A few other important things: 1. Do you share views on politics and/or religion? This is very important. I don't care how big her booty is, if she's a Trump supporter and you're a liberal, there's lots of problems on the horizon. If you're agnostic and she's a Catholic, how will you raise your kids? In the new romance phase this seems like something you can get passed, but after 15-20 years it becomes one of the key points in your marriage. 2. How does she respond to the bad times? She may be pretty and smart, with her own career and everything. But how does she act when your mom is dying of cancer? Is she a rider? Who holds you and your family down, and empathizes with your pain? Or does she become a selfish, emotionally unavailable asshole? Furthermore, this is a two way street, are YOU ready to be there for her during bad times? Because there will be plenty. 3. Do you share the same approach towards money? Bro, the #1 cause of divorce is money. Are you a big spender and she's a tightwad? Do you wanna be with someone who spends all your hard earned dough? Money kills couples. Make sure you agree on an approach to it, because that's all marriage is: bills and taxes.
@mariapazm.74913 жыл бұрын
this is so so so true!
@babyc.30152 жыл бұрын
Don't get married without having financial literacy. Plain n simple
@leamontoweh7153 жыл бұрын
5. Be attracted to things that are more than physical. 4. Share similar interests. 3. She should balance you out. 2. Ability to communicate 1. She's got her own things
@cristiansmistad18238 жыл бұрын
"She's got her own thing, that's why I love her."
@cristiansmistad18237 жыл бұрын
genius.com/Ne-yo-miss-independent-lyrics That should suffice.
@BigMike_RTTV4 жыл бұрын
In all my 36 years of life I’ve never heard a dude say “Damn she got a nice neck” 😂
@QueenChastity3 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@amberfrazier40233 жыл бұрын
Lol
@nieshabrooks10383 жыл бұрын
😂
@EarthQueen-11113 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@loulousworld923 жыл бұрын
Not necessarily a thick neck Lool but some people are attracted to a slender long neck or collarbones.
@aureliusrusticus23208 жыл бұрын
Mac is exactly the kind of positive influence the black community needs
@letsgetmade8 жыл бұрын
+Dane Rusticus That's huge man 👍🏽😎
@aureliusrusticus23208 жыл бұрын
+LETSGETMADETV -- I'm sincere about it, Mac. Too few good role models like you in the black community
@latebloomer1778 жыл бұрын
You're on point with that one.
@BANE7608 жыл бұрын
True ,I've never met a black person like this so positive so encouraging so motivated . The ones I've met wana jack me , fuck my gf , and wana beat me up I don't even know them wtf
@aureliusrusticus23208 жыл бұрын
***** -- If the majority of black men had values, virtues, and ambitions like Mac, there would honestly be no need for a "black lives matter" movement.
@jevonjackson42365 жыл бұрын
Five things you want in a woman that's wife material. 5. Drive 4. Focus 3. Creative 2. Honest 1. Understanding
@danjones17348 жыл бұрын
boyz are born. But men are made! 👌 Spot on Mac 👌
@geraldinedaquila92884 жыл бұрын
The way this guy talks makes him so handsome. 😂 love your advises man.
@JesUs-qn1on7 жыл бұрын
Having a clean Girlfriend, go to her room check out her house, her car make sure it's clean, make sure she can cook, myself can cook btw. Someone that has self control.
@galenbattlejr8 жыл бұрын
I'm speechless as to how important this video is right now. keep up the great work man. #LetsGetMade
@CoreyEwings8 жыл бұрын
TIDAL UH DIS EMAYLE : IS SHE WIFEY MATERIAL.
@Trey_W5 жыл бұрын
I know this girl and I've known her for years. I feel like she’s wife material. She’s got a decent figure and a grounded personality. She’s the only girl in life I feel like I can trust. She’s not a social media whore at all, surprisingly. That’s saying something because I’m very analytical and pessimistic about women in general. She’s just different. She’s about her work and her money, I know that. The only gripes I have about her are that when I’m hanging out with her in public, I feel she’s awkward sometimes. Almost geeky? She tends to dress like a tomboy too. She’s cute and a nice figure mind you, but I feel like I want her to dress more feminine, even though she acts pretty feminine. The fact that these are issues stopping me from “wifing” her means I still have a lot of immaturity in me. Smh. I keep her close tho, I have to.
@goddessglow69962 жыл бұрын
Clothes you can change personality is forever
@justiceethik6642 жыл бұрын
So tell us ?? Did you marry her ??
@necilya2 жыл бұрын
So what did you decided it’s been 3 years. I would love an update.
@necilya2 жыл бұрын
@@justiceethik664 haha. I was wondering the same thing.
@SaimuKala8 жыл бұрын
this type of video format suits you perfectly, looking forward to the next one!
@apple_cider12078 жыл бұрын
100%
@persistall8 жыл бұрын
Yo Mac you right on point with this advice brotha! 13 years married and those 5 things are still relevant! This vid needs to go viral
@dariusbradford48998 жыл бұрын
Mac's editing is dope as hell. And super dope advice even tho im only 18 lol its cool to know this for the future 💯
@WhoIsKe8 жыл бұрын
"Even though" means both lil homie. Even though you're 18 doesn't change the fact that you could've found wifey material 2 days ago. Love sees no age..... Unless you're R.Kelly
@WhoIsKe8 жыл бұрын
*means nothing
@Makerbreake5 жыл бұрын
Your 20 now?
@debrajray15854 жыл бұрын
@@Makerbreake if he's alive :/
@NicoVersace8 жыл бұрын
Dope and knowledgeable video, keep killing it brotha!
@TrunxKraft30008 жыл бұрын
Very nice concept and delivery. Clean cut and informative.
@music_and_so_much_mo3188 жыл бұрын
I love this video. Mature and makes logical sense. So many folks are missing out on meeting their other whole...... (notice that I didn't say "half")
@ashyunus61503 жыл бұрын
Yes, I agreed with number 5. A real woman knows how to take care of herself, how to carry herself, her posture, anything. Thank you
@carmnmnmn8 жыл бұрын
You're the man Mac! So real and down to earth.
@beastb838 жыл бұрын
There are neck guys?
@reignslifecoaching6 жыл бұрын
LoL 😂 yes I knew one personally ... I wore turtlenecks all the time just to kiss him off 😉
@pauldjdundas6 жыл бұрын
🤣😂🤔 I dont even knowv
@BigMike_RTTV4 жыл бұрын
beastb83 That’s what I said 😂
@viviennedunbar33743 жыл бұрын
There is absolutely NOTHING that some guy can't make a fetish out of.
@michelmjohn7 жыл бұрын
You left out the "most important quality" - "true godliness" (this also applies to: "Ways to know if HE is HUSBAND MATERIAL).
@shujaaamali76965 жыл бұрын
Amen
@theo24398 жыл бұрын
The boy Mac never ceases to amaze me man. I can definitely get hip to BESTMANMADE videos. Keep striving brother! Your time is coming!
@letsgetmade8 жыл бұрын
+Theo Winfield 🙌🏽💯😎
@iamyoungblackman64218 жыл бұрын
The Windsor tie. I see you, Mr. Mac for President 2020.
@GurkoKurdo8 жыл бұрын
mac you should've emailed the hodgetwins for this type of advice. they will give you some good clean advice about this problem. unlicensed advice, but professional GOOD CLEAN ADVICE
@apple_cider12078 жыл бұрын
it definitely won't be clean .... haha .. with the creampies and busting all All Kinds of nuts activity goin (etc)
@theo24398 жыл бұрын
lmfao W
@HardPlay018 жыл бұрын
unlicensed, unsercumsized professional advice 😂
@Bobblartt8 жыл бұрын
Uncircumcised
@erindoriah8 жыл бұрын
W! but they would have told him, say whateva the fuck you wanna say!
@prekcoaching85248 жыл бұрын
Keep giving them what they NEED Mac. Great thumbnail too. God bless.
@samwang21098 жыл бұрын
Aye. Nice video man! Keep it coming to us! We appreciate it!
@jasonrobison67118 жыл бұрын
Keep these kind of videos coming, we love you Mac!
@gaillewis54726 жыл бұрын
A future spouse would say that they are concerned about your sleep apnea and the secondary health concerns that could follow and find you a specialists. There would be no back and forth about what you couldn't stand about each other. Issues would be brought up tactfully as they happen and not stored up as ammunition. A spouse corrects and advises with love and support.
@blubrindl8 жыл бұрын
no thuggin or y'all gone get arrested together LMAO. good information Tho Mac.
@Cobra74148 жыл бұрын
Good vid Mac. This is a good look for you keep them coming.
@Listening_2_Still_Small_Voice8 жыл бұрын
Excellent lifestyle video Mac! I married my hubby at 26 and we are still in love and a team now at 10 years in. This video is the truth.
@bronsonc31938 жыл бұрын
one of the best quotes I've heard in a while "it might not be what you want but it's definitely what you need" thanks mac
@IISuperLove8 жыл бұрын
This is better than TGIM. You get into the details and the motivation and reasons behind things. This is amazing.
@apple_cider12078 жыл бұрын
preach brutha ... no one can touch you here. this is your domain to reign ! big up
@AdamsSanctum8 жыл бұрын
love this style of video, keep it up ;)
@oppermanfitness8 жыл бұрын
Mac giving out that nice clean unlicensed professional advice.
@god5636167 жыл бұрын
what about the spiritual connection?? I was sure that was number one
@amberfrazier40233 жыл бұрын
Sad only a few likes....
@misselle14303 жыл бұрын
Not everyone believes in that so it shouldn't be pushed to people
@PRIM3GFX8 жыл бұрын
Much love Mac! Was a pleasure meeting you ! Love the content! Keep making moves... much Love !
@tyfabz8 жыл бұрын
Mac man out here passing knowledge yo. "Boys are Born, Men are Made". Great stuff.
@KanyekiKamawe8 жыл бұрын
I see you with the subliminal mini logo in the center at 3:44 lol! That's a Mac attack!
@DFluent8 жыл бұрын
gosh his content is so professional and crisp gosh i just want his skills
@PickUps4You8 жыл бұрын
Yo man this is real clean
@broadwayblack57828 жыл бұрын
Damn Mac this was great keep these videos coming
@mikepeifer65028 жыл бұрын
One of your best videos ever Mac!! Editing and all was on point!!! Keep it up homie!
@NP_Omar8 жыл бұрын
This gave me life bro. You gotta keep stuff like this coming and i will keep sharing it
@letsgetmade8 жыл бұрын
+Omar Saunders You too cool, homie! Much thanks!
@NaKiriAi8 жыл бұрын
this video got so much energy
@bzoluvbugcavaness13138 жыл бұрын
Mac, Brother as always...Ur on point! Getting ready to re-post this in my fb Group! Continued success! Beez!
@Faaade_8 жыл бұрын
Great advice : ) and I like that a lot of the list are things relating to character
@letsgetmade8 жыл бұрын
+EclecticFlavor. Thanks homie! Far too many people stop at the surface. Character keeps interest - no matter what the relationship is. Thanks for commenting as always 😎🙏🏽
@Faaade_8 жыл бұрын
LETSGETMADETV you're welcome! I always love the music selection..and I really like the direction your channel's going in......would you ever have your wife on ?(if thats not her thing I understand too) anywho...thank you!
@jjrgideluxe87388 жыл бұрын
+EclecticFlavor. People get so hype over responses smh 😑
@brota54918 жыл бұрын
Good vídeo bro good edit! Love from Portugal!! Sory for the bad english
@CorbinConnection8 жыл бұрын
loved it Mac , the little animated characters made it pop . strong sound advice as usual.
@Bert03118 жыл бұрын
Yo Mac, beautiful video my man, nice presentation and tips, keep it up 👍🏼
@michaelclarkva8 жыл бұрын
This was "dope" & " on point" Mac, thanks again my brother.:-)
@Sp3llbind3r058 жыл бұрын
Hey Mac, Production quality is awesome brah. Just one thought you might want to consider is the echo unless you wanted it for the effect idk. Anyways nice vid :D
@xaviermccloud45867 жыл бұрын
#5 is as important as #3. #4 don't really matter. #3 is what really matters for a long relationship. #2 is a must. #1 Is beneficial like he said, because if not, lots of arguments.
@Fatality_23138 жыл бұрын
Good shit Mac. Can't wait til the next one.
@tnm09818 жыл бұрын
this is all so correct and you made it easy for the mid 20's to 30 year old crowd understand. Thanks and much love!!
@tenchu0068 жыл бұрын
You keep doing what you're doing Mac, you are a truly great human being, I feel blessed that you exist and I hope that there are many more people like you in this world and any other out there
@ChriisJohnsonTV8 жыл бұрын
Some very nice tips. Editing crazy!
@trevor90668 жыл бұрын
Your last point is the most important one, your partner HAS to be doing their own thing.
@juangolf14638 жыл бұрын
Good Stuff!! Looking forward to this series!
@AleksandarIvanov698 жыл бұрын
Great video dude! Keep shit like this up, it is dope!
@russlleno3 жыл бұрын
00:45 so sorry but I'm rolling lol so funny 😂🤣🤣😂
@natedogfresh8 жыл бұрын
That was an excellent video from the legend! It was funny, positive, natural, and real. It was so good, I will certainly watch this again soon. 10/10
@SouthernSweetTee8 жыл бұрын
Mac!!!! You told the absolute truth in this video. That is the realest things thing I have heard in a long time. Good look #twothumbsup
@TheMr2face8 жыл бұрын
Great vid I feel communication is the most important thing
@theomeagman1188 жыл бұрын
Entertaining and insightful keep it up man
@katieydiddkatieydidd72697 жыл бұрын
I love this! Great advice, Mac. All men and women need to see this vid.
@diamondunicorn24217 жыл бұрын
Great points. But i strongly believe opposites attract. So if a couple has the same interests all the time. ...when do they give each other space? Or time to develop or enjoy their separate likes.
@mr.awesome15768 жыл бұрын
I really like watching Mac's videos because he puts so much time into his editing to make each video more entertaining. Something rare on KZfaq, especially in vlogs. Keep it up.
@monit49762 жыл бұрын
Love the comedic flare. I hear you, " boys are born, men are made" OK, alright ! Shalom.
@dudleygt33277 жыл бұрын
lol never tell a girl you dont like her snoring its out of her control but yeah just dont guys cause she'll give you a reality check lol
@shardeepeters39498 жыл бұрын
Impressive! Loved the animation and points. Two thumbs up !
@DominatorKillz8 жыл бұрын
That was some good, clean and professional advice you just gave us Mac! keep it going bro! 👍
@thensaidJacob2 жыл бұрын
Man said y’all gonna end up arrested together 🤣
@StushQ8 жыл бұрын
When Mac said "it's definitely what you need" I was waiting for him to bring it back with the "yeahhhh"
@HEXSTAR6668 жыл бұрын
Mac out here looking clean AF! And after watching this, I am thinking twice about a couple women im talking to. damn lol
@PlatinumandWood8 жыл бұрын
I honestly love these type of videos keep these videos coming Mac. 👍🏽
@FollowTheSunDown7 жыл бұрын
Im a thug my girl a nurse id say thats balance
@kevinwilkes63878 жыл бұрын
Classic, message , Mack the legend, nice principles of wifey material, these are the 101 lessons of the master class intro , keep them coming, so many topics to cover . I look forward to your next lesson , thank you for the tips of upscale game . Lets Get Made
@corneliapotts57918 жыл бұрын
New format and I like it!
@mic_g07_1448 жыл бұрын
Hey Mac, Well said Also wondering what kind of watch are you wearing? I'm diggin the watch bro!!!
@peterquil62118 жыл бұрын
Awesome! cant wait for something more like this!
@MrNixtera8 жыл бұрын
Keep those videos coming Mac, good job!
@Rikuphi8 жыл бұрын
Spot on! So much of this is common sense, but dudes really be forgetting and getting caught up in the superficial!
@Leonytis8 жыл бұрын
i like dis mac!!! love from the southern hemisphere my bro
@Commander_Krill8 жыл бұрын
You a certified g, I like dis editing dude 👍🏽
@pleadship7 жыл бұрын
The late Heavy D. Sang that song, We got our own thing. This reminds me of that
@meatbxndit35812 жыл бұрын
My fiancé and I are total opposites when it comes to balancing eachother out. He’s the chill guy that’s laid back and I’m the crazy outgoing weirdo. He snores and at first i couldn’t sleep the first few times but I found it comforting after a while.
@ramo6508 жыл бұрын
Mac make series about postivity please
@IDreamOfLifting8 жыл бұрын
Editing is sick!! Invest in a lapel mic or rode shotgun mic tho man. Looking forward to seeing more content like this
@cubswincubswinao8 жыл бұрын
I kind of like the echo it makes the video feel more serious and direct. kind of like its being said twice.
@rebeccawhite6202 Жыл бұрын
I love seeing channels like this that help men reach their best potential!
@MiahDougie18 жыл бұрын
Good points but as a relationship gradually evolves characteristics can change too. It takes non stop work till death do us apart eh!
@josephllinas31418 жыл бұрын
Mac I see you like my Internet big brother. Haha, keep it up big homie.
@TheManWithNoName0058 жыл бұрын
Damn Mac, I'm loving these wise words from a man that's made. Keep it up.
@darlenecarruthers-shelton8373 жыл бұрын
Boys are born, Men are made. Relationship with each other grows. All 5 things that is a wife material
@robinmanalang33378 жыл бұрын
#3!!! Favorite point!!
@techbrah99438 жыл бұрын
love this style of vid, you presented so naturally
@CoachSourPatch8 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one who knows why some guys would like a "nice long neck." 🤔 Innuendo! 😂😭