90 Day Fiancé's Emily and Kobe on Their New Baby Atem and Her BEEF With Kobe's Friends (Exclusive)

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25 күн бұрын

'90 Day Fiancé's Emily and Kobe sit down with ET's Melicia Johnson in Salina, Kansas to chat about their journey on season 8 of '90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?.' The couple opens up about life as parents of three and reveals the surprising inspiration behind their 2-month-old son Atem's name. Emily and Kobe share behind-the-scenes details of their trip to Kobe's home country of Cameroon, and Emily gives an update on where her relationship stands with Kobe's friends after that 'disrespectful' nightclub outing. '90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?' airs Sundays at 8 p.m. ET/PT on TLC.

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@user-qp7xw5yf8g 24 күн бұрын

This excuse of its an African culture is overplayed in this situation. I am African and we don't treat our guests like that. Kobe's friends were plain disrespectful period. To think these are young generation of Cameroon men, who have global exposure; at least through internet, the excuse doesn't hold any water.

@silverliningseeker9219 24 күн бұрын

Thank you for saying that! I consider myself to be worldly, however, was a little put off by their attitudes. Africa has always been a place that I am passionate about visiting. I know it’s different, because I’m not dating an African man right now… but the attitudes of the culture plays a big part in my desire to see a place.

@magnoliaesq1027 24 күн бұрын

OR, and follow me here…it’s a storyline to rehab her image from the first season. She was horrid, and now she’s not. WOW

@denyss3476 23 күн бұрын

Kobe should've been as gentle without trying to offend his long-time friend, bringing that discussion to order. He sat there, and Emily got up at left.. because of the gang attack on her character, this could've been stopped by Koby. They had no reason to speak to her like that, granted she has berated Koby on this show, but i felt bad for her this time. Those men were totally out of order.❤

@carolineyawale 23 күн бұрын

💯💜

@ninaowusu8157 23 күн бұрын

I wouldn't call them younger generation it is not like they are in their 20s. His friends are just ignorant and misogynistic.

@user-bw8bc8jp9h 24 күн бұрын

I always have her back , she is my wife… I’m so proud of my African brother💯❤️🙏🏻

@luciamaununiemi6140 24 күн бұрын

Of course its not hard...they live with Emily's parents, who are retired.. They always have grandparents upstairs.

@user-en1zc5vd6y 23 күн бұрын

Is he west African?

@kimberry753 23 күн бұрын

@@user-en1zc5vd6y yes from Cameroon

@OkiChick302 23 күн бұрын

Many families live in multigenerational homes all over the world. If this is what they have chosen to do and it's working, perhaps others should consider it. People shouldn't have to struggle just because others struggle.

@jennapitts8373 23 күн бұрын

I don't see the problem. The grandparents have the kids and grand kids living there to help maintain the ranch, animals help with bills. Kobe does work and to keep them company.

@ldiaz6999 18 күн бұрын

I'm not 100% certain, tho mine understanding is that Emily's parents aren't actually thrilled about them living with them. They're supposedly not especially happy about them continuing to have kids while still living in their home.

@carolineyawale 23 күн бұрын

I’m honored you picked my question.💜💜🥰 I’ve lived in Africa, I wasn’t treated like that. My African husband wouldn’t allow his friends to treat me like that. My husband’s friends are nice and wouldn’t do that. Just be nice to each other, show respect and everything works out. 💜

@NnEnkaa_ 22 күн бұрын

Probably say things behind your back. Many blacks around the world don't truly see whites as their equal for many obvious historical reasons.

@beatricekissi7334 17 күн бұрын

I know we Africans we don't treat people like that we are so friendly l really feel ashamed about the way they disrespect Emily

@user-ox1cx8sh2c 24 күн бұрын

I adore this couple. I think scarlet looks a lot like her dad. I'm happy for them and their beautiful family. Congratulations ❤❤❤❤. Jamaica 🇯🇲 sends real love

@keishalyon1410 23 күн бұрын

🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲

@eleanorthompson425 18 күн бұрын

Also from another Jamaican. Watch the show and they are one of my favouite couple. I love his smile. He is a good man.

@FORTHEBY_BY 24 күн бұрын

I’m in an interracial marriage. When I first went to my husband’s country years ago, his mother would make negative comments about my appearance (not very pretty, overweight, etc.). It really hurt my feelings and I thought it was rude. Apparently, it’s part of the culture to tell someone they are chubby or unattractive, like it’s no big deal. I finally said, “My parents taught me that if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all” and walked away.

@janajacoby3391 23 күн бұрын

What country is that if you don't mind me asking?

@jodyyy8752 23 күн бұрын

@@janajacoby3391coasks

@Wholefoodie2b 23 күн бұрын

That sounds like they fed you bs..

@user-en1zc5vd6y 23 күн бұрын

In my culture it’s common to make fun of peoples appearances but women are exempted. Only extremely rude people do that

@Toni-vo3bi 23 күн бұрын

Maybe also try loosing some weight and putting effort into your looks

@beckamax74 23 күн бұрын

I would feel so blessed if I had a husband like Kobe. Emily is a blessed woman. ❤

@Allinmyworld 24 күн бұрын

I really love them together. Kobe really have public speaking down like a motivational speaker

@skye3799 24 күн бұрын

Who thought these two would actually work and be a rare success on 90 day??

@69Fabulosity 22 күн бұрын

Bc she has help they ain't living in the real world with real bills and doing it by herself. Let her move out and realize it ain't easy raising kids and taking care of a home .

@69Fabulosity 22 күн бұрын

Bc she isn't doing it by herself. If she got out in the real 🌎 and him and her would realize how hard it is raising a family without living under grandparents roof.

@jesnarachirapura4763 16 күн бұрын

i did she was blessdd with a good husband and he was blessed with good inlaws

@SandraUrquia 12 күн бұрын

@@69FabulosityAnd the Judgement!

@mikih636 24 күн бұрын

Emily" having kids isn't hard" girl don't you live at home with your parents and not pay bills... smh

@tangaz5819 23 күн бұрын

I thought that too! Everything isn't hard when you don't have to be remotely concerned about the basics. They kinda don't have much in the way of real world responsibility.

@MyCatsChannel841 23 күн бұрын

3 kids is a lot this is ridiculous 🤪🤦‍♀️🫨

@Diamond-Doll 22 күн бұрын

@MyCatsChannel841 iykyk they spit them out back to back.... then cry its hard well stop getting pregnant

@danielle5780 21 күн бұрын

I mean, she did say yet 😂

@cyndijones9718 19 күн бұрын

😮@@tangaz5819

@janajacoby3391 24 күн бұрын

In german "Atem" means breath. That's a beautiful meaning for a name...

@meggie423 23 күн бұрын

Dumm

@janajacoby3391 23 күн бұрын

@@meggie423 Was ist daran bitte dumm?!

@janajacoby3391 23 күн бұрын

@@meggie423 Was ist daran bitte dumm?!

@aleaiacetaest9132 14 күн бұрын

@@meggie423 Dumm ist der, der dummes tut

@Sophie-cw7bf 23 күн бұрын

The response daddy gave Emily when he raised from his bed is so amazing upmost respect for his son and his family granddaddy we love you too

@Qwinpin 21 күн бұрын

They have such gorgeous kids and they look a lot like Kobe especially Scarlett

@aleaiacetaest9132 23 күн бұрын

I hate it when they refer to their culture and say here in Africa, Africa is a continent and no country. It’s in Cameroon not in Africa!

@itohan8725 18 күн бұрын

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I just can NOT clap enough. ❤

@lindalangford4470 23 күн бұрын

Congratulations on the birth of Atem! May God bless Kobe & You and all the little Family.

@donnettelewis9128 24 күн бұрын

We love you Kobe and Emely🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲 I'm soooo teary-eyed right now..beautiful family ❤

@intodaysepisode... 23 күн бұрын

Their children are so gorgeous!

@kittenbrave1003 18 күн бұрын

Yes they are, but I wish Emily would learn to care for textured hair...

@melissag.428 24 күн бұрын

If she was on her own with those 3 kids, I reckon it would be hard.

@hiiiimymelody 23 күн бұрын

No need to 💩 on others to make your 🌹 seem better.

@itohan8725 18 күн бұрын

Oh, absolutely 💯

@HopeS68 23 күн бұрын

I love how Kobe is a sentimental man. 💜 Love you guys and congrats on your third baby. !! 💜

@cl4025 23 күн бұрын

Their kids are so freaking cute !!

@user-po5cj4br3g 15 күн бұрын

Emily is so lucky. Kobe treats her so well, and with so much respect.

@melaniereyes-tuquet1698 23 күн бұрын

One of my favourite couple in 90 days

@joeeetea 24 күн бұрын

I love them! Beautiful family and Kobe is a good man. She is a sweetheart too

@user-rv7ge5ex6m 24 күн бұрын

Kobe is a icehole, he respect only his friends

@nikkispalding41 22 күн бұрын

I think instead of keep having kids they need to work in getting their own place and not rely on her pareve to keep taking care of them. The pareve need to put their foot down and make them be more responsible. What happen to what the father said when Kobe first arrived, don't get pregnant again living in our house. Truly they are taking advantage of the parents in my opinion.

@mellymel5003 22 күн бұрын

I see a lot of people mentioning that they live with her parents. I don’t think Emily is trying to make it seem like taking care of 3 children is easy for everyone. She is speaking on her experience. Living in a family home is okay as long as the space is there and I am sure they have lots of privacy.Kobe you are good person, you are blessed to have such a beautiful and supportive family.All the best ❤❤❤

@shahnjaylaconnors1476 24 күн бұрын

I don't believe all women in Cameroon are quiet and submissive, just like all women in America aren't loud and bossy.

@CCdarling98 22 күн бұрын

Correct. Coming from Nigerian family, that is not true for all African women.

@ayeeahvincent5766 5 күн бұрын

I'm cameroonian and I'm still looking around to discover that quiet and submissive woman.

@user-ch4ml6dr9f 5 күн бұрын

😅

@steph1955 22 күн бұрын

I am a Cameroonian, and his friends were over doing everything. Normally, one of their wives was supposed to invite them home and make food to welcome them seeing that they don’t live in Cameroon.

@tumsesssysesssay 12 күн бұрын

exactly

@ayeeahvincent5766 5 күн бұрын

My sister, that thing was staged. People wey them no get money for buy whisky don see free whisky du play their part say culture why them bo attack na the husband who's part of the culture. Or if e really vex them they shouldn't have gone.

@johndoe-lm7ji 24 күн бұрын

That’s a great point because it’s hard to raise kids without family around you! The fact that she lives with them. I honestly wouldn’t like it if my son lived with me and was having children every two years! Time to get your own place!

@teamcougars 21 күн бұрын

Such a cute, sweet little family ❤❤ congratulations you two❤ such a sweet meaning behind the baby’s name so precious 😊

@NicoleKeith-Smith 24 күн бұрын

3 isn’t hard because they aren’t paying bills and having that extra help .. I love Kobe!! But they don’t face the obstacles like other couples

@moemoeforyou 24 күн бұрын

Exactly

@MyCatsChannel841 23 күн бұрын

Do you live at there home ? Do you help pay there bills ? Do you know them personally? Didn’t think so 🙄🙄🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

@melanieschafer1297 19 күн бұрын

Awww! First I have heard that Emily had a third baby! I haven’t been able to follow close enough. Congratulations to your little crew!

@samanthajames2735 23 күн бұрын

She married a real one ! Gorgeous babies BLESSED ❤❤

@Diamond-Doll 22 күн бұрын

A real1 would never lay up in a woman's parents home. Getting her pregnant back-to-back babies back-to-back. He would provide for his own family In their own home, a real man is a provider, not a leech.

@samanthajames2735 22 күн бұрын

@Diamond-Doll Emily got him by the balls !! if that wasn't the case I would agree with you ! ! !

@Diamond-Doll 22 күн бұрын

@@samanthajames2735 well you know I know that's what she planned but what got me was Mom and Dad said no babies and here they are baby #3 no boundaries no respect had it been mine id say I love you but you have to leave. There is no way that I will allow you to bring a man into my home and cry on baby bed

@sabrinamerrick1271 23 күн бұрын

I don't understand why they don't have a residence of their own. The kids are adorable. But stop siphoning from Emily's parents.

@tumsesssysesssay 12 күн бұрын

nothing wrong with staying with familiy as long as everone is happy

@victoriam9920 24 күн бұрын

Absolutely love these 2 and their family

@cjjohnson7801 24 күн бұрын

Omg! there kids are so cute!! I have always liked this couple, true success story may they continue to be blessed….🙏🏽☝🏾

@nelm7526 24 күн бұрын

“I am healed because I met you and my grandkids”😭😭🩷

@paulasamuels6255 23 күн бұрын

I just love them so much God bless them and there kids ❤❤❤❤❤

@MultiSimone2002 23 күн бұрын

KOBE YOUR A WISE MAN ...

@astridjasi2509 12 күн бұрын

these two are couple goals

@DrWainkwa 23 күн бұрын

I love this episode. I can relate to it a lot

@sowande1146 23 күн бұрын

This was sweet ❤

@wendyhinckly7044 24 күн бұрын

It's not that hard Emily because you to still live with mommy and daddy and it does not seem like you do much in terms of care on your own.

@smilebigiloveyou 24 күн бұрын

I don’t watch the show…did not know this 😅yikes

@jeanloverme6466 24 күн бұрын

Stop being rude you don’t know what her life is like.

@wendyhinckly7044 24 күн бұрын

@@jeanloverme6466 rude? What's rude is to keep pumping out babies when you still live at home.

@flojoorlando 24 күн бұрын

Exactly! Independence will test them.

@hadarliberman6055 24 күн бұрын

She’s blessed to have her family help and good for her. “It takes a village” - there’s a reason this phrase exists.

@MissAnkh_ah 23 күн бұрын

Awesome name for the new baby! Congrats you two!!

@elanaLlama 23 күн бұрын

I love this couple so much!!!❤❤❤

@ProudBlkQueen 24 күн бұрын

I don't want to hear about another baby until I hear "we've MOVED OUT of my parent's house." They asked you to do ONE thing: STOP bringing your "new additions " to our house. And you thank them by bringing TWO more. 😬🤔😒

@starsky119 24 күн бұрын

😊it's a blessing for them all to live together her parents are happy with their grandchildren time is everything and when you are getting older time is the best when it's spent with loved ones

@bblanchette503 23 күн бұрын

She is in her parents house, so don’t comment you are not taking care of them or paying their bills

@beckamax74 23 күн бұрын

I think their parents have changed their mind and really enjoy having their daughter, her husband and their grand babies close by.

@jennapitts8373 23 күн бұрын

Why should they move out of a house where there is love and the kids are safe? Lots of different cultures live in multi generational houses. There is nothing wrong with . I am quie sure the parents appreciate their company and the help arond the rance and their grandkids.

@MyCatsChannel841 23 күн бұрын

@@beckamax74ya I think lol when the parents talked to them about there plans it was just scripted they love them so much parents like that are blessings

@tumsesssysesssay 12 күн бұрын

love them sooooo much. May God continue to bless your union-amem

@joannr3799 13 күн бұрын

I love you guys together! 💕

@sonnysnavarro6860 24 күн бұрын

Awesome couple

@sw3etobsessions 24 күн бұрын

I love them as a couple and even as people. So humble and such teamwork on both of them learning and growing together. Its beautiful

@MsNo1mum 19 күн бұрын

Luuurrve Emily & Kobe & the whole family (including Emily’s parents) 🙂🤗🤗🙏🙏🙏💕

@sharonpeniza6176 3 күн бұрын

I hope and pray that this family stays strong and happy. God bless.

@lucym1724 23 күн бұрын

Such a beautiful family. God bless them!

@BeverlyBatsche 23 күн бұрын

I love these two great family

@MotshidisiMagdelineLetseng 2 күн бұрын

I just love this couple...Good Luck going forward and stay happy❤

@OksanaBeall 4 күн бұрын

Omg, I am so happy they’re doing well and congratulations 🎊 so much. For a new 1 and u can tell Kobeis just thrilled to be able to be in his babies lives after being apart for his 1st baby ♥️ 👏 🎉 😅

@karenlevall8313 23 күн бұрын

Congrats ❤

@anniegould4854 24 күн бұрын

Beautiful beautiful family one of my favorite couples

@jenniferfyffe6949 23 күн бұрын

They are a lovely couple I wish them a long and happy marriage❤

@maryannc6388 23 күн бұрын

God bless you both and your family ❤

@tamfranklin358 22 күн бұрын

Honestly, I love this couple

@maggicurry-williams8440 23 күн бұрын

Love y’all!!!

@Milgracia23 22 күн бұрын

I really like them. They are beautiful family ❤❤❤❤God bless you guys!

@karlavellucci2760 23 күн бұрын

Great job kids love you guys

@adegunomowunmi2170 22 күн бұрын

The way Emily is holding Kobe's half is golden, love this family.

@luvkush-annmari7286 22 күн бұрын

Beautiful family! 90 day Gold💜🙏🏾💫

@gwa3925 23 күн бұрын

They're a beautiful couple I love them 💕

@ZayShinning 22 күн бұрын

I love them!

@natalierivera5997 24 күн бұрын

I was told the African tradition should have been that she and Kobe should have been invited to his friends homes, not the other way around.

@ruthav8580 22 күн бұрын

I’m African, and this is true. His friends should have welcomed Emily and Kobe in their home. They also should have addressed Kobe, not Emily. It’s disrespectful to address a man’s wife.

@thelocalartisanguide7937 22 күн бұрын

@@ruthav8580 Interesting...I wish Kobe had made that clearer.

@MrsTrophy 16 күн бұрын

Exactly. I'm African, and that's what they were supposed to be doing. Each of those friends would have prepared dinner for the visiting couple and give them gifts.

@bossrambo1846 20 күн бұрын

Happy for them

@SpiceGurl100 22 күн бұрын

She is not a very nice person they were right! Respect to him for staying this long

@kimberlylewis2185 22 күн бұрын

Exactly!

@thirdeyelady 24 күн бұрын

3 babies now😮 wonder if they left mom and dads house yet 😂 doubt it

@CarmenGonzalez-xq9fu 18 күн бұрын

I love them ❤❤❤ and their Beautiful Kids ❣️❣️

@leslieromero-bn8mv 24 күн бұрын

She did not watch the first season cuz she came off very selfish and bratty

@sherc186 23 күн бұрын

Yup she treated him awful ..I'm surprised he stayed

@Diamond-Doll 22 күн бұрын

Where is he going to go ... babies back to back. She is disrespectful and condescending

@fraghead1111 19 күн бұрын

She and her family were awful to him the first season. It seems like they have changed for the better though.

@user-do3ng3mn7o 17 күн бұрын

Best couple ever so Blessed.

@user-en1zc5vd6y 23 күн бұрын

They are lovely together and seem to be dealing well with the challenges of interracial marriage. Their families are overall awesome

@Sophie-cw7bf 23 күн бұрын

Kobe is sooo sweet to do that for his friends Emily is so supportive they are just the cutest

@amyahlquist3436 19 күн бұрын

I’m glad Emily and Kobe are doing ok.

@sandranynj7118 24 күн бұрын

Hi Emily and Kobe, love you two. I watch your IG Page too. Love your family and both families on each side. ❤❤

@Ali-in-Wonderland. 17 күн бұрын

One of the very few success stories from 90 day fiancé I stand for this family and pray that God blesses them with all the love and light possible and it sounds like maybe a couple more mini Emilys and Kobes, as well, lol

@kristinhayLiverbirdy08 24 күн бұрын

Best wishes to the lovely family ❤❤❤❤❤

@sadcatsam 24 күн бұрын

She’s such a good nurturing mommy ! Cute family

@kittenbrave1003 18 күн бұрын

It's not hard because she doesn't work and her mom helps her...she has no stress

@terryo1463 23 күн бұрын

I like Kobe. Emily I feel like she is spoiled and doesn’t respect her parents she is already living there for free probably and they babysit she still doesn’t work or at least not have another kid so u can try and move out.

@xxursulaxx007 23 күн бұрын

❤ them 🍀

@patriciashange7718 16 күн бұрын

I really adore this couple. SA

@thokozanemotsi6616 24 күн бұрын

Thank God Mr Kobe cut his hair

@user-rv7ge5ex6m 24 күн бұрын

His hair was so stupid, he was looking like a dork!!

@user-pf9ud8hj6p 23 күн бұрын

@@user-rv7ge5ex6m I bet you have zero fashion sense

@user-pf9ud8hj6p 23 күн бұрын

Im sure his wife loved it

@greeneyejuana6570 23 күн бұрын

I see why Kobe left Cameroon. He belongs in a country where men are allowed to cry, and where wives are treated with dignity and respect.

@mewtwomotherfuka 22 күн бұрын

He only left because he got his 1 night stand pregnant and African men are fathers. It's important

@deannanapue2561 22 күн бұрын

There my favorite couple

@BB-oh5vm 23 күн бұрын

I'm going to agree with the cultural differences....I am asian and whatever his friends said, its typically normal so we can't be mad. It's the norm

@christinthemystic 20 күн бұрын

Wow. That's an immense amount of gratitude. I love that.

@indiahart1697 23 күн бұрын

Hopefully she can keep her house clean now but I doubt it. They both need to stop.

@cristinagusatu6323 22 күн бұрын

They are trying for a girl like one off my frefrends did 7 boys, not a girl

@Sophie-cw7bf 23 күн бұрын

I love these 2 ❤❤❤ 1:14

@evajaramillo2827 23 күн бұрын

You have lots of help so that’s why you don’t recognize how hard it is because you still live with your parents. Emily stop being so controlling or else…

@jays45673 22 күн бұрын

Mouth and legs stay open 😂😂

@moee_thyself 24 күн бұрын

10:46 beautiful!! 😍😂

@kingchepellSEUM 18 күн бұрын

8 enough😂 😂😂❤ Emily and Kobe😊 back in the days a TV show sign them up 😉

@mishonthompson8245 19 күн бұрын

If they are saying they had the baby in there then how come she was drinking so much wine one time she had a whole bottle of wine WOW 😮😮😮

@kathyparker7832 7 күн бұрын

At that time she wasn't pregnant yet.

@mishonthompson8245 3 күн бұрын

@@kathyparker7832 Ohh yeah she was pregnant bcuz she was pregnant when she got to Cameroon, Africa 🌍 and drinking a whole bottle of wine now I know my doctor told me you can drink wine in your 8th and 9th month bcuz the baby is developed by then

@annaperrycoleman3932 23 күн бұрын

Nice

@Shinebaii Күн бұрын

The third was a lot easier since the older two could entertain each other

@mahalimotaba1941 24 күн бұрын

God Bless This Gorgeous Family ❤❤

@Hollergirlohio 24 күн бұрын

I loved these two. He is a great guy and Emily has really become a wonderful woman. So happy that they got this experience together and bring the kids to see dad's home.