Don't fall in love blindly. Own YOUR passion and priorities.

My personal advice, first find a purpose and go after it 100% if women are interested in you, give who you are show them what you're after if they want to be part if it them allow them in your life guys, the right women will stick around and will value you and your time! Trust me when you do this you give off the type of vibe women find very attractive. Be confident and never be attached to an outcome but act accordingly to how she responds to you. Love you Apollonia for your work! Keep it up

The safety thing you’re talking about is a real game changer. There are girls who I never knew were interested in me who I kept as friends. They could come to my home, kick off their shoes, have deep convos about our dating lives etc but then find out they were interested me all along especially because I flirt without intent. It all adds up. Love your channel

I’m a girl and I enjoy watching videos of appolonia. She’s right on on what women what. Most dating coaches for men focus a lot of just the pick up part/hook up but nothing on how to be great boyfriends. She’s the only one that does that

You’re a G! Straight gangster spitting the most valuable FACTS!

The first time am seeing a relationship channel full of positivity and not preaching against d opposite sex, you are teaching both the male and female what's important ❤I just subscribed

You are the epitome of the female best friend that always gives great relationship advice. Keep up the great work. Thank you. 🙏🏾

"i'm gonna show up to work and see what happens." hey, this is exactly what i already do...always works for me!

Types of seduction that women craves: 1) Emotional connection with conversation 2) show interest but instead that you to be balanced. 3) be intentional with your needs and understand and remember your partner's needs.

I will never forget what Breńe Brown taught me in one of her books: “The String of Lights” analogy. It takes a long string of lights(trust and reciprocation) to build trust and intimacy as opposed to a blinding bright light out of the blue.

thank you. I´m divorce with 45 years old and your lesson are priceless, thank you. From Paraguay I salute you.

I learn a lot from you Media has given us wrong information but you are re defining Relationship information AP. Keep it up 🕺🏾

No dates for 2020 fellas😎Mode 1, we getting straight to the point👍🏿

OH MY GOD YES!!!! I am the confident, sexy, intellectual, financially secure female “type” and I always do what you are telling these men to do! That’s why I seem so angry about men. I NEVER expect another person to be my source of entertainment. I found myself first, found a career based around THAT and then had a ton to talk about. Guys, shape up for me! I’ll shower you with nurturing love!

Great video, Apollonia. I think that many times men are unconscious to what real attraction is because we think too much. Society tells us that we have to provide and hunt and chase women. The problem is that men remain unconscious because they listen to all this. Men need to get out of their own heads and just go by instinct, body language, like you said. I know I have made many of these mistakes, which I see as experiences that needed to happen and not real mistakes... Thanks for these videos, beautiful. Enlightening stuff.

True. Safety and trust of a female is major factor. The next level is however to make her seduce me. If she can't do that, she is not strong enough in her feminine and sexuality.

Yep. I fully agree with her. Gotta first create trust and comfort and feeling first. Once you have that, any type of seduction works. If its not there, then no type of seduction will work.

if there is no attraction then there will never be trust or communication … period

I meditated 2 hours every day for three weeks, noticed a difference in the way women look at me especially older women. I realize now that my body projected poised calmness thanks to the breathing and clear-mind. Anyway that was two months ago, its time to cross the legs and get sober once more

She's really telling the truth and actually giving too much of our secrets. Lol

Informative and enlightening on how to nurture a quality relationship between 2 people Thank You Apollonia

Thank you so much Apollonia. Us men know that your advice is down to earth and you truely want the absolute best for us. Funnily enough, the last time I felt like I had something with a woman, it was when we developed enough trust with each other :) Things didn’t end up going anywhere but it’s so important that men & women develop trust with one another before escalating

"Sign Your Name Across My Heart" by Terence Trent D'Arby Dedicated to Apollonia 🌺 ❤️

Yes it is true. So true about acting classes, helps in lifting self-confidence too and for shyness. It's way more than learning to act. 👍🏻💚

Advice, your channel and the way you articulate your message is so refreshing Apollonia. Levelling up. Thank you

I agree with the psychological part of what you are saying, but the other part is time&energy you can put in just for an empty box( I'm not ready for a relationship yet), or nomore than a one-night stand, the stakes are to high for unnecessary failure. Coming from a warriors stand point, " Be the dominant Alpha, and let the ones remaining pick you," then once you have chosen who desired you, then seduction can effectively take place.

Every advice given by experts works on a certain group of women. So as a man it depends what kind of women you deal with or interested in. Becareful with applying it without knowing what kind of woman she is. Most women it is all about MONEY!!

Hey Apollonia! Been a subscriber for a while now and just wanted to let you know that I appreciate all the content and the advice that you are sharing! I completely agree with Trust, Comfort and Attraction!

TOOO Complicated, they either take me, or leave me, life is to short for all this.

This is so true!!! Im a woman and i know what Apollonia is talking about! Please listen to her good advice! All starts from the very beginning from her video..baby steps to true love!

6:58 Friendship doesn't work that way with men. We don't study potential friends. We just do stuff together and BAMMM! we're friends. There's never an issue of values. That's not friendship, that would be business acquaintanceship. The only value we care about as men for friendship is that you be a straight dude.

Well I’ll be honest, I have always shown up for job interviews without much prep beforehand. No real plan. I had some idea of what to say but that’s it, no serious planning. And that worked a-ok for me! I appreciate what you and other channels like develop attraction are trying to say, but I’ll just take bits and pieces of advice while staying true to myself. Not gonna try to remember every single detail, it’s simply too much. Something as essential to the thriving of humanity as relationships and all that shouldn’t be this difficult to obtain. I think people (like me) are just really confused and overstimulated nowadays by all the information out there. What’s that called, analysis paralysis? I’ll keep an eye out for more vids, but only in passing. And call me a skeptic whenever I see or hear advice from anyone about anything. I don’t suppose I’ll ever truly know who I can trust out there anymore.

Thanks AP. This was deep & high quality

I love @Apollonia advices! Thank you for keep doing this videos for us mens who can't afford the coaching sessions that's offered :) cheers!

I appreciate showing us true meaning behind the mind of women. Will use this responsibility.

You are a great psychologist! May God bless with abundance in whatever you need and Keep serving society!

Too much thought into this. Just be yourself and be positive and be confident. Treat her like you can live with her or without her and don't get all serious and express your feelings no matter how much you are falling for her.

I think instead of paying for acting classes the best way to get out of your element and start reading body language is become a server/bartender or start a business where you provide a product or service and find out what people want to buy. Once you start getting tipped well and can obtain a base of regulars it'll help build your confidence. PLUS, you get paid vs having to pay. A year of doing this has worked wonders for me, and I started at 30, never too late.

Hey, Apollonia! 😁 Thanks for the video. Fun fact: these weeks after watching each one of your videos I had to immediately apply the info. So... Please don't make any break-up ones 😂😂

That’s good, the foreplay of emotional connection. And it’s right, too.

1. Women looking for something to learn from, not to agree with them. Go in with plans, goals, educating yourself. Asking deeper questions. 2. Show interest, but understand balance - dont attach

I agree with your video which relates to quality women. But 95% of women are low quality. Married or single they put themselves in situations in public or dating sites to literally meet a man and if he is her "attraction type" no further seduction is needed. Her safety is not a concern, she is all in on where he wants to go for sex. I'll take this information (I'm pretty good at it now) and sharpen my skill set. Men remember women have the power from 16-25yrs old after that men have it because that's when we start building resources. After 30 women should pursue men, why? If I'm financially stable, own assets, fit, confident, leading the relationship, teaching and sharing wisdom, providing protection etc. AND I need to chase her to give my resources away... Men we've lost our way it's time to come home and get things back on track. Stay wise! Be encouraged! #MENFIRST

This is an amazing topic keep up the good work much love to you and your family 🌹

women love a man that can listen and communicate. make her feel comfortable and dont rush her. that will bring neediness and will push her away. go with the flow. intimacy builds attraction with a woman.

Pls Appolonia tell them! Are there men that do what you say 😳😳😳. I believe there are and if so how blessed is the lady with a man like this

Disagree: seduction is an enticing aimed at Intercourse; and, something that was intended to escalate the possibility of sexual intimacy in terms of nearby developing moments. When I was a teenager, Seduction's purpose was "How to get around the bases" of a new girlfriend quickly. It required: being alone and unobserved by family/friends; recognizing she liked/wanted you; was providing an environment, that if her fears could be allayed, that she might be tempted into much "more" than kissing. Since teenagers usually have narrow time frames for "undisturbed" intimacy, successful seduction was measured in Hrs...maybe in a second rendezvous. The examples you give would, minimally, require several days, just to have an "initial" impact on her...and b4 sex intimacy has happened. (Games?) Ergo, The Concept you're hijacking employs much longer time periods; and sounds more like the "groundwork" for developing supportivenes. Intimacy does not "require" a Relationship. Relationships do not "require" Intimacy. Even tho it "feels" nicer, more rewarding, when both are a fit.

Apollonia in the core of your heart you must be knowing that what you say...and what you crave are totally different scenarios.

I have watched several of Your videos, And at 50+, I realize I have a lot to learn about myself, And women. Thank-You for producing these videos, And I look forward to watching more.SincerelyKyle

A good relationship should happen naturally between compatible mature people. Dating and initiation are very different, a kind of selling process is going on. The trouble is good matches may be prevented by being too picky in the netting stage. Your feelings may be completely wrong because a guy isn’t good at the initial interaction. Insisting men have to be good at this brief stage means many women fall for players.

I’ve been listening to you videos, they help a lot. My wife has been back past month at first due to the grandparents at work. We were separated for about eight, when off after 10 and now I’m trying to work it out. We love each other just didn’t give her the time she deserves.. working on it every day.. Just wanted to say thank you and take a second to tell you that I appreciate what you do

Some of this applies to normal relationships as well. You are very articulate and this made a lot of sense to me. We appreciate you😊.

im gonna die alone.. life is too tough..

Lol! "Just show up and see what happens." Good Lord I hate admitting that's my M.O. lots of times. Got me this far just fine☺

Omg I absolutely love her channel. This is the first video I’m watching of hers. Right away I realize how hopeless I was In the past with wrong strategy.

I need to master seducing a woman with her mind. I have an ex-gf that I had a great relationship with. About six months after she ended things with me (and ended her rebound relationship) she got back in touch with me and we hung out. Unfortunately, my anxiety and nervousness drove her away over many months, and three weeks ago (18 months after our initial breakup) she told me she's seeing someone else now. The kicker is that she told me last year that she had thoughts of us dating again, but her feelings for me never came back and to this date I was the best boyfriend she'd ever had. I understand now that instead of creating emotional attraction between us again, I didn't make her feel safe...I came on too strong, was too needy/clingy and lacked the confidence i used to have with her... and she's dating another man now *sigh* I had a perfect opportunity for us to have a great new beginning... it was there for me like shooting a fish in a barrel and I mucked it up! Anyway, now I'm all about learning how to make her feel safe with me and create emotional attraction with her again. Self improvement in this area, getting control over my anxiety, and regaining my confidence and sense of humor are my main goals. If...IF... I'm lucky to get another chance I won't mess it up this time. I've viewed a ton of dating KZfaq channels... most of them men and oriented towards women. A few men are mature and really understand women and relationships, but most don't. There is a lot of bad info out there! It is very very refreshing to have a woman explain how women think and how I can self improve to be the best, most attractive me I can be. Apollonia's channel is the best and I'm dedicated to watching all her videos. Eventually when I can afford to I'll hire her as my coach. I've been in no contact with my ex for almost 4 weeks now...I told her I didn't want to be in no contact, but I couldn't be on the sideline as "just friends" when I'm in love with her and she's dating another guy... and if things don't work out with this guy and her feelings for me change I hope she reaches out to me. We dated two years (2020 and 2021) and we've been friends for nearly two decades. I'm sure she's not missing me yet, but while I get my life in order I hope (even though i didn't start no contact until 18 months after our breakup and i have been clearly friend zoned for the last 10 months) that the honeymoon ends soon with her new guy, and her thoughts will turn to what I'm doing and missing me. Wish me luck!

The whole best friend example, hit home. Ap ❤

Key point: Show interest but with balance

I absolutely love your videos. I can tell you're a good person too.

Fantastic video. Learning so much from you. Still need more to learn though I know that. My biggest issue is showing too much love vs too little. I screwed up doing both. Thanks Apollonia. It’s nice hearing from a women’s perspective.

Great training Apollonia, and your understanding is profound not to mention beautiful. In the last 12 months I have learned so much from your videos alone that, were I younger, I would definitely take up some of your training boot camps. I could not recommend you more highly because you are the best I know.

" means literally 'no doing' or 'no trying' but is better translated as 'effortless action.' It refers to a state of total ease, in which you become completely lost in what you’re doing, feel no sense of exerting effort, and yet everything works out perfectly. When you are in , you are maximally effective in the way you move through the world and you emerge from the experience feeling relaxed and satisfied. " - Edward Slingerland

It sounds like your advice is going to get us in the “friend zone”.

We rush because when it comes to avoiding "friend zone" we are told to make our intention clear... Like don't even small talk in text, So what's the timeframes?

I love the straight forward way you put things as well as your honesty...wish I had found you years ago...thank you for your videos.

We live in the age of the con artist

Make your intention clear and move forward if the return signals look positive. All this other stuff, too many hurdles. We dont have that much time. They are either in your frame or not.

I watched this Woman years ago and now I'm engaged 😂

That hit right on my weak point. I leave confort aside and go for seduction... at least now i know where to work for get better

You are by far the best dating coach on youtube. I love your channel

It does NOT matter about trust, comfort, or attraction. Women will BREAK their own rules for Chad & Tyrone. Be like Chad & Tyrone

You are exceptional. At clarity and communication. I wish more women could clearly communicate like you. Most send mixed signals

My experiences came from not trying or thinking about it. Thats where i go wrong now. You gotta be in the right place too, which changes after highschool. You only meet at bars or gyms which are both not the best.

Apolonia ponti is a dating and relationship coach no. 1 in the world

I love you Apollonia Ponti😚

Complex concepts but I do appreciate the way you break it down ! 🤙

6’2” , good looks , Australian accent. My colleague just smiles and pulls , almost no effort. He practices none of these attributes…

Right on point AP! Once you have that type of seduction with a woman the rest is set up for something special.😊

I appreciate you , your content is a true eye opener. I'd always rush into these things and wander why I'd hit a dead end. Thank u

So amazing of you to share this important information with us, thanks

Learning about seduction on my birthday...yay!!

I know you probably wont see this but I really appreciate you for this information and all that you do because I'm at a point in my life where I realize I just dont get women but I know I love you all so much.

I’m guessing this works the same with dating, its very informative. Thank you for keeping it real for both women and men. Great compromise.

Wow! really good video! Keys to seduction and what it involves, building connections!

Communicating, most women I meet can't even do that!

Your videos are so amazing, keep up the good work ❤️

Hope you enjoyed all the festivities in Miami this weekend, Apollonia.

I watch you while I scroll looking for something to listen to before I have a workout

From a man that's never taken time to be single Learn more about yourself first and then learn what a woman wants/ needs from a man and how you can give that and be ture too yourself we can keep learning and review what learned to stay in that zone Let it be one of your strengths as a man From a real man aways in training

It seems that the dating landscape has become hazardous for men. Now we need to train and prepare ourselves for mental combat to be successful with women. I know they are the weaker sex and deserve respect but I feel like I'm giving up too much of my self respect to go through these shenanigans. When men face more risk if a relationship fails, it's not worth it. It's better to just not date American. I'll go overseas and find a woman that is raised to respect and cater to her man.

Thank you for what you do for us Apollonia, you help us so much.🙂

Love your work Appolonia I wish you were around when I was 19 ! Your videos are masterpieces Lol

At 59, Women first need her emotional wants met prior to the physical.

Hi apollonia thanks for your effort and consistent attitudes in educating us about women. But I can't get still the 20 questions to ask

thank you so much for sharing all you know with us. its helped me so much to realize so many things. thank you (all your videos especially how to get her back and setting boundaries)

Excellent advice Miss... thank you!

Here's something I realized is that from a man's view when I have tried to connect with a woman on a more deep level they put me into the friend zone so why can't women talk with us like they do their girlfriend without putting us in the friend zone

Thanks for the advice that you are sharing! I just started watching your video's and am learning a lot. Thanks again.

Appy does it again.great vid chula

Guys don't want to take accountability for the way they treat us. They want us to hand them the cookies to them on a platter without earning it or working for it. I'm sick of it. I'm not investing in anyone who doesn't make me a priority meaning make time for me. If you guys want something you have to connect with us in a genuine way. Stop thinking about the end goal. If you respect her, she will respect you if she is mentally healthy and not a narcissist. So far all I have found are Narcissists. We need to recognize healthy people before we get close to them. Yes everything is about timing and balance!

If i have to know all this just to get in serious relationship,i have no idea how man did find their way in love life in past...