8 POSITIVE DISCIPLINE TECHNIQUES FOR TODDLERS | Mindful Motherhood | Ysis Lorenna
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Күн бұрынIn this video I'm sharing 8 positive discipline techniques that works for us with our two toddlers. My style of parenting is gentle, positive and firm; using these positive discipline techniques are very effective in our house to promote good behaviour and respect between us parents and our children. What do you think of positive discipline? Please share your thoughts below!
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@alisajennings4303 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your video. After reading several different parenting books and trying out different methods and techniques, my husband and I have found that the positive parenting approach has worked best for our son. There are three things that we do that seem to really avoid power struggles and battles. 1) when we want him to do something, we go over to him, get down at his level, put a gentle hand on his back and tell him. We also have him acknowledge us by saying “okay mom”, or “okay dad”. 2) instead of making our requests immediate - we will often use a timer for him to transition. So if he’s busy playing, we don’t just tell him to come eat dinner, or come put on his shoes because we’re going somewhere. We will go over and talk to him and say “in so many more minutes (usually somewhere between 1-5minutes) we’re going to do xyz” and then we’ll set the timer. This works wonders for him!! 3) we give him choices - sometimes we’ll say “would you like to run to your room or crawl like a bear”. Sometimes if he’s in a more resistant mood, we’ll say “do you want to walk, or do I need to pick you up”. He almost always will choose to walk on his own - but on occasion we will pick him up and carry him.
@snakesrule7067 2 жыл бұрын
I’m 11 and I can confirm that these are good strategies that at least would work on me. Good job!
@druzmash 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your tips .
@paulamartinez4979 2 жыл бұрын
@@druzmash thanks for the tips
@camillalemos7623 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing! 🎉😊
@loveliftlemons 2 жыл бұрын
When you’ve been raised in an environment of negativity, spankings, and even abuse, this is so hard to do but not impossible! Positive parenting / gentle parenting has truly changed our lives but Ive learned it takes practice and not to beat myself up. I’ve learned you get better everyday! We’re learning with our children and it’s a beautiful thing. ❤️
@chchwoman9960 2 жыл бұрын
A lot of people brought up with spanking would never do that to their own kids cos they know how awful it was for them
@cheapnchic5013 5 жыл бұрын
Skip to 3:24 for when she really starts talking about the techniques.
@Kiki-xx9hp 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@antoinettegatson-tealer7800 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much....I wish the speaker would get straight to the point, using Less unnecessary talking.
@daisyespineda2717 4 жыл бұрын
I was about to write the same comment. As a mum, when you look for tips, all you want is to get to the point without all the unnecessary talking and promotion. Thanks for letting me know when to skip. Much appreciated!
@aloysiustaborat7816 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@crackheadspams446 3 жыл бұрын
I love you
@henrysmama2874 2 жыл бұрын
One thing I practice is to always apologize for my mistakes. It lets my son know I am human too, and that what I did was wrong. It doesn't give me the excuse to always act poorly, but on the circumstances that I do, it's important to acknowledge that.
@bahliznit213 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been disciplining my son the negative way. I realized how BAD that was for me and for him. My husband talked to me about how he was raised as a child (got yelled at and spanked for not putting on shoes right away, for not knowing how to tie them, for causing his mom inconvenience and made to not talk to her until she forgave him... ect.) it made me want to cry. It causes more problems than solves! I love this new way of parenting and I love that I found a positive way. THANK YOU.
@snakesrule7067 2 жыл бұрын
That is true. I suffer from negative parenting from both my parents (my dad a bit better then my mom) it really does do more harm then good and I’ve cried so many times from it. Good job in changing from negative to positive!
@8896km Жыл бұрын
I went to bed defeated yesterday, this video has given me hope.
@meganhampton4668 4 жыл бұрын
I haven't done much research, but I've heard and it does make sense that being overly positive and really making a huge deal out of the small positive things they do, can lead to a need for that kind of overly positive reaction to all things they do. Possibly leading them to be people pleasers and always seek that same reaction. I saw another video where the woman was talking about how she will just say something simple like "good, thank you for doing ..... ." So the children know they are doing the right thing, they get that positive reaction so they want to do more positive things, but it's not overdoing it. I like that style. I do love your technique of ignoring the small negative things so they realize it's not worth doing. Just sharing opinions and thoughts, I'd love to hear yours!
@Ouranorable 4 жыл бұрын
My elder sister got praised by everyone (except mom, bless her heart) for literally everything as a kid, which eventually stopped. She's in her thirties now and you definitely notice the "void of compliments" driving everything she does. She behaves like a helpless victim all the time to get attention and needs constant reassurance. I was always the least favourite kid, but now I'M the favourite because I had to learn how to get by with nobody appreciating who I was, which made me extremely self-sufficient and happy being on my own. Guess I win?
@kadysousa5678 4 жыл бұрын
Ouranor I’m the opposite my parents were never available emotionally (dad worked a lot, mom was a psycho drunk) and now as an adult I just want everyone to be proud of me and actually notice what I do
@HowToBeAlone 4 жыл бұрын
This! I don't praise for basic tasks other than a quick, good job! Then I move on with it. I don't go over the top.
@larenaki5213 4 жыл бұрын
You're right. I follow Ashley who explains positive discipline a different way with tips and actual video of the act. Her channel is called Hapa Family and you can check her videos, positive discipline and the problem with praise. She has more videos about montessori at home too.
@Alyssa-pw1sx 3 жыл бұрын
Finally a parenting video with a comment section...!! How can anyone trust a video that’s meant to be informational without an open discussion?? Thank you!
@kabosekoele-onlinemathtuto277 3 жыл бұрын
Veryyy true!!
@snakesrule7067 2 жыл бұрын
I’m an 11 year old and I can confirm that these techniques would work on a child. Thanks for putting this out I believe no child should have to suffer from bad parenting.
@mypumpkinbaby 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing the remove shame from making mistake tip. That is such a great one to promote kids' confidence , move on and improve more.
@marciacarbo9047 3 жыл бұрын
I focus on their love language My daughter loves words of affirmation My son loves touch I noticed a huge difference
@abdullahboyer1806 3 жыл бұрын
I like when you said about being positive and staying positive because children can sense negativity and a good heart
@christieollewagen3179 3 жыл бұрын
Rrrrrrrrrrrrruu* *
@tobiass712 2 жыл бұрын
One of the things I started doing when I was nannying was I would use a 5 minute hourglass for timeout, that way they could watch the sand and calm themselves down, but also they know when the hourglass is up, they're time out is also up. And ill ask them "ok do you want to come join us again or do you need more glitter time" ( I had a sparkly hourglass). I think its rly important that kids don't associate time outs as shameful, but as a place to calm down and re-assess their emotions.
@doyouhearthepeoplesing2 Жыл бұрын
That isnt how you do time out you give a firm warning then if they do it again they get put on the naughty step and told why they are there they stay there for 1 min per age then you go back and tell them again why they are there then you make them say sorry
@SJ_Strum 5 жыл бұрын
Ah I absolutely LOVEd this ysis; we practise as much positive discipline as possible and you’re so right about language and being firm but gentle 🙌🏽 thanks for putting this together xxx
@YsisLorenna 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks SJ. I'm so into this at the moment; it's such an interesting topic to discuss! xx
@kabosekoele-onlinemathtuto277 3 жыл бұрын
This is beautiful. I love that you honestly said you are only human. We all make mistakes but we grow when we learn from them. We improve when we grow from them. We don't just sit on what we have done and continue in it. We fail, we learn, we grow, we move on.
@ericgirard-realtor9813 9 ай бұрын
This is much better than the "influencer" youtubers
@greggy4u 2 жыл бұрын
this is great! i've felt frustration and wanting to avoid my niece and nephew more and more as i've been babysitting them because of what i believe is insecurity in my ability to guide, lead and develop them despite knowing i want to do it using positivity. This helped me so much and I cant wait to practice these tips into habit; i'm excited to babysit next week! And i'll be watching more of your videos. Thank you
@justjessica7744 2 жыл бұрын
All of this is wonderful. Exactly what I need to do! ❤️
@jaidawnmom-grownmomwithgro9603 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, timeout should be about 1 minute per year of age and Yes, it must end. Using a little timer from the Dollar Store works just fine. Each child is different in the way they interpret the things we say and do, so it is important to read your children and discover how they are seeing things. I’ve had to make slight adjustments to some of these positive parenting tips to accommodate different children. I’ve raised 6 kids and share lots of lessons learned on my channel. I also love to hear from other moms because we learn so much from each other.
@stephaniedlesmana6730 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your advise and experience. Yes, mother is only a human, we make mistakes but always want the best for our children. And what's best from them only can happen when we focus on their positive behaviors! Thank you for the insight ❤️
@MrKmariah 5 жыл бұрын
Love this video! Thanks for sharing.
@gigglezillakids7379 3 жыл бұрын
These methods work! Positive and appropriate discipline reinforces the behaviors you want. Keep it up, Ysis!
@nataliyacenteno8521 4 жыл бұрын
I’m a stay at home mom and i still don’t feel like I spend enough time with my daughter.
@kittybegum8486 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheBlee123 me too.but what I do these days is to cook dishes which are less time consuming as Nd cleaning while my daughter is asleep,so that I get more free time to spend with her!
@thehoxtontrend 2 жыл бұрын
What great content thanks for this 👍
@whatsinagame4549 5 жыл бұрын
Absolutely amazing techniques.
@YsisLorenna 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching :)
@ascensioncano3606 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your tips. I like "Positive Language encourage positive behavior". Thanks
@ruchanargundkar999 5 жыл бұрын
Haha ! once again you cover the topic on my mind!! I was reading articles about this last night! Thanks..lots of love to you xx
@jamestracey5958 3 жыл бұрын
So very helpful and insightful and I love that you give examples of your current situation struggles etcetera this dad who snuck into the moms group is very grateful best of luck with your business
@MommyKnowsBest Жыл бұрын
Love these tips! Thanks for sharing! ❤❤❤
@liviasuassuna2620 5 жыл бұрын
Olá Ysis, tudo bem? Já sigo o seu canal há um tempo e adoro seus vídeos! Parabéns pelos tópicos que abrange e pela sua dedicação ao canal. Sua família é linda! Sou brasileira e moro em Londres há 14 anos e tenho uma menina (Agnes) de 14 meses! Bjs 😍
@KI-cc2lg 2 жыл бұрын
I once heard another way of looking at positive language that stuck with me.. and like you said, instead of saying "don't go in the leaving room with dirty shoes on" tell them what to do, because they literally don't know what you want them to do!! And now I just always tell them what to do instead of having to say no, don't do that. And that eliminates so much stress.
@momlifemagic 5 жыл бұрын
I love these tips ☺️
@nevanawolfe 3 жыл бұрын
This was Super helpful thank you so much!
@meganpeterson9067 3 жыл бұрын
Great techniques
@sarahpfeuffer1396 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making a video about these tips and helping me and other Moms think towards positive discipline! The thing I feel the need to mention is, I have heard that time outs can have a negative effect on the relationship with a parent in the long run. I have an almost 3 year old son on the Autistic Spectrum and I have struggled with knowing how to stop his negative behavior in a positive discipline way. I used to try putting him in time out but I began to feel that I was focusing on stopping the bad behavior rather than helping my son get to the root of the thing he was struggling with. So now when he throws things or screams, I know that he is getting over stimulated or frustrated. So now I am starting to say something like: "I see that you are frustrated, do you need help calming down?" If he continues the negative behavior then I say:"I see that you need help calming down, come with me to your room" often times when he is in his room he will calm down quickly and he is no longer over stimulated or focused on doing the negative behavior. Or sometimes if I'm feeling overwhelmed I might say: "Mommy is frustrated and I need some time alone, I need you to go to your room for a bit" and I take him to his room. I try to approach it as being understanding to him and what he is going through but not allowing the behavior to continue. I usually don't even have to shut the door to his room, but sometimes I need to help him get distracted with something that is calming for him. I'm not sure this approach would work for most kids and there may be better ways to do it but for now these have been life saver techniques for me.
@nadischannel1434 3 жыл бұрын
I’m an Aunt to an almost 3 year old on the spectrum as well and have the exact same concerns
@ladybuggs94 8 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing.
@nikhiladeshpande6123 5 жыл бұрын
I can relate so many things with you ysis,,,and at the sametime grabing so many positive stuff from watching your videos.....👍great content...keep going
@ngochan1327 5 жыл бұрын
I admire you so much
@laurenastudillo1945 2 жыл бұрын
These are great!
@kidspartygames7604 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the useful tips
@kyeiwaah 5 жыл бұрын
Love your style ❤️
@YsisLorenna 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊 ❤️
@dist321 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. I agree with all the points, except for the reward with a star or something for them to do what they are supposed to do. I believe that getting them to do something for the real reason and not because a star is a better way of discipline . For example, if they need to put the toys away they should know that doing so it is easier for them to find the toys later and avoid accidents like somebody step on them. It might take time for them to understand, but I we shouldn't underestimate their understanding skills, really.
@halfdozenmommichelle4164 3 жыл бұрын
thank you, going through alot with my kiddo, and need HELP, thanks again
@amylouise6387 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video - I love the detail you went into explaining everything. Something that I like doing is explaining how a behaviour makes me feel, for eg "I am feeling bit frustrated that I'm not brushing your teeth" (if my toddler won't let me brush them). She will give me a kiss and say sorry, and (usually) let me brush them. I try not to get too emotional, but I think it helps them to develop empathy to understand that we have feelings too x
@autumnhaywood1851 Жыл бұрын
This is great! You're doing great, Mom! And I really appreciate this video. Positive discipline is definitely hard! I have found that too much praise can sort of mirror the undesired effects.. when we praise them instead of their deeds (and/or do it too much) they end up doing xyz for the praise, not for the deed/outcome. This will lead to them not working as hard/smart/well on any given thing when they aren't going to get acknowledged for it. It can also lead to entitlement in some cases. Also it can confine how they see themselves. Example: *child paints a picture* .... "Wow, you did so good on that! You're such an artist, you're so good at art!" ... Alternative: "wow look at that artwork! I love the squiggly lines through the circle! How do you come up with that?" There's lots of recent studies on this! Either way, you're doing great and I really appreciate this video
@abeann8299 Жыл бұрын
Wounderful
@astridsandriesser4232 5 жыл бұрын
It's all about positivity.... But unfortunatly we are all surounded by a lot of negativity. My living Situation is like this at the Moment. The only thing that helps me is to practice gratitude for all the positive things in life... Like your fantasic Videos. Thanks and lol
@YsisLorenna 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your comment, Astrid. And I’m sorry to hear you are in that situation. I’m glad you’re able to use gratitude to help shift your mindset. Well done you! ❤️
@hallebay2743 4 жыл бұрын
Hi! Thank you for these videos.
@duongvuongviet3582 3 жыл бұрын
My three year old could read just like a grade 1 pupil and my 5 year old reads like a grade two to 3 student after 4 months. The outcomes truly surpassed my anticipations. I taught my children to read with the aid of this amazing reading guide *4ChildrenReading. Com* It is so well-organized that any kid can learn to read with it.
@LVCoffeeLVer 5 жыл бұрын
This was great. So helpful. You must be the most patient mother
@YsisLorenna 5 жыл бұрын
LouisVuittonCoffeeLver I am most definitely not, but I do try 😊 Thank you for watching! Xx
@LVCoffeeLVer 5 жыл бұрын
Ysis Lorenna well you gave me a new way to try and I thank you for that. 🥰My youngest has been testing me in the hardest ways. I always enjoy your videos! Thank you.
@YsisLorenna 5 жыл бұрын
That’s so lovely to hear. Sending you hugs and lots of patience with the little one 😊 x
@onepercentruleeveryday 3 жыл бұрын
practiced discipline with patience becomes so powerful that our efforts starts shining light upon the results which were earlier hard to even see!:)
@fabresis 2 жыл бұрын
I think that give a gold medal for good behavior will encourage kids to do sth for rewarding and not for understanding the reason behind the action.
@Sivazhere Жыл бұрын
Great
@be4220 3 жыл бұрын
Hi I like your channel you seem really genuine I really struggle with what to do with my little one, like you said you were on the floor all day with her what do you actually do my little one is 21 months there’s only so much to play and how do you get you know, life accomplished house laundry etc? Thanks so much for any help you may have on this. thanks so much for your channel!!
@mohammadiqmar993 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing. Appreciate it. Realized that my parenting methods are wrong and selfish. Will try your suggestion. Thank you.
@kiddogames1501 3 жыл бұрын
What i need now
@arienuz 5 жыл бұрын
Nice video! Thnks! Can you make a video About how not let the toddler over rule the mom emotional or how to stay a happy mom or how not to be a controle freak to be a perfect mom or how not to feel guilty in parenting ways. Xx from Amsterdam
@YsisLorenna 5 жыл бұрын
I certainly can, Lisha. I’m not sure I’ll be able to help loads but I can certainly speak from experience ❤️ xx
@arienuz 5 жыл бұрын
Thnks would love to here your experience!!
@hannahb5219 5 жыл бұрын
I am currently really hurt by a friend's comment's to my partner and I about discipline. We have a blended family, and so does she, so I value her understanding in that respect. However, she went so far as to say because the police and DCF ENCOURAGE corporal punishment, that there is nothing wrong with it or with yelling at your kid. My heart is just broken... she is a family friend who thinks my partner and I are "woosies". She said there is nothing wrong with our child's biological mother hitting her. I know I shouldn't care.. she is her own person. It just makes me feel alone :( And I especially feel so hurt for my step daughter.
@EnjerjenPoti 3 жыл бұрын
Im not even a mom yet im watching this. I have younger brothers and I am afraid my way of teaching them discipline will end up like how my mom did it with me when I was young.
@user-tr3jw1df6q 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@playzoofun8591 2 жыл бұрын
It's hard to find the right balance between loving patience and constructive firmness, you know?
@parentingbeyondbehaviours6382 2 жыл бұрын
We totally agree with that ! It something we need to train ourselves to do.
@Sky-ms2us Жыл бұрын
as a 17yo, I'd love if my parents did that and, if I do have any children, I'll do that
@beahsmith6768 5 жыл бұрын
This video is amazing. Thank you so much for making this. My husband and I are trying to figure out how we are going to approach our son who is 2 when it comes to his behavior. We are lost honestly so this was so helpful!
@kabosekoele-onlinemathtuto277 3 жыл бұрын
Well the fact that you are seeking help is an indication that you are loving parents. Keep doing good, things will improve.
@parentingbeyondbehaviours6382 2 жыл бұрын
Has anyone experienced their two year old joy wanting to sit in the thinking area ? How did you get them to stay there ?
@doyouhearthepeoplesing2 Жыл бұрын
You keep putting them back with no talking to them
@LittleGERMZ 3 жыл бұрын
I subscribed at 2 and 3 year old
@adriennejenkins508 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely! I love "The Secret"!!!
@ramya60796 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the useful information. Can you make a video on how to work on building the understanding of a toddler and reducing tantrums? My 2.5 year old has a hard time understanding me or obeying me if I set any rules.
@doyouhearthepeoplesing2 Жыл бұрын
Naughty step works wonders
@chanchalgupta88 4 жыл бұрын
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@lika3113 4 жыл бұрын
Leia o livro disciplina positiva de Jane Nelsen... tem em inglês. Vs vai aprender muito sobre disciplina positiva
@sweetcindy3020 3 жыл бұрын
Hi... Thank you for sharing your positive discipline techniques... I love it... God bless...
@reshmasayooj3313 4 жыл бұрын
👍👍
@tannyhasan787 2 жыл бұрын
*GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY'S AND YOUR TEAM😊,ALLAH SAVE ALL PEOPLE'S😷*
@PetiteStyleBeauty 5 жыл бұрын
How do you cope with your husband defining what to do with kids? I mean do you both talk every day and agree on points about kids discipline both of you need to respect?
@stacey738 4 жыл бұрын
My husband and I discuss our strategy on how we are going to handle different situations as they arise. So usually it's our daughter goes through phases where she pushes specific boundaries with us, like throwing food on the floor ("well obviously you're done with your food" *takes food away*), not wanting to bath ("I know you don't want to bath, but being clean is important, why don't you just stand in the bath instead?", *places in bath*). So as things come up we kinda deal with 'categories' of situations where it's the same 'type' of misbehaviour, and we discuss opinions on how to handle that type. So sometimes we don't always discuss every little thing (because we've delt with that type before), but if something new comes up then we will discuss. I think like once a week at least? I think another thing is to also discuss in general what is our goal for parenting? Like what is the aim? eg: Are we aiming for them to be happy? respectful? obedient? polite? smart? It may seem obvious (everyone wants a happy polite kid), but you have to choose in the moment where is the priority for your parenting? What is the emphasis? For us, it is for her to be (1) physically safe (obviously), (2) her to feel connected to us and part of this home, and (3) her feel respected as a human being. Notice that these goals have nothing to do with her actions and everything to do with ours. This is because her behaviours should not determine her value in this home,, and she is going to be moulded by the environment she is in, and how she sees us behave, much much more than anything we say or any punishments she receives. These goals *vastly* change the way parenting is done. For us, spanking violates #2, which is why we would never spank our child. But some people don't have these priorities, or haven't thought about them (unfortunately), and their strategies are vastly different.
@duongvuongviet3582 3 жыл бұрын
12 months had already passed since we used this specific program, a reading manual. The reading knowledge of my very own girl has continually improved. Right now, she is now able to read a few textbooks. Not just that, she is a superb speller also. What’s even more exciting is she can writes sentences today. Research about this reading book on Google. The reading guide’s name is *4ChildrenReading. Com*
@christine3962 5 жыл бұрын
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@YsisLorenna 5 жыл бұрын
❤️🥰❤️
@misspriss5589 4 жыл бұрын
Your name is so pretty
@claudiag.5163 4 жыл бұрын
What do you recommend for children with mild autism and ADHD? My son is 8 yrs old and is starting to misbehave more to the point that he becomes defiant with me.
@youngski249 2 жыл бұрын
give him space
@doyouhearthepeoplesing2 Жыл бұрын
1 there is ABSOLUTLEY no such thing as mild autism and 2 medicate your kid
@cheyennegordon1328 4 жыл бұрын
I have an almost 2 year old son and he just is not phased at all by diciplin unless you pop his hand or something and even then he screams at the top of his lungs until hes babied. He has such a hardcore attitude at such a young age and i dont know what to do at this point and i really do love this technique, but i am afraid he wont respond to it at all. any advise? he already hits back when mommy tells him no and he will yell in anger and get in your face. if anyone has any advise it would be much appreciated.
@afrprincess07 3 жыл бұрын
This sounds EXACTLY like my son!! We put him in time outs, gentle taps, talking etc etc, n nothing phases him!! So here i am researching new ways to go about things bc i was just at my brothers house and my son was acting a FOOL. I’m sure they think we don’t know what we’re doing 😩Anyways, not giving up hope!
@TheSonicDeviant 3 жыл бұрын
Great tips and good advice, however I feel it’s only really possible to pull all this off if you are in a secure place in life with lots of support around you. We’re broke in London with only one wage coming in and lots of debt going out and no family support around so things are very stressful for us. I find myself yelling at my 18 month old a lot and feeling so guilty for it. But she is happy and very loved so I feel it more than balances out. Plus she’s a bit wild so needs regular discipline and she does seem to often respond well to a raised voice.
@alistairproductions 3 жыл бұрын
There’s not even good or bad behavior. There’s just behavior that works better than others for whatever the goal is
@kabosekoele-onlinemathtuto277 3 жыл бұрын
Truth.
@madhumadhav4019 5 жыл бұрын
Hai ysis now you r so cute than ever , 😘 from india
@hoangngoclien9748 3 жыл бұрын
I began training my boy to learn to read at 14 months. Despite the fact that I am uncertain concerning teaching my son how to read at 14 months, I made a decision to do it right and also made use of this reading tip. He is able now read through a whole book without my assistance at two years and four months. . Get this guide by Google. The program’s name is *4ChildrenReading. Com*
@yasuke4593 Жыл бұрын
Can this technique fail even when practiced on perfection?
@Libby78 2 жыл бұрын
Rewards and sending children to time out are actually strongly discouraged in Positive Discipline.
@MissAnning 3 жыл бұрын
Hi ms, your channel is very informative, i hope one day i can be collab with you:))
@sanchezwifey6036 3 жыл бұрын
Hello, on your Star example, some might see this as bribing. For adults at work its an "incentive." EX "If you turn in your work early and are finished with everything you can leave early for the day" Incentive! INCENTIVE: "a thing that motivates or encourages one to do something." BRIBE: "persuade (someone) to act in one's favor" so very similar and I think often confused! I will remove naughty from my communication and hope to see the difference.
@samahkatanani9086 3 жыл бұрын
Good points you have but i dont agree with the time out point i consider it as a punishment and punishment is not potitive disciple in my opinion
@Hannah-nc7cb 4 жыл бұрын
What about if they do something like rolling toilet paper and when I say no and they aren’t getting it when I say no there has to be a consequence if he doesn’t get it acting up if I say “no” you just marked on the walls he has to see that is wrong Standing in the corner a child has to see that their is consequences for certain behaviors Otherwise they will think I can do what I want and rob a bank and there isn’t consequences cause I never was taught there was consequences the positive disciplines are confusing time out isn’t working
@vityamv 2 жыл бұрын
video starts at 2:16
@jasminejojo9447 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your tips! This is really going to help me
@rraboo123 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations Beautiful 🥳
@nurseystn9321 5 жыл бұрын
My son is 18 months old and he’s my only child. He keeps slapping me at the moment and it’s making me so so sad and so ashamed especially if I’m out in public/at play groups. Do you have any age appropriate recommendations to tackle this? I feel this bad behaviour is a reflection on me as a parent which is so upsetting because i try so hard xx
@YsisLorenna 5 жыл бұрын
Oh that’s really hard. I’ve been there before. Luckily for us it was just a phase; it was all about pushing the boundaries and understanding what was ok and not ok. We stayed firm in saying that’s not nice and it worked. My only tip, apart from give it time, is to distract him when it’s happening. Use that action to play with him and tickle him. Stop his hand mid air and start to dance. Just do anything to stop him getting that negative attention off you. Sending you lots of love and patience ❤️ x
@nurseystn9321 5 жыл бұрын
Xxx
@sweetnessp8756 5 жыл бұрын
This happened to me for a short period. When it happened I didn’t make myself available to him. Such as, if we were playing and he did that I would say “that really hurt my feelings and it wasn’t nice. I need a break. When you’re ready to be nice we can play.” I would stop what we were doing and let him cry it out if he had to. It took consistency and patience but it stopped. Good luck.
@johnynoway9127 2 жыл бұрын
starts at 3:00
@rosechoix Жыл бұрын
My 19 month old acts like she's trying to get back in my womb! 😭
@hannasamiya3560 5 жыл бұрын
I recommend you the positive parenting Videos bis dr. Paul. Eg giving two options with you are okay with and one you control. You can come on Tour feet or mine sweety 😂
@HealthGeekMum 2 жыл бұрын
It is interesting video, but I don't think some of those techniques align with positive discipline. At least not the way I understand it or been expose to it. For example rewards in form of stars or so while I understand they can be helpful in short term they create the need for external motivation to do something, and eventually that stops working. I see doing things around home more as a being part of the family, although without forcing of course. Toddlers naturally want to be tidy and help around, untill they outgrow that stage. But I do acknowledge that my view on some of mentioned techniques might be different as we try to follow also Montessori philosophy and attachment parenting/natural parenting.
@michaelmaxfield3744 2 жыл бұрын
What are some skills to teach toddlers? Is it too much for your's to take out the trash?
@francysgil3569 3 жыл бұрын
Not certain about the points made but ,if anyone else needs to find out about how to talk to toddlers try Loctavan Teaching Toddler Strategy ( search on google ) ? Ive heard some super things about it and my mate got amazing results with it.
@talihaer 4 жыл бұрын
My girl would ready to flight me and always yell at me.
@itsmehh1621 5 жыл бұрын
Damn i need to try being more with my baby. Im.so tired of him being attached
@YsisLorenna 5 жыл бұрын
Its Mehh It’s hard isn’t it? I didn’t think I wasn’t spending enough time with her, but she needed the right kind of quality time. It has made such a difference! Xx
@itsmehh1621 5 жыл бұрын
@@YsisLorenna it is!! Specially to manage cooking cleaning and giving them attention! Thanks for the reply btw xoxo 😘
@YsisLorenna 5 жыл бұрын
It really is a juggling act. Some days are easier than others, but in the hard days I have to remember: this too shall pass 💛
@antoamest639 3 жыл бұрын
interesting points ,if anyone else wants to learn about how to discipline toddlers try Loctavan Teaching Toddler Strategy (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some amazing things about it and my mate got cool success with it.
@user-gc3yb7fv1q 3 ай бұрын
I'm a father trying to discipline my toddler but I'm going to watch other videos, because this uses the term "MOTHERHOOD", instead of "PARENTHOOD".
@stephaniehazen1352 2 жыл бұрын
You wanna be more in the moment? Get out from behind your phone 🤷♀️
@ceciliachavez4668 2 жыл бұрын
This techniques don't sound like positive discipline that is written about by Jane Nelsen
@digitalpatricia6125 Жыл бұрын
She shouldn’t suffer? I think this world seriously needs a mindset change. If you have more than one child the parent should take responsibility for the consequences and not be entitled to say how a child should feel or behave. The problem is that people think you can have 2,3,4 kids and then blame them for whatever behaviour. This world is not designed for parents to go and make as many children THEY want. Be happy if you even have one! Because the fact is that you actually do not have the capacity to raise more than one, maximum two. There are enough children in this world without parents and who are starving. So people! Change your mindset, get out of your heads and face the truth. This bubble everyone is living about having a family life has seriously made people irrealistic and ignorant. Parents, I you don’t have the capacity then do not invite more suffering. It takes communication skills, compassion and LOVE to raise a child! Not words like, naughty, needy, clingy. Then don’t have them!
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