7 WEIRD Contradictions of INFP Personality

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INFP paradoxes?
See, we’re fiercely independent, but we also deeply value relationships with others. We want to be understood, but have problems communicating our real concerns. We love our solitude-but maybe not always.
Goodness, I think our contradictions never end! But it’s also why INFPs are unique and interesting individuals. It’s the reason why people can’t easily pin us down-but that’s what makes us mystifying, right? Right.
So, if you’re an INFP (or have one in your life), here are some of INFP contradictions for you to ponder.
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@nitikadixit6566 Жыл бұрын

It's a weird duo for us to be perfectionists and procrastinators..it's like I will do it perfectly but tomorrow 🥴

@cherhop1 Жыл бұрын

😂 this 😂

@DragonriderEpona Жыл бұрын

And probably end up never finishing it because procrastination took too long 🙈

@tktekkers1991 Жыл бұрын

And perfection will never be achieved

@RonDiani Жыл бұрын

So true 😂that’s so me

@RonDiani Жыл бұрын

@@tktekkers1991 sadly not 😢

@AdakiKuroma Жыл бұрын

As an INFP, whenever people say that I'm not making sense, I 100% agree to it.

@azizulfikri8392 Жыл бұрын

The tangent that we go on in an explanation could be legendary yet alienlike

@soisyo4074 Жыл бұрын

Exactly. Sometimes people told me that I'm weird

@prixxiepie3426 Жыл бұрын

@@soisyo4074 same I would sometimes lose my mind and blabber random stuff without realizing what I'm saying to them

@sora5373 Жыл бұрын

@@prixxiepie3426sameee

@octo5042 Жыл бұрын

yeah, If I'm still waking up and I say some retrospective comment and theres silence.. I know I that I just made no sense.

@keatoncrandall2471 Жыл бұрын

That fear of revealing ourselves too much thing hits home hard.

@bjornf8518 Жыл бұрын

Yes, I fear revealing too much, but I have a tendency to divulge too much anyway.

@AL-0114 Жыл бұрын

Fear of revealing but yet, want to be understands....i hate myself wth

@sora5373 Жыл бұрын

@@AL-0114same same.

@renatayuuki5705 Жыл бұрын

Like the police say: "you have the right to remain silent, anything you say can and will be used against you in court...."

@bewater6684 Жыл бұрын

I have tried all my life to reach others, to show myself. Its often that people criticises my answers. For being too long, for not getting to point, for not answering the question etc. But i always do, i just try to in a more meaningful way. I took ppls input and always kept my response short and straight. But today i was asked about feelings. And my answer was seen as too difficult For my depth to be dismissed just like that. am not trying again

@smhmyhead9184 Жыл бұрын

As an INFP I'm actually scared of how accurate this is...

@farihanishat9795 Жыл бұрын

same

@0blbe1 Жыл бұрын

same! im like you know a little too much..

@cubanelly Жыл бұрын

Me too

@SunTheDeamon Жыл бұрын

Same 😭

@MsDogleaf Жыл бұрын

for sure it weird

@taehyungeee_babyy Жыл бұрын

The thing about romance is sooo true.. Like as an INFP I imagine all the romance in my head but in real life I don’t even wanna look at anyone in a romantic way..

@candices6281 Жыл бұрын

I don't even believe it's real if they do it in real life

@VitarinCess2C 4 ай бұрын

Me too

@A_Black_Sheep94 3 ай бұрын

I wouldnt say anyone tbh but most people im not interested in yea

@tktekkers1991 Жыл бұрын

Us INFP's aren't comfortable going against people's beliefs. If we think someone is wrong but not harming anyone then we won't say anything. But if we see somebody hurting people physically or mentally, we will be the first to step in. Even though we are introverted. Our gift is that we can walk into a room without talking to anyone and yet recognise who you are

@candices6281 Жыл бұрын

That's a great description. I used to intervene, almost too much..in adolescence. Standing up for kids getting bullied or what not. But I went about it wrong and taught the bully nothing but their own tactics. Now I'm 40 and I have a lot of differing opinions, but I won't intervene unless it's actually potentially life threatening (work in healthcare)

@andhereismyspout Жыл бұрын

this is great! I appreciated the point about INFPs not always being straight with other people. most ppl talking about INFPs in MBTI will say that we are all extremely honest and happy to go against the flow if we don't agree with something, to the point of standing out and voicing our own opinions, but personally, unless the issue affects me on a deeply emotional or moral level, I will tend to leave my opinions unvoiced a lot of the time to avoid conflict. it's a matter of getting to that point of trust and understanding with someone for me to open up in this way, so while I personally wouldn't lie, I would often do what this video says and keep my thoughts, opinions and beliefs a secret if it doesn't agree with someone else.

@tktekkers1991 Жыл бұрын

@MsDogleaf Жыл бұрын

Yes this is why I dislike school opinion discussion or having meaningless talks with family

@dailycupofizzy Жыл бұрын

THISSS. In my mind, I know what I like and dislike and I know my own beliefs, but sometimes it’s hard to voice that in fear of conflict, rejection, and the chance of being criticized. Whether I trust you or not definitely has a say in how much I share with you. I don’t feel the need to step up unless I feel compelled to. ALSO I don’t always say something if I feel that someone doesn’t care to respect or hear my opinion.

@Crazy_Chriz 6 ай бұрын

It’s crazy how accurate this is to me where I sometimes think everyone else acts like this lmao

@parfate1383 Жыл бұрын

Finally something actually accurate! I swear most videos portray INFPs like they are highly empathetic and emotional with their head in the clouds and nothing else, this video actually takes in more aspects of INFPs.

@MsDogleaf Жыл бұрын

Right! It so weird I know this is one of the best videos i have found

@jabingox772 11 ай бұрын

Right on!

@marshellethington1805 8 ай бұрын

Exactly!

@mathewerven9 5 ай бұрын

I couldn't agree more!

@A_Black_Sheep94 3 ай бұрын

The videos are often made by Non-INFP types so theyre just reading off a page.

@paulanderson2963 Жыл бұрын

Just last week I had to make an apology for confusing an individual and explain to them that confusing people was one of my gifts in life.

@MsDogleaf Жыл бұрын

yes very much yes

@thatothamae1394 2 ай бұрын

confucius vibes

@The_elation_here 2 ай бұрын

It could be confusing others Along with confusing ourselves 💌

@juliacornejo7802 Жыл бұрын

"INFP's are a tangle of weird contradictions..." Me, an INFP: Well, we're off to a very accurate start

@amoldivo 4 ай бұрын

INFPs are both all and nothing, never in between!! 😂 we're the embodiment of paradoxes 😵‍💫🤕

@paulanderson2963 Жыл бұрын

I just shared this video on my Facebook feed, I am now partly terrified that too many of my acquaintances are going to understand me better now.

@appleraika Жыл бұрын

Hahahahahah i feel you

@joannechua8266 Жыл бұрын

hahaha I feel you too! wanted to be understood but fear of being too exposed

@RosiesAndDaisies Жыл бұрын

This s exactly what tears me apart with frustration.. i so desperately want others to understand a part of me but oftentimes they come with attention.. when that happens, i got flustered and withdrew back into the safe confines of my imagination (and into my home)

@MsDogleaf Жыл бұрын

Oh nooooo that might be weird

@candices6281 Жыл бұрын

I considered it, and didn't for that very reason ❤😂

@user-of4kk4in9f Жыл бұрын

I am often accused of not being romantic enough... but I am In my imagination! This is a video that can help others tolerate us better!

@bjornf8518 Жыл бұрын

Amusingly (or not) enough, I, being an INFP, is the romantic out of me and my wife.

@gabytorres3614 10 ай бұрын

Omg! This made me feel so comforted cause I thought I was a train wreck now I see i'm only an INFP

@Izabela-ek5nh 13 күн бұрын

As an INFP I can say I am a train wreck 😅

@somerandommixoffandomsands4452 Жыл бұрын

This is really true. As an INFP i can tell that when i reveal myself to much i tend to get into my own bubble and not speak to that person for a long time. When someone is like “I fell in love!” Im like: “Ok… What am i supposed to do with this information?” I just dont care.

@MsDogleaf Жыл бұрын

I know right !!!! its one of my best friends i just tell them. But in as group i just say nothing

@Datsyoashley 7 ай бұрын

The falling in love bit is so relatable omg, unfortunately I rejected that person in a not so nice way but not mean either i just friend-zoned them

@shelaviecedeno6662 Жыл бұрын

Friend: "You're a very complicated person" : "That's my problem actually"

@user-cd2pe5ht3w Жыл бұрын

As an INFP, I do like my efforts to be recognized because it makes me feel like all my efforts paid off. But I don't like people overdoing their recognition of my abilities. Too much attention makes me uneasy. I am usually a reserved person. I seem aloof and indifferent to others. But with my homies, I become a different person, just like an extrovert. I also strive for the best though I procrastinate a lot. Despite contradictions, I believe that this type of personality is one of a kind. I love being an INFP, and I won't wish to change it for any other personality trait in the world. To my fellow INFPs, you are wonderful.

@candices6281 Жыл бұрын

I get outright bitter about it. But, true, I don't need a medal or employee of the month, just don't treat me like an idiot.

@fluffycorn_njst Жыл бұрын

As a fellow INFP how do you internally accept how we procrastinate a lot? Even tho we strive to be the best we can be? As someone who’s confidence has been brought down so many times I feel like it’s a horrible habit whenever I procrastinate even tho I really *really* like to do my best in every work and task I do! Especially when I’m interested in them. And yet… I still have some annoying bouts of procrastinating…… 😔

@littleboss8160 9 ай бұрын

⁠@@fluffycorn_njstjustifying procrastination is not something i believe you can do forever, eventually the bubble we hide in will schrink to nothingness. Sometimes you just have to ignore that inner (fill in urself) and get things done now. Something that doesn’t grow or evolves becomes depressed. I would be totally fine being locked up at home alone for months doing nothing, but my mind becomes darker tho. And even tho im comfortable with this, i know it’s no good in the long run. Your comfort zone only gets smaller and it gets harder to get out of that bubble which you eventually have to do anyway. I think it’s important, especially for infp’s, to seek discomfort from time to time. Also, self pitty might be the thing we justify a lot with. Don’t like to admit this but i think it might be true.

@myladynaynay 9 ай бұрын

I didn't want to be called out, but I clicked on the video anyway cuz I knew I'd be called out. Can we add that to the list of contradictions? Lol

@HikiOmo Жыл бұрын

We really be dissociating and perfectly grounded at the same time for real.

@hannahhannah5742 Жыл бұрын

I hate the feeling of over sharing but I love being open and honest. If something embarrassing happens to me I'm like, right im going to deny the existence of that event. Then I go straight to my sister and tell her all, let her laugh at me then ask myself why I did that, rinse repeat😂

@musicmaniac7337 Жыл бұрын

I have never in my life felt so understood

@paolo_damiani 5 ай бұрын

lol I can really relate!

@karuns9500 Жыл бұрын

Ironically, I struggled toward the end of Covid. The isolation really got to me and I'm very much introverted. Having said that, I love going to the office now but rarely talk to people. Just seeing the world go by without getting involved is enough for me, 🤣😂

@parinigam8498 2 ай бұрын

So true bruh. I just go by the day talking to the two friends I have while my having 1 minute talks with my other colleagues. I get along with everyone in my workplace but I just have two friends that I'm close with and hang out with😂

@FormerlyMantisDragon1995 5 ай бұрын

Ever since I was a teenager, I knew I was a walking contradiction. After checking out some videos about INFPs being contradictions, well, I feel less confused and uncertain about myself knowing that it’s probably part of my personality 😆

@ardellolnes5663 Жыл бұрын

I tell people when they get confused and suddenly can't figure out how to talk and are too self aware, that I am contagious. I walk away and 5 minutes later the person I was with is back to normal. Isn't that something amazing?? Im so socially awkward that I make others feel and act like INFP's when I am in their area, and they are better 5 minutes after I walk away. True story

@4fterdark Жыл бұрын

I’m just happy to know I’m not crazy! That this is just my personality. I mean I can work on these things, but knowing that this is how I’m wired makes it feel so much lighter.

@blwlmnswg Жыл бұрын

It's true I like to be authentic to myself I just hate the word -fake My heart is stabbed when someone calls me fake

@whitneyrose9293 Жыл бұрын

Not everyone is worth the gift of revealing your true, authentic self to 🎁 Don't allow people's opinions of you, including labeling you as fake, to become your own limiting beliefs Find someone who understands you 💕 It makes all the difference in the world 🌍 It's rare that an individual is consistent and congruent in all of their interpersonal interactions Different people bring out different pieces or sides of you, for better or worse Find someone you can be whole with, who you feel connected to and is comfortable to be around ⚓

@blwlmnswg Жыл бұрын

@@whitneyrose9293 ♡´･ᴗ･`♡

@MsDogleaf Жыл бұрын

That must have sucked

@QuiteTheBandNerd 10 ай бұрын

I feel a bit better about being an expert liar now. I hate lying but I’m really good at it and most the times it is a lot easier than being honest

@adita886 Жыл бұрын

as an INFP, I'm the type of girlfriend that'll go on a beach date with you, and say, "love, we're here for 3 hours, let's spend the first two together then I'll be needing my soulitude so i can sit by the sea shore, listen to gentle rustling of sea, feel waves gently hit my feet as my soul cleanses and my heart harmonises with the aquatic beings, while i watch the sky turn dark.. in peace."

@ellesea123 7 ай бұрын

I got lost going to work after a vacation. I worked there for 5 years, and in the same state I was born and raised. I also forgot my phone. All the other points resonate as well. Thank you for posting this.

@blueapple5274 9 ай бұрын

2:40 I feel like this described my life, I really want freedom but I also want someone who would force me to work because I think the only way I will be able to work is if someone enforces it on me, otherwise I wont listen and not pay attention at all

@sebastianmichael5819 29 күн бұрын

Can relate, being overly constrained sucks but sometimes I wish someone would just tell me what to do, make the choices for me so I stop procrastinating. If it was up to me I would probably spend most of my time alone minding my business, problem is I feel the need of going out with someone once in a while, but after that I just stop human interactions again, that's why my relationships hardly last long 😢

@talesfromprincesajesa Жыл бұрын

You are dead on about praise turning into obligation. I hate that

@hope-. Жыл бұрын

I feel like we INFPs are nothing but just all the contradictions in the world put together

@JuuuEmpathy 7 ай бұрын

i absolutely LOVE being weird. and i also take pride in confusing other people

@jubayerhasanmahin9049 11 ай бұрын

this is very eerily accurate, an INFP speaking...

@n9rawii Жыл бұрын

I don’t want to share my comment because I will delete it later.

@impastabowl2328 Жыл бұрын

@StilliRise314 8 ай бұрын

That’s me for literally everything…

@DHARK1873 Жыл бұрын

My mother actually called me “an enigma” - one of the best compliments of my life!

@DHARK1873 Жыл бұрын

😢 May the Lord Jesus bring you a “second mother” who sees your WORTH. ♥️

@xyzabc3484 Жыл бұрын

Exactly! It makes me so cringe to do all that romantic and caring shit fr like asking your partner -have you eaten your food , where are you , I want a kiss I mean idk it makes me cringe 😬

@appleraika Жыл бұрын

I totally feel attacked, 100% Thanks for this wonderful video 🤣❤

@sandrafrancis3631 Жыл бұрын

I agree mostly, but I don't lie to others, as you suggest, I can't lie as it goes against my sense of integrity! If I lie I would feel too awful about myself, so I just can't do it. I hate people who lie alot too, I use to find this more upsetting when I was younger but now I'm 68, I understand it more but I still don't like it, and don't trust people who lie. To me it's a sign of weakness. I perfer people who are genuine and rarely lie.

@kebah11 Жыл бұрын

I can’t lie either, unless it’s over something really insignificant. Instead for me I just keep my thoughts and opinions to myself, instead of lying to redirect them, I just don’t share anything at all.

@Hydra360ci 11 ай бұрын

Pretty sure that's not what she meant... she means that we hide are identy, by acting the opposite of what we really are. Basically... masters of fawning. We compromise by telling others what they need to hear, and not what we feel, which in, itself, is the lie.

@sebastianmichael5819 29 күн бұрын

I'm also generally straight forward with my opinions but over the years I realized how mean I can sound sometimes withouth a filter, point is I'm not even saying it maliciously, it can be something as dumb as saying "your cookies are a bit dry", I say it thinking it will help them improve, but others would just say they are good, to be polite. Anyway it does get me in "trouble" (sort of ankward situations/experiences), so I try to tone it down or just keep for myself

@domilontano Жыл бұрын

I once worked at a café, where all my coworkers had formed a few "tribes". They each hated each other, gossiped, backstabbed and were just generally nasty. I was never accepted into any of the tribes, nor did I want to be. I just got my work done and ignored their vitriol.

@rustyshackleford7984 Жыл бұрын

Did it ever annoy you that they gossiped so much?

@Hydra360ci 11 ай бұрын

Most likely not.... it's easy to cut people out of our circle when we're indifferent from them... though if we aren't indifferent... then it becomes a pain that never goes away. (hense...why we don't let people in unless we're really convinced... and often... we're wrong in our trust, anyways)

@vinassa6532 Жыл бұрын

INFP screams nuerodivergence. ❤

@SoniaJbrt Жыл бұрын

The revealing thing is true. I found that out yesterday. Me and my husband know each other for almost 14 years and will be married for 13 years in April. Yesterday I told him for the first time that I used to watch The X Files as a teenager! I was so ashamed of myself for watching that weird show, I was too ashamed to say anything! I mean we know almost everything about each other, but for some reason I kept it a secret that I used to watch The X Files as a teenager until yesterday. Now a favorite TV show is kinda a big deal for us INFP'S. It inspires us or keeps us in our dream world. So it was part of my personality that I kept hidden, till yesterday. And now everyone knows! 🤦🏻‍♀️ Why do I always over share? 🤦🏻‍♀️

@Hydra360ci 11 ай бұрын

??? I think that's just u. I used to watch that show... and SG1. And now... there is practactly nothing on TV that I like. Everything is reality tv...now.

@carrotandpineapple8756 Жыл бұрын

The personal space is so true. I have neighbours who like to pop up anytime they want and put their heads on my front door, it annoys me so much.

@finsterthecat Жыл бұрын

So weird that a personality test has got me 100% lol

@ambreenali. Жыл бұрын

The way I relate to everything mentioned in this video is kinda terrifying

@jarmoliebrand2005 8 ай бұрын

That first segment about friendship is literally that meme with the girl dressed in black and the girl with rainbow hair. Opening up to people is tough and it takes a lot of time to analyse people from afar to see if they’re worth opening up to. But once you’re friends for a little while, you can talk, quip or do the absolute stupidest thing for hours. The concept of a friend group feels weird to me (especially friend groups… plural). I have three close friends of whom I know what to expect. We’re all introverted, but we can be unchained once we’re together. The third segment… Oh boy have I been procrastinating my writing more than I want to admit. That and other activities that are important to me, like lucid dreaming.

@denisesiddon7241 Жыл бұрын

Been told so many times I'm confusing. This i relate to way too much

@gravyz2cute4u Жыл бұрын

I feel like my brain is constantly in a state of 'omg you don't even know me, how could you hurt my feelings like that' but then when people ask me about my feelings it's also like 'I don't want to talk about it' >_

@paolo_damiani 5 ай бұрын

same!

@Izabela-ek5nh 13 күн бұрын

Painfully accurate. This is me.

@joannhoo1427 Жыл бұрын

It’s scary that I relate to every single thing on the list... 😅😂

@artwitharrietty577 Жыл бұрын

So damn relatable ... I never knew myself so better than before , thank you ... Your videos always make me happy ☺️ and the voice is also soothing

@rdoodoo2021 Жыл бұрын

This is all me. So weird.

@marianremedios5290 11 ай бұрын

Now, I don't have to be indecisive whether I am INFJ or INFP. 😂😂😂😂 I'm an INFP. 😂😂😂

@sslexus430 Жыл бұрын

This fits me… I have been wavering and after listening to several of these personality tendencies… this is explaining myself in a way that maybe I hadn’t thought of. Sometimes I forget that other people don’t necessarily process life the same way as I do.

@myraromasanta Жыл бұрын

wow... 2:55. this is true. the funny thing is you used my favorite emoji. 😑 this list is the most accurate so far. symphatetic but unconcerned wants recognition but not too much attention authentic but secretive

@soisyo4074 Жыл бұрын

5 minutes of explanation of my entire personality

@VintageCR Жыл бұрын

1:42 and this is where my photographic memory shines. i always know where i have been and where i haven't been. im never wrong and always right. 5:03 - 5:31 stop describing me with this much details already.. you're scaring me. i've got nothing to hide, and there is nothing you should know. The fact is, i desire or almost long to positivity due to the fact that im drawn to negativity which has a greater impact on me and my life. what im trying to say is, if i suddenly expose certain parts of my life, it means that i will be putting negativity on the table. what follows is me being drawn to the negativity and which quickly changes my mood and i will stay like that for a long time period. so. for you un-knowers out there, that's your answer.

@panmonsta Жыл бұрын

I mean... this is way too accurate..

@Stacy_SJA Жыл бұрын

I like being alone but with someone…. Just don’t get in my bubble when I’m in that mood ❤

@mariah_malik383 10 ай бұрын

As an INFP who’s not always known I was one I’ve always said I was a walking talking contradiction

@tobeforgottenisworsethande8995 Жыл бұрын

I'm horrible with directions and I always get lost and I used to be a truck driver

@seaships Жыл бұрын

I've come from another INFP personality video and it said mostly other things but I can say again that THIS IS ME. And congratulations, you literally started the video with answering my question. ;)

@afiffarakhan4992 Жыл бұрын

Dang, this video read our mind fellas INFPs :))

@saimasehar5429 Жыл бұрын

This channel is sooo underrated! Can’t wait to see it blow !!

@mariadonnathomas5068 Жыл бұрын

I... feel called out.

@azrielwm Жыл бұрын

Loved the video! Thank you for putting it out there ❤❤ But, let’s normalize keeping it a secret that we’re secretive! 😂 like come on now

@meenal3872 Жыл бұрын

ISTG THIS IS THE MOST RELATABLE INFP VIDEO. EVERYTHING ON POINT AAAH

@Bleepboop_killerducks Жыл бұрын

I'm soooo glad no one I know also knows about MBTI, Because I would be toast.

@qpf000 3 ай бұрын

I hide everything and completely isolate myself, it's just an internal storm made up of thoughts feelings, and actions of the divine geometric shapes of cause and effect the true beauty of chaos 🙃

@ayeshaahmed4205 Жыл бұрын

Each and every single line hit me like your other videos. It’s scary at this point 😭

@JessiV111 Жыл бұрын

Omg the private part lol 190%me 😂💯

@marianremedios5290 11 ай бұрын

This is 100% accurate. 😅😅😅😅😅

@SarahJacksonLV Жыл бұрын

Your videos help me to better understand myself...and it means so much! Thank you:)

@mostlydaydreaming2983 Жыл бұрын

There’s so much of me in this video, it’s scary. I’ve been found out :)

@shirleytankpm-guru202 Жыл бұрын

Resonates on every level. Tq☺️

@minnieme7096 Жыл бұрын

this is true, as an infp i'm very secretive that i didn't even answer my book(activity) i don't care if i got low grade. And actually i have to answer it now cuz i have no choice i have to reveal my self a lil bit.

@lanalvr2413 Жыл бұрын

this is my favorite channel. I relate to everything!!! I love you

@oxiras8898 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for the video!

@BartholomewHenryAllen Жыл бұрын

I'm INTP... But I can relate to all that! Except for empathy... No, I'm not mistyped. I've done my research. INTPs are not robots, we have just as much emotions as anyone else, we just have trouble understanding them.

@miona6815 Ай бұрын

❤Every viewpoint is so spot on！

@kkKk7_0 Жыл бұрын

sooo interesting thank you!!!💖 and your voice is really nice

@rehanfarooqui2071 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for all the effort put into this wonderful beautiful creative fantastic video :) u rock! As an INFP I affirm the accuracy of the points made!

@gyusbrainrot7444 Жыл бұрын

This is the most accurate representation to infps

@panela2345 Жыл бұрын

The only friendships I've made so far at school have been with teachers. As for my classmates... I just can't make friends with them. Either because of their immaturity, the way they act that doesn't match my way, it just doesn't work. The real friends I have I made online, over 5 years of friendship, and most of them I never even met in person given how far they live from my city. Despite that, these people are the nicest people I've ever met. 16 yo Brazilian INFP here btw

@celeste3495 Жыл бұрын

Oh hi 16 yo french infp here, I relate a lot to what you wrote

@user-lv6yv3od7q 2 ай бұрын

Amazing 💥

@ordinarygamer7466 Жыл бұрын

can relate a lot especially the 7th point

@Guillolife 2 ай бұрын

#7 is crazy accurate. I don't think I've seen it touched on in other videos I've seen.

@amampathak 8 ай бұрын

good stuff!

@loudly1925 8 ай бұрын

It's been a while sinse I felt so well seen. In a good way. So thank you

@haihai5293 Жыл бұрын

Very good video, accurate.

@lozzielou2910 2 ай бұрын

So far, all your infp vids I've watched are so spot on

@BADTATA_ Жыл бұрын

Can relate so much this video helped me see myself more clearly and don't think I am weird 🙃

@vatikajadly6718 Жыл бұрын

Everything is good but I NEED ATTENTION 😡

@celeste3495 Жыл бұрын

4:49 it hit me so hard, I have a lot of friends including an enfj, and I want to tell him everything that happened in my life since I was born to show him how I came to be the person I am today, but at the same time I don't because I don't want my friend to think there's nothing more to know about me, or open myself to him while we may be not friends anymore in the future

@Crystallillycat 6 күн бұрын

This hit me home way to much especially the first one

@joannechua8266 Жыл бұрын

Very very very true!

@renatayuuki5705 Жыл бұрын

Ugh the feeling very lonely but whenever someone that's not the right person is there I rather be alone then complain, makes me feel guilty like a a very picky and arrogant person it's just very hard for me to be comfortable with someone even if I want it

@darkblue186 Жыл бұрын

This is scarily accurate...

@Das644 Ай бұрын

I told this guy(im a guy, albeit bi) that i hv a platonic crush on him and hid response was, "i hear you but im not gay", that after being two months of agony and emotional turnoil because of this Was a major turn off. I saw myself being cold towards him, even more than i was when i liked him. I thought he did too but well, idk. Platonic and romantic crushes are so emotionally identical in my experience, though it was like that for every 😂😢😅