Derrick, thank you for not describing a woman who is wife material as someone who cooks and cleans but rather someone who puts effort into making the relationship a success.
@a.alexander92217 жыл бұрын
Omphile Moerane True that. That's a good point
@SincerePresence6 жыл бұрын
Omphile Moerane Yes!!
@missa48625 жыл бұрын
@TheHolyGhost 🤣🤣🤣
@Brown_Sugar115 жыл бұрын
Omphile Moerane exactly
@mrsjusttobeme15 жыл бұрын
Omphile Moerane AMEN! Cause when/if the sickness hits in marriage, cooking and cleaning alone ain’t gonna cut it.
@GratefulAlwayz855 жыл бұрын
My motto is when my man isn’t around I represent him, when I’m not around he represents me. Now if we live by this we’ll be A-ok 👌🏾
@aprilmarshall17584 жыл бұрын
Except not not under the ok symbol. Sounds good otherwise 🙌
@abarzua21able4 жыл бұрын
Yup. I always tell my husband “I respect u more, behind your back”
@tamikajanzen94554 жыл бұрын
Exactly I do this too
@Macdad844 жыл бұрын
Damn where you at? I always get women how are angry and victims of life.
@weareuniqueforareason75034 жыл бұрын
Love this ❤
@mercytimothy55655 жыл бұрын
wife material is a woman that'll walk away from a relationship even if she still loves you when she realises there's no more respect/trust/
@GozieZilla5 жыл бұрын
Why do women always talk about ending relationships irrespective of the topic? No wonder divorce rates are high
@SeanandJoeleen5 жыл бұрын
How is that wife material? Sound like thats just commom sense to me, nothing to do with "wife material"
@stoogie3755 жыл бұрын
I can guarantee you guys that when a woman gets to the point of initiating divorce, she more than likely already tried everything there is out there.... A lot of men just don't want to admit or fix when anything is wrong.
@bettycooper93835 жыл бұрын
Mercy Timothy I did that I walked 😢💔
@realtalk13105 жыл бұрын
What you just said made no sense at all.
@kassiel.95125 жыл бұрын
1. She’s an asset. 2. In an argument she knows how to control her tongue, she has tact. She knows how to come to you with respect. Comes to you like an adult, Seeks to build you up. She’s not cussing you out and tearing you down. 3. Knows how to conduct herself even when she’s not around you. 4. She gives 100% of her loyalty. If the relationship is toxic, she will also walk away.
@tonywasikhongo75105 жыл бұрын
This is a mythical being
@joshuachampion96814 жыл бұрын
Tone Waf 💀💀💀 seems like it huh? That’s why I’m just patiently waiting for one to come along. Until then, I’m steady building/adding to my foundation💯
@kristinadj10184 жыл бұрын
Joshua Champion Im here baby 🤷🏻♀️
@joshuachampion96814 жыл бұрын
X X girl you prolly a 1000 miles away talkin bout I’m here baby🤦🏾♂️
@kristinadj10184 жыл бұрын
Joshua Champion probs more than that but okay baby 😢
@mstacolebabi34247 жыл бұрын
We need to clone this man a million times
@dmvtcs6 жыл бұрын
lol yes please! and sen me 1 lol
@profilingmanipulation6 жыл бұрын
Tacole Ellison Forward some on to the UK too!
@alleycatgillis19646 жыл бұрын
Tacole Ellison haha!! Dude, there are millions of these guys oit there....where you lookin?
@laimalisovska64856 жыл бұрын
I got acces to a lab ;)
@pernia136 жыл бұрын
A BILLION TIMES !!!!!!! 😉
@Aariyan0967 жыл бұрын
When your ego gets a little boosted as you watch his videos because you need it 😂💪🏾💪🏾❤️🎉
@arbiybiya62016 жыл бұрын
Aariyan096 , Yeah indeed.
@lillysegura82396 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@prodigaldaughter59786 жыл бұрын
Girl yes lol
@bluediamond48956 жыл бұрын
Aariyan096 he is so good
@tessalogan5866 жыл бұрын
Boom
@meechiemishae46425 жыл бұрын
Somebody done taught this young man!!!👏👏👏👏👏
@maryannmjones60214 жыл бұрын
Done taught this young man.
@Sonotbearface3 жыл бұрын
Taught him well huh
@SnowFoxParty6 жыл бұрын
When you wifey material but you still single 😅😅
@CaliSlots7775 жыл бұрын
TheSnowFoxParty I hear you.
@andreafoxx77225 жыл бұрын
YUP
@ilyzm88645 жыл бұрын
Same
@jenifherzavala20005 жыл бұрын
Or when you think your wife material. But 🤭
@shadynail47235 жыл бұрын
Then you're not wife material
@RubieDesignsWebConsulting7 жыл бұрын
A wife wants to bless her husband.She also helps her husband purpose grow. She is ready to maintain peace. Most of all she respects her relationship.
@myanimills63667 жыл бұрын
Kassandra Queen truer words have never been spoken. A true woman and wife will stimulate her mans mind and feed his soul
@queenriri93937 жыл бұрын
Kassandra Queen, very well said!👏
@n8vscience8426 жыл бұрын
I wish, my husband had treated me life his wife when he could. This hurts watching because I am that wofe, currently and I married..a person who didn't know how to be a husband. I have a feeling I'll get an apology some Time when I'm doing good and he's in a new bad relationship
@robconway51596 жыл бұрын
Come here girl
@erikatevis6 жыл бұрын
Kassandra Queen yes ma'am
@firstladyallen6847 жыл бұрын
The bible states when a man finds a wife he finds a good thing!! So how do a man find a good thing? He must seek Father in Heaven FIRST to guide him😇
@shamiajohnson99547 жыл бұрын
Teresa Allen amen
@shpwanwatson98617 жыл бұрын
AMEN!
@shaunilashaye19767 жыл бұрын
Very True!
@keshkeshdoesit2577 жыл бұрын
Teresa Allen yessssssssss
@ShiquitaT7 жыл бұрын
Amen
@mahaalotaibi83525 жыл бұрын
She is a wife when you see mother qualities in her: she is loving, nurturing, kind and gentle. She is clean and supports her husband. She enjoys taking care of others.
@danapetrova26414 жыл бұрын
Exactly. It's the same for men and women, just a different kind. Women should be the typical feminine nurturer, care giver. Men should take care of a woman in the way of being financially stable, showing appreciation, providing safety.
@91Definite4 жыл бұрын
What if she isn’t kind? And more of rough around the edges?
@Betty_Monroe4 жыл бұрын
Wife material loves your kids just as their own lbvvs
@AM-ul7hy4 жыл бұрын
Betty Monroe lol why u helping men? I don’t see men saying a husband material is a man who would love kids that aren’t his as his own lmao
@AM-ul7hy4 жыл бұрын
Betty Monroe u can’t force love lmao silly baby momma
@samanidonn35365 жыл бұрын
Yes. Wife material will leave you if there's no more trust and respect. Thanks for telling the truth on that. People need to know.
@cocochanel19457 жыл бұрын
What bothers me. is I see a lot of guys let down wife material and try to change a bad b*tch into a wife Then got the nerve to go on social media and say they want a queen..Men are just confusing to the point I don't think they really want to be husbands,but want the benefit
@rtlad30667 жыл бұрын
You're so right. I'm starting to see that many males love drama. They talk a good game about needing a good woman, but when they get one, they start chasing some mean ass women...and most of the time these crazy ass women are not cuter nor have more to offer, just drama.
@donnaevans78747 жыл бұрын
coco chanel Amen.
@cleovintora597 жыл бұрын
coco chanel those " men" you at referring to are boys not men ;) that's why they confused
@mikeandmars23455 жыл бұрын
u right
@solisluv5 жыл бұрын
coco chanel they’re not confused my sister, they just don’t know how to know a good woman, that’s all. It takes a man that has had a strong mother figure in their lives to recognize and be with a wife material!
@MsHappy-xz2px6 жыл бұрын
PROVERBS 31:12 SHE WILL DO HIM GOOD & NOT EVIL. ALL THE DAYS OF HER LIFE!!!! WIFE MATERIAL IS NOT LOOKING, SHE'S PREPARING!!! PROVERBS 31.
@bernardvining41575 жыл бұрын
@@Jambuc829 everything in the bible is true but no woman have them characteristics 💯💯
@miamidolphinsdiehardfan1095 жыл бұрын
@@bernardvining4157 i always try to figure out why it says god made females for men (mate) but i dont have one i cant date a dog cat horse only human (females) the bible might be wrong im single
@feruneeziahr76515 жыл бұрын
janelle henderson 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️❤️❤️
@deepdarkcocoa79565 жыл бұрын
Come on somebody!!!
@silverink18245 жыл бұрын
I forgot that existed like literally that part of Proverbs I forgot that existed at all makes me wonder actually read that part of the book so I can look into myself and make sure I present myself in this manner of like being a strong and wife material type of woman for wedding ready for a relationship after I finished healing
@ItsTimeToo5 жыл бұрын
I feel like someone yelled at him about a cereal box...that sounded like personal experience lol
@SKATEWOODS5 жыл бұрын
Lmaoooo Right !!! 😂😂😂
@JalapenoDNA4 жыл бұрын
Shits funny though lol
@2realalways...3 жыл бұрын
Hell yeah
@jfyne033 жыл бұрын
It sure was personal experience 😂
@dinalinda78055 жыл бұрын
Is there anyone watching this in 2019?
@leticiaascencio16645 жыл бұрын
I just did 👌 posted a comment too.
@tinamomodu20315 жыл бұрын
Dina Linda yes girl
@InLoveWithaPaladin5 жыл бұрын
Me ...on my playlist
@danielpena21364 жыл бұрын
Yup
@chasitybuckley1814 жыл бұрын
I don't even know how I got here sis. 😂 I'm binge watching now...
@tinaikujegbe91897 жыл бұрын
I hear you.. Am a good woman, but after listening to you, I am going to work on my self to be a better woman. Thanks.
@brittneyberry49346 жыл бұрын
Tina Ikujegbe we'll get there sis
@heavenishere4166 жыл бұрын
Same.
@REDKNOTDREAD6 жыл бұрын
Tina we cando it together!
@angelstarfire5 жыл бұрын
I belive in you! (*^* 👍)
@thequeen13995 жыл бұрын
We all got things to work on. Humility uplifts, society teaches otherwise
@tnwilliams527 жыл бұрын
when you said wifey material will leave if the man doesn't meet that bar that was set that was the icing on the cake. real shit man i had to leave someone that i have known for 15+ years bc he ended up being disrespectful and verbally abusive. no matter how good i was to that man and how much i loved him, and the fact that we have a son i still left and i am enjoying the peace ;)
@quilaquila54627 жыл бұрын
tnwilliams52 good for you
@omphilemoerane25697 жыл бұрын
tnwilliams52 I feel you.There really is nothing better than having peace of mind. Men can bring so much drama to ones life. And good on you for realising your worth and that you can do so much better by yourself.
@tnwilliams527 жыл бұрын
Omphile Moerane yes honey nothing better than being alone and at peace...some people are stuck "in love" but it takes mucy more than that! 2 weeks after he left my house he moved in with another woman lol that was my confirmation right there!!
@TheKyraBeasley7 жыл бұрын
tnwilliams52 I'm happy that you made the decision to love yourself and put your worth first. Certain women use their children as an excuse, which is understandable. However, there is a such thing as being too disrespected and knowing when to leave . I'm happy for you 💞
@kvetinkakvetinka39777 жыл бұрын
tnwilliams52 did the same and have a son too , it is tough one !
@WTHshedoingnow5 жыл бұрын
"Wife material is a woman that'll walk away from a relationship even if she still loves you when she realizes there's no more respect" - I busted out crying. Just found your channel today. You're funny, entertaining, and keep it real. Thanks for keeping me company on a Friday night!
@annameaf40173 жыл бұрын
Lol. Just rewatched this and couldn’t help but laugh that I still never looked up black China and rob to see what was going on.
@markeetawins7 жыл бұрын
Maturity across the board!
@allim.8307 жыл бұрын
I love This! I just hate when a man expects wife material treatment before ever becoming exclusive or official
@sugarbum997 жыл бұрын
alli e get away from those type because they'll just play the part and at some point will take what you have given them and run with it!
@rashadbey3596 жыл бұрын
alli e gotta test the goods...
@Christian_Girl1206 жыл бұрын
alli e That's when you walk.
@leahjames68706 жыл бұрын
alli e Wife material treatment??? You shouldn't be playing a "wife" to someone who you're not a wife to.
@lr44396 жыл бұрын
alli e it makes sense, we have to prove our worth. We are an investment for them as well.
@nanaanan47316 жыл бұрын
You're "on point" with the "wife material." Yep. Loyal, dedicated, setting and enforcing clear boundaries, treating you well, working on the relationship AND will leave you if you're perpetually neglecting her, not treating her well, cheating on her, the relationship has become unhealthy and you're not working on it...even if she still loves you. Why? Because wife material wants a healthy committed romantic relationship, not a fiasco.
@tamikajanzen94554 жыл бұрын
This is why i walked away from my 10yrs of marriage we have 3 kids but. He was entering other females and not helping anymore in the house and stopped making me feel special as his wife. So I dated after end up with 2 relationship that i left cause they was toxic and not husband material. My man I am with is husband material he shows me this by his words and actions
@dominiqueannegonzales78914 жыл бұрын
bravo on this one
@Jennily904 жыл бұрын
Im happy I watched this. I am wife material, my Bf of 3 years cheated on me... I let him go, still hurts but I deserve better.
@Dragonfly_magictarot3 жыл бұрын
Im sorry he was so insecure he hurt you in the process. Thats his loss sis. Keep your chin up and good for you moving forward.
@nimalperera9483 жыл бұрын
Maybe you were boring even though you were good. Probably you weren't open to certain sexual activities and he found someone who can provide him that
@Jennily903 жыл бұрын
@@nimalperera948 No, he was the boring one. I'm tired of people judging me saying it was my fault. No, it wasn't. I know it wasnt
@nimalperera9483 жыл бұрын
@@Jennily90 Any guy would leave you if they aren't sexually happy with you. Girls are first emotionally attracted then slowly the physical attractiveness increases when they get closer to the guy emotionally. It's the opposite for a guy. A guy is physically attracted first and then gets emotionally attracted when getting to know the girl more. A girl would leave a guy if he is only physically attracted to her and doesn't show her love and care. A guy would leave a girl of she's only emotionally attracted to him and doesn't want try out different intimate or sexual attractivities or fantasies. Both the girl and boy needs to understand each others likes and kinks and give it to them when they ask as and act of love. If you don't do that and he breaks up with you cause he found someone else that would provide him that then it's your fault and you need to take the blame and improve before you get to your next relationship. If he left because he wasn't serious and only wanted a temporary pleasure with you then it's his fault. He would find a girl that will give him that.
@313dreamin97 жыл бұрын
I know my girl is wifey material. During the first real talk conversation we had while dating, I told her I was looking for a queen, not a self described queen that behaved like a spoiled princess. She looked me in my eyes and said "Im a queen in training." I impulsively grinned and hugged her dread-headed ass. 😊
@brittneyberry49346 жыл бұрын
Dizzy Day congratulations bro...stay happy...hope you two make it to the top. 😁
@travismbachu48466 жыл бұрын
They broke up?
@madamsophia15036 жыл бұрын
Are you still with your queen?
@mackgrant26285 жыл бұрын
That was dope bro
@jasminejama91615 жыл бұрын
Electronic Whiteboard lmao first thing comes my mind
@lilredsensei207 жыл бұрын
I am starting to really like this guy's videos now. At first, I was playing devil's advocate big time and making Derrick to be a man basher. But now, I truly see the value in his videos. When I watch them it makes me appreciate my girlfriend more and see that I can be at peace of mind if I show her through my actions and patterns that I love her and want to grow with her. Keep up the great work!
@LylieRandale7 жыл бұрын
Josh McIntosh Good Im proud of you that you search for good value. Bravo and God bless your relationship
@myanimills63667 жыл бұрын
Josh McIntosh - I commend you! I pray that there are more men such as yourself that see the value in Derricks videos and can truly appreciate the content and growth in them, single or in a relationship it's all appreciated.
@myanimills63667 жыл бұрын
Dark Caesar well of course we know that men and women can be equally trifling, however they can also be equally incredible, mature, trustworthy, and the best absolute version of themselves. I think Lyfe Jennings said it best when he wrote, "Be the person you want to find, don't be a nickel out here looking for a dime". That always resonated with me and that is how I handle myself.
@myanimills63667 жыл бұрын
The Obsidian Media Network 2 - For me personally I don't think that you have to be married in order to know what should be already be in place in order to make a marriage. This is what he feels and these are the thoughts that have been instilled in him. And not for nothing, he hits a lot of these issues dead on. DJ isn't saying anything wrong. He advocates for both men and women. This man is the truth! But again he does say that this is how he feels. And there are tons of people that consign his authenticity and realness. Even in this post, he is absolutely right!
@LylieRandale7 жыл бұрын
Myani Mills sorry but i only believe in marriage. I dont date for fun and to pass my time
@karrighanofcourse24485 жыл бұрын
Needed to hear that cause my mouth can get reckless when I’m mad. But I want a husband one day so ima chill. Lol fr
@USrifles5 жыл бұрын
She's definitely wife material, all I can say is that I'm in love!
@waleed-un3wk5 жыл бұрын
Update if yall get married
@Sugi19717 жыл бұрын
That's right . That exactly what wife material is about . We are about Boundaries, standards , loyalty and respect .
@lioness84565 жыл бұрын
BOOM!! 👊 💘
@angelstarfire5 жыл бұрын
Amen
@jessicamacklin53865 жыл бұрын
Goals, and agreed!!!
@wonderfullee12347 жыл бұрын
A women worth making a wife is someone willing to tell you the truth even if it hurts. Why? The pain from honesty allows us to see ourselves. When we see ourselves unfiltered, we grow.
@menaretheprize26735 жыл бұрын
wonderfullee 123 a wife material is a woman that can be accountable for are wrong doings rather being defensive “you’re the reasons I’m this n that” no being accountable for what you did or not doing to make the relationship a successful one
@lgpugh356 жыл бұрын
I do appreciate your video on this subject. A lot of us men can really learn from own short comings and what we are really looking for in a woman. There's somebody for everybody and as long we are equally yolked the sky's the limit of what we can accomplish together, that called building a foundation. Keep bringing more encouraging videos like this my brother from another mother, God bless you.
@evettematthews40835 жыл бұрын
I commend you. A lot of men don't dig his perspective. Bless ya!
@keekeedavis35215 жыл бұрын
I’ve heard about this equally yoked but idk what it means. Please help me understand this?
@aurelisilva79625 жыл бұрын
Good on you! Most men do not agree with the content in this video. Kudos for you!
@xopandasiiox64155 жыл бұрын
Its a term most Christians use to describe let's say a married couple as "equal" I'm not really sure how to explain it but from my interpretation of the scripture it seems to mean either not to marry or not associate with non believers.
@Hypocricy_rules_supreme5 жыл бұрын
You're a rare gem #kudos
@Iamluckygirl11113 жыл бұрын
Give him 100% friendship, loyalty, to build together. When he takes her for granted & disrespects her , she walks out with her dignity and never resorts to conflicts , she walks out in peace. May he find his type that’s all she wishes him , that’s love , love is the highest vibration , everyone should be blessed with such a beautiful energy of Love. No bitterness , no dramas .she heals from a heartbreak and evolve into more compassionate and empathetic being. She trust the process. Divine will bless her with her vibrational match. That’s why it’s so important to heal and recenter ourselves then balance and stability will be inevitable. Be kind , be compassionate Much love to all Stay blessed 💗
@alliemaxwell83827 жыл бұрын
Wife Material only gives up & leaves when the dude is Not husband material. When it's like that- there's no foundation to build upon & they're simply unequally yoked🙁. She will be better off waiting for Mr. Right instead of wasting her time & energy on the wrong one💔.
@jelicianorwood246 жыл бұрын
Allie Maxwell I agree.
@ayanda1085 жыл бұрын
you said it girl!
@shinebrightlikeadiamond53295 жыл бұрын
I totally Agree with ur Answer. Correct, correct
@youngshrine30245 жыл бұрын
Mr. Right and Mrs. Right don’t exist
@Sav.Age.5 жыл бұрын
@@youngshrine3024 was looking for a mature mind here and I found you. Mr right? 😂
@amondae15837 жыл бұрын
he always give it to you raw and uncut no filter straight no chaser that's some honesty for ya
@minenhlemkhabela75414 жыл бұрын
When you a woman watching this and realize you’ve been wife material ♥️😂
@nimalperera9483 жыл бұрын
Lol the fact that most women in the comment section latched on to that saying while negotiating everything else she said speaks a lot why you women can't get into a successful relationship
@fantasticfrined21435 жыл бұрын
Wife material will leave you if you don't treat her right. Exactly!
@jaquaveonandress6494 жыл бұрын
How will you treat me though?
@jaquaveonandress6493 жыл бұрын
Chassity Taylor Easier said then done huh
@nimalperera9483 жыл бұрын
Lol the fact that most women in the comment section latched on to that saying while negotiating everything else she said speaks a lot why you women can't get into a successful relationship
@delaw2xoxo2697 жыл бұрын
I agree 100 ..singleness today is not for the WEAK
@NaturallyPrettyBrownK267 жыл бұрын
I know it's plenty of men watching this video but won't like or comment on this video BUT *take notes cause we out here patiently waiting for our king*
@QueanaIvory7 жыл бұрын
I Absolutely 💯percent Agree with You!!!!! Thank You!! Thank You!!! Thank You!!!
@slimb2327 жыл бұрын
ItsYaGirl K We quietly learning in the background😉 #returnofthegentlemen
@LylieRandale7 жыл бұрын
slim b Yeaaaaaah
@NaturallyPrettyBrownK267 жыл бұрын
slim b 💞💞💞💞
@swoopes77776 жыл бұрын
Your King is right here
@michalaisliving49945 жыл бұрын
im so glad im learning this at such a young age. im only 15😇
@AM-ul7hy4 жыл бұрын
Muse Verdant That’s a chick lol
@gretam21504 жыл бұрын
17 💕
@vicentcasana33124 жыл бұрын
Wish you the best! Good luck
@anniet4944 жыл бұрын
YES im looking to get married and move out young to but everyone is saying its bad idea... but everyone is different
@acharich3 жыл бұрын
💣💣💣
@francescaleon96684 жыл бұрын
Wife Material Is Somebody That Didn’t Have These Things You Stated At First But Work On Them You Just Don’t Wake Up Wife Material You Learn
@michellemarie25907 жыл бұрын
Build up... yes. I believe women must be comfortable being alone until they meet a man who knows how to value "wife material." I had to learn this. A couple of times I settled for men who viewed my kindness as weakness, that can be frustrating. As you said... walk away when the respect leaves. And my new motto... wait for the right person.
@brendawalters31486 жыл бұрын
Some men have good wives and they still cheat! Men demand women to be wife material but want to continue playing around. Hipocrisy!
@illuminatiassassin66645 жыл бұрын
Woman do it to tf
@jamesparker7225 жыл бұрын
Brenda Walters those are the wrong men , this video is about women , geeze he goes in on men 98% of the time relax
@miamidolphinsdiehardfan1095 жыл бұрын
@@Jambuc829 preach bro
@redpillsforwomen80095 жыл бұрын
she obvious is not doing her job.
@pascalbrousseau51635 жыл бұрын
Not all men
@Jessica-iq3id5 жыл бұрын
Brought tears to my eyes the last 2 minutes, sir. Heartbreaking the situation Im in right now. Married 15 years but I cant take the emotional abuse any longer. It hurts my soul to know that despite my best efforts from the bedroom to the kitchen, he will NEVER give me the only thing I ask: Respect. God bless you and thank you.
@Azure26073 жыл бұрын
Who's here after the 😾 got let out the bag!! 🤣
@ritoalvarez87427 жыл бұрын
I stay getting cheated on and it pushed me to the point were I disrespected women every chance I could . I had to realize that I had to love myself before loving another being and it's still a book being written but you my friend lifted me up made me open my eyes to a lot in all of your videos . Thank you - Jr.
@geminitwix7 жыл бұрын
ABSOLUTE FACTS
@tashavladimiroff18746 жыл бұрын
Happy wifey here 8 years married and 18 years together. I waited for the right man (married at 40) I took those vows very seriously. He’s been nothing but amazing. I got breast cancer and he’s been by my side through a year of treatment. We 50/50 and still madly in love
@alainawaterloo98806 жыл бұрын
PREACH!! This man deserves an amazing woman of his dreams bc he knows how to teach and treat a lady or man to be the best they can be. 💕😊
@shpwanwatson98617 жыл бұрын
I wish MORE men would watch your videos. 😒
@millybadze21177 жыл бұрын
Shpwan Watson You can say that again!!!
@sincerenature83947 жыл бұрын
Shpwan Watson I know I do💯
@selasedu7 жыл бұрын
Shpwan Watson more women too should watch his videos. They'll learn a thing or two on how to conduct themselves
@abitofeverythingwithtiffli61537 жыл бұрын
Shpwan Watson it's sad that the probable majority is females 😪
@t.rebeccawade2866 жыл бұрын
Ikr lol....There needs to be a male seminar for men to hear this wisdom bc there's a lot of men that are regretting each day of letting "the wifey material" go so dudes should hear things like this to avoid this future regret 🤦🏽♀️
@stephmartinez10117 жыл бұрын
When Derrick is describing you😊 I had to leave my ex after 12 yrs because the respect he had for me as his lady changed and I knew he was looking for away out and now the grass ain't always greener on the other side
@LittleMsLibra87 жыл бұрын
Steph Martinez it NEVER is greener, it may be cut differently but that's about it.....
@AckeeandSaltfish6 жыл бұрын
Steph Martinez when they don’t realize if they water their own grass it’ll be JUST as green if not greener SMHH little boys lol
@georgettethomasgordon2076 жыл бұрын
Yes wife material will leave you. Even though she still loves you.😔😔😔😔
@carultch5 жыл бұрын
Hence why no woman is ever wife material. Getting married is just one big game of Russian Roulette. Saying that cliche of "Not All Women are Like That" is like saying "go ahead, pull the trigger, not all chambers are loaded".
@carultch5 жыл бұрын
You can do EVERYTHING allegedly correct in marriage, and still be left paying a serious amount of your income to a woma, when she is no longer earning it.
@daniellamoreno36164 жыл бұрын
how though?
@carultch3 жыл бұрын
@Chassity Taylor Look who's talking. You sound hurt as well. The difference is that the system only holds men accountable to be faithful, most of the time, and gives women a perverse incentive to betray their husband.
@acharich3 жыл бұрын
👀 👀 👀
@bigspeaker7815 жыл бұрын
You teaching and I'm learning 💯
@reddrose91977 жыл бұрын
Yasss😄 I was born wifey💍 material strong mind, strong willed, and Respect is Everything to me!! Virgo 👑Queen better getcha One😙💯💯
@angelicalartista6 жыл бұрын
Rose Redd Virgo sun!! 🌹❤✊🏼
@jenthealien88885 жыл бұрын
Virgooooo
@rubiecon64255 жыл бұрын
some virgo woman can be fake not u but i have fake virgo woman since u k ow about ur sign can u explain
@cremabuona3665 жыл бұрын
Rose Redd couldn’t agree more! Virgo here
@rayologyxm7 жыл бұрын
You really hit the nail when you said "you got all these women and have nothing to show for them" I've been preaching that around my way for a while now once my eyes started to open
@angelstarfire5 жыл бұрын
What does it mean please?
@Raizelash5 жыл бұрын
Omg thank you!!!! Everyone expect you to stay in a bad relationship because "second chance" or "I love him/her" bullshit, when u break my trust it's the same as cutting my head off, u cant glue that shit together back to make me feel alive... so no even if I love you I will still leave that person
@fantasyeve874 жыл бұрын
Love that he mentioned how the woman would be able to control her tongue from verbally abusing you. My man told me that the other day and it made my day. We got into a HUGE misunderstanding and I almost lost it on him but I love him and didn't want to do that to him. He loved that I did that because he said he wasn't used to that. We communicated and now we are back to being happy.
@sxtxux7 жыл бұрын
Great content but by the time most realize they had wife material all along its already too late.Its always after you leave they talk about how much they really love and need you.If you keeping entertaining their nonsense they will take you for granted. Sometimes it has to take something drastic for them to realize that.Like a break up.
@UnapologeticallyKrisK7 жыл бұрын
Girl say that!
@Wilson-vx6ty7 жыл бұрын
Jasmine Best comment I have seen thus far. I could not have said it better myself. You got the juice boo.
@JasminMarie7 жыл бұрын
Jasmine So true! Been there, done that.
@sxtxux7 жыл бұрын
TheAlpha Femme-fatale Thank you boo boo
@sxtxux7 жыл бұрын
Jasmin Marie Me too!!
@kimberlycareymua82077 жыл бұрын
like you said before "watch the patterns and that will tell you about potential." goes both ways
@typhlosionisbest6 жыл бұрын
Man, you speak like a father. I never hear people talk about stuff like this and I don't think to research, so of course I never know until you bring it up. Thank you so much.
@doyouliketacosiliketacos51395 жыл бұрын
I got called a “bad woman” because I wanted a healthy relationship, i left not because I didn’t love him but because i know it won’t change and I want a future husband not another heartbreak 👍🏻 stay strong
@bremac79797 жыл бұрын
Had to see if im wife material in your eyes Mr.Jaxn Lol....I agree honey
@slimb2327 жыл бұрын
I've been waiting for a video like this. Appreciate it✊
@TH-eb5ro5 жыл бұрын
You are so spot on Derrick, our teaching a woman or man to stay no matter what keeps them in unhealthy and often abusive relationships.
@Rinamama095 жыл бұрын
That last advice....I felt That👏👏👏👏
@paigesummers75806 жыл бұрын
This man exposes the weak and the uplifts the good!!!! 👏🏽
@Ladycmj7 жыл бұрын
After watching this video my self-esteem went up another notch. Knowing my worth. Any man who doesn't know it as well ain't worth my time. ☺
@Chewiee25 жыл бұрын
Haha he said a case waiting to happen real talk 💯
@ingridkhajeh89823 жыл бұрын
I love the fact you said "Wife material" will leave a man that doesn't treat her well. I was married to a man with a lot of narcissistic tendencies for 17 years...........I finally had enough when he split my lip. I had the guts to call the cops and that was that. I'm talkin" court-imposed no contact.
@takwaxaweelew80177 жыл бұрын
I agree but I would add compatibility mentally, intellectually, dietarily, spiritually, consciously, morally and ethically. All the other stuff like bedroom skills, cooking ability, physical appearance is icing on the cake. Oh yeah- hygiene!!!
@nannaed78335 жыл бұрын
Yaffa Ellington I don’t think it’s icing on the cake. You can have all of the above and lose a relationship when the sexual or physical attraction is simply not there. It all matters.
@jroyal22297 жыл бұрын
There are plenty of women out there who messed it up for women like myself who's loyal & want to be in a committed, happy, healthy & respectful relationship/marriage with a decent man. But, he's been hurt and so it takes a lot of patience for both parties to come together & build a foundation for him to even put a ring on it due to his past relationships!ijs
@corinaweber90145 жыл бұрын
True love always finds a way.
@arthurtimberlakeiii48314 жыл бұрын
You're on point brother. I was just dealing with a female that was entertaining other men and when I pointed it out to her she would get aggressive and put her hands on me. You're spot on
@glowreeyahgiggles55676 жыл бұрын
I just can't stop listening to you.... You speak lots of wisdom and still manage to keep it funny!!🙏🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽
@Sandra-wj4on6 жыл бұрын
Proverbs 31 woman. Thank you for this Christian sermon. Amen! Smile.
@shantelmcdonald74177 жыл бұрын
Yes last point was me. Im still wife material for the future Talk the talk bless up
@cecileayala11665 жыл бұрын
Yes you're right 100%. Respect, loyalty, and disciplining
@andrewnehemiah34676 жыл бұрын
You know when she works with you and no against you. When she walks with you instead of putting her foot out to trip you. When she looks out and grabs you before your hurt. When she stands by your side strong and not by raising her skirt. A woman who strong in her own skin but knows how to share that strenght with a man not because she has to but she wants to. A woman who is beyond playing games. A woman who demands the same. A woman who shares her heart her space her faith her warmth. A who treats a mans mother like her own. YES A REAL WOMAN FULL GROWN!
@missbabyshoes7 жыл бұрын
Liked before I watched it :) you always have amazing advice :)
@greatone42186 жыл бұрын
What good.with you
@dionmyles21546 жыл бұрын
Lauren Aldred 😂
@omnitrix19927 жыл бұрын
I just realized my ex girlfriend was a wife material girl!! 😭😭😭😭
@ayannab14767 жыл бұрын
omnitrix1992 go get her
@shamachelon7 жыл бұрын
omnitrix1992 seriously, go get her...persistence is key, don't PESTER her, but show you changed. And watch his "Don't trust words, trust actions" video. Stay on top of your game, because she will NOT be easy on you. I let my ex come back after years of praying for him. I'm still cautious, because I remember the pain...not looking for him to mess up, cuz I've prayed for so long. But he know what will happen if he slip again #gonegirlforreal
@omnitrix19927 жыл бұрын
Amber Raglin But she's with another guy now and it's been 2 years
omnitrix1992 don't worry. She isn't the only wife material girl in the world. Your time is coming.
@hazelturquoisehummingbird69424 жыл бұрын
Im definitely wife material, I just broke up with my ex of 10 years. I did my all, I walked away he didnt appreciate any of it. Smh🤦🏾♀️😒
@nyajohnson89923 жыл бұрын
exactly be waitsting time playin house !!! lmao
@princesspanikk4 жыл бұрын
I’ve tried with men to sit down and talk and these men just tear me down fr
@renaeg64307 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I left and I was wife material. Liar, deceptive. I'm so better off.
@poisonpoison6867 жыл бұрын
Renae Goodell YES I joined the ranks as well. But your time will come,keep being greatm
@MzPhilip7 жыл бұрын
Good for you hun
@dianeslate40497 жыл бұрын
Renae Goodell me too
@beauty47176 жыл бұрын
Girrrl, I hear so was I 💯% wife material & was there in the bad & good but he didn’t deserve me, so I left his ass. A man that doesn’t want to grow up side by side with a mature woman such as myself will not waste my time...either your in or your out LOL 😂
@tammi67able6 жыл бұрын
Bravo, Bravo He's telling the truth!
@kayferguson72854 жыл бұрын
On point Jaxn. I am a good woman cause I don't waste time on bad men. It is an investment to be good. It takes time, effort, study and virtuosness. Bless recognize.
@BnaiHaShem5 жыл бұрын
Thanks. I actually agree. Boundaries, loyalty, and respect. Too many women also have side dudes, or dudes waiting in the wings, and think that this is acceptable in a relationship.
@bringbackafrosamurai70377 жыл бұрын
Wisdom as usual Mr. Jaxn!
@a.alexander92217 жыл бұрын
Junine Mendez Agreed
@Lauradalpini7 жыл бұрын
YEP!!!! Last point is everything. Can, will, and did. #gone
@RN1BSN7 жыл бұрын
I am LauraD a!a
@a.alexander92217 жыл бұрын
RN1BSN 👏
@tyraresilient28124 жыл бұрын
Definitely Truth! A King needs a Queen and A Queen needs a King. So they can build an Empire together.
@riobetancourt88255 жыл бұрын
GOD is the only one to make us wife material or husband material.. PERIOD
@allinministries49485 жыл бұрын
Hallelujah
@BostonBorn6 жыл бұрын
99 dislikes??? Can't imagine why you would dislike this, unless.............🙄
@cherylmorton4055 жыл бұрын
99 BAD BITCHES... HE BLEW UP THE SPOT 😅🤣😂
@bukunmiolowu91785 жыл бұрын
CHERYL MORTON 😆😆😆
@plawton354 жыл бұрын
I'm thinking too much truth hurt some peoples' feelings. LOL
@marciaw45637 жыл бұрын
Wow needed to hear this. Thanks Derrick
@henryhorne61146 жыл бұрын
Spitting Hellas wisdom
@suicidexte_6666 жыл бұрын
Wow that last part. I used to wonder if I wasn't good enough but I was the person that set that bar. I get it now.
@crystalmcclainfoster89306 жыл бұрын
I just love how he gets a Woman's mind 👑👰👍
@jasmindavis8287 жыл бұрын
Love this message...
@michellerenwick60824 жыл бұрын
I needed this today, as a reminder for myself ! Thank you
@jcsmooth705 жыл бұрын
Def respect this advice! Ladies have to know there are guys out here still that have integrity and work hard and are willing to be faithful. Just need the right woman in your life.
@chawntautimmons7 жыл бұрын
Loved this video! I was in a toxic relationship that I wanted to work SO BAD. I did treat him like a king (even though he wasn't) and let him tell it, I was the one who was the problem. I appreciate your statement about how a good woman will leave once she realizes there is no trust or respect there. That's what I had to do and I know I made the right decision. Thank you!
@LeoLady-vb2wx7 жыл бұрын
I agree with all of that!!!!
@thedominiqueeffect11694 жыл бұрын
I fully support everything you say because I believe in vice versa especially the part where in a relationship you represent your significant other/ husband or wife.
@toeachitsown20505 жыл бұрын
Sounds about right to me! True about leaving a man who you are madly in love with once the trust and/or respect is broken. You can't give 100% anymore when he shows that he doesn't value you or your relationship.