6 Behaviors That Make Someone Chase You
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3 жыл бұрынAre you looking for dating advice on how to make someone chase you? Psychologists and researchers have long been developing studies to find out what exactly it is that makes someone attractive. Good looks? Pleasant voice? Positive attitude? While these are goals anyone would want to achieve, indeed they are attractive qualities, as we desire them for ourselves - what about the little habits we can develop that will make us more attractive? Behaviors that can make a potential partner admire you so much they’re willing to chase after you?
#attraction #crush #dating
If you find this video helpful and want to learn more about what makes you attractive, we have a video on that as well: • 8 Things That Make You...
Writer: Michal Mitchell
Script Editor: Morgan Franz
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Tris Canimo
KZfaq Manager: Cindy Cheong
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@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
How many BTS references can you spot? Comment below :)
@mathshascalculus725 3 жыл бұрын
holdon, I’ll get my sisters
@athena_the_avocado 3 жыл бұрын
@@mathshascalculus725 same 💀
@melveljocaitlinn.amarillo8844 3 жыл бұрын
Oof
@felopatermelika2040 3 жыл бұрын
ARMY?
@bu1t3rfly17 3 жыл бұрын
*two weeks ago*
@JKAZ_M 3 жыл бұрын
If you steal someone's phone, they're almost 100% guaranteed to chase you.
@_serenity3298 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@cheesebutter9531 3 жыл бұрын
Who are you who is so wise in the way science
@ttinbibuddy5083 3 жыл бұрын
good way
@tienkemargareta5721 3 жыл бұрын
this is the most accurate😂😂
@fabianugalde3789 3 жыл бұрын
But then they will kill you afterwards 😂
@zuko1569 3 жыл бұрын
1. Attractiveness _Oh wait that's not a behavior_
@pcdlee6536 3 жыл бұрын
wtf are these replies bro
@Ash_Wen-li 3 жыл бұрын
You can learn to behave more attractive. Body language, posture, eye contact, voice ect
@aestthelicx4408 3 жыл бұрын
@@Ash_Wen-li my bones says no
@Me-th8go 3 жыл бұрын
Find your honor yet
@maple_latte2669 3 жыл бұрын
@@Me-th8go 😂😂😂😂😂😂atla fan 😂😂😂😂
@mangotangolango 3 жыл бұрын
"hang out with a group of friends" ...we are going to pretend we didnt hear that
@chatonsacrement7454 3 жыл бұрын
"You're more attractive if you hang out in groups." So I'm screwed, I always do things alone.
@mangotangolango 3 жыл бұрын
@@chatonsacrement7454 bold of them to assume that we have friends
@skaldlouiscyphre2453 3 жыл бұрын
@@mangotangolango I find cardboard cutouts of celebrities work almost as well. Wanna borrow mine?
@rashmisharma9711 3 жыл бұрын
@@skaldlouiscyphre2453 😂
@andrewlerdard-dickson5201 3 жыл бұрын
This is once was called the " l am going to sleep with all your friends affect ! "........ and only those that find you more attractive when you are in a group.....is refured to as "FOMO", Fear Of Missing Out.....So it is Bullock's that they find anyone more attractive in a group at all, the trueth is the only thing that the find attractive about viewing a group of friends of the same gender.....is their desire to manipulate and sleep with certain members of that group......so this video is actually saying you are more attractive if you sleep around with as many people as possible with out any commitment......yeah sure and why not just make a video based on implying false misinformation !
@fz1792 3 жыл бұрын
I like how every k-drama director has this knowledge
@spoon4732 2 жыл бұрын
Clumsy girl secretary = marrying rich COLD ceo of a big company
@AparnaGhate 2 жыл бұрын
@@spoon4732 Yess... Same shit in every drama.... 🙄🙄 A dumb poor girl and a rich CEO guy
@ladythmilin 2 жыл бұрын
Aahahah!
@littlebodybigheat4737 2 жыл бұрын
Lol
@shailzabhati7248 2 жыл бұрын
Haa ha! true
@wisdom-for-all 3 жыл бұрын
You must first be that person you want others to chase. Be such a beautiful soul that people crave your vibes 🖖
@nightangalesweet9239 3 жыл бұрын
@Old dudes wisdom I hope you are healthy and away from Corona. I have a question🙋. I have heard to be the best version of yourself. Also opposite attracts and not sameness of the person. If I am talkative I will be attracted towards introverts. If I am a clumsy person I will attract towards the orderly person and so on..😷
@divaowu7469 3 жыл бұрын
@Emely ! I NEED SЕЕХ ღ*GO MY PROF!LE* ღ, wtf is that name????? Pls change your name, thank you!
@TheBontekraai 3 жыл бұрын
But isn't that seeking external motivation? Just be yourself seems better to me, and others will like you for it.
@nicolefuentes8279 3 жыл бұрын
Indeed :)
@nehanair5552 3 жыл бұрын
True
@aliciadeleseleuc 3 жыл бұрын
Summary: - Compliment others -Spend more time around your crush -Play copycat and mimic -Say their name often -Be capable and intelligent, but still human -Hang out with a group of friends
@dleenedouglasdd 3 жыл бұрын
My crush stays like in a whole other country *cries in lonely
@vreep7497 3 жыл бұрын
But still human? Does that mean i can't sell my soul to demons?
@--alvie---3000 3 жыл бұрын
@@vreep7497 you really a mood lol
@peggz223 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks g
@npaul- 3 жыл бұрын
i already do that tho :cryemoji:
@michellemonroe-rz2di 3 жыл бұрын
Me to my crush: you’re so nice and energetic Crush: *runs away in horror*
@BtsArmy-pr7fg 3 жыл бұрын
My crush runs away if he sees me coming in his directions 😕
@Bioniclema90 3 жыл бұрын
Every woman I've ever had feelings for runs away freaking terrified at the slightest hint of anything more than friendship.
@sansadrake4133 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@sansadrake4133 3 жыл бұрын
@@Bioniclema90 😂😂😂 not good...you must be doing something wrong
@ZIATVofficial 3 жыл бұрын
HAHAHAHA
@meikme 2 жыл бұрын
Me: " Sarah is just so great. She's so nice to everyone. She's adorable." My crush: "can you hook me up with her" Me: 🙂😀
@sapphirec_5689 2 жыл бұрын
✨*pain*✨
@roses2170 2 жыл бұрын
I felt this first hand ✋🥲
@swagataojha6647 2 жыл бұрын
😂😭
@carolinerajkumar 2 жыл бұрын
I'm Sarah 👀😂😂😂😂😂
@bethanyhays2926 2 жыл бұрын
Story of my life.
@youraphrodisiac.895 3 жыл бұрын
1. Compliment others . 2. Spend more time with the person you like mirror exposure effect 3. Play copycat and mimic their behaviours Chameleon effect 4. Say their name often Cocktail party effect 5. Be capable and intelligent human 6. Hang out with a group of friends
@zonattacktv362 3 жыл бұрын
gods work
@annahild1696 3 жыл бұрын
@@zonattacktv362 haha fr tho
@marii2150 3 жыл бұрын
It's called "mere exposure effect" :)
@EdgarHernandez-uu4iw 3 жыл бұрын
Does complimenting really work tho? I complimented a girl once and she was like “of course you men will resort to cat calling in hopes of getting me to sleep with you” in my mind I was like “ wtf 😳 I just did it out of courtesy but gah damn no need to chew my ass out, a thank you would’ve been nice”
@multicreativeartist6579 3 жыл бұрын
Imagine having a group of friends
@zaynrobert1110 3 жыл бұрын
interviewer : so tell me about yourself Me : spills coffee you're hired
@somasengupta902 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@toujama7715 3 жыл бұрын
A good one🤣
@water0627 3 жыл бұрын
not even funny
@cathyt451 3 жыл бұрын
@@water0627 it's just a joke lol
@water0627 3 жыл бұрын
Cathy Tobing no
@candiedbakery3832 3 жыл бұрын
"Hang out with a group of friends" Anxiety: I think not
@whatshouldisayifvaskmeforc5217 3 жыл бұрын
Same--
@chimjinxii2130 3 жыл бұрын
My introverted ass can't
@chimjinxii2130 3 жыл бұрын
@@whatshouldisayifvaskmeforc5217 hi army💜
@whatshouldisayifvaskmeforc5217 3 жыл бұрын
@@chimjinxii2130 hi💜💜💜
@lks806 3 жыл бұрын
Also corona: *are you sure about that?*
@aleyandrarazellyn8340 3 жыл бұрын
"You making some mistakes still make you look capable and intelligent" Then there's me looking like an idiot
@MsMegamom 3 жыл бұрын
You are probably a lot smarter than you think.
@sorohye 3 жыл бұрын
Shit I got straight A on exam yet I’m a blur type of person and people always said that how can I get A hahaha
@ramen24_ 3 жыл бұрын
“Hangout with a group of friends” *cries in lonely*
@wollythewolf3995 3 жыл бұрын
*Cries in relatable*
@valkeitos 3 жыл бұрын
Cries in here for you
@wollythewolf3995 3 жыл бұрын
@@valkeitos tanks
@rosina29 3 жыл бұрын
Awww **hugs** not any more :)
@wollythewolf3995 3 жыл бұрын
@@rosina29 big tanks
@agr0nianTV 3 жыл бұрын
You forgot a big one, be yourself. If you're using a fake persona then even if you get your crush then things will not turn out well after all the relationship would be formed on a lie.
@fredericmoresmau4303 3 жыл бұрын
Moving to Auckland. If they don't they wasn't interested to start out.....
@spookyho5994 3 жыл бұрын
truee
@Halcyon1997 3 жыл бұрын
Think its also important to mention, you gotta be your best self. Be who you want to be, but be true to You. It's imperative though, that you do not sacrifice your values to get someone to like you, be honest about how you feel about things, don't compromise, don't settle... Sorry for the book lol
@cheesebutter9531 3 жыл бұрын
Who are you who is so wise in the way of science
@Jords250 3 жыл бұрын
Being myself is the problem here
@meology8510 3 жыл бұрын
btw, complimenting others DOES actually make a difference. I was the only one in my class who called my new physics teacher beautiful for the past few weeks and today she told me that she likes my personality and thinks i'm kind and a good person. but remember to be genuine in your complimenting :)
@reddragon6174 2 жыл бұрын
I don't mean to be rude but, at what age did you say this to your teacher?
@sierrafazekas3530 3 жыл бұрын
When people make a mistake and laugh it off, I think it's cute... But if they make a mistake and get irate it's not cute.
@goldflo91 3 жыл бұрын
If they get irritated when making a mistake, they may be reacting as people they've seen before, that tells a lot about their past and family 🤔
@Angel-gc1gn 3 жыл бұрын
If they laugh it of to me that feels like a passive aggressive person depending on how they act after but if someone was irritated and lets it out but can still communicate and understand each other in a argument or in general I’d respect that a lot more, but if they just constantly attack me and do nothing but be negative then yea that’s not attractive in the least xD
@user-ud7pt9bo8w 2 жыл бұрын
@@Angel-gc1gn you are right, but I think they meant mistakes out of physical clumsiness, not mental abuse
@cristinabrando5924 3 жыл бұрын
is it just me or does anyone else find someone way more attractive when they’re by themselves rather than when they are in a group of people?
@amymhchan1584 3 жыл бұрын
@Cristina Brando I agree
@Bioniclema90 3 жыл бұрын
I prefer if they were mostly by themselves. It's WAY more difficult getting close to them if they're always with their friends.
@ashercoleman-smith8562 3 жыл бұрын
me 2
@marijajanicijevic8211 3 жыл бұрын
Maybe because the people you found more attractive alone were like that because they were pretending to be someone else in the group. I know fakeness is repellant in many cases (regardless of the gender, both men and women are less attractive when being fake), for me at least.
@avantikaroy5146 3 жыл бұрын
I'm the same but I've always noticed it's the complete inverse. Peeps always like ppl who ate in popular groups. Idk why.
@user-tw9bk9is4l 3 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one that thinks the animations are so c u t e 💛
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! We're glad this video has helped you in some way! Which behaviors would you like to try on your crush?
@bekaeast7346 3 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go have friends 😖
@jak.cr1ym 3 жыл бұрын
@@bekaeast7346 :(
@bekaeast7346 3 жыл бұрын
@@jak.cr1ym haha I do I just thought it was funny & was the first thing to pop in my head. I’m gay in a southern state so I’m auto friends with every gay around here ahhaha
@jhashope2398 3 жыл бұрын
Your not alone they are sooo cute
@syk2973 3 жыл бұрын
It doesn't matter how many of your vidoes i watch, i'll end up dying alone
@bookenjoyer3970 3 жыл бұрын
I’m sure you’ll find someone, just takes the right person to come along
@xinhuichen8849 3 жыл бұрын
😂 same
@thebatman. 2 жыл бұрын
Everybody has different preferences, so I can basically guarantee there’s someone for you out there. It’s just a fact. Also, sometimes you have to fail alot before you can succeed
@esthervip 2 жыл бұрын
hold onto hope
@LicensedGuitarist2000 2 жыл бұрын
@@thebatman. there's nothing for anyone.
@youknowwhoyouare11 3 жыл бұрын
I spent more time with my crush to the point he started acting like me and I acted more like him. But he never saw me as anything more than a friend. Even though we didn't end up together, I see that as a win
@stewartmarques1485 3 жыл бұрын
If you actually confessed your feelings maybe it would of gone somewhere 🤔
@bananian 3 жыл бұрын
@@stewartmarques1485 Yeah but girls never do that.
@sorohye 3 жыл бұрын
@@bananian yeah I agree and please don’t ever confess to a boy (from experience) unless you’re as beautiful as an angel
@ayumimaxinerallos2824 3 жыл бұрын
@@sorohye awieee. You can owe it to yourself to at least be honest with what you're feeling towards a guyyo. If the person don't find it well, give yourself a pat for the confidence to confess. Patpat.
@phillinedenniezejulle 3 жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful mindset 💙
@wysteriaherr8306 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 40 years old, and this channel teaches me more life skills than I ever learned in school.
@cheesebutter9531 3 жыл бұрын
That is good right?
@wysteriaherr8306 3 жыл бұрын
@@cheesebutter9531 that is definitely good
@midnight-cn7vd 3 жыл бұрын
Wow really?
@wysteriaherr8306 3 жыл бұрын
@@midnight-cn7vd yes....if you are in school now, I urge you to listen to these videos... really listen and put into practice what they are teaching you... especially when it comes to communication skills.
@midnight-cn7vd 3 жыл бұрын
@@wysteriaherr8306 ok I will and thank you💛
@kimyejin3802 3 жыл бұрын
"Spend more time around your crush" **covid joined the chat** **quarantine joined the chat** **social distancing joined the chat** **quarantine added modules in the chat**
@-r-3656 3 жыл бұрын
Socially awkward joined the chat.
@VictoriaWilder95 3 жыл бұрын
I just entered the chat hehe
@TehAntares 3 жыл бұрын
2020: *Slowmode is enabled.*
@VictoriaWilder95 3 жыл бұрын
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@Andrewalten 3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@lunamadz1983 3 жыл бұрын
The two types of ppl watching this video: Those hoping to get ppl to chase them And those hoping to stop doing things that make certain ppl chase you
@gamerfreak9419 3 жыл бұрын
Finally someone who understands
@ChicaneMedia 2 жыл бұрын
How about being bored and just binge watching everything in KZfaq recommended 😂
@Natasha_-kg4bm 2 жыл бұрын
Spot on!
@mafazabatool5234 2 жыл бұрын
2nd type
@demolen3041 Жыл бұрын
Both left with crap
@hugoyaztromo3532 3 жыл бұрын
I always notice when someone is mirroring me, and knowing that, the chameleon effect actually feels manipulative and creeps me out.
@trollzynisaacjohan1793 2 жыл бұрын
Why? It means they care, just ask.
@noobulon4334 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes it can be unconscious, especially in people who think highly of you
@Sad_Baguette420 3 жыл бұрын
"Be capable and intelligent but still human" *Confused cheeseburger noises*
@athena_the_avocado 3 жыл бұрын
I CHOKED- 💀
@greatwavefan397 3 жыл бұрын
h a m b u r g e r
@listorin6314 3 жыл бұрын
Are you my hamburger in roblox?
@greatwavefan397 3 жыл бұрын
@@listorin6314 no
@listorin6314 3 жыл бұрын
@@greatwavefan397 k
@veganroastedturkey1291 3 жыл бұрын
I can't believe I can chase food, even though it has no human qualities at all!
@Mariue8553 3 жыл бұрын
It doesn't lie...because it can't talk😂
@heliosw8068 3 жыл бұрын
WHAT IF THE FOOD IS CHASING YOU
@Usoda_ 3 жыл бұрын
Our ancestors did that a lot
@iyaiiya-wawg3657 3 жыл бұрын
Taste is enchanting. Food doesn't have to talk when it makes love to your tongue.
@fahmida9533 3 жыл бұрын
😂
@user-db5km 3 жыл бұрын
"spend more time with your crush" oh no, he's in another country
@Mister_Kourkoutas 3 жыл бұрын
In a another country in the middle of a global pandemic. I know that feel
@MythopoeicNavid 3 жыл бұрын
@@Mister_Kourkoutas what ya'll doing crushing after folks in other countries? ... asking for a friend
@Mister_Kourkoutas 3 жыл бұрын
@@MythopoeicNavid Met her a few years ago and have been catching up online. It’s stupid really but this pandemic is spreading loneliness globally and it’s the same in every language.
@MythopoeicNavid 3 жыл бұрын
@@Mister_Kourkoutas true. Good luck with your pursuit for love, friend. Just be honest to yourselves and be chill while you're at it!
@frogperson7481 3 жыл бұрын
...They're not real... They're fictional 😞😞🔪💕
@shresthaditya2950 Жыл бұрын
1:35-Spotaneous Trait Transference 1:48-Mirror Exposure Effect 2:30-Chameoleon Effect 2:56-Cocktail party effect 3:36-Be clumsy since mistakes make you more human 4:44-Cheerleader effect
@gengarvenom1180 10 ай бұрын
mere*
@Nintentoad125 3 жыл бұрын
1. You pretend youre the gingerbread man. If you shout "can't catch I'm the gingerbread man!" and run away, if someone chases you, this might be a sign your being chased
@a_raichub 3 жыл бұрын
Perfection.
@a_raichub 3 жыл бұрын
@@imnot1291 Likely a bot.
@greatwavefan397 3 жыл бұрын
_I don't think you have any idea... how FAST I really am._
@ArtofBrandonTruster 3 жыл бұрын
This is stupid enough to possibly work! By that, I mean it is smart. Too bad I hate humans and no longer desire a mate or, I would give it a try.
@Dee010s 3 жыл бұрын
Ralph, is that you?
@FPS.bhargav 3 жыл бұрын
Me to my crush : your friend is lovely My crush : go and date her then
@rowantaylor335 3 жыл бұрын
this happened to my friend once and they actually are dating now
@me-eh1zt 3 жыл бұрын
R.I.P.
@faivana_ 3 жыл бұрын
AND its at 69 😏
@FPS.bhargav 3 жыл бұрын
Thx bbys for 140+ likes plz pray for me 👩❤️💋👩
@maraalexandrasuditu5989 3 жыл бұрын
it means she likes u. tell her asap or she might lose feelings bcs she thinks you like her friend. TELL HER
@lazypotato2928 3 жыл бұрын
The person who voices this makes me want to cry! It’s so soft and calming.
@laurajames2308 3 жыл бұрын
I got my help from someone, he was the only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back to me and he save and solve my relationship problem
@laurajames2308 3 жыл бұрын
Text me via what’s app for recommendation
@laurajames2308 3 жыл бұрын
+ 1 6 7 8 4 2 6 5 0 9 5 From Los Angeles
@shybairnsgetnowt 2 жыл бұрын
I really like this channel's comment section. People are kind and positive and joking heartily, sadly a rarity on KZfaq nowadays. And the animations are incredibly cute!!
@panikz8754 3 жыл бұрын
“Hangout with a group of friends” me: they fall in love with my friends...
@astoldbynickgerr 3 жыл бұрын
right 😅
@beth.594 3 жыл бұрын
At least you have friends...
@seinshwehtoo3581 3 жыл бұрын
Un relateable I have friends but i never go out
@cheesebutter9531 3 жыл бұрын
I can already feel the pain
@moochieboochie5262 3 жыл бұрын
Wait... Which friends?
@amornratsaengsun800 3 жыл бұрын
I swear her voice is so relaxing-
@notatallraj 3 жыл бұрын
I can't agree more
@ghostlysketche8384 3 жыл бұрын
Ikrrrr
@ravenouscheese4400 3 жыл бұрын
Much agreed
@jennadrenth1418 3 жыл бұрын
not me falling asleep to it
@ammarfarw7052 3 жыл бұрын
Fax its like listening to ASMR and learning about psychology in the same time
@socialpsychologymantras 2 жыл бұрын
“The beautiful thing about love is that you just need to plant it once and nurture it and it shall bloom into blossoms that would cover the valleys.” - Hermann J. Steinherr
@morrissmith5338 3 жыл бұрын
I think it’s important to take some of these methods in stride. Like in some cases, saying someone’s name can come off kinda creepy if you force it into your dialogue too much
@stewartmarques1485 3 жыл бұрын
None of these actually work with woman anyway xD
@m.tigerbeans6898 Жыл бұрын
Same! It bothers me when I read it in books too, like why do you keep repeating it, she knows her name! (Also when it's done to me it absolutely feels manipulative)
@lemon_boii1074 3 жыл бұрын
This is why I'm afraid of liking someone. Its literally all in my head.
@rosiepestel7836 3 жыл бұрын
So true
@senpaiguapo 3 жыл бұрын
Because of all the pain it leaves behind
@pokemono4699 2 жыл бұрын
I saw you in my dream lol
@lyrical4347 2 жыл бұрын
True
@noelgaming8727 2 жыл бұрын
Same...i dont wanna fall in love again...cause i experienced.it...its very hard to move on🙂
@eevee93 3 жыл бұрын
If you break someone's car, they won't stop chasing you alright
@cheesebutter9531 3 жыл бұрын
But if they are getting annoying, break their leg to make them stop
@vibez5441 3 жыл бұрын
Just incase they are still chasing you snap their neck it will end it for good👌
@LittleTheKobold 3 жыл бұрын
I mean... your not wrong lol
@KdramaLover168 3 жыл бұрын
@@vibez5441 then hide the body in a bag and bury it 😀
@LunarTheFrog 3 жыл бұрын
Anyone else here cause they like someone and are unsure if they like you back but their friends joked about him/her/them liking you and u wanna be sure that before you even say anything about liking them, they use a few tricks to give them better chances? Just me-? Oh- we'll have a nice day anyways :>
@danib712 2 жыл бұрын
“People tend to find others more attractive when they are in a group over being by themselves” well….that explains everything….😅
@adfka.algie1011 3 жыл бұрын
Funny thing is that a few months ago, I actually tried to spend as much time w/ my crush as possible a I said his name often while nobody else did (they called him nicknames he didn't like). And well, now we're dating 😁.. So it worked for me
@CoM_tE 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh, I'm so envious
@myainx 3 жыл бұрын
Why does your comment say 22hrs ago...
@gerry7860 3 жыл бұрын
bruh i call people nicknames they don’t like at first, but eventually, they get used to it. only do this to people i’m close with tho
@astrophile_0721 3 жыл бұрын
Well good for you 😊
@rasnabegum7749 3 жыл бұрын
Myapooh 1157 Early access probably
@munnabhaiya3993 3 жыл бұрын
How to make a girl chase you? Step 1 : Take a picture of her Step 2 : Laugh after looking at the picture Step 3 : Don't show picture to her Step 4 : RUN FORREST RUNN!!!😂😂😂
@sugaaa679 3 жыл бұрын
HAHAHA 😂😂
@rashmisharma9711 3 жыл бұрын
@@sugaaa679 ARMYs SPOTTED 😂💜
@sugaaa679 3 жыл бұрын
@@rashmisharma9711 YESSS 💜💜💜
@sugaaa679 3 жыл бұрын
@hayley h. step 6. Lose them, cuz you're obsessed and karma is a bad bitch
@desmariewilliams8216 3 жыл бұрын
😆
@person4119 3 жыл бұрын
When you realize you’ve been trying all of these for years: Guess I’ll die
@m3ta11ica_ 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! I really needed this! Also love your animations! They’re adorable!
@dailydoseofmedicinee 3 жыл бұрын
Here's how - without playing hard to get Build a high-quality, exciting life. Don't stop being single. Raise your standards for love. Don't give him boyfriend benefits if he's not your boyfriend. Judge him only on his actions towards you.
@SomeSCP--withInternetaccess 3 жыл бұрын
guess I can’t get chased down an alleyway. I’m empty for love, I barely have love for myself lol.
@jehakim4067 3 жыл бұрын
I don’t know about that last one, you should also look at if the person you like is an overall good person and not just a good person to you specifically. Otherwise you might find that, after some time together, they start to treat you poorly or worse. Finding a person who is genuinely a good person is important.
3 жыл бұрын
Good, solid advice for females. Men have it somewhat easy. All we really need to do is take time paying attention to make sure she's not a psycho. I must urge both genders to be genuine and not pretend to be something that they're not. In the long run that works in the best interest for both. .
@Ash_Wen-li 3 жыл бұрын
The last one is questionable. If someone is good to you and treats everyone else poorly, the they are most likely faking it or toxic
@visit_vaticancatholic_dot_com 3 жыл бұрын
There’s no such thing as “boyfriend benefits.” It’s called HUSBAND benefits. People need to fear God and be just and pure. By the way, do you know how many “long term boyfriends” a woman can have before she’s 30? Then women stupidly wonder why no one wants to marry them. Body count does matter, even if the number was accrued in a “long term” context. I realize people will think this is politically incorrect and “backward” but the simple truth is that sex is reserved for marriage. Don’t give husband benefits to boyfriends is the correct way. Fear of God, self-respect and common sense will help us to be our best. (Men shouldn’t have high body counts either and should also be virgins before marriage. I had to add that before I am accused of misogyny etc.) Even if a woman were involved in one “solid” relationship for 5-15 years, there’s the old saying that goes “why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?” Don’t EVER be anyone’s fool (“cow”). Visit vaticancatholic.com for crucial information about why it’s necessary for eternal salvation to become a traditional Catholic. Take care.
@spongebobgirlfriend 3 жыл бұрын
"How to manipulate your crush into liking you back"
@adrocky1236 3 жыл бұрын
That’s what I thought lol.
@kay9kill 3 жыл бұрын
The only thing I find is manipulative in my opinion is mimicking someone else to make them like you. But, in some cases if you do that, it won’t work because they hate themselves🤣
@lynnhaning5373 3 жыл бұрын
You took the words right out of my mouth, my friend. It was my understanding that, based on the title of this channel, the goal was to educate the general public on human behavior, and not to give well intentioned, yet generalized and misguided dating advice ? KZfaq is already saturated with these kind of videos, as it is. The only piece of advice, that I agree with, is spending more time around your crush, so they can get to know the REAL you. Other than that, just be yourself. If things between you and your crush progress beyond a friendship, great 👍. If not, cut your losses, and move on. There's no point, in wasting precious time and energy on people who do not value you for who you are.
@julianchrobak-prince1915 3 жыл бұрын
suddenly i don’t want to try any of these anymore :(((
@victherocker 3 жыл бұрын
as if you don't want your crush to like you back
@jasperthesilly297 9 ай бұрын
Being confident and at the same time having a bit of clumsyness sometimes is the best way for all genders.
@Kalidreamine 2 жыл бұрын
These videos are so good. Researched correctly and thoroughly. I have a psychology minor and I’ve learned a lot of this in school too.
@pigeonseed3366 3 жыл бұрын
1. Steal their phone 2. Run away There ya go. They’re chasing you now (:
@lilywebber7718 3 жыл бұрын
1. Compliment others 2. Spend more time around you crush 3. Play copycat and mimic your crush 4. Say their name often 5. Be capable and intelligent but still human 6. Hang out with a group of friends
@TheAmazinqStar 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this!! I hate hearing her voice for some weird reason 😩
@ArtofBrandonTruster 3 жыл бұрын
Compliment a woman and you can go to jail.
@ArtofBrandonTruster 3 жыл бұрын
@AshLand it's okay so long as the girl is already attracted to you. Know what? I polled women back in 2017. I asked them how they would respond to a rape scenario where Johnny Depp was the rapist. They all responded that they would be fine with it. I did another poll replacing Johnny Depp with a picture of a hideous male, guess how they responded to that? :)
@cameronm896 3 жыл бұрын
Basically Mt. Everest for ASD folk like me. Can we have a vid about accepting that you'll never experience a relationship?
@misskitty1134 3 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love this narrator's voice. It not only sounds nice but it calms me. Thank you voice
@Jaspy_Jaspy 2 жыл бұрын
I just love how your voice is so calming
@ewruuweeddd7528 3 жыл бұрын
I really like the way she speaks, so peacefully makes me feel so calm
@imnotyouraveragecuteduck646 3 жыл бұрын
Ugh ikr. She has the best voice.
@charleslu8264 3 жыл бұрын
Truuuuu!!!
@HaziD 3 жыл бұрын
And she's super pretty
@oliviafung6939 3 жыл бұрын
Yesssss!!! I like it so much
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@worldwidehandsome52 3 жыл бұрын
REMEMBER Be with a guy who respects you and your choices. You have your own self respect nd never let anyone break it no matter what! And remember to first love yourself no matter what
@quadroalas1567 2 жыл бұрын
Your voice is so calm that makes me feel calm and better
@cazzievivaldi9137 2 жыл бұрын
The illustration of this video is the cutest 🥺💕 i love everything about this video.. the voice, the music, the researches ❤️ keep up the good work! 🤗🤗🤗
@_-classy-_8145 3 жыл бұрын
This hurts to watch after finding out my crush doesn't like me back...
@elchikano1719 3 жыл бұрын
Don't worry you'll find someone one day. I've been in that same boat before but you'll learn and grow from it. Thinking of it as a learning experience is better than thinking of it as rejection. Hope you have a good day!
@_-classy-_8145 3 жыл бұрын
El Chicano, thanks brooskie that helps
@ArtofBrandonTruster 3 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the club. None of my crushes like me, either, even when those crushes aren't exactly the most desirable mates. Maybe you should find someone that you don't like? At least that way, you can experience the joy of getting laid then watching in amazement as your mate crafts BS out of thin air as justification to not interact with you again.
@_-classy-_8145 3 жыл бұрын
the beans Art & Music, o u ch Dang dude, sorry to hear that.. Hope someone cool enough for you comes along, it'll happen eventually just chill and do your own thing. If you like someone be straight up so that you don't get too caught up in feels, (it really helps doge bullets) and just c h i l l, don't Frick around with people cause they can be going through tough shiz.
@ArtofBrandonTruster 3 жыл бұрын
@@_-classy-_8145 I like your choice of words. I'm good. Doing my own thing is all I know how to do anymore. Consequently, that keeps me indoors where I belong. Sorry to hear about your misfortune as well. I guess "it" happens to all of us at some point.
@rxdrxd8887 3 жыл бұрын
What i've noticed about myself the more that i dont care about someone the more they become into me... and its always that someone who s i least expected the one whos having crush on me
@NoNickname9090 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely this!! And it never fails. From friends, to people who have liked me. I just never see it coming. I be seeing what they mean when they say "don't look for love". LoL!! Because it's when I'm at my most peaceful secure state that people tend to... just like me. Maybe I need to be a bit more calm and stop being so anxious about life. Just let things... fall into place.
@peaceofmindofpeace1650 3 жыл бұрын
@@NoNickname9090 Well said 👍
@bunkerdisc Жыл бұрын
This makes so much sense without thinking I naturally do what the person I’m talking to dose and they usually tell me they like me
@somniumneon6233 2 жыл бұрын
Not looking for someone to chase me, but those who follow me hate it when I better myself , and when I set the bar they have to meet me there to make a statement on my character and some just can’t. Some arent nearly as dedicated at changing themselves as I am for me. All in all this channel has become one of the most relevant channels for my growth when others want to cut me to size. Thanks for helping me recognize my own light , it better explains the bugs. (:
@enfynet 3 жыл бұрын
“Try getting them to notice you first.” Hmmm ok “When you’re with your friends” Oh 😒
@MsDragoFire 3 жыл бұрын
Summary of the video: 1. Compliment others 0:57 2. Spend more time around your crush 1:46 3. Play copycat and mime 2:16 4. Say their name often 2:44 5. Be capable and intelligent but still human 3:34 6. Hang out with a group of friends 4:34 Your welcome!
@BlueRain508 2 жыл бұрын
"Spend more time around your crush" Crush: ignores my texts
@whynot8169 Жыл бұрын
Than you so much. I already watched some videos about depression, it helped me a lot right now I can help myself when being alone.Love you.
@vi2448 3 жыл бұрын
"hangout with a group of friends" *Silently cries..*
@lowkeyrose8020 3 жыл бұрын
Saanvi Pahari i’ll be ur group of friends😔✋
@vi2448 3 жыл бұрын
@@lowkeyrose8020 thankyou :)
@vi2448 3 жыл бұрын
@@lowkeyrose8020 yayyyy, i have a frienddd!!!!
@dldl5731 3 жыл бұрын
@@vi2448 two* xd
@themanbehindtheslaughter8768 3 жыл бұрын
Why don't you have friends? You can't be innocent on this one. Maybe you're not a likeable person.
@gardenoffaith_6983 3 жыл бұрын
“Do you find yourself subconsciously mimicking the gestures, movements, expressions of your crush every when you’re talking to them.” **snorts** Bold of you to assume I even look his way!
@FIVEo_o 3 жыл бұрын
Armyyyyyyyyy
@kay9kill 3 жыл бұрын
The little animations are always so friggin adorable
@GentleGeorge69 3 жыл бұрын
Me: Trying to spend time and engage in a conversation with crush on discord. Crush: *texting other people and be fully disinterested* Pain is the way of life.
@t-poset-pose9827 3 жыл бұрын
Reason why some comments are 2 or 1 week old is because they have member ship aka Early access to videos
@Psych2GoDE 3 жыл бұрын
Mirroring the person you're talking to really works. Small gestures like tilting your head the same direction they do, or touching your hair/face, when they do can go a really long way!
@samb2814 3 жыл бұрын
@ANJEL LARRA BRIZ AGUTAYA ?
@sussyballs4908 3 жыл бұрын
ANJEL LARRA BRIZ AGUTAYA ???
@Floofypan 3 жыл бұрын
@ANJEL LARRA BRIZ AGUTAYA ????
@sarove13 2 жыл бұрын
I think the first one is called 'projecting', my therapist told me about it. If we like something about another person (both physically and psychologically), we also have those traits; even if you don't have much self-esteem.
@wondermentpuppettheater7095 3 жыл бұрын
Some great ideas for self improvement. thanks. Great videos, simple and easy to understand. keep up the great work.
@cloudanimal5209 3 жыл бұрын
The one about complimenting others makes so much sense! I always get a feeling that if someone is talking bad about others to me, they would talk bad about me to others. The opposite would make sense then too!
@Rachael_Callista 3 жыл бұрын
Did anyone like her voice....aww it's gold
@heysanyasmith 3 жыл бұрын
YES first thing I noticed! Accidental ASMr
@notkamui7573 2 жыл бұрын
thanks for the tips and her voice is so clear🥺 I wish I had a voice like her
@jacoblee208 3 жыл бұрын
Imagine being attractive enough to prove love exists
@nevanread 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 24 years old and I'm still single 😵. I have had no one chase me. I have decided to be single forever by choice, because I can't bear getting another rejection. I'm also an introvert, which doesn't help matters
@goatku 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like you may be a fearful avoidant attachment style. How does being introverted not help things?
@didjaseemyjams1582 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 22, and an introvert as well. I've never been in a relationship before. But I only have myself to blame for that because I don't seek out enough oppurtunities to get to know guys. Rejection is hard, but you've got to pick yourself back up because that's life. I'm currently enjoying being single for now, but you have to be confident the right person will come along when the time is right.
@user-jv1qk4qf4f 3 жыл бұрын
Aw it’s ok. Me too. I’m okay with that. Being in a relationship takes so much energy and commitment which I’m not capable of. ☺️ Let’s have fun as we are!
@afloatgamer8582 3 жыл бұрын
Complement them Me who has social anxiety: hey... You look... Good today...
@Aaron47916 3 жыл бұрын
Hello I am in fact not a serial killer and I am pretty sure you are not one aswell, do you want to reproduce.
@tonypajares4660 3 жыл бұрын
@@Aaron47916 What the crap 😂
@fallenangelmichael1276 3 жыл бұрын
Good
@ametsunami4070 3 жыл бұрын
Me who is the living embodiment of anxiety: you.. you’re a human being..
@abtribal100 3 жыл бұрын
ZodiacMoon What you think as Me!. Is not who u really are. You are the being experience life through what u call is me. Your thought is creating anxiety you are also not your thoughts
@jynnejam 3 жыл бұрын
woah I learned these effects mentioned in my ap psych class too! cool to see it in use here :)
@rissababy6479 3 жыл бұрын
I really love this channel so much 😍😍🧡
@Meikyu88 3 жыл бұрын
"Hang out with a group of friends" I'm the type that goes shopping alone 😂
@kareneveler9658 3 жыл бұрын
Be concerned about u getting noticed
@Meikyu88 3 жыл бұрын
@Short& Sweet Aawww thanks for liking my profile picture haha and thanks for the tips too. 😂 Sry that I've been too busy and didn't notice the reply! Tbh I'm not upset about it, I quite enjoy shopping alone too but ya, maybe I should interact more with others.. I will think about it~ 🤔
@facedowngaming 3 жыл бұрын
Same and I’m very extroverted!
@facedowngaming 3 жыл бұрын
@Da Virus Think about it, you go alone and no one will bug you to buy this or that etc. saves more money in your pocket to spend on yourself! That’s a win.
@mikochaa 3 жыл бұрын
What i learned from my experience that people likes positivity, like when you're being happy and smiling. I once got my crush liking me back after breaking up with his gf simply bc i seem so cheerful, well yes i was sad when he dated her but then i decided to just be happy and keep being nice to him, its a long story but he fell for me even tho judging from my appearance, im not that pretty. Being positive is actually attractive :D
@sibongilemapeka2240 3 жыл бұрын
Her voice is so soothing
@lisaboo5806 2 жыл бұрын
The animations are so cute 😉💗 I always thought absence makes the heart grow fonder and this showed you should spend more time with the person 🤔
@akt3037 3 жыл бұрын
How I see myself talking to my crush: hey how's it going? How I actually talk to my crush: is it mangos or mangoes?
@miragepeter8412 3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@christopherrobertson7723 3 жыл бұрын
When people say my name too often I feel like I’m in an interview instead of a conversation
@marynollderueda4573 3 жыл бұрын
The animafions are amazing snd thank you for the tips
@suparnadas3821 2 жыл бұрын
The next time I start having a crush on someone,I will definitely follow these steps.
@Yan-np5do 3 жыл бұрын
“Hang out with a group of friends” Coronavirus has left the chat
@bekaeast7346 3 жыл бұрын
Update- coronavirus still hasn’t left the chat
@totall3371 3 жыл бұрын
Corona virus has entered the chat
@swethayang4307 3 жыл бұрын
I did all of them And guess what? 😎They chased me Away...😑 Edit:- Thanks for the likes P.s- replies got me dead😂
@abelle2006 3 жыл бұрын
Oof
@Triadii 3 жыл бұрын
Yes that’s what would happen to meh
@malaya3272 3 жыл бұрын
LMFAOO
@joanoona 3 жыл бұрын
F
@ughries4490 3 жыл бұрын
i-
@zephyrar6642 3 жыл бұрын
Your voice makes me wanna watch your videos even more.❤️❤️
@Titanium516 Жыл бұрын
I love all your videos. I look forward to seeing 👀 more of them.
@PlanetPsych 3 жыл бұрын
"People may not 'tell' you how they feel about you. But they always 'show' you". So be on the lookout:-) Have a great day!!
@cruzcastillo6227 3 жыл бұрын
Interesting...
@creativetech1701 3 жыл бұрын
I will
@ponchoshop854 3 жыл бұрын
True
@omghighlights1366 3 жыл бұрын
Hie!! nice pic again
@christianv-h3278 3 жыл бұрын
Dude how did you get a picture into a _youtube comment?_
@saloni2244 Жыл бұрын
Your voice is so beautiful and calm ❤
@ys.a6640 3 жыл бұрын
So cozy, thanks
@Deez_nut_Z 3 жыл бұрын
I just love this woman’s voice, It’s so soft and nice and dreamy...
@SuperNovaGirl90 3 жыл бұрын
How can I "hang with a group of friends" and "hang around" my crush more, during a pandemic??? 🤔😅
@chlbr3 3 жыл бұрын
I know 2ppl who had their family reunions I'll think you'll be ok
@water0627 3 жыл бұрын
s
@howtodoit4204 3 жыл бұрын
Corona virus loves you
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
True!! :( Let's wait till this is over
@sivansharma5027 3 жыл бұрын
Zoom!
@bongwater1282 2 жыл бұрын
I do all of these unintentionally but haven’t had a relationship or had someone have a “crush” on me for the past 7 years
@fallonjackson88 3 жыл бұрын
This voice 💙 I need a sleep story or meditation in this calming loving voice
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