@narcabusecoach 7 ай бұрын
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@maenad1623 7 ай бұрын
@narcabusecoach the worst thing he has done is to manipulate my children to believe that I am basically what he is. That I am estranged and not accepted at all by them. They are adults and he continues the narrative I don’t know if we will ever reunite. Also, that he manipulated them and he does not care. He uses them for his needs and wants.
@rainwaterfallsapothecaryay8102 7 ай бұрын
😊😊
@MissG8340 7 ай бұрын
How do you open the eyes of the narcissist to all this?? Or is it never possible
@amnaakram1489 7 ай бұрын
Danish Basheer Sir Plz Guide me i am In mArriage with two daughters 13 yrs
@amnaakram1489 7 ай бұрын
I am Dying Soffocating
@Gabriela-ig7nl 7 ай бұрын
The biggest sin: hurting you and blaming you for making them harm you.
@joseenoel8093 7 ай бұрын
That's just weird aye, prob part of silent treatment which we asked for and deserve too, screwed thinking!
@higgins0112able 7 ай бұрын
"Time is not renewable. In life and in love, there is no higher form of disrespect than wasting someone else's time" Not sure who wrote that but, IMO, this is a narcissist's greatest sin. 23 years of begging for the basic needs, and begging him to let me go if he didn't love me but still he persisted to breadcrumb, abuse, and betray me. Wish I had known that these evil ones exist long ago. I have to stand in the fact that perhaps it was the Lord's timing, because there were a few good things that came out the relationship. But mostly just pain and agony and sadness. God bless and heal all of us 🙏❤️
@simonpegg1196 7 ай бұрын
This is something I always say. Narcs have no real intention of helping anybody, as they serve no one but themselves, but if they sense you might leave them for good after being tired of their tactics, they will bread-crumb you to keep you as a standby. Ultimately, being with them is a tremendous waste of time. It's best to disengage at the earliest, start healing and create your own life, and thrive.
@bobbarker1798 7 ай бұрын
Wow, my story is exactly as yours. Wasted my time for about 23 years. Wouldn't leave, wouldn't be respectful. Tiny bread crumbs.
@michealsilvey1124 7 ай бұрын
With ya sister... at 32 years and the evil demon my heart hurts 💔
@maryglo1 7 ай бұрын
Candidates for retirement in homes for the benefit of the criminally disordered and insane. Padded rooms, straight jackets, customized medical care instead of punishment! Pu using these tipos is dangerous at best. The People need to be protected from the mentally ill having to wirk out their mental illnesses on the community. Gardens, doctors, nurses, three good meals, private quarters, long term housing is essential for stability and to keep these parasites out of our lives. Loving your enemy is a challenge. Pray and keep away. Grey rock, distract, detach, no contact... Use words like, "Can't, won't, don't and no." Know how to recognize gaslighting and veiled insults, phrases that constantly shift blame. Watch for lack of intimacy, lies and exaggeration. Check their background. Most of are haughty, want your attention and seem to care but they are gathering information to later deliver abuse in their signature, individualized manner. The smear campaign starts long before you realize you have a terrible monster in your home or worse, your bedroom.
@sushumnaaparna1006 7 ай бұрын
True
@Rebi.G 7 ай бұрын
The biggest sin for me is that now I don't know who to trust or how to believe anyone because it seems like every time I do it's another narcissist. It's amazing how tricky these people are and I just don't know how to get away from it
@bonnielewin8520 7 ай бұрын
I started watching videos like 'Signs they are a narcissist'. Videos like this give signs someone is a narcissist when you are just getting to know them.
@Rebi.G 7 ай бұрын
@@bonnielewin8520 yeah I watch a lot of them but so far I haven't been able to catch their tricks until it's too late
@danmurray1143 7 ай бұрын
Narcissists are attracted to your kindness. Maybe it's time you started getting mean. If you do, I bet narcissists quit trying to infiltrate your world.
@Rebi.G 7 ай бұрын
@@danmurray1143 I just want a nice person and they are always nice until you get in a relationship
@wendyhannan2454 7 ай бұрын
If an narcissist leaves you for someone else, think your self lucky 🙏
@antoinettegorman8833 7 ай бұрын
PRAISE THE LORD AMEN
@crystalmorse7412 7 ай бұрын
Facts Period 💘
@annahrankho7361 7 ай бұрын
Thanks God.....
@stupensardi2783 7 ай бұрын
Betrayal of trust is so incredibly painful.
@jakid2057 7 ай бұрын
I have experienced this recently in a short term relationship. I am a trained therapist so luckily I didn’t stick it out too long however as individuals we cannot see our own blind spots and often sharing what you are going through with a professional or smart friend can help. Don’t feel ashamed and try to cover it up. It is what it is. Value yourself and move on. They are the sick ones and you can’t change them.
@annahrankho7361 7 ай бұрын
It's sickness in itself.....
@kathykolsrud9242 7 ай бұрын
Being totally ignored physically and emotionally. Replaced by tv/phone/sexting on his phone.
@user-dd3ny4xb3w 7 ай бұрын
After being in a relationship for 14 yrs, he was having yet another affair while my mother was suffering in a nursing home with dementia. Nwhen she passed, he showed up to her funeral service for a mere 20mins, and left me there with my family so he could be with his new supply. He admitted it one week after her passing and moved out that very day without a word. He stole my ability to mourn my mother and left me mourning our relationship as well. I was a mess.
@joseenoel8093 7 ай бұрын
Someone I know had an affair with a staff member too, I said you mean they're doing it in the bathroom among the pile of dirty diapers (That's what's in the shower 🚿 stall), no says my informant but still... So the wife and him are going to try and work things out (how pathetic) and she waste a more yrs on the idiot (what did she need to work on?) So tough break and if you had a good mom that's wonderful, mine always told me I was in charge of her funeral, I called to see what that entailed, it was I.D. ing her dead decaying 80lbs body, gave that honour to her nephew, she's 2 provinces away I've better things to do with my time my toilet 🚽 might need cleaning!
@Child_of_God320 7 ай бұрын
God help us all ❤😢 I am seriously damaged after 33yrs of abuse and feeling so stupid for begging him to be at least human to me. Therapist still shaking heads at all the brainwashing . Still trying to get better 😢 I didn't know there was a name for such demonic actions. Until someone said the word "Narcissist" and I started to research it and everything was exactly 💯 on the money. Praying I can trust again before I die. I've learned a lot from Danish. ❤
@cherylberk4593 7 ай бұрын
The #1 sin for me is my complete and total inability to Trust. Further, even when I begin to trust I become anxious, foolish, and fearful. I dont know how to erase the damage which started in chilhood, continued in marriage, and now appears to run rampant in society in general. It is exhausting to be constantly vigilant. Thank you, Danish, I would like to see the Top 20 Unforgiveable Sins❤️
@Jessecraft1954 7 ай бұрын
I am indifferent to the narcissist. I don't have unforgiveness. I just am not interested in them anymore. Those relationships desolved. The great thing is, I know I was good to everyone of them. I have no guilt from mistreating anyone at all. That's something they won't experience either because of their lack of empathy. They know how they treat others. They don't care.
@simonpegg1196 7 ай бұрын
Beautifully said!
@Jessecraft1954 7 ай бұрын
@@simonpegg1196 Thank you.
@VgVi13 7 ай бұрын
The #1 unforgivable sin of my mother is the triangulation of me and my children.
@bobbarker1798 7 ай бұрын
OMG! Terrible.
@FiiireLight 7 ай бұрын
Mine too😢
@montena369 7 ай бұрын
Same it's the saddest part,💔
@angelavore6705 7 ай бұрын
It's disgusting and she's rotting my kids brain he can't even function as adult and get in between us
@VgVi13 7 ай бұрын
@@angelavore6705 I'm so sorry to hear that. I wish I had learned all this years ago and kept my kids away from her because it then effects your grandkids as well. I had no idea my mom was behind the issues my kids had with me. I didn't understand what I had done. Now I know I didn't do anything it was her. (And my ex who I think was a narcissist also. he passed away a few years ago. what a relief that was) I hope you can go no contact at some time. It's the only answer, at least it was for me.
@alzihr191919 7 ай бұрын
Narcissists study what and who are dear to you and use them to threat you or control you. It's like if you don't stay controlled to me , I will destroy the people you love .. When my husband and I had conflicts , he used to take the phone threatening to call my mother and annoy her , knowing my mother is the closest person to me and how much I'm careful not to hurt her . He would use the things that are dear to me in a harsh way . That is unforgivable.
@paulablair395 7 ай бұрын
The biggest sin - convincing me that I was worthless, losing my mind, and no one liked me.
@Mandolin523 3 ай бұрын
They all do this. It's the same pattern
@Mandolin523 3 ай бұрын
I've been called a worthless, lazy loser and more for years and projecting all his issues
@WampaReacts 7 ай бұрын
#1 Is their Self Awareness. Being self aware that they are controlling, disrespectful, gaslighting, and emotionally kidnapping, isn't just unforgivable, but inhumane. No one who behaves this way has any right to stand on a moral high ground and lecture others. And there is no reason for someone to suffer their terrible behavior.
@kryssysmith1486 7 ай бұрын
Slowly but surely, I'm working on a novel that will be an autobiography. I'm incorporating all of my experiences with past narcissistic family members, past relationships, and everything in between. I intend to present it all in black and white, shedding light on the injustices that have been done to me. However, I am transforming these experiences into the most worthwhile and positive scenario I can possibly imagine.
@arhafrench5319 7 ай бұрын
Congratulations, and don't you quit on it! I wanted to write one myself but my narcs are still alive and family. 😑 I hope your book is a success and that your pain is a stepping stone to victory.
@kryssysmith1486 7 ай бұрын
@@arhafrench5319 Thank you for your kind words. Now that narcissists are completely out of my life, I have every intention, and in my own right, I can write it down. It's not going to hurt anybody, and names are protected. I received a small merit accolade back in high school when I was 13 just because of my writing.
@kryssysmith1486 7 ай бұрын
@@arhafrench5319 Here's an idea that just dawned on me: You can still write even though the narcissists are alive. Just keep it to yourself until they pass away, and then you can publish the novel. That's one way I would approach it, and at one point, it was the way I handled it. I have a good layout for my novel, and I know what I'm going to focus on. Like I mentioned, I did the exact same thing; I had to hide it from every narcissist in my life, and it took a toll on me. So, doing this is going to be very painful, but in the end, it will be therapeutic and worthwhile.
@ellenmanlulu3976 7 ай бұрын
Cheering for your complete healing and published book!
@kryssysmith1486 7 ай бұрын
@@ellenmanlulu3976 Thank you. I realize that it is going to be a painful and slow process. I am in therapy to help me along with this. That being said, at least now I know what my purpose in life is. I never in a million years thought I'd start writing like this again.
@Rebi.G 7 ай бұрын
I'm just one big glitch now. Trying to deprogram myself is the most difficult thing I ever had to do 😢
@StudiosDelirium 7 ай бұрын
You’re a survivor! Be proud of that. Watch all videos: Dr Ramani, Dr Carter or find a good therapist who specializes in narcissistic abuse. You will get through this with tools, knowledge, self love, self respect and time. The worst part is over if you’ve gone no contact. Best wishes and luck to you. You are stronger than you think.😊
@m.b.calderhead268 7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this. For about 40 divorced years I have pondered as to why he behaved so badly, but, tonight, when listening to the 7 Unforgiveable Sins, he fits 6 of them. Now I get it. Now I realize that, at 21, when we married, I didn’t have a chance. He was too practiced and I was naive. You have put it all so succinctly and I appreciate it.
@m.b.calderhead268 7 ай бұрын
M.b. Calderhead, again. I was never so unhappy as I was when I was married.
@JustMeeeeeee87 7 ай бұрын
Dear reader...yes the one that taught that healing the narcisist was possible...you did your best...don.t waste your time and more important don.t lose yourself again..🤗
@marka.8535 7 ай бұрын
Biggest sin ; turning my daughter against me and being an all around horrible, destructive mother and causing trauma to our sweet innocent daughter 😢
@Varykino1917 7 ай бұрын
This is my life except for #5 and #6. I would say that the worst thing that narcissists do is that they exist. They look human but they are soul, life, joy, future, trust crushing monsters from Hell.
@heathercarter2475 7 ай бұрын
I was gonna say the exact same and I wholeheartedly wish they didn't
@danieljohnson2349 7 ай бұрын
100 % .
@beautypablotamarini7315 7 ай бұрын
Their unlogic made my brain cracked🤯
@joseenoel8093 7 ай бұрын
That's a great under 10 words or less reply, they gotta take us along for the ride aye, punishing us for loving them, mine drank like a fish 🐟 (15/day/shot of too/makes it himself/had business of selling supplies, finally smartened up due to health issues. Our adult kids surprised, wondering if I'd given him an ultimatum, nope 🙅🏻 cuz he's happy like that, of course I'd have a fit, told kids something wrong I didn't but point being people must clear their own minds, that's why makers of crazy glue sell the stuff over the counter, one must fix their own cracked brains, you're welcome! Xox 🙋🎠
@Mandolin523 3 ай бұрын
Literally caused mild strokes to me
@franmosconi4680 6 ай бұрын
Great episode, Danish! The narcissist in my life is my adult son, who does not live with me. I did not realize he was a narcissist until about four years ago. He foists some of the behaviors you describe on me, and some toward his wife. He hides these behaviors well, so that most of our family and his co-workers don't know or believe he is a narcissist and abusive. Now he has been giving me the silent treatment for most of the time for eleven months. It's actually a relief at this point, to have so little interaction with him. I feel he has influenced his wife and his siblings about me in a false and bad direction. This has been very hard on my self-esteem. He tends to rage and to be insulting and demeaning to me. But I think I am gradually recovering. Your videos are helpful. Thank you!
@danieljohnson2349 7 ай бұрын
- "Unforgivable" is *right* !🥊😠
@francesbernard2445 7 ай бұрын
The worst of it is that many narcissists while leaving us have an affair with no intentions of ending that affair permanently unless that person moves on with someone else or getting a divorce only so they can hang onto any assets which we and our family of origin have helped acquire. A narcissist expects us to make them happy while at the same time that is impossible for us to do. While trying to divorce them it is not uincommon for children born during the marriage to become grossly neglected by the narcissistic parent who insists on custody of the children during which time according to them only sole custody is according to them justifiable for us having left them and so affecting their public image. A person who iis going through that sort of thing needs professional support to survive the experience. The only risk involved with going for professional help is if the narcissist was involved while obtaining that help and/or if they get wind of it then surely their smear campaign is going to start while accusing us of being a liar about what we have expericienced at their hands. Until I learned that it is a common experience for women to endure through not one but 2 bad marriages like that until they learn how to appear like a hard target to narcissists after learning about narcissistic personality disorder and how to spot someone who might have it.
@redpillbox1882 7 ай бұрын
I'm not sure if it's "the worst sin" of a narcissist, because they are all equally diabolical. One of the worst is how they debase you. How they take a kind and talented person who has a fun personality, and friends, and inherent gifts and through means of trickery or how ever they can manage, they make you start accepting things that are not in your nature to accept. For me, I had an alcoholic cheating father, so I never wanted to be with either of those things. Yet I would wind up with narcissistic men or even friends or coworkers, who were both of those things. They get you to accept those things that are unacceptable, and try to drag you down to their own perverted level. They like to take something kind and innocent and defile it, warp it, and turn it into someone who has no choice but to accept their depravity. Having something evil or demonic that tries to change your nature, is like being in a spiritual war. Like you are in a relationship with a supernatural demon.
@ellie_j. 7 ай бұрын
Playing the "innocent victim" while unleashing a smear campaign! That makes them beyond redemption in my opinion! "Thou shalt not bear false witness"!
@paulobiscaiafilho8590 7 ай бұрын
I was in a relationship with a narcissist for 5 years. Her biggest sin in my experience was to isolate me from my own daughter in my own house. Not that it makes all the others sins lighter. And they are all there. At least six out of seven of them in this video. Thank you for your content. Information has been an important tool to break the trauma bond.
@queeni5212 7 ай бұрын
True! You have a gift to draw people in , and it can feel like you can literally feel the words you are speaking. That’s spiritually deep. Thanks Danish!
@zandatee 7 ай бұрын
Yes, Danish emotions are appropriate and they are healing. It gives such an additional value. its like a therapy.
@ellasladek3124 7 ай бұрын
Trust,!how do we know who to trust ? We treat others as we want to be treated , they use and abuse that kindness!
@florinflo9293 7 ай бұрын
My ex girlfriend was a covert narcissist... i loved her with all my life. She was different. She gave me a roof to live under when my Malignant Narcissist mom threw me out in the cold winter. i will always love her for that ❤️. One day we had a fight and she came to the conclusion that she is a covert narcissist and that she can't control all her actions because her brain is fucked. So she began to fight with herself inside it hurt me that i saw how hard she controlled her narcissistic rage... She lost the fight and control eventually and this ugly brain disease took over and we broke up. She did make me a lot of problems but she helped me more and i will never forget her ❤️. This ugly brain disease NPD was the only thing that destroyed our 2 year relationship 💔.
@donnaT-ti8vj 2 ай бұрын
I experienced all 7 of those hateful, deadly sins but I am fully enlightened now & with that comes peace of mind. Never again
@dianaclark3254 7 ай бұрын
Gaslighting me to believe I had Alzheimer’s and isolated me from 5:59 family. The cheating and gaslighting were awful too
@summersled5635 4 ай бұрын
1. Deceptively triangulating me into an extra-marital liaison and then accusing me of being a "knowing participant." 2. Exploiting my vulnerability, collecting information about my greatest fears, and then using those to shame me. 3. Trying to induce me to commit criminal fraud. 4. Letting go of my hand while ascending a vertical cliff, denying the incident ever happened, and then pre-emptively going around our community and telling others that I was crazy and prone to storytelling.
@petrisallinen2123 7 ай бұрын
Murder of spirit.
@dr.muhammadamin1554 7 ай бұрын
They suck the soul. This is their food.
@coachjoachimroomaney793 7 ай бұрын
I was made into a slave by my family as a child. I am not going to let it go because they tried to murder me after I got sick and disabled
@acolley2891 7 ай бұрын
It truly will aet you free if you make the choice to forgive. It will be hard but it's a choice you keep making. That doesn't mean they are off the hook with God, nor does it mean you have to have contact. It just sets you free. 😊❤
@coachjoachimroomaney793 7 ай бұрын
@@acolley2891 I don't have any feelings because of my condition. I only pass a judgement by lawful means. Feelings is how people get into trouble. I only feel peace and I am calm. I have to act out a feeling to make people understand me.
@zandatee 7 ай бұрын
Sounds irritating about that forgiving. Something similar feeling like when a narcissist betrays you. Offering reading morals instead of feeling your pain, standing by your side and fighting for you.
@coachjoachimroomaney793 7 ай бұрын
@@zandatee they all come for forgiveness when it suits them. You are always the problem and it is always you that must do this or do that but they don't have to change anything about themselves. Why don't we don't start calling them out to change instead of asking us to forgive every time.
@cocobradford281 7 ай бұрын
intentional neglect. For 37 years.
@gregoryritchie7852 7 ай бұрын
Great DETAIL! They really messed with me. Was told by mental health counselor it will take a lot of work and years to heal - if I ever do completely.
@crina193 7 ай бұрын
Regarding sin no 3....i have a neck hump and whenever i meditate on releasing the tension and pain from there, it s the same energy of being held and pinned down by the neck...so it s not only psychological control, it becomes visible even in the body.
@lorimiller7261 7 ай бұрын
Unforgivable sin - My soon to be ex-husband of 19 years got so evil as he got older. He threatened to tell my teenage daughter about something horrific that happened to me when I was a teenager. He would throw it in my face when he raged. It was my story to tell her if I ever decided to. Really none of his business and he wanted to hurt me. I had to go and tell her myself my version before he told her lies. It’s sad the evil extremes they will go to to hurt and destroy people. So happy I’m out and we’re finding freedom and peace. It’s been the best decision of my life ❤ Thank you Danish for helping survivors find their strength 😊
@moejohnson4498 7 ай бұрын
The most unforgivable sin for me was the lying. Just about everything he told me was untrue. The man I thought he was, doesn’t exist. The dishonesty was astronomical and shocking.
@22zanners 7 ай бұрын
Me too. Mine told me everyday last year that he was working when he didn’t have a job. He even made up stories about his coworkers and customers. Meanwhile he was having bisexual affairs instead of working. Covert Narc…..I’m making my exit plan now.
@user-ss8fc2yz2q 7 ай бұрын
It doesn't matter what he said about me. He will never destroy me. In time he will destroy himself. I know the truth and so does God.
@user-pm3mf6gv9s 7 ай бұрын
My ex would not say 'happy birthday'. How horrible is that. I would have been happy without a card or gift, if he just wished and hugged me. Same for anniversaries/mother's day...etc. Just pretended it was a normal day. Sickening.
@billstone8451 7 ай бұрын
Anger/rage ( my sin) My mother is a covert narcissist, Sunday school teacher and special education teacher,the most evil person I have ever experienced, hard for me to believe 60 years later that such evil even existed!!! Then I married my mother( just in another body ) for 20 years destroyed my children’s relationship with me by lying to them , like her they knew so much more as how a man , husband, and daddy was supposed to act and didn’t have a problem expressing it! Of course everyone’s problems was my failure. God has since blessed me with a wife who truly loves me just as I am !!! :) I have one question as a sin ( mine) that I can’t figure/answer . While I truly hate or blame no one I have this seething anger/rage just under the surface that has been there as long as I can remember, I have no idea where it comes from or why it’s there??? I want it gone it’s not who I am! I’m very empathetic and it goes against everything I am . I have prayed, have very strong beliefs in God and Jesus and yet no answers. If anyone has any idea or shares same I would love to hear from you :)
@Diamondjane54 6 ай бұрын
9 out of 10 videos ive had the opportunity to view on this site, in my opinion, are exceptional in insight, guidance and all have a refreshing sense of compassion expressed by the narrator ❤
@MissG8340 7 ай бұрын
I was literally google searching this and then this came up on KZfaq 😅
@Muhammad-u 7 ай бұрын
Why do they move so quickly i don't know i can't help my soul right know i am with healing soul right now
@lindat1317 7 ай бұрын
They move fast so you’re thrown off guard and won’t have time to think (because you’d know something is “off.”) They want you disoriented.
@bridgetsieger2261 7 ай бұрын
Broke into my Facebook and pretended to be me…. Read all the past emails.. wrote hatefilled letters to my best friends and cousins. They all believed her except for ONE aunt. She kept silent as a similar thing happened to her. To this day we are both half humans. She is her sister I am her daughter. Both half dead. And alone.
@user-zf1jm2xe5v 7 ай бұрын
Lying, triangulation and smearing me. My mother is the narc. I was close to my dad, she would get jealous. She didn’t like it. Blame is also a big sin, when you did nothing.
@Kharizmah 7 ай бұрын
#1 sin is them trying to cause division to isolate you, followed closely by the physical and mental abuse. Even if it takes time to heal, There is time lost that from family and friends.
@cindymartin6307 7 ай бұрын
Turning my children against me.
@anne3230 5 ай бұрын
Same. It’s soul crushing. Peace and healing for you
@cindymartin6307 5 ай бұрын
@anne3230 thank you
@Mandolin523 3 ай бұрын
Same... when I was depressed for a year and distracted with all the cognitive dissonance and bullcrap the past years I wasn't able to be the best mother and that time I can't get back. I was a good mom but I made a point to make him have to take care of the kid so he could see how much I did. It ended up just making my child have some narc tendencies and spoiled him. He bought our 7 yr old an iPhone. Like wtf. Their brains aren't even developed right and its just ridiculous. He just basically counter parented all I did. Now I don't leave him alone period with the kid
@MeCynthiaAnn 7 ай бұрын
GOD WILL HOLD ACCOUNTABLE NOOOOO MATTER WHAT we see with our eyes… there is ALWAY the HARVEST time
@tricialynn8279 6 ай бұрын
..hi my dear supportive angel....u asked what is Worse thing #3...easy... Refusing to give you compassion when u very ill. When I was in hospital on oxygen for pneumonia my mother wouldn't come visit as she couldn't smoke there. I begged & cried on on phone for her and finally she told me to. F off and hung up. I remember laying in hospital bed praying to die. Then...I think that was the day my soul froze as I never went mentally back there. Also as adult child I had back fracture...my father would not return my calls for support even tho I was alone in a rooming house and he was rich in big house with his mistress I was alone not able to walk 3 months.
@Rosemoon938 7 ай бұрын
Absolutely correct, every single minute
@AniliaG23 6 ай бұрын
Biggest sin - leaving the victim financially ruined.
@alimarie67 7 ай бұрын
Thank you for educating the public
@kenhaman104 7 ай бұрын
The worst of the worst is to USE your own children to devalue and discard their father. Matthew 18 describes the Millstone for those who go to the place of messing w children, and then to top it off they're also messing w God's chosen so have fun w that to those who intentionally try to destroy a fellow family member. So, it's the combination of sadistically toying w family and the children that catapults these devils into the worst of the worst regarding sins!
@relied7934 6 ай бұрын
The biggest sin is treating people as things. People-things that are Useful or not Useful.
@bethroy5053 7 ай бұрын
The biggest sin: the intentional, premeditated and attempted murder of an innocent soul. One whose only ‘mistake’ was to love a narc.
@FiiireLight 7 ай бұрын
The narcissist's favorite phrase is "Oh, well."
@Mandolin523 3 ай бұрын
"What!?! It was a just a joke."
@Mandolin523 3 ай бұрын
"You're crazy."
@laurelvance5533 6 ай бұрын
Cheating and betrayal...biggest sin.
@mspheeincali7418 7 ай бұрын
I really wish I didn’t resonate with this episode. Thank you for so eloquently articulating these horrific experiences and validating that, yes it really was That Bad. I see the reason why I am so broken and cannot see life. Existence in survival mode is not a way to learn what living is and there is no understanding or ability to even get to that point. And yet, stupid survival mode keeps one here while preventing actual living. Sad conundrum indeed.
@lynylcullen8370 6 ай бұрын
Great episode and excellent comments. Getting validated through understanding I’m not the only one..& it’s not in my head
@michealsilvey1124 7 ай бұрын
Thank you. Bless you. 🙌 you help me etap my head around this evil. Pray my daughter OPENS HER EYES and heart to the truth of his lies... this is earth shattering heartbreaking 💔 heartbreaking 💔
@AnitaSharma-hc3ib 7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much danish for sharing such a important information ❤these r all very much true ❤they twist your statement intentially❤
@awuraaadwoa8169 7 ай бұрын
Number 4 is so so real, they go to any extent even crying for people to believe them.
@bridgetsieger2261 7 ай бұрын
My narc would show up at my job and scream… not hit… scream and I never knew the trigger or why!
@rachelcoloradomy3kidz778 7 ай бұрын
Knowing how much I wanted to spend time physically with him always promising having genuine reasons why he doesn't make a plan to see me 😢 I understand this is future faking And I have learned so much from You and this community Tfs and being here helping and validating❤ XOXO 😘
@faizashireen5 6 ай бұрын
They favor the ones who are against us, never take side with us
@BlueZebra1955 7 ай бұрын
These are all big unforgivable sins; but IMO the biggest one is rape/incest.
@cookiegalleria6916 7 ай бұрын
This is true. I never thought this would happen to me, but it did.
@kerrytaggart8206 7 ай бұрын
Narcissists are born with upside down wiring and not made. We have narcissists in our family tree. Both of my parents were neurotypical, logical and loving. My sister is a narcissist . I am not. She has been the source of chaos since very early childhood. A baby narcissist. Please do not blame the upbringing. You cannot turn a neurotypical into a narcissist and you cannot turn a narcissist into a neurotypical. Neurotypicals need and I believe can be healed from narcissist abuse.
@terridillon3053 7 ай бұрын
They WILL NOT escape accountability. God’s large and in charge! AMEN!
@Mandolin523 3 ай бұрын
After triangulating many times treating a friend of mine with all the things a partner would do for their spouse... i had enough and said she wasnt welcome back. Shes also a nasty, narcissist psychopath alcoholic... I needed a favor and Uber home for $10 she would not help with. Said okay shes a selfish person and a user. I watch her kids too etc... come to find when he was out with the boys he ended up cheating on me with her impulsively and driving her home as her personal driver. Then after stonewalling me for 2 hours. I screamed "SAY Something! ACKNOWLEDGE ME!" His reply was an excuse justifying he was a hero just driving her home 3 am to 7 am.... and said to me nothing to validate me but cared more to point out how she feels sad bc I cut her off for no reason. So he validated her feelings and their said storyline how now Im the person who doesnt care and it leads to their bonding and then cheating.... 2 hrs of my feelings, staring at me. He justified her feelings. Never once mine.
@Mandolin523 3 ай бұрын
Mind you the only reason he wanted her was because she was my friend and we were getting to be close. Before she was a promiscuous easy woman that he belittled and would gossip about. I actually saw she needed a friend and her for more than that and our kids were friends. I'm not a judgemental person. However after they hooked up, i had a very rightful concern for testing as she would be with new guys every night but I mentioned it to him how irresponsible that way....she's now angelic and he's not going to judge her. He accused me of being so rude to my friend. Seriously. Its the most crazy response and behavior. It's just literally to opposite deny and defy me
@elonathomason5846 7 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@applexx9065 7 ай бұрын
The narcissistic ex told me. I deserve everything that's going on with me while my mother was dying. Stage 4 lung cancer because I didn't want to have sex with him
@delladillon8765 6 ай бұрын
The biggest sin, not loving your neighbor as much as they love themselves.
@sarat928 7 ай бұрын
These all r true my ex husband I survived after leaving and twins later and now I finally got him to spill all I already knew about him. His mask is off and yet he keeps forgetting I kno who he really is. I now have a very very uncomfortable stare down when it comes to him and it makes him uncomfortable and starts spilling things he tried to hide. He did try to get strangers to believe him with all the lies and trust me I kno he still lies and all who met him have actually turned on him instead of me. And now he knows when he tries to be a badass and think he can stand up to me but now I stand up to him and he knows my bite is bigger then my bite and I kno he’s already scared to face me knowing he has no more control over me. And he knows I will do everything to protect my twins even if I end up in jail cuz I have family that will do everything like me for my kids to protect them from their dad and trust me their dad hates it. He hates the fact he no longer has any control over me and I’m a lot more stronger then he expected me to become. Don’t give up stand up and show them what u can do. They will get scared enough to be all talk and to afraid to act.
@francesbernard2445 7 ай бұрын
Please be careful while seeking the help of more than one professional who could for example coach you on how to file police reports when necessary. The last thing you need is to fall for getting down in the mud with him over and over again. That is a game often being orchestrated by a malignant narcissist which none of us who have an average to well developed conscience can ever win.
@user-tr9cb7dn1b 7 ай бұрын
Financial abuse hurts the most.
@agatamakulska4442 7 ай бұрын
I forgave what has been done to me but I will never go back to that relationship. I remember how small and low I felt and will never allow anybody to treat me like that again. I am no fool❤
@fairygurl9269 7 ай бұрын
*Betrayal...
@awuraaadwoa8169 7 ай бұрын
Spot on. All true
@keepcool1604 7 ай бұрын
Triangulation . I felt so bad when my mom tried to create difference between me and my closed ones .
@JustMeeeeeee87 7 ай бұрын
I don.t know which one is the worst...all are ...from my point of view...we had to learn ...to love ourselves more...to put healthy boundaries...and to write our own story
@acolley2891 7 ай бұрын
I forgive all his sin against me 100%. But he will still have to deal with Gods judgement. I cannot forgive for God and God will not forgive unless he repents.
@lindafolks 7 ай бұрын
Wasted decades of my life believing a LIE!! God restores, saves, comforts and heals! Amen!🙏❤️🕊
@gelibeanzcantrell7192 7 ай бұрын
my narc ex would often do his smear campaign of me while i was in the same room or if he was talking to someone else while i was on the phone with him. it made me feel so bad that i couldn't even go to that person he talked to and defend myself. he absolutely knew what he was doing and i was blind to it. he convinced me that he was doing it because he loved me and wanted me to consider his feelings about the situation even though he never considered my feelings about anything. he would twist the stories so much that i thought no one would want to hear me out about what was actually happening.
@mausambasuray3810 7 ай бұрын
Not acknowledging sacrifices...😢
@jacklimcortez7660 7 ай бұрын
True Danish 💙❤️ I have experience d several of these Things Blaming and lying This will help others to be aware of what you shared in your vidios 😊❤️💙 THANKS
@lightoftheworld3333 7 ай бұрын
sexual boundary violation "It's your fault, you are guilty"
@lightoftheworld3333 7 ай бұрын
He told having hurting s*x with other women to take revench on his mother 😱
@1missy40 6 ай бұрын
Ain’t this the truth 👏🏽
@Cherps91 7 ай бұрын
#1 unforgivable sin is he killed my daughter Oct 21, 2023, and blamed her ...leaving a destroyed family and mother in the wake. 6:20
@ericb8413 7 ай бұрын
Did he get caught? Is he going to be tried?
@mhlohc 7 ай бұрын
Probably meant emotionaly@@ericb8413
@lynne-du9ql 7 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss... God grants you peace and that your girl rests in peace too. Don't let him win, hold together and wait... you will meet her again. 🙏🙏
@kimberlyfowler5748 7 ай бұрын
😯😞🫂
@niman00 7 ай бұрын
The biggest sin?? how can you choose, there are so many. in my case - the betrayal of trust. and even worse, when you find out, that it happened to you from a few different people, including someone famous, that you loved for years and years, and who's "mask" fell off last week, and when the world will find out - his entire career will go down the drain.
@gursimranbakshi881 7 ай бұрын
So true
@amynolan3388 7 ай бұрын
Very helpful ❤ love from Yogasalsa
@bridgetsieger2261 7 ай бұрын
Oh yeah my mom had many many lovers and my dad knew! He.. being who he was… Blamed it on her awful childhood and hormones and of course, she is so very beautiful “that men can’t help themselves around your mom”. That one was true and didn’t understand as something about her mouth was ugly and frightening.
@angelavore6705 7 ай бұрын
A wizard of words ty for helping other's God bless ur soul❤
@crystalmorse7412 7 ай бұрын
Wow u r Right About All 7 Sins Thank u Danish 4 All Your Help ❤ u
@JesusisLord153 7 ай бұрын
You have described my soon to be ex husband so perfectly in this one!!!
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