7 Things I Wish I Knew In My 20s

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Tim Dessaint

Tim Dessaint

Күн бұрын

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Your 20s are a crucial decade of your life, where a lot of the decisions you make, both good and bad, can impact and snowball into the rest of your life. As I’m about to turn 30, I wanted to share with you 7 things that I wish I knew earlier in my 20s, that can hopefully help some of you on your journey.
Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro
1:02 - Everybody is lost
2:22 - Do more things that give you imposter syndrome
3:10 - Don’t follow the crowd
4:30 - Invest in yourself
6:25 - Skillshare
7:45 - Nobody cares
8:54 - Hard choices, easy life. Easy choices, hard life.
9:40 - Your 20s are a tiny portion of life
10:33 - Outro
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@thkhoa8805
@thkhoa8805 4 ай бұрын
The bad news is you're on your own, but the cool news is you're on your own
@nataSweet129
@nataSweet129 4 ай бұрын
is that a Taylor Swift quote?
@tdot415
@tdot415 4 ай бұрын
Yes once you get used to idea of being on your own, life gets clearer and your achievements feel bigger cause they’re truly your own
@rod5943
@rod5943 4 ай бұрын
The bad news is that you’re on your own and the bad news is that everybody around you has something to say about what you’re doing wrong. To that I say: There is no path, so walk wherever you feel like going and improve on things YOU feel you should improve on.
@audrey06lee05
@audrey06lee05 3 ай бұрын
Taylor 🥰🥰
@charles2395
@charles2395 Ай бұрын
I'm so happy I made productive decisions about my finances that changed my life forever,hoping to retire next year.. Investment should always be on any creative man's heart for success in life.
@wilsonrichard440
@wilsonrichard440 Ай бұрын
Thanks for the advice! I'm new to financial planning and wasn't sure where to start. Any tips on finding a reliable financial adviser or resource to guide beginners?
@findingpath8362
@findingpath8362 Ай бұрын
As a beginner, it's essential for you to have a mentor that is verified by finra and SEC to keep you accountable. I'm guided by a widely known financial consultant Stacey Macken
@AIIG-zd5dx
@AIIG-zd5dx Ай бұрын
Wow, I'm supprised Stacey Macken is being mention here. I started off with 5K.... Now with massive portfolio highly recommended...
@robertgreg6009
@robertgreg6009 Ай бұрын
This Woman has really change the life of many people from different countries and am a testimony of her trading platform
@nissan38p69
@nissan38p69 Ай бұрын
I met Stacey Macken at a conference in 2018 and we have been working together ever since.
@hecl0980
@hecl0980 4 ай бұрын
I'm turning 20 in just over 8 months, and this video really helped. Starting this year, I'm prioritising my health and working out, my passion for music and the trombone (I'm applying for a year in the military band) and my growing passion for fashion and political science (the latter of which i would like to make a career in). Thanks for the video, Tim! I'm certain this won't be the last time I watch it
@user-ki4xw2rb8q
@user-ki4xw2rb8q Ай бұрын
So you just turned 19, and you are already thinking about turning 20
@joshuakim2341
@joshuakim2341 4 ай бұрын
As someone who just recently turned 29 this past year thank you Tim for the advice! I really needed to hear the last one!
@Deciverse
@Deciverse 4 ай бұрын
Probably one of the most grounded "what I wish I knew" videos that I've seen personally. Love your style and editing touches in your vids too and this one was no exception. Good work man
@mistamop
@mistamop 4 ай бұрын
This video really helped me. As a 26 year old who still lives at home and has a ton of student debt, it’s really easy for me to feel like I’m falling behind and recently had a severe panic attack because of it. I now have the motivation to really try and change my circumstances. Thanks Tim :)
@Xo.trash.7
@Xo.trash.7 3 ай бұрын
Dawg, im so glad you exist. This shit all genuinely made me feel better, i went through a really bad breakup a few days ago and i really needed to see this
@futureow6043
@futureow6043 Ай бұрын
Hope you are feeling a bit better already! The pain will go away, trust me :)
@prashantmalyala
@prashantmalyala 4 ай бұрын
A lot of creators will make videos about this kind of 20s life advice stuff, but this is probably one of the best distillations of it that I’ve seen. Never understood the attachment random internet people have to creators until my friend intro’d me to your channel, at first just for the fashion content. Thanks, Tim.
@HarryHas
@HarryHas 4 ай бұрын
The videos are looking amazing, Tim. 🔥
@daniel_stupid
@daniel_stupid 4 ай бұрын
thank you for this video!!!
@hayden4279
@hayden4279 3 ай бұрын
As per usual, phenomenal inspiring stuff!
@ianmoran8760
@ianmoran8760 4 ай бұрын
As someone who's about to enter college, I love these life advice videos that you've made. Thank you Tim!
@ronharrodjr
@ronharrodjr 4 ай бұрын
I love this video. This calmed me tremendously.
@jaydeegabrillo1840
@jaydeegabrillo1840 4 ай бұрын
Been following you since I was in college and I especially agree that not caring about what others think is top 1 on my list that I regret. I enjoy life a lot better now that I am true to myself. I am in my mid 20s and married with child. A lot of responsibilities on my end but still managing to take A LOT OF RISKS. Things have been working out pretty good lately but I'm not stopping here and will do more not only for myself this time but for my family as well.
@JustMattyEntertainment
@JustMattyEntertainment 4 ай бұрын
I'm in a similar position, I have a child under 1 so I'd love to hear the kind of risks you're taking as I'm feeling a little slumped!
@jaydeegabrillo1840
@jaydeegabrillo1840 4 ай бұрын
I was laid off and had plenty of bills to pay and I didn't know what to do. I was desperate to find a source of income. After getting laid off I invested the money I saved over the years and created a small business (keep in my mind that I had mouths to feed as I am a breadwinner). I, of course, found a better job with better pay. The small business has been readying me and my wife to open a new business. I had a lot of help along the way but it has changed the way my mind works. I don't want to get in deep with it but I hope this will help you. I'm still trying to build a better life so I can only speak for my experience.
@Zyw0o.o
@Zyw0o.o 4 ай бұрын
More content like this man pls, listening to u is a pleasure🙏
@david3601bulls
@david3601bulls 4 ай бұрын
Tim, loved the video. Your style of content has always been super inspiring.
@nicollastessan
@nicollastessan 24 күн бұрын
I love It! Thanks Tim!
@vobang7161
@vobang7161 4 ай бұрын
i really love this video, thanks for sharing
@abdoundiaye8112
@abdoundiaye8112 4 ай бұрын
Probably your best video ever, thank you tim ⭐️
@PoorlyUtilized
@PoorlyUtilized 4 ай бұрын
Do more of these every once in awhile, maybe do a list of book suggestions
@Otijames
@Otijames 4 ай бұрын
loved this!
@zedd2133
@zedd2133 Ай бұрын
Thank you so much, Tim. Help a lot
@yashieratiullaofficial6620
@yashieratiullaofficial6620 4 ай бұрын
Such a legend. Aye, thank you for this 👌
@jonathanbennett8065
@jonathanbennett8065 4 ай бұрын
Very dope video, Tim. Thank you very much!
@mjvlogstudio2632
@mjvlogstudio2632 4 ай бұрын
Thank you!! i needed this!, 😢❤😊
@Training_NRFIT
@Training_NRFIT 4 ай бұрын
Thanks for this 😊
@YenNguyen-gh1ov
@YenNguyen-gh1ov 3 ай бұрын
Thanks a lot, I'm 21 and I'm feeling lost most of the time, your video is treasurable to me. Thank you!
@oohlala6636
@oohlala6636 4 ай бұрын
From Brazil! So good advices thank you so much
@bibosteinmuller3431
@bibosteinmuller3431 Ай бұрын
Great video! Very helpful
@boldi365
@boldi365 Ай бұрын
A very awesome video, i like that format too!
@msl3940
@msl3940 4 ай бұрын
love this ❤
@feline6623
@feline6623 4 ай бұрын
Awesome truths, awesome animations!
@sahebalikhan
@sahebalikhan 4 ай бұрын
Love it bro
@___Moody
@___Moody 4 ай бұрын
Love this vid of yours, unique
@venzroiabella4259
@venzroiabella4259 4 ай бұрын
Thank you Tim
@user-kg2tf4lg5r
@user-kg2tf4lg5r 4 ай бұрын
I completely agree with the invest in yourself concept.
@wayveofficial
@wayveofficial 4 ай бұрын
needed this
@seanmalroy
@seanmalroy 4 ай бұрын
Oh man I’m in my 50s and I’m taking notes. Great vid!
@taranjeetsingh4587
@taranjeetsingh4587 4 ай бұрын
Thankyou, sir!! Respect 🫡
@Arc4kEdits
@Arc4kEdits 3 ай бұрын
9:17 Wise words, Im defnetly going to rember that sentence
@monkeyhigh6416
@monkeyhigh6416 4 ай бұрын
I really enjoyed this video👍
@Isagiyochi395
@Isagiyochi395 4 ай бұрын
I just graduated as an electrical engineer at the age of 22. I’m very into fashion and am gonna build a brand called asad alex (based off of my Arabic and American name). My goal is to flip the world upside down and change it for the better. I’ve noticed that everything seems to have become so degenerate and over the past few years I have become more religious and changed my ways. This video is proof that I will accomplish my goals and so everyone that sees this comment I want you to know that I will achieve my goals inshallah and you can achieve whatever you want in this world if you put in the work and dream big enough.
@r3dsnow757
@r3dsnow757 3 ай бұрын
Inshallah brother
@yjp4929
@yjp4929 4 ай бұрын
Well said
@yoelmorales208
@yoelmorales208 15 күн бұрын
This video is a gem
@jontaelincolne-lomax2884
@jontaelincolne-lomax2884 4 ай бұрын
Fantastic video
@marcosebastianelli3903
@marcosebastianelli3903 4 ай бұрын
Very cool video bro, love it❤
@tonypizza260
@tonypizza260 4 ай бұрын
thank you tim
@thisistotallyfine
@thisistotallyfine 4 ай бұрын
Watching this in my 30s
@huismus111
@huismus111 3 ай бұрын
looking at your pfp, I wouldn't say your 20's went that well
@zakirkhatri2902
@zakirkhatri2902 4 ай бұрын
thank you so much you save me life. I enjoy more present
@zyoma_bestie
@zyoma_bestie 2 ай бұрын
I would not understand the future me, just as the past me would not understand the present me. Only the present makes us happy. The most I would advise my past self is to have a good time, do what you like and don't worry about anything. Just be happy.
@RymndDxtr
@RymndDxtr 3 ай бұрын
👍 nice thank you Tim
@majgajsek7818
@majgajsek7818 Ай бұрын
Thank you
@tabaandy843
@tabaandy843 3 ай бұрын
Thank you brother
@danielrocha8820
@danielrocha8820 4 ай бұрын
Great video
@bartellacreative1968
@bartellacreative1968 4 ай бұрын
Amazing vid ! As the Rock says ..One day, or day one 💪
@KyawMingNaing
@KyawMingNaing 4 ай бұрын
It's very helpful
@leehurst172
@leehurst172 2 ай бұрын
That element of "you're right on time" hit in just the right way❤️
@TheRockyge
@TheRockyge 4 ай бұрын
Despite other KZfaqrs, your video are getting better in quality and also more interesting week by week! You are like a good Italian wine Tim 🍷😉
@naujoxx
@naujoxx Ай бұрын
Very great Video brother! Love from Germany
@mikeguci168
@mikeguci168 2 ай бұрын
THANK YOU VERY MUCH
@jerikhowijaya8844
@jerikhowijaya8844 4 ай бұрын
Inspiring
@coviloku7104
@coviloku7104 5 күн бұрын
I like this mindset.
@IamnotJokic
@IamnotJokic 4 ай бұрын
That smooth transition into an ad-read 😂 kudos bro
@bbbbbbb303
@bbbbbbb303 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing, Tim!
@documentaireparade4542
@documentaireparade4542 4 ай бұрын
Tim that watch is lit 🔥🔥🔥🔥
@RyuuOmaroGD
@RyuuOmaroGD 4 ай бұрын
Thank you.
@soumodeepmete5718
@soumodeepmete5718 4 ай бұрын
thank you
@OCLex
@OCLex 4 ай бұрын
just finished the shuttle art of not givin' a f*ck ..mindset and life changing.
@Addypro99
@Addypro99 4 ай бұрын
Thank You Tim I’m turning 21 in feb and life had started to take its toll on me thinking i am 21 and i have nothing together, hence , I had started running From problems . Harder choices are just harder to commit cause doing the right thing is often harder than doing the right thing
@murarirajan1860
@murarirajan1860 4 ай бұрын
Fresh into my 20s!!! Excited and scared! Thanks for the video mate! Super useful ❤
@Alex-Estilo
@Alex-Estilo 4 ай бұрын
Thanks a lot.
@somebody_55
@somebody_55 4 ай бұрын
Appreciate it
@tyhuynh1852
@tyhuynh1852 3 ай бұрын
Yo idk what day it happened but happy birthday man!!
@Joselitty
@Joselitty 4 ай бұрын
Love this, thanks Tim 🙌🏽
@henniaabdelillah9513
@henniaabdelillah9513 4 ай бұрын
I need this
@Fasthebaker
@Fasthebaker 4 ай бұрын
I've missed this type of KZfaq videos
@BenjaminTJames
@BenjaminTJames 4 ай бұрын
Always enjoy a life advice video, Tim. I'd also say that although it's good to think of your future self, it's important not to end up sacrificing your present self to it; life's too short not to cut yourself some slack in the moment!
@flamero6747
@flamero6747 22 күн бұрын
My favorite quote is "the only way to truly be comfortable is to be uncomfortable".
@rzm17
@rzm17 4 ай бұрын
I love you so much, Tim. Thank you for being a great role model!
@kovlangovender3299
@kovlangovender3299 4 ай бұрын
What an inspiring video. Thank you 😊
@_ockayl
@_ockayl 3 ай бұрын
more content like this!
@kingj7003
@kingj7003 4 ай бұрын
this video came at the perfect time, i was stuck in a spiral just yesterday about the position i am in my life right now, not knowing exactly what i am doing with my life and this helped me gain a huge perspective so thank you for this video :)
@Epiphany1714
@Epiphany1714 4 ай бұрын
I LOVE YOU TIM!!! I really needed this, your a great mentor for us
@Slowzy4K
@Slowzy4K 4 ай бұрын
Amazing video now somethings make sens.
@qrvt.
@qrvt. 4 ай бұрын
Love this type of content, keep it up 🔥
@Stellsenbrown
@Stellsenbrown 4 ай бұрын
Learned a lot in this 10min. Thank you❤
@alexvetkin5410
@alexvetkin5410 4 ай бұрын
Thank you very much for this little enlightment☺
@Ghubby
@Ghubby 4 ай бұрын
This is awesome and the editing is just perfect!
@romedelrosario4915
@romedelrosario4915 4 ай бұрын
Thank you tim! this was very timely. I Hope you make more content like this
@liveahappylife1
@liveahappylife1 3 ай бұрын
Hey Tim, just want to say I appreciate your video! Question: do you use any supplements for your hair? Im not sure if you know anything about hair loss
@wintheingioo4100
@wintheingioo4100 4 ай бұрын
I needed this so bad. Thanks a lot Tim ❤
@mahdiakbar7731
@mahdiakbar7731 4 ай бұрын
I really enjoyed. Keep it up❤
@mazinmusthafa3319
@mazinmusthafa3319 4 ай бұрын
I saw you from canary wharf today…you looked great😍
@MuhammedElham-nr4cs
@MuhammedElham-nr4cs 4 ай бұрын
Probably öne of the bestever videos on the internet👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👍 By the way Tim did you just give some clues about your brand🧐
@ryanm.8328
@ryanm.8328 4 ай бұрын
Today is my 21st birthday and I do feel really lost. As someone who suffers from mental health problems and doesn’t really get along with family, I’m just blessed that God gave me another year in this cycle we all call “life.” I do wish I could celebrate like other people who do their 21st birthday but I’m not that rich. I am thankful though for another year.
@GonzaloGalvez-ub4dd
@GonzaloGalvez-ub4dd 4 ай бұрын
Thanks so much Tim for this video. You are a mayor source of inspiration for me and I am pretty sure for most of your followers, and this goes way beyond fashion. A good reminder like this is always appreciated, but most of all, needed. We should create some sort of support and experience sharing community among your followers, where we can take on challenges and other activities. If this has been already made, pls let me know. Would love to join
@Chreeseburger
@Chreeseburger 4 ай бұрын
We need another tattoo tour video!!
@Millerdelo
@Millerdelo 4 ай бұрын
I’m 26, $300K net worth. Been saving 50% of my salary, investing in stocks & living below my means. My goal this year is to be more serious and consistent with my investments for long term. I’m worried with the numerous bank failures as of late, am I better off reinvesting my savings in the stock market or do I wait?
@jaidenSalinas
@jaidenSalinas 4 ай бұрын
Exactly what I’m doing again this week. The smartest thing I’ve ever done was having 30% in cash to buy on the way down in 2021. It hurt watching 30-40% discounts drop to 50, but grabbing Google, NVDIA, Apple, and others near the bottom has paid off
@Edgardo477
@Edgardo477 4 ай бұрын
Excellent info. My problem is when it starts dropping I think it's going to keep dropping for awhile and I wait so I can get the best deal. Next thing I know, it's back up again
@Millerdelo
@Millerdelo 4 ай бұрын
Amazing speaking with Martha on the phone, I really Appreciate 🙏
@osariemenoriakhi
@osariemenoriakhi 4 ай бұрын
Wow Tim you just gave me a reset, this video is indeed needed .
@SRawsonH
@SRawsonH 4 ай бұрын
Great video Tim 👌🏻 Could you do an update on your tattoos, loving the new pieces ☺️
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