7 Things That Make A Man Fall DEEPLY In Love With You 🤵👸 ft. Mat Boggs

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A dating advice question Matt Boggs and I get asked a lot by women is “How to make a man love you?” “What makes a man fall in love with you?” and “What a man must have to love you?” Today, to say I’m VERY excited would be an understatement to have brought in Mat Boggs to talk about 7 Things That Make A Man Fall DEEPLY In Love With You and keep loving you long term.
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For Mat Boggs and I, giving dating advice to women on how to know if he’s in love with you and what makes a man fall in love is a huge part of our roles as dating and relationships coaches for women. Understanding men and their signals is an essential part of falling in love with the right man, and I went to meet with my very special friend in California to discuss the signs a guy loves you and what it REALLY takes for a man to have a deep, loving connection with you.
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What do men need to fall in love? How do guys fall in love? How to know if he’s in love with you? What men do when in love? How To Tell If A Guy Loves You? Creating a video for you on 7 Things That Make A Man Fall DEEPLY In Love With You 🤵👸to do it with Matt Boggs is something I’ve been super excited for! Matt and I work with a lot of clients who are in an awesome early relationship and wanting to know if the man is ready to take things to the next level and falling in love to be committed for the long term. Sometimes though, like all of us, they have doubts. They doubt the way they or the man might feel and still wonder if their amazing new man is really in love with them. They don’t know what a man really needs to fall in love and Matt and I help by telling them how to know if a guy is serious and how to tell if a guy is in love. Matt and I are sharing 7 incredible tips that make a man fall deeply and seriously in love with you. How to make a man love you? What do men want to fall in love? Matt and I are going to show you in this video!
In this dating advice video from Make Him Yours, I (Mark Rosenfeld, dating and relationship coach) alongside Matt Boggs, women’s dating and relationship coach, am talking about authentic ways to make your man fall in love with you by knowing what makes a man fall in love and what men need to fall in love. You’ll know exactly how to get a man to love you and fall for you by knowing the key things that will make them fall for you.
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After watching this video on 7 Things That Make A Man Fall DEEPLY In Love With You 🤵👸 you’ll know exactly what a man needs to fall in love and how to have a man fall deeply in love. These seven tips I share with Matt Boggs are the seven things that make a man loves you and have a lasting relationship with a deep loving bond. This is incredibly important content to empower you to enhance your connections with men, your dating and relationship results.
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@laurausher9051 4 жыл бұрын

Get you a man who looks at you like Mark and Mat look at each other

@TheSoftLifeMeditations 4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂

@someonespecial581 4 жыл бұрын

Yeah true. There's chemistry!

@someonespecial581 4 жыл бұрын

@Deej Wilson Looool. It was just a joke chill. Jeeez!

@tooblessedtobestressed8343 4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@laurausher9051 4 жыл бұрын

@Deej Wilson I'm truly sorry if this was rude or offensive from your point of view, I didn't mean for it to sound like I was mocking them at all, nor was I insulting that they were gay (not that there is an issue with that). I was just highlighting the mutual respect and admiration (platonic) the have for each other. This is something that everyone should have, someone to devote their full attention to you when speaking.

@kaitlynwhite6218 4 жыл бұрын

The actual guy of my dreams randomly walked into my life and I wanted to tell everyone out there real pure love exists and dont lose hope :)

@estoy1732 3 жыл бұрын

Are you still together

@Latanya-eq2hz 3 жыл бұрын

Awwwwww. I really hope i find my true love.

@c-lia3840 3 жыл бұрын

@@Latanya-eq2hz i sincerely hope you do too

@kense502 3 жыл бұрын

Same! It was a few days after a move 12 hours away. We're still together over a year latee

@TacoFlavoredKissesMwah 3 жыл бұрын

I’m both jealous and happy for you lol. 💕

@maddiefilms9396 4 жыл бұрын

Idk why I clicked on this but ladies im just going to say the second I stopped caring about how to "get" a man to fall in love with me and I started a commitment to fall in love with myself I started to attract men "falling" in love with me without me even trying. The only problem is that once you are in love with yourself you are much more choosey. Good luck loves and love yourself first and foremost

@budgetfriendlybabe 4 жыл бұрын

Absolutely true. At the time I found love I wasn't even looking. My man is an addition to my life not the whole equation.

@scorpiokitty9745 4 жыл бұрын

Well said-I totally agree!

@charlottetheartist327 4 жыл бұрын

Yessssss. Very freaking trueeeeee. Best ADVICE I aware. Your right I'm 30+ and I've known this to be soooooooo true. But young girls are not here yet.lol. heartbreak first then humility the right kind, and last.... wisdom. Thanks for sharing QUEEN

@nhorton90 4 жыл бұрын

Cheyanne green this is absolutely true

@maryvanessa9909 4 жыл бұрын

Awesome lol

@TahoeSnowbird Жыл бұрын

My husband was so confident that he bought the ring before he proposed. Lucky for both of us, I was very much in love with him. He must have felt that love. I don't remember my identity before I was with him. I think he felt the same way. We were together 52 years before God called him home. I live only for the day God calls me home so we can be together again.

@NinaDewone 7 ай бұрын

😢 what a blessing to have found the love of your life duting this lifetime ❤

@nannuky1128 6 ай бұрын

he bought the ring before he proposed? did it use to be different? were people... idk, renting them? genuinely curious

@TahoeSnowbird 6 ай бұрын

@@nannuky1128 Yes, he did. And the rings fit my little fingers perfectly. He must have known what size to buy after holding my hands so many times. We only dated 3 months before he proposed. He had gone on a business trip half way around the world for 10 days. When we saw each other the day after he came back, in a private moment he pulled me to him, held me in his arms and said: "I miss you so much when I am gone. I know I want to spend the rest of my life with you." I looked up, we kissed then he showed me the rings and put them on my fingers. I will never forget that sweet moment in our lives. Spending the rest of his life with me was exactly what he did. and what an incredible life of love and devotion it was for both of us. Now that he's gone to Heaven I wear his wedding ring on a gold chain between my engagement and wedding rings. I can't wait to be with him again for eternity.

@TahoeSnowbird 6 ай бұрын

@@nannuky1128 Yes he did. I am not sure what you meant by "renting them." The rings fit perfectly on my small fingers. He must have guessed the size correctly after holding my hands during the 3 months we dated. Ours was a whirlwind romance. We dated 3 months, got engaged and married 5 months after that. We were married for 51 years 4 months and 21 days. I miss him every moment of every day. I now wear his wedding ring between my engagement and wedding rings on a gold chain.

@helenaduarte9546 3 ай бұрын

😂😂😂@@nannuky1128

@rubywarda6871 3 жыл бұрын

1. Deep Connection 2. Having the man feel masculine 3. He can be your provider 4. Deep acceptance 5. Be his believer 6. Encourage his purpose 7. Intense desire

@yvonnelyons5469 3 жыл бұрын

Did all the above but he walked out on me after 12 years saying I was too needy

@rubywarda6871 3 жыл бұрын

@@yvonnelyons5469 I believe that... they need to put a MAN THAT APPRECIATES A WOMAN and doesn’t take her love for him for granted!

@honesty777 3 жыл бұрын

All men want these things but do not give it...i think guys that need so much need a mommie.

@rubywarda6871 3 жыл бұрын

@@honesty777 I’m a giver by nature. Many men have taken advantage of that and treat it as a weakness.?

@privateprivate2421 3 жыл бұрын

I've never relied on a man to provide for me so I guess that makes me unlovable. Ah well.

@marysadnick6854 Жыл бұрын

After 2 failed marriages I met the man of my dreams! 34 years of blissful marriage!

@AmoristEclectic 4 жыл бұрын

I have had many men fall for me. You know how? I was purely myself and real. The end. Glad I could help.

@SupAModel100 4 жыл бұрын

💯 😉

@ebenezahm 4 жыл бұрын

Did they stay 🙃?

@namastewellness 4 жыл бұрын

Amorist Eclectic LOL

@Domina09 4 жыл бұрын

Some people arent as lucky and need some direction as to what their doing wrong. Theres nothing wrong with that

@AmoristEclectic 4 жыл бұрын

@@Domina09 You don't need direction. Just be yourself. You have to love yourself before you can truly love anyone else. Be you. You are enough. Someone with similar interests, etc. will be attracted to who you are. It really is not that hard.

@mahu230 7 ай бұрын

I noticed that the majority of the points mentioned in the video actually have nothing to do with the woman and her inherent qualities (intelligence, beauty, humour, passion, creativity, ambition, etc). It's mostly about how she makes him feel about himself. Women are portrayed as a vehicle for men to fall in love with themselves.

@goldrays4862 3 жыл бұрын

Nothing makes my husband glow more than when I lay on the appreciation, genuinely, and give him his moment to bask in the praise. It's adorable ☺️

@Markrosenfeld 3 жыл бұрын

So true!

@islamicteacher2600 3 жыл бұрын

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@pammeadows1311 3 ай бұрын

Yea my beagle did that too

@pisceanrat 4 жыл бұрын

1. Deep connection (he can feel vulnerable, safe, present) hold space be comfy w silence 2. Having him feel masculine with you 3. He can be your provider (appreciation) 4. Deep acceptance (accept and own his and your flaws) 5. Be his believer (more than he believes in himself) 6. Encourage his purpose (you must be on your purpose too) 7. Intense ongoing desire (if he chased you for years he won't want to lose you)

@aisyahlee2816 4 жыл бұрын

Then how about someone who wanting connections always on call, when disconnected he will call again, 24 hours nonstop 🤔

@justmeonthebeach 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you, you save my time 😂

@relaxistheway7657 4 жыл бұрын

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@elviavargas834 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you!!🙌🙌🙌

@clAssIcAllymINdless 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@missjenn6861 4 жыл бұрын

Guys, remember you can only have a man who wants you to have him. PERIOD

@o0oaamee 3 жыл бұрын

Amen 👍🏼👍🏼❤

@harriethenrietta2942 3 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@kristacarvajal9692 3 жыл бұрын

Not a problem

@ingridstumbbrraite4651 3 жыл бұрын

Yes,, if man don't love you, you cat do wleverything for him but his heart still ll be cold

@MiaStar 2 жыл бұрын

@@ingridstumbbrraite4651 that directly contradicts this video, which says if you do these 7 things he will fall in love with you. So, which is it? You can cause him to love you by doing the right things, or it is completely hopeless and no one should bother trying? 🤷‍♀🤷‍♀

@tigre9271 3 жыл бұрын

I've been happily married for 16yrs. But these tips are great to maintain and strengthen our marriage even more. We're still in our honeymoon stage!

@winterkai12 Жыл бұрын

Any advice on how to strengthen your bond?

@tigre9271 Жыл бұрын

@winterkai12 Don't sweat the small stuff. I have a rule I follow. If my husband does something that irks me, that I think, i can just look past it and move on without saying anything and not hold resentment? Most of the time the answer is yes. I'm pretty easy going, so even those little things that husbands do, like leave a towel on the floor don't bother me. But if he does something that I feel may make me feel less of him, then I bring it up respectfully. My goal is to clear it up and especially, for me not to think less of him or the question the strength of our bond. I love, respect and adore my husband and I always want to feel that way. So i don't let certain things taint our bond. Know yourself, communicate anything bothersome if you feel it might cause resentment. But again, don't sweat the small stuff, its not worth it. You have to think of a marriage like a 3rd entity sometimes, like a child. Consider what's best for the marriage rather than what's best for you or your spouse. After all, you two are ONE now. And it's usually a lot of the UNSPOKEN stuff that chips away at a marriage.

@winterkai12 Жыл бұрын

@@tigre9271 ohmygosh, you are so amazing, thank you so much for this brilliant advice and for responding. I love this part, "consider what's best for the marriage rather than what's best for you or your spouse". It's so rare to see lasting marriages nowadays and we badly need advice from those who do have lasting marriages. Thank you!

@tigre9271 Жыл бұрын

@@winterkai12 You are very welcome.

@badcheetah5927 7 ай бұрын

@@tigre9271wow ! You are amazing person!❤ I like to read ur comment. I wish I knew this before to save my marriage. You are absolutely right ! Anymore advice I would love to hear from you. 😊

@orbarel3435 4 жыл бұрын

In short: when you fall in love with yourself, everyone will fall in love with you.

@Markrosenfeld 4 жыл бұрын

Absolutely, Or Barel! Thanks so much for sharing! I love this! 😊

@fifinana1000 3 жыл бұрын

Which mean, that is never happen....

@MissMillions 3 жыл бұрын

THIS.

@Yes.794 2 жыл бұрын

I've been loving myself for a long time now. Yes there is certainly truth to this, but I don't have a stream of men falling in love with me because of it.

@Mani_blueprint 2 жыл бұрын

@@Yes.794 then u didn't really fall in love with yourself

@Quntah888 4 жыл бұрын

1. Holding space 2. Having him feel masculine with you 3. He can be your provider 4. Deep acceptance 5. Be his believer 6. Encourage his purpose 7. Intense ongoing desire

@Markrosenfeld 4 жыл бұрын

Make sure to get the 'How's' from Mat. The more we invest the more we learn! Thanks Neela :)

@paulinabesada1967 4 жыл бұрын

Great video. Thanks!

@Bhatia423 4 жыл бұрын

Love this♥️

@oladayooladele7099 4 жыл бұрын

Even if you do all these an emotionally unavailable man will not still fall. Or just do nothing about his feelings

@Quntah888 4 жыл бұрын

Lisa Marie Watch the video.. it has nothing to do with outer appearance

@aubreybondoc 4 жыл бұрын

I'm doing it right without even knowing it. Damn. Friendship seems like a really good foundation for a great relationship.

@stellawangu9922 Жыл бұрын

All these points can be summarised into one point; Fall in love with yourself; the great, the good, the bad and the ugly of yourself and that will make the other feel confident enough to do the same for themselves and for you!

@colmpullen4702 3 жыл бұрын

Great video. One thing that really, really allows me to relax into 'loving my woman' is when she appreciates my efforts for her, especially when I don't get the desired results. Her appreciating my efforts in those moments help me step past my 'failures' and refocus for a second try. Her appreciation and acceptance opens space within which I am eager to 'be her man', provide what she desires.

@ginahenley3694 4 жыл бұрын

When you truly care for someone, all of this “should “ come naturally.

@lmwaoful 4 жыл бұрын

Yes, a lot of "this" does, I call it "The natural beauty of love". However, we all come with baggage. The older we get, the more carry on's we bring into our relationships. I believe that everything in this world takes work to maintain including the natural beauty of love.

@kfoster3616 4 жыл бұрын

yep

@brandypresley1869 4 жыл бұрын

Yes!!! Just like my relationship! Im 1 lucky girl!!

@texasstardust6010 4 жыл бұрын

@@lmwaoful ... Yes, true about when we become older. I prefer to say " Luggage "... I have luggage, but it's not huge and overpacked..... 😀☺️

@traceyniles8474 4 жыл бұрын

Amen to that!😇

@Jim-rh2nh Жыл бұрын

'Making someone fall in love with you' is ridiculous. Chemistry is there or it is not, just be yourself and if it's meant to be, it will be there and you'll know.

@KariFromYoutube 2 жыл бұрын

I love this video because I think as women we focus on loving men so we feel loved by them, but not to love them for who they are. I struggle with this. It’s a self centered love. I rarely take the time to think about how to make my man feel loved WITHOUT thinking about how that will make him love me better if that makes sense.

@emilyalexa7765 2 жыл бұрын

This is exactly what I’ve been working on recently! Trying to love someone genuinely without doing it just so I can get some love, affection, etc, back.

@mewho6199 Жыл бұрын

No, it doesn't. Stop generalizing about men and women.

@hawaiigirl8089 Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂 of course you want live in return. How hilarious. You Mother Theresa?

@izabelazielak8963 Жыл бұрын

@@mewho6199 exaggerating&overthinking

@izabelazielak8963 Жыл бұрын

@@emilyalexa7765 don’t expect too much,if He isn’t happy anywhere,You will never manage to please Him 😁

@mpoemp4703 4 жыл бұрын

I swear all of these suggested videos are making feel like im gonna be single forever

@Markrosenfeld 4 жыл бұрын

It's all about the learning Ma Poe. Nothing wrong with being single or in a relataionship. The only 'wrong' is never learning

@marah3298 4 жыл бұрын

Ma Poe I understand. I fall down the rabbit hole too lol

@asedition8847 4 жыл бұрын

Ignore these videos it’s total rubbish! There is someone out there for everybody and when you meet them it just works....no instructional video required

@bilyjeans31 4 жыл бұрын

Same here

@zenlenzmedia 4 жыл бұрын

Ma Poe, Don't feel alone. Every person goes through this until they come self-aware. I teach this in my book (I won't spam this channel but if your interested message me) I promise you are a special, beautiful, and unique being. Here's the thing. Every single person has very different thoughts, feelings and emotions depending on childhood, experiences, culture, etc. Even these two men would not react or respond the same way in any situation. I have been single for 4 years and I freaking love it. In fact, I don't even want the drama of a relationship. And because I know my worth now, I don't settle for guys who don't deserve my attention. Women give men attention when they reciprocate the same love. Both parties should be building each other up to be their best self. You will only find someone like that when you spend time with yourself. The truth is if you don't like being alone with you, why should any man want to be alone with you? When you accept yourself its easier to accept others. Stand tall sweety, you are a beautiful soul. Find the fire inside of you and shine your light baby!!!

@aireonathompson2691 4 жыл бұрын

I love that two grown men can compliment one another w/o it being weird thats full confidence and maturity right there. love this video.

@brendaolguin7956 4 жыл бұрын

I’m going through a really hard breakup (known him for 20yrs) and I, someone who never looks at these kind of videos, have been searching and listening to relationship advice for days now to help eliminate the turmoil going on in my mind and in my heart. Today, I finally feel like I found some healthy, truthful advice from your video. Thank you for bringing some calmness to my day.

@Nina-ur3ld 5 ай бұрын

I wish you the best. You will find love again.😊

@spiritualrebirthsanctuary 3 жыл бұрын

Every time my ex did some to help I thanked him. He didn't bring in an income for 3 years and didn't modify spending. We ended up filing bankruptcy. Not all men seem to care about being a provider. He is back to a new girlfriend and no job.

@palamirtammarimuthu1752 2 жыл бұрын

Oh dear.....😱

@malenkytoys 4 жыл бұрын

Hah. A week ago I told my bf it means a lot to me that he makes an effort to bond with and take care of my dog. Now it’s like he’s obsessed with taking care of him, even helped me bathe him today and cleaned the bathroom after 😂 Amazing

@jewlzn7130 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for saying that. Too many women in the comments section dont understand the benefit of a good relationship. You gain a lot from a man when you treat him well.

@PsycInColour 3 жыл бұрын

Ahh that is sooo sweet 😂😆💖

@sindhusekar1918 3 жыл бұрын

Juliet Ngweno I think it’s just good women who have been screwed over and drained that are complaining. Can’t blame them...

@user-vb2es8dy1s 2 жыл бұрын

He is watching your comment

@faithwalker2287 4 жыл бұрын

This is the coolest “bromance” ever! Seriously! Men don’t talk about their feelings with other men but I find this kind of friendship dynamic very sexy on a man. I don’t mean that in a disrespectful way. I don’t expect a man to always share his feelings with me but I would hope he could have another male friend who can help him navigate his feelings in his natural “man” way. I know that doesn’t make any sense. I know my husband sees me as his best friend but unfortunately, I don’t feel the same way about him. I have a best friend and she lives in Maryland. She had never judged me and listens whereas my husband (when I used to talk to him) likes to say things like, “You shouldn’t have said that” or tries to correct me. I don’t tolerate that. It starts arguments and usually ends up with me telling him he isn’t my dad, this isn’t the Middle East and I’ll say whatever is on my mind. Then I quit confiding in him but made him aware prior, that what he was doing is not best friend worthy and for that reason, I will no longer talk to him about things. This isn’t something he did just once. It was over many years. Now, he tries to ask but I don’t let in. He needs to find his best friend. He is my husband and I draw the line at that. Because I have pointed out what he does when I do tell him something, he is well aware of the reasons in which I don’t confide in him. He has come to accept that. Don’t get me wrong. Our relationship is great beyond that but of course we’ve been married one day shy of 19 years so as long as you fight to stay together and work things out rather than trash the relationship, your marriage is going to succeed. But by no means stay in a physically, mentally and emotionally abusive relationship. Honestly, our marriage has been a breeze lately and it has all come down to communication. We do sit down and talk but never in a heated moment. We have learned to wait until I cool down. Then I can listen. It’s all about balance and space which we do give each other.

@adela-adrianamoscu9170 3 жыл бұрын

I appreciate that you teach reasonable approaches NOT “game playing and manipulations”! You teach people to be real, considerate, and caring for each other & themselves. T H A N K Y O U ! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🕊🕊♥️♥️🤗🤗

@buttaflilluvdantruone5241 3 жыл бұрын

I love this because I've been with my husband for 20 years. What your saying is true. I have lots of examples for each of these points that your making. They way things happen I could see women interpreting it wrong especially the masculine thing. I rarely ask my husband to do masculine things for me and yet he feels like a man around me. I help him lift refrigerators. I'm the one who pushes cars for him, etc. Where I realize his masculinity comes in at is my accepting what makes him feel masculine and showing him my vulnerability and letting him support me. I really think men feel masculine when they provide, support and protect. These don't have to be physically it can be a combination of physically, mentally and emotionally. I just wanted to comment on what stood out to me the most. I personally believe that masculinity and femininity are about submission to your vulnerabilities. It has nothing to do with cooking, cleaning, fixing cars, moving furniture, etc. I'm going to give an example and then I'm done typing. My husband used to comb his god-daughters hair when she was a little girl. He would braid it and put the colorful balls in her hair. He would cook and clean, etc. I've heard people say he was weak, remember this was 20 years ago. I realized that he's not weak and he's not acting feminine; what he's doing is providing, supporting and protecting. He's providing her with a sense of confidence letting her know that she's cared for no matter what. He's supporting her by letting her know that she's beautiful and that she has someone who's willing to invest time into that for her. He's protecting her by making sure she understands how to look her best and feel her best so she's not vulnerable to other peoples crap. Ok I'm done running off at the fingers, LOL!

@Karamelk4 3 жыл бұрын

WOW!!! Much thanks for this new, deep perspective on a man's protection and provision! Sooooo appreciated. 😊

@palamirtammarimuthu1752 2 жыл бұрын

❤️👍🏼☮️🎼🌍🌏🌎

@martinaadet6447 2 жыл бұрын

really thanks thanks thanks

@tessaturley9365 Жыл бұрын

Love this! It's not always physical it's everything and showing them who we are and being vulnerable. I love that. And I'm also so bad at that. I tend to shut down when I'm hurt or when I'm struggling and have such a hard time opening up but when I do I can feel that love from my man more. It's weird because I've been in a narrsasist relationship before and it throws me off when I share thoes feelings and I get nothing but love instead of having everything blow up in my face. I love it and so I'm glad you brought that up. I also had my dad do that exact same thing! He would brush my hair when it was wet from taking a shower and he would comb it for me and I never thought he was being feminine I just felt loved and cared for and that was amazing to me. I had a dad who wasn't ashamed to help me with my hair when I was little and I loved that about my dad. ❤️

@Carol-nt1gk Жыл бұрын

Beautifully said!

@maggieyang3833 4 жыл бұрын

I'm so tired of playing mind games, why can't people be real,tell the truth. Tell her you like her or u don't

@MichaelWalsh-qn3ef 4 жыл бұрын

Or him 2019

@hdp8889 4 жыл бұрын

Yes

@Annjenkins806 4 жыл бұрын

I don’t think these apply until you have a conversation and really assess the person. Otherwise Be a good friend. Men make great friends first I found.

@adrijacestaviciute5418 4 жыл бұрын

Yh so true

@powertohelp5741 4 жыл бұрын

HUI YANG Hello gorgeous, i’m Brian Richard Gibson. I am a consultant engineer with Shevron oil North. Your post hit home with me and I thought I should approach you for a friendship. I think you got all together. I promise to cherish and care about you always. DM me on Instagram @brianrichlife or text me on: +12679077962. I need to find ❤️ again after years of my partner’s demise. Thank you.

@buttercup9903 4 жыл бұрын

Girls, the best way to get a man fully in love with you, it's picking up the one who has been always chasing you and always has cared about you, then you'll have the power by your side and you won't have to figure it out all this strategies. Probably, he'll worship and adore you. Stop looking for the harder, difficult one, that put you in bad position, you'll lost your divine power. Women which are reading this, you're perfect, love yourself, you don't have to figure it out anything, you don't need strategies, if you're besides a man who doesn't appreciate yourself, leave that situation and start first appreciating yourself, then the right one will come easily. Good luck beautifules!

@lunity1111 4 жыл бұрын

I often think it’s actually better dynamic to get the one YOU feel the most for. If you end up with someone who’s chasing you your not that interested in your basically taking the easy way out. If you pursue the one you feel huge intense scary feelings about who challenges and triggers you your basically evolving as a human and healing and growing. I know they say to be the one who cares less but I think the one who cares most grows the most and can eventually end up in the deepest most amazing connection as they met themselves on every level through challenging themselves.

@lunity1111 4 жыл бұрын

Fabio Fernandes then they weren’t the one. The one always calls and you end up with the mutual match where you both are each other’s dream.

@lunity1111 4 жыл бұрын

Fabio Fernandes Personally I don’t see relationships where you don’t feel enough for your partner or they love you more as any kind of ideal.

@lunity1111 4 жыл бұрын

Fabio Fernandes gahaha that’s hilarious I guess you never had a spiritual connection. Tbh most of the guys I had issues with were guys ppl were shocked about me dating and fancying and the ones who were super good looking were the totally devoted ones as they likely were more secure and less insecure to want to make the person they were with feel lesser or fear commitment etc. Feelings isn’t about looks tho when I said you shouldn’t go with a man who likes you more than you like them I meant feelings not looks. I don’t think any of my deep loves have been someone I would ever go for on paper. Apart from ironically my current one but that’s just random as I’ve never gone on looks or money or status or any other rubbish I simply am talking about feelings / connection.

@lunity1111 4 жыл бұрын

Fabio Fernandes lol I’ve fallen for guys with no money/ shorter than me / bigger than me / that my friends would even be absolutely shocked I could fancy and then some rly good looking guys. Ironically it was always the good looking ones who were the easiest but none of that rubbish equals a connection and I would jump for joy for a virgin haha 😂

@GerganaIvanova_design Жыл бұрын

These 7 things are exactly the same for women too :D The only thing is the switch making 'him feel masculine' to make 'her feel feminine'. We are very similar really all we need is love fundamentally

@sfoster4874 3 жыл бұрын

SO NICE to have the privilege of learning from two of my top favorite relationship coaches! This video was WONDERFUL. Downloaded the one your talked about also. Rock on, both of you!!!! And please know how appreciated you and your work is to me and no doubt all of us here :)

@therealempress5707 4 жыл бұрын

I say friends first is best in a relationship. Keep him going by having your own life, friends and achievements. Ty

@margomazzeo1680 4 жыл бұрын

Truth..

@sharonjoan9997 3 жыл бұрын

Love the love between these 2! I enjoy that men can be complimentary even affectionate towards each other 😘😍✨

@lilai777 4 жыл бұрын

I have no problem with man falling in love with me, my problem is that when I choose one, sooner or later they pull away, I use to be kind, funny, respect them, and have conexion with them, don't act needy or things like that, I have no idea what am I doing wrong, it's so frustrating..sometimes I feel like giving up.

@elliesquires2753 4 жыл бұрын

I once had a great boyfriend who could and loved paying for and fixing everything in my home. It perplexed me at first, I thought how will I ever pay him back, he explained because I ALWAYS sent him thank you letters, after a fix, a trip, a special for no reason gift, or a shopping trip, he always received a thank you note. This made him soooo happy, he was always thinking of the next thing he could do for me! I so loved him taking care of my needs it was his way of providing for me. I was so happy in this relationship, unfortunately I am moving back to Texas, but it was nice to be so taken care of, now I know, the bar has been risen!

@pammeadows1311 3 ай бұрын

There are planes

@iamwonderfullymade 4 жыл бұрын

"Hair like a greek God" 🤣 Love it

@Markrosenfeld 4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂This guy

@brentdonrehrig671 3 жыл бұрын

This is literal grade A content that you pay hundreds of dollars to learn. I love it. Thank you guys!

@fernandasantini3608 3 жыл бұрын

You guys have changed my life. Crying of happiness right now. Thank you!!! Hallelujah

@datingcoachryanpatrick 4 жыл бұрын

Holding space is a great concept, gents. I totally agree that when people fully understand how to hold space without ruining it with extra commentary, it can be incredibly powerful! and bring you MUCH closer to him :)

@jennifermckinley7720 4 жыл бұрын

When you have a special connection, I can actually see his thoughts, we say the same thing, at the same time.

@norasharp8821 3 жыл бұрын

This is absolutely true. Speak each other's love language, forgiving with pure love, let a man be a man, and holding space is essential! Once you can do that it's 👌 the rest of the way. The three things to look for....wisdom, harmony, and understanding.

@Markrosenfeld 3 жыл бұрын

Love it, Nora. Thanks for sharing your wisdom! x

@annurai5196 2 жыл бұрын

I think it's so amazing the energy u guys have got going. Lifting each other up. Love this brotherhood! I think you should do a series too on how men can be more encouraging to fellow men like u guys are.

@Amanda-bc9ke 4 жыл бұрын

After so many disastrous dates and relationships, I finally decided to accept I am the common denominator and take a break to figure out what I’m doing wrong and work on improving myself so I can attract quality men and healthy relationships. I’m learning so much from your videos. Thank you for doing what you do. I look forward to more videos.

@francinecaunt3555 4 жыл бұрын

amanda witkowski I Hope after 6 months .. you have figured out that it’s not all your fault!

@kimkoch3272 4 жыл бұрын

I came to that conclusion for myself!

@nezzsahab4674 4 жыл бұрын

Dear God, please, please, create more guys like these two gentlemen! We need tons of them for our better love life. We re desperately tired playing games with the peterpans. Halo from Bali! xx

@margomazzeo1680 4 жыл бұрын

Truly..there ARE alot of losers and bad men out there..who are juat plain heartless and just out fir themselves..

@powertohelp5741 4 жыл бұрын

Izna Music list Hello gorgeous, i’m Brian Richard Gibson. I am a consultant engineer with Shevron oil North. Your post hit home with me and I thought I should approach you for a friendship. I think you got all together. I promise to cherish and care about you always. DM me on Instagram @brianrichlife or text me on: +12679077962. I need to find ❤️ again after years of my partner’s demise. Thank you.

@nezzsahab4674 4 жыл бұрын

@@powertohelp5741 thanks for ur greetings. Never ever thought a guy would comment me in this video kind. U can reach me to yn20.nezz@gmail.com and see from there.

@aienma8482 4 жыл бұрын

Amen

@nanaakuakwartemaa447 4 жыл бұрын

@@powertohelp5741 Brain connect me also😃

@dk8081 3 жыл бұрын

I hope Mat’s wife still accepts him after he publicly shared her gastrointestinal issues.

@exclusivesbysey5433 2 жыл бұрын

Hahaha

@rebeccahjohnson9339 2 жыл бұрын

We ALL HAVE DIRTY secrets we try to hide but piss the wrong person off and it could be your dirty secrets exposed!

@lynntaggesell7518 3 жыл бұрын

You guys are such a great team! It's so nice to see the good and respectful vibe you share on screen

@maggspisces4 4 жыл бұрын

So nice to see two men that have fully embraced and balanced their feminine and masculine energies within. Many thanks for this video. Heart hugs (((💚)))

@duchessofpotatoland 4 жыл бұрын

1. Holding Space, key note at 2:56 2. Having Him Feel Masculine With You, key note at 3:34 3. He Can Be Your Provider, key note at 5:33 4. Deep Acceptance, key note at 8:04 5. Be His Believer, key note at 12:10 6. Encourage His Purpose, key note at 13:55 7. Intense Ongoing Desire, topic is on Matt Boggs' channel (sister video).

@Hunter-vp3he 4 жыл бұрын

Duchess of Potato Land the real MVP.

@marthahansen7934 4 жыл бұрын

Married man, yep

@velmadoo626 4 жыл бұрын

I love your name.

@duchessofpotatoland 4 жыл бұрын

@@velmadoo626 lol thank you

@Hollins23 3 жыл бұрын

I just found you two tonight. I like you both so much! You instantly felt like old friends! Thanks for all of the great information that you shared!

@massielperez6458 2 жыл бұрын

You guys really nail it. I love the parts where we have to actually invest on ourselves. Great video guys, thanks for that

@uniquenickey5085 4 жыл бұрын

This is a lot of work, y should we be all that for him. Who's gonna be all that for us

@LadiiBlues14 4 жыл бұрын

Right. Lol

@Sandra.-. 4 жыл бұрын

They never reciprocate meanwhile!

@zoesolanki961 3 жыл бұрын

You do it for each other, show each other sacrificial love

@pArtyiNfo4aLL 3 жыл бұрын

If he's not all of that for you too, then he's the wrong one.

@SteffB87 3 жыл бұрын

If you feel like that he may not be the man for you

@rosea97 4 жыл бұрын

I’m so glad you both doing this together... I watched Matt for years and I learned so much from him ... I’m grateful😀

@realgood.melinda9440 2 жыл бұрын

I love them. And I love how I'm not looking at any tattoos too. Just saying.... what a breath of fresh air! Unique... not cookie cutters.

@LV-bk4it 5 күн бұрын

Yes, I'm not into tattoos either. I like looking at a man himself and his muscles, not ink.

@TheAttractionTriggers Жыл бұрын

*From genuine connection to shared values, this video unveils the essential ingredients for creating an enduring and profound love.*

@happysinger23 4 жыл бұрын

you guys are so charming together. the energy from you two synced so beautifully

@Markrosenfeld 4 жыл бұрын

Mat was looooovely. What a guy!! Thanks Jen

@powertohelp5741 4 жыл бұрын

JEN TANG Hello gorgeous, i’m Brian Richard Gibson. I am a consultant engineer with Shevron oil North. Your post hit home with me and I thought I should approach you for a friendship. I think you got all together. I promise to cherish and care about you always. DM me on Instagram @brianrichlife or text me on: +12679077962. I need to find ❤️ again after years of my partner’s demise. Thank you.

@jokhaalhabsi3258 4 жыл бұрын

This proves that many Men are player and not ready to love

@lulumarie7 2 ай бұрын

If that's your takeaway, I'm sad for you. 💛

@servirtud 2 жыл бұрын

You guys together, assertiveness. Both, are authentic.

@NazKam 3 жыл бұрын

1. deep connection. hear him out 2. feel masculine 3. be your provider 4. deep acceptance 5. be his believer 6. encourage his purpose 7. intense desire

@theresagbekia1284 2 жыл бұрын

how do you make feel masculine or better how do you make him feel femininity

@prettydisabled9060 2 жыл бұрын

@@theresagbekia1284 What do you mean by make him feel femininity? Do you mean your femininity?

@angiegigiari1111 2 жыл бұрын

@@theresagbekia1284 let him be a man. Let him do things for you, let him feel needed

@sasikalaarun Жыл бұрын

@@angiegigiari1111 what are you gonna do for him?

@sasikalaarun Жыл бұрын

@@angiegigiari1111 manliness is not about serving women.

@aussiehillbilly 4 жыл бұрын

Aww. It's so sweet seeing two guys trying to coach females into making guys fall in love with them.

@petrichor7121 4 жыл бұрын

"That which has value takes work".. loved that! 💞

@susannefassino8615 3 жыл бұрын

This is the most informative video I have every seen that completely covers so much and has given me a wake up call to how men fall in love. Thank you both for this very enlightening experience!

@nisha223 2 жыл бұрын

I like the coordination of your speech, how you manage the stage, pause and speak with confidence and understanding.

@thisispi1491 4 жыл бұрын

Matt Boggs is a genuine coach/dude. Glad you collab with him. The player / game coaching which is so common everywhere is so lame and attracts only game, so the genuine coaching you two are doing is the REAL deal. 👏🏼 long lasting stuff! 👌🏼👍🏼 thanks!

@nicola646 4 жыл бұрын

OMG OMG OMG OMG......... MARK AND MATT THE TWO BEST COACHES ON THE PLANET!!!! You guys are my absolute fav, you help women find our value and focus on improving ourselves instead of playing games. Learned so much from you guys these years

@Markrosenfeld 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for those super kind words! It means the world to be able to share what i'm so passionate about :D

@robinaz6609 4 жыл бұрын

True nicola

@helenoleary5460 2 жыл бұрын

Matt, first of all, I love your accent. You really explain very deeply how men feel when they fall in love. I’m 63 yrs old, & I’m actually in love for the first time in my life & I met my fiancé online & over time fell deeply in love with him. Your videos help me to better understand how men feel about the woman in their life. Thank you very much! 🙏🏻😁🌹🍷

@marys7784 3 жыл бұрын

Such a great video, thank you! I love how Mark calls you Matty, endearing!

@carolb3869 4 жыл бұрын

I really liked that you included: he will/should do this for you too. I know this is implied however an important observation to pay attention to if the other is behaving toxically selfishly disrespectfully. Great vid, nice!

@Markrosenfeld 4 жыл бұрын

Yeh very important Carol. I feel like I sometimes leave that out because I assume it goes without saying... but Mat pointed out that sometimes it really does need saying/reminding.

@carolb3869 4 жыл бұрын

Mark Rosenfeld Thank you Mark - good men are a blessing 💙

@michellewasthere 4 жыл бұрын

They're all selfish narcs. Don't kill yourself bending over backwards for them. They resent you in the end regardless.

@Santu7220 4 жыл бұрын

That´s the make him feel masculine point, hon.

@mandybrian025 4 жыл бұрын

OK. This by far is one of the most valuable relationship videos I have watched so far! You, Mark made it happen and thanks for inviting Matt cos he is a genius in relationship advice. I love him and by extension, love you. Thanks for all that you do.

@lironben-tora5979 Жыл бұрын

I really like both of you coachers and I’m glad you did a video together! That collab is rare! 🔥

@thatwaterchick7931 2 жыл бұрын

This was the most ive felt like I’ve understood men in my 31 years on this planet. Thank you

@alisonleigh20 4 жыл бұрын

This "bromance" between these 2 was so cute to watch. You guys are great together! I love your videos, individually, too - so interesting and insightful. Thank you ✨

@Markrosenfeld 4 жыл бұрын

Hahahaha alison leigh thanks for watching and writing in!

@missmelissalee1858 4 жыл бұрын

Me and my bf started texting 3 things we love about one another everyday before we start the day. We appreciate one another for sure ♥️

@Jonquilness 3 жыл бұрын

Loved it!! Not only the content that supports reall connections but also your personalities. Amazing and amusing 😁. Thank you 😊💓☺

@soniaindigo 3 жыл бұрын

Hey, I watch your both KZfaq channels and it's so nice to see you together making videos, bringing out good stuff for people. Your energies really melt well together. Lovely to see you.

@Markrosenfeld 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Sonia! 🙏

@carolloraine223 4 жыл бұрын

With all due respect...this won't work with a Narcissist. Ever.

@margomazzeo1680 4 жыл бұрын

Dealing with a narcissist? Ive been there too and its a total and hurtful waste of time..but a true masochist would love being with one of those awful and devillish creatures.

@telectronix1368 4 жыл бұрын

@Carol - I think the real issue might be "why are you hoping for a relationship with a narcissist in the first placs" 😒

@carolloraine223 4 жыл бұрын

T Electronix Not wanting a relationship with a Narcissist. I was pointing out the advice given won't apply to a N. Im happy being single. 😉

@LindseyGarcia0918 4 жыл бұрын

This is true. Videos like this absolutely break my heart. I'm like this for EVERY person on my life NATURALLY. I am constantly breathing air and love and inspiration and belief into people. I see their better side. I admire everyone. I think humans are amazing & beautiful. But when you marry a hurt and traumatized individual that becomes narcissistic or abusive (which really translates to just extremely insecure) it doesn't matter how much admiration, acceptance, belief, you give them, it will never be enough for that unhealed part of them and they will stay angry at you for not being that perfect "all needs meeting" mother they didn't have. Your attempts become in vain. I feel sorry for this "one dude", who, at his core, is an amazing and intelligent good person, but his insecurity led him to a place where he married the sweetest thing that adored him and IMMEDIATELY began to control and abuse her year after year for years until eventually she stopped caring at all. There's a saying: "Nothing works unless you do." I'd say that applies to this video. What these men are saying is very true. But only with a functional being that is capable of responding and bonding.

@theadventuresofemily_ 4 жыл бұрын

Took the words right out of me. 🤦🏻‍♀️

@h_b_a_a 4 жыл бұрын

It's adorable how Matt talks about his wife! you can feel the love radiating from him! lol Thank you so much for posting this it helped me understand and relate to lot of things! 💕

@maximusextreme3725 4 жыл бұрын

It's so weird that he talks about his wife in the third person when he's sitting right next to him!

@anasakura7150 2 жыл бұрын

I'm looking at the beautiful blinking walls most of the time while listening.

@travelografa 4 жыл бұрын

I LOOOOOVED seeing you guys together!!:) You are both awesome men. Thank YOU for making this vid together and sharing instead of competing. Looo-ooo-ooovely!!

@stephaniemarr9491 4 жыл бұрын

Two of my favorite dating coaches! Thank you so much Mark and Matt for collaborating!

@Markrosenfeld 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks, Stephanie Marr! Glad you liked the collab.

@SoulNavigation 4 жыл бұрын

Matt.... you are so smart, grounded and intellectual. YOU found your calling and thank you for sharing it. The world is a better place because of you. Mark you are a true gem. A golden-heart and you break down the man's heart in a way that women can understand. You are every woman's gift.... and all this to the power of 2! I am a love and relationship coach with a different twist ..... and I have to say you guys are both truly amazing! I love your collaboration and I will send my clients over to you two! THANK YOU for your good work. : ) Meredith at Soul Navigation

@lindaiwasaki9152 25 күн бұрын

Love is following your heart and letting someone share this journey with you.

@salemthorup9536 2 жыл бұрын

I've watched this before, but I needed to watch it again.

@luulips 4 жыл бұрын

Awe here you two are again together! Two of my faves!!! Love it!

@Markrosenfeld 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Luulips! Pleasure to bring this special content together!

@carpediem.9 4 жыл бұрын

Absolutely loved this video, as well as the other one you made on Mat's channel 💚 💙 You guys rock! Not only the advise given was very helpful, but it was an absolute pleasure too watch you both haha ☺️

@clockout 3 жыл бұрын

This made me so emotional, i owe my man the world.

@KayNovember26 3 жыл бұрын

That's so sweet! Go spoil your guy.

@lulumarie7 2 ай бұрын

Girl, same. 💛

@babychinchila 3 жыл бұрын

Super! I’ve practicing your positive points on my long distance relationship. His an amazing man and I believe he deserves all those 7 points. I’m very happy with the results because his happy despite the distance 👏🙌thank you for the video

@amandamariemullins2954 4 жыл бұрын

Mark and Matty Boggs together at last! How awesome! Two of my fave coaches in one video. This is solid advice. I know all this is true for me and my amazing boyfriend. We have been together a year in September. Thank you both for all of your great ideas and skillful tools.

@Markrosenfeld 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Amanda. Glad everything is working out with your partner :) Make sure you keep your eyes peeled for possibly another vid with Matty ;)

@b.e.a.empress 4 жыл бұрын

Mark, you guys both make sense. A lot, much love from Nigeria.

@rochellebarnard9676 2 жыл бұрын

You two are my favorites to watch so when you’re together I really enjoy it!

@Markrosenfeld 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Rochelle! Means a lot! x

@tejalinikita8961 3 жыл бұрын

Thankyou so much guys I really appreciate your advices in helping us build great bond and relationship in life on mental emotional spiritually and physical level with our partner... I am wishing you both a great success at all that you love to do in life... life is beautiful and worthy of all the appreciation ❤️love light peace to all 🙏❤️🌞👼🏻

@merryme931 4 жыл бұрын

This is really great advice for anyone in a relationship. Bravo guys! 👏🏻

@ivymiraculous-fan467 4 жыл бұрын

YES! 2 of my fav coaches together!!! Love the video, the advice is spot on as always.

@Markrosenfeld 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Charmed! Glad you liked it!!

@letsgo3342 4 жыл бұрын

Mathew Boggs Love the apple appearance... 🥰And he actually took a bite out of it and turned it towards the camera 😩😩😩

@leighatkins22 4 жыл бұрын

Ikr... ur intuition will always tell u wot doin... and when it's all said'n'done, we don't really need these guys to tell us what we already know at a "soul level"... It's just good to hear someone else put it into "words" XD

@Taconera22 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you guys. You both are so thoughtful to bring this topic up. It is not easy to talk to with others.

@Markrosenfeld 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks, Periquita! Great to have you on here. x

@amyhefner 18 күн бұрын

Thank you guys I appreciate all of you guys I needed that

@karaa7595 4 жыл бұрын

Oh gawd. And they say women are high maintenance lol.

@ginahenley3694 4 жыл бұрын

Kara A 😂😜🎯🤔👀

@EileenDeFreest 4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂🎯🎯🎯

@marisabarlow6389 4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@svbuchanan 4 жыл бұрын

Exactly!!!! Lol.

@ms.bubs4fun506 4 жыл бұрын

Men and their fragile egos are exhausting

@Sabrina-wn6ey 4 жыл бұрын

I was raised to be a very strong independent woman. Growing up my Dad taught me 'guy stuff' like fixing my own car and construction. As a result I have a lot of guys tell me that they feel threatened by my confidence and ability, that I come off more masculine than them. I am not about to squash my personality and abilities to heal a man's fragile ego. I wish I could find a guy that is comfortable with a woman that can do the same things he can; not one looking for a damsel in distress. In my past long term relationships I have found that the guy resents you when he feels like he is the main provider. My ex encouraged me to become a stay at home Mother to our two children and then held it over my head constantly. Even after I went back to work he would always find some imbalance and throw it up in my face. His fragile ego became the demise of our relationship because there was nothing I could do to please him. Men like that are just a waste of time... but I have yet to met one that isn't.

@Sandra.-. 4 жыл бұрын

I wish I was a man, i'd date you but I'm straight and also out here struggling with these weak mean😪. They require us to be it all while they are nothing to us

@missjungjeelee 3 жыл бұрын

THIS! Could totally relate to her original post about her bein a strong independent woman with "masculine" norm skills

@davidhenry1698 3 жыл бұрын

hello dear

@ellar6491 3 жыл бұрын

This sounds like me. I own my own home and I work hard to pay for it on my own and the last guy I dated said to me quote "I don't know why you think you have to do it all on your own". Well i'm single, like who's going to help me? My imaginary boyfriend who's got a real income? C'mon, I need a place to live. Why should I wait around for a man who likely can't afford a house anyways? I have the right to have a place to live.

@27kmoreno 3 жыл бұрын

I think I married your ex!!!🤣🤣🤣 I'm just like you and feel your pain!!!

@mabelukpong3885 Жыл бұрын

Learnt a lot from these two. Am a relationship coach, and there's a lot of stuff women don't know. Watching from Nigeria. Thank you

@bektiller1622 3 ай бұрын

Haha... i love your 2 perspectives together thank you! Also, that Matt is initially spending so much time looking in the fridge... lol! Like a kid who cant see whats in front of them and keeping the fridge door open for so long while hes still looking.... lol! Great content. ❤

@Rh-bk8pu Ай бұрын

This might sound hard, but you don’t need a man/ woman, you need God, and God will give you everything that you need. A man/woman will love you for your physical look/ charisma/ money/ intelligence….. or all the temporary things to fill a void that THEY need and will only love you if you meet their needs, but God loves you for who you are, whatever you are and no matter what your past is. In fact, God doesn’t need you, you need Him and He can do whatever He wants anytime to you and to your life, yet He loves you. That’s what you need. Jesus said: “Make every effort to enter through the narrow door, because many, I tell you, will try to enter and will not be able to.” _ Luke 13: 24 However, (if you’re not planing to or currently committing adultery), you should ask God for everything,, EVERYTHING. nothing on this earth can't be solved or healed by God that created galaxies, medicine, atoms... everything in 7 days. Ask God for help. “Truly I tell you, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, 'Move from here to there,' and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you.” _ Matthew 17:20-21. “And whatever you ask in My name, that I will do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you ask anything in My name, I will do it. “If you love Me, keep My commandments.” _ John 14:13-17 "For I, the LORD your God, hold your right hand; it is I who say to you, 'Fear not, I am the one who helps you.” _ Isaiah 41:13