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The not wanting to have sex thing is really true. About 7 years ago in the relationship I have with my boyfriend I rejected him sexually. I was going through menopause and I was actually kind of mean. And he drifted we drifted apart for all those years and he actually got involved with another woman unbeknownst to me. I found out about that relationship a few months ago and we talked and he told me that he thought I didn't love him anymore. When I expressed to him that I never had stopped loving him and that I've always loved him with all my heart. He did a complete 180 and came back to me and we are stronger than ever now. But he told me it was because he felt rejected and he thought that I didn't love him. So we've learned how to communicate better both in and out of the bedroom. It's so important to not shame a man or make him feel like he's not wanted.

Everything you’ve said about men is the same for women. Like, we all want to feel safe.

When I asked my Lover what he liked he was surprised and I said if we are going to be "Lovers" we are going to have to talk openly about what turns us on. That turned him on right there.

Being in control and learning what he wants and him letting you know what you love.

Once I surrender he takes me any way he wants. I love it all. 🔥🔥🔥

This was actually really wild. I like the openness of the presentation. I wish I would have listened to this one week ago......

Regarding choking, this is not my particular thing, but I do think it's important to know that choking is not something you should enter into without doing some research. There is a specific way to do that. You are trying to cut off the circulation of blood, not air flow. You could seriously harm (or even worse!) someone if you just start doing that willy nilly without really knowing what you're doing. So please......research, research, research! This is also something that should be thoroughly discussed with someone beforehand and not just sprung on them. Have fun, but be safe out there.

I love when the guy takes charge

31:20 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 👌🏻 was waiting for this from the beginning. That's the real magic right there

Watching your videos while I put away laundry. My townhome walls are hotel thin I’m sure my neighbor whose like 60 is questioning me listening to these videos at 8am. 😂

I used your tips in my texts to my man and boy was there a response!!!! 😂 Definitely loving the fun attention and he’s feeling so special.

I'm so excited to learn something new for my self development. I'm in the Philippines.

Awesome Mat, loved every minute of it! Great talk, beautiful smile and the sincerity & frankness of the conversation was super helpful & hot! Loved that I discovered you.

Always give as good as you get! If your man is generous with you, make sure you return the favour.

Isn’t It crazy that men think about sex the most but seem to be the most shy afraid to be vulnerable about the whole subject?

Go to the adult store together and pick out the toys and stuff you want. My boyfriend and I have done that. And sometimes he just goes by himself and comes home and surprises me with something. I told him the next time we go to the hardware store to buy tie downs for the bed. I want to get a sawhorse and put padding on it and tie downs on that as well. Cuz that just sounds like so much fun. There are so many things that you can do and have fun with if you both talk and express your fantasies and desires. It's been working for us for about 16 years. I'm 69 today and you can bet we're going to have a lot of fun in the bedroom tonight! 😉

The story about the man who buys his girl shoes is kinda adorable tbh 😂

Take his head and pull him toward your legs.

As a clinical psychologist trained in the late 70s I had to learn the major kinks ....the name in LATIN. Laypeople would not believe how MANY THERE ARE.. Essentially a person can attach sexual pleasure to any physical object, activity, etc It can usually occur two major ways..first accidental association. Many men reported their first sexual arousal having occured in a roller coaster or something else that aroused fear and excitement. We NOW know this phenomenon is caused by anatomy. The neural pathways for sexual excitement in the BRAIN lie right next to the neural pathways for fear ...excite one and there can be accidental crossover to the other. Then a thrill like a rollercoaster ride can be repeated at will to have that same crossover effect over and over and voila sexual excitement to riding a roller coaster, very common. That is the accidental learning. Second is conscious learning via experimentation. We psychologists no longer classify kinks as mental illnesses as we once did....consenting non physically damaging sex acts between consenting adults. NO JUDGMENT,

I am so pleased to have found your channel! This video was a blast to watch, by the way. 😊

Hi, Mat! I am watching this after-stream, and loving all of this interactive, frank and open discussion! I am learning alot and love it when you are really in your teaching zone. It's really good to know that we are not alone in our insecurities, awkward moments and kinks! And also very nice to know that we are doing and thinking the right things...that little validation. Thanks so much for all you do for the sake of the human connection and bedrooms everywhere!! Love from CT Oh...Two final words: WHIPPED CREAM

Rejection is a huge turn off! I think for everyone. Once someone rejects me, it makes it hard for me to get turned on or to open up to sex at all in the future. I loose my flow.

I’m starting a relationship with an awesome man and I’m obsessed watching Mat videos. 😂

This one I do know! He was and is still one of my good friends whom I’ve been intimate with. He’s told me what he remembers the most from our time together.

What if hes.to small for you . how do you make him comfortable

Great questions from everyone. Thanks ladies for being honest and asking such great questions!

Texas choke hold: The man puts a thumb on the jaw bone under ear, bring hand over larynx, then touch fingers on neck muscle other side. This way you dont obstruct the air way, but you have the feel of pressure around that area. Light bondage of him, video tape and watch it with him later 2nd turn on.

Love this! Role playing is my favorite. I make my own costumes too 🙃

Thank you! Your videos help me so much! Coming from someone who has only been with woman for the last 15 years your information is so valuable and is really helping me to feel confident and understand men and I’m looking forward to experimenting and having experiences with men again!

Matt Awesome Topic. Why Just These Mens Be Mens and Not Hide THEMSELFS into Themselves. It Feels Good When They LEAD US THE WAY. WE CAN EXPRESS OURSELVES WITH CONFIDENT IF THEY JUST BE THEIR OWN SELF AND STAND UP FOR BEING A MAN A LEAD A KING JUST SIMPLE MAN WITH CONFIDENCE.

What do I say if he asks if I find him sexually attracted?

Dirty talk is a good way to begin to explore what your partner is in to. It allows your partner to express themselves without embarrassment.

i have signed up. Great info.

Why was this more entertaining than video game lives. And why did I finish all 2 hours...

Remember,different guys and gals like different things.simply ask

What do you do if you like the things they do but they don't respect you

Attraction is a must

My man is 19 yrs older than I am he is 79 on August 9th and I am in my early 60's. He has recently seen a Dr. for ED nothing works anymore and he feels if he can't perform then he can't give me anything in bed anymore. Please help, I feel it's a medical issue or two. I miss that closeness with him

Mat, thank you for this honest conversation!!! It was most enjoyable! 😘

Thank you for sharing these thoughts . I like your laughing.

Sex with someone for the first time with someone that you really like and have feelings with..I don't want it to feel awkward. Was in a relationship for 18 years!!!!

Yay Mat! Keeping it wild and weird and wonderful here in PDX! 😊

hi sir Mat watching from Dubai..i do always love to watch all your vedios cause i learned from it specially your teaching about how to fall a man..its true😍😍...thank you

Signed up for the love course and fb group

I live in San Diego-I just saw that you are also here. I am interested in personal coaching for myself-please 😊

Mat! I just love your topic everything about it it's worth it and it's very important to know your partner ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

I just viewed your videos for the first time 2day...feel sad I missed out on your mastery of connection course

Just found your channel and I love it! Matt, you are charming and completely passionate about safe relationships and creating a love life that makes you melt on the spot. Is it too late to sign up for your course, how long is it? Married to the love of my life for 29 yrs May, 2020. Looking forward to 29 more...

No! You don’t need to honor or hold space for crazy kinks of a man if you are not into it.

Matt! This is great stuff, love your videos 👍🏻 A lot of women find it hard to climax with partners, even if they know their body well and do “manage” by themselves, and the partner is a great lover :-) How do you deal with that?? And talk about it with your partner 1) so there is no frustration for the man and he doesn’t feel he has failed 2) so you don’t feel pressured because of the man focusing on it so much?

Hi, I’m new I will love to take your free course! ✋

Nice course. It's educational

Thank you so much for all your help!!

Wow, great video Mat! Thank you.🔥💖🔥

A strong masculine man's man....LOVE to hear their name called out

My first time is painfull..i did not like it...what to do if after 19years with out sex...i am still scared..

My ex loved nails on his back and scalp...as a woman, I love teeth bites and nibbles...unexpected whisper is also such a turn on in the middle of the actions 🥰

hi, Matt! this is Susan. I love watching your videos!

What do you think is meant by a man kissing a woman multiple times on the forehead while she is asleep?

Neilida V.... very well said... many thanks👍🏿👍🏿💯👫

Hi I'm from Guyana Enjoying your show

good question, Sarita

What about FWB’s?

I like your advice very informative thank you

I love your honesty! Great video

Thank you, Mat!💖

Great information Matt. Thanks. Eve

Hi from Melissa in maine

Hey! I want to know makes him tick.

That was interesting, I learned few things. 👍🏼👍🏼

Ya guys try to stop digging at us so hard. 😂 Someone has to tell you

What should we not do ?

Awsome love what your telling us

Very interesting. Watching from Belgium

Never miss a drop

Matt touch on senior relationships and long distance relationship s.

Just 4 months in relationship and he asked for sex, can you allowed him to do it and what steps to take after sex thank you

When I boss him around tho, he gets so excited...I end up getting hurt in my cervix 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤟also I've only gotten myself off ever in the shower shower head umm...ya ...:/ 😂🤣

Hi Matt. I'm married..5 yrs together for 16. I'm 40, hubby is 53. We haven't had sex since 3/16. I noticed then he was having erectile issue during sex. We haven't discussed it, however when I try to bring it up to discuss, he changes the subject. He seems to be in denial and doesn't want address the elephant in the room as though it will fix itself or magically disappear. So I've been cheating to fill my sexual void im not getting from my husband.. This is wrong... I am aware...but what do I do?

it took at least 9 months for me to open up to this guy and the second I did, he shut me out.

Women have kinks, too. And I already know the guy I'm with would recoil if I told him one of mine because it was mentioned just in conversation, he was horrified by it, lol. It's not that bad, only his reaction was. I don't know why I'd ask him about his kinks when he's unwittingly shamed mine.

I can't believe I watched all the 2 hours explanation you provided

Mat, it will be nice to please help us summarize this.

Yes indeed heels and some seductive dancing is also good too

Hello from San Antonio Texas

I kind of smiling watching you sir all of the above you talking her i done it lol not vain but it is what im doing so i think im doing a good job or i dont know.

When is the next live coming?

It makes me happy so I call it “Mr Happy”. Hahaha

Can men actually will start fell in Love even he said we are just sex body?

Hi matt nice i love to watch your video very interesting 😉😊

great video!

I signed up for your course but I don’t have Facebook.

Great stuff..

Love this video 😂❤

Hi Matt watching from New Zealand

Lol @responsible, loving choking!😆 Awww so sweet!😋

There was no floor play in bed there was no fondling or kissing or touching I Fe that there is no use to stay together

The choking part is scary. Is that why many women die at the hands of their spouses.?

Will you be putting out any new videos?