If you liked this video, you might like this one I made on how to be happy & single: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/odmBobGg2s-npH0.html ! Hope to see y'all over there too x
@benettemabel48433 жыл бұрын
Thanks Alot
@Papito_ElBozo3 жыл бұрын
Fun Fact: This wasnt in your recommendations, you searched this.
@jocelynarias20843 жыл бұрын
Yep
@biankasimransinghaullakh57583 жыл бұрын
so true !!
@kamiturtle84733 жыл бұрын
Yh skl back again 😐
@jesusisthewaythetruth2743 жыл бұрын
Nope, recommended T_T
@shamamayebreo54613 жыл бұрын
I searched it too.
@nooriya22703 жыл бұрын
I’m the one who is just surrounded by fake people so I realised it’s better to be alone
@Mike-ul7of3 жыл бұрын
It’s a hard pill to swallow, but once you do oh man is it liberating.
@moose69803 жыл бұрын
Me too ❤️
@emuhlees23 жыл бұрын
Same!
@liz_213 жыл бұрын
@@Mike-ul7of i hope so. It's tough no cap
@ArkabrataDattaRoyChowdhury113 жыл бұрын
Same here. been avoiding people for a month or two and I've not felt better tbh
@ThatSunflowerGenasi3 жыл бұрын
I deleted my social media apps since August of last year and I’d prefer not to turn back. I love the person I’m getting to know without social media.
@ImranKhan-tj3dr2 жыл бұрын
Hi 🌷🌷❤❤❤❤
@kararowley132 жыл бұрын
That’s amazing 💖
@ImranKhan-tj3dr2 жыл бұрын
@@kararowley13 Hi how are you beauti queen 👑👧❤😍queen😍❤👧👑
@alezandradavila25812 жыл бұрын
I don’t carw
@ren95313 жыл бұрын
I have never had real friends and people still tell me that the reason for this is that I'm always alone, but what they don't know is that loneliness helped me learn three languages and I'm about to learn my fourth language, it helped me learn how to draw, sing, love to read and play Guitar and piano and create animated videos. in my opinion being alone , it's a gateway to learn more about yourself and your abilities>.thank you so much for the video you're awesome:)
@victorialim3 жыл бұрын
I love that!! you're obviously really taking full advantage of life and you're living proof that being alone doesn't mean you're not living a great one :)
@tausifreza12803 жыл бұрын
Kinda same story as me😊
@maydelosh2 жыл бұрын
I feel that my alone time is a luxury gift, because I have a very busy career and many people/friends to interact with during the day. At night, I just want to spend time with myself, enjoy my own company, and learn some new things, just like you. Thank you for your thoughts!
@mumtahinamumu3859 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful encouraging words for an alone person, thank you.
@sariya6334 Жыл бұрын
Can you please share with me how you learn this things? 🥺 Actually i'm a teenager.i'm 16 but i don’t have no friends.In high school all of my friends are fake and no one actually care about me and never helped me when i was in trouble.That things really broke my heart. I was in depressed when i was in my high school.but now i accept that Truth. If i have no friends. I will live alone and be happy. But still some things make me feel insecure and anxieties when i saw people have friends, they enjoyed a lot. Hangout with them etc. Please help me🥺 How you started and after how many days you learn this? I want be truly happy and make myself better🙁 and never want to feel anxiety after watching peoples friends and lifestyle🙁
@robertschofield58653 жыл бұрын
I was in the middle of having a breakdown about my life, and I put this video on. Thank you. Thank you so much. You are absolutely right about social media presenting people's best selves and that it's probably better to have a break from this kind of influence for a while.
@victorialim3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching and I hope you’re doing okay! It’s definitely a journey :) all the best on yours x
@zazzles66611 ай бұрын
I'm really curious as to how you're doing now!?
@csharp572 жыл бұрын
All I want is that one person to love that understands I need space. I meet these people who I would love to date, but then I quickly realize it won't work because they need me everyday. There is someone.... I really like her energy. But I'm moving soon. I don't want to fall for her and then miss her. I need to do the next phase of my life alone. Be well everybody 🌹
@JeriDro4 жыл бұрын
it's funny sometimes I get lonely but then I remember what its like being around people and I feel better. we all want those perfect people around us but sadly they don't exist. I'm almost 31 and I have no friend and never been in a relationship. Good people are hard to find.
@victorialim4 жыл бұрын
Ahhh well there are no perfect people but we definitely can find good ones!
@dishadhouliyan51903 жыл бұрын
I feel this
@maieaksen11283 жыл бұрын
There is no perfect people or person, even you yourself is not perfect. I don't mean you, you. Social skill is also necessary as much as learning to be alone.
@Mike-ul7of3 жыл бұрын
A good significant other is worth breaking the loneliness. Especially one that respects your desire to be alone at times. Whatever makes you happy
@jokesonyou2223 жыл бұрын
you just reminded me why it’s okay to be because i’d rather be in my own company then with someone who is fake thank you
@lonelaura15123 жыл бұрын
In 2020 my mental health worsened and I started relying on other people more and more. It recently hit me that my only happiness comes from talking and hanging out with my friends. I know I found the right people but I also know that I am dependent on them which I don't want to be. I can't even fall asleep without listening to something to distract myself because I really don't like being alone. So yesterday I decided I will take my first ever social media break and also some time away from my friends just so I can learn to appreciate time by myself. I stumbled upon your video and it really helped me be hopeful about being able to do this instead of being scared. thank you
@victorialim3 жыл бұрын
that's a great first step dear! all the best, you can do it :)
@viki6550 Жыл бұрын
I had a close friend and she broke our friendship one year ago, but now I feel better I started focusing on myself and I feel better 😊💗
@reisamiah4623 жыл бұрын
i feel like i should get used to being alone, since i feel like im becoming somewhat toxic and really attached to people, i dont want to hurt them so im going to try and isolate from my friends and just enjoy my own company and just improved myself, ive tried doing this before, but as i said, im easily attached and i get scared that i'll be forgotten. this helped a lot, thank you
@reisamiah4622 жыл бұрын
@Chertsey Nermal hey :)) im doing much better now i believe and im out of that rabbit hole. it was defo lockdown which made me feel isolated and depressed, with too many moments of self reflection to the point where you overthink everything. one thing that helped was that i started journaling and writing down any negative thoughts i had, having them written on paper made me realise how toxic some of it was, but i learnt not to beat myself up since we're human and can never be perfect, acknowledging my thoughts helped with addressing my toxicity, i tried getting into the habit of journaling about good and happy things as well, also just doing things that make you happy such as painting, watching a show, etc.
@reisamiah4622 жыл бұрын
@Chertsey Nermal im much more used to being in my own company now :) i dont feel so reliant on others, i think what was different back then, and now, is that now i realise that there will be someone there for me even when i think there wont be
@stxrrjoy3 жыл бұрын
I really needed to hear this today :) I often feel as if I'm misunderstood by the world, but I'm starting to realize that I don't need to be understood. I do have close friends, yes, but I'm also realizing that I'm the only person who will ever truly know myself more than anyone else. being alone is something I still struggle with but this video made see that it doesn't have to be a negative thing!
@victorialim3 жыл бұрын
proud of you x
@mack43923 жыл бұрын
This brought so much peace to my mind, I was spiralling 10 minutes ago but this perfectly broke down the steps for me
@victorialim3 жыл бұрын
I’m glad it helped! It’s a process, but I hope you feel better, and give yourself the time to learn how to enjoy your own company :)
@daniyaalali39383 жыл бұрын
i really needed this video. been feeling lonely and isolated lately. ive noticed instagram is a major trigger for me so i decided to delete the app (again) and to work on myself and be my own bestfriend
@victorialim3 жыл бұрын
Proud of you!
@fatimahussain75623 жыл бұрын
Agreed, I’m way too dependant on other people :,) I’d like to work on myself too
@nicky29293 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love this video! As a student in university who just finished their first year without having the chance to make new friends because of online school, it was really difficult for me to deal with FOMO especially when I saw my other classmates living in dorms having fun on Instagram and I could not help but think of how lonely I was. It wasn't until I realize being alone isn't so bad after all. Yes, I may not be going to parties and hanging out with friends every day, but I still got a few people that I can trust and talk to. I 100% agree with your point that the right people will come when it's meant to be. Having that kind of mindset is so helpful and will get you a long way in life. ❤️
@victorialim3 жыл бұрын
Proud of you for getting through online classes (hate that bs zzzz) and for having such a healthy mindset about things :) all the best for the next three years - things will look up!
@cosmicfxx2 жыл бұрын
Not looking for approval. Or someone to rely on. Want to share and connect with someone. The problem with being alone is for those who don’t have family, friends or loved ones. Too much aloneness is not healthy! This is the issue everyone bypasses when addressing this issue! It’s not easy making friends or gaining family for many
@victorialim2 жыл бұрын
You’re right!
@nananauli82924 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing :) you make me realize I'm not the one who is feeling this way. and i should be content with myself and not dependent with friends
@MintfulLife4 жыл бұрын
Truly resonated with this one ❤ I also didn't belong to a particular group of friends and I've just recently started loving my own company. That's when I started my own channel to share my own journey towards health and self-love. So lovely to have come across a beautiful soul as you :)
@victorialim4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching love! 💕
@1985LISS2 жыл бұрын
I'm happier to live alone. I have God and although he is not someone physically around I have someone to talk to without having someone back to shout at me for not doing things their way or doing it at all. or have any form of negative feedback. If I live alone I can make my own plans feel the way I feel and certainly not negative to do my own thing and not worry of others. Go out meet a friend twice a week or do something to leave my environment other than going for a walk. Your advice is perfect. Thank you for sharing that.
@victorialim2 жыл бұрын
You’re inspiring - many people take a long time to get to your level of peace. Great job ✨😌
@universe90493 жыл бұрын
Deleting social media apps is the best thing i did btw thank you so much❤ and lots of love to you ❤❤ #loveyourself ❤🌈🌻
@ahopesworld3 жыл бұрын
Really needed this video!! Im someone who has constantly felt the need for validation and acceptance in group of people. Since going to college, I’ve been often by myself and without a ton of people to lean on. This video has helped a ton, still learning how to really embrace riding solo ❤️❤️ and enjoying it!! Patience is key, there’s still some lows but I’ve come a long way!! Have a beautiful day :))
@victorialim3 жыл бұрын
yay! it's a journey but sounds like you're taking it in your stride :) proud of you dear!!
@parisdarlington8463 жыл бұрын
I think ill be watching this video more because im really struggling lowkey lol
@tonyjones3453 жыл бұрын
Remember stay strong love yourself from within ❤ you matter....
@jj-uj7qy3 жыл бұрын
This was amazing, I want to try this but I have the fear of being alone somewhere like a café and other people with their friends especially that I'm only 15 and I used to go out with someone but I like to be alone any advice?
@victorialim3 жыл бұрын
ask yourself: why do you feel being alone? is it the fear of judgement? If it is, I promise, no one is looking at you, because everyone is too busy their own thing! and if it helps, maybe go to a cafe where you know you won't meet anyone you know to try! I think it always starts out feeling a bit uncomfortable, but the more you do it, the more natural it feels. after a while, it will feel like second nature :) speaking from experience! all the best :)
@spsamp3 жыл бұрын
When I was your age I would frequently go out to eat by myself. Just a local McDonalds but I still sat by myself and enjoyed my meal. You have to love yourself enough not to care about others around you. Forty years later, what did it matter? Who even remembers seeing me eating by myself? No one. Just do it and enjoy your own company. You won't regret it.
@DakodaS2463 жыл бұрын
Make sure the activities you do alone are truly enjoyable for you. If they are something you only find partial enjoyment with then you will be less motivated to go and will back out more often. Even when the activity you are doing is alone it takes a lot of motivation and dedication to yourself that you want to go do the activity despite how uncomfortable or awkward you may feel. It gets more natural over time and you will find more things your interested in doing that you realise if you do it with others it actually makes you upset because if you were alone you wouldnt have to compromise on things you didnt want to compromise on and felt you had to so you could enjoy the person being there. With that in mind though, everything has a balance. Compromise in a relationship is healthy.
@fayyyylelelelle90893 жыл бұрын
Three months ago I found out about the program called Forwago. It is amazing how this program helped me to change my perspective and taught me to think more positively and to be more grateful.
@fortminorproject3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this . I hate being alone especially while single or not having many friends especially being shy . I feel like I mainly had a lot aquantinces . I’am slowly enjoying being a lone with out being needy or wanting to talk to someone all the time and want to know what everyone is doing .
@lysairakoze52493 жыл бұрын
Totally normal you be in room full of people and still feel alone. Which is oke and totally normal. Having a brighter destiny comes with cost of that as I’m hearing your story. Totally similar of here.☺️
@ns529 Жыл бұрын
I decided to take a social media break & focus on myself more. I won’t lie, it becomes a habit opening up the apps & I found myself instinctively reaching for the phone when bored. 2 months later & I’ve had time to learn new habits, read more & enjoy the outdoors. Even forgot my phone at home one day when I went to work 😂 I think we all need to disconnect sometimes to be able to reconnect with ourselves.
@mamdouhsaad16793 жыл бұрын
I can relate to that, I like being alone, I don't like people in general, not necessarily because they are bad, I just find them very predictable, shallow, and borining
@victorialim3 жыл бұрын
Time to find yourself a new crowd 😄
@natasha7743 жыл бұрын
Thank you so so much for this. I have recently been put in a situation where I have had to be alone all of the time, and its just like you said. I feel unwanted and unloved. I want to get over this so much. I've decided the first step is to cut off social media and go from there
@victorialim3 жыл бұрын
Proud of you Natasha! you can do it, I hope you learn to learn being on your own x
@zarina92362 жыл бұрын
first of all sorry for my bad english i just wanted to thank you for all the unique videos you make. I've been feeling pretty lonely these past weeks my friends stopped looking for me. the feeling of loneliness was terrible, but then I found your channel. you helped me a lot and motivated me and showed me that being alone is not a bad thing. thank you so much❤
@A_n_n_a_me2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I have had trouble with friendships from my childhood. I can see why. I've always been independent and I'm meant to be that way. Thank you for helping me realise that. ❤️
@victoriamalakutsko4142 жыл бұрын
I'm going trough break up, and this video made me realize that I was the wrong person for someone and they chose to be alone instead of being with me. I'm so miserable.
@humanchildofgod31263 жыл бұрын
Not being CODEPENDENT has been my best attribute!! I don’t do Facebook or any social media. I don’t like the word “alone”, I prefer “SOLO”! Life is fabulous when you know that you control your life. ZERO DRAMA!
@victorialim3 жыл бұрын
Love this 🤩
@ragsnclothb24513 жыл бұрын
im afraid to be seen alone. i have a small amount of friends but since quarantine, i wasn’t ever able to hang out with them so they all hung out but me. now i feel left out and unwanted. i know it’s better to be alone than to be left out in a friend group but i don’t want to be alone. idk
@zoezhou3 жыл бұрын
Being alone just helps me to learn how to be my own guidance and not rely on other people. Ofc we do need help from others however it's just not a good habit of doing that. You should always first try it by yourself. Everything you learn is yours. No one can take the wisdom you got from you. And btw... I love your voice! So calming :D 🌸❤️
@victorialim3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Zoe x glad you enjoyed :)
@zaakuuroo3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I feel like I'm not enough for anyone because my old friends are leaving me or ignoring me lmao. And this pandemic makes the thing worse. I can't leave my house and I'm a mess talking to strangers on internet. Oh well, your video made me feel hopeful again. Maybe I should use this time to improve and heal myself. Thanks
@victorialim3 жыл бұрын
I know it can be hard :( it's okay to feel sad, but remember that you ARE enough and that this time at home can also be seen as an opportunity for you to rediscover yourself / your interests / try new things :) you can and will get out of this! big hugs x
@someone2773 Жыл бұрын
i am still in high school planning to study far away abroad. so, it was really difficult and scary for me to know that very soon i will have to be completely by myself since just like you I never belonged in one clique. I came here from your video on enjoying your own company and this really gave me hope that i WILL manage and thrive. thank you so much 💕💕
@victorialim Жыл бұрын
You will be fine :) loneliness is a normal part of life too so is okay to feel that way sometimes - trick is learning how to manage and think beyond it! All the best for your adventures abroad :)
@izapurins. Жыл бұрын
Im going to like try to enjoy my own company. im always around people and i have been realizing that i dont know much about myself. Im also quite nervous to make new friends irl which is common but you know.. and since im alone often then i feel like this is an advantage to enjoy being by myself. and learn new hobbies and things. im definitely gonna be doing that and deleting social medias and keep myself busy and just enjoy being alone. doing fun things alone. it really is peaceful being by yourself and its actually fun tbh !! Thank you for this video. you dont know how much people you've motivated and helped
@Rose_Light082 жыл бұрын
I feel happy to go outside and be alone so I feel good
@hendreepondare55653 жыл бұрын
I've been having a hard time lately, thank you for this :))
@Sshazex3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been going back and fourth with deleting my socials (just the apps) for a while but I could never commit to actually doing it. This video convinced me + other factors in my life.. it kinda felt like a sign! This was a very insightful video, thank you!! 💗
@victorialim3 жыл бұрын
You go girl!! It's worth it trust me haha
@wandajones7032 жыл бұрын
Enjoyed this video. Let's me see I am not alone. There are others just like me.
@Sadib2303 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I’m have this really bad anxiety rn about being alone for my first year of college. I have to trust in God’s that true friends will come when I work on myself and learn more about myself.
@victorialim3 жыл бұрын
All the best! 😊 and don’t forget it’s ok to feel lonely and feel like you need to call home / old friends to connect too.
@zosiastanton4 жыл бұрын
I'm in love with this video - it was so enlightening :) thank you!
@victorialim4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching x
@siyuul2 жыл бұрын
honestly in my opinion, being alone is just peace and it’s so lovely. if i could i would live on an island myself
@jpowell2603 Жыл бұрын
Deleted all my social media Facebook Twitter Instagram Snapchat 3 yrs ago march 2020. My life has so much freedom now, no more looking at other peoples holiday photos the new car they bought or whatever else is happening in their lives these days I mind my own business do my thing and keep improving.
@victorialim4 жыл бұрын
(Timestamps below!) We’ve reached 1k subscribers, whoo!! So I bit the bullet and decided to start an Instagram acct: instagram.com/vic.torialim/ (Seems ironic to have this here, but I just made this w the sole purpose of connecting w you guys! I intend to keep scrolling to a minimum ☺️ I’m very contented w my current relationship w social media and intend to keep it that way!) 0:38 it's normal to feel this way 1:07 my journey 2:01 2 reasons why I felt a fear of being alone → 3:09 getting over FOMO → 5:08 getting over the fear of not having others to rely on
@after30113 жыл бұрын
Can relate, great words! I´ve been dealing with solitude much better after some years and just discovered how much potential this has. You used the right word. Freedom! We should learn how to feel comfortable with being alone and take this as an opportunity for growth to happen :)
@leeormsby44372 жыл бұрын
I love my solitude and I dont feel lonely at all. When I am on my own I am at peace. when I am around people I find myself angry all the time.
@prashnaxd2 жыл бұрын
Sending love and strength to everyone who had to search for this
@caroldaugherty9474 Жыл бұрын
Thank you I like your video. I'm doing isolation I need to be with my self for a while.and I'm learning things..
@MsAlice99663 жыл бұрын
Love this video. I’ve increasingly found it hard to spend time alone and with my boyfriend and friends not being available as much it’s been a perfect storm. I’ve been trying to find new hobbies and value the time i have with others rather than constantly wanting more and more. Definitely been hard for me but will keep I’m trying
@evawalsh7532 жыл бұрын
I guarantee if you hadn't criticised social media you would have a 100,000 followers but stay real this is a great video!!!
@kellsliving32203 жыл бұрын
i only have two friend. i love them so much there family. you know. i love my alone time
@yoongis.tangerine3 жыл бұрын
you are such an inspiration. i am currently very dependent to my s/o which does not help w my anxiety. i feel so much better after watching this. i will work on myself more. thankyou so so much
@victorialim3 жыл бұрын
it's so great that you're self aware and know what you need to work on. all the best dear!
@rehanamaryamnoor68283 жыл бұрын
In Bangladesh ,it is tough for a girl to go a long trip alone ,date myself or go to outside alone ,it is unsafe in bangladesh ,and I am actually bored for 2years without going out anywhere cz I have no friends to go out with them (I am a pure introvert ),my family members are so much busy ,and cannot give permission to go out as a girl ,my parents don't allow this
@chaeremika2 жыл бұрын
well I'm trying to become less clingy so my first step is to enjoy being with myself, I've watched this before but when I did back then I couldn't really implement in my life because now I understand I didn't know what I was doing it for, tysm for this!!!
@shubhampawar21573 жыл бұрын
The one thing that really made me feel better, energized, and determined to reach my goals was Forwago. Thank you so much !!!
@peaceikemere95903 жыл бұрын
I don't have any friends at university. I have tried everything. I just want to be happy on my own
@noooooooooo5316 Жыл бұрын
This video was such a warming feeling.Thank you for making this !!
@lizngima15973 жыл бұрын
You are a breathe of fresh air...you go girl. Hugs from kenya 😊
@victorialim3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching all the way from Kenya!! x
@Esh23453 жыл бұрын
That's actually sad when the only freinds you have are busy or prefer there best freind over you.
@nellieiortyer45803 жыл бұрын
I already love u in a friend friendly way
@nellieiortyer45803 жыл бұрын
You are just reading my mind
@aservantofallah2 жыл бұрын
I just want you to know. keep being you. ♡
@nikeemajada3 жыл бұрын
Thank you babe. ❤️ I needed to hear this !
@sridharnayak6717 Жыл бұрын
Wow ! So much positive vibes watching this video amazing ❤😊
@macklynm37143 жыл бұрын
I’ve had a rough year. I needed this. Thank you💕
@latrecelockett4930 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your views this video was very helpful for me ❤
@ArkabrataDattaRoyChowdhury113 жыл бұрын
This video resonates so much with my inner thoughts. Thanks for making them more iron clad with your video.
@vaishalinautiyal24232 жыл бұрын
I just feel lonely and all those so called friends are always busy in their stuff .. i often find myself comparing with others . I don't know i just feel like I'm not enough . Even i don't know what's going on in my life .
@baybeejaelyn3 жыл бұрын
Great advise! Btw! You’re so pretty!!
@themanifestvegan48184 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this. i love you
@braveisLiveok2 жыл бұрын
Great VIDEO GIRL HATS OFF
@JAdventures913 ай бұрын
Aww man I needed this
@evawalsh7532 жыл бұрын
Love you amazing!! So clear honest and helpful. Beautiful
@xbenji_92 жыл бұрын
I left school around 2 years ago due to heavy bullying, after I left my mental health got so awful. I developed extreme depression, social anxiety and ptsd from school. This may me and my family moved to another town and we live in a new house, we live In a secluded area and I study at home. For the past few months I’ve been depressed with the fact I’m by myself a lot of the time. This video really helped me, I’m now starting to enjoy my time by myself and learning how to love myself. Thank you so much for this. ❤️❤️
@victorialim2 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear that about your difficult past, but I'm glad to hear you're getting better! Don't forget it's okay to feel sad and acknowledge your feelings, and am proud of you for recognizing them and being committed to finding ways to feel better 😊🌻
@tiffanydangelo60892 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry to hear that and I’m glad you are now getting better😊. Also I would love to be friends with you since I don’t have any and I kind of go through social anxiety as well.
@Mindset.Makeover.With.Anusha3 жыл бұрын
I always feel I don't get a lot of people who understand me. Your videos are calling and soothing. Loving them
@lorilocascio29212 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Victoria I just love you
@elijahbanuelos52472 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! Made me feel better.
@hiffets13 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this ❤️❤️❤️ resonate with everything that you have experienced and you are saying
@mushangalusaeric63583 жыл бұрын
I do agree with you!
@maryamebrahim80122 жыл бұрын
i love this video so much. i struggle so much with loneliness and having a hard time connecting to people and now i just want go learn to be in peace with it
@maryamebrahim80122 жыл бұрын
to not go*
@siyadaadamu1793 жыл бұрын
Thank you I was having a hard time in school with people I mean I dont want to talk to them but I feel like I was missing out so I talk to them and socialize and that sucks
@cheriewi78743 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I left facebook 2 years ago, changed my career, pursuing my passion right now. I'm pretty satisfied with the fact that I found my passion, but I've been feeling weird lately and missing someone, even though I know I'm complete and whole in my deepest truth .
@victorialim3 жыл бұрын
Proud of you for chasing your passion! It’s all a journey and you’re making great progress, I’m sure x
@cheriewi78743 жыл бұрын
@@victorialim whoooo, I've just realized you've just told me what I was imagining a friend telling me a week ago.
@tiaplayz1472 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this advice
@st.christopher65093 жыл бұрын
Hi Victoria awesome video! I love being alone too! lol 😆 I am very close to God and I found the minds of men to have distanced themselves so far from God I have difficultly relating to them. I cannot lie to fit in due to my religious beliefs, so if I am to socialize with the crowd my only option will be silence, not due to insecurity, in fact, I am superbly confident, though, my deepness of my thought would make many uncomfortable. I have no intention to do this. I understand, compassionately what it is to resonate on a lower conscious level and I do not believe I am better in any sort of way. As I continue to explore the deeper dimensions of my internal, my understanding is, I understand nothing, though my knowledge increases to bounds I never imagined possible. I am only opening new doors to boundless and infinite information, which leaves me a bit befuddled. Lol, 🤣😂🤣 Anyhow, great job!
@rikeinobent28422 жыл бұрын
Awesome I needed this!!
@makanakaabushama81873 жыл бұрын
Am i the only one who just naturally loves being alone?
@threeam7833 жыл бұрын
TY, I really needed this. At least the advise leaves. I'm Old, no friends, married but only talk to wife maybe 5 mins a day.
@jerrseyy10883 жыл бұрын
This was amazing:) great tips/transparency
@NargeseMast3 жыл бұрын
Wow. Ur so strong! Thank u for this video💫🤸🏻♀️
@nadeeshani3 жыл бұрын
Victoria, with your video you made my mood from 😪 to 🤗🥰... Thank you for reminding me that it is perfectly fine to be who I truly am
@davidlee58724 жыл бұрын
Stumble upon your channel lately and find your videos somehow therapeutic. Keep it up!
@victorialim4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching!!
@davidlee58724 жыл бұрын
@@victorialim New idea - share about environmental conscious lifestyle choices that you make or envision to do.
@victorialim4 жыл бұрын
@@davidlee5872 Thanks for the suggestion! Will see if other people show an interest in this topic moving forward and make it if there is :)
@samcro10002 жыл бұрын
Beautiful Queen!
@calmlyaxiea11462 жыл бұрын
I absolutely loved watching this now knowing how people actually went through on what im going through and give great advice. Thank you :)
@johnbowman80332 жыл бұрын
Thank you Victoria for this wonderful video. I am much older but have experienced loneliness my whole life. Your perspective was wonderful and uplifting. I am curious. Are you back in Singapore? That is my all-time favorite countries.
@PROPAGANDA-13 жыл бұрын
very nice video rn I'm in the position that I don't want to deal with anyone anymore so basically this video is really helpful
@gabrielwatkins83403 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video. Every second taught me so much. Thank you.
@victorialim3 жыл бұрын
Glad it helped! ✨
@kratikmudgal43932 жыл бұрын
Awesome video!!!! We need more people doing such genuine videos on topics like these
@irish98103 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! I loved your video, it can sound simple but it's pretty deep, and it felt very sincere.