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→Here are the mindsets and practical + actionable tips I followed that really helped me enjoy being alone, which is especially important now that it’s easy to feel lonely while in self isolation or quarantine. I hope this video helps you to deal with loneliness and instead appreciate your own company, find joy and peace in solitude, and learn to love being on your own (or being single!). There’s a difference from being alone and being lonely, and I hope you see solitude an opportunity to embark on your personal growth journey and fall in love with yourself.
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I respect your time so I usually do timestamps :)
0:00 Welcome back!
0:46 tip #1
1:37 tip #2
→ 2:33 do it alone!
3:43 tip #3
4:28 tip #4
→ 5:00 it helps me too! (*my fav part of the vid)
7:57 tip #5
9:23 tip #6
9:57 tip #7
10:34 tip #8
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MY VIDEOS:
On being alone -
→ How I learnt to be happy single (and YOU CAN TOO) ✨ | tips on overcoming heartbreak & be contented alone
• How I learnt to be hap...
→ How I learnt to love being alone (and YOU CAN TOO) ✨
• How I learnt to love b...
→ Day in a life quarantined ALONE | thoughts on living with gratitude
• Day in a life quaranti...
On quitting social media:
Quitting Instagram Changed My Life | why I did it & lessons learnt
• Quitting Instagram Cha...
On Yale:
• notes from a yale senior
🌿 w h a t i u s e 🌿
📓. The best bullet journal I’ve personally used -
*Scrivwell Dotted A5 Hardcover Notebook - 208 pages
amzn.to/35EthrH
(thick pages, great quality, and this is the cheapest I could find - I literally went on Amazon and calculated the cost of each journal / page!)
📓. You can also check out *this one for fewer pages - amzn.to/2Dosj8y
*My favourite stationery for journaling:
✏️. Zebra Midliners (Highlighters) - amzn.to/3jWqgJV
✏️. Black Copic Markers - amzn.to/3gsKDfm
✏️. Pilot Juice Gel Ink Ballpoint Pens - amzn.to/3jWqZL9
✏️. Whatever pens I have lying around :)
*Filming Gear (some people have asked, so here’s what I use):
📷 Canon G7X Mark ii - amzn.to/3ghRQiy
📷 UBeesize Tripod (Mini) - amzn.to/3fiuiJ5
📷 Manfrotto Tripod (Larger) - amzn.to/313prq1 (might not be the best - I suggest to research more!)
📷 I edit using Final Cut Pro, but you honestly don't need it if you have a Mac - iMovie works fantastic too!
*as an Amazon Associate I earn a small percentage from any purchases made using those links, at no extra cost to you. I only promote products that I have personally used and truly feel deliver value to you! Feel free to use those links to support me, or not, but either way I appreciate you, thank you for watching x
🌿 DEALING W NEGATIVE SELF-TALK/THOUGHTS? 🌿
Some videos that might help
The School of Life -
How to be a friend to yourself
• How to be a Friend to ...
Self compassion
• Self Compassion
Lavendaire -
How to Heal Your Emotional Trauma & Past Wounds | Healing Workshop 💖
• How to Heal Your Emoti...
How to stop being negative playlist
• HOW TO STOP BEING NEGA...
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(Seems ironic to have this here, but I just made this new account w the sole purpose of connecting w you guys! I intend to keep scrolling to a minimum ☺️ I’m very contented w my current relationship w social media and intend to keep it that way!)
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🌿 a b o u t m e 🌿
Hello hello, I’m Vic, a Singaporean at Yale sharing my thoughts with other fellow humans on self-care and personal growth. Come with me as we explore what finding balance, staying inspired, and living a meaningful and fulfilling life means to us x
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