To avoid backbiting: 1. Imagine that person sitting there with you. Would u say still say it to hurt them? 2. Call them with beautiful names and then say what they would like to hear if they were present during the conversation. 3. Imagining our own self in the position of that person and say what you would say if they were talking about you.

I back bite on people who have done me wrong😭 i know it is not good im giving them my hasanaath PLEASE make dua dat I will stop backbinh

I suffer from this sickness 🥺😢... Ya Allah help me overcome this disease of backbiting people... I really hate it even when i'm backbiting the person 🥴

I came here with an honest intention to stop backbiting even though it's so hard because I live in an environment where the only shared activity that we do is talking and telling each other stories and mostly we end up mentioning some people without feeling it...I truly want to top this but I keep going back to it.. Pray for me to find the correct way and to avoid all the things that upset Allah SWT .. May Allah guide us all

1. Speak at slow pace so that you aware of ur words 2. Avoid too much talk coz that involves in speaking false 3. When talking about third person , imagine the person talked about sitting in front of you, and say about that person the words they would love to listen about them 4. Being straight forward is from shaitan, keep modesty in your talks. 5. Call third person with their good names that they would to hear before talking anything about them 6. Imagine self to be that third person, and speak those words that you would like to hear about self- This is the people of Ihsan

Such a good reminder BarekAllahu feekum. Adding timestamps: 0:18 "when they come across idle speech, they pass through with dignity" 2:16 Think before you speak 4:16 Process of tawbah becomes more complicated 5:04 Imagine the person sitting in front of you 7:28 Say what you know they'd like to hear about themselves 9:19 Imagine you are the person spoken of and say what you know you'd like to hear of yourself 11:10 Hayaa is lost 12:21 Disconnect the person's honour from whatever subject you're speaking about

what i have come to realise is that the reason it is easier not to sin in ramadan is because we are avoiding idle talk. Keeping ourselves busy in our worship and not allowing our tongues to run free. Let this month allow us to make an oath to use our tongues for only saying good words and to refrain from using it for the things that displease Allah and attains his wrath and anger. Allah saves us from the fire of jahannam and purify us.

May Allah help us and guide us all. May he make us the best Muslims we can be and allow us to be the people placed in Jannat-Al-Firdaus. May He allow us to stop backbiting and indulging in idle talk, a grave sin which is often overlooked. Ameen.

This message means a lot to me 😢 may Allah forgive us all our sins

That’s why I have no friends I do not backbite but they have my name everywhere for 25 years now 😭😭😭it’s a very great injustice for too long now and my voice never heard. Only I’ve been crying. Forever. 😭😭😭😭not even a family can stop this great injustice. it’s very difficult!!! 😭😭😭😭❤️🌹

What to do when you are sitting on a dinner table and other are back biting or discussing other . Even when you don’t say anything about them how to stop others from doing it or hearing it . I usually try to change the subject . May Allah guide us to stop and prevent backbiting Ameen

May Allah Forgive us, Guide us, Have Mercy on Us, Bless us, and Accepts Our Fasting and our Ibaadah ..Aameen Ya Rabbil A'alameen 🤲🏻❤

I was having a difficult time but SubhanAllah this video come just after a prayed asking Allah s.w.t for help. May Allah help you all my sisters and brothers, May Allah bless you all, may Allah forgive us, may Allah forgive this Umma. Amin

May allah swt bless you and every one behind yaqeen institute and to everyone reading this. May allah swt bless us, guide us and forgive us all ameen

Jazzak Allah brother Omar Suleiman for touching on such an important subject. May Allah SWT help us to hold our tongue and only speak when goodness flows

Subhanallah..❤Alhamdullilah❤Allahu Akbar❤Allahumma Ajirrni minnaar❤Allahumma inni Asalukal jannah❤subhanallahi wa bi hamdihi,sibhanallah hil azeem❤

DAILY REMEMBERANCE OF ALLAH (SWT) Whoever says SubhanAllahi wa biHamdihi (Glory be to Allah and Praise Him) a hundred times during the day, his sins are wiped away, even if they are like the foam of the sea whoever says SubhanAllahi wa biHamdihi, Subhan-Allahi 'l-`adheem (Glory be to Allah, and Praise, Glory be to Allah, the Supreme) Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Two words are light on the tongue, weigh heavily in the balance, they are loved by the Most Merciful One Abu Umamah reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever recites the ‘verse of the Throne’ (ayat al-kursi) after every prescribed prayer, there will be nothing standing between him and his entry into Paradise but death.”

Alhamdulillah for this wonderful religion. It always amazes me how there's a systematic way to act in certain situations; a guideline to everyday problems. Others may simply see it as backbiting but for us Muslims we see it as something that needs to be prevented as it leads to a much bigger problem.

May Allah make it easy for us and help us to pause and think before we speak. What a well delivered reminder. I feel like this was exactly what I needed to hear, since it is so easy to let your tongue slip nowadays. May Allah set right the affairs of Palestine and of all the Ummah 🤲

Ya Allah, everyone that has caused me harm, and stripped me of my name, and used me to shame, and brought others to do the same, you know their names… ya Allah! Ya Kafee ya Qadir, ya Shafi, ya Mujeeb… remove my name from their lips, remove me from their minds, remove me from their path, remove them from mine. Ya Allah, You are the owner of us all, You are the One who I turn to, You are the One whom I praise, You are the owner of us all. Ya Allah, bring me back my smile, restore my name, restore my mind, remove their shame, heal my heart. Ya Allah

May Allah SWT correct our hearts and keep us steadfast with Him . May Allah Kareem reward you for educating people about Deen. I would appreciate this. Something I have been looking for, for a long time now

المَرْءُ مخْبُوءٌ تَحْتَ لِسَانِهِ. “A man is hidden under his tongue. The tongue will unveil the curtain and display our real character...may Allah guide us on his straight path.

May Allah swt guide us to be amongst the people of ehsaan

May Allah S.W.T protect us from this habit as it's everywhere you go, and when you say you don't want to take part in it ,it's as tho you've done something wrong to them when you dont want to join in this conversation may Allah SWT protect us from the whispers of the shatan ameen

MashaAllah..I love this brother. Alhamdulilah this is extremely important to address❤. Jzk

Sheikh Omar with the Nur on his face 😇

Ya Sheikh Alhumdulilah .. . May Allah SWT bless you and all of us May Allah forgive all of us Ameen, Because of your lectures I'm protecting my self from backbiting. I'm trying in this Ramadan. May Allah Accept from us . . I'm so much thankful to you Üstad .❤

2.00 - reminder to myself

Thank you sheikh May Allah bless you and protect us amine

MashaAllah, very well stated in the how we shall think twice before say something about others. May Allah make it easier for us and forgive the ones who are not able to connect to their understanding of shameless🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾

This message is sooo powerful may allah make it easy on us May allah guide us and protect us ameen ya rab

JazakAllah khair, I really needed this. Thank you. May Allah help and bless us all.

AlhumdAllah thank you brother!!!

Important reminder these days, barakallah feekum

Jazakallah Khair, for addressing this sinful weakness. Will work on it insha'Allah.

جزاکم الله خیرا کثیرا فی الدنیا و الاخره

Excellent advice

Jazakum Allahu Khairan sheikh

This is a phenomenal lecture

This is such a beautiful khatira. JazakAllah Khair!

Jazakallah khair

Aalahuma ajinrna minnarr Aameen ellahi Aameen!

Jazakallah khair for guiding us so immensely

If you are human being , you will do this lots of times. The important thing is you go back to Allah swt. These are one of those stumbling blocks in our lives ...sin. you fall everday

BarakAllah 👌... Jazakum Allahu khair for the beneficial instructions. May Allahu Subhanahu protect all of us from hurting others knowingly or unknowingly, May Allahu Subhanahu wa Tha'Ala make us people of empathy Ameen 🤲. Al hamdulillah 🤲.

JazakAllaahu khairun kaseera for sharing it

May Almighty Allah enable us to follow this beneficial advice in our daily life aameen.Jazak Allah khayr for this knowledge.

Jajakallahu khairan ❣️❣️❤️❣️❣️

Allahouma Ameen🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾

MashAllah ❤

JazakAllahu khair sheikh, these are some extremely valuable methods to stop back biting. May Allah Forgive us, ameen.

Words are powerful ❤

Thank you❤

It like the saying "treat others the way you would like to be treated"

Eid Mubarak 😊

You are good😊

Ameen ❤

thanks God ❤الله اكبر .

1. Backbiting is cowardly. Protect your dignity by staying away from backbiting. 2. Use the tongue to that which is pleasing to Allaah. 3. Do not be hasty to speak and do not talk a lot so as not to fall into backbiting. 4. Imaam Al Ghazaali mentioned three ways: (i) Imagine the person sitting in front of you when you are talking about him? Will you still do it? If yes, you have no haya as you do what you want. (ii) Do not say anything about anyone except that the person would love to hear. Call them by their best names and qualities. (iii) Do not say anything except you imagine yourself being the person talked about. 5. Slow down. You do not have to comment on everything happening. 6. Remember that the honour of a Muslim is more sacred than the Kaabah. If there is a pressing need to talk about an issue, do so without playing with the honour of a Muslim. Avoid taking names.

Allahuma Aameen!

Aameen

Subhhanallah. What a easy way to go to Jannah! And as easy as it is to go Jahannam!

Oh Allah I seek refuge from you from doing anything to disgrace me in the sight of by bother". The deeds of the living are shown to those who have passed away. If they see they are good they rejoice in their graves. ☪🕋🤲💜🌙

Listen and learn!!! 😭😭It’s 25 years you all are backbiting me whilst I’m busy getting hurt through the pain taking care of parents, whilst you all so restless, every eid we spend in four walls or assisting at the mosques!!! You all will come and pick the parents up and celebrate and never invite us all because you all under evil judgments.

Subhanallah

Amen

Ameen

Ameen.

MashAllah

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if anyone stays backbiting we all should try to ignore and keep yourself focused on something good like Allah and good activities such as funny video halal videos obviously ❤ and Quran recitation and learn arabic :) may Allah forgive us for all our sins Ameen ❤

Is talking with the intentions of fixing behaviors or situations seen as backbiting? Like a parent-teacher conference or parents to each other about children’s behaviors, etc. to create a plan so everyone can be on the same line to reinforce behaviors and handle “bad” behaviors. May Allah guide us in the right directions, help us to become better Muslim and grand us Jannah Al firdaus.

Masallah thank you for this beautiful lesson Sorry what if the person has offended you or what the person is doing something wrong that is not good,but you report to some else or you complain about your feelings of what someone has done to another person is it also considered as backbiting

Ya Allah, lindungi kami ✨️

Shaykh. I need help. I have seen 60 dreams that have come true. I have seen Muhammad SAW 7 times in my dreams and I have seen 3 times that I will become a great leader of Muslims all over the world. I am looking for someone who can guide me and show me the right way. I need someone like Waraqa bin Naufal was to Muhammad SAW.

Such a great and important subject, but I would love it if for the image of backbiting you didn‘t use two women. It‘s often projected on women as if men don‘t do it as well 🙄

What do u do when you are trying to practice this in your life, but you often are in interaction with people in ur family who easily slip a bit of talking about what others are doing in conversations. These people are of respect, and its not easy to say to them that i dont want to talk about other people. They would find it rude. Although i try not to be talking about others negatively myself but people around me make it hard for me because they want to have a conversation about someone else. Even though i dont entertain that sort of conversation. I just dont make the convo any longer from my side. So what should be done in a situation like this to avoid sin?

Can we discuss someone's actions and bad behaviour (which is affecting us) behind their back

What about at work, when somebody is not doing their job and causing harm? A supervisor might have to say something they wouldn’t “like” to hear. I don’t understand how it is backbiting when someone is doing something unacceptable.

This video has the same problem. I cannot hear it properly unless i put my earphones.

Asalamualikum please please help me to stop backbiting 😢😢😢😢

"When they hear idle speech, they pass through with dignity." Most people will end up in hellfire because of their tongues. Hastiness is from Shaytan (Satan).

What about if they are oppressing you and transgressing against you or someone you care about?

Bismilllahirahman neeraheem ASALAMU ALAIKUM Warahmattulahi Wabarakatuhu Shiekh Omar Sulieman it's very awkward. When a person don't understand Arabic so they keep my phone occupied the whole day icould not even answer my Children's calls and they keep me out of sleep at night Playing there Nashieds and showing me video.s so unfair I can't even have my time to sit With my quraan if they feel im the bad person then I must accept im not one of there Arabain Ladies they show no respect I said so many times im old not hiding my age even they just ignore me totally Shiekh Omar Sulieman they. My Children found out about the Challenge s so the best thing for me to do is break and free my self from Shiekhs and from these Challenges and that's really final at this age it's not possible to the nice guy to please others and here im going to put myself in a lot of trouble at least at this old age I should thank and complain to Allah and no Shiekhs its no use im asking for Maaf to the Shiekhs What I have done any thing bad please forgive me So Alhamdullilah this Morning was my Last Challenge so Shiekh And Mufti Menk Should donate everthing but I don't want shiekh to tell me please help if iso much love to help others but it's no good tor me at this state im not young to handle all these Preasure Sallaams to everyone im the bad guy Alhamdullilah I came a long way and have lots of Sabr Allah is the one that gives guidance and Rizq NOT any Shiekhs or other individual .s Only Allah Shiekh can ask these Alafasy Mishry Shiekhs have I ever been rude to them the one that always recites had a habit of becoming Emotional then almost like a crying tune takes place and the other Companion that always on top with white and ared Frame is always when ihear these sad sounds then iopen my cover then I shake my head and say then it starts Jullaakha Alaikum And umrah and Ghadj and then saying about and saying about my Sujood What ever really made me sad I had to insure so can complain about me I.ll still be the bad guy I'm have been abused so they all take advantage my place is with my Allah Allah HafizPleaae tell them they remove my name or I.ll ask my son to do it Allah Hafiz

Brothers, I have a question. I am a manager and sometimes I have meetings with other managers to discuss our employees/teams performance and behaviour etc. If we discuss someone who has been performing badly or less than expected, and due to this we explore through conversation what their weaknesses and problems are, is this backbiting? Grateful for advise as I desperately wish to avoid doing harm to others and their honour with my words. Jazak Allah Khair

@yaqeeninstitute Is there Arbic translation?

Every RIGHTEOUS person has a secret…??? 🌱NONE of you’re a true BELIEVER unless you love for your fellow Muslim what you love for yourself 🌱Al Muminoon 23:3 وَالَّذِيۡنَ هُمۡ عَنِ اللَّغۡوِ مُعۡرِضُوۡنَۙ Waallatheena hum AAani allaghwi muAAridoona👆🏾”And they who turn away from ill speech” ❤️‍🩹 May Allah PURIFY our souls and makes us amongst the RIGHTEOUS believers🌱🏝🏝🏝

Just to understand the thing in more detail, if someone is operassing and the other person discusses it so that it can be resolved is that also ghibah? Or back biting? It would be wonderful if you elaborate on the term as nowadays all family members are staying far from each other and some or the other person at some time have isssus and as being the guardian or decision makers, you need to hear out all the details as to what happened and not. Does that also comes in the same category of back biting? Please please elobarate as its really confusing.

What about toxic people?

In our neighbourhood many our backbitters sector 44 b no work

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I'm not backbiting but if someone else does and i keep silent and don't protest then will i also be sinned? I'm really worried about this....some times my friends do gossips like that and i don’t backbite but i also can't stop them cause i feel like they'll think i'm too much. I just try to avoid it by saying its ok, let it go or sometimes i don’t say anything. Will i still be sinned? Can someone tell? I always feel guilty Whenever my friends gossips like that. I feel like i should have stopped them but i did't so i ask for forgiveness from Allah

Astagfirullah!

If someone hurts me ,then i shares it with other person .is that backbite?if yes .then how i control my emotions.

If someone treats other person badly, there is third person involved? You get hurt, What should you do? Just let other people hurt you and let them run over you and do not say anything?

What about being quick witted ? Making funny observations that are sarcastical but really mean no harm ?

What if a husband is abusing his wife? Can’t the wife tell anyone?

What if you are natrating a true story ......and I the story there is an individual who did lots of bad things

Keep asking for forgiveness.

Actually I believe a better way to stop backbiting is to imagine that person in their child version, would you still say that about a 6 year old child ? If no then don't say it