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The paradox between being charming/social and being awkward is very accurate. Love this video

When I’m just being me I’m smoother than a baby’s @$$ but when I get a crush I’m shy and awkward af

As an ENFJ i can 100% agree with "hiding the weird side" 😂 when im with other's i act like a normal talkactive person but when im alone i often do weird things lmao

INFP here and the more I learn about ENFJs, the more I just can’t believe that such amazing people do exist. I appreciate you all so much.

We are the 2~3% in this population... So relatable and accurate.. Not many people understand us.. Anyone interested to connect and talk? I’m being ENFJ now 🙈

I've stopped caring for unworthy people. I'm always fixing their problems, but they're never there for me. I dumped them during the pandemic.

As an ENFJ I can’t even count how many times someone called me weirdo 😂 But all these people should knowing secret - for me, this is a compliment. There is nothing more offensive to me than when someone calls me usual

I'm an ENFJ. During college an highschool I would do work for others. I work better when I think that I'm doing it for other people, I just cant pull the same effort when I know the work is just for me. I would often do summaries of the classes and then send to the rest of the class. Other strange thing I used to do was related to the fact that I live in a very turistic place. So I would often take longer trips in the downtown instead of going directly to the train station to look for tourists that looked confused or lost and ask them if they needed any help, and help them if they needed. Doing this made my days so much better, but I found it creepy. I thougth I was getting insane or mentally ill. A few months ago I learned about MBTI types, made the tests, and got ENFJ, over and over again. Learning more about my type allowed me to understand that it is just the way I perceive the world and interact with it, not some mental illness. I've manage to put more work on myself and abstain from creeping in other's lifes or problems or talk about the random stuff that pops up in my head. I'm better than I was, and I think that it less much more confortable to people arround me too.

I've been called out lol! This is so accurate! I've always been called weird and I try not to be. Luckily, my weirdness comes off cute and funny.

Funny I don’t see myself as weird but others have always called me weird. 🤷‍♀️ Yes I have walls. My brain runs at a million miles an hour. Anyone else struggle with being so logical it offends others when you aren’t trying to? 😂

Why is it it feels that no one properly listens to enfj? It can’t just be me. I’ve met 1 person in the last… so many years that truly clicked with me. I’m a great listener and conversationalist. I’ve come to realize why I don’t often share information about myself to others. It’s because I’m often disappointed with how people listen and engage back with me. If I ask questions about them, the conversation flows. If I share, I see their habits in disengaging when listening, etc, which feels really bad to receive. So I withdraw information about myself to avoid poor listeners. The last time I met someone who was a GREAT listener, it felt like we could talk for hours, and we were both so intrigued with one another. I miss that. I need that. It’s not fair 😢😅😂

Where all my other ENFJs! 👏✨🙏😜

This is why ENFJ need their introverted counterparts, INFJs. We understand the ENFJ and can be the one to help them grow in a way that most others cannot. I have my ENFJ, my sister. However, the ENFJ can do the same for the INFJ.

I'm an ENFJ, and I approve this message.

wow that's very accurate. and I do feel like I don't have weird people in my life to do these things with.

Wow it finally makes sense. I remember an ENFJ in our friend group who would always be asking about our relationships, even our sex lives. We joked about how nosy she was and even pointed out a few times like, hey... you can't exactly ask about that stuff. In response, she would explain that she only wanted to help and feel like a part of the group (she was the youngest and still single). I guess from her perspective it wasn't really that big of a deal but she was VERY bold about it lol.

I feel this applies to me (ENFJ-A) when I was not matured. Many things I do not do anymore, such as hiding myself. I am fine with being goofy because it makes people laugh. Yes, I can feel lonely and misunderstood but I do feel very accepted for being non-mainstream.

I love weird and odd things, including people.

In ways I feel like I'm not revealing my "true, unfiltered self" when with people, because I always try to be more "normal/mainstream" to fit in and be more relatable with the people in my daily life. While deep down I'm very different from what most people expect, and I feel like sometimes it leads people to misunderstand me. Just one example: I do tell people that I'm into martial arts (I'm a woman), but they would think I'm weird if they knew just how obsessed I am about it in my private life, and how hard I push myself practicing every day (behind closed doors) and how much time I spend thinking about it, because I just love it so much.

Seems like they hit the nail on the head lol. Apparently I’m an ENFJ. but something else weird about me is that I always take pride in just how weird I am. I recognize that I’m unique from a lot of other people and I’ll be the first to tell you. That goes without say that most people are all weird in their own way. but for us it’s just hard not to be.

Sooo accurate🙃 when being a really friendly person is just part of my personality people tend to misunderstood my thoughtfulness and caring personality as me liking that person or I'm weird😭🙃 that's why I sometimes tend to hide that I care but in deep inside I an just genuinely friendly :)

Hmmm I do like unusual, untraditional things, but don’t see myself as weird or having a weird side. Just unique and interesting. ☺️

"they have great intuition" YESSS ABSOLUTELY RIGHTT

I can read anyone, there body language, motives , what they're trying to hide, I'm very perceptive and intuitive. They don't have to say anything. This is what makes things awkward, cause it's invasive almost, it's like others can tell you can tell what they're thinking and they're like you're so wierd, but it's like no we know the truth beyond everything.

Man,this is true. Does anybody else just feel isolated from other people because how “weird “, you are ?

Wow! Extremely accurate. It feels like finally someone gets me

It’s always great to learn more about myself and see that others are out there similar to me. Thank you for putting this vid together and thank you for taking the time to read this!

I've done test and result is ENFJ. I was told once that I'm "weird plant" and also "weird person". I like art, creative hobbies and I'm empath with ultimate impulses to help people in need. I also have sixth sense.

Creepily Accurate I could relate to all of them. Noice job

Omg number five is so accurate. I've been called random all the time . Because my brain is processing stuff and has gone couple steps ahead or gone off to another topic already lol.

Reading people like a book is my greatest strength and usually I can get what I want from most people . I size them up on first meeting or rather quickly . I realized this rather quickly at my first job

I'm sometimes too talkative, so I have to rein myself in and give people space. My husband (ENTP), my sister (ENFP), my mom (ENFP), and I (ENFJ) are all extroverts, and my poor dad is an introvert ( not sure which specifically, but I'd guess INFJ ). He gets so overwhelmed by us sometimes.

I understand myself more after this video. Thank you.

Thank. That "looking flirty "is the most bothering problem. How ever I don't have any bad idea but people think I can't control my feeling. I think they don't have enough capacity.

So accurate with me. Im a ENFJ-T The feeling of being/feeling different at times is so accurate also

Hey! Love the video! Fellow ENFJ here and loving reading the comments!! Some have cracked me up because they’re the kind of things I’d say too ☺️ or they’re such an ENFJ thing to say ;). continue being yourselves guys 🙌🏽 you absolutely rooock (perhaps biased but it’s no lie 😜)

Hits home. I’m an ENFJ. I am into: all natural bodybuilding, music production, DJ’ing, philosophy, flair bartending, etc. I think I am sensitive, very authentic, super empathetic but felt misunderstood and ‘not part of the group’ my whole life. The things I chose to do also made me even weirder. Hobbies, profession, interests, etc. I also live in Holland where ‘acting/being different’ is not really well received. ‘Act normal, then you are already acting crazy enough’ is a saying here. I’m also an ENFJ that hardly has any friends. That makes me feel even lonelier. I have a huge need for human contact but that contact is hard when people think you are odd.

This makes sense. My crush is an enfj and when you explained they might have a weird side of their personality I understand her a little more.

That’s so true. 🤣🤣🤣 When I and my crush, other students were in English class, we were separated for 5 groups and my crush’s group was going to introduce their company(general mission that whole group should introduce their company) I flirted with saying come on 🤣🤣 and he literally turned red because of being sooo shy 🤣🤣😫😚 BUT YOU KNOW HE WERE EXTREMELY CUTE (I am dying 😭😭🥹)

I am so glad I have finally figured out what personality type I have explained so much

oh shit, everything is on point, right on target. I thought why it was I who behaved strangely for my friends in a company.

As a ENFJ, if I know a personality type well I can act and pretend to be that personality type so the other person might feel more comfortable. this is weird, but if it involves other people we don’t disappoint, but you shouldn’t disappoint us either. If we know your smart then we will think that all the way. If you act dumb we will label you as that for almost years. We are all about first impressions because we need to know what your like to act like it in the future :>

It's very accurate! Incredible!

As an enfj, this video made me feel better

I myself as a Protagonist have been called weird often already.

Usually people think that salespersons are lying to sell better stuff, but when you shop in my store I won't lie to you but if you lie to me I usually know it and you won't get the best deal. On the other hand.. One time I sensed sadness behind words and asked about it politely (leaving an exit so if she didn't want to answer) and found out that her house has burned down, I fought through walls to get better prices for the stuff she needed and gave professional estimate to insurance company from her lost furniture. Made my day, hopefully hers too. Makes me tear up just to think about it.

i am scared by how accurate this is 😭

Wow this is on point

My mom is an ENFJ and I am INTP

I am an INFJ. My youngest daughter is an ENFJ. No. 1 is dead on. She always marched to the beat of her own drum.

#1 exposing me and my toxic traits lol

An Infp here Finally setting up standars for my ideal type Its an enfj Like they are just perfect

100% me. It’s a bit lonely, tbh

THIS IS TOO ACCURATE

Hi ENFJs !!!!! It's true...i would like to choose anything different from others😬🤣

Literally me 😂 perfect synopsis of the ENFJ

This is more than true 😂

„Enfjs like weird things“ Explains why this enfj is still crushing on me😂 I swear this was a mystery to me.

I have dead bugs and animal bones in my room like dead Ladybugs and I had a dead butterfly on my counter for more than a month that I found outside so yeah I think that's quite a weird hobby-

So that's why me and my ENFJ teacher got along so well.. I'm just odd.

Thanks for the video. It would be nice if you made a video for ENFJ-A 8w7. Greeting!

The point no 1 though .... Literally so true

Enfj are atracted to wierd things. Interesting- infp :D

I am ENFJ 💯

I LOVE THIS VIDEO I LOVE BEING AN ENFJ

As soon as the first weird habit came out of NOT LIKING COMMON THINGS, I was like-- YEP. I always tell my peeps that I really find common things boring. I rather see crazy stuff. I WOULD WANT TO VENTURE AND DISCOVER really crazy stuff. I can really hide my weird side tbh. I only show it when I am with really close friends, partner, and family. In most cases, I adapt to a particular status quo or personality type simply to match with how I converse with them. When my weird side comes out, my friends told me I am quite unhinged (in a jokingly way) and that I think so out of the box. Most of the things I propose works, most are not understood. Takes me awhile to convince someone this "course of action" could be possibly good. It looks so plausible in my head, but comes out totally whack to others. My biggest hurdle is how to convince others tbh that my ideas could possibly work.

woah the most accurate vid about us i have watched so far.

Gosh i had so many talks about the flirting thing. I am just nice and want to help people lol

I get accused of flirting all the time 😂I be so confused .

this is overwhelmingly true and accurate

First point : liking weird stuff and uncommon hobbies Me : bought a pair of pink cow with strawberry tail earings today and like to do sudoku at the age of 25 😂

2:45 hits hard

Proud of who I am!! ❤

i am an infp and i want an enfj in my life T^T i love them so much...

My sister went as far say, I should leave our town and go somewhere away from them so that I can focus on myself instead.

ISTP here. ENFJ is the ideal person I wanted myself to be. My wife is ENFJ.

As an INTP man, I love ENFJ woman.

My father is an enfj and I am an INFJ but still we are really different

Omg, this is sooo accurate

yep, this is me

100% correct for this ENFJ!

Hi, I know you're reading this. This is the 4th wall I'm using to make your brain say this in your brain. Don't worry, us ENFJ are always with you. Always!

i have a crush on an enfj as an intp can ask for some advice?

All are true esp where i have my love of fashion is the other sides examples of dark styles of alexander mcqueen (1990-2010 designs) and my mentor cousin takes me to his shows and meet his fiends i easily flow in a charming part in a sweet with and yeah .....the over sacrificing part is accurate it may hurt but choosing carefully is meeting the best friend and s/o . Relatives and my folks have said or mention i have weird but good habbits and yeah...intrusive yikes....only cause i care . Hiding my odd version is to help at least have connections out my circle of friends such as looking for good friends times look at others like a book

This video content is weirder haha 😂 Like the images and stuff

I feel so exposed.

Yeh I'm an ENFJ and weird but hey it's cool .... cos everyone loves me right 😁😁

that's so true , Today was one of those days :c 6:03

ENFJ - T here ❤🙌🦓

I don’t hide my weird side I am known as the class weirdo and Comedian

Как ENFJ, могу сказать то, что все MBTi, разные, не то чтобы разные, а сами люди разные. Если так подумать, то все люди разные. Лично по мне, то я не неуклюжий, и не навязчивый, все же разные? Короче.. Ладно, чисто так скажу. И то русский язык, знающим русский или просто кто русский и кто-то другой нации? Привет короче, и привет если кто-то перевёл! Короче, с некоторым, я не согласен, а так, да, с большинством, могу согласиться, целую, спасибо огромное! Правда 🎾

I wish I could meet another ENFJ in person

thankyou

I don't agree with this list for the most part it does not parallel with my experience as an enfj

CSJ typed both Obama and Biden as ESTJs. Jimmy Carter INFP. George W. Bush and Ronald Reagan ESFJ.

Is this why we act out different scenarios as in im in a movie??? Bc I do that. 😭😭😭😭 That’s why I love my alone time. I’m free to be weird. If you watch HTGAWM *SPOILER ALERT* (even though it’s been done for 3-4 years.) I have once acted out the scene of Annalise shaking Bonnie as she died in her arms. 😭😭😭😭😭😭 And I’m not even an actress neither do I have the desire to

2 is very accurate as fk

0:29 ENFG 😅

Because of 3 i can't do 2, because of 1 i saw the human centipede trilogy