It hurts, doesn’t it? Losing a baby, ready or not, still hurts. Be kind to yourself and take all the time you need to heal. ❤️

I lost mines at 5 weeks on July 17,my first pregnancy too I know exactly how you feel . I keep trying to get myself back to normal I feel like I shouldn’t be as sad as I am. But I am. I wish you well in the future and just know you’re not alone.

@@nickkiataylor946 I'm coming up on a year since I lost my baby this December 15th. and I won't sugar coat it and act like the odds are you're almost done weathering the storm. some women are able to pick up the pieces quite quickly - and there's nothing WRONG with this. these parents are LUCKY. but for very very many of us... the process takes MUCH longer. I think one of the worst parts about our society's stigmas and the inappropriate attitudes towards and treatment of bereaved parents of pregnancy loss is that unlike the loss of any other child (or even if you're just comparing this to the loss of other post-birth infants) is that whereas its treated as "acceptable" and the norm for most grieving parents to take YEARS or at least quite a few months to begin to pick up life again in any real way beyond just mourning. but parents of pre-born children who pass away are expected to "move on" completely in a matter of DAYS (if that... tbh... many people won't even be understanding / considerate enough to "allow" you to get upset AT ALL over these losses). almost ALL of us need more than that much time. the vast majority of us need MUCH longer! I felt the need to say this here because I don't want you (or anyone else reading this) to think there's anything wrong (or even unusual) with needing to take some time to recover. and just like other forms of grief or recovery... its not a clean neat linear black and white transformation from sad to back to your former self before this ever happened. (I have found comfort in thinking of what they say of those recovering from a substance addiction... specifically in that "relapses are a normal part of the process". that's rang true in a way to my experience.... as time has past... I've healed enough that I've gotten to a place where I have some very good and hopeful days where I am at peace and positive. but there are STILL a lot of days that are NOT like that. and that's OKAY! I now know that the more time that passes the more and more of my days will be these good ones.) I also really really love the perspective and explanations that isis gave here about how you'll never be your "old self" again - but she brings light to something SO important... which I've been working on learning too. is that this change isn't necessarily all going to be a BAD thing. yes... it is colored by quite a bit of pain and sorrow. but there's many ways that this experience can make your life... and YOU... actually BETTER than the you that you used to be. this is already a long comment... so I won't go into too much more detail about my own experience... but I WILL say that I have already started to come to grasp this... and I know I'll only continue to improve myself and my world as I continue to heal. before chance (that was my child's name)... I really didn't have much faith. to be quite frank... the life I was leading was full of behaviors that were not the greatest - both towards myself and towards others. having chance in my life (and yes... he is still VERY much a part of my life... even though he is an angel now) has helped me to find God and organized religion and improve my character and treatment of others. I have been working towards channeling the negativity of this experience into positivity... particularly in working towards devoting my time and money to helping other bereaved parents and into preventing other potential victims by trying to solve the problems that lead to the deaths of children. I've not only put extensive work into spreading awareness and social activism for these causes.... I've also already fundraised $3500+ (and I'm just getting started!) I've becoming active in politics... campaigning and petitioning and protesting. before chance... I had never even voted. so to get back to my first point... like I said.. I won't lie... this year has been brutal. in ways I never would have thought possible. but rather than cursing the world or God or fate or coincidence or WHATEVER for "ruining" my life and causing so many "horrible things"... I am GRATEFUL for chance. for his life on this earth... although far too short. I am grateful for the time we DID get to share together. and more importantly... I thank him for in so many ways SAVING my life... I have no doubt that chance and his legacy will undoubtedly prove to be a WONDERFUL happenstance to not only me... but this WORLD. and if you're a mother who's lost reading this right now... I have no doubt either that your baby's life was WONDERFUL and their legacies will be POSITIVE! you will emerge STRONGER AND BETTER THAN EVER BEFORE (but DONT ever ever try to rush it!!). hang in there.... YOU GOT THIS LADIES !!

Livvy Coseriu I tea do appreciate that message so much and what you said is very much. My little foot has made a huge impact on me I’ve grown into a better part of myself in many ways. And sometimes I still think about it and cry and other days I just remember the strength it have given me to become better. It take time for all us women and we must allow ourselves the time 💖

@Ashley Moore ive had the same exact thing happen to me last week.

Same here. And it didn’t matter that it wasn’t planned.

Girl it really does it's been 4 years and I'm still empty on the inside it's like I came to terms with it but hasn't accepted it ion think I ever will I been praying but it's mainly unbearable sometimes 💔🥺😢 I'm grateful for the 3 babies I have now and I can only the pain the next woman feel in regard because they make us feel miscarriages is less than which don't make it better

I'm so sorry. Sending so much love to you. ❤️

I miss my baby too. Before I got pregnant, it never really bothered me to see a pregnant woman. But after getting pregnant and miscarrying, it made me realize how amazing it is to have a baby in your womb. I miss that feeling and it seem like it's taking forever to happen again

I lost my baby at 7 weeks as well. and I'm keeping my faith in god as well. But I'm struggling with the heartache becuase I have endometriosis which makes getting pregnant harder and after trying for years, I was so happy only to have it taken from me.. I pray that you are blessed with a family, please pray for me as well.may god bless us all that want a family

I lost my baby at 7wks it's hard because I only get info and comfort from KZfaq than from family and friends

I lost mine as well

I’m so sorry

I lost myn 7 dayz ago..it hurts me alot i can't copy with it..

I feel you, I lost mine at 19 weeks too in November last year, it's the worst thing I've ever been through. Did you go on to have another baby?

I lost mine at 19 weeks too and I just want him back

I'm so sorry, Daniel (hugs)

Sorry daniel..it happened to me too twice..no heartbeat am really sad and down

Daniel, you’re such a wonderful husband. Everyone deals with grief differently. You stood by your wife and that’s what you both needed the most. May your marriage be blessed for many years to come.

Sending lots of love, Rachel. ❤️

🙏 💕. I understand you more then you know. 35 with it being my first p. With it ending after 3 months, a little over a month ago. Lots of hurt, lots of grace, lots of love.

It hurts 💔.....like after the second time it's like I want to give up

@@melissacornelius9372 don’t hun as I had a beautiful baby girl who will turn one on Thursday ❤️❤️ I’ll be thinking off you

RH negative blood..wow

Thats a very nice name. I was only 4 weeks and 3 days and its my second day today going threw the miscarriage. Didnt even get close to finding out the gender but if i was a boy we were naming it Micheal Alexander. Its just backwards from yours

I’m so sorry for you lost😢. Did you find out the gender after miscarriage?

I lost my baby at 29 weeks, it was a boy and i still feel the pain

@@NiecyEnMediasRes we found out after I gave birth to him. My birth was extremely traumatic. I went to the hospital and they wouldn’t do anything for me so I ended up having Alexander alone in the hospital bathroom. 😔😔

Noreen Wawuda This was beautifully said and exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you!

Thanks for saying that 😭😭 it hurts when people expect to just get over it..

Ysis Lorenna it is really not fair

I went through the exact same experience. Happened yesterday, my husband and I cried together... having someone there to share the pain of losing ur baby, helps a lot ❤️

It’s even much worse when you have no one to talk to

I’ll be 3 months next week... and idk it’s like I just feel my child dying inside of me... I spend most of my days sick and in a lot of pain vaginally and sharp stabbing pains to my abdomen... sometimes I’m so miserable I can’t do a thing.

I too lost my baby in November 2019.... It's still unbearable to feel but sometimes all I do is cry because I want my baby back 💔

Same

This is the worst feeling ever

Me too

I know this feeling 😔

Me too 😔

My heart goes out to you. Take the time you both need to process it all and heal. Things will get better. Sending lots of love ❤️

@@YsisLorenna Thank you so much. I'm doing much better, but It's definitely harder in her emotionally. Any pointers on how to help her?

Glad to hear you're feeling better, Frankie. I think just being there for her is the best thing you can do. Give her space if she needs it and ask her how you can help her. Everyone copes with grief after baby loss so differently, so it's hard to list things that will help. Some people find that talking about it helps, others prefer not to talk. The thing she needs the most right now is support and love and it sounds like she has that from you. Take care and I wish you both all the best in life. ❤️

I was just told At 11 weeks my baby has trisomy 18. Prayers, this pain is heartbreaking.

I’m so sorry for your loss ❤😔

Shrek Once told me keep you head up I know your pain ❤️

Thank you. I made this video for that exact reason. I’m glad it reached you at a time when you needed it the most. Sending love ❤️

Sorry for your loss. That is something I don’t think you will ever get over. You will survive through it, but the pain will always be there... Sometimes it will get worse before it gets better. I had 2 mcs. Just when I thought I had put it past me, I see u/s of friend’s pregnancy. Then I find out more friends have become pregnant. Even though I am happy for each one of them I go home and cry... because it isn’t me. I wish them all healthy pregnancies. I just wish they would understand... I just wish they would be more sensitive. I feel like my mom is the only one in this battle with me. My dh thinks I will get pregnant just like that. He thinks we just had a bump in the road. But I don’t think what I went through was a bump... It happened to be a huge ditch that hurt a lot!

I feel you. Ive lost 6 siblings in total and those are all things i miss. I know how hard it can be. I hope you have someone to talk to and if not im here. Ill gladly listen and try to help even if its a lil bit. Stay strong ❤

I feel you. Ive lost 6 siblings in total and those are all things i miss. I know how hard it can be. I hope you have someone to talk to and if not im here. Ill gladly listen and try to help even if its a lil bit. Stay strong ❤

DeeDeeLove & Bryce that’s the exact date I found out I was pregnant and a couple weeks later I miscarried😞😞

Manevinsan Pasion I’m sorry this happened to you. I just went through one a few days ago and I understand what you mean about feeling as though your pain is not valid. Please remember that it is.

I went through exactly the same think ,23 of March. I am devastated, my baby died week 8 and one day 😪

Thanks for sharing, Sanyukta. I'm so happy to hear that this made you feel a bit better. This is such a difficult and sensitive time for you. Be kind to yourself and take all the time you need to heal. ❤️ xx

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Huge hugs to you too, lovely! So glad to have helped you in some way. xx

Happened to me too at week 8