7 Things Classy Ladies Don't Do | Women Over 40
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Hi family! These are just a few recommendations to get us back on track. Some things I didn’t know until I started researching for the video. Let me know your thoughts.
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@elissarobinson8709 3 жыл бұрын
A classy woman to me is someone who loves and respects herself and others.
@kerethat1683 3 жыл бұрын
Truth Elissa 👍🏻🙏🏼❤️❤️❤️💯💯💯
@deborahreed4147 3 жыл бұрын
I agree ☝️
@carmenrosa8495 3 жыл бұрын
Damm you get an Oscar .. common sense but rarely executed
@faceformers 3 жыл бұрын
Herself more than others lol
@dawn3148 2 жыл бұрын
True!
@dyoung2739 3 жыл бұрын
Agree with all of these. A classy lady 1. Does not drink too much 2. Isn’t rude to the service staff 3.Doesn’t use profanity or lewd gestures in public 4. Always minds her manners 5. Is never too loud 6. Never brags about money 7. Dresses appropriately
@mamatosh05 3 жыл бұрын
I agree with every one of the 7 things. Let me add to that list: A classy lady don't litter.
@miraclesblessings5044 3 жыл бұрын
Yes! I can't stand a litterbug.
@hairdresser1300 3 жыл бұрын
yes
@bernadettedevereaux8694 2 жыл бұрын
I once had a male companion who invited me to share an afternoon with him. We made a stop to a small neighborhood shopping mall with a sizable parking lot. He stopped the car, exited and extracted the empty but crumb filled container of a coffee cake box and dumped it on the parking lot. My opinion of him plummeted. What a slob! Did he ever have any home training.
@gloamyleesang9725 2 жыл бұрын
Agree with you 100%
@ephecarrey5177 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@Fergalicious49 3 жыл бұрын
I also think that a classy woman does not gossip. We all talk about people sometimes but I don't like it when it is mean spirited. Oh that gets me. Or someone who is 2 faced because if they are talking about a mutual friend I guarantee you they are talking about me.
@ms.nblank2537 3 жыл бұрын
Especially people at work in high positions.
@garlicgirl3149 3 жыл бұрын
Yes!! Great add on.
@debramerritt4320 3 жыл бұрын
So true!
@yasminsamuel758 3 жыл бұрын
YES!!!!!!!!!!
@andrettawiggins2837 3 жыл бұрын
@@ms.nblank2537 Absolutely. I had several supervisors who talked about the other people the other coworkers talking about people and they were the main ones talking about everyone as soon as they turned their backs
@trinimom7686 2 жыл бұрын
I have to laugh because for years I've said I'm a woman of class until one day I had three teenagers. Being a parent will occasionally take you out of character. With that said this was great!!
@wandak9622 2 жыл бұрын
Yes! Yes! Yes! I wholeheartedly agree!! LOL!!
@trinimom7686 2 жыл бұрын
@@wandak9622 I say let God be the judge.
@81eniale 3 жыл бұрын
We truly need to bring back "CHARM" Schools. Often people do things because they really don't know. As an older woman, I see younger people doing and saying things because 1. They don't know. 2. No one has ever taught them any better. 3. No one has explained etiquette, manners, and the purpose of them in the world today.
@sakitacastro7143 2 жыл бұрын
81eniale so true. Me ans my friend girl was talking about this the other day. When you know better you do better. She said the same thing like you. They need people to teach classes on this.
@janiceharley9051 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent words. My son always said "his 6 girlfriends are nothing like you " Charm school and the Bible is so necessary today
@beingoodhealthandprosper8359 2 жыл бұрын
Amen ~ I never attended any, but was 'collectively raised' by a group of women who might as well have had their own! I greatly benefitted!!
@wynetteabc 2 жыл бұрын
That's soooo true; people go around in public with the top of their butt cracks exposed nowadays.
@TriBeccaDesigns 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, I agree. Charm schools are a great idea, and we must lead by example.
@Raggio4036 3 жыл бұрын
Coming from a woman/lady in her 60's. I Wholeheartedly Agree with all that you have said here♥️ CLASS, CHARACTER, INTEGRITY, HUMILITY........
@mariebrooks7341 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. I am more interested in living in peace and having a good life, serving the community. I can't deal with the bragging rights and showing off that some folks feel that they have to do. Why?
@lisacranmer8005 2 жыл бұрын
@@mariebrooks7341 Love this...drunks are bad men or women...I had a x who over drank and I had to deal with his Wickedness....What happens in the dark will come out to the light no one can mock Jeh God, X got drunk again with new supply to make his lack of impulse control be very much aware...💪
@toriwilson2382 3 жыл бұрын
I love how you distinguish between "rich" and "wealthy" because there is a difference...
@judithjohn4351 3 жыл бұрын
😄
@giacasteel-brown6214 2 жыл бұрын
Money talks, Wealth whispers
@cherylmosley797 2 жыл бұрын
Old money and new money. Generational wealth.
@mariebrooks7341 2 жыл бұрын
@@cherylmosley797 Exactly. As I get older, I just cannot with the bragging about money, clothes, purses, all the material things. Why brag about what you have we see it. ijs lol
@queenbee297 2 жыл бұрын
So true. Most of these new money people have no class. All they want to do is tell everyone what they have. I sometimes believe that's the only reason they want the money, is to brag about it to others not even for stability.
@andreaarchambeau9499 3 жыл бұрын
The mark of any person, is how they treat those that are in service to them. By the way, those earrings are 🔥
@AngelaMashelle 3 жыл бұрын
Yes! Thank you!
@joannehodder119 3 жыл бұрын
Having money certainly doesn't mean you have class either. I know how to be a classy lady when I'm out at all times. I grew up in a family who were not wealthy at all but we were taught values and morals. Having empathy towards others is also a sign of class and confidence. I loved your video.
@hairdresser1300 3 жыл бұрын
Empathy ...yes.
@MC-yy6qp 3 жыл бұрын
Good points! I would add speaking to others when entering a room.
@AngelaMashelle 3 жыл бұрын
GIRL!!!! YES!
@marilynharris4831 3 жыл бұрын
You have to teach that to children.My mother was so big on that and I am too. We would get called out when she didn't hear the speaking that took place.
@TayReneeTips 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, great add. Many don't know that. I wish someone had taught me that growing up. I randomly figured that out at about 19 or 20. I've now passed that on to my kids and others. Some people are not being rude on purpose, they just have not realized for whatever reason.
@MomTheEbayer101 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!!! That's one of the rudest things I've seen and encountered. It doesn't cost much to SPEAK!
@liluv1987 3 жыл бұрын
Would you please elaborate what you meant by that statement?
@RD-nq7fl 3 жыл бұрын
My Big Mama believed in teaching young girls to be Ladies. Being a lady, is a lot of common sense; however, the new generations seems they don’t care about being ladies. I have observed so many young women not acting like ladies. We need more Big Mamas teaching young girls how to conduct themselves as ladies. Thank you Hazel Davidson -“ Big Mama” for teaching me lady like characteristics.
@argerinejordan4703 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly👏👏👏👏👏
@crystalwhite1637 2 жыл бұрын
😉😉😉😉
@bellejones7872 2 жыл бұрын
Hi not only Big Mamas but Daddys as well 😘
@DarkAngel-cj6sx 2 жыл бұрын
True. But how are they gonna be ladies when we have no gentlemen anymore lol 😂?
@genetabate45 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely true.🙏
@christinecoleman6460 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely a classy lady never drink too much out in public.
@WWambition 3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes not at all. My daddy use to say “don’t do everything with everybody”
@yvette6108 3 жыл бұрын
@@WWambition ....Wise man!
@ms.nblank2537 3 жыл бұрын
@@WWambition My grandma said the exact same thing to me. So true.
@AngelaMashelle 3 жыл бұрын
Amen to that!
@argerinejordan4703 3 жыл бұрын
So true. My mother told me always come in as a lady, leave as a lady.
@Colorguardemarie 3 жыл бұрын
A classy woman is a woman of substance. She is talented and inspires other women. She also does not attend a gathering/ party empty handed. She brings a small tasteful gift to the hostess especially if its the first time going to the home. Thank you for inspiring us.
@AngelaMashelle 3 жыл бұрын
I totally agree!
@yutsekelman9740 2 жыл бұрын
I respect your point " it's okay if you could afford better things in life but never to brag about it" you are so sweet .
@sylviathomas1495 3 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with being kind to Service Personnel. We are not our occupations and as a Nurse of 37 yrs often mistaken for waitstaff, it doesn’t feel good to be belittled and treated badly. We would never want to make someone feel inferior.
@garlicgirl3149 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@NYCCHOCOLATE7777 3 жыл бұрын
Sylvia, l Thank You & All The Other Service Professionals For What You Do🙏🏾
@angelatimes431 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, I am in the service industry and I really appreciate the positive acknowledgement.
@sylviathomas1495 3 жыл бұрын
@@NYCCHOCOLATE7777 💜
@sylviathomas1495 3 жыл бұрын
@@garlicgirl3149 💜
@deesmith6510 3 жыл бұрын
Love the video, I think classy woman should always tip your server.
@AngelaMashelle 3 жыл бұрын
Always
@TheKimroyBailey 3 жыл бұрын
Not everyone comes from a culture of tipping. I don't see why I need to pay you to do your job. If the service is exceptional fine but I'm not your employer
@BeautybyJemyjoan 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheKimroyBailey Yes you're right, tipping is not in my culture. However when you live on a place where tipping is the culture it could be nice to kindly adopt the culture. Most of these employees' wage are deliberately set low and they rely heavily on tips, it won't matter if its a little or a lot its really majorly in the attitude, I had your opinion at first but I realized i had to change but hey thats just me.
@Zauditu 3 жыл бұрын
I was not taught to tip. I come from a frugal family and we rarely had dinners out. My mother provided all services in house with the exception of medical care. However, I appreciate the spirit of people who cook, serve, clean and provide personal services with care and attentiveness so much that I overtip. I don’t miss the money and I’m happy to do it. That’s not for everyone, but as my wages rise so do the tips of those who care for me. Great point! 👌🏾
@bigvalley4987 3 жыл бұрын
@@Zauditu My tip commiserate to my income. Share the resources , not the total earnings…
@JShaw-jy4ug 3 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you! I love how Production didn’t know it’s not acceptable to wear white to a wedding. 😂😂😂 Only the bride should wear white. Thank you for the content.
@WWambition 3 жыл бұрын
Lol I didn’t know either 😩 lawd
@jeccym8715 3 жыл бұрын
I was planning to wear a mini dress to a wedding but now my mind is changed 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@fortunate1forever670 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you…I just attended a wedding and explained this to someone. The person thought it was okay. I said no unless the bride requests the guest be in white.
@goodgirl1152 3 жыл бұрын
Right - try upstaging the bride and you will make a complete fool of yourself!
@AR-qb4nb 2 жыл бұрын
Those women want to be the center of attention even if it's negative attention.
@ms.nblank2537 3 жыл бұрын
I don't care what a person has or how much money someone has, if you can't treat the next person right and especially someone that has much less. I don't entertain those types of people that are snoody and I don't want to be around them. Believe me, I will nicely verbalize how I feel and be done with situation.
@TayReneeTips 3 жыл бұрын
Preach
@nhayles23 3 жыл бұрын
Aside from tipping for great service, I love letting managers know when their staff goes above & beyond, especially college students since I am in education.
@kaysplay6563 3 жыл бұрын
I love girls night out and I look forward to having a good time, but I HATE it when people in my group uses loud volume curse words, I just want to crawl up under the table. We should always be kind to waiter/waitress employees because they are the ones who is handling and delivering your food to your table. I always make sure I give a good size tip and say thank you for bringing my main course meal or even a glass of water. Good video !!
@willyboss495 3 жыл бұрын
If u mean to them ,i can asure u they will spit in your food
@kaysplay6563 3 жыл бұрын
@@willyboss495 Exactly 😣 !!
@deewalker9671 2 жыл бұрын
@@willyboss495 very possible!🤬😠 UGH!!!
@anabella4296 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks hun! 😊 might I add, a classy lady never argue or bring her quarrels with her spouse/ partner outside. For all to see. 🤗🙏💖
@garlicgirl3149 3 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@AngelaMashelle 3 жыл бұрын
This is a GREAT one!
@anabella4296 3 жыл бұрын
@@AngelaMashelle much love 💘queen 👸
@y.m.6667 3 жыл бұрын
A classy lady does NOT 1. chew with her mouth open / smacking. 2. Does NOT place her elbows & arms on the table when eating.
@saritamoorebansa4485 3 жыл бұрын
I can hear my mom’s voice in my head… “close your mouth 👄 when chewing gum… keep your elbows … love the comments about being late…. I’m anal about being on-time . I agree it is so disrespectful …
@lalethiawilliams6641 3 жыл бұрын
Table etiquette.
@Shay4YourMind81 2 жыл бұрын
You’re exactly right. Smacking while chewing and loud gum chewing is a pet peeve of mine, and it can really get under my skin😖
@YouAlreadyKnow8424 2 жыл бұрын
@@Shay4YourMind81 I hate to see the saliva and food while the mouth is open while smacking, so gross.
@Shay4YourMind81 2 жыл бұрын
@@YouAlreadyKnow8424 🤢
@vedadollj.8605 2 жыл бұрын
I was taught a classy lady is also not judgemental of others .
@electrifyingevelyn42 3 жыл бұрын
Things OUR moms would have shared with their daughters, when I was growing up! Thank you so very much for this segment.
@NYCCHOCOLATE7777 3 жыл бұрын
Ohhhh Yes MY Grandmother Definitely Was Big On Manners & Decorrum
@nhayles23 3 жыл бұрын
Another one to add, is treat frontdesk/support staff especially at businesses when you go for interviews, with care. The owner of a company I worked for would check in with me after candidates left to see how they treated or interacted with me when they 1st arrived. In fact she sat at my desk on occasion when candidates would arrive & then popped into the interview. Sometimes I was a part of the interview panel, since I was the office manager.
@hairdresser1300 3 жыл бұрын
This was a great share
@nhayles23 3 жыл бұрын
These 7 things apply to all females not just the 40 & over crowd. These are things I have instilled in my daughters. I sent this video to my last daughter heading off to college, who shared it with her 17/18 year old friends. Awesome content.🤗🤩🤗
@AngelaMashelle 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing!!
@hh3046 3 жыл бұрын
AMEN on the profanity. It's awful, yet people, men and women, think it's so acceptable and worse yet, cool.
@GinaT5678 3 жыл бұрын
Right on!
@luvinme9271 3 жыл бұрын
I agree
@chall5353 2 жыл бұрын
I think it depends on the circles you travel in. My parents and grandparents didn't use profanity, I didn't when raising my kids. They don't curse either at least in front of me lol. My friends and extended family don't use profanity either. It's just not something I hear hardly at all. Thank goodness because it is not attractive at all. If its acceptable try meeting or associating with different people with class and respect.
@sakitacastro7143 2 жыл бұрын
@H H . And they do the profanity in front of children and the elderly like that is cool. 🤦
@chall5353 2 жыл бұрын
@@sakitacastro7143 when I hear them I just realize they weren't raised with good home training, which would have taught the right from wrong.
@WorkTheWord 3 жыл бұрын
Angela....you are so genuine, unpretentious, sincere and such a breath of fresh air! I really enjoy listening to you and seeing how you put it all together, verbally and visually! You represent the graceful, black and beautiful, sophisticated women SO VERY WELL! Thank you and may God continue to expand the platform you have been given to inform those who choose to remain teachable!
@stephf4175 3 жыл бұрын
I think you and "Production" should trade places just for a hot sec and do this EXACT same video entitled "7 Things Sophisticated Men Don't Do!" 😊 This is SOOO on point either way, and many of these are classic things to look out for even when dating, ESPESH the being kind to service people, not using unnecessary profanity, and drinking too much in public ones. A+ on this vid! 👍🏽
@ms.nblank2537 3 жыл бұрын
YES...I SECOND THIS!!
@agyrrl 3 жыл бұрын
Oh that would be brilliant!!!
@labornurse 3 жыл бұрын
Not frequenting strip clubs...
@dawntalburt6890 3 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you, 👍
@marybrown964 3 жыл бұрын
U r on point my lady.
@elanbentley 3 жыл бұрын
I love you so much! Classy, sophisticated, but not pretentious.
@AngelaMashelle 3 жыл бұрын
I'm very much a "what you see is what you get" type of person. It's so much easier to just be yourself
@deborahadams3745 2 жыл бұрын
It’s okay to be yourself but keep it classy!!!
@lavernbaldwin2691 3 жыл бұрын
Thank for teaching ladies how to be classy. Lots of our young need this talk.
@pamelarosa4370 3 жыл бұрын
I love this content. Especially point 2 and 6. Having money does not make you Better than the next person. There but for the grace of God ! Tfs ~ have a great week!💖
@NYCCHOCOLATE7777 3 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾Absolutely Agreed
@AngelaMashelle 3 жыл бұрын
Amen!!!
@latonyahampton7829 2 жыл бұрын
It drives me crazy when people go to weddings, funerals and graduations etc. dressed down. I’m like if you can’t dress up for those , what will you dress up for? Also I agree with the comment that people should speak to others when they enter a room.
@Godsoriginal 3 жыл бұрын
I admire people who got it going on and at the same time can be humble and down to earth. Those kind of people can be my friends all day long but if you are the type that thinks you are better than thou keep it moving because I won't want to be friends with such people.
@deewalker9671 2 жыл бұрын
I agree!!!
@gldnglow 3 жыл бұрын
I have left people that I was supposed to ride with for being late. Anyone that is going with me knows I will leave them as well if they are late. You are so on point. These things have been lost today.
@bernadettedevereaux8694 2 жыл бұрын
I have mixed feelings about timeliness. For time sensitive events like movies, concerts, plane or train trips, the chronically tardy amazingly find a away to be picked up by the designated driver in the friend group. They have known for weeks or months about the planned event but are always late. I find my own way to the point of embarkation that way I avoid arguments and missed engagements. After enough times of being left behind to fend for themselves, the offender finds a way to be on time. For other events, such as house parties, the hostess never starts on time. I usually arrive about 15 minutes late and still find that I’m the first to arrive. In more than 50 years of going to weddings, I have never been to one that started on time.
@moniquebrown3831 3 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you on everything! You are a smart classy lady!🙂
@CoachHC 3 жыл бұрын
These were definitely great and relevant points. I would add learning to disagree agreeably, you don’t have to get belligerent if your opinion is different from someone else’s and always use customer service even when you are the customer.
@NYCCHOCOLATE7777 3 жыл бұрын
Totally Totally Agree On Everything “MY YT Classy, Intelligent & Oh So Beautiful Sistah “. I, Thank You For Not Only Teaching US All But Representing As Well 🙏🏾
@AngelaMashelle 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@rochellemoody1864 3 жыл бұрын
It’s not just you about being on time. I was taught from a child to be prompt.
@cathyinda6914 3 жыл бұрын
I am hooked on your channel now! Just home from lunch with close friend that I have not seen in a year and a half. Thanks for this vlog, agree with all points. Grown woman behavior!
@alphiaaugustin9162 3 жыл бұрын
A classy and sophisticated woman would never make it her duty to scrutinize everyone who attends a function and have a running commentary about what she perceives to be everyone else's shortcomings / faults. Enjoy your self woman and behave in a socially acceptable manner. Please and Thanks.
@justmommyandbabygirl 3 жыл бұрын
I totally agree this your statement, this went from a judgment view on what classy is in 2000+ to a full overhaul of her feeling herself in a point them out and let me judge them because I’m the 1st and last God of you pass. Really ..sigh
@shawnafuqua4057 3 жыл бұрын
@Alphia Augustin great comment
@marvaarchibald2157 2 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you!
@shantawilson 3 жыл бұрын
Loved it. These are the things my mom taught me. I am so thankful for these tips from my mom. It has made me the woman I am today. Staying Classy!
@mshill4070 3 жыл бұрын
Love your videos! Having Class never goes out of style.
@AngelaMashelle 3 жыл бұрын
Never!
@alyciataylor2640 3 жыл бұрын
You just stated only "COMMON SENSE", all women should know, but its nothing wrong with a reminder.......🖤💖🖤💖 Blessings To You and Production
@sharonbrown388 3 жыл бұрын
I always enjoy watching Angela. I agree with all of your tips. I especially agree with not talking about/bragging about your finances, talking loud to draw attention to yourself and disrespecting individuals in the service industry. Being kind to others is always in style/
@solgurl 3 жыл бұрын
Great tips!! I've written people off for being rude and/or belittling to service staff!! It's triggering for me as well. And NOT tipping in countries/regions were people really NEED that extra demonstration of appreciation for service is NOT CLASSY either!!
@lilagauchi3631 3 жыл бұрын
These are so on point, alot of people associate being classy with being rich and acting "above" every1 who they think is below their financial level.great content Angela
@ElevateWithVerne1110 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly manners is a must & I do not enjoy waiting on people
@AngelaMashelle 3 жыл бұрын
I don't either!
@gloriaward9289 3 жыл бұрын
My first boss said it was always proper to get to work 10-15 minutes before starting time .I followed this advice for over thirty years. Always started my day relaxed and never rushed.
@yolandacato7983 3 жыл бұрын
Spot on!!! I will be using these rules with my Queens!
@Dreamsareareality 2 жыл бұрын
My goodness, have you all ever been out with a friend and they start being rude to the waiter/waitress??? It has happened and it is friends that I love dearly and it shocks me. I pay attention to that and that is a mess to me. It really makes me question them. Like do I really know this friend? I strive hard to treat everyone kind and with respect. We are not above anyone. Manners are the best ever. I love this channel. Hello to all the classy ladies on here!!!! Thank you Angela Mashelle!!!
@ms.nblank2537 3 жыл бұрын
5 thumbs down? This is valuable info for all ages.
@AngelaMashelle 3 жыл бұрын
I know I can't please everyone. My motto is "Jesus was perfect and the persecuted him, and I'm not even close to perfect so I know some people just won't like me or have anything nice to say"
@DrCrystalHarris 3 жыл бұрын
I agree with all of these. I think I have a tendency to be too loud when I get excited at social events. My voice carries I’m a teacher and it serves me well in the classroom. But I am aging now and I’m realizing that this is a bad habit that I need to break
@hairdresser1300 3 жыл бұрын
I get loud when I'm excited...I realize now that this can be taken wrong
@queenosouth8113 3 жыл бұрын
You’re right! The worst thing is the nouveau rich who don’t realise what they’re bragging about is standard privilege to most people around. You nailed it!!
@wandaparker6183 3 жыл бұрын
I agree. And, a CL, never picks her teeth in public or suck on a tootjpick. I agree, I wish people still had etiquette classes in school. Because it's not being taught at home any longer. Thanks for sharing
@ingraham100 3 жыл бұрын
What woman, mind you, is sucking on a TOOTHPICK?!
@kerrimccall8094 3 жыл бұрын
I really like that you can laugh at yourself when you make a mistake on camera! It shows that you are human, you are not perfect, and that you are comfortable with yourself! I enjoy your channel and very much like the interaction between you and your husband. My pet peeve also is seeing someone treat waiters, waitresses, hotel or service personnel with disrespect. It makes me so angry. I believe that you should always treat people the way you want to be treated. Everything you said in this video was on point and I agree with you that women over 40 definitely should not be doing these things. Be blessed Ms. Angela.
@darlenemalone1871 3 жыл бұрын
Yessss ma'am thanks for sharing oh girlfriend that white dress story oh girlfriend I am that one that get the door unless you are told to wear white ( the guest ) absolutely no. Love your channel🌻🌹🌻
@darlinespring4066 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I totally agree! I just had this conversation with my boyfriend yesterday. He’s an old hippie that grew up in CA in the 70’s and never learned the rules of dressing for the occasion, etc. It’s been five year of education and he now appreciates the tips I have shared with him.
@dorothythomas5728 3 жыл бұрын
Looking at you, you're such a beautiful lady, really admire your classiness. 🇯🇲🇨🇦❤️
@AngelaMashelle 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! 😊
@Dreamsareareality 2 жыл бұрын
Mrs. Angela is a beautiful lady!!!
@tonip3226 3 жыл бұрын
This was so on point and Thank you for this. I have taught and still teaching my daughter and son, even though they are grown still have to remind and refresh those conversations. My grand baby was here during your presentation, so it was good for her ears also. Great advice..
@shawndavis7878 3 жыл бұрын
I 💕your channel! And l agree with you on everything. Especially, that you should always be kind to people, and don’t brag about your life/financial situation. 😊
@LaKymana 2 жыл бұрын
I love that you listed a tribe of women that Would be your 30 foot wall! That is class and sophistication too! Being a lady who has solid frienships with solid women ❤️
@kasandrabutcher6037 3 жыл бұрын
You are on point with these 7 things to be classy love it!
@theotuconnectnetworking3529 3 жыл бұрын
Add to that when with a group of girlfriends out to eat at a restaurant ,a classy lady will assist on paying the check with others. There are some ladies that will itemize or ask for a separate check. If you don't have it at the time either don't go or budget for next time. Also include the tip as well. Some women just pay for what they had and that's it lol. No tip or anything.
@daizydgmailcom 3 жыл бұрын
#2 On Point! I had a friend and her husband used to love “grading” the Servers at restaurants and how they treated us. They would always find something bad that they did or said to NOT Tip them OR to Insult The Tip. If the steak wasn’t cooke right they would attempt to blame the server or comp the meal it would make me so hot and mad! I would always end up over tipping for Our Tables Bad Service to The Staff! I hated it because then that’s also a type of insult. We are not friends anymore
@cathyrobinson5959 3 жыл бұрын
Angela as always you speak the truth. As a fellow nurse I to like having classy people around me. I cannot tell you how many times I have been in the company of women that were loud and that were constantly bragging about their assets. It was and is a complete turn off. Thank you for the advice!
@Lightner04 3 жыл бұрын
Omg, I love this and agree with everything! The two that push my buttons are being rude to service staff/people in general as well as blowing your nose at the table… thanks again for sharing ❤️
@angelapalmer3542 3 жыл бұрын
So nice you brought out the illustrations of Jesus. So true with all what your saying. I enjoy listening to you...bless
@judyhargrove5531 3 жыл бұрын
I forward this advice to my younger adults in the family , some of them need to hear it from a stranger
@Blue77Blue 3 жыл бұрын
HOPE THEY EVEN TAKE THE TIME TO LISTEN THEY HAVE A CERTAIN TYPE THEY LISTEN TO UNFORTUNATELY!!! HOPE THAT CHANGE I GOING TO CONTIUE TO PRAY FOR OUR MILLENNIIALS MY TAKE I NEED TO DO BETTER WITH BENING PROMPT SHOULD KNOW BETTER THANKS BLESSING
@salaam4771 2 жыл бұрын
I'm glad Ms. Mashelle as Black Woman you do videos like this. Because as a Black Man I am so tire of my Black Women during all this ratchet stuff in nightclubs, restaurants and etc in public all the time. It seems that a lot but not all Black Women feel that having Class is not Top Priority and ratchetness is the new. Big Ups to you Queen Angela Mashelle and continue to spread the word.
@ijnamen7916 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for making this video. You would think these things would be obvious, but they aren’t… especially among the younger generation growing up on reality shows were dysfunctional families disrespect they mothers and each other. You always look classy but you make a very good point that if you act ugly, no styling tips can make you look good.
@marilynharris4831 3 жыл бұрын
I've witness some women do most of what you've discussed. They act as though its cute.
@Shamara200706 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. A classy and sophisticated lady never argues in public. That is a huge No, No!
@terryharris2690 3 жыл бұрын
girl you had my cracking up, and you are absolutely 100% on point.
@histreasurehismasterpiece4298 3 жыл бұрын
Love these nuggets of truth, class and sophistication. Thank you for this, just a gentle reminder.
@barbarasaunders2160 3 жыл бұрын
That ponytail is 🔥 on you! Beautiful in your fro too!!
@tanyapetersen7426 2 жыл бұрын
Hello , Angela. This is all well said. Evdr since I was a little girl I have always admired classy people. I have ways tried to learn and maintain level of class and distinction.
@stampinwithjoyce3259 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, CLASSY LADY. I totally agree. Blessings!
@feleciakey5117 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this video!! I am disabled and in a wheelchair for 4 years. When cashiers goes off on me, I go off on them. This video helps me to be a better person. THANKS!!
@dorothythomas5728 3 жыл бұрын
Classiness in class by herself. Miss classy 🔥🇨🇦
@thefamilymix9160 3 жыл бұрын
Yesssss to all! Concerning the profanity one - social media has made a study known regarding how the use of profane language signals intelligence. I really hate that because it seems people really think it's cool to be verbally vulgar. Personally, when I use profanity I feel dumb as a rock and when I hear it I get tensed because I feel things may get physical and I don't do violence.
@elidaboston2146 2 жыл бұрын
MY MOMMA USED TO SAY: " WHEN YOU KNOW BETTER YOU DO BETTER!! I'VE ALWAYS TRIED TO CARRY MYSELF ACCORDINGLY. I REALLY ENJOYED YOUR VIDEO .MY BOXES GOT CKD.I WISH YOU MUCH CONTINUED SUCCESS.
@bevp9950 3 жыл бұрын
Classy advice from a Classy Lady! 🤗
@cindyfrancis6228 3 жыл бұрын
Loved this conversation today! 💕 I think we have gotten so far away from these simple things that matter most. Thank you for the reminders🙏🏾
@deliaesclavon7441 3 жыл бұрын
I love ❤️ your channel, I myself am a woman over 40, so it’s refreshing to have a channel for me, I love your clothes choices I myself wear a size 14 so I always try and pick for my body type . Keep making the videos I’ll keep watching.
@happymo-pitt5587 2 жыл бұрын
I don't understand why anyone would thumb you down. Thanks for re-explaning
@charlotteslaughter6707 2 жыл бұрын
Angela thank God for given you knowledgeable sophisticated educated human being of what it takes (WOW).WOW
@DubaiWalkingTours 3 жыл бұрын
Amazing Video...Very True with all the tips. Agree with you, no white dress at the wedding. 😍
@claudiadinwiddie4275 3 жыл бұрын
Angela, I am so happy I'm so happy I found you!!! I love your style, personality and humor. It's good to have a quick laugh while learning at the same time. You're an ole' school woman like me, and I relish the fact. I am a subscriber and get all of your notifications. Thank you.
@AngelaMashelle 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Claudia!
@ycarroll68 2 жыл бұрын
Great message!!👏🏽👏🏽 . I learned all of these points from my elders and cousins. Confidence is quiet and insecurity is loud. Treat everyone with respect rather he is a janitor or the Ceo of a company. I have removed myself from people like this.
@anitaclemens2609 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, I agree with everything you said. But I laughed out loud when you were talking about wearing white at a wedding. I so agree. Not sure why everyone doesn't know that. It is the brides day, not your day. Thank you.
@jackiejones4723 3 жыл бұрын
I never thought about the wedding dress attire...thanks for educating me sis
@r0sie888 3 жыл бұрын
This is why I follow you. I never know what to wear for certain occasions. Brunch with friends, dinner with friends, wine tasting…. The list goes on and on. I hope you address that in future videos.
@AngelaMashelle 3 жыл бұрын
I will
@newnana9070 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I need that too. I am starting to go to different functions again and things are a little different than my 20’s 30’s and so forth. I would rather be a bit over dressed than under dressed.
@charlotteslaughter6707 2 жыл бұрын
Thank God for you and husband in back you all laughing enjoying each other down load us with great knowledge ( WOW)
@lizzieclay6774 Жыл бұрын
Hey Angela, I absolutely love your content. I happen to be a woman of a certain age and I love color. Your a breath of fresh air, thank you so much. I agree with you totally.
@TiffanyLadyStar 3 жыл бұрын
I agree with them all. Especially the profanity and being loud.
@Michael-bf1dt 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Tiffany how are you. Greetings from Ireland. Hope you’re safe from Covid. It’s a good video. Best wishes for a good day 🌹🙏😊 Micha
@ta-liaperry1861 3 жыл бұрын
Great tips. I love the convo at the end about the “white maxi dress” not even making into the party. 😂 🤣😂 Production was shocked 😮 “Is that bad?!?”…You: Oh yes! How dare you! How dare you try to show up the Bride on her day!?!!…your face was classic!!..🤣🤣🤣
@mercedes523 Жыл бұрын
I drive a school bus 🚌 and I REFUSE to ROB-N-GO (roll out of bed and go). I dress to impress (appropriately) for my students. I believe it sets the tone for their day. I want them to see someone they can look up to and can inspire them to do their best in ALL areas of life.
@lnh9885 3 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU, THANK YOU for everything you said. It was real, informative, true and rare! I appreciate you for giving us a clear definition of "classy". My favorite...never be rude or disrespectful of servants, maids or the like. You have a new subscribers because your content is worth listening to. Massachusetts ❤
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