You shouldn't have to charm your wife to have sex. That's BS. If a man is providing her part of the deal is to put out, that is the marriage agreement. Men go.wrong when they actually believe that they must charm their wives just to have sex. Is charming a bad thing, no. But a wife expecting it so a man can be intimate is something men don't need to deal with. Refusing sex is actually grounds for divorce, it's called sexual defraudment. It's like men saying they aren't gonna provide anymore cos his wife doesn't cook food.that tastes good - see how ridiculous that sounds? It's the same as a man having to jump.through charm hoops just to have sex.

Don’t encourage divorce recklessly

Facts

@@mohammada3116 who cares yall out here acting like divorce is haram in islam,you can literly divorce your wife and it will be allowed by the sharia court for reasons like her inviting a female friend you hate into your home let alone her rejecting sex and having a cursed person in your home.

@@zuhasbekillin3461 who cares? are u 12 years old? dont normalize divorce fear Allah, ur sounding like a woman screaming divorce. grow up

@@mohammada3116 was hassan ra screaming like a woman when he divorced 70 times?

Bullshit 😂 heaps of hijabis be creepin on their man who goes mosque everyday

He’s quoting Zionist Peterson… what Islam is this

So try all the best to remove accountability from women

What maid? Sorry I don’t understand that lifestyle we grew up doing everything with our own hands. No strangers in my house no maids

@@luluah1198 KZfaq deletes my comments if I use other words. So I used maid instead of the usual word for the opposite of a man.

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Women are women everywhere.

It has nothing to with emotions stop it the bother needs to give her anxiety and get a new wife studies show anxiety is what makes people have sex more its why during war people have a lot of sex you would think on gaza people would not have sex but we cant stop hearing about all the new born babies

@@zuhasbekillin3461 It's stress rather than anxiety.

The legions of gold diggers, Muslims and non Muslims around the world would disagree with u

@@zuhasbekillin3461 how would you give her stress though?

@@HHH-31. show her that other women want you so she gets competition anxiety and that you can walk away any minute,the problem is that men are duped into monogamy which gives her power and not only that they sign goverment contract which gives her even less anxiety because cant walk away without geting destroyed in court.

Or she’s sick of being ignored emotionally by his wife This man is quoting Zionist Peterson

But it really depends though. If they are using sex as a weapon then yeah the angels will curse them. But if they really don't want to do it the other partner should be understanding

@@hamdiyazid200 I guess but I remember years back when I attended a women's only halaqa at the masjid our ustadha specifically talked about this. She said if you want to have a good marriage you have to please your husband even if you don't want to. You get rewarded for it afterall.

No but sometimes even people in a relationships like one of them might not be in the mood. And if they force themselves to they are going to end up hating their spouse. Now tell me would the angels curse such people?

True but its what muslim parents tell their sons

Now explain this to every desi out there

It can get you 🐱but if you're not professional with your patients you will land in jail

@@saifullahkhan1202 It certainly attracts a lot of gold diggers. But you will notice the accomplished doctors only have 1 wife. And very rarely 2. Because they are so busy. The only ones with multiple are the entrepreneurs because of the more control they have over time despite both making a lot of money.

Bingo

Man ive been dwelling so deep into blackpill i hate it what do i do

This probably a bettwr advice than you didnt obey allah enough 😂

@@ballistic2513 whats that

@@zuhasbekillin3461 it's not advice, it's just what it is

@@ballistic2513 You only need to work hard. The thing about female is that you need to realize that most females are only for incubation of your child not even as a parent for your child.

cope

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Good tip but theThe problem can occur again so try to fix it first

If his first wife doesn't even want him, why on earth would a second wife want him?

Not all women are the same if his first wife doesn't want another one will be head iver heels for him ​@@southpaw_from_southport1522

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He has the provide separate homes for each wife

@lightening791 Next door apartment or home, then

​@@razer0072073most likely she won't agree to that in the first place and if she does and she hears that, there is a high chance she'll leave the marriage. I wouldn't advise him to do this at all

​@@razer0072073that will only create drama and choas. Stop giving the brother bad advise. He's going through a tough time

a doctor doesnt provide for his wife?????

I agree with the last sentence, but what if the husband did everything he could to please his wive(s) to the best of his abillities?

you probably still cope

​@@prizma45???

@@shahidabdoullakhanzorovr1564blackpiller?

Honey the only thing he need to mentioned is that he married a female of the fire. And to prevent himself from falling into the fire he need to get rid of the trash in his house. And marry a real female of heaven.

@@shahidabdoullakhanzorovr1564 aww too uneducated to understand basic english?

If he knew that answer would he be making these types of videos sat in his house and car?

Divorce her?? You probably think getting a new wife will fix your problems. If your first wife is not having sex with you, it's because she's not attracted to you or has no respect for you. If she doesn't, more than likely the next wife will do the same.

​@@CamelJockey562just say you have scarcity mindset if a woman does not desire you someone else will its time muslim men stand up

​@@CamelJockey562bro i just read another comment of yours. you yourself hate your own wife why because you have scarcity mindset leave the woman and get a new one you acctually love cant take advice from a misrable man like you hassan ra divorced over 70 times.

Allah hates divorce in islam

Highly agreed

Without any self reflection?

me too

​@@saifhussain8472obviously it's not a once thing but if she denies me sex and we start having it 2x a week I will divorce without hesitation

You're probably a virgin and not even married to make a silly comment like that

​@@CamelJockey562no it means he has not been indoctrinated by western Christian standards obviously you dont divorce your wife over one time thing but if she denies sex for some time its time to divorce her,the profhets grandson divorced over 70 times either be happy,scream the hadith 7 times a week or be in a sexless marriage and end up like the Western men

If a woman has conditions she should fix it or get divorced we dint give men with Ed any mercy

Men are not excused for not providing for silly reasobs... get them fixed like men do....

@@zuhasbekillin3461marry a second wife stop whining

@@mohammada3116 most woman are not ok with that so it's better to divorce

@@zuhasbekillin3461 i dont care, dont preach divorce ur not a scholar.

True but no we want to make islam into christianity,what do you think about the new mindset to marriage in islam the husband can't get a 2nd wife and he must be with his wife till death no reason is good enough to leave,even if she cheats divorce should be last option as they love to say. And the woman can never do any wrong remember last video when the husband was the one rejecting sex he was called gay when its the woman doing it,it must be because he disobeyed allah some are even accusing the brother of riba😂🤦‍♂️

Really? Raping wife is allowed??

Your allowed to r.pe you wife? I didn't know that.

You’re clearly not muslim.

Are you able to provide the evidence that the husband is allowed to force himself on his wife please? Using Qur’an and authentic Hadith. Barakallaahu feek.

Its has nothing to do with riba and everything to do with the wife im tired of this logic how do we know the brother is doing riba wife denies husband sex=he didnt obey allah husband denies wife sex=he is gay

Honey, what does riba have anything to do with doctors? This is all about females not having any morality or faith.

Bruddah not sure where your mind is going or what you’re tryna tell the world and yeah first of don’t be gay and don’t voluntarily involve yourself within riba cos the ribs defo ain’t helping if you are them man there aforementioned

To elaborate on your point. For sure, if a husband doesn't obey his own creator, and he expects his wife to obey her creator and eventually her husband? Some muslim men desire a woman like khadija, but they live like abu Jahil.

@@ghurabaa114xx it's acctually very sad if you want to know why I made that comment watch mahdis video of this but reverse were the wife was denied sex the comments and even mahdi called the brother gay but in this video they are accusing the husband of the worst sins like riba and being abu lahab astqfrullah may allah save this ummah from hypocrisy and gynocentrism 😭🤦‍♂️