5 WAYS QUEENS HEAL THEIR HEARTS by RC Blakes

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5 WAYS QUEENS HEAL THEIR HEARTS by RC Blakes
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@sanjananair1702 Жыл бұрын

1. Objectively observe the brokenness of the person who hurt you. 2. Internally interrogate yourself a) did I damage/hurt myself b) what was deficient in me that I let them in c) what lies did I internalise 3. Look back at yourself and learn what needs to be changed/adjusted in you 4. Draft your own constitution (how u want to live, who u are, what u looking for) through meditation 5. Release the hope for something that was never meant to be

@Andtherewaslight427 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much.💓

@shannonwilliams5566 Жыл бұрын

Thank you

@angelmarshall2076 Жыл бұрын

Thank youu

@NikkitaChante Жыл бұрын

Thank you

@chevellehymans6150 5 ай бұрын

Yes king

@simplify_ Жыл бұрын

Ladies, financial security is no joke in today's world - make smart decisions that sustain security. You are able!

@sunshinesunflowerz1647 Жыл бұрын

This is one thing that my dad taught me because he wasn't there physically.

@notallabouttarot5194 Жыл бұрын

Yes. This is what Divine is telling us all Queen conscious women to do.

@moniqueharriel757 Жыл бұрын

I prayed God would remove me from a toxic relationship. He answered my pray ! During my transformation I remained celibate for 5 years . During this time I was able to look deep into my spirit and understand how strong I am . I grew up with a loving father ! He taught me we teach people how to treat us . And to never ignore a man’s energy! I was so fixated on looks I ignored what I knew was not good for me . Sometimes God has to shake us up to wake us up . Now I am in one of the most beautiful relationships. My fiancé treats me like the true queen that I am . He is a true man of God ! On the beginning of our friendship I told him I don’t wear my scares on my face . He knew exactly what I was talking about . In that moment he held me close and said “ my love I got you “ and he does . I transformed myself into the true queen that I am . And God send me my queen . We’re getting married on my birthday next year . Pastor Blake’s thank you for your awesome teachings . I love you my God continue to bless you and your beautiful family ❤

@LadyHannahl Жыл бұрын

Ow that was really beautiful♥️🌙I pray God that he blesses you both and your future children.Pray for me sis. Growing up I haven't had a good relationship with my Dad and that made me insecure.I don't know how to behave with a man. Currently I'm working on myself hoping one day everything would be fine.

@shellebaby2074 Жыл бұрын

What do you mean don ignore a man's energy?

@saintejeannedarc9460 Жыл бұрын

@@shellebaby2074 Pastor Blakes has video on it. You'll see it in the titles. It basically means that a man will have a certain vibe. It can be good, bad or neutral. How healthy you are in spirit will depend on what kind of energy you're attracted to, or will chose to ignore (if it's bad).

@athenafarrell5127 3 ай бұрын

He delivered me too!

@sherrijones4357 Жыл бұрын

I just started my healing journey at the age of 61. My volunteering days are over.

@lynellb Жыл бұрын

Better now than never...

@lous.1548 Жыл бұрын

there is no age for healing . Hope your journey will be full of joys

@Maryam-hb1cf Жыл бұрын

That’s beautiful ❤

@beckyfrancis481 Жыл бұрын

You are worth it.

@madelinebigio7565 Жыл бұрын

I just got away from a narcissist and on my way to my healing and I’m 59 years old! Thank goodness it was short lived less than 3 months 😂Thank goodness ❤❤❤

@knowyourkismat Жыл бұрын

“It is the natural inclination of an evolved and conscious man to protect and preserve womankind” -how beautiful. I pray I and all of us in the comments get ours soon

@Nikita_848 Жыл бұрын

"A queen conscious woman is calm, confident and present." ✔

@BL3SSed-Bliss Жыл бұрын

Don't forget hopeful! 💖

@elindabeanland5917 Жыл бұрын

What a Word! I'm a Proverbs 31 Woman and a Queen in God! ❣️

@yneztulsen 8 ай бұрын

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@Markenyetta 4 ай бұрын

I started crying when he said that because I know exactly how being queen conscious feel but I allowed a broken person to brake my spirit so bad I am trying to get back to being the calm me

@melnq8 Жыл бұрын

I need this. It's been a year since I literally ESCAPED an awful abusive relationship with a Narcissist. People keep trying to get me back out onto the dating scene but for the life of me I just can't. God gave me the strength to remove myself from a toxic relationship, and I believe you popped up in my recommendations when I needed it the most for the very same reason. He does indeed work in mysterious ways!

@lanarose2460 Жыл бұрын

Same happened for me, Sis. He is a true man of God. He has been a real source of feeding my soul into healing properly.

@christineecheverri4194 Жыл бұрын

Same!! Except I've only been out for 1.5 months. RC helped me escape too. Thank God!

@melnq8 Жыл бұрын

Hang in there sister's. Narcissists are without a doubt the work of the devil, being in relationship with one feels and/or IS like you've dated a demon Bishop Rc Blake's is definitely the instrument of God. When God has a job to do, he always chooses individuals through whom he does his work. He's helping us heal, and shed light where there once was darkness. Like a lighthouse in a storm, as is God, working through him being such a big help to many of us women that need to hear his words

@user-ku5vm5jb1h Жыл бұрын

People think they know best for you and that finding a partner is the only lifestyle on the planet. Don’t give in to that.

@hj0628 Жыл бұрын

Same. I attribute a lot of my healing to his teachings and validation. Keep yourself encouraged sis, through loving support and resources like this.. you will feel and see the difference soon. 🙏🏽❤

@victoriasheesley9558 Жыл бұрын

After 5 years with a narcissist I’m working on healing and becoming a queen again. It’s very difficult recovering from trauma. I’ll get there with the grace of the lord

@QeenBee86 Жыл бұрын

Six years with a narcissist. I chose me this time around and walk away for good ‼️The healing ❤️‍🩹 process suck. However, BUT GOD 🙌🏽- he’s my healer ❤and nothing is too big for him.🙏🏽🙌🏽🫶🏽

@yolandaburrage4848 Жыл бұрын

Love your comment my sister stay strong

@609Georgiana Жыл бұрын

it may take longer than you want it to, but you will rise from the ashes. make it a point to do so, and you will be wiser for it!

@lolachlih3136 Жыл бұрын

8 years with a narcissist left almost 2 years ago have been healing and with RC's sessions sure have helped me so much stay strong sis you got this!💖🙏

@onjanettehudson3669 Жыл бұрын

@@QeenBee86 Wishing well, my sister….. HURTS LIKE HELL

@queendippy1857 Жыл бұрын

Ever since I started watching your sessions, I'm healing, you are speaking to my life, everything you are addressing, approaching 40 yet always struggled in the area of relationship, even in marriage, I left a narcissistic husband. I'm finding myself through this session.

@Roro2023. Жыл бұрын

I just left a narcissist husband as well. Been 3 months. And I’m healing daily. I pray you continue to heal Queen. Stay empowered

@bridgettetraveler658 Жыл бұрын

My sister u will be free & made whole! U through JESUS will be a complete person all by yourself! Be BLESSED & keep your head up! Keep smiling & don't get frown lines! I find when I feel alone or depressed get your praise going! It's something about praising GOD that can lift our Spirits above measure!!!

@BriW444 Жыл бұрын

@@Roro2023. I can’t wait til I get to 3 months and say I’m healed 🥺😪🙏🏾.

@dcnelsons Жыл бұрын

Ditto

@dublingirl1691 Жыл бұрын

Broken people break people; I’ve had that looping question too, going around keeping me stuck; kept the recurring thought “why did he do this to me?” Pastor explained it perfectly clear. I’m stuck no more. 😁Forgiveness is much easier now Thank God. Blessings to you and your family. 💗🙏🏻

@Rashuana Жыл бұрын

I will never let a traumatizing moment define me. Thank you God for blessing him with this powerful message.

@Terryon1219 Жыл бұрын

Yes lord ❤️

@veronicaatkins4417 Жыл бұрын

“Her crown may have a crack in it but it is no less valuable “

@tonikae8593 Жыл бұрын

I just want to say that you’ve helped me so much on my journey to becoming a Queen conscious woman and I thank God so much for you and your teaching and I pray God continues to bless you ❤

@mspj6008 Жыл бұрын

Peace is PRICELESS.

@Anonymous-cl2es Жыл бұрын

Sure is!!

@kayfleming5180 Жыл бұрын

The love being poured into so many of our Hearts & Souls from Pastor RC Blakes is the love we needed from birth. We are beyond grateful. 🙏🏽❤️ Many Blessings to you, your beautiful wife, Lisa, and your family. ❤

@lynellb Жыл бұрын

Yes!!! Totally agree! 💕💕🙏🏾

@victoriasullivan9369 Жыл бұрын

💯🙌🏽

@heather7119 Жыл бұрын

Observe the brokenness of the person that broke you..... so true. I can tell you that doing this has greatly has helped me to forgive. Actually had me feeling sorry for them because I was able to recuperate and get a deeper understanding of myself and healing from God. Dude is still a hot mess, married and still trying to reach out with the same foolishness. BULLET DODGED and God is good. GREAT teaching, pastor. Thank you for all you do :)

@oliveevergreen5401 Жыл бұрын

I will position myself to be able to take care of myself financially. I will maximize my potential!👸💖

@deja14 Жыл бұрын

Hardest thing ever …. Forgiving someone who isn’t even sorry…. Observing the brokenness of the person who broke you…. My ex husband shot me last year and maaaan it’s really hard to understand his demons and past but MAN ITS HARD

@tiffanylcollins3631 Жыл бұрын

Don't just get the pain, get the wisdom.

@gabychavez2265 Жыл бұрын

Im crying as you speak. Feels like your right in front of me. It was not my fault 😔 For any woman that has been in toxic emotionally abusive relationship we have to know it’s not our fault. ❤

@gabychavez2265 Жыл бұрын

But we learn and we learn to love ourselves first. It’s a process but we can do it! Put God first 💜 he is only removing what is not good out of our lives.

@purplereignsupreme6990 Жыл бұрын

Bishop you will never know how many lives your words have changed. I thanknyou and God for the calling he put on you to helps us sleeping beautys. I am forever woke!

@ambinodagreat Жыл бұрын

Your podcasts are HEAVEN SENT 🙌🏾‼️‼️ Praise God for blessing your word and your spirit 🙏🏾

@misguidedpearls7456 Жыл бұрын

❤❤❤❤

@Treasuredbyaloma24 Жыл бұрын

To my Spiritual Dad, you ALWAYS have a WORD. Thank You so much. I truly wish that I had met you 3 years ago. Better Late Than Never!!!!. Thank You!

@lynellb Жыл бұрын

I loved it when he said "the vase has taken a heavy blow, withstood the pressure and still standing" yesss! 🙌🏾🙌🏾💕 I'm still here! 💪🏾💪🏾💕🙏🏾

@sophiagreene4535 Жыл бұрын

Though We Are Cracked! We are Still Standing! Thank you God for The Strength and Courage to Keep Standing! The Mercy and Restoration of a Good and Faithful God! Keep Standing Ladies! God is For us and Within us!

@Nikita_848 Жыл бұрын

I love when you say she's positive and bounces back from trauma. That is absolutely it, that's the differentiator.

@victoriasullivan9369 Жыл бұрын

"What lies did I internalize?" ...if we asked ourselves this question more often while processing our relationships and situations in life, omg, the amount of time n energy we could save. 🤦🏽‍♀️

@carismacatalyst1289 Жыл бұрын

"She will repair the damage of her soul and will return to her Thron" Thank you Sir!

@gc2137 Жыл бұрын

For the first time by listening to this Bible study, I'm realizing that most of my life (and I'm over 50) I have lived from adopted and not true identity. God bless you and thank you Pastor 🙏 🙏 🙏

@1muddonna Жыл бұрын

"You've been living a counterfeit vision with an adopted identity." Wow. That hit home.

@KrystleLaughter Жыл бұрын

Really looking forward to this message. Been on a healing journey now for the last two years.

@Queen360_Crown 2 ай бұрын

“you hung around for the party, even when you knew it wasn’t thrown in you honor “ boooooom!!!! Thank you pastor, my problem is solved ❤

@patticiarose4526 Жыл бұрын

I'm always blessed every time I listen to your teaching. I was abused many times... Thank God 🙏🏿 I'm in healing process each day. It's 4 yrs now strong enough to make a decision.

@judithakosuadankwanimako3963 Жыл бұрын

Family please pray for me, im starting my divorce proceeding next month oo from my narcissistic husband.. 13 years of abuse with 2 kids.. I have no money no lawyer, but I trust God completely... So please help by praying with me and for me..

@ceecee8757 Жыл бұрын

You got this, sis. Stay encouraged and keep praying.

@sharonscott8774 Жыл бұрын

Hello everyone. May God’s Grace and Mercy continue to chase after each and every one of us. May his Peace and Joy reign in our hearts.

@brittanybutler-lamar6450 Жыл бұрын

Wow! I'm just now realizing this in my own 7 years of marriage....🥺

@lisabowman877 Жыл бұрын

This song will go to the top of all the charts! I absolutely love the song! ❤❤❤❤❤

@opallight8069 Жыл бұрын

The song is a Ministry in itself ❤️

@lizzsibs Жыл бұрын

This Bishop Blakes is what I really needed to hear. You sure have the anointing for ministering to women and you got no idea the impact you're making all over the world. Every woman needs to listen to one of your teachings. May the oil on your head never run dry in Jesus name. Amen 🙌🔥🔥🔥🔥

@judyb8018 Жыл бұрын

Yes. He was still broken and in therapy. Red flag.

@lizzyworld007 Жыл бұрын

Needed this one tonight!!! I'm just over 2months post breakup I hear the new supply is pregnant 🙃 if I needed more reason to move on this was it 💯 lort help the ridiculousness lol be back in a hr notification,on🖤

@marisolrivera5255 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for speaking life which helps me into my healing journey after survival of years of abuse failed relationships and marriage . Im choosing me til God opens my heart to love again to bring a king 🤴 🙏 it's a spiritual juprney to heal.

@1974Ny Жыл бұрын

#5 spoke directly to my soul...release what was never meant to be. I appreciate you Pastor Blakes.

@BeckyJade Жыл бұрын

Hello this is the first Christian video I have watched in a while as I had a breakdown after caring for my mum. Please can I ask you to pray in for me my name is Rebecca Jade Mawson. I was hit in the face by a man 2 nights ago after he smashed my phone. It was horrible. I don't know him that well but I have been vunerable since my mum died. I'm getting there but I need prayers not His to strengthen me. Thank you I love you

@orlanrichards3901 Жыл бұрын

Prayers going up for you during this season of your. You got this🙏💪

@MsAmazonAmazing Жыл бұрын

This!! I thank you for speaking life, and hope with this message. Meditation has helped me greatly in my moving forward process. As a Queen, I loved a joker. The loss is his not mine and wont let him turn me into a bitter woman ..The gym, journaling and meditation w/ loving on my self more has helped me greatly ❤

@darawatkis7084 Жыл бұрын

Excellent message Paster Blakes 🙏🏽🙏🏽I needed this so much. Just recently broke up with a Covert Narc. He was trying to break me into something that I wasn’t. Thank God that I dodged that bullet because it really could have been worst. Emotionally it’s been hard at times because I treated him excellent but yet he couldn’t see my worth. Your message makes me feeling good and confirms that I’m going in the right direction. It’s been five months healing ❤️‍🩹 I have no desire to get into another relationship. Focusing on me and fixing Me. Thank you again🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

@rachelroyster5807 Жыл бұрын

Healing is the children’s bread. Thank you and thank God for your obedience.

@busyv3124 Жыл бұрын

Anointed message! Christ takes away the shame and the guilt. Hallelujah! You offered deliverance to so many. I’m praying a hedge of protection for you and your family. ❤

@catherinewicker9541 Жыл бұрын

Really looking forward to this tonight. I need to hear this from a spiritual stance. I thought I had met my God sent mate; however, I was all wrong. My spirit still hurts. I am so hesitant to get back out there. My God. I am still here and still hopeful and at peace.

@markesastewart4741 Жыл бұрын

I seriously needed this because l'am committed to healing but I have moments I fill like running away but I have stiff conversations like I'm above never beneath not how I fill . I'am empowered the more to becoming the best version of myself unapologetically.. I appreciate you pastor Blake's I receive wisdom nuggets .I'am discovering why my ex husband or broken guys I attracted because of my brokenness. Thank you for healing and restoration becoming a whole woman 💜🙏🏾💕

@BriW444 Жыл бұрын

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@fififi3714 Жыл бұрын

You are truly the God sent truth to women Bishop !!! May God continue to bless you and Lady Blakes 💞 I'm aspiring to be a delivered queen conscious woman 🙏🏿

@Ang_Nicole Жыл бұрын

I can’t wait to tune in for this one pastor. I truly need it right now. Thank you for all that you do ❤

@monica3787 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for not SHAMING the women who have been traumatized and broken through life events. Aiding and helping them blesses God. Help us please sir. Please do not ever insult us for being so broken........ Many pastors play the shame blame game. Glad u don't. THIS. MESSAGE. US. VERY. PROFOUND !!!

@kimberlymay9497 6 ай бұрын

Was involved in a unhealthy relationship but I refuse to give up on love. I know it’s a healthy loving man out there for me ❤ these videos have helped me soooo much! Their not going to go on with their life and think I’m a stay in the bed depressed, no sir pray about it until it’s gone and move on ❤ Kind of glad I went thru it so the next time, I can end it much quicker!!! Amen 🙏

@1goodgirl593 Жыл бұрын

Thank you, Pastor! Your teachings are penetrating my heart and soul and are an integral part of my healing process. Gob bless you and Lady Lisa!

@lynnlamont8942 Жыл бұрын

I appreciate that we as women can find ourselves👑🤗

@lolachlih3136 Жыл бұрын

Still healing after getting out of my toxic relationship to a narcissist for almost 2 years now and thanks to you Bishop for all that you do now im finally on my journey to healing May God Bless you🙏

@charmee4045 Жыл бұрын

I am two years out as well, feels so good. It takes time to heal. I am waiting for the right one, not the next one.

@kirahale2592 6 ай бұрын

Ive been broken for so long i am breaking my family😢😢😢 I found your videos a few days ago and i love them. I want so badly to change and heal myself and my family

@christianlife429 Жыл бұрын

I can absolutely say I damaged myself because the mental has me trying to recall the emotions when i try to stay positive and move on.

@Jasmine-qw7tj Жыл бұрын

Thank God for my counselor because she told me about you. This is some real good teaching and this brought some comfort and change in perspective on my healing journey. You're truly a gem!!! God restore me!! Thank you Pasto!!

@user-qs8yb9fk7k Жыл бұрын

My Ex Bf almost killed me, left me w a frac pelvis in 3 places and a wheelchair. It has taken much Work for me to be Whole physically & mentally. I sought out help wherever I could, prayed a lot. Also received the help of a Christian church & a Counselor!!!

@keyscott-hale939 Жыл бұрын

This is literally a breath of fresh air. Thank you King RC Blakes ..

@cynthiamcrae-winborn6375 Жыл бұрын

I am fairly new to your channel thank you so much for caring as much as you do for all women. I have been in a toxic marriage for over 11 years I didn’t listen to the voice of GOD or paid attention to the signs He showed me I got married anyway. I paid the price for being in this marriage but GOD has been turning my life around and now I realize my worth even more. I decided to separate from the marriage it’s been a year now. Within that year I was willing to reconcile but I saw there were no changes within our marriage. He refused counseling that’s it for me I am moving on. I refuse to continue being broken-hearted by a man who wasn’t worth it in the first place.. Great topic !! Thank you so much. I Might have learned a few things and it was painful but I’m becoming more of a Queen conscious woman I know my worth, and it sure is worth more than what this man was dishing out . May GOD continue to bless you and your wife in ministry 🙏🏾

@anabella4296 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Pastor! 🙏🙌 😊 💓 You train us to REIGN 👑 🙌 ✨

@msjones2877 6 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!, I finally realized why I have been having such a hard time and have been consistently angry for something that was so short-lived. I thought I forgave the person but I really did not. God bless you and thank you.

@skyylea9859 Жыл бұрын

R.C. Is a godsend because lord knows I needed to hear this . When he said objectively observe the brokenness of the person that hurt you … that’s deep

@sandramallory4382 Жыл бұрын

This video is one of the most powerful ones he has ever made. I listen to it every day.

@deborahpayton4105 Жыл бұрын

I simply love the intro song "She's A Queen". This is a great song to listen to daily. I like to buy a copy. Who is the artist?

@nawhatererr Жыл бұрын

I cant wait for this. Thank you. You have healed me this year. I keep learning from you

@JennyGaston Жыл бұрын

Love this ❤️These are some precious gems. As a therapist, I find your advice always on point. Keep the videos coming!

@sheliasmith2884 Жыл бұрын

I thank him so much he has helped me to heal from a toxic relationship I just got out of at the age of 59 I thought I was good to go and got hurt the pool of men here in Mississippi is not good at all I thank God for this man and Lisa.

@gc2137 Жыл бұрын

This Bible study is such a true blessing Pastor, thanks so much! As a mental health professional who continues to do my own work for self healing, I appreciate your take on us doing self Inquiry and processing how trauma affects us in the present moment. Praise God for His unconditional Love toward us and His Power to make us whole in Him! 🙏🙏🙏

@t.rashon Жыл бұрын

After 13 years went back into a relationship with a narcissist and i just called it off officially and it was hard. Working on reclaiming my confidence. He knows he’s broken and would use it to get what he wants or to make me stay. I pray for his healing as well as mine.

@moniqueharriel757 Жыл бұрын

One word describes you King Blake’s . Blessing ❤❤

@marypickney7490 Жыл бұрын

I just start my healing journey at the age of 61 . Getting a divorce, I been with narcissist for 20 years married 16 years. It was toxic I had no idea what was happening. 4 years ago I found your KZfaq channel. And I am getting all the information I needed. Thank God for you Pastor RCBlakes for your honest. Thank you 🙏🏽

@MySingleLifeADollShow 9 ай бұрын

This song makes me cry so much. Its really beautiful and I appreciate these messages. My heart is in so much pain and the lonliness makes me feel like im not going to make it. At this point I just want to harden my heart and forget about finding love altogether. I just want to love myself to the fullest.

@VCurtis7 Жыл бұрын

Wow! That awesome intro song! Powerful! Good word of wisdom! Thank you Bishop!

@misguidedpearls7456 Жыл бұрын

I love it

@tonyajackson8860 Жыл бұрын

Listening to it again!

@marisolrivera5255 Жыл бұрын

Yes my past will never define my past but to learn and return to my Queen conscious . Thanks Pastor Blake's and Lady Lisa God bless to speak life very inspiring 🙏 🙌

@latenitetubing Жыл бұрын

my soul has been broken. stopped trying to understand why it happened, because it doesn’t really matter why. it is on the perpetrator. not me. this has helped me survive mentally and spiritually. the attacker is also a victim because the attacker does this against their own soul and goodness. yes it happened to us, but at the same time it’s not really our thing to harbor. it is the attackers. the attacker doesn’t get to live in your soul. this is the choice you can make as you survive an attack on your body, mind and soul. Thank you Pastor Blakes. This is a tough topic and I really deeply appreciate you tackling this from a biblical, compassionate and sensitive way. I’ve noticed many spiritual leaders shy away from this topic and it can make survivors feel even worse. It is always empowering to hear you speak. I’ve shared your content with many of the women in my life who have lost their calm. Love from Canada.. 🇨🇦 ♥️

@juneelle370 Жыл бұрын

Agree! 💜

@skyylea9859 Жыл бұрын

I agree . I kind of wish more spiritual leaders would speak heavily on childhood trauma primarily sexual abuse because it’s a lot of blockage that a lot of survivors need help with unblocking ! I think that’s unfortunately my biggest struggle yet

@latenitetubing Жыл бұрын

@@skyylea9859 Blockage is an excellent word for this. I’m sorry you are going through something so difficult. You are not alone here. Sending much love 💕

@skyylea9859 Жыл бұрын

@@latenitetubing Thanks … I appreciate it. Much love to you as well .

@yolandamorton2096 Жыл бұрын

A three month relationship I’ve been in may be ending due to our culture differences and I’m really sad tonight, as he’s a lovely man. I could really benefit from your wisdom tonight Pastor Blakes.😢

@rosalindwashington7376 Жыл бұрын

What are the cultural differences?

@yolandamorton2096 Жыл бұрын

He’s Nigerian and I’m American.

@melnq8 Жыл бұрын

@@yolandamorton2096 I get that. I lived through the conflict of cultural differences growing between my Mom (American/Christian), and my Dad (African Arabian/Muslim) and I experienced that myself in my last relationship. I have many soul sisters that have married men of different cultures. It is possible if you are of the same faith, equals spiritually, or else you are setting yourself up for a life of misery with the devil constantly infiltrating your relationship and family life. There's many verses that touch on this but here's one: 2 Corinthians 6:14 "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?".

@amaragrace94 Жыл бұрын

@@yolandamorton2096 Cultural differences are as big as you make them. They only have a profound effect if there are expectations or aspects of the culture the other person isn't willing to embrace. What are you guys struggling with? I'm Nigerian American and I don't discriminate ethnicities. If the attraction is there, then I'm open to exploring if we are compatible. I have dated Indian, Latino, Black, and white men. I was in a 3 month situationship with a Mexican man and he later revealed to me that it wouldn't go anywhere because he believed having the same culture was important for a relationship. Though we connected in faith and had the best deep conversations about life, he wanted a Hispanic woman🤷🏾‍♀️. I know sooo much about Mexican culture. I grew up in LA with some of my best friends being Latinos. I understand a good amount of Spanish and can speak a little bit too. My neices/nephews call me tía, my Mexican friend's 1.5 yr old daughter calls me tía and I speak Spanish to her. I can make Nigerian, Mexican, and even some Korean dishes. Our cultures actually have a lot of similarities. But he never got to know that side of me 🤷🏾‍♀️. His loss. I don't argue with people that aren't interested in taking me seriously. Don't ever take rejection as an opportunity to "prove yourself." All I could do was respect his decision, dust off the hurt and keep it moving. And through my healing, I've realized he reallyyy wasn't right for me, which I couldn't see before. I was too busy focusing on what he wanted. I needed to stop with the anxious attaching and focus on my needs and what I want. No longer tolerating crumbs. And now I'm talking to a Caribbean American man who is open about how much he likes me. I'm happy to see where it goes.

@tysgem7 Жыл бұрын

@@amaragrace94 Glad you’ve moved on and thank him for his early honesty. The worst is to drag along the relationship knowing his heart isn’t in it. Good for you; on to better times and people. ☺️

@arlynnshankle8365 Жыл бұрын

I'm looking forward to this too!

@teresadavis4641 Жыл бұрын

Grace and Peace Everyone

@DoctorCarrieHall Жыл бұрын

Watching again on my way to a healthier and better person. Thank you Lord for going deep and healing area's in me that I never gave permission to you before. Thank you Pastor RC.

@MsBuffalo Жыл бұрын

Please come back to South Africa soon! And yes we really need Queenology here in Africa so please please please come back.

@Christine-cf2bz Жыл бұрын

Nairobi Kenyan is also in Rev. Blakes... we listen, learn, and apply. God bless and keep you & Lisa. And yes, do come out here too!

@joellabarkus66 Жыл бұрын

Lord thank you fot every bit of the content that has been spoken here. Continue to bless this man of God and his wife Lisa in Jesus name. 🙌🏾

@alicerodriguez3550 Жыл бұрын

Some women have grown up with good fathers and mothers, especially those raised in the church. Therefore, those women were likely protected from very toxic men, and tend to be trusting, especially in the religious setting. We should also be teaching those women(especially young daughters), who are not yet jaded by toxic men, what signs to look for so they are not blindsided. If we are to be students of men, we need a man to write the full curriculum and teach the life long course on avoiding wolves in sheeps clothing. Additionally, toxic powerful men have a protective system of people who lie for them, lure for them, and who knowingly help them deceive unsuspecting women. It's not the one man, it's his team, his court of enablers who help him create the appearance of integrity. When a vicious deceptive army of enablers (a toxic family system) is activated to stalk a target, no woman stands a chance unless a real man steps in and tells the truth, exposing the lies and deceit. A non-cynical, healthy woman will likely always be blindsided by powerful deceptive men. Such a woman rarely understands the depth of malevolence in wolves, especially religious wolves, because she was taught to trust the so-called man of God. If good men tear down and expose their deceptive systems, those men who lack integrity will be left naked and exposed. Hopefully your podcast, The Code, will dissect and dismantle the toxic systems men use to destroy innocent women.

@juneelle370 Жыл бұрын

Wisdom! And to add, for some women who were raised deep in religion, the whole teachings made her vulnerable (the 70 x 7 thing and turn the other cheek, submission etc etc etc) Her own love of God, weaponized against her… to forgive abuse and just keep loving more… and more… and more. And practice your whole childhood doing it. No even healthy anger allowed. Christianity murders the mother bear of self and children protection. In all my years in religion (I’ve left religion for Creator-connecting DIRECT without toxic filters) I’ve never heard interpretations like this. Ever. The church itself and what is taught in it needs to be a MASSIVE discussion. Religion was an extremely toxic force in my life for so long… Religion is filled with spiritual abuse. What was found out about the Southern Baptist church moving sex abusers for many decades (just like the Catholic Church) didn’t surprise me one bit. The concept of forgiveness and submission and male leadership is weaponized against women and children--doing massive harm to their spirit and lives and potential. I’m free now.

@alicerodriguez3550 Жыл бұрын

@@juneelle370 Amen Sister Queen! He whom the Son sets free is free INDEED! Rules without relationship leads to rebellion and religion without a pure heart, leads to abuse. Jehovah Shalom, always intended to have loving relationships with His daughters.

@KKP20111 Жыл бұрын

Thank you, RC Blakes, for those wise and precious words! 🙏💯❤️

@nicolapetersen1633 7 ай бұрын

Believe in the Love that God has for you, instead of the Hate a man has shown you.

@tammyp2214 Жыл бұрын

Ironically, I just came to a realization about a situationship minutes before I found this broadcast. The sadness and hurt are melting away because I now understand he is a broken man (recovering alcoholic). Unfortunately, it took the passing of a friend (by addiction) to teach me this. 🙏 This message is highly accurate.

@mariemissial6680 Жыл бұрын

A broken man will brake a woman. Without realizing he did it. Because he is consumed in his brokenness

@jessicalagrange9452 Жыл бұрын

I follow Bishop RC Blakes quite a bit but my oh my this message was beyond what I needed. This message was divine and filled with so many nuggets. May God continuously bless this ministry!

@veeoby3364 Жыл бұрын

This is Therapeutic, anointing, prolific and profound message. Thank you Bishop Blakes for allowing God to use you as his vessel to send us this wonderful gift. I listen to this message whenever my spirit is low and it resonates with me and tremendously helps my healing.

@angelbabeasmr Жыл бұрын

So grateful we exist at the same time ❤️

@dianamwila9589 9 ай бұрын

Am suppose to maximise my potential:this entails to be financially stable and be responsible.

@sinayehlanjwa6019 8 ай бұрын

Watching from South Africa😊 I absolutely love your teachings

@Dr.Babe_ Жыл бұрын

“Queenology Africa” 🥹🫶🏾 Sending you lots of love from Zambia 🇿🇲 ❤

@tracystreet8338 Жыл бұрын

Praise God Amen. God bless you Bishop Blakes and Lisa Amen. God bless and heal every single person listening to this amazing teaching in the mighty name of Jesus Amen 🙏 🙌 ❤️