Whenever I watch their videos, I feel like I'm studying how to act like a human being lmao

“Talk to someone about themselves and they'll listen for hours.” ― Dale Carnegie

1) Reframe the situation: Instead of you wanting the thing/opportunity/person, consider thinking how that thing is suitable for you, ask questions which'll make you calm and confident. 2) Be positive: Big smile, open gestures, give compliments and laugh a lot 3) Admit Emotions: Being positive and happy is all important but life includes many other emotions like nervousness, anxiety, sadness. And you must be open to share emotions which is attractive because other people can relate to you and consider you as their own. 4) Own your flaws: Related to the 3rd point. Owning your flaws shows others that you are also not perfect and have the courage to own your flaws/mistakes, which is a really attractive quality. 5) Tell sticky stories: Consider the hook and grab strategy. Start your story with something that draws the attention of others and then continue the story. 6) Make others feel special: Give genuine and honest compliments. Hold strong eyes contact. Smile. Open gestures. Have a great day!

As a reptilian working for the US government, this video really helped me out! Thank you!

No one is born confident. We all learn how to get more confident. If you have social anxiety, don't let that stop you. Focus one step at a time and eventually you'll become confident. ❤️

To summarize every charismatic person ever, they use their social proficiency to elevate everyone around them instead of themselves. The key to charming others is to let them charm you.

Being contagiously positive...I think we all know these people and it’s dope. Encourage others!

“You never know how strong you are, until being strong is your only choice.” ― Bob Marley

2 rules to charm anyone: 1. Be Hugh Jackman 2. Follow rule 1

*Be interested in others, **_then_** you will be the most interesting person.*

Hugh was a teacher before he became an actor. His old students can tell their kids that they were trained by Wolverine.

As a teacher, I've been doing many of these automatically just by speaking from the heart, being open and honest, actually taking an interest in other people, and not being too afraid to look silly. These things help you connect with others. If you try too hard to be formal and look perfect, you come across as cold and robotic - then people will think you are weird or evasive. During my last job interview I was sharing a very emotional story about how I connected with a disabled student and helped her to create a wonderful project. While I was telling the story, my voice cracked a couple times and I had to fight back tears. They hired me on the spot. In fact, they almost begged me to please take the job.

Confidence in a nutshell: Be open with your emotions and improve your people skill.

my friend is introducing me to her friend group tomorrow, watching this to not be awkward :| Update: It went pretty well, we had fun and talked a lot! This video really helped, thanks!!!

Imagine the same insanely genuine person, extremely humble, played Logan. This shows how good of an actor he is.

Many stage actors have noted that it’s easier to nail an audition if they’re already in the middle of a current job. Having one job already makes seeking the next job feel lower stakes and therefore gives them a confidence which is critical to nailing an acting audition. This definetly applies to other types of situations. Feeling like you can get through it even if you don’t get this job because you have other potential offers or money saved can be huge.

Lessons I learnt from this video - *1. Reframe those situations that make you nervous* _If you feel pressured to perform and impress in a situation, make sure to ask some questions to know if you like them too. Like, you'd have notice how confident the interviewer is while interviewing. But when with your friends, you feel confident. Because you know your friends like you and you like them. This will reframe your mindset in that situation._ *2. Don't make plans solely to impress others. Make plan that'll be also interesting to you, giving you the opportunity to give your best(85%) in that situation.* *3. Be contagiously positive* _Just think about that, how you feel with a person who is highly positive and composed in __-roughest-__ toughest of situations_ *4. Give yourself permission to admit to emotion beyond happiness. People would find it easier to connect with you at deeper level.* *5. Own your flaw. Don't hesitate to talk about that.* _Just laugh when you mess up or make a mistake_ *6. Be a good Storyteller.* *7. Make the people around you special.* _Do not give compliment to act as a nice person. Just give what you genuinely mean._ _The best compliment can be what the other person really love, or what he/she's not so much complimented to but is good at_ *∞. Maintain Eye Contact while listening. But don't break it while talking.* _Having the full focus of the people you like feels more than amazing_

Before YOU can be charming and impressing to people, first YOU must be charming and impressive to YOURSELF Become the person that YOUR yesterday-self is proud of - Coach T

Hugh in x-men : wouldn't hesitate to kill people Hugh in real life : wouldn't hesitate to compliment people

Confidence starts by talking positively to yourself. To love yourself and to appreciate yourself. Then your body affects your new thoughts! ❤️💪🏼🌟

The most contagiously positive actor is widely recognized for his angriest role: Wolverine

Dude, you are killing it this channel has got to be one of the best on youtube for self-improvement. I've now got a girl I've never dreamed of being able to have a relationship with. I want to say thank you for helping me become the person I've always wanted to be. I know you probably won't see this but I just needed to put it out there.

I’ve worked directly for Hugh Jackman and his family, and I can personally attest he is a great guy. He always has an encouraging word to say and makes everyone feel included.

Regarding being contagiously positive. That one really resonates with me. I have had so many people in my life who are incredibly negative and won’t be content until they share it with everyone. I don’t know if projecting an attitude of being positive will help you all the time, but it beats the hell out of being negative.

This guy has literally changed my life. I love this channel and ones of self improvement

I couldn't help but to smile during most of this video 😄

I love that these videos are basically telling you in a million different ways to always be yourself, because YOU are amazing.

I love Huge Ackman.

I was fortunate enough to meet Hugh Jackman when I was doing background work on The Greatest Showman. Absolutely one of the kindest, most laid back folks you'll ever meet.

It's because we're Aussie, we're honest, we like to have fun and we don't take ourselves too seriously, we don't care if we're acting like a bit of a dag. Sending power and blessings from Melbourne Australia ✌

I learnt today and will forget tomorrow 😅

The biggest point I heard throughout this whole video: "Don't be fake. Be genuine."

You should do such character analysis of people who are not attractive. Being good looking gives you a good boost since you're young making you a confident person.

Dude Van Helsing is one of my few favorite movies ever. We own it and have watched it repeatedly.

Whoever does all the research for this channel, you are incredible. I don’t know how you find all these clips and decide who you will use as an example, but you make these videos the way teachers want presentations to be. They are well put together with a clear outline and everything in the video has a purpose with an unambiguous explanation. Honestly thank you for high quality videos 👍🏼

I have thoughts about conversations but when I actually have a conversation I’m very quiet and distant. No matter how many of these videos I watch, when someone makes a conversation with me, these tips just fly right over my head.

Great video but my favorite part is the one about emotions. Showing emotions doesn't make you weaker, it makes you more real.

I don’t remember which video but man, the advice of not letting people cut you off during a sentence and finishing it most of the time has helped me tremendously! People legitimately respect what I have to say so much more in a group conversation. Crazy how we teach people how to treat us in ways we don’t even comprehend, sometimes.

Big caveat: When you make plans to do something you enjoy so you feel more comfortable, like for a date, please use discernment. Think about what they want too. For example I went on a date and the guy wanted to show me all of these videos from this comedian he liked. It was him showing me a part of himself, but it went on and on and on. A big turn off and it felt more like him indulging himself than him thinking about me.

Can we all appreciate the fact that he put a lot of work in these videos I've never before seen anyone use checkpoints in a video, keep up the good work my guy!

The more of these I watch, the more I'm convinced charisma is really about connection.

I’m currently studying acting at University and I think the first minute of this video just changed my life.

Charisma on command, you just keep doing what you do because you changing lives over here 👏

Hugh Jackman "I have anxiety before every show, even today" from Tim Ferris Show

Hugh is my favorite. I love how you intercut clips of the actor smiling with scenes of his characters full of powerful emotions across the spectrum. He's really good at tapping into and expressing feelings both positive and negative. Great video!

Charisma on Command, guys, you're doing a great job. Before I discovered this channel 3 years ago, I was too meek even to say my name out loud when asked. But now I have a much more confidence and can articulate my thoughts to whomever I want---mostly because of your people-skill advices. Thank you ❤

OMG!! I LOVE this man SO MUCH!! He is acts the way that the entire world should act towards one another. ❤ ❤ ❤

I love how he says “kid from Wahroonga” as if it’s somewhere quaint and poor, as opposed to the reality of it being one of the wealthiest and most upper-class suburbs of Sydney 😂

Hugh is honestly one of the special guys it’s very rare to see a person in the entertainment industry conduct himself with such grace and kindness The way he is with colleagues and especially fans , making them feel included and valued warms my heart A lot of people in the “biz” should look to him and take inspiration on how they conduct themselves , A true one off xxx

Great pointers to assess in yourself and in the people you like and admire. I'm thinking about a friend who is not smart, average-looking, and pretty shallow. But he's positive and appreciative of what he has -- and when he laughs, "the whole world laughs with him."

Finally a video on Hugh's charisma! I was always curious how you'd break it down on this channel!

This is amazing, to see people help each other like this ...I'm a natural introvert with anxiety disorder. It took me years to learn how to connect with others. I wish I would have had videos like this. Half, but only half, of what is covered I already know to be true, and what's amazing, this opens the window into so many things am so happy to learn

God, I just love Hugh Jackman, and before he was even The Wolverine, my dad & mine's favorite character of all time. There was a time in my life, when I would watch Kate & Leopold three times a year just to feel good and find the strength to keep going. To this day, that is still my number one guilty pleasure film - every time I feel down or sense that I'm going to be depressed, I just don't think about it anymore, I immediately watch that film. And ever since, he (both Hugh & Leopold) has been my template of how to be a man, and especially, one rightful of a lady's. I haven't convinced my Kate to follow me back to my time & live happily ever after, granted, but I will get there eventually. Hugh Jackman makes me believe that it is possible. Wow, that was so hopeless romantic of me, but whatever. Thanks for being such a great inspiration, man!

After watching this, my charisma is at its peak

Hugh Jacknan definitely knows how to connect. Whenever someone is genuinely interested in connecting the rest beautifully unfolds. Usually when I am interested the rest is interesting. Most of us if we’re being filmed or interviewed we will bring up a more charming self. I wonder Is that who we really are? I agree that eye contact is super important and supports connection with another human. We all can be a lot more charming if we hang out with people we enjoy being with. Blessings to all on this fun journey, Truth and Love to you 💝🙋🏻‍♀️

Congratulations 4M subscribers! I've been following your channel for 2 months. Your contents hugely changed my life. Thank you!

Making consistent eye contact while talking is so hard, I forget what I'm saying!

With Hugh Jackman... I just think he is just being genuine... I just love him 🥰

Me: *Sees video title* Is it possible to learn this power?

Hugh really does have infectious, effortless and sincere charm. Great analysis. Thank you.

Your videos shows the things that I've been unconsciously doing since I can remember... Which I didn't knew other people are having problems with. You helping them to resolve such challenges is quite amazing and I hope that your channel grew in success even more.

I love this channel, it helps me be better and doesn't teach me to be a toxic male or something, but to be a "human" human

Smile big, laugh loudly, and encourage others--seems like a way of life!

I think a few of Jack's attributes can be traced back to australian culture and society (or at least elements of it). In Australia we tend to be very open about our flaws and make fun of ourselves constantly for them (especially with mates). Its common place such that if you don't do it YOU'RE the odd one out.

Another charming person is Justin Timberlake. If you ever watch him in his interviews, you can't help but like the guy. His smile and positivity is freaking infectious!

Making a habit of looking for opportunities to compliment others is great training for creating a habit and mindset of Looking for the Good in Others.

Watched one episeode, cant stop watching..

Thank you Ben! I've been waiting for a breakdown on Hugh Jackman for forever! What an incredible guy (easy everyone's crush)! That lovely habit of making the people around him feel special has another effect imho: making himself "not so special at all", which makes easier for us to consider hmi as "a buddy of mine".

Thank you for all the effort you put into this channel! It would be very cool if there will be more examples from women to all the ladies watching your channel like me ☺️

Thank you, i am taking many things from this❤️

I'm a panda. I'm naturally charming. (awesome video btw, I love Hugh)

There still has yet to be an Oscars opening number that has come even remotely close to Hugh Jackman's.

1. Be worth listening to - be your best you, it will lead to greater experiences. Do your best, etc, otherwise you're a joke.. 2. Forget yourself and listen to the other. If they need help moving the conversation, you've hopefully done #1 well enough to relate in some capacity through experience. 3. Who cares - be prepared to step at least slightly out of bounds of the conversation - why should you care what people think of you if you've done 1 and 2? Just remember, being a complete weirdo is different than not caring. People who don't care but are winning are very different than people who don't care who no one respects or understands.

This might be my favorite video of this channel. I never realized just how charismatic Hugh was. Thank you so much for the great insight!

Man I love this channel, keep it up bro!

It's hard keeping up with all these social ques and charismatic expressions just to make someone like you.

My biggest problem watching these videos is realizing I already do all of this naturally anyways. Yet it never seems to be enough.

I learned this lenguage just because of this channel. Thank you Charlie! You changed my life!

I'm from Belarus and our skills are lower than 0. thank you very much, super helpful video! need to rewatch again and again

Love this channel, brings me confidence

Compliments work best if there is initially mutual respect.

I loved the extra tips on how to make our compliments more effective. Another reason those work so well is because of Hugh's body language. Ben mentioned how good his eye contact is, which is true and their video on Bill Clinton goes more in-depth still, but I wanted to add two things: focus and intent. Hugh's full attention is focused on whoever he is speaking to. It's not just his eyes, but his whole body turns to face the person. You can see him leaning forward sometimes when listening, letting the other person know they are being heard. Then leaning back once he has made a point. However, always, when speaking to one person, Hugh is facing them with all his body, all his focus, and attention. Unlike we might see from "The Cool Type" as Robert Downey Jr. does.

Hugh Jackman used to be a teacher and a good teacher would need to be positive and motivational.

Imagine being Hughes Jackman and stumbling upon this video of someone analyzing you 0_0

Confidence is a mindset. There’ll always be something you’re not gonna be good at but you’ll need to try to tackle regardless.

I love these videos. I struggle with being awkward because I'm autistic so I'm trying to learn how to interact

Great video! one of your best!

Its always easy to be relaxed and enjoy a situation when you have enough money to not need the job.

He forgot step 7: Hit the jackpot in the genetics department.

I have been binge watching all these videos because the second there's no more online school, I want to the best me.

i have watch so many videos of this chennel and i finally realise that we just need to be ourself with some confidance. yanhh nothing else!!

Hugh is such an awesome person and this was a great video! Some of the things mentioned here, especially the part on compliments, are discussed in the book - How to Talk to Anyone. It's simple and to the point with 92 specific ways on how talk to anyone haha and it's helped me a bunch :)

We all have this in us... we just belived the lies the devil told us over the years.... we are all awesome!!! I love you all!! Stay awesome people 👏👏👏👏

Great content as always ❤️ Congrats on reaching 4M subscribers guys! Well Deserved

The most engaging narration to this video of any I've listened to on this channel.

WADDUP EARLY PEOPLE

A truly classy guy. Someone who hasn't let fame and money ruin him. Bravo, Hugh!

Just discovered your channel. Well done on simplifying communication and charisma concepts into tangible methods that others can apply. 👏👏👏

I'm so happy I found this channel.

it's actually rather easy when you're Huge Jacked Man