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i once got real close to a girl i liked to gauge her reaction. i have my court date next month.

Here is an idea. Women could just tell men what they want instead of expecting us to read their minds.

Well for the guys it is better not to physically touch her regardless of signals. Best not to risk sexual assault charges. Oh and never ever go anywhere you're alone with her.

There is still the issue that most men are afraid of. A woman could display these signs, and if the man reacts suddenly he is in trouble with the Police. It is unfortunate, but very much the reason a lot of men stay back and don't respond to these advances.

Don't take any words coming from her like a it's carved in stone. In the same minute you have power to change her emotions by your confidence.

The basic problem is that the really attractive women who you want to be with are often so subtle about their gestures and language that you think you’re just reading too much into them and you’ll end up a fool or in trouble if you try to escalate things. On the other hand, lesser attractive women are usually so obvious about their language and gestures that’s it’s obvious they want to escalate things.

You can't negotiate attraction. If she IS, your road is easy. The trick is knowing to recognise the attraction. Knowing that your posture and your presence will impact her view of you.

The double standards are frustrating. Women don't initiate because they are afraid of rejection, what makes people think men aren't? Testosterone isn't everything, and police are involved when men drop any of the 'touch' gestures, sexual or not

looking cute there D😊😘 The signs are not difficult to spot, at least for me. The trouble is when she gives you the signs and then uses it against you to play stupid games, reject you, get free expensive drinks, free validation, "just to check"...etc.

I wish that many more women would just come right out and tell us guys if they are interested in us. There are many women who want a good man who is not a player or who is not looking for a one night stand. Women expect us to walk up to them. Why can’t they just walk up to us and be direct ? Do you know how flattered I would be if a woman approached me ?

Some more great advice - thank you, Anna x

Enjoyed your talk, thanks and more power to your elbow.

You can't "miss" what doesn't exist. For wise men who value their reputations, careers, and freedom, there is no such thing as a "sign" that indicates a woman wants you to touch her. There isn't even such a thing as a sign a woman wants you to approach her, or speak to her, or glance in her direction. Men get in trouble all the time just for seeing a woman that walked into their field of vision.

1. THE COMPLIMENTS . 2. INVITED YOU OVER. 3. INITIATION. 4. BODY LANGUAGE. 5. THE BUMP. 6. TOUCH. 7. THE LEAN. 8. REACTION. LISTEN TO ALL CONTENT FOR MORE DETAILS; THANK BEAUTIFUL JOYANIMA 😘🌹❤️✌️🇵🇷👋

When she gives the "kiss me" look it's like the universe stops! It's a conversation stopper! There is nothing a man can do but kiss her!

Love the new background

Love that, thanks

Another beautiful upload. Thank you Anna, take care, stay blessed 💯❤️

Good video Joyanima.

I know she shares my feelings for her, but she has a boyfriend and she's loyal to him, ( a good thing ), she may what me to subconsciously to " make a move " but consciously she will react negativity so I never go further than " accidentally " bumping into each other or brushing past each other. Sucks man, sucks.....

That's soooo funny, I came here to warn dudes not to do this anymore and everyone in the section already posting their stories 😆😆😆 Chivalry is dead and women killed it.

Good advice

I'm happily married, but hypothetically speaking... The sign I'd be waiting for would be a notarized letter expressing her interest. Women might fear rejection, but nowadays, we men fear prison.

Thanks for sharing Awesome superb very nice Always stay bless 🙏🙏

I just watched a video which had over a thousand, animated comments, about how often a relationship starts off with love and great emotional & physical expressions of affection, and then -- somehow -- it ends in depressing disappointment. Joyanima offers great videos about kindling the flame. I wonder if she has done one or would do one on how to keep it going?

I got the bump from a woman last week. When I got up off the subway tracks and back to the platform, she was gone.

I'm on the scene for the 1st time in over 20 yrs so I'm usually not in the mood for games so women who you like that seem to like you too should just be direct & to the point while not being afraid to make a move first.Just a thought.

Good to Know so I can run the other way as fast as possible

Touch is a huge part of my love language. Unfortunately as a totally blind guy it can be easy to miss a lot of signs that girls/women exhibit, at least for this particular totally blind guy LOL.

Anna I'm your brand new fan...from India💐

Thanks for the advice I think this girl is so beautiful 😍 love this girl 😘😘😘😘

Hi Anna, i realy enjoy your videos. BUT im still very unsure how to read body laungauge. Would it be possable to demonstrate serten body laungauges in future videos for example when you talk about a woman sits in a sertan way that is open or inviting, that you can show a couple of examples. Or when she touch her self in a sertan way or play with her hair, or if you have a partner who is willing to help you by demonstrating what it wil look like when she try to touch or bump into you? Please pritty please it will help us men alot. Nicky /South Africa

Women are excellent communicators- my favourite sign a lady wants your touch is when she invites you over for alone time and stresses in hot conversation about her troubles with creepy men touching her with their eyes 👀...👀...👀

Long story short a girl I was speaking to for a bit invited me over to "cuddle", I went, had plans to meet up again... ghosted me haven't seen her since I was like never again

Awesomeness

It worked for me. I walked up to her gave her a light touch on the arm followed by eye contact and pleasant conversation and she's hooked. But I'm fortunate she's a nice girl and wants to be romanced and wants to be sure I like her before getting emotionally invested in me.

1. no compliments 2. never bee invited over 3. I can never initiate anything as I have always been rejected and no woman ever tried to touch me 4. no woman ever seemed relaxed around me, they all think I am a creep because I am very shy 5. no bump ever happened because they never accept to walk or be with me 6. No woman ever touched me, they never do that 7. Women lean away from me so I know the shit i have to expect 8. I never do anything around women or approach them, I always stay away so as not to get in trouble with the law

I guess that answers that...

I have found some married women do this frequently..

Power

I really like your sweater top. And that’s not my thigh 😮. I could listen to you all day 😁

I use a wheelchair in situations of much walking so if she steps in my lane I'm probably going to accidentally run into her heels, and that can be painful.😂

I don’t know why I’m seeing this video. Women are very Intimidated by me. I am Alpha and very sophisticating. To women I am Sexy but I also look very intimidating, which some say is even sexier. I love women!

8 I would

When a woman starts telling you that she doesnt like men to talk about sex with her, it means that she wants to has a conversation about that with you.I always found out later that they indeed like to talk about it.

Damn first 😳

Not unless two of u are close, dont dare. Speaking up your mind would be easier to a void drama . Women are insane sometimes 😂

Thank you. Got slapped. 🤣🤣

We love you but my old Dad would say to me “ you are touched “ lol

Just checking in

Tell her "for you only I do not have a brick wall around me"this mean you do not have any boundries allowing her to come close to you for good.

What about the step up when you are talking to a girl? I'm an older fella and this younger girl would step up closer to when I'd see her. My problem is when people step closer to me I step back because my personal space is being invested. Just before my moms went home to Creator she told me that a doctor told her I'm autistic. I still have to look into that.

I noticed that you dont comment much. But your the first person i would try your tips and tricks on how to touch or talk to a woman...lol. Your smart , beautiful, and that accent is literally melting me!! lol sorry....😋

Am in that situation right now there's this lady she's always around me even when we're walking she use to touch me but I use to have this feeling maybe if I try to touch her back she'll reject me or she'll get upset that's why I don't use to touch her

If you want to learn about woman, you can try put the sound off and watch this. Just try. Then somewhere put it on again. Listen. Look. It will teach you all.

My mother taught me to be forthright.

Just be straight up and straight forward . Don’t be expecting us to read your mind. Simple as that.

I know what women think I just stopped caring for the price I pay for the pretense that I know what they think.

Hey good stuff you got here. But I got a rule from experience if I have a lady that steers

Just never go to a woman and say something like this. Wow your really pretty I have noticed through the binoculars a week ago. Not a good way to make a 1st impression.

How about just say what you want ?

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That's dangerous for a woman to invite a guy she hasn't really dated over her house?? Many men take this as a home run sign!

Wow. It sucks making a woman feels invisible that you really are interested in, but sometimes they should make it a bit obvious because men deal with so consensual stuff and end up facing a judge. If she wants to be the special one, then make hints easier.

Sounds like good advice. Drive carefully 😂

Where was all this information about 50 years ago when I first started dating?

Women definitely confuse me Anna.

@Joyanima I am a moron, when it comes to picking up on women who are interested in me. I don’t know what is wrong with me, but I never pick up on any of it until it’s too late. They must think I’m brain dead. But I just Never really experienced that when I was younger. I was never afraid to go up to somebody and just start talking to them. I guess I would pick up on if somebody put their hand on my knee, and grabbed my hand or something… but I just never really put my mind to it. Never thought about it that much. Now that I’m a little bit older, I have had instances where women were interested… One, when I was doing a show, and she wanted to come back stage and kiss me. I truthfully thought she was kidding at the time, just because we were in the middle of a set. But then I realized that no, she was interested, and by the time my brain put two and two together, she was moving out of state and off with some other guy. It sucks, because that girl was definitely a keeper. That kind of hippie/cool chick. Who will kick your ass at Halo or on the volleyball court at the beach and then after she beat you… She jumps on top of you and attacks you. Really down to earth and cognizant of her heart and emotions. A tough thing to find and the guy that got her is the luckiest man in the world. Because those kind of girls don’t come around every day. But again, because of my inability to pick up on these little things… I’ve had quite a few pass me by. To the point, that I’m starting to think I’m mentally challenged. Again, it was something that I never really dealt with in my younger life… Because generally, I was the one doing the getting. So it’s tough for me, especially in this day and age … Where a lot of women that I have come across seem to purposely go out of their way to make a man chase them around. I had one go as far as agree to go out to dinner and then last second say she forgot her phone at work and couldn’t get in touch. Then, asked me a week later why I haven’t called her and rescheduled. You can tell that she’s just playing games to see if a guy wants to chase her around enough in order to be with her. I’m not into that. Sorry, but if you’re interested… You should probably keep dates and ask me questions about the person you’re interested in… Instead of me doing all of the talking and asking the questions. Which, conversation is another thing that seems to have slipped by the wayside due to everybody texting and tweeting , and used to X amount of characters… To the point where trying to hold a conversation with them for more than five minutes is like pulling teeth. Especially face-to-face. It has me to the point where I truly don’t even understand how people get together and date anymore. Because it seems like it’s some sort of social no, no, to go up to somebody and buy them a drink and try to get to know them. You have to worry about everybody, thinking that, at any moment, they could take anything you say, as some sort of sexually laced innuendo that is going to bite you in the ass. Seemingly everybody being on edge for no reason. Which is not me. I am laid-back, happy go lucky and dig a woman who can have a conversation about anything. Who isn’t afraid to ask questions of me and isn’t afraid to take charge and tell me where we’re going for the night or where she might want to eat. Is it just me? I would really love to know how other guys are faring. Because I feel like I am in some sort of alien world, trying to learn the art of social interaction, and the correct way to approach and talk to somebody who I might be interested in. Something I never had issues with in the past. As I’ve been an entertainer, all of my life. So talking to people is part of my repertoire. So I don’t know,. Somebody educate me on modern dating rituals. Because I truly feel, since my last relationship last in 15 years before, all hell broke loose. Think Amber Heard without the physical abuse. that was my ex. So I’ve been out of it for a bit and feel like the entire dating world around me has completely changed and I have no clue where to start. Thank you in advance.

How the hell do you go about it if all things said here occur, but you and her are both married, with kids? Life sure is a hell of a character testing ground.

I think this is really good! But the delivery seemed a little rushed to me, A bit more relaxed delivery might help!

Could someone explain this to my wife. I get more attention from wallpaper

You never know the rules of the game. That’s what an old man told me a long time ago.

I bumped into an old crush. Now I have an injunction and not allowed to be within 500yards of where she lives, works or the route she takes between them.

Misread any of those signs and you get arrested.

I remember a time when a very pretty girl came over to talk to me when I was about 19 years old I have blond hair blue eyes very good-looking I didn't,t quite know how to take her but I said hello a few minutes went bye and the next thing I knew I was attacked by a man much bigger than me ..muscular.her boyfriend .I was Lachey to get away I said to him she started talking to me first. bur no use a week or so later I saw them at a bar ..I kept my distance but she kept staring at me the whole night so I left the bar .and never saw them again in 58 years old now and never saw them again the rest of my life.they must. have moved far away....

When I first meet a woman I am quick to ask if I can drive her home or if we are in a semi private spot just steal a kiss. I will never be a mind reader or able to interpret all these subtle clues so I just get right to the point. The worse thing that has ever happened is she says "Slow down lover boy" She knows I am game if she wants to go forward after she gets to know me she will be obvious.

Very nice in theory but I've found that all these signals don't mean that she is into you

Women are very obvious. But you need to learn how women think and behave when attracted. 👏

the real problem is that 90% of women are chasing the same 10% of the guys, and vice versa...all this sign stuff is for 13-16 year olds

A man has the right to say HELLO AND GOODBYE in a conversation. Everything in between has become a real problem area for males.

So it's all up to the woman... ok, I guess that's why I purchased houses for a couple women I don't like anymore.

Its ok for a man to get rejected, but god forbid the woman ever feel rejected.

You heard guys.. "it's easy to please a woman.."

Rejection the big bird in the room😘

Women who play too many games push me away, is that what their like in a relationship

Well I’ll take a pass on this advice you’ve given , most women scare me because the minute she decides she no longer likes you anymore she might just get me put behind bars so no thank you .

"do women confuse you?" Yes, when many of them can't even define what a woman is.

She is bumping into one another

Do women also fear rejection!? ☺

i well doing the playing hard too getting with her an give the no contact think ago with her when i seeing her an seen if shes going too make a move on me or coming over too chat with me when iam there or coming over too me too talking about our new relationship and i well droping a few signs iam singel asf an seeing what she dose or asking her if shes single as well too and leaning in 90/100 too go in for a kiss an too touch her hand an pulling away an then seeing what shes going too done and i well been going too asking her if shes still got anyfeelings for me as i still am interested in her an interested in getting too know her better as well etc. and i well asking her if shes still got any feelings for rory in this new gf an bf relationship an asking her if shes whats this relationship too workout for the bolth off as too togerther with one another bolth too togerther she neededs too Putting in the mahi mahi mahi mahi mahi mahi mahi and the hard work into this relationship as it gose bolth aways down the 2 away street an not down a one away street etc. u know

I first bumped into mine 20 years ago now theres 4 rascals and i wish i hadnt bumped into her.

Dsmn checking in. body stractive

Not that we don't miss it, but if a man takes a chance and she is NOT interested, we risk alot, our jobs, reputations, and yes we could even have criminal charges slapped against us

Touch her with a song

idk should asking her where yo flirting with me too my crush too seeing if theres any signs off attraction too me and too seeing if she still interested in me whats soo every as iam a good looking bloke and sexually attractive too my gf aka my new crush aka my new lady freind aka my new crush aka my new girlfreind

The next thing you hear is to cops knocking on the door to lock your ass up. Be careful guys

Signs she wants you to touch her... She will touch you. There I saved you from watching this video.

so about those first moves.. i dont believe that men makes the first move. i only believe that women should do it. and plus, i saw many men hate mind games from women.

In construction there is the 2 second rule.