THANK YOU for watching. Don't forget to kindly Subscribe, Like & Share it with others! -- it does mean a lot to us. Do let us know in the comment below how you navigate these types of people.

Family members are the real snakes

Family full of entitled demons... please pray for me until i can move

"Become independent as soon as possible" and "distance yourself"

You can't change anyone but you could avoid them 😄

When I constantly spend money on Nieces and Nephews, and end up broke only to get ignored when I text them.. Nope. I'm done. Ties Cut.

25 years since I canned my family. Best thing I ever did. Siblings were sociopaths. It’s a big world. Lots of room to just make your own way and spend your free time with people you choose.

I'd been a victim of these for years. When you realise that you just have to take a step to stop letting people use manipulations to control you. This video came just at the right time. 🙏🏻

Nah!, They're not family members, they're just bullies are disguised as them.

I have said time and time again that the family is the Devil's playground. So much hurt,pain alienation,rejection vurbal abuse and the list goes on. Hurt People Hurt People. We can only pray for healing and deliverance.

Forgiving is the key to survive it and love your inner child unconditionally

I learned quickly after a dear family member passed away how toxic my "family" was.

Exactly what happened to me in my life done by Parents, Siblings, Friends, Teachers, Relatives even found person who even don't know me. All are like same Abusers. Destroyed my life and making joke of me all the time.

disowned my whole family except my mom, best decision I've ever made, my narcissistic family members try dragging me dowm with them, good riddance to tbem.

I recently made the decision to walk away from my family, except my nephew. It's tough at times, but so worth it. I love myself enough to walk away.

Jealousy is as cruel as the grave😅

Sometimes is best to leave. Sucks but it's for the best. Your you not them.

My family are definitely the guilt trippers and the sacrificial lambs! Smh 🤦🏾‍♀️ they been doing it my whole life and I’m sick of it. They can never do any wrong and everything is my fault. I’m distancing myself from all that nonsense. They are draining for sure!

When sleeping is having a nightmare but you wake up is the real nightmare dealing with toxic family membera

You’ve just described every single one of my family members and why I despise them. It’s been a living hell dealing with them throughout my life.

It took me decades to finally realize and cut off my family. Back then, the world was not at all on my side. I mostly just had to endure their unfair treatment, insults and abusive language to me, and physical abuse when I was young. I’m now living the latter half of my life, and am proud of myself having done it a year ago and changed the course of my life.

Better to be an orphan than unwanted sg

I was born to this kind of family. With 8 siblings and an uneducated mother and a very old father. I lost my everything even my basic needs like water.😢

This unfortunately is my family in a nutshell. I try to tell them how they make me feel and they gaslight me or talk about how self centered or disrespectful I am. I'm so tired. I'm done.

I am the youngest of five. Sadly, I can relate to so many of these scenarios. The better I did, the worse it got. I had no choice but to walk away. It was hard, but my self-worth was much more valuable.

I wish there was a place where people like this could get help; too much of this is familiar or something I straight up experienced...

I don't want people in my life like that......

Nothing is ever enough to bring unity

My family members are all 7 of these things

I am on verge of breaking down and let myself destroying everything that they have gained because of me tried everything didn't work out so even if being broke I will move to a different place far away working hard to enjoy the past 6 years I've given to them for nothing it's about time I live for solely myself

Good info so sad that family can make your life a living hell, but it happens. We have a right to set boundaries especially healthy one's to shield us from such evil and negativity.

These types of family members are huge reasons that animated movies (especially Disney) have got to quit telling kids that they’re obligated to reconcile with their toxic family (such as parents, grandparents, and siblings) and show its okay to sever all ties with them. So many terrible relatives in animated movies have fallen under most if not all of these categories yet they get forgiven when they shouldn’t be part of the happy endings whatsoever

Right they don't understand NO is simply to get you independent

I grew up in a toxic family environment. I also had Dyslexia ADHD and other issues. My family members LOVED that I struggled in school because it gave them a license to keep me down and treat me like crap. They took this behavior into adulthood. They are nothing but negative stimuli that I don’t need.

Thank you for this video coming from a family of nothing but narcissist my own mother😢 this was a wake-up call now I'm going to do my best to educate people about the enemy in their own family👹 and I hope other people do the same🙏🏽 no contact.

Naw they live in the past & gather other family members & your friends against you...They think you have something against you when it's really them

Your family members didn't have the opportunities when they were teenagers back then that you have right now , Resents you rights how, & could be jealous of you

I'm so angry I'll never except them as family i ( F--kng despise them (no offence meant) love to all i know how you feel i only hope you can understand my anger bless🙏🙏🙏to you all take care everyone

I can't escape this. The police, priest, uncle and aunt have been used against by my own mother and eventually I developed paranoia over time, leading me to be registered with the mental health services diagnosed and labeled as a paranoid schizophrenic. I am embarrassed because I kept saying to myself that they will never break me, I will remain strong but I developed a mental and emotional breakdown so really I let myself down. Thanks for listening.

Been a victim for years. I have been between a rock and hard place. Now I have realized I will not win. I face a united correlation from my family. I have chosen the uneasy way-keeping the distance

Best thing keep limited contact with toxic family members. If they allways saying things like anyone can do that or it’s no big deal . Trying to diminish your success to try to make them selves feel better about themselves. It’s better to keep limited communication with that person or not to share to much with them . Even strangers are more supportive than family members . Some just like to pick your brain for ideas . They don’t know your story everyone’s journey is different. Remember the once that dimension your success or dreams they are the once looking at YOUR Social media the MOST

To end up being born to a man my mother never should have gotten with…the father I wish I never had! For decades, he’s been a complete curse to ruin our family life spiritually, physically (w/ me inheriting his childhood sickness), financially and emotionally. Talk about forgiveness but I hate him too much!

This is a great video. Some people in my family are toxic. In the past from my childhood & up I always have fell in love with guys who had lived from afar from me. They are famous people. The hurtful toxic thing behind that was that my family always said I could never meet them, which had made me feel so terrible. Like they were saying "Why do you love them so much? You're never going to meet them." That hurt me every time they said that. They still say that now. I had a real deep heartache over the last famous guy that I fell in love with & no one cared to show comfort & respect. All that I received was inconsideration. That made my broken heart feel even more worse. So now I decided to put my firm foot down & decided to keep those things quiet from my family. Because I got to the point that I am sick & tired of their negative behavior toward me falling in love with somebody famous. I decided to make silent boundaries by deciding what to tell my family & what not to tell. So that's my toxic story. 😢

I have encountered this in family members. They wouldn't even speak to me about my marriage but went to my husband to get him to manipulate me. They could not control me themselves so they went to him to get him to control me for them. I removed them from our life because they had no idea what they were talking about, they were never around to see what our marriage was like but gossiped guesses to believe what they wanted to about us out of jealousy.

The helicopter member, quilt tripper, sacrificial lamb, and the invader are my mom. My little brother is a quilt tripper, the toxic one, and the aggressive. I am planning something so that in the near future to future I limit contact with them. It's gonna be hard, but it will be better than being in the same environment with both of them. Also if I have kids in the next decades they won't be able to influence my kids. My mom won't be around my kids that much if I have kids. My life feels like a neverending bubble of dysfunction.

Most of these 7 issues can be held as co-morbidities, within a few family members. I have seen, pretty much, all of this, in my own family and I know my family is not the most toxic out there. One dynamic I’ve experienced also, which falls along the lines of the entitled family member, is balancing out successes, for lack of a better term. What I mean by this is, if one sibling does well, it may be expected for that sibling to divide what they have, between themselves and other, less successful siblings, ensuring the more successful one, can’t get far. This may be handed down, by the parents, leaving less-successful siblings to pickup an entitled behavior, guilting the more successful one into constantly helping them, even towards their own detriment, while the lesser successful one, just relies on constant handouts, instead of working to improve their lives. This happens with parents feeling entitled, as well. It’s probably the most likely hallmark of the families of celebrities and wildly-successful people. But, it happens to far less successful people, as well. My mother, who was likely a covert, malignant narcissist, actually wanted me to stop earning a living, so that I could ensure her dreams came true. I have a sister who, the only way she would think she’s cared about, is likely to be if you’re paying all of her bills. I probably can’t even drive a halfway decent car, without her feeling I owe her, in some way. Now, that our mother has passed, I’ve been in more contact with a cousin. While she’s been helpful to me. She is an aggressive person. Although I’ve had to write up the initial legal paperwork, with no legal background, my cousin enjoys getting in her digs, about how ignorant I am. I only maintain contact, because she still has some useful knowledge and the only family member I’m still in contact with, after going no contact, with everyone else. But, I see this patterns and it makes for a lot of misery.

My. Mom is a pain. In the neck. She is very dependent family member .always depend on me .

Amen 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌 I just got finished speaking about this, God is so good and he has definitely vindicated me I had to let some family go in order to succeed and I just recently decided to love God and Jesus Christ and leave my worldly ways, it's been hard!!!, but when I started following God,he really started showing my family's real side, they don't want anything else to do with me since I have decided to stop Rapping and Singing about the world and start Singing and Rapping for God, they called me stupid for turning down a recording contract, but I don't care, because I am doing extremely well, especially since I just started to follow God I no longer glorify my old Music Videos even though they are still up on KZfaq I don't care I am extremely Unbotherd and focused on God and Jesus Christ, thank you for this teaching and God bless your channel ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙌🤟✊💯.

I'm literally crying watching this video.

Thank you father for this video protect me and my family amen and my kids

This was really good, something a lot of people deal with and don't know how to navigate. Thank you for always shedding light on valuable things 🔥

and they are trying to talk about being positive when they act like this

I've went through this all my life, they've controlled & orchestrated my life so to my past sins & I'm tired,so tired I've battled things I won't mention

Definitely needed this🙏🏿

Helicopter members are the worse. Critical critics and usually accompanied entitlement people

I come back home from work, and wait in the car before entering the house, so I can enjoy peace for a while. Nagging and complaining is constant and I literally know what phrases to expect. Family member of mine thinks that she rules the house, is the one to dictate basically everything and is a mess herself, which exposes hipocrisy. I dream of a life in which I simply do something, because and when it needs to be done, not why and when someone orders me to do so. Thanks to what I observe in her marriage and on my brother in law's face, I've decised never to marry. I will fight for my peace, and I will get it. Myself

I'll admit i have addiction issues. But something tells me they use my addiction problems as a means to justify their controlling behavior because even when I've been sober and doing well they're still trying to tell everything they think i should do and don't even listen to any of my opinions don't they realize that pushes someone towards a relapse

Wow. wow wow. This is just what I needed. Oh my God! Just watching this made me know I had been burnt countless times by my family and I didn't learn my lesson. Thank you so much for such an eye-opening video.

What about gossipers?

My family is multitalented they all have these all qualities......

I got out too late. I had a mother and sister who told state officials that I was not stable and I lost custody of 3 kids over the lies and jealousy. Best wishes to everyone going through this. ❤

No guidance no help. Nothing. Entitled family members bullying. Relations dominating controlling manipulating & undermining. Poor boundaries.

I went to an AA meeting, and they welcomed me and said, "here we treat you like family" I said no thank you I'm pretty sure that's why I'm here now! because I was treated like family!

Yes That was so true. my family members that some they were gossiping about me but i was ignore that even though they were talking bad at me and also they were blaming me that i didn't do anything wrong and also, They didn't let me to go out because they thought they could protect me but no..so, yeah this is all true my family are manipulative..

There's definitely a difference between family and blood relatives.

Family like you better broken and lost they don't want you to prosper and do better believe or not they like to see you sad,down,and hating yourself but as soon as you gain a tiny bit of confidence or when you start feeling good looking better feeling better they say "You think you better than me or you think you better than everybody you think you all that" truth is you really can't win at this point you're better off meeting a spouse creating your own bloodline move on and live life hell leave the country if you have to and just never look back 💯🙏🏿

My father uses the sadness emotion to make me feel guilty. His ego destroyed our relationship in my early years and currently. I still ensure he is well...but I refuse to sacrifice my self worth for him. He never made something of himself. Wish he would have. His oldest sister tried to control me. Like she was above me. Not knowing anything about the life I endured. She pushed to many buttons and regreted it. Mother hated men and I ended up a target. She never believed in me until I left her life at the age of 13. I saw her again 6 yrs after that. I called her because my sister said she was dying because of many illnesses she had. I was 23yrs old at the time. She was in a hospice at the time. Asked me for forgiveness. I said mine does not matter. But I still forgave her. I have come to realize how manipulative and ignorant people can be. I can go on and on with other members. Sad that I never asked for any of this. I am currently 45yrs old. I am alone and I prefer that fate.

My family has these kind of attitudes and also my sister in law had these kind of attitudes .

I come from a toxic and psychologically abusive relationship with my father who was a narcissist, I was homeless with him for a very long time, I escaped that and went to go be with extended family that found me on the internet, but what seemed like a gift from god just turned into something that completely hurt me, I was only with them for 3 months because of how difficult they were to live with, and how conditional their love and regard was towards me, it’s just bloody unfair to me how my brother got to have what they called a “privileged life” while I was stuck with my narcissistic father and had a really shitty upbringing that no kid should ever have to have gone through. Yet, people on the internet and even one of my friends invalidates me and tells me “why should they love you” and “oh it’s because they raised your brother and not you why do you think you deserve everything your brother always gotten.” …but to me it’s just really unfair.😔

Thank you, May God bless you!

Still a victim of when my parents do sumthing they try to trick me they make it seems like I am owing them and will want to control even the things I want to do on my own for independency

My sister is more like the last type, guilt-tripper. She’s 70 something (7 years older than myself), she constantly put me down when I visit her by saying things to try and make me feel bad. But get this, she does the same to her own adult children and all three have a bad relationship with her, she has many health issues, she can barely move around on her own, and most of the immediate family feels the same about her toxic ways, and if you try and tell her about it she gets both defensive and offensive. I only come around now when I absolutely have to, but I don’t stay long and I know that she knows why.

My two uncles just had my grandmother’s will changed the day BEFORE she died!! She had pneumonia and was in a nursing home. I don’t believe it was her idea to change the will. I believe that my uncles influenced her to sign it because they have a vendetta against me.

I really really appreciate and love this video. Thanks for this one ❤❤❤

I wanna leave but my mom got really sick

My only family is my sibling and my mom and they are breaking me. But I'm strong, I can pick up pieces with help of god and good friends.

I grew up seeing a lot of crazy stuff at the age of 10yrs old cuz of my toxic half brother. I grew up seeing him beat random chicks up that he was cheating on his girlfriend with. My parents would defend them,in fact they defended this random girl and my brother was so high,he ended up beating up my dad while trying to stop him from beating her. Drugs drugs and drugs, all of the time between my half brother and oldest cousin, getting high at home. So I was forced to stay inside locked in my room if I ever saw my brother or my cousin cuz my parents warned me about them. I even got spanked by my parents for cooking dinner with my brother,that’s how bad it was. They just didn’t wanted me around him. Seeing that really affected me,all the way to when I was a young adult cuz well I really believed all guys were like that or that’s what it’s like when you date someone. Now I’m older and well that brother hasn’t changed at all. I’m tired that my mother defends him,yet he treats her like crap. He always takes advantage of not just me but my parents as well and they try to normalize it. He was gone for 15yrs and those were some good times because no drama and no problems. All of that was gone for 15yrs! Now he’s back and my gosh,he’s done so many horrible things to me! He literally went behind my back and messed with my best friend and accused me of things,which that friend ended up telling everyone about. He apologized to me but he never tried to fix things about that dumb lie he said about me,which is what pissed me off. Things were so much better when he was gone. I try my best to not see him often but man all I can do is pray cuz it’s all spiritual warfare. These demons using them to attack the family. Other than that I do avoid being around him. I don’t go out with him alone. I only will see him when there’s a family get together,like birthdays,thanks giving and Christmas. Other than that I just say hi and move on but don’t stick around and go out with him.

Thank you for the knowledge

It is impossible to cut ties because some families keep chasing you wherever you are. You may go to the other side of the world except one day you find them at your front door accompanied by the police !!!

My experience is that some of the most damaging parents are the disinterested parent (e.g. a father just letting their wife have her kids while he is engrossed in his career). Or an emotionally absent mother who didn't want you around (an unwanted pregnancy). I had both! Disinterested father and emotionally neglected by my mother. The damage has been terrible and life long!

Very informative and helpful!

My parents are definitely invaders. I onew they were something else but I've never thought of them as invaders. i knew that boundaries weren't respected. And also guilt tripper is something occasionally done.

Surely my mother has a challenging personality. As long as I live I will continue to respect & take care of her, even when I get an opportunity to move out . I will make sure that shes well taken care of. Not just it's a good thing to do but it's Biblical to honor your parent.However there's no Bible verse that compels one to honor toxic siblings, aunts & uncles etc!😢

Well done ,!!

It is good that I have great parents and a wonderful brother, but the ones who spoiled the matter were my uncles. They harmed me psychologically and health-wise, especially my aunts, as if they were human devils. I don’t know why they want to control everything. As for the insults, they are constant.

My family is toxic. I've known that for years now. I actually have to compete with my maternal uncles for my mother's time and affection because they're too stupid to take care of themselves.

I can't get away from these bullying lunatics

Oh My Lord, oh My God please I pray to you please fight for me from these devil extended family, please give me a glorious victory against these extended family and their friends, please give us a protection from these devil extended families and their friends, please protect us with my family and my children from these evil people, please keep them away from my family and parents home , Oh Lord my God I pray keep them far away defeat them.

I was born to narcissistic parents....and all that has been mentioned in this video is true.... unfortunately I can't avoid them completely.

Hard to let them go but at this point I have to

Great word

Haha this is done very well I laughed my head off great video😂😂😂😂😂

My late aunt used to say that "God gives you your relatives but you pick your friends."

My in-laws do a little of all these things. They’re like the Walmart of toxicity.

#4 describes my mother perfectly #7 describes my father perfectly

Praise the lord ❤

I am a child abuse survivor 😊 My Dad and Sister were both alcoholics 😢 They severely abused me verbally and mentally.😞 My Mum did the worst of the constant abuse 😭 She verbally, mentally, physically and sexually abused me 😫😫😫😫😫😫 It took me nearly 32 years to finally break free and leave them for good 👍 I am living a better life and in a better place ❤ I will be celebrating 29 years of leaving them next month 🎉 I am still healing the deep emotional scars inflicted on me all of those dark, painful and traumatic years 💖 God, Jesus,The Holy Spirit and His angels are my Divine Connection 😇 I pray for everyone that has,or is a victim of a toxic family 🙏 Please kindly ask God to help you leave them, begin a new and better life 💝 As well as let Him heal you and help you be the better person He has created you to be! 💖😁🎉 God bless you all, Ariel ☘️

I realized almost too late. I already cut my connection to my family. They just don't see that their actions which make other people doesn't like them. Some people judge me, of course. But, why should I care.

Had family betray me, extended family that is. They tried baiting me into drama. Tried making aready difficult things harder that was vital to solve. Tried baiting me into giving information that had nothing to do with them, that was none of their business.Tried telling me things that were not true about things they chose never to be present for. Tried bringing money into it that was left to me. None of it worked. I resisted. I did not take the bait. I was unresponsive. I did not comply to their whims or attempt to manipulate. Ostrisizing me as a result was doing me a big favor. They will never be in my life. I would never allow them back in even in the unlikely odds they will see where they were wrong. The only chance of ever seeing them again is in passing, and even then the odds are miniscule as I live a very different in comfortable solitude. I do not miss them. I do not love them. They can live their life and I will live my life even better without them. They werre not around during any dire moments in my life. I do not need them.

Yes they boast & never forgive