​You have been so helpful to me in the last year. A few years ago I canceled a wedding after being in a toxic engagement & facing narcissistic abuse. You have confirmed so much to me

Forgiveness is granted, trust is earned. Forgiveness does not mean that you go back to the previous closeness of that relationship. We must be wise as serpents and harmless as doves!

I’m having a hard time. I gained so much power listening to your ministry but sometimes I’m so sad and it hurts so bad. Even 2 years later. I listen to remain consistent and strong. It’s not easy and I have to fight my own weaknesses and I focus on my eternity with JESUS.

One of the hardest things l have ever done is pray for those who hurt me or made my life a living hell. Sometimes forgiving someone who has hurt us is not easy, but eventually, we should arrive at a place where we start praying for them. If you are struggling to forgive, ask God to help those who have hurt you to imagine how they would feel if they were in your shoes and ask God to bless them so that their lives may be so fulfilling that they would leave you alone. Mark 11:25 And whenever you stand praying, if you have anything against anyone, forgive him, that your Father in heaven may also forgive you your trespasses. Forgiveness may not happen overnight. Some wounds go very deep and may need time to process. Always remember that forgiveness is not a favor to the other person, but for yourself. Eventually, we must arrive at a place where we get tired of reliving old wounds and let go for our own sake. You must forgive in order to forgive. Free yourself of the burden of unforgiveness and watch how joyful you become. 🙏🙏😁😁

Turn to God. Forgive them all. Leave them to God's will

"FORGIVE, GIVE & LIVE!!!" great message I like that I have access to my own "life support" system for me is being and staying in alignment with God. Thank you!

Wow!! “Healing someone supernaturally with your pain ask God who needs my experience. Pray for someone else’ pain to find your own healing. The scars on your heart are the road map to someone’s freedom, open your heart, step outside of your own pain, Forgive, Give, Live. Live your best life all by yourself others are a Non factor move forward be free.” ~Pastor RC Blake’s

I am hurt by people I loved and cared.. and I myself have hurted many as well.. wronged to many.. My parents rejected me.. abandoned me.. I still can't get that pain and broken heart repaired.. I pray everyday to God to heal my broken heart and help me to come out of past painful experience of my life.. And God led me to you Pastor.. I thank you for such a wonderful message.. And as well as.. Thank you Jesus.. Praise the Lord.

I appreciate this message so much..I'm in pain as I am typing right now. But this message will get me to the beginning of a healing heart..thank you sooo much 😢

To heal to step out of yourself and give to someone else what you wish someone gave to you....who is this pain I'm going through for? Powerful! Amen...God will use ALL things.

The Bible tells you to forgive. . You don't have to forget but you must forgive . Brother Blake sometimes we must ask for forgiveness from others.

Proverbs 4:23 Guard your heart with all diligence,for out of it are the issues of life.

Than the people who breaks our hearts can move on freely , while people like myself are trying to repair my heart

I remember that brokenhearted feeling a lot when I was a little girl because of my dad.. then my first husband.. and now in my present marriage.. I am a christian and I try to move forward in healing & positive change. I keep forgiving & forgiving and I will always forgive.. but its hard to heal from a broken heart when it just keeps getting broken again & again.

I was with someone for 12 years and he left me and married someone else. I only found out because I had to turn into a investigator and recall people who called me asking for him. He literally had no intentions on telling me he was moving on. He also took 2k of my money and a class ring that I can’t even replace. to top all of this he did this months after my grandfather passed away. That was almost 2 years ago and I have gotten to a place where I can pray for him and ask god to bless him.

Thank you so much Pastor Blakes. Your msges have helped me gain closure from a year long divorce process that ended several months ago. This msg was 100% for me. It has confirmed that I'm now LIVING. I pray for my daughter's father and his family everyday despite the troubles I experienced. I started a business that helps people with their finances, specifically single mothers. I am also excelling in my fulltime career. I pray my daughter is inspired by her mom living what I teach her. Many blessings to you and your wife and kids and ministry Pastor Blakes.🙏🏾

Amen! They will reap what they have sown! And the enemy allllllways try to put on a front. Like they're doing good and EVERYTHING in their life is A OK! Knowing Gooooooooooooood and well they're NOT! All Hell be breaking loose in their life. The foes are good at pretending. God and karma be kickin their A......... God is good!

This is great Bishop, this message has opened up some understanding I didn’t realize I didn’t understand. Oh my my. Thank you Bishop

This teaching has me in tears. Best message ive watched regarding forgiveness. Thanks Bishop. We have been told to forgive but a lot of us, including me didnt know how to do it. Thx for giving me instructions.

Thanks so much for this powerful message!! As always, you have shared a very profound message. Every time I tune into one of your broadcasts, I learn how to incorporate God's teachings into my life. You are a great blessing to me and I will continue to glean from your knowledge!!! Bless you 😇🙏💓 !!!......

By surprise he broke my heart suddenly . And gave me the silent treatment for three and a half months I cried everyday. Even though he would yell monstrous grumpy mad mostly all the time. I still loved him I stick it out because when he was a really good beautiful mad and that's what I would wait for. I now listen to you RC BLAKE'S You have help me so much. I didn't know how could anyone know what I was going through everything you saying about them is so true and I never realize so many people gone to the same thing I have I didn't know there was so many of them kind of people there are so cold and cruel and has no heart.

Amen healed, healthy & whole!!

All respect to Robert Blakes for his GENUINE love for our black women 👍😁

Thank you thank you!! I counsel broken women everyday biblically I will definately be using your wisdom to help them. May our loving father bless you and keep you. Praying for your ministry please pray for us too. Harvest is many but laborers are few.

Thank you Pastor Blake's! I needed your prayer today. God bless!

Thank you Pastor Blakes for this timely, loving, message. Great analogy regarding the stuck needle. May I add that one has to actually 'LIFT' the needle in order to move it to the next groove where the song will be able to continue. That lifting up of SELF is sooo essential to our healing. God bless you for your wisdom through the Holy Spirit. Amen!

I will share at an event this weekend. Thank you so much for being obedient. Blessing the nations.

Thank U so much Pastor!! This message was confirmation that I’m on the right track!! I’ve forgiven the person. I’ve given to several people (from my heart) not expecting or wanting anything in return. And I’m starting to LIVE 🙌🏾 Praise God!! Living my best!! Not letting no grass grown under my feet!! 💃🏾🎊🌅🛍✈️🏖

So glad I am free!! Praise God .I am guarding my heart ♥️ more than ever before!!..

What an encouragement. Thank you Bishop for your obedience to bring us healing through the Word of God. Blessings 🙏🏾

What you say in the beginning is so good : forgiveness is the selfcare choice that i choose nobody to poisen my emotions by allowing someone who didn't deserve me in the beginning to live rentfree in my heart. I choose to let me go... that selfcare and nobody ALLOWING to poisen you....wonderful!!! My man came recently every week nocking on my door. So that i got emotional confused. Plus i was considering to maybe give in for the sex. How it would feel to make love again. There is still this longing...but next also knowing it is not right to do! Many times i was emotional confused doubting what to do... my righteness feelings stop to do this. Plus i have to choose not letting him in to poisening my emotions like you frase it! I thought i forgave him already but felt still connected because i really didn't wanted to let him go. I have to choose it...and this is so hard to do!! This is what i am struggling with...to let go. Certainly is not let him poisening my emotions! I feel i am almost there. Hopefully i am strong enough to do it to....thank you

Dear Pastor Blakes Thank You so much for ALL your video!! They are such a help and a Blessing💕

This message is just what I needed!

This was something I needed to hear. I had my heart broken after 14 years of being in a relationship, thinking I forgive but deep down inside I haven't. But this video has help me take my first step towards that. Thank you.

Thank you Pastor Blakes. I have been going through a season of pain but finally came to a place of forgiveness but wasn't sure what to do next. Thanks for explaining the rest of the process- Give and Live. May God open my eyes to people who need to learn from my experience. . Thanks God bless

Thank you Bishop for sharing the Word of God helping us to obtain a breakthrough in God. Blessings to you and your family.

I love the playlist 5 year old content - new to me.. still relevant...blessed😇 Thank you.. Mr. Blake!

I’m ready!!!

Amazing video! Thank you!

Very good pastor! I needed this!

Thanks again for another awesome lesson.

Thanks for the prayer!

Thank you Pastor for that message!!

What a beautiful soul!

I am glad I caught this session live.

Great message Pastor!

Yes your pain is not personal, a lot of times it's to help someone else

Another great teaching. Thank you so much. I will listen to this one many times as I do so many others. God Bless you and yours and all listening.

Wow! Look at you on the news & everything. Congrats!!!!!

Great word!

Amen! This was amazing

Thank you for this video. It was a blessing.

Thank you so much for that message. I needed it today. 🙏🙏🙏

Thank you so much.

Awesome thank you for your ministry

Thank you Thank you Thank you so Much Pastor ❤

Awesome teaching. Thank you.

This is so good, I needed to hear this. Thank you.

I love message. Thank you Bishop.

Thank you I need this series , just watched the latest one.

Thank you Bishop, what a blessing your words deliver!

Thank you Pastor!!🙏🙏🙏

Beautiful message ❤️

Thank you Pastor!

Great message. I came in towards the end. Will watch the replay

Good Word Pastor Blake's...Good Word!!!!!

Anointed one you are Pastor

Once again ive been blessed!

Absolutely a healing ministry much needed.🙌🏾💃🏾

Thanks it's my first time watching you..

Thank you for the confirmation Paster, Mzy God bless ypu.

Thank u for all that u do❤

Thank you Bishop, this has resonated in my soul. God Bless you.

Thanks so much Pastor RC Blakes for this video. Forgiveness is the doorway for true recovery. I know in my own experiences I did experience healing until I chose to forgive those who hurt me even from my childhood and learn to help hurting souls. Thanks for your wisdom nuggets in this episode.

This was an Awesome word!!!

Wlonderful sermon. Touched my heart. Thank you Pastor Blake

You are a beautiful human being to care so much and share so much fatherly advice that I've never heard before I wish I had all of this stuff before I would go through so much abuse that I have had in my life I was abused very badly in my twenties and after that it followed through all of my relationships or used up after I was share everything and then they go off and be with someone else after you share your and give so much of yourself did they go and share everything with someone else or is someone who's married who you should never be with if they're married or they're too young too broke or just too old I thank you for all that you do to keep me inspired God bless you

Thank you Pastor! Much love from New Orleans.❤❤❤

Good morning Pastor. As of last week, I found one of your videos on Narcissist. I know in my heart the Lord guided me to you at this very time for a reason. I wrestled with this relationship for 6 years. I gave all I had, lost family over it, went through some awful emotional stress/confusion/pain. Searching the Bible, watching videos on NPD, watching sermons, etc., praying for answers and trying to understand what the hold on me was. I have never come across your videos until last week. I found 2 Timothy years ago, but never heard anyone speak on it, and relate it to a Narc, until I saw your video last week. That video, after all these years, was meant for me personally. I always wrestled with leaving, but felt obligated. As if he needed me to love him and fix him. I knew I needed to leave, I knew it was not from God, but that hold on me was real. Your videos were sent to me from God, because like I said, I have searched and searched for Biblical answers about this relationship, but could not find any, until I know that I know, God allowed your videos to come through to me last week. On Saturday morning, Mar 2nd, five simple words came out of my mouth to the Narc, at a local Lowe's Hardware Store. "I can't do this anymore." This time I meant it. This time, I didn't say it in hopes he would change. This time, I was sick and tired, of being sick and tired. God bless you, and know that your work is helping. I have no one here that I can talk to about this, so if you would, please remember me in your prayers. Thank you again for allowing God to use you! I pray for all people who have gone through anything similar to this matter (the victim and the Narc). God knows all of our hearts. Praise be to God, forever and always!

TRUTH BE TOLD! ...Thank You Pastor. -. Excellent message Shalom 📖

Another nice video 😘

He is on point!!!! A man murdered my mom and walking around holding that in my heart was not what God wanted me to do. Healing is when you let it go and let GOD handle it! HE WILL TOTALLY HANDLE IT. Move on

Thank you Bishop Amen🙏

Every single word is so accurate and comforting. God bless @rcblakes🙏🏼

This is really terrific. Thank you, Bishop Blakes.

Thank you Pastor I appreciate this

Amen Thank Jesus and You awesome message to God be the Glory🙏🙏🙏

I appreciate YOU! It has really helped ME! My healing is in motion, and I’m thankful for IT!

Waiting so I can hear it and share it

I love your definiton of forgiveness. Letting me go !!!

Thanks!

Thank you Pastor Blakes! Beautiful message, I am going through this right now. Appreciate you!

Thank you.

As for “you need to live.” This is the part I needed 👏🏽

THANKYOU!!

Perfect analogy about the needle getting stuck on the album!! Get up to move it forward!! Love it!!

Such a blessed message. I thank God for you. Keep walking on God's Grace.

This is good.

Great words I will use it. And always remember what you said. Thank you so much. May GOD bless us all.

Thank u so much inspiration ❤️