15 Things to Keep Private 🤐 - Maintain Your Mystery as an Elegant Person, Don't Share These Things!❌

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What people don't know, they can't influence and what they can't influence stays within your control.
In this video I am sharing 15 things an elegant person never shares in public.
Cheers to living an elegant lifestyle.🥂
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00:00 - 01:24- Introduction
01:25 - 02:02 - Point One
02:03 - 02:52 - Point Two
02:53 - 04:36 - Point Three
04:37 - 05:19 - Point Four
05:20 - 06:41 - Point Five
06:42 - 07:35 - Point Six
07:38 - 08:13 - Point Seven
08:14 - 10:23 - Point Eight
10:24 - 10:54 - Point Nine
10:55 - 11:35 - Point Ten
11:35 - 12:12 - Point Eleven
12:13 - 13:35 - Point Twelve
13:35 - 14:00 - Point Thirteen
14:01 - 14:55 - Point Fourteen
14:56 - 15:20 - Point Fifteen
15:21 - 17:54 - Bible Verses on Keeping Silent
17:54 - 18:19 - Call to Action & Goodbye
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@peaceijie1531 Жыл бұрын

Y’all please when she says “keep everything about your relationship private” it doesn’t apply when you’re being abused! Please y’all!! Thank you 🙏🏽

@winniesschoolofelegance Жыл бұрын

This!!!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

@laptoplifestyleincome Жыл бұрын

True but the challenge is, people who’s are being abused do not know or accept they are.

@zitcynthia8599 Жыл бұрын

@@winniesschoolofelegance is telling your age and elegant thing to do?

@sandrasibandabeauty Жыл бұрын

Even when being abused know who to talk to, not everyone must know

@marthalinebarlay2788 Жыл бұрын

Let me just add that abuse could also be 'emotional'. Tell someone you trust because it could lead to some feelings of depression, lack of identity, or lack of self-worth.

@Esther-qb2ke Жыл бұрын

I so love the fact that you back up your words with scriptures 😊 that simply means elegance is not complete without God's word👌 thanks a million for all you do.

@winniesschoolofelegance Жыл бұрын

God’s word is the ultimate!💪🏽

@LivingForCHRISTJESUSTv Жыл бұрын

@@winniesschoolofelegance I'm glad you know that.

@bolajiajibade5017 Жыл бұрын

@@LivingForCHRISTJESUSTv o

@gloriajatto9547 Жыл бұрын

Ultimate 🙌🙌🙌

@ichechimiraclechukwu1808 Жыл бұрын

The uniqueness about Winifred is the Holy Spirit, it's evident that's why I'm with here

@ChinenyeMba984 10 ай бұрын

Thank u so much ma'am I am 17yrs and ur contents has been a great life guide so far I just love and admire u so much Despite ur fame and status u still acknowledge God and that's the most beautiful part of it all❤

@Wedrinkforhealthnotfortaste Жыл бұрын

When you have the holyspirit, you will know what to share and what not to share … but it’s always important to share your story/testimony to help someone else in a bad situation

@misselle1430 Жыл бұрын

Even in good situations to encourage one another.

@jazmynbess1443 Жыл бұрын

Yes! Spirit of discernment!

@ifysop176 Жыл бұрын

Right

@abasiofonjosiah5313 Жыл бұрын

True

@theyouthtalkshowwithkeziah8545 11 ай бұрын

Holy Spirit * 🙏🏼

@ailessmwale5974 12 күн бұрын

1.Financial status 2.Relationship status 3.Intimate details of the relationship 4.Family affairs and problems 5.New ideas 6.Goals and achievement's 7.Material purchases 8.Unverified Information 9.Social Worth 10.Disagreements or quarrel you had with someone 11.Acts of charity 12. Weakness and setbacks 13.Career opportunities 14.Do not share your current location in real time 15.

@chijiokegoodness3550 Жыл бұрын

I came to realise that the things you talk about or discuss with someone else, before trying to achieve them don't later come to reality, that's why I've always been a private person and people around always sees it as pride, but I don't care....thanks for these words of wisdom.

@SheriK926 Жыл бұрын

Yup ❤works

@wairimumugo1571 Жыл бұрын

💯

@lang6626 Жыл бұрын

Do you know what could be the reason? cause it seems to be true

@wairimumugo1571 Жыл бұрын

@@lang6626 I used to tell my "friends" all my plans, like everything but after that all despairs it's was like they were monitoring evil spirits. When I stopped talking,sharing and social media darling I have seen big changes in every area of my life.

@chijiokegoodness3550 Жыл бұрын

@@SheriK926 yea like a miracle

@Storiesbyher 9 ай бұрын

Been praying to God to help me tame my tongue, it's not a coincidence I came across this, Thank you very much for this

@giftedhands143 Ай бұрын

😂😂😂sister from another mother

@sakumina Жыл бұрын

Coming from experience, I shared my family problems with people I trusted and they threw it in my face. Honestly they years later came and would degrade me n such. Keep it to yourself.

@norlah1 Жыл бұрын

1- financial status 2- relationship status 3- intimate details about your relationship 4- your family affairs 5-

@ebelemaria1004 Жыл бұрын

6 material acquisition 7. Do not share unverified information 8. Social wars. Do you know who I am . 9. Keep squabbles with other people to yourself 10. Act of service

@njerimaina4207 Жыл бұрын

5.brand new ideas

@deleteduser4238 Жыл бұрын

11. Acts of service/charity work 12. weaknesses and setbacks 13. career opportunities 14. current location

@deleteduser4238 Жыл бұрын

10. disagreements, quarrels, and fights

@Tatianarain Жыл бұрын

@@ebelemaria1004 it really surprises me when I see naija celebs post their new homes, cars, acquisitions etc. you know this is what causes a lot of butthurt people to criticise the source of their wealth. Especially those dusty men that demand to know the source of income of a woman as if that’s any of their business. Keep things private. Especially if you’re doing better than people financially. It pains certain people to see you earn more for seemingly doing less. You’re thinking you’re Inspiring but many people have low self esteem and will see it as peppering them.

@joyb4915 Жыл бұрын

I stopped oversharing and boom my life became more peaceful and bigger things started coming ❤. Thank you for sharing

@alicebecht859 Жыл бұрын

Yes, the more you keep to yourself the better off you are, especially money! I learned this young from my father. And when people talk and talk about themselves just smile and nod, you will learn things that will keep you safe.

@ImtheONEnotthetwo Жыл бұрын

Imagine if no one shared anything, we’d have no experiences to relate to and would further feel all alone in our situations, I think the important think is to know why you’re sharing what you’re sharing and to make sure it’s a safe space to do so. I did share a career opportunity with someone and guess what happened? She got me an interview….3 interviews so far.

@BoySoma_ Жыл бұрын

Yes, I agree. I have gained a lot from hearing people share their story in vulnerable ways. I’m also thankful to have people I can be vulnerable with. If I kept it all to myself, my head might explode. She made really strong points though. I think everyone has to tailor the information according to their unique situation. Find out what works best for you.

@sandradelamotta4982 Жыл бұрын

Agree with you. You have to know who to share with, why you share,what to share and when to share. Let your sharing be for positive reasons, uplifting reasons, glorifying God

@d_euniqueart Жыл бұрын

We learn from different people's experiences, those people share a part of their experiences with you not all. I can bet one person's experience that they told you is not up to 10% of their personal life, they tell a part and we think we know them all? You can share experiences when you try to prove a point or want them to learn, just be careful not to disclose too much and know who you're sharing with.

@musicloverxoxox3 Жыл бұрын

Intention intention! ❤

@ImtheONEnotthetwo Жыл бұрын

@@d_euniqueart No one shares everything, we all know this so there is no need to add that. Sharing things that people have overcame is what they usually share. KZfaq is about sharing and I appreciate everything people have shared that have saved me time, money, trouble or heartache. The things I’ve shared cannot hurt me and I only share it with people who needs to hear it.

@akandeomolola6582 Жыл бұрын

If I had known this years back ehn.. I would have been more happier but then I thank God for my life today.

@beautifulstar2119 Жыл бұрын

Thank you. Unless it's someone like you or celebrity. Just keep your entire life PRIVATE PERIOD!! From friends and some families too. Not to mention strangers. Thank you beautiful lady!!!

@joyiordzer2021 Жыл бұрын

"Keep your ideas to yourself" This right here, I've been a victim of this and I learnt the hard way. Thank you Winnie 🤗

@winniesschoolofelegance Жыл бұрын

My absolute pleasure!❤❤

@rukayat7657 Жыл бұрын

Jop

@mzsaintsquare8923 Жыл бұрын

Me too😢

@trapezoidbeauty Жыл бұрын

Yes o!

@tfptravel.food.peace.3788 Жыл бұрын

Omg yes! I had a "friend" who stole/copied my business ideas after I shared them.

@amaraokonkwo_ Жыл бұрын

It felt as if a big sister was talking to me. Thanks for the masterclass.

@winniesschoolofelegance Жыл бұрын

Thanks for listening!❤️❤️

@graceemmy5850 Жыл бұрын

Exactly .

@CA2SD Жыл бұрын

I wished I had seen this just about a year ago to remind me to not overshare and share these points. Now I know, no matter what, some ppl will never like you for whatever reasons. But if you listen and do not share these, they have very little to use against you. I removed myself from a friendship because they went to church, behaved generously, spoke graciously, and then bam! A person can never hide their true self. It usually only takes on average 90 days to see their true colors. It's forgivable but I have my sense of peace and valuable time back to myself. That's priceless. I'm so glad to have found your channel!

@PatriciaMusela Жыл бұрын

So calm and collected. Your posture is so mature, you voice, so audible and mature too.. You earned yourself a subscriber

@Opulent-T Жыл бұрын

She is elegant,intelligent and religious, may your wisdom not diminish

@princesse5043 Жыл бұрын

For people who have got in a place where they've told too much. I personally have had to be mindful and intentional when you see them and they ask " how are you? " Keep it short and sweet " I'm good thanks. Hope you're good" and kinda leave it there. Sometimes they will ask questions that don't require a yes or no to draw you into telling stuff like "Your hair is nice where did you do it?" It's not a yes or no answer and can draw you into an unnecessary conversation. Don't hold malice. Keep it short and sweet and be alert

@safeinhisarms337 Жыл бұрын

This is very true. In today's church world, unless by God's leading, do not share things about yourself and family, even to your pastor. It's quite difficult to know a true believer, except by discernment.

@historiqueafricaine Жыл бұрын

so true

@regalchic Жыл бұрын

Absolutely, except by the leading of God and after careful observation.

@Bashorunatunbirhoda Жыл бұрын

So true.. Especially to friends... I was once a victim

@ritamunachim4154 Жыл бұрын

Me too.

@tonyarobinson8200 Жыл бұрын

I agree so much with this comment!

@TheSunshinefee Жыл бұрын

don't tell your friends you desire a relationship. if they are jealous, they will make you insecure and tell you it will be hard for you

@Black-blood2222 Жыл бұрын

Don't let your left hand know what the right hand is doing. Great message 👍 👏

@leah3795 Жыл бұрын

So basically what I got from this entire message is keep quiet, protect your energy and stay in your lane! Noted ☑️💕

@milkahwambuinjengambothu6173 7 күн бұрын

Sure on the people who hate u n share ur stories with them

@feranmiagbeleye5236 7 ай бұрын

4:46 if you bring the public to your family affairs. Be ready to hear different ideas/opinions Family matters stay within the family!!! That hit bottom Rock. Thank you Winnie❤

@ValentinaGulpe Жыл бұрын

YES! TMI , keep things to yourself! You do not need to be secretive, you need to be private! there is a difference! Be open about your views on certain topics! but be quiet about your next step! From one creator to another great work!

@simplydemii Жыл бұрын

Winnie is a woman of virtue, thank you for backing it up with those bibles passages, those points you shared are so accurate , thanks for sharing ❤️❤️❤️❤️

@winniesschoolofelegance Жыл бұрын

It’s my absolute pleasure. Thank you so much for your kind words.❤️❤️

@marysamuel8050 Жыл бұрын

You just put up very crucial fact that should not be neglected. This is a skill everyone should learn.

@iamthatibk Жыл бұрын

It’s the way you strongly and precisely backed it up with scriptures for me💯 thank you

@pearlash_ Жыл бұрын

This is the best. I watched it from start to finish and the advice you gave has been the realeast advice EVER! 🙏🏻God Bless you

@nanas.recipes_ Жыл бұрын

True true… not everyone is rooting for you. I learnt this the hard way. Thanks for always giving value Winnie.

@seyibabalola4806 Жыл бұрын

Omg, I could hear this screaming out my name. I resonated perfectly with "never share your big idea" I got my fingers burnt through this medium in the end, I was advised by the so-called confidant against my big idea, and barely a month after my idea was implemented by this same person. I learned the hard way.

@mart.k Жыл бұрын

Thank you dear Winnie ..there is no word missed ...very audible and understood.

@temitayoafolabi1873 Жыл бұрын

I love the fact that you backed up your points with passages of the scriptures. Thank you. All points noted.

@ndabarutalovis3972 Жыл бұрын

Always looking up to you for guidance, counseling and advice. You're an amazing person, wish I came to know earlier. Thanks for your constant selfless service

@ToviaOgun Жыл бұрын

This is the first video I see of you, I immediately clicked and subscribed because I was just having these thoughts for the past days and it looks like God is confirming my thoughts. Thank you 🙏🏽

@esinanneezinnejennifer5449 Жыл бұрын

Winnie of the most high. Subscribing to your channels has been one of the best things that has happened to me. You're so exceptional (ibu opuruiche di na nwa). Keep been amazingly you my elegant queen.

@praiseakerele2340 Жыл бұрын

I really love ❤❤ how this episode popped up after my mum spoke to me about idle words and I love how you backed it up with scriptures from the Bible

@michellemellis Жыл бұрын

Perfect timing - really perfect. When one is smeared on social media, there is the temptation to defend oneself. The Lord has been reminding me that He was like a Lamb led to slaughter, He never spoke a word in His own defense.

@donnaturner5567 Жыл бұрын

Sounds right to me ❤

@simplyyyfab_u_lous_3266 Жыл бұрын

Absolutely and all the scriptures she read out.... it's also known as Don't go DEEP i.e: Don't Defend Don't Engage Don't Explain Don't Personalise...it brings you self protection and inner peace.

@RosaDaniello Жыл бұрын

keeping things to yourself is so important because people just love to twist every single word and everything you do. You can have the best intentions and someone will say something negative about what you did, a thought that never crossed your mind because it's just not who you are. Don't allow people to cross your boundaries, like-minded people and people that are meant to appreciate who you are and know your worth will know.

@blessedourhischosen8504 Жыл бұрын

💯% you can have the best intentions towards someone and out of jealousy and envy they will think you are trying to help them because they view you as being much better than they are, even when it has never crossed your thoughts. PEOPLE!

@user-qj8gp1jj7k 9 ай бұрын

Seriously and you keep trying to explain what you mean they still won't understand

@user-br3pf3wr5r 11 ай бұрын

Thank you for this, I've been wanting to get myself together and make some changes. I'm not elegant all the time, I like to chill and but learning to walk stand, and sit confidently and maintain mystery are things I want to incorporate in my life.

@silvernwachukwu1208 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Winnie, I got value. My 7yrs daughter enjoys your elegance videos, I'll ensure she sees this too. ❤

@pilartidjani2176 8 ай бұрын

This advice is honest and well presented. Blessings to you Winnie for sharing these tips.

@oghenefegorbelieve691 Жыл бұрын

This is probably the best video I have come across on this space. It isn't too late to start all over again and right the so many wrongs that's been done. Thank you for this timely counsel.

@raheemahlayeni8861 Жыл бұрын

I don't know how GOD brought you to my KZfaq but I thank GOD I clicked and since Sunday I've had many rethinks. I have started working so much on myself, I've watched almost all of your videos. Thank GOD I found this page😢, GOD bless you. Always feels like I have an elder sister talking directly to me, thank you so much and I pray GOD continues to use you. And if you dont mind, you should consider having a conference sometime, I don't know what kind but just where you can have an open communication/public speaking, it would really mean a lot and be amazing to meet you. Thank you once again🙏🏾.

@valerieonu4352 Жыл бұрын

Just subscribed to your channel. Elegance + God's word !Beautiful! Thanks for this dear! A lot of people need to hear this🤗 GOD BLESS YOU💖

@hannaharchibong Жыл бұрын

My favourite KZfaqr! Thanks for this piece! A lot of value was derived from this video of yours. Plus, the God factor you talked about. Thanks, Winnie!😊

@sandrandum Жыл бұрын

So educative as always... thank you Winnie ❤

@TioluwaladeOlolade 9 ай бұрын

Much love ❤ Winnie... I watch at least one of your videos every morning. More strength and thanks for all

@OluwaBusayooo Жыл бұрын

Thank You Winnie!Fell in love with your channel immediately ❤️

@julietlove3831 Жыл бұрын

You are absolutely right, I have gone through that in my life before, and it was dangerous and this so-called friends to this guy they were terrible very jealous They are full of lies. I’ve learnt my lessons. Thanks so much just came across your channel today.

@adlinnykson4581 Жыл бұрын

Always love the fact that you never leave GOD out of all you do and share❤️🥰. More grace👍

@laptoplifestyleincome Жыл бұрын

Hardly come across channels and just subscribe immediately. But that just happened because of the quality of value shared here. Keep up the good job 👏

@uwagboeevelyn9739 Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much Winnie, your teachings are so on point

@victoriamusa1449 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Winnie... These lessons are top-notch... I am glad you backed these points with scriptures... I got timely value here

@yayra3200 Жыл бұрын

I have seen massive changes in my life , since I started following your channel and my friends are testifying......thanks so much

@trapezoidbeauty Жыл бұрын

Yes o! These are such good advice for anyone at any age! Thank you so much! God bless!❤

@sharonchiahemen6231 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this. Saved to watch over and over again

@landrat3481 Жыл бұрын

Agreed,great advice 💞.. I am a private person & follow all of those points you spoke on. Thank you

@joshuadele-ijagbulu4894 Жыл бұрын

You're such a wise woman. Thank you for sharing these truths, particularly making reference to specific scriptures.

@wealthbeing7571 Жыл бұрын

SO GRATEFUL FOR THIS MESSAGE. I WILL DEFINITELY CONTINUE IN THESE TIPS. YOU ARE ELEGANT AND WISE.

@maryamomobolaji-pq1zm Жыл бұрын

Thanks for always impacting on me positively. I pray the ocean of your knowledge never dry.

@winniesschoolofelegance Жыл бұрын

It’s my absolute pleasure!❤️❤️ Amen!🙏🏽

@lvettesonai Жыл бұрын

material things - "Don't talk about it. Just be about it." Thank you! Social media is so bad about this. smh And.... 11:39 your point is exactly correct. I appreciate the video and lessons.💖

@RuthNnadi Жыл бұрын

So educative. Thank you for this, Winnie

@R247Success Жыл бұрын

Your channel is so worthy to be watched by everyone, both men and women, young and old. Thank you so much.

@helenodion2441 Жыл бұрын

You are very right, Winnie. Wisdom is profitable to direct. ( Ecclesiastes 10:10)

@perola18 Жыл бұрын

Words fitly spoken. Thank you so much, Elegant Winnie.

@winniesschoolofelegance Жыл бұрын

It’s my absolute pleasure!❤️

@poongodinalliannan8468 5 ай бұрын

That’s exactly true sense.. If we don’t lose ourselves everything right in place as you said and if we lose our mind & body, then every all things happen to lose yourselves.. Then when, we need to careful everyday minding our health, mind & body what we do and the reactions of body or mind or depression or anything which affects or leads to excess sharing ourselves after we lost ourselves.. If this all needs to happen as we need, focus on you and your thoughts and action everyday and the changes happening to mind & body.. If the person is proper enough doing everything but somewhere missing without knowing what’s happening but losing yourselves is zone to stop & think ourselves.. Thank you! ♥️

@kezymaina8990 Жыл бұрын

I am a first-timer subscriber and gal you are amazing. I loved the topic and have learned a lot. I have made a lot of mistakes and now i know. Thank you and keep it up.

@Crystal_lines Жыл бұрын

There's always a take home in every episode. Thank youuu Winnieeeeeeee!!! ❤❤❤

@fredlynarchie-pearce6542 Жыл бұрын

The moral of this post is to be and stay humble in life ❤

@Judy-O. Жыл бұрын

I love you Winnie ❤ Thank you for sharing/educating us

@celestineshamala1593 Жыл бұрын

There's lots of wisdom I'm getting from you Dea God bless u what a blessed soul

@ajibadeyetunde9928 Жыл бұрын

Wow..... thank you so much mama, all your videos are always thoughtful. Am happy to see myself as an elegant person in this very video. More grace to you Winnie 💖

@winniesschoolofelegance Жыл бұрын

You are absolutely welcome!❤️❤️

@Bridget657 Жыл бұрын

Happy Sunday Winnie,Thanks for these amazing key points and will sure keep my financial goals private.

@winniesschoolofelegance Жыл бұрын

Happy Sunday to you too Bridget ❤️❤️❤️

@Bridget657 Жыл бұрын

@@winniesschoolofelegance ❤

@ruthudoh911 10 ай бұрын

I liked the fact that you ended the talk with Bible passages. The outcome of sharing whatever is dependent on when, how, what and who you are sharing with. Sharing life challenges you have overcome could serve as encouragement to others going through same things. Above all, reliance on the Holy Spirit in all we do is paramount.

@InspiredbySusan Жыл бұрын

Her gestures are everything ❤... she's so sweet!

@pauloghenefegho7127 Жыл бұрын

Things that are not spoken can never put you into trouble! I needed this, I thought about searching for video on things to keep private few weeks ago; each time I share my ambition with people they always try to advice me, making me feel like am not mature enough to choose a career path, I feel hurt each time I share things that are meant to be private. Thanks alot for this video 😌

@simplyteeto Жыл бұрын

Just share it with God and keep praying about it 🙏🏿. Ask God if that's what he wants you to do. Bcos people are not successful in a career doesn't mean you won't be. I like it when people are given the opportunity to choose their career.

@DFA969 Жыл бұрын

Yes oh, share with God, get a mentor in the field if possible.

@brandyelisea Жыл бұрын

I love that you include scripture in your videos ☺️

@oliveezihe4091 11 ай бұрын

I really enjoyed this❣️So much to learn from it especially from the Bible passages you shared.Job well done👏🏼

@temitopeadejumo5117 Жыл бұрын

I love all your videos, they are educative, inspiring and highly motivating.❤❤

@omotolaadegoke8830 Жыл бұрын

This is extremely interesting particularly in the age we are living in. As a very private person myself, it can be interpreted as being guarded and / or coming across as perfect. When you are like that some will seek out your flaws to console themselves about their own state. However, in the wider climate where mental health is a consideration nowadays it is important to be careful not to discourage ppl speaking out when it is absolutely necessary e.g. in cases of abuse and/or where there is a danger to life. Keeping things like that private could be disastrous regardless of any potential haters seeking to exploit situations. A stiff upper lip some cultures promote but those lips must open at the appropriate time. I am able to use mine accordingly. 😊

@Dinah5822 Жыл бұрын

When things are good for you ,you don't want to share so when they are bad is when it's appropriate to share ? Lol

@omotolaadegoke8830 Жыл бұрын

@@Dinah5822 Balance, I share my good experiences as well as not so positive. But in times where I have no cause to complain, why must it be fabricated for the purpose of another?! I love to share POSITIVITY, ASPIRATIONAL and ACHIEVABLE STANDARDS with REALISM, based on ETHICS and DEPTH OF CHARACTER. I’m only content to be close to those who can rejoice in my successes as opposed to anyone seeking my commiserations. 😊

@Tatianarain Жыл бұрын

Know this and know peace. They’re trying to manipulate information out of you. Many people are out for their own selfish gain. You think they care about you preserving your image. No they don’t dear. It’s your responsibility to guard it jealously

@omotolaadegoke8830 Жыл бұрын

@tatiana you’re correct that ppl are sometimes out for their own self interest, that speaks volumes about them + their character and that’s for their conscience before Jehovah God. Mind you, I do not take slander lightly particularly when there’s no substantive truth and / flagrant attempts to make an outright lie appear true. Intention matters. A mistake I can forgive if the perpetrator is willing to talk, but if it’s intentional wickedness then I pity them. Image and reputation I value but I’m not vain and the world does not revolve around me. HOWEVER attempt to ruin my image on the basis of my principles…we gonna have serious words.

@omotolaadegoke8830 Жыл бұрын

I’m responsible for being true to who I am, in thought, in values and in faith, that I guard.

@TheGeniusOne605 Жыл бұрын

Aunty Wendy! Where have you been all this while? Thank you for all your teachings, they are full of values.

@Godslovenmercy Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for these wonderful tips and reminders! This was very thorough and therefore very appreciated!

@Denisebagaya6247 Жыл бұрын

Thankyou so much Winnie . I have really learnt alot from this video . May God bless you 🙏

@tobiadeleke6928 Жыл бұрын

It’s my first time here and I love Winnie already with this episode 😂😂😂

@mpakempake3235 Жыл бұрын

Your scriptural references are spot-on and your words of caution are very much appreciated.3 years ago I began to modify my social media habits and I have experienced tremendous progress .

@hikerhobby1204 Жыл бұрын

I’ve found it brings much more peace.

@Sunshine-nx8gq Жыл бұрын

I started following you. Your advice means so much in my life

@rumbidzaisharonmvarume142 9 ай бұрын

Thank you so much Winnie❤❤ I really needed this

@emefagadze-executivelifeco3469 Жыл бұрын

This is brilliant! This right here is why it is important to have professionals in your life who you can confide in to guide you through life's complexities i.e. Therapists, Certified Counselors, Life Coaches. Sometimes your friends and family do not have the capacity to support you well.

@Kari_Michele Жыл бұрын

Yr so right about that 🎯💯

@Radianty_Ella Жыл бұрын

This 🔥

@elizabetholuwatuyi1193 Жыл бұрын

Perfect response, whenever I share my issues with friends and family, I don't always have peace ooo.

@Bronzyglow Жыл бұрын

Just discovered your channel. Loved this video and laughed out loud several times. New subscriber here 🎉

@francatetteh9355 Жыл бұрын

This is so profound🙌👌. I needed to hear this. Thank you

@Gracednsaved Жыл бұрын

Hmmm, you just got yourself an ardent follower. I've been watching but not following. However, this sold me! I'm a private person but recently circumstances badgered my walls of defense and it came tumbling down! It was a terrible experience and I'm still reeling from the shock and hurt. This made me recoiled back into my shell with regrets on why I lost muster. Thus, this is so welcoming, endearing and reaching. Now I know what I should focus on instead of the pain of betrayal. I really, really appreciate this. Keep up the good work, you don't know how many lives you are touching by these content of yours. You are loved and appreciated 💕💕💕.

@thaliad4301 Жыл бұрын

Hey winnie ☺️ I really enjoy your videos and I definitely feel inspired to level up because of these kinds of videos. Since oversharing is something that is beneficial for us not to do, how would you suggest going about small talk with coworkers, family, and acquaintances?

@rebeccaasher9124 Жыл бұрын

What a joy to have found this video. Winnie, you are a gift to civilization because what you say will influence others to be better. I sometimes think God must be so disappointed.

@julitadaka7881 Жыл бұрын

Thank you... So helpful, and you are so pretty!

@emilybourne8449 Жыл бұрын

Summary: 1.financial Status 2-3.Intimate and personal relationships whether single or taken. 4.Family Affairs 5.Brand new ideas 6.Your goals and Achievements 7.Material Purchases 8.Be quiet about Unverified Information 9.Your Social Worth 10.Disagreements, Quarrels and Fights. 11.Acts of Service and Charity work 12.Weaknesses and Setbacks 13.Your Career opportunities 14.Never share you present location especially if you an individual who is present on social media often.

@oziomaene7335 Жыл бұрын

Winnie, God will surely bless you for this school you instituted. I am always taking notes.

@ritakyla5096 Жыл бұрын

I’m so glad I watched this video, i would put these to work, and thanks for the scripture references.

@misselle1430 Жыл бұрын

You're allowed to share cmon now. It's all about knowing how much to share, what to share and whom to share with. If you do these 3 wrong you'll be in trouble. We learn and empathise from others. Don't just stress to death because you didn't wanna share that information. Just know who is in your corner and if you don't have then pay for professional services to help you get clarity.