That's something I still hear. That it's a "gay man's disease". I still hear that it spontaneously started because gay sex. Like that isn't something that has existed in our species since before our species even existed. Sometimes they say god created it to punish gay men, others just seem to seriously think it just appeared from thin air or something. Didn't help that a certain president also said this...

That story is so cute

That’s so sweet honestly 😭💖

I'm gay and I was a preteen/teen in the 90s, we were literally never taught that HIV was a gay disease. So I'm going to press X to doubt, I know that these things can be very location specific... but I also know that this channel's audience contains a lot of "then everybody clapped" type storytellers.

@@goawayleavemealone2880 Its definitely a location difference. I live in the south and people still preach that today 💀 Homophobia and aids go hand in hand in red states.

www.cdc.gov/mmwr/preview/mmwrhtml/00048364.htm

Seems a waste to test saliva if it can’t be carried that way… or am I missing something? I’m not a medical professional, do you know why there are saliva tests?

@@meltingpointcreations1457 it’s just not transmissible via saliva

@@meltingpointcreations1457 If it's in your saliva, it's in your blood. It's just an easier, faster way to test if you're infected. Plus it means that people who are afraid of needles or blood are more likely to get tested.

@@meltingpointcreations1457 You can do a rapid saliva test at home. A lot of nonprofits like the Utah AIDS foundation (I live in Utah) can mail out a free rapid saliva test for people to take at home. The rapid test can't be used diagnostically, so if you get a positive test, you'll have to get your blood drawn and sent to a lab. If you get a negative result on the rapid test, though, you most likely don't have HIV (though false negatives are still possible).

For me, it's been 50 years and not one reunion have I attended. And I live short blocks from the school, in the same old neighborhood.

Same

Didn't waste my time with either myself. Doubt I'd go to a 50th either. Pretty sure that I'll need to supervise paint drying or something equally worthwhile.

Everyone in my class hated our school, so no one came to 10 year reunion. Or maybe they all are dead, and I'm the last one...

@@urgon6321👀

i am so sorry that they isolated you and treated you and your father that way. i hope you're doing well these days! i know your father would be proud of you and happy that you stood up for him. i's sad that you had to tell people a "better/more accepted" way of death. you know the truth and it's amazing that you told your story here. :)

That's so awful 😢

Oh I’m so sorry, that’s just horrible

So sorry that happened to you.

@@August16ify hes a true hero for being america's first gender neutral bathroom post mortem 🙏🙏🙏

I can only imagine the look on everyone’s faces when you said that. A mix of horror and disgust.

I'm sorry to hear that, and that the stigma and misinformation is still persistent. I sincerly hope that your uncle will continue to stay well and that it won't progress. This is one of the things that makes me so confused about the US, it's like for some reason they refuse to update the information for certain things, even though it's harmful when they don't. Had you been where I live, the teacher wouldn't have said that, and nobody would have so much as batted an eye you two coming into contact with each other. I want to say when I was in school, we had our first sex ed in 5th grade so I would have been like 10 or 11, so around the year 2003-2004. Then again, one of our sex ed teachers we had later (8th grade I think) actually really talked smack on the US sex ed and how outdated and bad most of it was. I think she was actually from the US originally, so it was something she was very passionate about.

I'm really glad your Uncle is doing well, and good for you for correcting your teacher! It really is horrific how stigmatized it became and still is.

@@lina9535 Where are you from?

Wow that’s awesome that your uncle is doing well when the treatment back then wasn’t very good! My uncle also contracted it in the late 80’ early 90’s and died was very sad and was hush hush that he actually died of aids I can’t remember what the cover story was that he died of. Me being in high school and learning about it in school I put it together and asked my mom about it and she did confess to me but told me not to tell anyone.

:( that’s sad, I hope that man is alright Tysm for doing that, you would’ve really brightened his day up and his struggle with aids One of the worst things about aids was how stigmatised people who got it were

@@goodmorning2386 I got picked on and treated like a disease, kids found it hilarious to mock me for years. Now I'm older, I really don't care any more - I realise it was their ignorance, their problem.

@@d-padqueen1103 that’s awful, and it was their ignorance I 100% agree with you Glad it doesn’t bother you anymore, it would’ve been nice if in schools they had taught people stuff like “btw, you won’t get aids by hugging someone”

@@goodmorning2386 That was the stigma back then - it's pretty much similar to how people are sceptical with covid vaccines today. They listened to made up stories people with no medical background spouted. I worked as a volunteer when I was younger with my mum who was a nurse, I may have been very different if she hadn't taught me so much about people when I was younger.

@@d-padqueen1103 true, I think when there’s a scary situation going on people read those made up stories and think they’re real The covid vaccine scepticalness is a good point too, like on people being misinformed It’s cool that your mom was a nurse! I definitely agree that would’ve shaped your view on aids and stuff, since you would’ve gotten the factual information

THIS! People talk about “high risk behaviours” but you could be a virgin til marriage and catch it from a spouse you thought was monogamous. Or you could be totally chaste and be exposed during a sexual assult or needle prick accident.

@@katjaanjuli the latter is how my best friend's aunt contracted it. She was a nurse and was accidentally pricked by a needle with HIV.

My wife's youngest sister was a virgin when she met her husband. She ended up getting HPV from him as he wasn't a virgin but didn't know he had it. So waiting until marriage doesn't guarantee anything.

THIS! This is a lot better than I hear other Christians state it. (Especially because I'm Christian myself)

You see this a lot with the older generation and hepatitis. NONE of them were ever talking about their spouses cheating and just lived with it. There are so SOOOO many people in the boomer generation who have it and had no idea and its from their partners being unfaithful. Same eith aids

WOW! He really thought that he could get HIV?

I completely get why someone would be afraid because of how poorly educated people are when it comes to HIV/AIDS. I was never educated on anything related to sex since I went to a Christian school. (Also I’ve done coffee tastings but we stopped sharing after covid) idk why shared in the first place.

I feel like there’s a lot better reasons to be concerned about drinking after another person.. lol maybe he won’t get HIV but he could get a ton of other things. I would think covid would’ve changed that practice but hopefully this will encourage him to not share drinks with people anymore!

People used to think you could get HIV from swimming in a pool with an infected person.

Are you literally serious? Are you sure this wasn’t a flashback your husband had from 1989? I feel like your comment popped out of Sally Jessy Raphael and I’m very concerned for your husband.

The other fairly common cause of death among young adults is drug overdoses. But yeah, you have a point.

I'm not quite to 20 years yet, but I am thinking of the handful of deaths I have already heard about. I can think of one gun suicide, one or two car accidents, one cancer, and a few drug-related deaths. I've also heard of a few people staying sober after addiction, and that is very good news.

Not been 20 years (getting there very soon). Graduated with 100 in our class. I know 5 are empty.(I don't keep contact ... so it's probably more.) 2 drugs overdose. 3 suicides. ... so....we maybe need to teach some more mental illness/ health acceptance.

@@eacorpe88 A. That's a small graduating class, and B. My health class did have a mental health unit, but I thought it was poorly done.

It's been 21 years since I graduated and we haven't lost any to aids that I know of. We've lost several to cancer and one to a car accident. And one that went to our district but graduated from a neighboring district died of an overdose. Really young like 21. I'm not sure if any have died from suicide or gun violence. That cancer though. 😭 I do believe the first one to die of cancer had bone cancer and it was like 2 years after we graduated. She was so young. The car accident happened only months after graduation and it was the valedictorian. So many dangers in this world and they had people thinking aids was the biggest threat. 🙄

I always assumed it was edited 😂

Most of my sex ed was just basic mechanics, but when I was in high school, they ONCE brought in a contractor (certainly a religious outfit) who just showed us slides of what various STDs looked like and told us the only way to avoid them was to be abstinent until marriage. The feedback from parents who heard about it afterwards made it a one time event...

It has become such a meme lol

I've seen it on so many compilations lmao. which is fair, it's completely absurd.

If pre-marital sex was that deadly, humans would have gone extinct by now.

awww thats really wholesome, hope he's doing alright!

He got diagnosed in the 80s and he’s still alive? That’s impressive.

​@@allisond.46umm, there's really good medication and you don't automatically die from HIV😂

@@Kloetenhenne That medication wasn't available in the 80s, honey. Remember Freddie Mercury? He contracted HIV in 1982 and died in 1991.

@@fabplays6559 no, it wasn't, "honey". But fortunately people are different. And HIV for sure was not Mercury's only issue.

I went to a Catholic middle school. We were taught abstinence.

This! A lot of women died during the AIDS epidemic because of their husbands cheating on them with men or prostitutes of ether sex then they passed on the virus to their wife so no marriage is definitely not a magic shield 😅

MDJ did a video on a christian sex ed video. It's funny and sad at the same time.

It could actually be opposite of a shield, if you marry a closeted christian dude who may not have HIV when you get married but might pick it up anywhere along the way.

A classmates mom died when we were in third grade because her husband was an IV drug user. She had been a faithful and supportive wife. By the time I was in 8th grade, 10% of my small private school class had lost parents to AIDS.

They showed it in my class 12 years ago… T.T

By now it's creeping closer to 30, but yeah, still INSANELY recent Edit: oh wow, just saw the aids thing from early in the video. Uh, maybe they could get away with that scare tactic of classmates dying back in the early 80s, but by the 90s there were treatments, and condoms were known for prevention. And surely by the late 90s treatment had advanced enough that HIV was magnitudes better to deal with than it was in the late 80s (note, the first antiretroviral for HIV was approved in March of 1987 (AZT, which yes, I know wasn'tperfect and was extremely expensive, but it didn't take long for many others to follow, and later the same year condoms were approved to be officially sold as HIV prevention, meaning anything from the 90s had no excuse for at least making it clear that condoms, for freaks sake, condoms can prevent HIV altogether. I don't think chemoprophylaxis was a thing until WAY later, and the idea of HIV spread being essentially a non-risk if you've got an undetectable viral load for a certain amount of time, but again, holy freaking crap is the scare stuff overkill)

@@kapitan762x54R it was still shown in schools as recent as 10 years ago, shockingly

Still new misinformation being produced today. What's your point?

but we didn't know anything about AIDS in the 80s. Just notice the panic around covid and how also medicine evolved greatly, we still took years to get "most" of it ;)

I just wrote a post about how they produced a genuine phobia in me as a teenager! I hear you guys.

I had legit trauma as a child about fires and my house burning down and they made it sound like it was a super common thing that happens every single day. I've actually been caught on fire at a wedding and let me tell you that stop drop and roll thing actually works and I remembered it! " Oxygen! Must smother" I shouted!!!

I'm hetero monogamous, and I've been having this conversation with new partners since at least 2010. More specifically, if the relationship seems like it has the potential of turning sexual, I insist that we both be tested first. I've always tried my best to frame this as "just safety protocol", but without fail, every one of my partners has pushed back. They usually get defensive and put me in the position of having to nurse their hurt feelings. An older gentleman I dated took it as me calling him a "dirty old man". At best they just try and ignore the subject altogether. But when I stand firm and they realize that they won't be getting into bed with me without that piece of paper, they put up and shut up. In the end we get to have a fun, open and worry free time. But god is it an ordeal getting there

Please consider using terminology other than clean. I'm not the word police, but it implies that people living with HIV, herpes, etc are dirty.

@@cyn00172 huh. I never thought of it that way. But you're absolutely right! That's just the only terminology I've ever heard used for it. What would you recommend I use instead? And also thank you for bringing me this new perspective! My best friend is a person living with herpes and I would never want to hurt her feelings by making her feel like she were less than or dirty just because of a medical condition she has.

@@littlejourneyseverywhere: Good question! Maybe just (name of condition) positive or negative? This would keep it pretty neutral. Thank you for being open to constructive feedback!

@@cyn00172 Good idea! And of course! People should be open to discussion and reason as well as always bettering ourselves and how we interact and treat others.

That’s a good one!

XD what glorious kid logic, I love it

I love how kids think, especially when adults spit out bullshit to them. This is amazing, totally something I would think too by watching Jimmy neutron lmao

Kids can be such unintentional geniuses. I love it

"We found the cure for AIDS! You just have to inject yourself with all your cash!"

Wow…seriously? I’d confront that teacher & school for sure! How about just teaching the morals of sex before marriage? Goes a lot further… 😮😮😮

What state??

I sometimes wonder if you could have become rich by being a travelling sex-ed teacher since so many people can not or do not want to teach it. I wonder how the lady you mention looked back at it.

“Choice virus”. Does she think people WANT to have AIDS?

It…it is though. You have to choose to be doing specific, risky behavior to get it. Only those born into it from their birth parents don’t have a choice-everyone else is either sharing things they shouldn’t and/or doing certain actions without proper protection.

@@R.M.3.14 It isn't because of the fact that, at the height of the epidemic, the government withheld information and neglected to tell the at-risk populations that they were at-risk. No one knew enough to know how to prevent it. Besides, people get AIDS from things besides unprotected sex too. Blood transfusions, used needles, blood contact, ect. No one chooses to contract a deadly disease, they just didn't have enough information to avoid it.

I dunno though… you could be raped by someone who carries the virus, or get accidentally pricked by a dirty needle, or be accidentally exposed to someone’s fluids (ie a nurse). Or you could be engaging in what what would ordinarily be low-risk behaviour like sex with your spouse but if they were cheating you could be exposed that way…

@@R.M.3.14 I’m sure if they knew they would’ve gotten aids from having sex with a specific person they wouldn’t have done it. It isn’t a choice to get aids. Safe sex and all of that should be educated more. There also people who get S/Ad and end up with the disease. It’s not a choice. Sex is a natural thing and a lot of young people aren’t educated enough abt the topic. So please don’t say it’s a choice when it isn’t people don’t just chose to get diseases and they shouldn’t be judged for having one. To anyone who has an std and reading this it isn’t your fault things happen and reach out to doctors for help and don’t feel ashamed life is not over. ❤ I would also like to add for people out there that juss because someone says they don’t have it doesn’t mean they don’t because sometimes people don’t know and don’t get tested regularly, and juss cause you are close with someone doesn’t mean they don’t have it either. Juss educating not trying to start an argument in the comments lol. Safe sex and getting tested are very important.

Removing a condom is called stealthing, and is technically sexual assault/rape: a person who was stealthed consented to sex WITH a condom, not sex WITHOUT a condom.

The term you are looking for is "stealthing".

What a brave man! Say hello and give him some well wishes from a Canadian who cares…….

Wow, that guy really did him dirty... and that hospital... that must have been one hellish day.

That is just... awful and ruthless wtf

I'm thinking the same thing.

Good for you. I was in the middle-atlantic in the 60s and the "sex Ed" was awful, mostly t concerned about STDs and it didn't mention condoms or contraception at all. Otherwise, it was a great school academically.

Oh, you guys were so lucky! I was given a packet to take home and review with my mom. It was basically learning the names of body parts and the biology aspects. No mention whatsoever of contraceptives, STDs (other than that you were going to get one if you did it before marriage), consent, safe sex, NOTHING. Waiting until marriage was the expectation. Total joke.

I also did sex ed. in Canada in the late 80s (grade 5) and early 90s (grade 9). Even when my ULTRA Christian Phys. Ed./health teacher (she loved to tell us that the first time she kissed her husband was on her wedding day) taught us sex ed. in high school, she was thorough and non-judgmental, and never foisted her beliefs on us. There's no way in hell a video like this could have been shown in my school.

Lol! I'm also Canadian and I took a co-ed Family Management class, which was in the Home-Ec wing with cooking and sewing classrooms, in the early 90's. Our teacher had us sit in a large circle all around the fabric cutting tables so we could all discuss in class. She walked into class, one day that we had a lesson on fertilization and early gestation, and threw a spoonful of sugar across the tables and said, "This is the approximate volume of an average man's ejaculation!" We all laughed but it got our attention, lol! She was a great teacher

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So basically what I'm getting from this comment section is Canada has great sex-ed

Hands up class of 99.

@@SarahBent '99 here as well, but we were at least told more than in that video. lol

I was class of 89 so 10 years before you but I remmeber a big "fear" was getting it from toilet seats.

@@Kristinapedia I guess since they debunked getting pregnant from one they had to blame something else on them.

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Let's not forget being compared to a piece of chewed up gum! Seriously, sex-ed at my fundamentalist high school was down right destructive. On the bright side, it was kind of hilarious listening to teachers try to talk about sex while trying desperately to avoid using the word sex.

@@rachelrentschler8015 I think mine said toll of tape not gum. That you leave a bit of your soul behind with each partner & that’s why you’re supposed to wait for the one. (Don’t know where that is mentioned in the Bible…)

I got very confused trying to read that first sentence.

The bit where she said "imagine you're getting into bed with everyone they've slept with" my first reaction was "don't threaten me with a good time"

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I edited this lol you’re welcome ☺️

@@MamaDoctorJones LOVED IT! Lol the computer noises with your bangs as kid and the audio sound thing at the beginning had me rolling. 🤣 this was much better content than my guess of the red octopus being Dr. Octagon; the alien gynecologist and surgeon alias of Kool Keith's album: "Dr. Octagonecologyst " 🐙🐙

You’ll be an empty chair at your reunion! An empty chair!

Boy power among girls! Or, girl power among boy! Haha, bless you for educating yourself

You sound pretty awesome. Thank you for being an ally, and for choosing to educate yourself about issues that largely affect women. Our world needs more men like you.

You poor thing.

I'm so truly sorry that you went through that hell. that's awful. I know so many people back then lived with extreme trauma and not getting medical treatment because they're afraid of something finding out.

This happened to a friend of mine. Got an infected blood transfusion when he was just a wee boy as had hemophilia. Got HIV, died 10 years ago. So sorry to hear he was not the only one

I remember that line too!

That's such a gay line omg

That was taught to us also!!!

My first gyno had a picture showing how many people you "slept with" with so many partners.

@@JlBUNROCK it was also a sketch on SNL. Emulating a commercial giving that message, one sees a string of men on the woman's side of the bed, a bunch of women and one man on the man's side, a questioning glance by her and he responded he'd been incarcerated.

Yikes!

The updated videos I recall were things like "the a-z of sex" shown to teenagers at my secondary school who were certainly already having sex as there seemed to be a lot more teenage pregnancies in the 2000s. My school was supposedly "don-denominational" yet handed out bibles... oh and I was raised Catholic so haha

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@@ange76prkr non-denominnational doesn't mean non religious, it means not associated with a particlar denomination of Christianity. I went to a non-denominational bible college.

I too saw some of these. My city's schools were well known to be under funded.

Her books are very interesting as well! She even has one answering questions from children.

yay fellow deathling :)

Well hello deathlings!

Deathlings, in my obgyn? It’s more likely than you think! But yeah, Kaitlin rocks her bangs.

Hello fellow deathling!

You may be happy to hear that the rules are changing by the end of September at the latest! All donors will be asked if they have had sex with multiple and/or new partners in the last three months. If yes, only having anal sex with one or more will make them ineligible to donate until 3 months have passed. Otherwise, they can donate as long as they meet all other eligibility criteria. There is a page on the Canadian Blood Services website that discusses the upcoming criteria if you want to learn more.

It's the same in the UK unfortunately, despite petitions from the LGBTQ+ community to change it.

It’s the same in Sweden. I always complain about it too. I know that the staff don’t set the rules but maybe there will be a difference if enough people complain.

Same in Australia too. I knew a gay guy who also had haemochromatosis (excess iron in the blood). The treatment is essentially regular blood donations. Except because he wasn't allowed to donate blood, they just dumped it. When blood banks are screaming out for more donors.

It would be so simple too, to switch it to the question "have you had unprotected sex in the last six months" which would cover EVERYONE without the discrimination. It's not as if hetero couples aren't capable of contracting HIV or other STIs so it would make FAR more sense

I wanna see all the bang lady’s videos!! 😂

Your teacher sounds great 😂

I kind remember videos like that from school in the 90s but the thing with most educational videos is kids just mess about unless you have a teacher like that who are grounded in reality.

Still better than the video lol

Unfortunately condoms can't prevent catching genital warts/HPV

The only reason why it can "be more likely in gay men" is because even with lube, anal tends to cause a lot of small little tears, even if it isn't enough for you to notice. Which can give more places for all STDs to get inside even if they pull out. Problem with that logic is that is assuming that isn't something straight cis couples do all the time...Which it is. The only ones I know that don't are almost all homophobes. Thus doing that, even if they're both straight and cis, makes the guy gay by association. Like those incels that think that cis men that have lots of multiple cis female partners are "gay" for various reasons. (If you can handle the stupidity, it's worth a laugh to see the various leaps in logic they make to come to this conclusion.)

"Don't let him donate blood, he'll transmit the gay to everyone else!"

that’s so dumb XD like they check all the blood for diseases before it gets donated, so if it’s healthy blood it’s all good I agree, 100% homophobia :( even to this modern day

Yeah that makes no sense to me. I don’t think that is a rule for blood donation in Canada. But in the USA, is it correct that you get paid for donating blood? We don’t here…..

@@downhomesunset you don't get paid for giving blood in the corner of the US I've grown up in. Blood donation organizations will sometimes give you small gift cards, towels, t-shirts, etc. I've also heard of getting money for donating plasma, though.

I honestly do not remember EVER talking about sexuality beyond what was written in the text book which was 30 years old. My biology class was EXTREMELY forgettable.

Thank you for doing an assignment on intersex/transgender/cis

thank you for doing important work in the world and educating on crutial subjects:) wishing you good luck in fighting students' parents for informing them

Always amazes me when parents say "but my child is too young to learn this about sex/sexuality". Like... Okay, maybe they are 'too young' in that they aren't personally sexually active yet... That's the PERFECT time to learn - you want to learn the risks of driving drunk before you ever get out on the road. We don't wait for you to have a few beers and get behind the wheel to tell you why it's a bad idea. Why would parents want to do that with sex? No use teaching them once they're 'old enough' - by then they may be pregnant or have caught something!

@@ChickenOfAwesome unfortunately it is the misconception that “if they never hear about it, they won’t do it.”

Wait, on unconscious patients? Presumably without consent? Huh... weird, and seems ethically, uh, dubious at best, and, well...a word that begins with r and rhymes with grape at worst. I'm also assuming you mean prostate exams (the closest male equivalent to a pelvic exam), rather than prostrate exams, as I've never heard of the latter in medical literature/terminology. I'm also curious about the underlying sourcing on that/if maybe consent forms are slipped in somewhere amongst all the other stuff you sign to get surgery. But still, that would more or less defeat the whole "informed" part of informed consent... Only thing I can say for certain is that every single surgery I've witnessed both at my current hospital and another nearby hospital where I shadowed a couple of surgeons for a bit has included exactly zero unrelated pelvic/prostate exams. In fact, such exams are never even performed without at least one witness of the same sex/gender of the person undergoing the exam. So, male physician would always have a female nurse at the bedside assisting for a pelvic exam (to be honest, the female physicians do as well, since they're often just easier to hand off swabs and such to the nurse rather than to try and handle it all yourself). And prostate/rectal exams likewise have an accompanying chaperone. It's honestly just good policy nowadays for literally any honest physician, as it protects them from false accusations and, since they're just honestly practicing medicine, doesn't actually hinder them at all (in fact, it often helps, as they have someone to hand swabs off to). Idk, it seems weird enough (especially given some of medical science's less than stellar history) to be theoretically plausible in certain, probably primarily isolated teaching hospitals. But it's also the sort of thing that nowadays I just couldn't imagine the medical community supporting, unless they've actually got some sort of data to back it up (i.e. a reduced morbidity/mortality associated with such exams before seemingly otherwise unrelated surgeries) Edit: just also wanted to add that there's also no real reason for it. There's TONS of legitimate reasons for pelvic exams, and any emergency room for freaks sake would have an abundance of them, let alone, say, a Labor/delivery ward. So why on earth would you do one on a healthy, normal patient in for an unrelated thing? Hell, if you want healthy controls, go to an OB/GYN office/clinic for routine PAP smears. If you want potentially unhealthy examples, go to any OB/GYN clinic/emergency room. Prostate exams I could see being a bit more difficult though, as there just isn't as much need for them nowadays with PSA testing. But again, I feel like there's ways around it that don't involve sedating a patient and doing it without consent. Hell, you could just ask. Sure, many people will say heck no, but you'd be surprised the number of people that would agree to a prostate exam for educational purposes if explained properly. Or hell, just pay college students for it. I bet for about $150 a piece, an assurance that they're helping train future physicians, and perhaps a free STD screen as well, you'd get TONS of college students lining up for it. Just post flyers all over the college, and bingo bango, you've got plenty of consenting patients.

Would also like to see her watch & talk about it potentially

Well, that one is a bit iffy. If such an exam is needed and the paitent isn't awake, they may not have any other option.

@@ryanc473 Females are more common than males! There are a ton of articles about it and Kristi’s video has links to them. They bring in medical students during an operation and have them practice Pap smears and vaginal exams. So one woman could have many different gloved students in her vagina and never know about it! I didn’t even know this was possible until her video and the articles she attached. It’s absolutely outrageously unethical but a lot of doctors are fighting to keep it!

Yeah it was banned in France after a massive scandal just a few years ago. Some hospitals are still doing it though

Where did you go to school, if you don't mind me asking? I went to a school in Jacksonville, Florida the mid-late 2000s and had the complete opposite experience.

My school did something similar, and the main reason was because it was a workaround to the abstinence-only sex-ed teachers were limited to, since it came from a student-led organization and wasn’t part of the official curriculum.

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Yeah, I remember the not sharing drinks one.

Use ( #DREWI1 ) herbal medicine for your herpes cure

If you have sex with someone inffected with AIDS and the condom gets breaks during the act( it happens a lot) YES you might get aids.

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There are different kinds of HPV and the vaccine only protects against two! Sex is not a good idea for you.

Imagine not getting the vaccine and finding yourself in an unconsentual situation 🤦‍♀️.

Ed; I was an adult therapist in ICU before I became impedes therapist, I saw a lot of this. It was very sad.

I can confidently say that DARE worked 100% on me and we were _super_ enthusiastic about it. I nearly called the cops on my parents because I spotted my mom's birth control pills on the dresser and never touched any illicit substance, legal or illegal, until well into adulthood.

Neither worked anywhere. They were horrible methods and screwed us up

Because of DARE, I have the song Total Eclipse of the Heart memorized. There was a scriptless skit that was done every single year set to this song that equated all drugs, sex, alcohol, and STI's and then proceeded to say that they all fed into one another, and once you try any of them you're addicted, no one can help you, and you will die causing your friends and family horrible pain. 🤯 "Once upon a time I was falling in love, Now I'm only falling apart. There's nothing I can do, a Total Eclipse of the Heart."

Are you trying to say one cigarette won’t make you die on the spot? Lol

@LeadTrumpet1 just to be clear, it's "abstinence-only" from the verb "to abstain" i.e., teach the kids they must abstain from all sexual activity until married to a spouse of the opposite sex, and don't give them any additional information. So they're still stumbling in the dark after the class is over.

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Here in Italy, it worked quite well for my generation. We were fricking scared. The ads worked quite well for those of us who were in their early teens around 1990. Too bad that now people aren't scared anymore and don't protect themselves correctly.

Yep. And now we have people driving around in their own cars, alone, with the windows up...wearing a face mask. 😐

What I find interesting is there are a lot of stories of adoptees from russia and/or ukraine with major behavioral issues and I wonder if those children were from a situation like that. :-(

That’s so sad!

@@Kristinapedia That's not the point. Those kids familis had other issues than unwanted pregnancy. They often come from families that have intergenerational history of violence, neglect and substance abuse. Just bcs u didn't get initially excited finding out u r pregnant (6-8 wks) doesn't automatically mean u won't love the kid. Just like wanting and planning a pregnancy won't guarantee u will love the kid. My point, what she said was stupid, callous, thoughtless and professionally unethical (she was an ob-gyn).

@@Mama_Bear524 Not just that, she was being thoughtless and professionally unethical (she was an ob-gyn).

@@MadamoftheCatHouse Of course there are many other reasons why. I just didn't state that in my reply. I was focusiing on this one reason for my post.

Technically, your body *tries* to fight off HIV, but it’s simultaneously losing immune cells. It’s like fighting a horde of zombies that kill your front-line soldiers faster than you can replace them.

Ikr

😅😂

I was told that you'd have to drink 5 gallons of an infected person's saliva in order to have a chance of getting it via saliva. & the thought of drinking anyone's saliva, infected or not, still makes my stomach queasy, lol!

It's a good noble field... With lots of openings... (sorry I just couldn't help myself😋)

@@hunnybadger442 lol :P

no there will be empty chairs at my 20th reunion because of car accidents after graduation, cancer, and drug overdoses. I don't have not one person in my class that has HIV or even AIDS. I still am amazed that there are people my age that don't know what the PREP shot is or that there are shots to prevent the transfer of Aids. I graduated in '93 and this was really scary. Now I understand that if I did end up with someone I graduated with with HIV or AIDS they most likely didn't get it from having sex, but from sharing needles. I have been told that in the area I grew up in AIDS cases have been happening again and it's because the drug use has gotten worse. I actually met a lady from my town that had HIV and she caught it back in the 90s, she was older than me and sure enough it was because of needles, another person who has it was because of a blood transfusion that happened before testing. Between this shit and the videos about stranger danger and good touch bad touch, we were paranoid that a stranger in a white van where lurching around every corner. When in fact it was usually someone we knew and trusted that were predators.

@@hunnybadger442 You're sick! LOL 😫 🤣🤣🤣

Just don't forget there's more to it then STDs and babies.

Other factors in the high number of gay people who contracted HIV include a higher transmission rate via anal intercourse than other forms of intercourse, as well as difficulty in marketing condoms towards mlm, as many men who were engaging in sex with other men didn't identify as gay or otherwise queer.

That was certainly the case in the UK. The government at the time refused to do anything until they realised straight people, including women, were getting it. The minister who had been pushing for quite some time against the PM, Maggie Thatcher, to get at least some sort of psa out conveniently left out that those straight people were drug users and prostitutes otherwise it would never have happened. Even then the leaflets did more to scare and panic than give helpful information.

Also, about half a million died due to the gross mishandling of the disease by the Reagan Admin. If you ever wondered why there seem to be more younger gay people-its because there literally are.

It's absolutely shocking that there are some people today who still believe AIDS/HIV is a "gay disease" 🤯

I remember in the late 90s and early 2000s it being the "gay"disease . it wasn't until I was 16 or so in2006 I learned it was indiscriminate with heterosexuals. I knew a bi guy who couldn't give blood in 2008 because he'd slept with guys in the past 10yrs. It's still a stigma

I took the high school OWL class too! I wasn’t Unitarian Universalist, but my friend was, and I remember getting such a thrill from hearing grown up talking about sex in such a frank manner in a CHURCH. It was very exciting.

I was a victim of CSA, and I remember sitting in our yearly "sex ed" seminar, crying scared that I was now diseased, and anyone entering into a consensual, loving relationship with me in the future would end up dead because of what happened to me. It's interesting how they took the 'damaged goods' philosophy of purity culture and began pushing it with science once religious shame wasn't working anymore. Even more interesting is how they managed to get public funding for it.