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2:49 the 3 questions start here

The 3 tests: 1. Test their standards and interests (2:49) 2. Test their independence (4:10) 3. Test her sexual interest (5:00)

I always test women. The huge problem is that, so far, every woman failed.

The flaw in her logic. Is that women won't tell you the truth many times. You just get a kinda answer

I started testing a woman I liked by asking her what her new years resolutions and goals are. She said ahhh I don't have any. Was an instant turnoff

This is like using a woman’s same point of view, using a woman’s lens being selective with men. LOVE IT.

Great video! When you see an attractive woman at a bar, tell her “we all know you’re good looking, but what do you have to offer besides your beauty in a relationship?” This will negate her beauty and will put the ball into her court to impress you. Make her perform. If she doesn’t let her go. She’s one of a million not one in a million.

This is so on point! The biggest shift in your dating life comes when you stop approaching women with the mentality of "I hope she likes me" or "I'm going to impress her" or "I'm going to get this girl" and start having a long list of standards that you use to qualify and evaluate whether you want a woman in your life. Women will like you *so* much more and your relationships and interactions will be infinitely better this way. Also, the teasing is *everything*. Women love the role reversal especially because it usually takes them longer to become aroused and it really makes you standout and makes them chase. Also, if you can tease a girl for hours, her orgasms are so much stronger because the sexual desire will build and build. Also, if I really like a girl, I don't give it to her every time I see her. I tease her really badly and make her beg, but don't actually have sex sometimes. It makes them obsessed. Also, you can pretty much guarantee no man has done that to her.

I love your channel! Society has taught men wrong, & it's only getting worse. Good for you!

My standards test is 2 dates and then don't spend any money on the woman for a solid 3 or 4 weeks and see what happens. Next is simply to see how often she wants to be around me without going anywhere. 3rd thing is find out her passions. If it's just sitting around and watching Netflix all day and scrolling through instagram she's out. Number 4 is having her solve a problem with me and checking her engagement. I guess that's more of my way of finding out if I even want to be with the woman or not. A lot of women find me very attractive so I don't often have to put much effort into wooing them. But I do test their standards to find out if they just wanted the sex.

I agree Apollonia...I believe asking a woman questions to find out how independent she is is the right strategy.

The first question worked today.. This girl seemed so materialistic and fancy till she actually showed me her world and it broke down her walls and she was real...

Yes! I've asked a few women to plan the dates with whatever they want to do. I love to watch their reaction. It leaves them flustered for a moment as they realize how much a man goes through to set a date.

Loved all of it❤️❤️ I was going totally wrong all this while, 2 days of watching your videos and my life has started getting absolutely better..

@apollonia when a man makes me wait....you have no idea what a TURN ON that is. It builds and builds until........and I LOVE IT!!

This is a skilled blend of education and marketing. Men gotta let women find them attractive too instead of chasing approval!

Apollonia, your content is highly evolved and soo refreshing. Relationship should always be about an emotional bond first...

Apollonia is looking out for the interests of men. : )

Patience and not being instant gratification based can make you go pretty far not only in relationships, but life too.

Great advice, I like the tips but the last one stands out, I did this myself.. we had foreplay on our previous date and on the next date I went to pick her up, said ‘I’m going to be up tomorrow real early so let’s just go for a walk’, we went for a walk, had a good time, in the end I teased her by kissing her and letting her ‘feel’ me and then I said ‘ok bb, I got to go now’... result : after one hour she texted me saying that she wanted to thank me for the time spent, that she always has a great time with me and if I wanted we could see each other next weekend. If you tease her (and know which buttons to push) and switch programs (not like the classical first date, second date, third date stuff) it creates a rollercoaster which women enjoy, attached with lust that experience sets you apart in her mind. Men, learn to control your d€&@ and you will be leading the situation.

I like this video. I actually let people test themselves against two of my ( born ) gifts. 1- I am naturally born with patience. 2- My mind is wired to be ( consistent). A lot of people in today's society learned to be very impatient and big time bullshit artists.

Wish i knew this before but glad im unmarried and its never too late. Thank u for opening my eyes what real relationships are about

Simply test for kindness, I think 🤔 that’s all that matters when searching for feminine women. This was the only test I gave my ex when we began n she failed it n that told me everything I needed to know about our future n I was spot on 🎯. Now she’s chasing me for attention after insisting on a breakup since 2015 n finally got it in 2019. I told her she don’t deserve me at all, I’m a diamond 💎 in the rough.

Thats actually solid dating advice for men. From a woman. Im blown away - never thought Id live to see the day

Does anyone else notice that every single female dating coach NEVER holds females accountable for their high standards.

You literally saving many relationships

I'm starting to learn how important sequencing is in everything in life between business, relationships, and myself. For the last month I've started to realize what value I bring to the table and I don't want to bring women into my life that are not value-added. Very refreshing to watch this video. When I determine that she is not up to my standards I gently let her know that I need to focus on me. My question is how do you let women know you are not interested without ghosting? PS love your advise!!

Greeting from Cali 🏖 - one should never settle and society doesn’t know what’s best for oneself. STOP being “sheeple”!!!!!! Thank you for all you share with the community.

This lady is a genius, I agree the girls who have good intentions like you, thye will accept all 3 of these the same as you would for them.

Never ask a fish how to catch it

The world reflects you. What u put out in the world, you get back. This makes "Tests" insidious. If she tests him; the world will test her. If he accepts her tests, the world will send him more tests to endure. Getting where we want to be in life is it's own test. Being who we want to be is as hard as a test. There's enough tests in the world. If you are withholding you love to test someone to see if they are worthy of love; you don't love them. You're looking to use them and willing to call it love. You're ruining the world. You're ruining love due to you seeing your "love" as something ppl have to earn. It's not. You give love. You don't make people work for it. There's enough work to do for food and shelter. Love is the strength we need to keep going when our journey is hard, man or woman. Stop letting your ego tell you your love must be earned. Give it or don't but stop ruining the world with your tests. You aren't as special as you think. You aren't some prize people must compete for. That's not love. It's so gross that ppl think of their live as something that must be earned. You will just lead yourself into hard tests from the world and you will need to compete for love because that's how you see love. Love is free. If your love comes with a test or a price tag, I promise you will always feel empty & unsatisfied with any love you give or receive. Live isn't a test. If someone test you, walk away. That's what the universe wants. Live yourself enough to never lower yourself into your worth being tested. ♡

I am definitely feeling this Apollonia. Thank you for this amazing video. My baby has THANKFULLY passed these tests!

I am surprised at myself for watching the whole video, I already had my mind made up. BUT then, I not only was surprised but hooked. Thank you @Apollonio Ponti! That's the kind of talk we (men) don't have with each other.

when a man tells a woman that he wants to wait, she automatically thinks hes gay or hes currently sleeping with someone else.

"Approval-seeking behavior" - a term from Corey Wayne, one of the very best dating coaches for men.

@Apollonia Ponti appreciate the nuggets of information you provided in this video. I think another way I test women at times is to see how they initiate conversation and see if they listen to me. I'll drop an interest of mine (playing basketball or cooking for examples) and see if they are engaged enough to ask me about it or say for instance offers come to your pick up game obviously pre covid of course lol.

Damn right!I did this at the age of 22.Pain makes you change quick.Well at least me.

I wish to find a woman like you, Appolonia. Beautiful, good smile, clever and nice like you 🥰.

I enjoy listening to you and your words of wisdom and remember you're always loved

I naturally do all these things with my ex because I am genuinely interested in her. She is my best friend. I have other options but I’m not interested in them. My ex says she is scared of history repeating itself even though we’ve reconnected and it’s been going really well for months now... she loves being around me and doing things with me and I’m not rushing I’m just enjoying the moment and taking my time to learn who she is again whilst also teaching her how to treat me. We’ve even opened up emotionally again and she talk to me just as if we are together. I don’t know what to do now? Am I meant to just go with the flow because she is still scared of fully committing or am I meant to confront her because want more? The only reason I want more is because I miss our companionship in public and with family and I think that’s what she is afraid of. She’s afraid of being embarrassed if something goes wrong but we’ve been apart for almost 2 years and we’ve grown so much as individuals...

When it came to " making her wait or deciding to wait " it worked 100% for me. And, not just in the sense of " i have her in the palm of my hand " No. I actually did it as a gentlemen gesture. We were in her room, (she still lives with her Mom. her mom wasnt home ) & we were getting intimate to where she wanted the next level. I told her no that i think we should wait. She hit me with " Isn't it ever guys fantasy to sleep with a girl in her childhood room " I said " uhh no. Maybe? Idk. But, i just want to be respectful of you & your Mom. Plus, we can do this somewhere else we & at a better time. " Ironically enough it was the same night I asked her to be my girlfriend because i just couldnt wait any longer. I had to ask. I asked her & SHE responded with " I want to say yes. But, i think we should get to know eachother better. " At first i was a bit heartbroken but after about 30 seconds i fell in love with her. It was a mature decision & she just keeps doing great things like that for us. We've been together almost 1 year & it's been rocky sometimes? Like we dont like to argue so we just get quiet. But, we are learning to voice whats bothering eachother so we can move forward. Such an amazing woman. I am extremely lucky! But, i am also learning, so is she :)

I wish I had started watching your videos 7 months ago. I know how to pursue women much better going forward! Thank you Apollonia.

Great video. I found myself suddenly single at 50 and it was great because I was more confident based upon my life experience vs the hubris of my youth (which is always kind of inflated because you are young). Being confident in who you are is the #1 skill. I really liked her suggestion to have the woman plan the 2nd date as it is a great binary choice filter: move forward or cut bait. Thank you for the excellent work !

I was dating a girl many years ago and I wanted to know if the girl I was dating had any long term plans after living together for a year...I said as we were laying together, "I hope that we are like this in 20 years!" her reply was, "Wow that's a long time!" I moved out a couple of days later and moved across the country ....!

first 1 min of the vid and I already loved it

Another great question to ask her is "what do you consider the woman's role in the relationship to be?"

1st dates, 2nd dates, and standards during COVID: Low standard = a 1st date. Mid-grade standard = 6 feet away. Highest standard = isolate indefinetly.

A great video one of your best. Wish I had known this 50 years ago. Kudos!

I needed this information years ago. However it's a blessing that I have it now thank you

Love the energy and passion you put into your videos. You really know how to make men feel connected with you when it comes to understanding the mindset of a woman and setting us up for success. Been watching and supporting you since 2018 and will not stop. All three points are very good and very accurate. And I honestly believe I did both 1 and 2(mostly 2) at different moments in the past haha! So much gold in this eight minute video. It’s only going to get better from here!!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥

Show the real you, if she truly loves you, she will stay no matter what.

You're more than enough Apollonia. Thanks for making men souls feel safe in your arms through your powerful lessons.@):-

Ive Loved her videos for years. Shes dope and genuine. Good tips for Men. 💯💯💯

Wow you just put in to words things I have thought and said and done but not consistently. I’m older and starting over. Thank you.

Love this AP!

This is your best video. You are the gold standard! I appreciate you and this content so much.

Thank you for this information you're providing to us men out here. It helps us understand women in very ways.

Thank you.your very good at tellin us men want to dew an not to.it giving me a good sense of direction .good stuff.keep it comin

The tease. The making her anticipate. Ayye. I like that idea.

Happy new year🎆🎉🎊🎁🙏. I was waiting for these questions lol

Wonderful, I tested my own wife and and she failed and guess what it has caused us a divorce

Apollonia we appreciate your girl, this is only to make us better men

One of the few best I've ever watched in relation to dating and relationships kudos to Aunty Apollonia!

THANK U APOLLONIA. HAPPYNEWYEAR.

Thank you for the info and education. I always come with a beginner mindset ready to learn. It has definitely added value to my relationship, and general knowledge about relationships as well!

Hi Apollonia, Thank you for this video. I recently had a woman tell me she was comfortable with me, interested in me, and that I made her feel safe on the first date. I was excited. I wasn't planning on getting laid that night but it ended up happening. She told me she wanted a 2nd date, but instead I proposed it and not her. I've definitely learned my lesson in terms of turning it around and putting it on her for the 2nd date and that I wanted to take it slow. 3. 2 months ago I found a woman who checked all the boxes. We agreed to take it slow, did everything in this video, then she advised me she has a STI a month and a half in. That subsequently ended it. You have helped me reinforce my mindset on how I want to be and how I want to be treated. Thank you for this.

Thanks, you are making the world a better place. Hope a lot of people find their soulmate 😊

I always ask women this. "What do you do for a living?" This will prove to me how ambitious you are, and if you are a partner not a woman that will depend on me for everything..

You're awesome. I love your channel. Thank you for helping me with all these lesson and what you do. I truly appreciate it all. Real transforming

Except that she may move on if the guy waits or think he may be G.

I have viewed many of your video's, I find them a treasure of knowledge.

I needed this video today. Thank you for the important tips.

Apollonia Ponti: Men's new best friend! We've been in need of doing exactly what you're saying and this topic can be volumes. There are so many facets.

Happy New Year AP! Awesome video and grest information Apollonia

Gotta listen to this. Testing men always now the tables are turned.

Thank You Apollonia you´re always loved too by us men who are seeking real value in relationships.

Omg…best video I’ve seen on the internet …thank you 🙏🏼

Thank you Apollonia Ponti!

It's great to see a woman speak like this. Keep up with your fine work.

I love your videos! I have to say this topic crushes them all. Your Friend Villain VanMichaels...

Imaging dating her You: I will not call her today She: that's in chapter 4 verse 21 he is player

You seem like an absolutely wonderful human being and I respect you and truly appreciate you. It's too bad that we can't really, actually, honestly and sincerely just be ourselves and be nice and get on with life and relationships without all of these techniques, rules, ploys and the such. I'm 61 yrs old and I'm sick of the bullshit from women.

God bless you AP. This is awesome! Thank you for doing this for us Men. *****

Great information. I am going to put it to work. You have become very helpful in my life.

Your videos are like a sleep-time podcast for me. Closing my eyes and letting the magic of words for my sub-conscious

Apollonia is great with her skills in advice , talkative , tentative , about goals in dating , romance and people skills to show men and women. To advance there skills and overcome hurdles and boundaries in dating and relationships. Apollonia is a great motivational speaker , in her field. God bless.

Ask her to pay after the third date might be a good test also.

Great advice Appollonia.....this is something not redily talked abt but needs to be!!!!

I love your advice, i have been following you for quite a few years now. Thank you Apollonia

Wow ! Just gone through this video three times. Ever felt like doing a screen shot of a video but you realize it's audio and that you must write down your notes ? This is one.

Team Apollonia Ponti! 💖🔥

A survey and a Questionnaire is Always good so you know what you're Dealing with 💯

Damn straight! Men has values also! It was Adam THEN Eve😉

You dropped some real bombs from a different perspective, especially the #1. I definitely will start instituting this test and others you mentioned. One test, I ask "what is her relationship with her father?"

Awesome video Apollonia!

Her videos never disappoint ❤

I have never approached it from this point of view. Big tnx "I don't want to rush things" - rofl

Awesome video Apollonia

As a man with 0 options I want this really bad, but have to get out and find some women that have interest. Dating sites have broken me and I don't see the light at the end of the tunnel. I'm not one to give up on anything but I feel defeated. It also doesn't help that I freeze up when I want to talk to a women I'm attracted to. I'm just a hot mess. I love your videos though and learn alot. Thank you.