That was quick!

I do all of these 👉👈

@@kookmi4122 i do some too and i think that's a sign that we should stop feelin and thinking that way. let's get stronger

@@kookmi4122 mee too🥺

@@sillycatsayshi yes we should get stronger but IDK somehow the situations make me feel weak and useless...

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☮💚 thank you, I needed that

True

Agreed, and being kind to others comes easy for me. Now for the more challenging work of loving myself

Thank you!

LMAO I THOUGHT YOU WERE BRIGHT SIDE FORREAL 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Yoooo I know you!

@@hosurosh4846 Me?

@@lurelin4812 a no my bad, y mistake Steven Chanel with other one. I do not know you but...hi, nice to meet you good to see you in this chanel.

Yes, the voice is very soothing.

Yoooo

Dayum, you should be a motivational speaker

You can be emotional and not strong emotionally at the same time. That’s how a lot of bad psychological deseases start..

@V Maverick we all are vulnerable to certain things, that’s how life goes. The thing is not letting it stop us from progressing in life.

@V Maverick I mean if you want to do it go ahead, but I wouldn’t recommend it. I’m guessing you are not open to anyone which is alright, but that can actually be bad in relationships (of any kind), primarily because of lack of communication.

True,

Well said 👌

snoop dog is always right lol

I read this and I'm like wow. But then I look at you profile picture and-

hehehheyeyeuehhehe

Yes!!

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😐

That's the only thing I can't do 😭😭

Agreed. If we can't love ourselves first, how can we love others? Start by taking care of yourself.

??: Sounds familiar. For me, it's not that I don't care about the people I "talk" to on KZfaq, it's just that this is all I can tolerate right now. I don't have enough energy to keep real relationships going. I think it's because I need a lot of control over my interactions with people - here in the comments section, I can respond to others, or choose not to. I'm free to act honestly, and instead of anger over all the times I DON'T respond, I get socially rewarded for ANY attempt I make at connecting with others. I wish my family would try harder to understand this piece of what I'm going through. Instead, they get angry or hurt because I'm not socializing the way they want me to.

I’ve done this too hhhhh

Yes I also feel in every video that how do they know myself sooooooo much..... Thank you to this channel and alll the people 🙌❤️

Aww

we got you, psifam x -monica

Relatable

Me too lol but it helps

Well said

That is why it always trusfrated

I can understand u even my life is the same but I never did them that I have depression, I hope we get up with positivity and happiness one day

My parents are good, but looks like the depression part is always relatable. İ gave up already, instead of making them realize i am not okay i accidently made them think i am crazy-?

Your feelings are so valid. What you're going through is something that is beyond your control, and all you can do is to be gentle with yourself. I know that it sucks to feel this way because I myself am going through the exact same thing. They're constantly invalidating you through manipulation and gaslighting and that's what ruins us most. But always remember that there is still hope. What you're going through is temporary. You WILL get through this. You are so very loved and so IMPORTANT, and you deserve to have your voice be heard. Thank you for opening up, it takes so much courage and strength to put it down on a video. You are amazing

Human beings have this desire, a longing to belong, that they are cared for, that they are loved unconditionally. And to satisfy this desire, they look for all the places they can receive it. Some find it in their family, some in their jobs, hobbies, relationships etc. And when these needs are not met, they become depressed. And this is inevitable since the longing/desire cannot be satisfied completely by these things or people since all of them are temporary. This is where faith comes into picture. When you have faith, you know that there is someone out there, a powerful being, who created you, brought you into existence, takes care of you, and looks after you so much so to the point of never taking His eyes away from you. Not even for a moment. When you know that this is your God, your creator, your maker, the most merciful. You know you're at home. After all, “The only one who can truly satisfy your heart is the one who created it”. “Truly, in the heart there is a void that cannot be removed except with the company of God; and in it there is a sadness that cannot be removed except with the happiness of knowing God and being true to Him; and in it there is an emptiness that cannot be filled except with love for Him and turning to Him and always remembering Him; and if a person were given the entire world and what is in it, it would never fill that emptiness.” Almighty God says: "Truly in the remembrance of Allah(God) that hearts find peace" Qur'an 13:28 He also says: "He is with you wherever you are" Qur'an 57:4 When you believe in this, you are at peace at all times. You feel you're taken care of, you're loved unconditionally, so you become happy & satisfied even though you're in the middle of the storm. Our purpose in life is to recognize our creator, the Almighty God. So find out the truth of your existence today and seek the Almighty God. For if you seek Him, you will surely find Him. Start with Islam, the true religion of Almighty God. Peace.

Happiness isn't the same thing as success

@@mastermitser5693 ty and yes, but success is one of the things that makes me happy.

@Damon Salvatore if you feel bad with that, you should tell them about how you feel about them doing stuff like that. I know easier said than done but parents aren't someone you should be scared of or to avoid.

thanks for the love x -monica

@@Psych2go Are you being angry sometimes? We need to now that part of you too :-)

I like them

@@BrigadieraRanaLogica thanx😊

Indians are everywhere. 1 and 2 are good idea, 3rd is already there on the channel

@@soulfulhuman8724 thanks dude

@@soulfulhuman8724 thanks dude

Don't be so harsh on yourself. Know that you're not at your healthiest mental state. Take a break. Journal, meditate, listen to calming music (lofi hip hop radio really helps me) and talk to your closest people. Just like everybody else you have flaws, make mistakes, but make sure to acknowledge your strengths and achievements. You are expressing yourself here, not bottling up your thoughts and emotions. Good job! You've made it this far. This is a big one. Do not believe everything your mind says. Take a deep breath. Punch a negative thought about yourself with 5 positive ones. Let this become a habbit. Look after yourself. You got this!

Upon reading this I feel like a hug is the best response to what your saying. So whenever you feel your worst just know someone is sending you warm hugs every time. 😊

Awwww 🥰🥺love you sm. Don't worry it will heal soon. One thing i know is the first step is grateful. Cuz u can't change from hate. I believe on u baby 🤍🤍💕 don't be down god over there on Ur heart. I love u so much u are meaningful ❤️ I love talk to u 🌼🤍 it's okay maybe not now u can heal Ur self but later it getting better. With god we can

But u r truly genuine here.. When u expressed ur emotions.. Accpt urself as who u are.. N also learn from ur mistakes.. Its okay to keep making mistakes.. If u dont make mistakes u can never learn from them.. Ive also been where u have been n still processing.. Jst remember tht ur worth anything that anyone else is worth of❤️

i support the naphia fan club x -monica

Just Stop It.

Hi Chelsea. Maybe if you find something you're really passionate about or care about someday, you'll be more focused on it because you want to work on it and help out as much as you can. For me, it's shelter pets. I just keep wanting to spread the word on fb etc because I feel so strongly about it. Then you get good at it and you build more confidence and true purpose.

This is me!

Let me know if things have gotten better for you. I want to be a better person in this aspect

We have a video on 6 Signs Someone Truly Loves You Without Saying It kzfaq.info/get/bejne/fJ1jq62Wm5mVoqc.html

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I mean if you doubt your love towards someone, most likely they are just a crush.

@@Veriox22 unless you have ocd or overthink too much

Thank you too! :) Glad this video helped you.

Great idea

Yes..It helps...

Thanks for suggesting! We actually have a video on that! Feel free to check it out

In a pandemic?

@@JohnSmith-ns6dp That certainly makes it harder, but it's still possible. You never know what's going to happen (:

The universe isn't conscious smh

@@mastermitser5693 Why don't you let people believe what they want?

@@sunshinexhaz8648 but isn't the truth supposed to set you free?

OH MY GOD

Aw! We really appreciated that 💕!!

Same

You and me both. I always seem to seek approval from people in my life before doing anything.

you will get stronger x -monica

@@Psych2go bet

@@Psych2go bet

So glad you are getting better, well done you, it’s not easy, just take a day at a time. You should be so proud of yourself. Kudos to you.👏👏👏👏👏💗🇦🇺

@@leanneneville2431 thank you so much! That’s really sweet!! 🥺👉🏻👈🏻 I wish you the best health

I have all of these symptoms...😭 I dunno what to do...

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I have literally all of these, i am concerned about myself

You know me so well

@@hansandhispanzerfaust6236 mee tooo😭I'm sad coz now it's affecting my daily life now...even I can't study properly...coz I can't concentrate....

How about 'Emotional Manipulation vs. Hollow Sympathy'. I say this only because I struggle to express empathy towards others about matters that don't immediately impact me. I WANT to feel something to help make my offer of emotional support genuine, but more often than not my brain is simply too analytical and so while I might SAY "I'm happy to hear that!" my THOUGHT is "There is literally nothing I can use this information for or any value in retaining this knowledge... ... ... but we better provide a positive response to avoid potential conflict." I'm not trying to harm you emotionally, like I said, I really do want that emotional support to be genuine, but I also haven't figured out a way to fabricate those emotions when I need them. P.S. Yes, my internal monologue uses the word 'we' rather than 'I' because I tend to refer to myself from a separate perspective, like I'm trying to mentor myself. Unless I'm berating myself in which case I tend to use 'you'. (Possibly me trying to disassociate my actions from myself? Trying my best not to self-diagnose).

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@@patlanticocean8290 I know someone who has said something similar to what you just wrote (almost word-for-word) because it (frustratingly) confused me that he was unable to access any empathy or joy when I had bad or good news. It was never deliberate/malicious. It just felt a little invalidating. It turned out he was on the spectrum.

sooo true. listen to your gut incstinc usually works

My entire friend group, then?

how did you do that so fast :0 thanks!

THESE ALL ARE SO ME (•‿•)

There’s already like two other ones lol

​@@Berries.creamm im aware, they posted after mine. I got here like 30 seconds after the video was posted lmao

Thanks for the summary!

Cool

@@Psych2go Thank you. But don’t forget VeryAwesomeSheep, he made one, too.

Ah, i might try this!

@@U.R.coolkid yeah, it’s pretty cool! But you’re gonna feel really called out

@LEE SZE HUI JESSICA 4D it is taken into account, but it makes a surprisingly small difference. My artistic abilities are very limited, but it still worked pretty dang well for me

Great idea

@@varunprakaash9761 thanks man, trying my absolute best

Well said

@@IshaSharma11 Thank you so much 😊😊

@@niyati1218 welcome

I dont know about your online friendships but for me my experience is they last for a few months then dissapear

Beautiful

I need this video too lmao

I’m a hsp and there isn’t too much we can do we just have to live with it mabye try to manage it and accept it

We cannot be less sensitive. We can only learn our boundaries and helpful routines, then maintain them very well.

@@MAL341 right. 😃

yes! exactly :) -monica

I'm in the same case

Same

same

it's alright to express your emotions, when it starts to bother you please consult a GP -monica

That's good :)

I think i got called out too .m.

I certainly did😂

Call out for what?

True,

Oh god

You can actually change that if you will start working on your character That's not impossible!

I aint seen no comment this relatable before.

Haha. I'm sure my lil bro agrees 😅

Unless you don't have one or they're nice to you. But even as a single child, life still sucks.

For me having an older brother is the only thing making me emotionally strong tbh ...Not to brag but my older brother is literally an angel sent from heaven just for me xx

@@princessjoe834 damn i wish i had that 😔 you hella lucky bro

Also maybe tips on how to make friends? Okay done now lol thank you guys for your videos!

No, crying didn't mean u r weak, u can cry if u want, crying is a way to express our feeling 🥺💖 stay strong babe.

Well, people percieve the wrong thing, then. It's not weak to express your emotions healthily.

Already get added-

@@remmeymj3801 thank you for telling me 😄

It's already released on our channel. Here it is kzfaq.info/get/bejne/qrSnhbGeq7qbXWg.html

@@Psych2go :0 Hi

sit quietly in silence. and think about your life. who you are as a kid. before truama. what happened to you. things you remember. like and dislike. write some on paper. figure out... what you need. and what you want they're different. and you are who you were born as. not who you want to be. accept that. I wish I did. accept you limitations. if you make yourself into someone you aren't.. it's ok for awhile. but it makes you miserable and it can destroy you. (it destoyed me and my brother) get help. cry. crying is good. love all. be kind. find God. most important.

@@VengefulPolititron thanks alot for the encouragement I'll always remember your words...and about you can't you start life from the beginning (sorry if I made you mad).

True

True

I'm in the same place as you, bud. I sometime feel like I'm living life on 20% battery.

Same I'm tired of being a loner I just want friends but I'm too scared. Every time I talk to someone I feel like I have nothing to tell there's no words coming to my mouth I feel so speechless..

@@randomserbianguy5677 yea but the problem is that no one also doesn't wanna be my friends I tried everything but idk it feels like I was born to be hated since the first day

@@hitoromi4363 same and then they ended up hating u for no reason or call me weirdo

@@ritaevora9430 I know exactly what you mean man. Cuz I'm literally dealing with that same feeling as of writing this comment. That's why I said I feel like I'm living life on 20%. The loneliness, the depressive episodes... it all takes a mental toll my psyche and drains my soul to the point where I can't even indulge in gaming or hobbies without feeling shit. The occasional """"friends"""" I do have, compliment me on being a good emotional support. But those words have lost all their meaning because they never show it through their actions. Everytime I need to talk or hangout with one they conveniently never make the effort to do so, only ghosting or declining my offer to such frequent consistency that makes me realize the reality that nobody really gives two shits about me. I don't even know why I'm trying to live life when it's clear that the world doesn't want me or even acknowledge my existence. If I was lying of the side walk you'd all walk over me. I'm tired of giving it my all only to be bested by a person who pours 5% effort in a relationship and somehow manages to be acknowledged and appreciated for more then what their worth

ha mood 🤤 WE NEED SOME THERAPY 😩

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And Karls frog hoodie at 6:12 and a simile on the mug at 1:50

Just think nothing is going to heppem when other hurts you because they have low iq they didnot even think how you feel but you can feel other pain and think what will happen because you are a genius so be happy

@@cristopher7019 thank you for your reply❤😄. It made me feel better. Have a nice day ❤❤

i have the book and read it and read reading it again..it amazing helpful and puts life in actual perspective..

Thank you so much! Have you discover any of the references? :D - Cindy

Me too

Hope this helps you! - Cindy

@@Maito89 to both of you, don't give up hope. It may not seem like it now but things eventually will get better. If you need someone to talk to or need someone to listen to you i can give you my insta or discord so you can vent to me. If you don't want to do that then all i can say is i hope things get better for you, and don't turn out the light. I hope you have a nice day/night.

@@Maito89 I agree with you with the exception of getting drunk every week. I would not recommend it. But the other things are good recommendations of what to do.

Hi, hello. If you’re worried about being depressed you should talk with your doctor. Those are certainly signs of depression but if you want a certain answer, it’s best to discuss it with your doctor. Much love and I hope you start to feel better soon

@@Maito89 that's okay, i can say as someone who's going through something similar it isn't easy opening up to complete strangers. Just know im not forcing you to talk to me, its entirely your choice

Woot woot! Thanks for tuning in early! #notifsquad