O OMG HE LOVE ME :0
@SitaWelsh
@SitaWelsh 8 жыл бұрын
+Racquel Mcguiness Grow up.
@Cerins11
@Cerins11 6 жыл бұрын
Don’t idolize anyone. That is his job to make you love him. In the real world he acts differently.
@bushraejaz9409
@bushraejaz9409 8 жыл бұрын
OmG he's 100% true these signs really do make a sense loved the video
@judisnyder4868
@judisnyder4868 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the "ackward" "opposite action" sign descriptions. I find that every guy I meet or try to talk to, they act weird and very awkward to the point that they start talking and get seemingly nervous and so distracted that they start talking with someone else around that they know about something you just told them about. It seems so rude to me. But, they will follow me or try to come back and draw up another conversation. Seems so weird and crazy.
@soniagarcia9437
@soniagarcia9437 7 жыл бұрын
Matthew I'm in a interracial relationship with a man and RESPECT sure is the key. I enjoy listening to every idea you have in having a successful relationship. Thank you. Your awesome.
@dominikaszymanska9219
@dominikaszymanska9219 8 жыл бұрын
Mathew, I wish someone had told me this a few years back, when I was getting confused a lot and I guess missed out on a few opportunities to have great relationships. Also, I'd like to backup some people, who have already said this - you're a great speaker!
@rakhoharimazumdar2793
@rakhoharimazumdar2793 8 жыл бұрын
You are so logical and clear
@AlainaCain
@AlainaCain 8 жыл бұрын
Strangely enough, #3 is the exact same way that some women treat the guy that they "really" like but men, oftentimes, get offended by it.
@thenatural.hygienist193
@thenatural.hygienist193 3 жыл бұрын
Although the guy I'm seeing has kissed me, we have barely spoken about sex and he's not made any other physical/sexual moves. When I asked him about it he says I'm different from other women he's spoken to and he has so much respect for me, he feels he needs to be careful and take a different approach....
@inesachaibou1218
@inesachaibou1218 7 жыл бұрын
he used to want me, he looked me with intensity but now he desappear for any reason. i spend many days without any new from him....what should i do? is it over
@l7weenie273
@l7weenie273 4 жыл бұрын
Yo it has been two years but can I ask what happened?
@imabeloveddaughter
@imabeloveddaughter 4 жыл бұрын
I hope you stood up for urself
@mogenerosity1750
@mogenerosity1750 4 жыл бұрын
Pull back and act non concerned his response will give you the answer
@baileyspack3689
@baileyspack3689 5 жыл бұрын
This revived me! Thank you soooo much! My man is into me...🙌
@summerdays280210
@summerdays280210 5 жыл бұрын
When I was first dating my now husband, I didnt meet his friends. I met his family pretty quickly, but not his friends. I don't really think much of it until watching this video. And I believe it is because of exactly what you said. He was a 25 yr old footy player. I was a 22yr old single mum. So he obviously would have still been living the crazy "party boy" life. I met most of his friends at our wedding to be honest and they were loads of fun. But many of them said things like "I never imagined him settling down or getting married ever" or "you saved him. He would be dead if it wasnt for you" jokingly ofcourse. So yeah- this point is definitely a valid one
@janelim1931
@janelim1931 4 жыл бұрын
it's my first time to learn about this whole 'over' and 'under'. I'll take note of it. thanks 😊
@droopypie
@droopypie 8 жыл бұрын
You talk with your hands. :)
@jwithlove4232
@jwithlove4232 7 жыл бұрын
amcgrrl it's called body language .
@jodie3950
@jodie3950 5 жыл бұрын
I do that too. It's so weird when I'm talking and people are watching my hands instead 😂😂😅
@cajunlady4893
@cajunlady4893 3 жыл бұрын
Oh the hands.. They know how to talk! And the eyes.. Oh my... The eyes.. Tell all
@km23666
@km23666 9 жыл бұрын
Would love to hear your take on couples living together before marriage. My daughter is considering moving in with her boyfriend next year and my husband and against this. They have been together two years, my daughter is stable in her career and doing well financially and her boyfriend while he has a college degree is not stable in his career (he is four years older than she is). They plan to marry and my daughter says they want to save. She knows that my husband and I will help financially with a wedding so this is not a good reason. I think this decision is more beneficial to him than her.
@1Skorpia
@1Skorpia 8 жыл бұрын
your right.I think shes being used. hes got nothing to offer. but if she really likes him not much u can do if anything she will keep stuff from u to protect him.
@sineadmoylan1065
@sineadmoylan1065 8 жыл бұрын
+km23666 My mother has told me since a very young age that she will do her upmost to ensure that I will live with my significant other for at least a year before I get married. It really is the best way to get to know someone. I understand however that it might be different for you because of religious beliefs. Consider this quote by actor bill murray “If you have someone that you think is The One, don't do… don’t just sort of think in your ordinary mind, 'Okay, let's make a date. Let's plan this and make a party and get married.' Take that person and travel around the world. Buy a plane ticket for the two of you to travel all around the world, and go to places that are hard to go to and hard to get out of. And if when you come back to JFK, when you land in JFK, and you're still in love with that person, get married at the airport.”
@edot913
@edot913 8 жыл бұрын
Sometimes people come together and help eachother in different ways that families can't see. Not everyone is always super stable all the time but it doesn't mean they don't deserve love, or that they can't give love and support in other ways or the best they can. Maybe moving in together would help her as well.
@breAnnasmama
@breAnnasmama 8 жыл бұрын
May I share?i wldnt really put that situation n this persons hands if it were me.respectfully u have ev right2do what u feel best, but being a mommy,I read comment&felt need2say&hope it's ok w/u;)!4me,as nice as this man may be&good intentions,it really seem2me tht their advice isn't that of some1who's really going2b able2advocate2a parent w/the need u have right now.their ideology&info while heartfelt&meant well seems from a place of a single guy mentality w a youthful mindset&not quite the experience n matters of the heart2the degree n which I wld feel u r seeking advice on.i pray evthing wks out4u&ur daughters situation&tht u get the answers u need&have peace&truly I not trying2b offensive n anyway!just feel like maybe wld better help give u the good answers&comfort if from sum1whos bn thru being a parent&has experienced things that IMO wld b evident via the type of advice given.this guy tho he seem nice,is talking of1type personality&mentality&idk.just b careful;)sorry2get n middle
@oliooh5647
@oliooh5647 7 жыл бұрын
Let them move in together
@AmieOlsonalo
@AmieOlsonalo Жыл бұрын
These all make complete sense and I love and appreciate that the right guy takes his time with moving things forward physically to make that more special.
@lourdesrangel5836
@lourdesrangel5836 6 жыл бұрын
I was so sad because i couldn't say if he likes me, but now its clear. Thanks. I love you.
@kireinashinkou7260
@kireinashinkou7260 7 жыл бұрын
"have i stared into space enough?" oh my gosh , that part got me laughing my ass of hahahahahha xD
@amariiah
@amariiah 4 жыл бұрын
Kireina Shinkou 😂 I agree!
@amariiah
@amariiah 4 жыл бұрын
I had to watch it more than twice 😂
@MissBrighteyes86
@MissBrighteyes86 8 жыл бұрын
great video! :) I know mine is into me and the feeling is mutual. We both did our version of 'under' on date one I think. Our first date was dinner and then hours sitting at the local seawall either quietly enjoying it, deep talking, and lots of equally quirky humor. ^__^
@MissBrighteyes86
@MissBrighteyes86 8 жыл бұрын
(To add to that, we're now in a steadily developing relationship with no end in sight. We often talk of how quickly things clicked into place.)
@IamRanJos
@IamRanJos 8 жыл бұрын
+Ashley Morton Congratulations for your new found love.
@christyjoyce4287
@christyjoyce4287 2 жыл бұрын
1. He's awkward around you. 2. He allows you to influence him. 3. He doesn't make a move physically. 4. He doesn't want you to meet his friends and family yet. 5. Acts out for your attention.
@Kuma-Naru
@Kuma-Naru 6 жыл бұрын
I've realised even though I already have my man (and have been with him for 2 years), he still 'acts out for my attention'. He overs most often, especially with humor (he just did so yesterday x3). The video is amazing, I'm always happy and greatful to learn more about my guy and how to keep our relationship thriving.
@deesticco1719
@deesticco1719 8 жыл бұрын
Great Energy in delivery and a new take on advice!
@ihaz8
@ihaz8 6 жыл бұрын
I think he’s into me! This video cleared up so many questions I’ve had in my mind. Thanks a lot for sharing it.
@bigmamaL
@bigmamaL 2 жыл бұрын
This is so accurate! because I know in my heart my boyfriend has feelings for me, but his actions did not translate to that at first. it took me quite a bit of time to understand that he was an unders. Every single thing on this list applies to my relationship. And what's funny is that I wasn't very warm-- I had to learn how to be more expressive. Ever since I've done that, he doesn't act childish when we disagree, and he is more sexual now. He used to bore me and I guess I showed it which made him act more awkward. We love each other but we didn't get along. But now it's totally different. He's more open from me being open.
@stephb5281
@stephb5281 6 жыл бұрын
OMG! This helped make me realise why he is awkward around me. It all fitted into place along with everything else. THANK YOU!
@nicola646
@nicola646 6 жыл бұрын
Omg that's what he does XD "You're beautiful..." every time when he looks blanked out.
@jenmendez991
@jenmendez991 7 жыл бұрын
why can they not be straight forward some women are very blunt
@amariiah
@amariiah 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this! Most of these explains my crush and he’s definitely a creative. Over the years I thought it was because sometimes he didn’t like me but was somehow trying to be friendly. It doesn’t help that I’m shy and used to ignore my crushes
@cococha
@cococha 4 жыл бұрын
its never too late to act on this signs.
@beroze77
@beroze77 2 жыл бұрын
The “apartment complex” analogy is spot on! Men can only be in one box at a time.
@rachelhartjes313
@rachelhartjes313 8 жыл бұрын
Wow, the 4th one really says so much! I knew my man and I were falling in love before this video lol. But I couldn't understand why he wasn't super eager and even nervous to for me to meet family/friends. But super eager to meet mine! I didn't think of it in this way. I'm 25, my longest relationship was over 2 years, was my first love. I've been with current boyfriend for just over 5 months now. But it feels like a lifetime, in the best possible way. I never knew that, that feeling, that feeling of being completely content, comfortable and yet still have butterflies existed as strongly as it does. I have met the man I will marry. And I am so blessed. Kind, humble, protective, understanding, considerate, patient, very chivalrous. I'm very shy, so he has this way of pushing me yet comforting me through it. Respectful, goal and family oriented, gets along with my family so well and loves what I find to be embarrassing or awkward traits of mine and therefore making me love them too. For all the women out there, they do exist! The biggest thing though is you have to realize that physical attraction can grow. My first date with my bf I wasn't really that into him lol. But I figured another date wouldn't hurt, and then I fell in love. I'm dating a man, a man who does everything in his power to court me and to make me smile and feel supported. It does exist ladies. And these 5 signs are spot on! ♡♡♡
@manishamulchandani7067
@manishamulchandani7067 3 жыл бұрын
Mat you are seriously amazing. All your videos are too good and helpful. Thanks for developing this kind of content. There are many people who do make such videos but you are far more influential and easy to understand. 😃😃
@KO-D00M
@KO-D00M 8 жыл бұрын
i also like the idea of "overs" and "unders" u presented in this video. i tend to guage my "success" of a date on intrigue as well. it's not wholly on purpose, but i find that the more deep into myself i present myself on a date, the more fascinating dudes find me. this comes naturally to me, of course, but it is equally something i look for in a guy. if i'm on a date and he's got some sort of "under" going on with himself naturally as well, i'm pretty much interested. i tend to be attracted to mysterious/more quiet dudes. it's just that pull thing that they've got goin on. it's like the more i talk to them, the more i wanna know yet everything unravels slowly and it's just such a beautiful thing to engage in when it's mutual.
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