@omphilemoerane2569 7 жыл бұрын
Derrick, thank you for not describing a woman who is wife material as someone who cooks and cleans but rather someone who puts effort into making the relationship a success.
@a.alexander9221 7 жыл бұрын
Omphile Moerane True that. That's a good point
@SincerePresence 6 жыл бұрын
Omphile Moerane Yes!!
@missa4862 5 жыл бұрын
@TheHolyGhost 🤣🤣🤣
@Brown_Sugar11 5 жыл бұрын
Omphile Moerane exactly
@mrsjusttobeme1 5 жыл бұрын
Omphile Moerane AMEN! Cause when/if the sickness hits in marriage, cooking and cleaning alone ain’t gonna cut it.
@GratefulAlwayz85 5 жыл бұрын
My motto is when my man isn’t around I represent him, when I’m not around he represents me. Now if we live by this we’ll be A-ok 👌🏾
@aprilmarshall1758 4 жыл бұрын
Except not not under the ok symbol. Sounds good otherwise 🙌
@abarzua21able 4 жыл бұрын
Yup. I always tell my husband “I respect u more, behind your back”
@tamikajanzen9455 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly I do this too
@Macdad84 4 жыл бұрын
Damn where you at? I always get women how are angry and victims of life.
@weareuniqueforareason7503 4 жыл бұрын
Love this ❤
@mercytimothy5565 5 жыл бұрын
wife material is a woman that'll walk away from a relationship even if she still loves you when she realises there's no more respect/trust/
@GozieZilla 5 жыл бұрын
Why do women always talk about ending relationships irrespective of the topic? No wonder divorce rates are high
@SeanandJoeleen 5 жыл бұрын
How is that wife material? Sound like thats just commom sense to me, nothing to do with "wife material"
@stoogie375 5 жыл бұрын
I can guarantee you guys that when a woman gets to the point of initiating divorce, she more than likely already tried everything there is out there.... A lot of men just don't want to admit or fix when anything is wrong.
@bettycooper9383 5 жыл бұрын
Mercy Timothy I did that I walked 😢💔
@realtalk1310 5 жыл бұрын
What you just said made no sense at all.
@kassiel.9512 5 жыл бұрын
1. She’s an asset. 2. In an argument she knows how to control her tongue, she has tact. She knows how to come to you with respect. Comes to you like an adult, Seeks to build you up. She’s not cussing you out and tearing you down. 3. Knows how to conduct herself even when she’s not around you. 4. She gives 100% of her loyalty. If the relationship is toxic, she will also walk away.
@tonywasikhongo7510 5 жыл бұрын
This is a mythical being
@joshuachampion9681 4 жыл бұрын
Tone Waf 💀💀💀 seems like it huh? That’s why I’m just patiently waiting for one to come along. Until then, I’m steady building/adding to my foundation💯
@kristinadj1018 4 жыл бұрын
Joshua Champion Im here baby 🤷🏻♀️
@joshuachampion9681 4 жыл бұрын
X X girl you prolly a 1000 miles away talkin bout I’m here baby🤦🏾♂️
@kristinadj1018 4 жыл бұрын
Joshua Champion probs more than that but okay baby 😢
@mstacolebabi3424 7 жыл бұрын
We need to clone this man a million times
@dmvtcs 6 жыл бұрын
lol yes please! and sen me 1 lol
@profilingmanipulation 6 жыл бұрын
Tacole Ellison Forward some on to the UK too!
@alleycatgillis1964 6 жыл бұрын
Tacole Ellison haha!! Dude, there are millions of these guys oit there....where you lookin?
@laimalisovska6485 6 жыл бұрын
I got acces to a lab ;)
@pernia13 6 жыл бұрын
A BILLION TIMES !!!!!!! 😉
@Aariyan096 7 жыл бұрын
When your ego gets a little boosted as you watch his videos because you need it 😂💪🏾💪🏾❤️🎉
@arbiybiya6201 6 жыл бұрын
Aariyan096 , Yeah indeed.
@lillysegura8239 6 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@prodigaldaughter5978 6 жыл бұрын
Girl yes lol
@bluediamond4895 6 жыл бұрын
Aariyan096 he is so good
@tessalogan586 6 жыл бұрын
Boom
@meechiemishae4642 5 жыл бұрын
Somebody done taught this young man!!!👏👏👏👏👏
@maryannmjones6021 4 жыл бұрын
Done taught this young man.
@Sonotbearface 3 жыл бұрын
Taught him well huh
@SnowFoxParty 6 жыл бұрын
When you wifey material but you still single 😅😅
@CaliSlots777 5 жыл бұрын
TheSnowFoxParty I hear you.
@andreafoxx7722 5 жыл бұрын
YUP
@ilyzm8864 5 жыл бұрын
Same
@jenifherzavala2000 5 жыл бұрын
Or when you think your wife material. But 🤭
@shadynail4723 5 жыл бұрын
Then you're not wife material
@RubieDesignsWebConsulting 7 жыл бұрын
A wife wants to bless her husband.She also helps her husband purpose grow. She is ready to maintain peace. Most of all she respects her relationship.
@myanimills6366 7 жыл бұрын
Kassandra Queen truer words have never been spoken. A true woman and wife will stimulate her mans mind and feed his soul
@queenriri9393 7 жыл бұрын
Kassandra Queen, very well said!👏
@n8vscience842 6 жыл бұрын
I wish, my husband had treated me life his wife when he could. This hurts watching because I am that wofe, currently and I married..a person who didn't know how to be a husband. I have a feeling I'll get an apology some Time when I'm doing good and he's in a new bad relationship
@robconway5159 6 жыл бұрын
Come here girl
@erikatevis 6 жыл бұрын
Kassandra Queen yes ma'am
@firstladyallen684 7 жыл бұрын
The bible states when a man finds a wife he finds a good thing!! So how do a man find a good thing? He must seek Father in Heaven FIRST to guide him😇
@shamiajohnson9954 7 жыл бұрын
Teresa Allen amen
@shpwanwatson9861 7 жыл бұрын
AMEN!
@shaunilashaye1976 7 жыл бұрын
Very True!
@keshkeshdoesit257 7 жыл бұрын
Teresa Allen yessssssssss
@ShiquitaT 7 жыл бұрын
Amen
@mahaalotaibi8352 5 жыл бұрын
She is a wife when you see mother qualities in her: she is loving, nurturing, kind and gentle. She is clean and supports her husband. She enjoys taking care of others.
@danapetrova2641 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly. It's the same for men and women, just a different kind. Women should be the typical feminine nurturer, care giver. Men should take care of a woman in the way of being financially stable, showing appreciation, providing safety.
@91Definite 4 жыл бұрын
What if she isn’t kind? And more of rough around the edges?
@Betty_Monroe 4 жыл бұрын
Wife material loves your kids just as their own lbvvs
@AM-ul7hy 4 жыл бұрын
Betty Monroe lol why u helping men? I don’t see men saying a husband material is a man who would love kids that aren’t his as his own lmao
@AM-ul7hy 4 жыл бұрын
Betty Monroe u can’t force love lmao silly baby momma
@samanidonn3536 5 жыл бұрын
Yes. Wife material will leave you if there's no more trust and respect. Thanks for telling the truth on that. People need to know.
@cocochanel1945 7 жыл бұрын
What bothers me. is I see a lot of guys let down wife material and try to change a bad b*tch into a wife Then got the nerve to go on social media and say they want a queen..Men are just confusing to the point I don't think they really want to be husbands,but want the benefit
@rtlad3066 7 жыл бұрын
You're so right. I'm starting to see that many males love drama. They talk a good game about needing a good woman, but when they get one, they start chasing some mean ass women...and most of the time these crazy ass women are not cuter nor have more to offer, just drama.
@donnaevans7874 7 жыл бұрын
coco chanel Amen.
@cleovintora59 7 жыл бұрын
coco chanel those " men" you at referring to are boys not men ;) that's why they confused
@mikeandmars2345 5 жыл бұрын
u right
@solisluv 5 жыл бұрын
coco chanel they’re not confused my sister, they just don’t know how to know a good woman, that’s all. It takes a man that has had a strong mother figure in their lives to recognize and be with a wife material!
@MsHappy-xz2px 6 жыл бұрын
PROVERBS 31:12 SHE WILL DO HIM GOOD & NOT EVIL. ALL THE DAYS OF HER LIFE!!!! WIFE MATERIAL IS NOT LOOKING, SHE'S PREPARING!!! PROVERBS 31.
@bernardvining4157 5 жыл бұрын
@@Jambuc829 everything in the bible is true but no woman have them characteristics 💯💯
@miamidolphinsdiehardfan109 5 жыл бұрын
@@bernardvining4157 i always try to figure out why it says god made females for men (mate) but i dont have one i cant date a dog cat horse only human (females) the bible might be wrong im single
@feruneeziahr7651 5 жыл бұрын
janelle henderson 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️❤️❤️
@deepdarkcocoa7956 5 жыл бұрын
Come on somebody!!!
@silverink1824 5 жыл бұрын
I forgot that existed like literally that part of Proverbs I forgot that existed at all makes me wonder actually read that part of the book so I can look into myself and make sure I present myself in this manner of like being a strong and wife material type of woman for wedding ready for a relationship after I finished healing
@ItsTimeToo 5 жыл бұрын
I feel like someone yelled at him about a cereal box...that sounded like personal experience lol
@SKATEWOODS 5 жыл бұрын
Lmaoooo Right !!! 😂😂😂
@JalapenoDNA 4 жыл бұрын
Shits funny though lol
@2realalways... 3 жыл бұрын
Hell yeah
@jfyne03 3 жыл бұрын
It sure was personal experience 😂
@dinalinda7805 5 жыл бұрын
Is there anyone watching this in 2019?
@leticiaascencio1664 5 жыл бұрын
I just did 👌 posted a comment too.
@tinamomodu2031 5 жыл бұрын
Dina Linda yes girl
@InLoveWithaPaladin 5 жыл бұрын
Me ...on my playlist
@danielpena2136 4 жыл бұрын
Yup
@chasitybuckley181 4 жыл бұрын
I don't even know how I got here sis. 😂 I'm binge watching now...
@tinaikujegbe9189 7 жыл бұрын
I hear you.. Am a good woman, but after listening to you, I am going to work on my self to be a better woman. Thanks.
@brittneyberry4934 6 жыл бұрын
Tina Ikujegbe we'll get there sis
@heavenishere416 6 жыл бұрын
Same.
@REDKNOTDREAD 6 жыл бұрын
Tina we cando it together!
@angelstarfire 5 жыл бұрын
I belive in you! (*^* 👍)
@thequeen1399 5 жыл бұрын
We all got things to work on. Humility uplifts, society teaches otherwise
@tnwilliams52 7 жыл бұрын
when you said wifey material will leave if the man doesn't meet that bar that was set that was the icing on the cake. real shit man i had to leave someone that i have known for 15+ years bc he ended up being disrespectful and verbally abusive. no matter how good i was to that man and how much i loved him, and the fact that we have a son i still left and i am enjoying the peace ;)
@quilaquila5462 7 жыл бұрын
tnwilliams52 good for you
@omphilemoerane2569 7 жыл бұрын
tnwilliams52 I feel you.There really is nothing better than having peace of mind. Men can bring so much drama to ones life. And good on you for realising your worth and that you can do so much better by yourself.
@tnwilliams52 7 жыл бұрын
Omphile Moerane yes honey nothing better than being alone and at peace...some people are stuck "in love" but it takes mucy more than that! 2 weeks after he left my house he moved in with another woman lol that was my confirmation right there!!
@TheKyraBeasley 7 жыл бұрын
tnwilliams52 I'm happy that you made the decision to love yourself and put your worth first. Certain women use their children as an excuse, which is understandable. However, there is a such thing as being too disrespected and knowing when to leave . I'm happy for you 💞
@kvetinkakvetinka3977 7 жыл бұрын
tnwilliams52 did the same and have a son too , it is tough one !
@WTHshedoingnow 5 жыл бұрын
"Wife material is a woman that'll walk away from a relationship even if she still loves you when she realizes there's no more respect" - I busted out crying. Just found your channel today. You're funny, entertaining, and keep it real. Thanks for keeping me company on a Friday night!
@annameaf4017 3 жыл бұрын
Lol. Just rewatched this and couldn’t help but laugh that I still never looked up black China and rob to see what was going on.
@markeetawins 7 жыл бұрын
Maturity across the board!
@allim.830 7 жыл бұрын
I love This! I just hate when a man expects wife material treatment before ever becoming exclusive or official
@sugarbum99 7 жыл бұрын
alli e get away from those type because they'll just play the part and at some point will take what you have given them and run with it!
@rashadbey359 6 жыл бұрын
alli e gotta test the goods...
@Christian_Girl120 6 жыл бұрын
alli e That's when you walk.
@leahjames6870 6 жыл бұрын
alli e Wife material treatment??? You shouldn't be playing a "wife" to someone who you're not a wife to.
@lr4439 6 жыл бұрын
alli e it makes sense, we have to prove our worth. We are an investment for them as well.
@nanaanan4731 6 жыл бұрын
You're "on point" with the "wife material." Yep. Loyal, dedicated, setting and enforcing clear boundaries, treating you well, working on the relationship AND will leave you if you're perpetually neglecting her, not treating her well, cheating on her, the relationship has become unhealthy and you're not working on it...even if she still loves you. Why? Because wife material wants a healthy committed romantic relationship, not a fiasco.
@tamikajanzen9455 4 жыл бұрын
This is why i walked away from my 10yrs of marriage we have 3 kids but. He was entering other females and not helping anymore in the house and stopped making me feel special as his wife. So I dated after end up with 2 relationship that i left cause they was toxic and not husband material. My man I am with is husband material he shows me this by his words and actions
@dominiqueannegonzales7891 4 жыл бұрын
bravo on this one
@Jennily90 4 жыл бұрын
Im happy I watched this. I am wife material, my Bf of 3 years cheated on me... I let him go, still hurts but I deserve better.
@Dragonfly_magictarot 3 жыл бұрын
Im sorry he was so insecure he hurt you in the process. Thats his loss sis. Keep your chin up and good for you moving forward.
@nimalperera948 3 жыл бұрын
Maybe you were boring even though you were good. Probably you weren't open to certain sexual activities and he found someone who can provide him that
@Jennily90 3 жыл бұрын
@@nimalperera948 No, he was the boring one. I'm tired of people judging me saying it was my fault. No, it wasn't. I know it wasnt
@nimalperera948 3 жыл бұрын
@@Jennily90 Any guy would leave you if they aren't sexually happy with you. Girls are first emotionally attracted then slowly the physical attractiveness increases when they get closer to the guy emotionally. It's the opposite for a guy. A guy is physically attracted first and then gets emotionally attracted when getting to know the girl more. A girl would leave a guy if he is only physically attracted to her and doesn't show her love and care. A guy would leave a girl of she's only emotionally attracted to him and doesn't want try out different intimate or sexual attractivities or fantasies. Both the girl and boy needs to understand each others likes and kinks and give it to them when they ask as and act of love. If you don't do that and he breaks up with you cause he found someone else that would provide him that then it's your fault and you need to take the blame and improve before you get to your next relationship. If he left because he wasn't serious and only wanted a temporary pleasure with you then it's his fault. He would find a girl that will give him that.
@313dreamin9 7 жыл бұрын
I know my girl is wifey material. During the first real talk conversation we had while dating, I told her I was looking for a queen, not a self described queen that behaved like a spoiled princess. She looked me in my eyes and said "Im a queen in training." I impulsively grinned and hugged her dread-headed ass. 😊
@brittneyberry4934 6 жыл бұрын
Dizzy Day congratulations bro...stay happy...hope you two make it to the top. 😁
@travismbachu4846 6 жыл бұрын
They broke up?
@madamsophia1503 6 жыл бұрын
Are you still with your queen?
@mackgrant2628 5 жыл бұрын
That was dope bro
@jasminejama9161 5 жыл бұрын
Electronic Whiteboard lmao first thing comes my mind
@lilredsensei20 7 жыл бұрын
I am starting to really like this guy's videos now. At first, I was playing devil's advocate big time and making Derrick to be a man basher. But now, I truly see the value in his videos. When I watch them it makes me appreciate my girlfriend more and see that I can be at peace of mind if I show her through my actions and patterns that I love her and want to grow with her. Keep up the great work!
@LylieRandale 7 жыл бұрын
Josh McIntosh Good Im proud of you that you search for good value. Bravo and God bless your relationship
@myanimills6366 7 жыл бұрын
Josh McIntosh - I commend you! I pray that there are more men such as yourself that see the value in Derricks videos and can truly appreciate the content and growth in them, single or in a relationship it's all appreciated.
@myanimills6366 7 жыл бұрын
Dark Caesar well of course we know that men and women can be equally trifling, however they can also be equally incredible, mature, trustworthy, and the best absolute version of themselves. I think Lyfe Jennings said it best when he wrote, "Be the person you want to find, don't be a nickel out here looking for a dime". That always resonated with me and that is how I handle myself.
@myanimills6366 7 жыл бұрын
The Obsidian Media Network 2 - For me personally I don't think that you have to be married in order to know what should be already be in place in order to make a marriage. This is what he feels and these are the thoughts that have been instilled in him. And not for nothing, he hits a lot of these issues dead on. DJ isn't saying anything wrong. He advocates for both men and women. This man is the truth! But again he does say that this is how he feels. And there are tons of people that consign his authenticity and realness. Even in this post, he is absolutely right!
@LylieRandale 7 жыл бұрын
Myani Mills sorry but i only believe in marriage. I dont date for fun and to pass my time
@karrighanofcourse2448 5 жыл бұрын
Needed to hear that cause my mouth can get reckless when I’m mad. But I want a husband one day so ima chill. Lol fr
@USrifles 5 жыл бұрын
She's definitely wife material, all I can say is that I'm in love!
@waleed-un3wk 5 жыл бұрын
Update if yall get married
@Sugi1971 7 жыл бұрын
That's right . That exactly what wife material is about . We are about Boundaries, standards , loyalty and respect .
@lioness8456 5 жыл бұрын
BOOM!! 👊 💘
@angelstarfire 5 жыл бұрын
Amen
@jessicamacklin5386 5 жыл бұрын
Goals, and agreed!!!
@wonderfullee1234 7 жыл бұрын
A women worth making a wife is someone willing to tell you the truth even if it hurts. Why? The pain from honesty allows us to see ourselves. When we see ourselves unfiltered, we grow.
@menaretheprize2673 5 жыл бұрын
wonderfullee 123 a wife material is a woman that can be accountable for are wrong doings rather being defensive “you’re the reasons I’m this n that” no being accountable for what you did or not doing to make the relationship a successful one
@lgpugh35 6 жыл бұрын
I do appreciate your video on this subject. A lot of us men can really learn from own short comings and what we are really looking for in a woman. There's somebody for everybody and as long we are equally yolked the sky's the limit of what we can accomplish together, that called building a foundation. Keep bringing more encouraging videos like this my brother from another mother, God bless you.
@evettematthews4083 5 жыл бұрын
I commend you. A lot of men don't dig his perspective. Bless ya!
@keekeedavis3521 5 жыл бұрын
I’ve heard about this equally yoked but idk what it means. Please help me understand this?
@aurelisilva7962 5 жыл бұрын
Good on you! Most men do not agree with the content in this video. Kudos for you!
@xopandasiiox6415 5 жыл бұрын
Its a term most Christians use to describe let's say a married couple as "equal" I'm not really sure how to explain it but from my interpretation of the scripture it seems to mean either not to marry or not associate with non believers.
@Hypocricy_rules_supreme 5 жыл бұрын
You're a rare gem #kudos
@Iamluckygirl1111 3 жыл бұрын
Give him 100% friendship, loyalty, to build together. When he takes her for granted & disrespects her , she walks out with her dignity and never resorts to conflicts , she walks out in peace. May he find his type that’s all she wishes him , that’s love , love is the highest vibration , everyone should be blessed with such a beautiful energy of Love. No bitterness , no dramas .she heals from a heartbreak and evolve into more compassionate and empathetic being. She trust the process. Divine will bless her with her vibrational match. That’s why it’s so important to heal and recenter ourselves then balance and stability will be inevitable. Be kind , be compassionate Much love to all Stay blessed 💗
@alliemaxwell8382 7 жыл бұрын
Wife Material only gives up & leaves when the dude is Not husband material. When it's like that- there's no foundation to build upon & they're simply unequally yoked🙁. She will be better off waiting for Mr. Right instead of wasting her time & energy on the wrong one💔.
@jelicianorwood24 6 жыл бұрын
Allie Maxwell I agree.
@ayanda108 5 жыл бұрын
you said it girl!
@shinebrightlikeadiamond5329 5 жыл бұрын
I totally Agree with ur Answer. Correct, correct
@youngshrine3024 5 жыл бұрын
Mr. Right and Mrs. Right don’t exist
@Sav.Age. 5 жыл бұрын
@@youngshrine3024 was looking for a mature mind here and I found you. Mr right? 😂
@amondae1583 7 жыл бұрын
he always give it to you raw and uncut no filter straight no chaser that's some honesty for ya
@minenhlemkhabela7541 4 жыл бұрын
When you a woman watching this and realize you’ve been wife material ♥️😂
@nimalperera948 3 жыл бұрын
Lol the fact that most women in the comment section latched on to that saying while negotiating everything else she said speaks a lot why you women can't get into a successful relationship
@fantasticfrined2143 5 жыл бұрын
Wife material will leave you if you don't treat her right. Exactly!
@jaquaveonandress649 4 жыл бұрын
How will you treat me though?
@jaquaveonandress649 3 жыл бұрын
Chassity Taylor Easier said then done huh
@nimalperera948 3 жыл бұрын
Lol the fact that most women in the comment section latched on to that saying while negotiating everything else she said speaks a lot why you women can't get into a successful relationship
@delaw2xoxo269 7 жыл бұрын
I agree 100 ..singleness today is not for the WEAK
@NaturallyPrettyBrownK26 7 жыл бұрын
I know it's plenty of men watching this video but won't like or comment on this video BUT *take notes cause we out here patiently waiting for our king*
@QueanaIvory 7 жыл бұрын
I Absolutely 💯percent Agree with You!!!!! Thank You!! Thank You!!! Thank You!!!
@slimb232 7 жыл бұрын
ItsYaGirl K We quietly learning in the background😉 #returnofthegentlemen
@LylieRandale 7 жыл бұрын
slim b Yeaaaaaah
@NaturallyPrettyBrownK26 7 жыл бұрын
slim b 💞💞💞💞
@swoopes7777 6 жыл бұрын
Your King is right here
@michalaisliving4994 5 жыл бұрын
im so glad im learning this at such a young age. im only 15😇
@AM-ul7hy 4 жыл бұрын
Muse Verdant That’s a chick lol
@gretam2150 4 жыл бұрын
17 💕
@vicentcasana3312 4 жыл бұрын
Wish you the best! Good luck
@anniet494 4 жыл бұрын
YES im looking to get married and move out young to but everyone is saying its bad idea... but everyone is different
@acharich 3 жыл бұрын
💣💣💣
@francescaleon9668 4 жыл бұрын
Wife Material Is Somebody That Didn’t Have These Things You Stated At First But Work On Them You Just Don’t Wake Up Wife Material You Learn
@michellemarie2590 7 жыл бұрын
Build up... yes. I believe women must be comfortable being alone until they meet a man who knows how to value "wife material." I had to learn this. A couple of times I settled for men who viewed my kindness as weakness, that can be frustrating. As you said... walk away when the respect leaves. And my new motto... wait for the right person.
@brendawalters3148 6 жыл бұрын
Some men have good wives and they still cheat! Men demand women to be wife material but want to continue playing around. Hipocrisy!
@illuminatiassassin6664 5 жыл бұрын
Woman do it to tf
@jamesparker722 5 жыл бұрын
Brenda Walters those are the wrong men , this video is about women , geeze he goes in on men 98% of the time relax
@miamidolphinsdiehardfan109 5 жыл бұрын
@@Jambuc829 preach bro
@redpillsforwomen8009 5 жыл бұрын
she obvious is not doing her job.
@pascalbrousseau5163 5 жыл бұрын
Not all men
@Jessica-iq3id 5 жыл бұрын
Brought tears to my eyes the last 2 minutes, sir. Heartbreaking the situation Im in right now. Married 15 years but I cant take the emotional abuse any longer. It hurts my soul to know that despite my best efforts from the bedroom to the kitchen, he will NEVER give me the only thing I ask: Respect. God bless you and thank you.
@Azure2607 3 жыл бұрын
Who's here after the 😾 got let out the bag!! 🤣
@ritoalvarez8742 7 жыл бұрын
I stay getting cheated on and it pushed me to the point were I disrespected women every chance I could . I had to realize that I had to love myself before loving another being and it's still a book being written but you my friend lifted me up made me open my eyes to a lot in all of your videos . Thank you - Jr.
@geminitwix 7 жыл бұрын
ABSOLUTE FACTS
@tashavladimiroff1874 6 жыл бұрын
Happy wifey here 8 years married and 18 years together. I waited for the right man (married at 40) I took those vows very seriously. He’s been nothing but amazing. I got breast cancer and he’s been by my side through a year of treatment. We 50/50 and still madly in love
@alainawaterloo9880 6 жыл бұрын
PREACH!! This man deserves an amazing woman of his dreams bc he knows how to teach and treat a lady or man to be the best they can be. 💕😊
@shpwanwatson9861 7 жыл бұрын
I wish MORE men would watch your videos. 😒
@millybadze2117 7 жыл бұрын
Shpwan Watson You can say that again!!!
@sincerenature8394 7 жыл бұрын
Shpwan Watson I know I do💯
@selasedu 7 жыл бұрын
Shpwan Watson more women too should watch his videos. They'll learn a thing or two on how to conduct themselves
@abitofeverythingwithtiffli6153 7 жыл бұрын
Shpwan Watson it's sad that the probable majority is females 😪
@t.rebeccawade286 6 жыл бұрын
Ikr lol....There needs to be a male seminar for men to hear this wisdom bc there's a lot of men that are regretting each day of letting "the wifey material" go so dudes should hear things like this to avoid this future regret 🤦🏽♀️
@stephmartinez1011 7 жыл бұрын
When Derrick is describing you😊 I had to leave my ex after 12 yrs because the respect he had for me as his lady changed and I knew he was looking for away out and now the grass ain't always greener on the other side
@LittleMsLibra8 7 жыл бұрын
Steph Martinez it NEVER is greener, it may be cut differently but that's about it.....
@AckeeandSaltfish 6 жыл бұрын
Steph Martinez when they don’t realize if they water their own grass it’ll be JUST as green if not greener SMHH little boys lol
@georgettethomasgordon207 6 жыл бұрын
Yes wife material will leave you. Even though she still loves you.😔😔😔😔
@carultch 5 жыл бұрын
Hence why no woman is ever wife material. Getting married is just one big game of Russian Roulette. Saying that cliche of "Not All Women are Like That" is like saying "go ahead, pull the trigger, not all chambers are loaded".
@carultch 5 жыл бұрын
You can do EVERYTHING allegedly correct in marriage, and still be left paying a serious amount of your income to a woma, when she is no longer earning it.
@daniellamoreno3616 4 жыл бұрын
how though?
@carultch 3 жыл бұрын
@Chassity Taylor Look who's talking. You sound hurt as well. The difference is that the system only holds men accountable to be faithful, most of the time, and gives women a perverse incentive to betray their husband.
@acharich 3 жыл бұрын
👀 👀 👀
@bigspeaker781 5 жыл бұрын
You teaching and I'm learning 💯
@reddrose9197 7 жыл бұрын
Yasss😄 I was born wifey💍 material strong mind, strong willed, and Respect is Everything to me!! Virgo 👑Queen better getcha One😙💯💯
@angelicalartista 6 жыл бұрын
Rose Redd Virgo sun!! 🌹❤✊🏼
@jenthealien8888 5 жыл бұрын
Virgooooo
@rubiecon6425 5 жыл бұрын
some virgo woman can be fake not u but i have fake virgo woman since u k ow about ur sign can u explain
@cremabuona366 5 жыл бұрын
Rose Redd couldn’t agree more! Virgo here
@rayologyxm 7 жыл бұрын
You really hit the nail when you said "you got all these women and have nothing to show for them" I've been preaching that around my way for a while now once my eyes started to open
@angelstarfire 5 жыл бұрын
What does it mean please?
@Raizelash 5 жыл бұрын
Omg thank you!!!! Everyone expect you to stay in a bad relationship because "second chance" or "I love him/her" bullshit, when u break my trust it's the same as cutting my head off, u cant glue that shit together back to make me feel alive... so no even if I love you I will still leave that person
@fantasyeve87 4 жыл бұрын
Love that he mentioned how the woman would be able to control her tongue from verbally abusing you. My man told me that the other day and it made my day. We got into a HUGE misunderstanding and I almost lost it on him but I love him and didn't want to do that to him. He loved that I did that because he said he wasn't used to that. We communicated and now we are back to being happy.
@sxtxux 7 жыл бұрын
Great content but by the time most realize they had wife material all along its already too late.Its always after you leave they talk about how much they really love and need you.If you keeping entertaining their nonsense they will take you for granted. Sometimes it has to take something drastic for them to realize that.Like a break up.
@UnapologeticallyKrisK 7 жыл бұрын
Girl say that!
@Wilson-vx6ty 7 жыл бұрын
Jasmine Best comment I have seen thus far. I could not have said it better myself. You got the juice boo.
@JasminMarie 7 жыл бұрын
Jasmine So true! Been there, done that.
@sxtxux 7 жыл бұрын
TheAlpha Femme-fatale Thank you boo boo
@sxtxux 7 жыл бұрын
Jasmin Marie Me too!!
@kimberlycareymua8207 7 жыл бұрын
like you said before "watch the patterns and that will tell you about potential." goes both ways
@typhlosionisbest 6 жыл бұрын
Man, you speak like a father. I never hear people talk about stuff like this and I don't think to research, so of course I never know until you bring it up. Thank you so much.
@doyouliketacosiliketacos5139 5 жыл бұрын
I got called a “bad woman” because I wanted a healthy relationship, i left not because I didn’t love him but because i know it won’t change and I want a future husband not another heartbreak 👍🏻 stay strong
@bremac7979 7 жыл бұрын
Had to see if im wife material in your eyes Mr.Jaxn Lol....I agree honey
@slimb232 7 жыл бұрын
I've been waiting for a video like this. Appreciate it✊
@TH-eb5ro 5 жыл бұрын
You are so spot on Derrick, our teaching a woman or man to stay no matter what keeps them in unhealthy and often abusive relationships.
@Rinamama09 5 жыл бұрын
That last advice....I felt That👏👏👏👏
@paigesummers7580 6 жыл бұрын
This man exposes the weak and the uplifts the good!!!! 👏🏽
@Ladycmj 7 жыл бұрын
After watching this video my self-esteem went up another notch. Knowing my worth. Any man who doesn't know it as well ain't worth my time. ☺
@Chewiee2 5 жыл бұрын
Haha he said a case waiting to happen real talk 💯
@ingridkhajeh8982 3 жыл бұрын
I love the fact you said "Wife material" will leave a man that doesn't treat her well. I was married to a man with a lot of narcissistic tendencies for 17 years...........I finally had enough when he split my lip. I had the guts to call the cops and that was that. I'm talkin" court-imposed no contact.
@takwaxaweelew8017 7 жыл бұрын
I agree but I would add compatibility mentally, intellectually, dietarily, spiritually, consciously, morally and ethically. All the other stuff like bedroom skills, cooking ability, physical appearance is icing on the cake. Oh yeah- hygiene!!!
@nannaed7833 5 жыл бұрын
Yaffa Ellington I don’t think it’s icing on the cake. You can have all of the above and lose a relationship when the sexual or physical attraction is simply not there. It all matters.
@jroyal2229 7 жыл бұрын
There are plenty of women out there who messed it up for women like myself who's loyal & want to be in a committed, happy, healthy & respectful relationship/marriage with a decent man. But, he's been hurt and so it takes a lot of patience for both parties to come together & build a foundation for him to even put a ring on it due to his past relationships!ijs
@corinaweber9014 5 жыл бұрын
True love always finds a way.
@arthurtimberlakeiii4831 4 жыл бұрын
You're on point brother. I was just dealing with a female that was entertaining other men and when I pointed it out to her she would get aggressive and put her hands on me. You're spot on
@glowreeyahgiggles5567 6 жыл бұрын
I just can't stop listening to you.... You speak lots of wisdom and still manage to keep it funny!!🙏🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽
@Sandra-wj4on 6 жыл бұрын
Proverbs 31 woman. Thank you for this Christian sermon. Amen! Smile.
@shantelmcdonald7417 7 жыл бұрын
Yes last point was me. Im still wife material for the future Talk the talk bless up
@cecileayala1166 5 жыл бұрын
Yes you're right 100%. Respect, loyalty, and disciplining
@andrewnehemiah3467 6 жыл бұрын
You know when she works with you and no against you. When she walks with you instead of putting her foot out to trip you. When she looks out and grabs you before your hurt. When she stands by your side strong and not by raising her skirt. A woman who strong in her own skin but knows how to share that strenght with a man not because she has to but she wants to. A woman who is beyond playing games. A woman who demands the same. A woman who shares her heart her space her faith her warmth. A who treats a mans mother like her own. YES A REAL WOMAN FULL GROWN!
@missbabyshoes 7 жыл бұрын
Liked before I watched it :) you always have amazing advice :)
@greatone4218 6 жыл бұрын
What good.with you
@dionmyles2154 6 жыл бұрын
Lauren Aldred 😂
@omnitrix1992 7 жыл бұрын
I just realized my ex girlfriend was a wife material girl!! 😭😭😭😭
@ayannab1476 7 жыл бұрын
omnitrix1992 go get her
@shamachelon 7 жыл бұрын
omnitrix1992 seriously, go get her...persistence is key, don't PESTER her, but show you changed. And watch his "Don't trust words, trust actions" video. Stay on top of your game, because she will NOT be easy on you. I let my ex come back after years of praying for him. I'm still cautious, because I remember the pain...not looking for him to mess up, cuz I've prayed for so long. But he know what will happen if he slip again #gonegirlforreal
@omnitrix1992 7 жыл бұрын
Amber Raglin But she's with another guy now and it's been 2 years
@candass5512 7 жыл бұрын
Amber Raglin Ahahaha, "gone girl" man that's priceless.. awesome hashtag 🤣🤣🤣😂😂
@ayannab1476 7 жыл бұрын
omnitrix1992 don't worry. She isn't the only wife material girl in the world. Your time is coming.
@hazelturquoisehummingbird6942 4 жыл бұрын
Im definitely wife material, I just broke up with my ex of 10 years. I did my all, I walked away he didnt appreciate any of it. Smh🤦🏾♀️😒
@nyajohnson8992 3 жыл бұрын
exactly be waitsting time playin house !!! lmao
@princesspanikk 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve tried with men to sit down and talk and these men just tear me down fr
@renaeg6430 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I left and I was wife material. Liar, deceptive. I'm so better off.
@poisonpoison686 7 жыл бұрын
Renae Goodell YES I joined the ranks as well. But your time will come,keep being greatm
@MzPhilip 7 жыл бұрын
Good for you hun
@dianeslate4049 7 жыл бұрын
Renae Goodell me too
@beauty4717 6 жыл бұрын
Girrrl, I hear so was I 💯% wife material & was there in the bad & good but he didn’t deserve me, so I left his ass. A man that doesn’t want to grow up side by side with a mature woman such as myself will not waste my time...either your in or your out LOL 😂
@tammi67able 6 жыл бұрын
Bravo, Bravo He's telling the truth!
@kayferguson7285 4 жыл бұрын
On point Jaxn. I am a good woman cause I don't waste time on bad men. It is an investment to be good. It takes time, effort, study and virtuosness. Bless recognize.
@BnaiHaShem 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks. I actually agree. Boundaries, loyalty, and respect. Too many women also have side dudes, or dudes waiting in the wings, and think that this is acceptable in a relationship.
@bringbackafrosamurai7037 7 жыл бұрын
Wisdom as usual Mr. Jaxn!
@a.alexander9221 7 жыл бұрын
Junine Mendez Agreed
@Lauradalpini 7 жыл бұрын
YEP!!!! Last point is everything. Can, will, and did. #gone
@RN1BSN 7 жыл бұрын
I am LauraD a!a
@a.alexander9221 7 жыл бұрын
RN1BSN 👏
@tyraresilient2812 4 жыл бұрын
Definitely Truth! A King needs a Queen and A Queen needs a King. So they can build an Empire together.
@riobetancourt8825 5 жыл бұрын
GOD is the only one to make us wife material or husband material.. PERIOD
@allinministries4948 5 жыл бұрын
Hallelujah
@BostonBorn 6 жыл бұрын
99 dislikes??? Can't imagine why you would dislike this, unless.............🙄
@cherylmorton405 5 жыл бұрын
99 BAD BITCHES... HE BLEW UP THE SPOT 😅🤣😂
@bukunmiolowu9178 5 жыл бұрын
CHERYL MORTON 😆😆😆
@plawton35 4 жыл бұрын
I'm thinking too much truth hurt some peoples' feelings. LOL
@marciaw4563 7 жыл бұрын
Wow needed to hear this. Thanks Derrick
@henryhorne6114 6 жыл бұрын
Spitting Hellas wisdom
@suicidexte_666 6 жыл бұрын
Wow that last part. I used to wonder if I wasn't good enough but I was the person that set that bar. I get it now.
@crystalmcclainfoster8930 6 жыл бұрын
I just love how he gets a Woman's mind 👑👰👍
@jasmindavis828 7 жыл бұрын
Love this message...
@michellerenwick6082 4 жыл бұрын
I needed this today, as a reminder for myself ! Thank you
@jcsmooth70 5 жыл бұрын
Def respect this advice! Ladies have to know there are guys out here still that have integrity and work hard and are willing to be faithful. Just need the right woman in your life.
@chawntautimmons 7 жыл бұрын
Loved this video! I was in a toxic relationship that I wanted to work SO BAD. I did treat him like a king (even though he wasn't) and let him tell it, I was the one who was the problem. I appreciate your statement about how a good woman will leave once she realizes there is no trust or respect there. That's what I had to do and I know I made the right decision. Thank you!
@LeoLady-vb2wx 7 жыл бұрын
I agree with all of that!!!!
@thedominiqueeffect1169 4 жыл бұрын
I fully support everything you say because I believe in vice versa especially the part where in a relationship you represent your significant other/ husband or wife.
@toeachitsown2050 5 жыл бұрын
Sounds about right to me! True about leaving a man who you are madly in love with once the trust and/or respect is broken. You can't give 100% anymore when he shows that he doesn't value you or your relationship.
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