6 months ago she relocated for a man she was dating. It didn’t work out, ready to meet someone new

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Kendra G

Kendra G

Күн бұрын

6 months ago she relocated for a man she was dating. It didn’t work out. Now she is ready to meet someone new.

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@lightskindaimyo7830
@lightskindaimyo7830 4 ай бұрын
Is anyone else gonna bring up the fact that she uprooted her kid, away from his birth father to chase after a situationship?
@j.k.3
@j.k.3 4 ай бұрын
😢😢😢
@yougotgamesonyourphone6947
@yougotgamesonyourphone6947 4 ай бұрын
I do not believe for one bit they were in an exclusive relationship.
@nolabae
@nolabae 4 ай бұрын
Sad. So many women do this and it's overlooked.
@PabCavalier
@PabCavalier 4 ай бұрын
I think that she thought that they were in a relationship even while they were both in MD but now that she’s away from it realizes it was really a situationship.
@meghanwilliams4295
@meghanwilliams4295 4 ай бұрын
Oh, gosh...🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️
@halftimehomes
@halftimehomes 4 ай бұрын
“I want you to move to Charlotte with me, but you have to get your own crib” is crazy 😂
@belizeanalienify
@belizeanalienify 4 ай бұрын
Perspective!!! 😭
@sloppygirlz
@sloppygirlz 4 ай бұрын
🚩
@soulsistah5738
@soulsistah5738 4 ай бұрын
Good because she would’ve been in his house and broken up
@StillLearnin4332
@StillLearnin4332 4 ай бұрын
KS talked about this becoming a norm, hopefully not. Living together separately
@gregs8061
@gregs8061 4 ай бұрын
I like this young lady, she's gonna be okay!
@ToriUptown
@ToriUptown 4 ай бұрын
she should probably work on not being emotionally dependent. that’s not a “female” trait, that’s a trauma response.
@SoulBeauty1111
@SoulBeauty1111 4 ай бұрын
True! Until she gets to the root of her emotional dependence, she will continue to be taken advantage of. Different men, same issue.
@emac1286
@emac1286 4 ай бұрын
She's codependent big time!
@starshottai2519
@starshottai2519 4 ай бұрын
I love when they depend on me. Makes me feel loved 😂
@NewlifeNewbeginnings2
@NewlifeNewbeginnings2 4 ай бұрын
I need women to know it's OK to be single and not desperate. Idk when we're going to get it through our heads to value ourselves 🤦🏾‍♀️. A man is great to have,but he should add to your life not take away.
@corasbloom
@corasbloom 4 ай бұрын
She needs to let that coochie breathe
@yougotgamesonyourphone6947
@yougotgamesonyourphone6947 4 ай бұрын
Moving states for a friends with benefits at 31 years old with a child in tow just to live separately is insane.
@BeautyNBrains86
@BeautyNBrains86 4 ай бұрын
Insane
@murieltillman9554
@murieltillman9554 4 ай бұрын
Ludicrous.
@PamelaDennis
@PamelaDennis 4 ай бұрын
Yeah now tell me about how y’all have ALWAYS been better than anyone on this planet as far as how you operate in relationships. Be honest.
@murieltillman9554
@murieltillman9554 4 ай бұрын
@@PamelaDennis ?
@BeautyNBrains86
@BeautyNBrains86 4 ай бұрын
@PamelaDennis No, not better. I was just expecting her to say they moved in together. I had to play it back to make sure I heard her right. I haven't even lived w/ a man before. She's beautiful, she'll be okay.
@j.k.3
@j.k.3 4 ай бұрын
Be careful of oversharing on the net… will attract certain types of people. Revealed place of employment 😮 and being emotionally dependent.
@sakpase88
@sakpase88 4 ай бұрын
Yea she making it easy for ppl to get at her
@mrmoe110
@mrmoe110 4 ай бұрын
I’m sitting here thinking why in the world did she say the name of the company where she works multiple times???
@tmcurly
@tmcurly 4 ай бұрын
Comes across as broken. This won’t end well 😳 No self awareness at all
@CocoNoir2020
@CocoNoir2020 4 ай бұрын
I was thinking the same thing. Some Predator gonna come lick her wounds and validate her foolish move by blaming it all on the guy
@debervin9121
@debervin9121 4 ай бұрын
She comes across as very naive.
@kane99560
@kane99560 4 ай бұрын
A 5 year situationship is wild. Then you move to his state but not in with him. Pookie just keep winning
@karynthompson4320
@karynthompson4320 4 ай бұрын
It's sad really. She has a child that she probably brought with her. Took her away from this little boy's friends and probably family.
@truebengalsfan
@truebengalsfan 4 ай бұрын
She now think she knows her worth lmao
@E.R225
@E.R225 4 ай бұрын
​@@karynthompson4320Don't you know Mama needs come before her seed smh
@karynthompson4320
@karynthompson4320 4 ай бұрын
I was married when I relocated but I can still relate to relocating with children. It's a lot more than people think.@@E.R225
@karynthompson4320
@karynthompson4320 4 ай бұрын
@@E.R225
@murieltillman9554
@murieltillman9554 4 ай бұрын
Don't move for a boyfriend/girlfriend/fiance. Move for a HUSBAND/WIFE!
@CyberMachine
@CyberMachine 4 ай бұрын
I think you should move for a fiance though.
@tenderbrown74
@tenderbrown74 4 ай бұрын
Move for a fiancè ONLY if you have a ring. I never understand women who claim the title, with NO ring.
@murieltillman9554
@murieltillman9554 4 ай бұрын
What is the rush? Uprooting your whole life, job, child/children, support system, etc, is a huge commitment on HER behalf. For a decision that big, seems to me, waiting on HIS commitment to complete a marriage ceremony is not that difficult an ask. There are oh so many single parents out here, left that way, because they jumped the gun and moved in or away, because they were a "fiance".
@iwilson3950
@iwilson3950 4 ай бұрын
YES 🙌🏾🙌🏾
@jmelanierenee
@jmelanierenee 4 ай бұрын
@@tenderbrown74not even that, a date set within the near future. Ppl get a ring and never get married
@ultimateenigma6038
@ultimateenigma6038 4 ай бұрын
Black women- END SITUATIONSHIPS............periodt. Situationships are a clear waste of time. Men benefit, they get you, your energy, your body and resources at a discount. Learn to put people in categories. Men do this all the time.
@lessmall78
@lessmall78 4 ай бұрын
Men are not the only beneficiaries of a situationship. A woman's physical needs are also met and sometimes they look for a good night more than the man. Situationships for anyone is a serious waste of time for both parties and you are giving away your energy, depleting yourself for the one created for you.
@melvinbarnes6652
@melvinbarnes6652 4 ай бұрын
@@lessmall78 Agree but also don't forget to mention a woman's financial needs are often being met as well.
@beatriceshaw
@beatriceshaw 4 ай бұрын
Not always the case Melvin
@melvinbarnes6652
@melvinbarnes6652 4 ай бұрын
@@beatriceshaw hence the reason I used the word often. With that said, not only do you get the benefit of sex, you also reap the financial benefits.
@DarnellHolland-mct25
@DarnellHolland-mct25 3 ай бұрын
You're funny😂 Men don't benefit from wasting time with these trash ass women. Stop being so damn delusional. Pookies win not real hard working men
@keithwilliams9785
@keithwilliams9785 4 ай бұрын
As a man that is co parenting with my ex, I would be pissed off if my ex relocated my kids for this reason smh!
@tmcurly
@tmcurly 4 ай бұрын
Irresponsible AND she back again on a dating show looking for a man 🤣
@MrsRease2011
@MrsRease2011 4 ай бұрын
@@tmcurlyYes! 🤦🏾‍♀️😩
@kel5088
@kel5088 4 ай бұрын
On me. I Would be pissed. Especially with me having a daughter. I wouldn’t want her thinking this is cool.
@asdfghj13579fly
@asdfghj13579fly 4 ай бұрын
@@marawood3801Or the father lived very close by and she made a very selfish decision to separate them on an emotional whim.
@Lanceswizzle
@Lanceswizzle 4 ай бұрын
That's all I was thinking about. How tf you move to another State with somebody else child to move closer to some guy. Wtf
@leahhamil8514
@leahhamil8514 4 ай бұрын
Sounds like he casually mentioned moving there, and he was shocked that she actually came 😮
@jenniferjones4113
@jenniferjones4113 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@taliahali9827
@taliahali9827 4 ай бұрын
Facts sounds like he’s wasn’t involved in any actual planning
@Lisa.larisse
@Lisa.larisse 21 күн бұрын
BINGOOOO!!! 😂😂
@Justlikethat555
@Justlikethat555 4 ай бұрын
If she's about to cry, she's not over him, nor is she ready to love someone else.
@kturay1
@kturay1 4 ай бұрын
I don’t think she was about to cry for him but the situation and realization that time was wasted.
@sheilaconcitis8385
@sheilaconcitis8385 4 ай бұрын
She doesn't need to worry about a booty call if she has a child depending on her.
@tamikagarner1
@tamikagarner1 4 ай бұрын
So true!
@wordplay6665
@wordplay6665 4 ай бұрын
Exactlyyyy. If he decided to make moves she would hop right back on
@aprilwoods6923
@aprilwoods6923 4 ай бұрын
People talk too much we don’t need to know what bank you work for just say you are associate branch manager at a bank
@tmcurly
@tmcurly 4 ай бұрын
Over sharing is unattractive 😢🥵
@patrickdickson7220
@patrickdickson7220 4 ай бұрын
💯
@beasonthe
@beasonthe 4 ай бұрын
Girl and her name is so unique!! Anyone can probably find her now that’s so scary!! Or even call her job and lie on her!! I would never
@beasonthe
@beasonthe 4 ай бұрын
These ppl are weird I don’t even put my real name on here .
@user-frien336
@user-frien336 4 ай бұрын
She said her son has a full-time dad.. but she keeps moving😂😂😂😂
@cocolokoflacco
@cocolokoflacco 4 ай бұрын
that's what they do bruh....all their standards go out the window for that guy(tyrone/chad w.e). then they'll get pregnant by the(tyrone/chad) and keep his baby even tho he doesn't want them to. all because she's tryna inevitably trapem
@user-frien336
@user-frien336 4 ай бұрын
@@cocolokoflacco it's extremely selfish.
@StefIsCold
@StefIsCold 4 ай бұрын
@@cocolokoflaccofacts smh
@luvbig41
@luvbig41 4 ай бұрын
Right....not giving him the chance to be full time or have a say in the situation.
@Khaseenwar09
@Khaseenwar09 4 ай бұрын
Bruh! 😂
@ourtruth216
@ourtruth216 4 ай бұрын
Never relocate for a man until he marries you, my mom taught me this a long time ago 😂
@A-Thomas
@A-Thomas 4 ай бұрын
She didn’t relocate for him. She did it for herself.
@ourtruth216
@ourtruth216 4 ай бұрын
@@A-Thomas if she was courting with him before she moved then moved to where he lived… she did it for him.
@A-Thomas
@A-Thomas 4 ай бұрын
@@ourtruth216 She was in a situationship with him. 99% of women today aren’t courting anyone they are hooking up.
@ourtruth216
@ourtruth216 4 ай бұрын
@@A-Thomas ur saying nothing
@A-Thomas
@A-Thomas 4 ай бұрын
@@ourtruth216 I understand that you are willfully ignorant.
@rororidley5829
@rororidley5829 4 ай бұрын
All the Narcissists are finna flood her DMs after she dropped that she’s emotionally dependent 🤦🏾‍♀️. Somebody gonna get a FULL supply. Lady make sure you watch out for love-bombing
@5822huron
@5822huron 4 ай бұрын
Facts
@ToriUptown
@ToriUptown 4 ай бұрын
she obv attracts them
@joshuaguerrier7392
@joshuaguerrier7392 4 ай бұрын
Narcissist are her type tho.
@clarencedolan699
@clarencedolan699 4 ай бұрын
You guys have no idea what a Narcissist is. Less than 5% of the population has been diagnosed with that condition, yet women throw it around as if every other man alive is one. It’s a very, very rare condition. Just because a person is selfish doesn’t make them a narcissist, it’s like calling everyone who drinks an alcoholic. I doubt any of you are doctors, they are the only professionals who knows what an actual narcissist is. Social media, new words and the people who use them incorrectly….
@__khadijahhhh
@__khadijahhhh 4 ай бұрын
That’s not how it works. If she attracts narcissists it’s cus she’s one. Her stating she’s emotionally dependent just translates to codependent and lack of boundaries.
@TheMuscleMan2244
@TheMuscleMan2244 4 ай бұрын
Kenna hit the nail on the head. Women often say “I love too hard” girl LOVE YOURSELF TOO HARD. Y’all end up in all of these weird ass situationships, but if you loved yourself more the right man will RESPECT it.
@TheMuscleMan2244
@TheMuscleMan2244 4 ай бұрын
Also, she said that she was more into the guy than he was into her. That dudes an idiot, because this lady looks amazing. Hopefully she finds someone that appreciates her
@LoveAfterPookie
@LoveAfterPookie 4 ай бұрын
If you love yourself you wouldn't be in a situationship in the first place.
@PrettyMoneyLife
@PrettyMoneyLife 4 ай бұрын
Yess
@superwoman9730
@superwoman9730 4 ай бұрын
Or you won’t accept crappy men
@SunnyKayy
@SunnyKayy 4 ай бұрын
FACTS!!!! LOVE YOURSELF MORE!! PERIOD!!
@Moore_cookies51
@Moore_cookies51 4 ай бұрын
PUT YOUR SON FIRST! YOUR son needs his father and relatives. Stop putting others ahead of raising your child.
@dfagan28
@dfagan28 4 ай бұрын
SAY IT LOUD!!
@N.1lza
@N.1lza 4 ай бұрын
Why y’all so upset obviously the father didn’t care because she’s still there and she didn’t mention that the father had a problem
@vanessagrayman2194
@vanessagrayman2194 4 ай бұрын
@@N.1lzagood point
@vanessagrayman2194
@vanessagrayman2194 4 ай бұрын
@@N.1lzagood point
@Bnizzofashizzo
@Bnizzofashizzo 4 ай бұрын
At the point in which she got pregnant without a marriage , you know her son is an accessory.
@RemIsNice
@RemIsNice 4 ай бұрын
Damn, how do you relocate and not move in together?
@slinkiegirl2001
@slinkiegirl2001 4 ай бұрын
he probably had a wife or a long term gf and he wanted something more and she provided him with that without any form of commitment, on his part
@pimphandstrong6620
@pimphandstrong6620 4 ай бұрын
She dumb obviously
@omalleyjacobs3512
@omalleyjacobs3512 4 ай бұрын
He never asked her to come she was obsessed and followed him there against his wishes hence she had to get her own place
@TheTrulynice1412
@TheTrulynice1412 4 ай бұрын
It was the kid.....I guarantee it....he couldn't do the kid thing, and might not have been honest with her.....off and on for 5 yrs???.....moved 2 yrs earlier???....then he missed the box and was like "u should move here"....she's a slice 🍰....and she gave it to him
@ejay2075
@ejay2075 4 ай бұрын
Easy... he didn't want her like that.
@jim3565
@jim3565 4 ай бұрын
Ladies get the ring first before you get anything else…🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️
@tmcurly
@tmcurly 4 ай бұрын
They are clueless sadly 🤦🏽‍♀️
@tmcurly
@tmcurly 4 ай бұрын
They will always tell you they were engaged without the diamond ring 💍 😳…..cap 🧢🧢
@northerngal13
@northerngal13 4 ай бұрын
A ring doesn’t mean anything these days. Just a stall tactic to keep stringing you along.
@jayc5756
@jayc5756 4 ай бұрын
​@@northerngal13 Yeah, thats true too.
@jay4341
@jay4341 4 ай бұрын
@@northerngal13Heavy placeholder yikes
@tincredible
@tincredible 4 ай бұрын
Don't be surprised if this woman's son resents her when he grows up. She was so desperate for a man that she was willing to uproot her child from his own dad, family, school, & friends to prioritize HER thirst for a man. There are often some bitter consequences for being a self-absorbed parent. Before anyone comes at me with the, "he'll be grown by then" cliche, keep in mind that if a parent lives long enough, there will come a time when the parent needs their child JUST AS MUCH as the child once need the parent.
@tincredible
@tincredible 4 ай бұрын
@@Fabrizio7171 I wouldn't say that NONE of them care about tomorrow...nor would I say that this is trait that's unique to women. Selfish people (period) live for themselves and for the moment.
@thetruecrimeconnoisseur
@thetruecrimeconnoisseur 4 ай бұрын
You're absolutely right! Your crotch shouldn't come before your childs best interest. I can't stand women like her. Can't respect that kind of weakness.
@CyberBella4U
@CyberBella4U 3 ай бұрын
This happened to me 😢. I know my son resents me for my actions
@tincredible
@tincredible 3 ай бұрын
@@CyberBella4U At least you're introspective enough to acknowledge the errors of your past ways. Some parents have such and inflated ego that they never take accountability for how they failed their kids. They take their self-righteousness and "justifications" to the grave and simply gaslight their kids for life. The fact that you're willing to acknowledge your past wrongs means that there may be hope for your relationship with your son.
@marcusyoung2081
@marcusyoung2081 4 ай бұрын
He just wanted a closer booty call; that is why he asked her to move. Ain't nobody trying to keep paying for all of those flights back and forth 🤷🏾‍♂️ 🤣
@kane99560
@kane99560 4 ай бұрын
Pretty much..
@willdickens7712
@willdickens7712 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@belizeanalienify
@belizeanalienify 4 ай бұрын
You tell me that he was getting a*** somewhere else when she was in Maryland? Naw he wasn’t committed like that ? 5 year situationship 😭
@MSKTLIZ
@MSKTLIZ 4 ай бұрын
Imagine a grown man finding this humorous. 🥴
@marcusyoung2081
@marcusyoung2081 4 ай бұрын
@MSKTLIZ Imagine a grown woman who is responsible for the well-being of another person not being able to differentiate between being someone to just fcuk on and being someone who is seen as a future wife or anything meaningful FOR 5 YEARS. Nobody has to feel sorry for her or you for making foolish decisions. This is why many of you always want to place the blame on others because you are not willing to accept the fact that you make silly decisions that lead to the negative outcomes that you experience. Anyone choosing to be in a situationship for 5 years deserves to be laughed at.
@sonyadrake7843
@sonyadrake7843 4 ай бұрын
She should've let her Son stay with his Father so he could finish his last year of Elementary School. He probably misses his Friends. 😢 Seems like she's not over the Older Dude and wanting to be too Clingy.
@_m_K_.
@_m_K_. 4 ай бұрын
She said she had a 12 yo son. Even worse, the kid is going to resent the mother. A young kid may have forgot or not understand, a 12yo is perceptive enough to know his mom a scallywag and fool.
@sun-kissedbeautyQueen
@sun-kissedbeautyQueen 4 ай бұрын
She is very sensitive - very vulnerable - very clingy. These are not horrible things but when not properly balanced they can be horrible things. May God keep her and her son always..keep the devil away and heightened her discernment.
@murieltillman9554
@murieltillman9554 4 ай бұрын
She keeps saying, " if I'm going to be honest blah, blah, blah". She's lying about a whole bunch of something!
@PrettyMoneyLife
@PrettyMoneyLife 4 ай бұрын
Sis! Yes 😒
@lizamimi
@lizamimi 4 ай бұрын
💅🏽 we expect you to honest….no need to keep saying it
@carleeb2344
@carleeb2344 3 ай бұрын
That to be honest is irking the hell out of me
@Simplyme718
@Simplyme718 3 ай бұрын
I was thinking the same thing
@dujuanab.7162
@dujuanab.7162 4 ай бұрын
The only man I am moving to a different state for is my husband!
@Sistagirltay
@Sistagirltay 4 ай бұрын
Same! We divorced now but we share a child and I stayed in same state.
@aprilstreeter9853
@aprilstreeter9853 3 ай бұрын
period !
@EnlightenmentKing555
@EnlightenmentKing555 4 ай бұрын
She obtains a empathic spirit and Demonic spirits are obsessed with kindhearted , emotionally available beings. Hopefully , she works on strengthening her discernment . I send protection energy to her and her seed .
@tmcurly
@tmcurly 4 ай бұрын
Ha ? 😳😳 Makes no logic
@main1033
@main1033 4 ай бұрын
I dunno wtf he talking about​@@tmcurly
@zoozagt5
@zoozagt5 4 ай бұрын
💞🎯🤲🏾
@Winnib7479
@Winnib7479 4 ай бұрын
Only a Christian would understand. Ephesians 6:10-17 some people are lead by evil and wickedness, Discernment is important for everyone to avoid those type of people.
@EnlightenmentKing555
@EnlightenmentKing555 4 ай бұрын
@@Winnib7479 Thank you . Those who get it, get it and those who don’t , don’t .
@King_N_Me
@King_N_Me 4 ай бұрын
Ladies…… if you relocate for a man and u have to get your own place……. Don’t! 🤔👀🫡🤦🏾‍♂️🚶🏾‍♂️🚶🏾‍♂️🚶🏾‍♂️
@tmcurly
@tmcurly 4 ай бұрын
You only move in if he proposes otherwise it’s a no-go. Stop encouraging co-habitation. Then that man will never marry her. She is a single mum..
@tmcurly
@tmcurly 4 ай бұрын
☹️☹️
@iwilson3950
@iwilson3950 4 ай бұрын
Better yet…it’s time to start normalizing relocation with a ring on the finger.
@augustbaby8254
@augustbaby8254 4 ай бұрын
Super Simp to the rescue 🛟
@ASoulFulT
@ASoulFulT 4 ай бұрын
Every situation is different. I am not married, I live with my partner, I work and I’m in grad school & I don’t pay any bills except my own; like my car payment & student loans. The goal is for us to get married. I lived in Charlotte and had my own place. If I had a child I would have not moved in with him before marriage. The stability of a child should always be a priority. We live and we learn!
@theeagleslairchannelwithcoacht
@theeagleslairchannelwithcoacht 4 ай бұрын
I’m quite a bit older and I read that book years ago in my 20s and in a very physically abusive relationship. That book “women who love too much” helped me GET OUT! That book was everything I needed. I married again and have been happily married for 28 years!! Give yourself a real chance. ♥️
@marilynh5487
@marilynh5487 4 ай бұрын
I ❤️ REFUSE TO DATE A MAN OVER A YEAR. A ❤️ MAN KNOW IN 90 DAYS IF HE'S GOING TO MARRY THE WOMAN. ❤❤❤❤❤
@dorawilson4902
@dorawilson4902 4 ай бұрын
I pray for her.😢
@carlcwms
@carlcwms 4 ай бұрын
Uprooting your son away from his father right before the years a boy definitely need discipline and structure without requiring a ring. I couldn’t trust her decision making.
@melaniemaat2801
@melaniemaat2801 4 ай бұрын
Did she consider her son at all during this move? What about his friends and stability? Don't be chasing no man and dragging your kids behind you.
@Mgamble214
@Mgamble214 4 ай бұрын
Preach !
@demetriusjames9535
@demetriusjames9535 4 ай бұрын
Not a drop of concern...
@hotjupiter3395
@hotjupiter3395 4 ай бұрын
No, and THIS is why we have grown men acting crazy. Be a mother and raise your boy instead of chasing a man.
@aprilstreeter9853
@aprilstreeter9853 3 ай бұрын
right go back to maryland where your kid was establish
@kwilliams3161
@kwilliams3161 4 ай бұрын
He sure as hell got his cake and ate it too …with milk .
@tmcurly
@tmcurly 4 ай бұрын
Well imagine if she had moved in !! Would get used for years with no ring. Many women in this day and age are being used. The guy won’t tell you that you are not the one. That you are Miss right now until the right woman comes along then they propose quick within a year 😳👆🏾
@LOSTGPS
@LOSTGPS 4 ай бұрын
@@tmcurly well stop choosing men based on their sex appeal then, problem solved.
@kwilliams3161
@kwilliams3161 4 ай бұрын
It seems like more and more women are just going for guys with money .and the guys with money see this and just use them with no real commitment or they’ll lie to keep getting access . I’m not pointing fingers but I do kinda feel bad this happens ALOT and there’s no easy solution for it .cause ppl can lie their teeth away to get what they want .
@jayc5756
@jayc5756 4 ай бұрын
​@@tmcurlyVery True unfortunately.
@jenessalovespink3964
@jenessalovespink3964 4 ай бұрын
​@@kwilliams3161Men without/or as much money are also using women without any commitment. Money does matter. It will be always be attractive.
@JustBree716
@JustBree716 4 ай бұрын
My homegirl was going back and forth to Texas to see someone. I asked her was this leading towards marriage. She said yes. When it fell apart, i got the real story. He did not act like he wanted to take her serious. She on the otherhand took it way more serious than he. And she has a son.
@PrettyMoneyLife
@PrettyMoneyLife 4 ай бұрын
Delusionally chasing and trying to force a relationship.
@Roccofan
@Roccofan 4 ай бұрын
Good men are not a dime a dozen. She understood the market, but made a bad investment. Women can’t afford to waste more than a few weeks on a man that isn’t on the same page as they are.
@superwoman9730
@superwoman9730 4 ай бұрын
@@Roccofan👏👏👏
@thetruecrimeconnoisseur
@thetruecrimeconnoisseur 4 ай бұрын
Desperation is ugly AF
@jodezod
@jodezod 4 ай бұрын
@@Roccofan As a man, I agree!
@myeshabrown9114
@myeshabrown9114 4 ай бұрын
Kendra I really appreciated the advice you gave her. Having those big sisters in our community is so important. As a 23 year old, this is message I will remember. This is also confirmation for the mistakes I made so far in my early 20s and how I can avoid making many other one as well when it comes to dating men.
@mrmoe110
@mrmoe110 4 ай бұрын
Damn how’s her son gonna look at his mom knowing she picked up and moved them for this dude who really wasn’t even serious about them?
@tmcurly
@tmcurly 4 ай бұрын
He grows up being problematic himself. One of those simp like men that are weak 😢
@tmcurly
@tmcurly 4 ай бұрын
Role modelling. That’s why she needs to stop dating till the son is 16. Enough is enough lol 😂
@mrmoe110
@mrmoe110 4 ай бұрын
@@tmcurly like fr I’d start looking at my mom like one of the silly girls I go to school with if I was him smh
@brianfreckles8542
@brianfreckles8542 4 ай бұрын
Modern Wmn's math : 🍆>👶
@awesomehigames
@awesomehigames 4 ай бұрын
He already knew
@Nroberqwerty
@Nroberqwerty 4 ай бұрын
He played tf out of her damn …. Go heal sis Kendra they never broke up bc they were never together… … Why would he move her and her child into his space … Wow “Kendra don’t make me cry “…. No sis it’s your circumstances is what is making you cry .. Sad case fr
@BeautyNBrains86
@BeautyNBrains86 4 ай бұрын
Whew, Lord. Yes
@missvalisha
@missvalisha 4 ай бұрын
A word!
@debervin9121
@debervin9121 4 ай бұрын
Kendra gave her bad awful, that young lady needs to work on her issues. Being in cute or physically in shape won't solve her problems.
@1986Merican
@1986Merican 4 ай бұрын
Kendra’s hair looks so pretty! I love this style on you!
@CocoNoir2020
@CocoNoir2020 4 ай бұрын
Agreed. GORGEOUs
@Rich-pc6py
@Rich-pc6py 4 ай бұрын
It's not real
@RemIsNice
@RemIsNice 4 ай бұрын
The simplest way to have a relationship with a man is to require marriage. It isn't the perfect solution, but it would prevent 99% of problems that women run into.
@JustBree716
@JustBree716 4 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯 but they're so scared to do that because they already know
@SharonStar62
@SharonStar62 4 ай бұрын
Marriage would b worse
@MyLifeMyMoneyMedia
@MyLifeMyMoneyMedia 4 ай бұрын
Courtship avoids all the pitfalls of dating.
@IAMHERE486
@IAMHERE486 4 ай бұрын
Even husbands live single and do whatever they want.The only way to prevent any of these problems honestly would be to stay celibate.
@slinkiegirl2001
@slinkiegirl2001 4 ай бұрын
it weeds out men who want a booty call and pookies and timewasters
@mablem.9094
@mablem.9094 4 ай бұрын
I believe she kept suggesting she move to NC, to follow him. After she got there reality set in that it was basically her final decision and not his.
@elfowlkes
@elfowlkes 4 ай бұрын
That makes sense. That’s why I believe they didn’t move in together. A woman can’t be more to a man than what he sees her as.
@lavernecephas1053
@lavernecephas1053 3 ай бұрын
I felt that way too. The move wasn't mutual
@markf.5551
@markf.5551 4 ай бұрын
You should've visited him first before moving!!!
@belizeanalienify
@belizeanalienify 4 ай бұрын
Chile listen 🗣️🗣️🗣️
@tmcurly
@tmcurly 4 ай бұрын
Clueless 🤦🏽‍♀️
@LOSTGPS
@LOSTGPS 4 ай бұрын
Stay thirsty my friend
@A-Thomas
@A-Thomas 4 ай бұрын
He never asked her to move. If a man asked a woman to move to another state he would hand moved her in with him. Then she said herself one she showed up his attitude changed. That’s because he didn’t expect to see her and was annoyed. We need to stop believing everything that comes out of these people’s mouths.
@banditman1986
@banditman1986 4 ай бұрын
She’s a beautiful woman, but she’s still hurt. The fact that she’s about to cry, she’s not over him. Which is ok, but don’t bleed into your next man
@AmberJailee
@AmberJailee 4 ай бұрын
yeah she needs to heal quickly. sit the next 6 months out and focus on herself
@vincentmartin1863
@vincentmartin1863 4 ай бұрын
she's get over it hopefully it might take a little time she a beautiful woman with good energy wish her all love peace an blessing 😊
@banditman1986
@banditman1986 4 ай бұрын
@@vincentmartin1863 I agree
@Geminicricketi
@Geminicricketi 3 ай бұрын
I think she should leave all the selfish thoughts n try again with him
@geremymason5936
@geremymason5936 2 ай бұрын
If a man is willing to stick with her in her healing, why is that an issue? Yall do realize that healing is a lifetime thing. There’s no such thing as being healed. A man that wants to be with her will need to be able to be with her on the good days and the bad. Yall gotta stop telling people to heal before they try to form new connections - because if people needed to be 100% healed before connecting with someone else, no one ever would.
@porchelyricsoflife987
@porchelyricsoflife987 4 ай бұрын
This was a word not just for her but for us all !!!
@LesA_09
@LesA_09 4 ай бұрын
That’s me I’m the Block ❌🚫 Queen. Screw him if a man doesn’t realize your value DONT TRY TO CONVINCE HIM Real talk 🔥🔥🔥
@gemeaux2000
@gemeaux2000 4 ай бұрын
Why would anyone value you if you have zero value for yourself?... Her story, if true, doesn't scream," I VALUE MYSELF"...
@Geminicricketi
@Geminicricketi 3 ай бұрын
You have to convince him. Tf. If he has to show up sum. U have to show y u are a wife…🤷🏽‍♀️
@KeithSmith.
@KeithSmith. 4 ай бұрын
He clapping them cheeks as we speak. 🐦🧠
@LOSTGPS
@LOSTGPS 4 ай бұрын
Yep 👏🏾 She won’t get over him any time soon
@Geneviev285
@Geneviev285 4 ай бұрын
😅😅😅😅
@BeautyNBrains86
@BeautyNBrains86 4 ай бұрын
Stop 😂 😂
@KeithSmith.
@KeithSmith. 4 ай бұрын
@@BeautyNBrains86 it's the truth 🤦🏿‍♂️🤣
@iwilson3950
@iwilson3950 4 ай бұрын
Yep! He probably saw her on Kendra G, called or texted her, and she responded… immediately.
@zeekie54
@zeekie54 4 ай бұрын
Never leave stability without MARRIAGE.
@QuoffeeandQureamQOC
@QuoffeeandQureamQOC 4 ай бұрын
Don't beat yourself up. Heal and move on. Take this as a learning experience and go for what you want. God Bless
@andreataylor2113
@andreataylor2113 4 ай бұрын
Girl he was not your friend! He didn’t even ask you to move in with him, knowing you’re moving to another state where you don’t know anyone
@karynthompson4320
@karynthompson4320 4 ай бұрын
That was a smart move. Look at the situation she in. If she she lived with him the break would have been ten times worse. Unfortunately she has a child with her....Housing , schooling , navigating herself around a state she doesn't know about? No. That was a smart move.
@PrettyMoneyLife
@PrettyMoneyLife 4 ай бұрын
Exactly not a real friend.
@PrettyMoneyLife
@PrettyMoneyLife 4 ай бұрын
​@@karynthompson4320 not moving wouldve been the smart move. Lmao what r u talking about 😂 not solid lbs
@paolaree8004
@paolaree8004 4 ай бұрын
She has very low self esteem. I think the WORST thing you can do while trying to date is talk about your past. Men judge you by what you’ve done. Broadcasting this is gonna get her the results she had before. Being in a situationship where she thinks it’s more serious than it ever was, baby mama-hood and side chick-dom.
@alexatakebackyourpowergrie872
@alexatakebackyourpowergrie872 4 ай бұрын
You gotta love your own company and VALUE yourself more than that man that ain't valuing your company. Best wishes gurl!
@Lb2Shay
@Lb2Shay 4 ай бұрын
Woman have the fantasy that men are their friends. He was nvr her friend.
@candorsspot2775
@candorsspot2775 4 ай бұрын
Facts
@lizamimi
@lizamimi 4 ай бұрын
I don’t understand that concept 💅🏽
@StillWaters101
@StillWaters101 4 ай бұрын
If a person appears to be okay with you moving your child away from their involved parent, rest assured that person is not the one. He probably was testing her and lost all respect for her as soon as she touched down in his state. Said she left a good paying job too. Smh Wouldn't be surprised if he had a bet going with some friends or family members on whether or not she was dumb enough to do it. Ladies, love and respect yourself before expecting someone else to.
@PrettyMoneyLife
@PrettyMoneyLife 4 ай бұрын
Just playing with her for his entertainment clearly wasnt fr
@kissmyjazz384
@kissmyjazz384 4 ай бұрын
I hope you move back home, for your son if not anything. It’s ok to make a mistake but don’t punish your baby because you are shamed. It’s ok we have all done things we are not proud of. If your son’s dad lives in Maryland you owe your baby that. Good luck to you!!!
@staceyg.6671
@staceyg.6671 4 ай бұрын
The hair!!! The damn hair!!!! Sooooo beautiful Kendra!!!!
@susiesolangesimpson2828
@susiesolangesimpson2828 4 ай бұрын
“I left a good paying job in Charlotte” Gave up money for a situationship? Girl GTFO.
@karynthompson4320
@karynthompson4320 4 ай бұрын
I relocated and it was the worse decision of my life! I went back home which was the best decision. We live and learn but that was a lesson that I will never forget.
@karynthompson4320
@karynthompson4320 4 ай бұрын
I was married and relocated....😔
@TaurusGirlsRock
@TaurusGirlsRock 4 ай бұрын
I understand. I promised my daughters that I wouldn’t move them again until they are out of school. My oldest daughter will graduate in 4 years and I’m planning my escape.
@TaurusGirlsRock
@TaurusGirlsRock 4 ай бұрын
Good advice Kendra!
@lindseynero1000
@lindseynero1000 4 ай бұрын
You were married and relocated? What happened first?
@hotjupiter3395
@hotjupiter3395 4 ай бұрын
Why are women dropping everything to chase a man? This was never a good idea?
@ronnien8214
@ronnien8214 4 ай бұрын
As a single father who has custody of his child it really pissed me off that she took her child from the dad especially when he's involved u don't take that for granted I wish my son mother would see her child but god knows where she is its going on 3 years now
@bigdunks4eva
@bigdunks4eva 4 ай бұрын
i went through the sane thing. my oldest son refuses to speak to his mother because she uprooted him in his younger years, more than once. my kids have been with me the last 5 years, and for about 2 years, their mother did not even call them. she's more involved now, but our oldest doesnt want anything to do with her.
@ronnien8214
@ronnien8214 4 ай бұрын
@@bigdunks4eva my son about to be 4 he's still young but hes gonna ask questions soon I'm trying to figure out how I'ma handle that
@rosieparez
@rosieparez 4 ай бұрын
​@@ronnien8214Is she on drugs?
@ronnien8214
@ronnien8214 4 ай бұрын
@@rosieparez no mental health issues
@Tee-kc3pn
@Tee-kc3pn 4 ай бұрын
​@@ronnien8214just be honest and let him know how mother is ill.... that's much different from the woman in the video
@AJ-jw6yp
@AJ-jw6yp 4 ай бұрын
If she were my little sister, I would say, take a break from dating and focus on establishing some roots and focusing on yourself and your son. Don't move to Houston! Running away from issues when we haven't changed is never a good idea. Move to an area where you have a support network, and your son will have the love and attention HE needs. I know it's difficult for some mothers to accept, but when you become a mother without a husband, YOUR CHILD is first. You make decisions and do things based on how it will affect your child. I'm sorry, it doesn't seem fair, but that's what it is. If someone wants to date you, they have to be mature enough to accept that. Having those boundaries will weed out those immature men, or the ones just not right for you. And trust me, the right man will absolutely love and respect that about you. So just relax for awhile, figure out your next move, get settled, get your son settled ( this break up affects him too, even if you don't notice it, this is another man who left him) and make your next move your best move and let love and a good man FIND YOU! Also, getting into a relationship because you don't like being alone or single always ends badly. Work on yourself, build a healthy relationship with your son. Let the right man find a healed version of you
@itzjdub282
@itzjdub282 4 ай бұрын
I like how Kendra used this as a teachable moment
@PabCavalier
@PabCavalier 4 ай бұрын
Me too! I hope that Lay buys the book.
@chrisriley7431
@chrisriley7431 4 ай бұрын
Nah, these long ass speeches are kinda cringey. What is her reply suppose to be other than her breaking down and cry?? The coulda shoulda woulda hindsight speeches are for children, not people in their 30s
@A.Pimp.Name.Slickback...
@A.Pimp.Name.Slickback... 4 ай бұрын
These women will fight tooth and nail to keep the biological fathers out of their children's lives. But the usual suspects get to be around their children all day everyday. And what's even worse, she's involving her child in her poor decision making. 🤦🏾‍♂️
@MrsRease2011
@MrsRease2011 4 ай бұрын
🙌🏾👏🏾
@mablem.9094
@mablem.9094 4 ай бұрын
If a women are continuously getting into unhealthy relationships or situationships with emotionally unavailable men, then they might as well work on the relationship with their child’s father. Many women are absolutely delusional and don’t know what they want.
@prettygirlfrmla7525
@prettygirlfrmla7525 4 ай бұрын
If her child’s dad didn’t have a problem y’all shouldn’t be worried neither
@N.1lza
@N.1lza 4 ай бұрын
@@prettygirlfrmla7525thank you 😂 all these fake outrage comments but seems like the dad was ok with it… if he wasn’t ok with it, I am sure he would have went to the police or court.
@forlighttv
@forlighttv 4 ай бұрын
​@prettygirlfrmla7525 this is how slow you women are....a bad raised kid affects us all. They the ones shooting up the blocks.
@Tax_Master_DFW
@Tax_Master_DFW 4 ай бұрын
Kendra was on point with this woman. She's a beautiful woman and spirit but I don't think she is over this guy and ready to move on. Guys avoid her because I don’t think she is ready for another man or relationship.
@jetskipapi6193
@jetskipapi6193 4 ай бұрын
Soon as that brotha calls her back up...she's gone.
@jayc5756
@jayc5756 4 ай бұрын
I disagree.
@Tax_Master_DFW
@Tax_Master_DFW 4 ай бұрын
​@@jetskipapi6193Exactly!!
@belizeanalienify
@belizeanalienify 4 ай бұрын
If a man asking me to relocate for him after 5 years ?! There better be a COMMITMENT and SECURITY! 💍 🏡🤵🏾‍♂️👰🏾‍♀️ 👀
@thankthelord4536
@thankthelord4536 4 ай бұрын
"To be honest "... a 5 yr situationship with no promise you being his girl, let alone his wife? 5 yrs wasted. I'm so sorry. No man, right now. HEAL!
@Ruthforme
@Ruthforme 4 ай бұрын
She needs to go no contact. She has no reason to maintain con with this man. He has shown her what she means to him….NOTHING!!! Just facts!!💯
@kissmyjazz384
@kissmyjazz384 4 ай бұрын
That book was the book that changed my life! I was in a broken place and I read that book and immediately started changing who I was. My therapist gave me this read and you will truly take a look at yourself
@georgialouisew4152
@georgialouisew4152 4 ай бұрын
I agree with Kendra. Stay in Charlotte. Make the best of your time there.
@fckdiabetes3053
@fckdiabetes3053 4 ай бұрын
Dang I feel for the child… had to uproot his life school and friends because his mom is silly as hell 🤦🏾‍♀️
@thicklen10
@thicklen10 4 ай бұрын
You’re moving your son around quite a bit
@meloran2571
@meloran2571 4 ай бұрын
I never understand women with kids who come on here and don't even blink when asked if they're willing to relacote
@badguy2419
@badguy2419 4 ай бұрын
Hoe hoppin'
@user-zx5xw4yw2e
@user-zx5xw4yw2e 4 ай бұрын
What's 'quite a bit'..?
@l.t.3857
@l.t.3857 4 ай бұрын
She made a big mistake to move for a man who is not her husband. The only way I would move is if we are married, or about to get married. He lost interest after she moved-the relationship wasn’t strong enough to begin with. Some men are into games, and will test a woman to see how much she will bend (how far she will go for him), especially if he thinks she loves him more. Some are also on a mission to try and break or embarrass a “strong” woman. She’s still fairly young, so I hope she learned a valuable lesson from this experience. Don’t love any man more than how you love yourself; don’t move for a man unless he is your husband; and learn to be more in control of your emotions (try to balance logic and emotions).
@MSKTLIZ
@MSKTLIZ 4 ай бұрын
Girl hush. Military does it all the time.
@dollhouseq1530
@dollhouseq1530 4 ай бұрын
Im not moving in with or living with ANY man that's not my husband. Never have, never will. She definitely should have had her own place. Issue is they should have already been ENGAGED
@sonyadrake7843
@sonyadrake7843 4 ай бұрын
I agree with you 🤜🏾🤛🏾
@tinawoodfolk6687
@tinawoodfolk6687 4 ай бұрын
Kendra was straight on point! #Block. #Ignore #Unfollow #Meet people #. Live life
@mr.g.6311
@mr.g.6311 4 ай бұрын
He took advantage of the mentally handicap.
@msjamaica978
@msjamaica978 4 ай бұрын
U bad enuh😂😂😂
@aurrewells1450
@aurrewells1450 4 ай бұрын
Kendra the spirit moved you to speak a WORD hunny because when I say I needed this! Absolutely ❤
@brownlikethat
@brownlikethat 4 ай бұрын
My momma said " you better not never move nowhere for a damn man, let his ass come to you" all I could say was yes Ma'am!!
@truebengalsfan
@truebengalsfan 4 ай бұрын
American women likely won't respect that
@JustBree716
@JustBree716 4 ай бұрын
I disagree. If a woman wants a man to lead, you probably should move where he is. Don't do it without a commitment though. If y'all not committed enough for her to move in with him after being together five years then she shouldn't have never went. But your mom sounds like the man should follow the woman. I know of long distance relationships that ended in marriage. But again be clear on what you want and definitely don't move if you're not moving in with him
@justjavii
@justjavii 4 ай бұрын
Never ever as a man move into a woman’s house lol that’s the worst thing you could do
@jrock7561
@jrock7561 4 ай бұрын
Was your momma married to your dad???
@brownlikethat
@brownlikethat 4 ай бұрын
@jrock7561 Yes, Why?
@vbry2246
@vbry2246 4 ай бұрын
Kendra you were so nurturing with her and I can see her honestly reflecting this wassup a sisterhood moment for the books
@ritetheology
@ritetheology 4 ай бұрын
Moving in together while dating Is statistically a HUGE mistake.
@Tricey.89
@Tricey.89 4 ай бұрын
This is why blunt honest friends is necessary. Women have a bad habit of not stopping friends from making emotionally driven decisions which in her situation, cost her a lot and she didn’t even reap the benefits from making the move.
@marcusfrombellsballspodcas2048
@marcusfrombellsballspodcas2048 4 ай бұрын
I don't believe any adult can force you to do anything with life decisions. I believe friends can influence and strongly suggest. They very well may have. At the end of the day this is 100% on her
@stlouismook5053
@stlouismook5053 4 ай бұрын
I don't think that man asked her to move down there i think she packed her bags and said SURPRISE 🎉😮..🗣 I HOPE MOVING HER SON AWAY FROM😅 HIS "VERY EVOLVED " FATHER TO BE IN A SITUATIONSHIP (and not marriage) TURNED HIM OFF!!! PERIOD.......!
@graymatters2
@graymatters2 4 ай бұрын
She needs to take dating seriously instead of damaging her 12yr olds life. A child can be damaged by moving and having to establish new friends, school etc. while knowing men are in and out of their lives. In my opinion, she should settle down somewhere, and wait to date seriously until her teen becomes older.
@journey2zee
@journey2zee 4 ай бұрын
This is THE BEST I’ve ever seen Kendra’s hair look. Wow. This cute short cut fits her so well! Kendraaa you are literally like a cute little black Barbie ❤
@erickaj3321
@erickaj3321 4 ай бұрын
Girl, Boundaries, Self Worth, Integrity. We all then had a slip up but Girlllllaaaaaa DO NOT FKN CONTACT HIM!!!!!!
@amilllion1
@amilllion1 4 ай бұрын
Two words , pillow talk! Ninjas be talking, just talking.
@beaniemac
@beaniemac 4 ай бұрын
Kendra don't be listening to the guests routinely. She regularly repeats the same questions 🤦🏿‍♂️
@katiamotley9407
@katiamotley9407 4 ай бұрын
i thought i was the only one who noticed
@jayo3074
@jayo3074 4 ай бұрын
She's slow
@LovelyM404
@LovelyM404 4 ай бұрын
I think she zones out a lot. It’s probably pretty repetitive for her.
@staysha9215
@staysha9215 4 ай бұрын
@@jayo3074
@justacebarnes6211
@justacebarnes6211 4 ай бұрын
@@jayo3074very
@WATTS9300block
@WATTS9300block 4 ай бұрын
ANYBODY THAT COMES ON THIS SHOW IS A RED FLAG 🚩 🤦🏾‍♂️
@Coolct
@Coolct 4 ай бұрын
I believe heavy in blocking… we didn’t work on to the next 🙅🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️
@Ms.Tamara_
@Ms.Tamara_ 4 ай бұрын
Absolutely! Say less n Save ur energy
@KojokeyzDJ
@KojokeyzDJ 4 ай бұрын
As a man who has been in a similar situation, I felt Kendra’s words. God bless you for that.
@beauteafulnia6722
@beauteafulnia6722 4 ай бұрын
I ain't never done shit without a ring 💍. Ladies y'all need to talk to these men like that.
@peacepocket
@peacepocket 4 ай бұрын
Kendra’s advice to not heal is horrible. This woman is a Mom! A woman who is not healed will most definitely make poor choices in men. Single mothers need to do better! Make smarter decisions for the sake of your child. It’s one thing if your decisions only effect YOU (like Reesa Teesa) but when a child is involved it’s selfish to put a man that high on your priority list that you would uproot your child. I don’t mean to come off harsh! But in situations like this tough love is needed. She’s an attractive woman. focus on you and your child and the right man will come.
@DeshaunDamon
@DeshaunDamon 4 ай бұрын
Although she should’ve never relocated before marriage The days when a man just showed up for 40 and 50 something’s are over. A woman who wants to be married has to balance motherhood and dating with intention.
@justjavii
@justjavii 4 ай бұрын
Kendra needs to understand that men and women are not the same! Women have a ton of emotions when it comes to relationships and sex, so she definitely needs to take a time off for herself
@yougotgamesonyourphone6947
@yougotgamesonyourphone6947 4 ай бұрын
That’s not harsh at all. There was a 13 year old girl that was just unalived by her mom’s boyfriend a couple of days ago. Innocent children are losing their lives behind some women refusing to think properly.
@IAMHERE486
@IAMHERE486 4 ай бұрын
@@DeshaunDamonThe men don’t want marriage though they keep saying that.
@ThatManDWill
@ThatManDWill 4 ай бұрын
YES and there will always be a LOSER when games are being played. Once a person sees that the other party is playing games that's when you cut that shit short. People need to go back to following what's in their heart instead of seeking advice from a mf that's throwed off worse than they are.
@agray7474
@agray7474 4 ай бұрын
Sheesh! This was so good…I just ended my relationship a few weeks ago and still getting over the heartache. THANK YOU KENDRA! THANK YOU SIS!!
@jetskipapi6193
@jetskipapi6193 4 ай бұрын
Only thing keeping me from running circles around you ladies is the good heart God blessed me with
@Therealone88
@Therealone88 4 ай бұрын
Eww! And you said that so confidently, like it’s something to be proud of.
@jetskipapi6193
@jetskipapi6193 4 ай бұрын
​@@Therealone88Why wouldn't I be proud of the good heart God gave me??
@BeautyNBrains86
@BeautyNBrains86 4 ай бұрын
It should naturally just be exuded. If you have to announce it, it's questionable. 😂😂 Like men who constantly say they're good guys. ✌🏾
@Therealone88
@Therealone88 4 ай бұрын
@@jetskipapi6193a good man wouldn’t say something like this.
@jetskipapi6193
@jetskipapi6193 4 ай бұрын
@86misshazeleyes LOL...This is a big reach..."Like men who constantly say they're are a good guy"...I've never made my comment more than once...So that example is terrible.
@real-ishstraighttruthnocha1687
@real-ishstraighttruthnocha1687 4 ай бұрын
I'm going to express an opinion and this is just what I've observed from life and what women and men have told me. My thought about her and some of the men that women come across is because most good men are spoken for or not dating. Some of my best bros are spoken for, married, and have been happy for years. My older brother has been married for about 6 years now. I'm celibate and some of my other bros are playing with women, or just dating. I truly think that many women get results like this because good men aren't available or making ourselves available, leaving bums, Glocktavious, and Dust.
@And1one757
@And1one757 4 ай бұрын
Might be partially true... but have you seen pop the balloon 🎈 show them women like most black women especially are ruthless about rejecting guys over every lil thing until they bind themselves in corner of such tiny group of men that will do this to them... maybe they'll just simply enjoy it because its so drama filled... they find these man everytime like the blue shell 💠 in mariokart
@hannaw193
@hannaw193 4 ай бұрын
I agree. It also says a lot about how women show up in friendship with one another.
@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living
@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living 4 ай бұрын
She learned an expensive and heartbreaking lesson. Her story is a cautionary tell for other women. 1. STOP MOVING FOR A MAN IF IT’S NOT A SURE THING! Even if it’s a sure thing (ring, wedding date), do it with eyes wide open, because abu$ers will want to isolate you from family and friends. 2. STOP PUTTING MEN OVER YOUR KIDS. She disrupted her kid’s life over a guy that wasn’t a sure thing (no ring, no wedding date). 3. If you’re going to relocate regardless of the reason, make sure that you have your financial ducks in a row (a job, savings). For her - forget that guy and move forward. Men’s egos get boosted when their exes call them. He’ll start thinking that you’re going to be an easy booty call when he gets lonely and can’t find a girl at 2:00AM. It’s also going to turn off the future guy that may want that happily ever after with you. That dude is in the past. Time to live for the future.
@thelessons3768
@thelessons3768 4 ай бұрын
You believed her story? It is amazing how women tell the victim story in women don't see the holes in the story.
@demetriusjames9535
@demetriusjames9535 4 ай бұрын
​@@thelessons3768In this day and age? I am not at all surprised these women just go with the victim narrative, totally unquestioned...
@gemeaux2000
@gemeaux2000 4 ай бұрын
LIES LIES LIES.....Her story doesn't make any sense at all.... I will bet my last chicken lemon pepper wing that 1-).She is STALKER 2-) She is the MISTRESS and has always been 3-)The so-called longtime friend is MARRIED. She decided to literally move with her son, ONE STATE OVER(down), for a man without having a practical conversation and strategizing with him.. Apartment/house hunting, takes time; what about her job/business/clients etc? She showed up unannounced thinking that the MARRIED man would leave his wife for her... Her story is so full of holes and lies.
@Jeremiah_29
@Jeremiah_29 4 ай бұрын
@demetriusjames9535 In cases like this, what is the utility of questioning her? We don't know this lady. Are we supposed to spend time on questioning people on this show? You all need hobbies and a real life. Go volunteer at a homeless shelter. This show should be for looking for a mate, entertainment and constructive feedback. It doesn't require questioning people who have nothing to do with our day to day lives.
@gemeaux2000
@gemeaux2000 4 ай бұрын
She did move for a HUSBAND....... SOMEONE ELSE'S HUSBAND LIES LIES LIES.....Her story doesn't make any sense at all.... I will bet my last chicken lemon pepper wing that 1-).She is STALKER 2-) She is the MISTRESS and has always been 3-)The so-called longtime friend is MARRIED. She decided to literally move with her son, ONE STATE OVER(down), for a man without having a practical conversation and strategizing with him.. Apartment/house hunting, takes time; what about her job/business/clients etc? She showed up unannounced thinking that the MARRIED man would leave his wife for her... Her story is so full of holes and lies.
@mistervo8185
@mistervo8185 4 ай бұрын
She is a professional Tyrone Chaser🤣
@kendramiddletonwilliams
@kendramiddletonwilliams 4 ай бұрын
Oooohhhh Kendra this hair is serving the fabulous class tonight!!! I LOVE this look on you. It’s so chic and sort of simple, but very polished at the same time. This is a 10 out of 10 girl, 5 stars!! 🌟⭐️⭐️🤩🥇⭐️⭐️🌟
@salutemimi81
@salutemimi81 4 ай бұрын
Awwww Kendra Bob is cute❤❤ It gives Kelly Roland❤
@Milan26202
@Milan26202 4 ай бұрын
but is it her NATURAL HAIR?? NOT
@nolabae
@nolabae 4 ай бұрын
​@@Milan26202 doesn't need to be. It's on her head and she's got a man that clearly likes who and what she is and represents.
@KendraGMedia
@KendraGMedia 4 ай бұрын
@@Milan26202😂😂😂😂 Baby this is my hair. I am so confused by sooooo many men hating so hard in my comment section about my hair. Please go get yourself a woman!!! Y’all looking desperate and lonely worrying about my hair! 😂😂😂
@michellequinn2160
@michellequinn2160 4 ай бұрын
@@Milan26202 Who cares? It’s on her head. Either way, it’s hers.
@nowaynoway915
@nowaynoway915 4 ай бұрын
⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠@@Milan26202why tf would that matter? Women of other races wear hair too
@ashleyburson3729
@ashleyburson3729 4 ай бұрын
Houston is at CAPACITY!!!
@tmcurly
@tmcurly 4 ай бұрын
***Houston is the Finess Capital of America*** 📢📢📣📣📣📣📣
@prim.an.propher1505
@prim.an.propher1505 4 ай бұрын
All of Texas, we don't want no more transients in the Lone Star State
@BeautyNBrains86
@BeautyNBrains86 4 ай бұрын
The Atl of Texas. TX is at capacity tbh. However, I prefer ppl move to Houston than here in Dallas. Lol
@ashleyburson3729
@ashleyburson3729 4 ай бұрын
​@@BeautyNBrains86 No ma'am, Dallas still has space. 😅
@BeautyNBrains86
@BeautyNBrains86 4 ай бұрын
@@ashleyburson3729 We do NOT. Lmaoooo!
@thisblackgirloverhere9013
@thisblackgirloverhere9013 4 ай бұрын
That lesson was very good Kendra! You are SO right!
@qweenzee7188
@qweenzee7188 4 ай бұрын
She was about to cry because ppl keep trying to bring her down over a mistake she clearly is fully aware of and has admitted to. She healing but when she’s come on a platform with a bunch of judgmental ppl, it takes her two steps back. Kendra tells the average women or the not so attractive women in her eyes, to heal before focusing on dating someone else. But because this woman is pretty, she tells her it’s no need to heal because she’s beautiful and can easily find someone new? Interesting…. But I’ve noticed Kendra is biased between average looking ppl and the very good looking ones.
@j.daniels1548
@j.daniels1548 4 ай бұрын
I want everyone to pay special attention to how this asshole never mentioned the son 🥴
@asktheuniverse231
@asktheuniverse231 4 ай бұрын
Facts
@debervin9121
@debervin9121 4 ай бұрын
Kendra gave her poor advice, her looks won't save her from being taken advantage of by men.
@Khaseenwar09
@Khaseenwar09 4 ай бұрын
"I want a daughter really bad," but not a husband ? 🚩
@Ms.Tamara_
@Ms.Tamara_ 4 ай бұрын
Right! I always tell people I’ll have a child when I’m giving my husband a baby .No ring no womb ladies.
@just_ms.jackson
@just_ms.jackson 4 ай бұрын
Kendra, you gave her good advice!
@neoho6096
@neoho6096 4 ай бұрын
I love that she was so teachable and willing to listen. It’s a great sign. Beautiful too
@sstraight86
@sstraight86 4 ай бұрын
I don't agree with her moving for a man that's not her husband but I do agree with her getting her own place.
@ToriUptown
@ToriUptown 4 ай бұрын
nope. it wasn’t a smart choice. he wasn’t even her fiancé
@Fabrizio7171
@Fabrizio7171 4 ай бұрын
Lmaoooo you think her getting her own place was her choice?
@sstraight86
@sstraight86 4 ай бұрын
@@Fabrizio7171 Her choice or not seems like it worked out for her
@tincredible
@tincredible 4 ай бұрын
@@ToriUptown It wasn't a smart choice to move in the first place. But since she did the dumb thing and moved, it was at least a smart choice to get her own place if she's also brought her minor child with her. It's not wise to move your child in a home with man you only know from the internet and haven't spent any real-life time around.
@candorsspot2775
@candorsspot2775 4 ай бұрын
@@tincredible She claimed they knew each other for YEARS. Of course we can't get a straight answer on what the situation is because females struggle with honesty and clarity.
@1986Merican
@1986Merican 4 ай бұрын
You live. You learn. Then you upgrade. I also believe we should live and let live. No judgement over here. I wish you and your son the best!
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